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Silver award recipient of IBPA's prestigious Benjamin Franklin book award in the category of psychology, "Losing Dad, Paranoid Schizophrenia: A Family's Search for Hope" by Amanda LaPera is the compelling true story of a family's struggle with the sudden onset of their father’s severe mental illness after his fifty-third birthday. Lacking an understanding of his condition, Joseph’s family is left to deal with his upsetting transformation, which led him across four continents and thirty countries as a self-proclaimed prophet-of-God, and his subsequent homelessness. The perspectives of his three children, his spouse, and his own distorted reality combine to offer readers a glimpse of a world that will either feel hauntingly familiar or dramatically eye-opening.
With so many recent tragedies involving individuals with untreated severe mental illness, families, doctors, and police are often blamed for not doing enough. The solution, however, is rarely simple. Losing Dad poignantly shows the effects of inadequate treatment for those living with a severe mental illness in America. Losing Dad not only features Joseph's harrowing -- and still ongoing -- flight from reality, but also valuable information about severe mental illness, a crippling disease that affects 1 in 17 people.
In the engaging and informative Foreword written by Xavier Amador,Ph.D., founder of the LEAP Institute and author of “I am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help!” (Vida Press 2012), Joseph’s mysterious condition “anosognosia” (a condition in which a person who suffers from a certain disability is unaware of the existence of that disability) is examined in greater detail.
Bonus Material: Readers will also find in “Losing Dad” a helpful list of resources, a discussion of current U.S. mental health laws, exclusive in-depth interviews with several members of Joseph’s family, and discussion questions that are ideal for book clubs and reading circles.
A portion of author’s proceeds from sales of Losing Dad will go to NAMI-OC, an affiliate of the National Alliance on Mental Illness, a nonprofit dedicated to improving lives of individuals and families affected by mental illness.
"Losing Dad" is available in paperback, hardcover, and eBook from your favorite online retailer, or to get an autographed copy, go to www.adamopress.com/books.
Connect with Amanda at www.facebook.com/amandalapera, www.facebook.com/losingdad, www.twitter.com/amandalapera
Thank you for reading! I sincerely appreciate any readcasts, tweets, ratings, and comments.
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Losing Dad, Paranoid Schizophrenia: A Family's Search for Hope Ch 1 Excerpt by Amanda LaPera
Silver award recipient of IBPA's prestigious Benjamin Franklin book award in the category of psychology, "Losing Dad, Paranoid Schizophrenia: A Family's Search for Hope" by Amanda LaPera is the compelling true story of a family's struggle with the sudden onset of their father’s severe mental illness after his fifty-third birthday. Lacking an understanding of his condition, Joseph’s family is left to deal with his upsetting transformation, which led him across four continents and thirty countries as a self-proclaimed prophet-of-God, and his subsequent homelessness. The perspectives of his three children, his spouse, and his own distorted reality combine to offer readers a glimpse of a world that will either feel hauntingly familiar or dramatically eye-opening.
With so many recent tragedies involving individuals with untreated severe mental illness, families, doctors, and police are often blamed for not doing enough. The solution, however, is rarely simple. Losing Dad poignantly shows the effects of inadequate treatment for those living with a severe mental illness in America. Losing Dad not only features Joseph's harrowing -- and still ongoing -- flight from reality, but also valuable information about severe mental illness, a crippling disease that affects 1 in 17 people.
In the engaging and informative Foreword written by Xavier Amador,Ph.D., founder of the LEAP Institute and author of “I am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help!” (Vida Press 2012), Joseph’s mysterious condition “anosognosia” (a condition in which a person who suffers from a certain disability is unaware of the existence of that disability) is examined in greater detail.
Bonus Material: Readers will also find in “Losing Dad” a helpful list of resources, a discussion of current U.S. mental health laws, exclusive in-depth interviews with several members of Joseph’s family, and discussion questions that are ideal for book clubs and reading circles.
A portion of author’s proceeds from sales of Losing Dad will go to NAMI-OC, an affiliate of the National Alliance on Mental Illness, a nonprofit dedicated to improving lives of individuals and families affected by mental illness.
"Losing Dad" is available in paperback, hardcover, and eBook from your favorite online retailer, or to get an autographed copy, go to www.adamopress.com/books.
Connect with Amanda at www.facebook.com/amandalapera, www.facebook.com/losingdad, www.twitter.com/amandalapera
Thank you for reading! I sincerely appreciate any readcasts, tweets, ratings, and comments.
Silver award recipient of IBPA's prestigious Benjamin Franklin book award in the category of psychology, "Losing Dad, Paranoid Schizophrenia: A Family's Search for Hope" by Amanda LaPera is the compelling true story of a family's struggle with the sudden onset of their father’s severe mental illness after his fifty-third birthday. Lacking an understanding of his condition, Joseph’s family is left to deal with his upsetting transformation, which led him across four continents and thirty countries as a self-proclaimed prophet-of-God, and his subsequent homelessness. The perspectives of his three children, his spouse, and his own distorted reality combine to offer readers a glimpse of a world that will either feel hauntingly familiar or dramatically eye-opening.
