TEXT GAME NOTES

I. Why Text?

a. Reinitiate contact after the first interaction.
- Gets her used to communicating with you via phone

b. Create MORE attraction & comfort

c. Set up a date using text

d. Can send to multiple recipients

e. No obligation (she can check it or respond whenever she wants)

f. She will see your text.
- You know that she will read it at some point.


II. Texting Facts

a. People text more than they make actual phone calls

b. Girls text almost two times as much as they talk on the phone

c. Texting is the preferred method of communication for women in their 20s

d. Text messages are usually read within 15 minutes of being received and responded to
within one hour

e. Women text more than men


III. Texting Mindset

a. Send it and forget it.
- Dont keep checking to see if she text you back

b. Shes having a boring day and youre going to cheer her up.
- Youre just sending a text to make her smile.

c. Dont worry if she doesnt respond.
- She might be busy or just forgot to write you back.

d. Dont give up.
- Be persistent and keep sending her non-needy texts every once in a while even if
she doesnt respond every time.




IV. What NOT to Text

a. No super long texts
- Dont text your life story.
- Dont try to DHV (demonstrate high value) via text

b. Dont text more than the girl
- This means dont write long texts if she never writes long texts.
- You can still send her more texts than she sends you, but its better if she is texting
you first once in a while.

c. Dont ask generic questions
- Ex: How are you?
- Ex: What are you doing?

d. Dont be overly nice or too predictable
- Ex: I had such a fun time with you
- Ex: It was so nice meeting you

e. Dont respond negatively even if she texts something negative to you or flakes on you.

f. Dont use excessive caps or punctuation
- HEY!!! WHAT ARE YOU DOING????

g. Dont multi-thread your text
- Average Guy: what are you doing tonight? Btw hows your dog?
Girl: oh hes back to his old self



V. Texting Basics

a. Use emoticons
- So she knows you are joking

b. Stand out from the herd
- Exception: foreign women

c. Abbreviate as much as possible
- Because you are a busy man and women like guy who have something going for
themselves other than them.

d. Reward good behavior and punish bad behavior
- Heidi: I cant make it Friday night sorry (non compliance)
Artisan: ok dork well thats minus 2 cool points for ya :p (tease)
Heidi: seriously???ok Ill have to make it up to you(compliance)
Artisan: ok princess, u any good at backrubs?(flattering nickname)



VI. When & How Often to Text?

a. Send the first text within 24hrs
- Keeps the emotional momentum going
- So she remembers who you are

b. Dont keep responding even if she does
- Again, you are a busy guy with other things going on in your life besides her

c. End the thread first
- Try to end the text conversation first
- Keeps you in control of the interaction

d. Dont text back in the same duration
- If she waits X minutes to text back. Wait X minutes and add a few extra minutes.

e. Dont text Thurs Sat 9pm-1am
- Thats when most women go out with their friends to party

f. She doesnt respond, wait a day
- If she still doesnt respond then wait 2 more days.
- If she doesnt respond after that then wait 3 more days. ETC.
- If she still doesnt respond then you are probably in damage control.


VII. Reinitiate Contact

a. Texting gets her comfortable communicating on the phone regularly with you

b. Use callback humor (gets her back to the emotional state)
- A nickname you called, recall a joke you told, etc.

c. Sign your name
- Always sign your first text so she knows that its you
- Avoids the awkward who is this? text

d. First Text
- do you speak text?
- hey X are you always so Y? X=cutie, dork, crazyface, etc. Y=friendly to strangers,
flirty, fun or just when youre drunk, etc.
- heyis it too soon for casual text?



VII. Create More Comfort & Attraction

a. Need to already have some attraction
- If you have no attraction with the girl or she didnt remember meeting you at all then
it is very difficult to create attraction through text
- Text is good for maintaining attraction
- If however, you get a girls phone number and she doesnt remember meeting you for
whatever reason, get to look you up on facebook (assuming you have an attractive
facebook page)

b. Fun, flirty, playful, witty, cocky-funny, breaking rapport, random, and qualifying texts

c. She will start to associate good emotions with your name her phone
- Thus she will be likely to pick up the phone when you call or meet you
somewhere when you go for a date.

d. Comfort is built through common interests, getting to know one another, and through the
passage of time
- Dont spend too much time trying to get to know her through text. That is better
through a phone call or a date.



VIII. Setting Up a Date Through Text

a. Try to get her on the phone first
- Its much easier to set up a date talking to her on the phone than it is through text
- Shes less likely to flake if shes talked to you on the phone first
- Sometimes this isnt an option though

b. Tell her where youll be
- Going to X tonightgonna be cray cray


c. Just throw it out there
- Tomorrow. Hart Bar. 10pm. B there or B []

d. Find out her schedule first
- hey goober whats your week looking like?



IX. She Doesnt Text Back

a. Break-Up Role-Play
- We need to talk. Look its not you its me. Here are the rules to our breakup. I can
see other people but you cant. That includes sleeping with all your friends.

b. Punish
- This should never be mean spirited
- Ex: You are officially on texting probation young lady



X. My Favorite Texts

a. Bait & Switch
- Those innocent eyes, those juicy lips, a great smile, that awesome bod, so hot!
But enough about me, what r u up to?

b. Role Play
- Hey I decided where we are going to eat tonight, start looking for a strip club that
sells food and has amateur night, your gonna win us some grub!

c. Push-Pull
- You just popped into my head.you must be using some weird ninja magic on
me.Im onto it.but Im not gonna let it slide.

d. Role Reversal
- Her: Guess What!
You: You want to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me? You are so
naughty :p




XII. Assignments

a. Create a database on your phone or computer with all the numbers you have/get and
keep track of the texts you send, the calls you make, and the results of each.

b. Send a text to ever prospect you have. Send one of the examples above, out of the
Ultimate Guide to Texting Girls, or something you came up with. Track your results in
the database.

c. Do at least 3 number closes this week. That doesnt mean you have to get the number.
Just go for the number close. This can be during the day or at night at a bar.
Whichever you prefer. But make sure you at least go for a phone number 3X this week!
No excuses!

d. Most Interesting Girl of the Day Rule. Approach and open the cutest/most interesting
girl you see every day.no matter what. If youve already opened a cute girl that day
and you see an even cuter/interesting girl, then you have to approach her too. Make it
a habit and condition yourself to always approach women you are attracted to no
matter what.