With so many recent tragedies involving individuals with untreated severe mental illness, families, doctors, and police are often blamed for not doing enough. The solution, however, is rarely simple. Losing Dad poignantly shows the effects of inadequate treatment for those living with a severe mental illness in America. Losing Dad not only features Joseph's harrowing -- and still ongoing -- flight from reality, but also valuable information about severe mental illness, a crippling disease that affects 1 in 17 people.
In the engaging and informative Foreword written by Xavier Amador,Ph.D., founder of the LEAP Institute and author of “I am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help!” (Vida Press 2012), Joseph’s mysterious condition “anosognosia” (a condition in which a person who suffers from a certain disability is unaware of the existence of that disability) is examined in greater detail.
Bonus Material: Readers will also find in “Losing Dad” a helpful list of resources, a discussion of current U.S. mental health laws, exclusive in-depth interviews with several members of Joseph’s family, and discussion questions that are ideal for book clubs and reading circles.
A portion of author’s proceeds from sales of Losing Dad will go to NAMI-OC, an affiliate of the National Alliance on Mental Illness, a nonprofit dedicated to improving lives of individuals and families affected by mental illness.
"Losing Dad" is available in paperback, hardcover, and eBook from your favorite online retailer, or to get an autographed copy, go to www.adamopress.com/books.
Connect with Amanda at www.facebook.com/amandalapera, www.facebook.com/losingdad, www.twitter.com/amandalapera
Thank you for reading! I sincerely appreciate any readcasts, tweets, ratings, and comments.
LIKE A MASTER COMPUTER, the brain controls everything, but when it malfunctions there is no system reset, no disk recovery, no memory restore.
Joseph graduated from college in Illinois, bought a house in California, and raised a family in the suburbs. By all accounts his life seemed normal. And it was, until he got the news: cancer. After a successful operation with a good prognosis, a routine procedure went awry. Doctors rushed him into emergency surgery and, for the second time in a week, put him under general anesthesia. When he was released, everything changed. Joseph descended into psychosis, extreme paranoia, and grandiose delusions. Within a couple of years, he did the unthinkable. He embarked on a trip involving four continents, thirty countries, and thirteen wives. Joseph gave up everything along the way: his career, his finances, and his family. He was purportedly arrested in Israel, preached to the Mafioso in Italy, and hailed as a prophet in Africa. Penniless, he returned to America where he had run- ins with drug dealers and prostitutes. This true story follows one mans bizarre journey through mental illness. He is not a faceless stranger living on the streets. He is my father.
Many names throughout this book have been changed to protect the privacy of the individuals involved. LaPera/ Losing Dad www.adamopress.com/books 3
CHAPTER ONE
MAY 2000: THE CALL MY THREE-AND-A-HALF-YEAR-OLD son threw a tantrum in the store. By the end of the difficult shopping trip, Justin helped his single mom bring in the groceries. I put the milk cartons in the refrigerator and hoisted the rest of the plastic bags onto the kitchen counter. When I reached for the bananas, the flashing red light on the answering machine caught my attention. I hit play. Sunday May 28, 2000. You have one new message. The machine clicked. Amanda. I didnt recognize the voice. Its Dad. Sorry I missed you, but Ill call back at six oclock your time in California. Thats six oclock Pacific Time. I pray to our Lord Jesus Christ you will be there to answer the phone. Give praise to God and Jesus, our Lord and Savior. There, its done. God will have you there to answer the phone. In His name I pray. Beep. Stunned, I hit replay. I hadnt spoken with nor seen Dad in over a year. Eight months had passed since he abandoned my stepmother Hilda in West Virginia. Several months had passed since he mysteriously showed up at my sisters house before disappearing again. Like my sister and brother, I had tried to push all thoughts of Dad from my head. While Dads message repeated, I thought about the Bible he mailed me on November 22, 1999, and the random letter he sent me from the Hotel Tivoli Lisboa in Portugal in March of 2000, with the neatly folded pieces of extremely soft facial tissue. I ran to my bedroom to find the letter, which was in the file cabinet under the file labeled Dad. Handwritten in black ink, in tiny print, on a small sheet of hotel stationary, the note read:
Sunday, March 26, 2000
Dear Amanda,
I hope you and Justin are in good health and the grace of God is keeping your hearts and minds in peace through our Lord and risen Savior, Christ Jesus, the only begotten Son of God. Since the last time I wrote, Ive been many places. In 10 or more countries, preaching and teaching the Kingdom of God and witnessing for Jesus. I now tell them 4 things are needed: 1. Believe with all your mind, strength, heart & soul & confess (to yourself) with your lips I believe Jesus Christ is the Son of God 2. Complete submersion (any Pentecostal church) in water in the name of the Father & of the Son and of the Holy Ghost (Sprinkling not enough) 3. #1 & more than anyone else: I love you, God and Jesus! 4. Love everyone else as Christ has (& does) love us. After Bulgaria (My last wife) I left Bulgaria. Now, #1 No smoking, #2 No alcohol (due to my stomach, although one beer in Germany was OK in moderation) #3 No affection with a woman (or husband) who isnt your wife (husband) In fact, Paul says in 1 COR 7:1 It is good for a man not to touch a woman. From Bulgaria, I went to Turkey (Istanbul Izmir Bodrum Antalya Istanbul). How beautiful is Turkey by the Hand of God through Jesus. I did free Greek dancing for customers in both Istanbul (upscale dinner/night club) & in Sofia, Bulgaria (Sheraton & a Greek taverna =caf). Turkey Sofia Bucharest, Romania (all this for LaPera/ Losing Dad www.adamopress.com/books 4
Jesus/God, of course, not my glory!) (God forbid I should do otherwise!)Thessaloniki, Greece Skopje, Macedonia Thessaloniki Athens Frankfurt, Germany Stuttgart, Germany Italy (Milan Venice Bologna Rome Naples). On a train from Bologna to Rome, after conversing with an Algerian Muslim who spoke English & wished to improve his German, He asked for (& I gave with great joy) a New Testament written in English, German, and French! (Thank you, Jesus! Praise the Lord! Glory to God in the highest! Bless his Holy Name, Forever & Ever! Amen! To Sicily (From Palermo to Catania Mafia Capital, I ministered to the taxi driver, a low-level Mafioso (Or Mafioso Family son)! Then, the Malta (oldest architecture in world St. Paul stopped there & started a church) Spain (Barcelona Madrid) Im now is Lisboa, Portugal! Amanda, the <3 softest and <3 most durable Kleenex Ive had are these 2 pieces from a kiosk in Istanbul, Turkey!!! One is for <3 you <3 & one for <3 Justin <3 !!! Tell him to say thank you, God and thank you, Jesus as he always should when receiving any blessing (anything good is from God). As in meal time the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your Spirit, Yours in Christ, Love, Peace, Joyful Anticipation for Jesus!
Dad (Grandpa)
I looked up at the clock: 4:30 P.M. Justin grabbed my skirt. Mommy, I wanna watch TV. Normally, I wouldve encouraged a book or a toy. Not now. I flipped on the television, popped a cartoon movie into the VCR, and sat Justin on the couch. He asked for a drink. I concocted an odd mix of chocolate and strawberry milk, grabbed a bowl of Cheerios and handed them to him. I replayed the message a third time then speed-dialed my stepmom Hilda. Hallo. When Hilda had emigrated from Argentina, her accent came with her. Born in Bolivia and raised in Argentina, Hilda chose to stay in the United States after meeting Dad fifteen years ago. What is going on with my little Amandy? Im so glad youre home. Uh-oh, what is the matter? Dad called, I said, and hes going to call back in about an hour. What should I do? Ai-yi-yi. Hilda paused. Please listen to me. He needs help. He is not well. You have to get him help. He needs to be at a hospital. Yes, but I dont know where he is. Well, dear, see if you can find out. Call me back. Oh, Amandy, if you only knew. Justin whimpered. Ive got to go, I said. I promise Ill call you back tonight. It doesnt matter how late. You know Ill be up. After ending the call, and in between entertaining Justin, I phoned my sister and my brother. Before I knew it, the clock read 5:45 P.M. Even though I had a cordless phone, I sat next to it and waited. The minute hand jerked forward onto precisely 6:00 P.M. The phone rang. I checked the caller ID, but the number came up as unavailable. My heart raced. I let it ring again before cradling the receiver against my cheek. I took a deep breath. Hello, I managed to say calmly. LaPera/ Losing Dad www.adamopress.com/books 5
Amanda? the voice hesitated. Dad? Is it really you? Thats a silly question. Who else would it be? God instructed me to call you. Not expecting that response, I asked, Where are you? Im on the streets, doing Gods work as he has commanded me to do. Okay, but what State are you in? Who said I was still in America? Again, he caught me off-guard. I took another deep breath. Well, where are you? Thats not important. I couldnt risk him hanging up, so I didnt push. Are you okay? I mean weve all been worried about you, me and Hilda and I dont want to hear that devils name. Your wifes name? Shes not my wife anymore. I tossed his answer around in my head for a moment. How could that be? I couldve sworn they were still married before he took her from California, crossed the country, and left her in West Virginia. He continued in a stern voice, Dont worry about it. Its not any of your business. His tone softened. Ive had over ten wives already. I nearly choked. What? Hows that possible? Youve only been married three times. I counted my sisters mom, my brothers and my mom, and my stepmom. Yes, only three. Ive been married by God. My fourth wife was a 59 year old Filipina prostitute in Amman, Jordan. I grabbed a paper and pen and scribbled notes.
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About the Author: Amanda LaPera is a mental health advocate, family member, and consumer. She serves on the Board of Directors for the National Alliance for Mental Illness, Orange County affiliate (www.namioc.org). She is the author of the award-winning book, LOSING DAD, Paranoid Schizophrenia: A Family's Search for Hope, the true story of how severe mental illness, affects the entire family. Her wishes for the future of severe mental illness: improved laws, additional research, and more effective treatment. Connect with Amanda at www.facebook.com/amandalapera, www.facebook.com/losingdad, and www.twitter.com/amandalapera,
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