The Etiquettes and Attributes Necessary for the Du`aat to Acquire and

the Behaviour which Should be Present in Them

Shaykh `Abdul `Aziz ibn Baz (Rahimahullah)

Taken from: Ad-Da`wah ilallaah wa Akhlaaq ad-Duaat (p.36-41)

The Shaykh Abdullaah Ibn Adul Azeez Ibn Baaz(h) said:

The ettiquettes of the Duaat and the characteristics which are necassary for them have been explained by
Allaah The mighty and Majestic in many different ayaat in different places in the Quraan.

The First of them: Sincerity

So it is Waajib upon the daaee to have Ikhlaas for the sake of Allaah The Mighty and Majestic He should
not be desiring to show the people, or desiring to have a good image, nor should he desire the praises and
rewards of the people. Instead the Daaee must call only to Allaah, seeking from this the Face of Allaah. He
the One Free from All Imperfections says:

Say: This is my way, I call unto Allaah, with Baseerah (insight, wisdom, knowledge based on Quraan and
Sunnah)

And Allaah The Mighty And Majestic says:

And who is better in speech than one who invites to Allaah

So it is on you to have Ikhlaas and to only give da`wah to Allaah, and this is the most important
characteristic, and a great attribute, meaning you should seek the Face of Allaah, and an abode in the
Hereafter.

Second: Knowledge

To call the people to Allaah with knowledge, and not with ignorance.

Say: This is my way, I call unto Allaah with knowledge

So knowledge is a Fardh obligation in da`wah. So beware of giving da`wah while being in a state of
ignorance(of what you are giving da`wah to). So ignorance destoys (the da`wah) it does not strengthen (the
da`wah), and it makes corruption. not reformation and correction. O slave of Allaah, fear Allaah, and be
warned of speaking about Allaah without knowledge, and do not call to anything except after having
aqcuired knowledge of it, and having Baseerah into the saying of Allaah, and His Messenger. So it is upon
the student of knowledge and the daaee to have the knowledge, and Baseerah about that which they are
calling to, while knowing its proofs.

Third: Akhlaaq

From the Akhlaaq which are necessary to have is, O caller, is moderateness in your da`wah, and be gentle
and patient in it. All the Messengers(a) were this way.
Beware of being strict and harsh in your da`wah. Be patient, and gentle (when dealing with the people). In
this issue, some proofs have preceded, from them is the saying of Allaah The Mighty and Majestic:

Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in The way that is
best

And the saying of Him, the Glorified One:

So by Mercy from Allaah,(O Muhammad)you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude,and harsh
in heart, they would have disbanded from about you.

And The saying of His the Most Majestic regarding Moosaa and Haaroon:

And speak to him with gentle speech that perhaps he may be reminded or fear

And in an authentic Hadeeth, the Prophet(S) said:

O Allaah, Whoever is a gaurdian over any of the affairs of my Ummaah and he is gentle with them, then be
gentle with him. And whoever is a gaurdian over any of the affairs of my Ummaah, and he is harsh with
them, then be harsh with him.

So it is upon you O slave of Allaah to be soft in your da`wah, and not to be harsh with the people. Do not
make people turn away from the Deen because of your harshness, ignorance or similar behaviour. It is
upon you to be gentle and pleasant in speech, so that your words may have an effect on the heart of your
brother, or that it may have an effect on the one whom your da`wah is directed towards. Then the people
will have a better appreciation of your da`wah. So unnecasary harshness causes people to become distant,
not close. And it causes seperation, not unity.

From the necessary -or Waajib- ettiquetes and attributes that a daaee must have is action which is in
accordance to what he is giving da`wah to.

He should not call to something and then not do it himself, or call to the abandonment of something whilst
doing it himself. This are the conditions of the losers. We seek Allaahs refuge from this. It is those
Muminoon who who call to the truth, act upon their da`wah and hurry towards righteousness and avoid
the Haraam. These are the ones who will be successful and will be rewarded.

Allaah The Mighty and Majestic says:

O you who believe, why do say that which you do not do? It is despised in the sight of Allaah that you say
that which you do not do.

And Allaah The Glorified One said, in condemnation of the Jews in enjoining righteousness upon the people
whilst forgetting it themselves:

Do you enjoin righteousness upon the people whilst you forget to practice it, and you recite from the
Book? Have you no sense?

And it has been authentically reported on the Prophet(s) who said:

A man will be brought on the Day of Judgement and he will be thrown into Hell so that his intestines come
out and he will go around just like a donkey goes around the millstone. The people of Hell will gather
around him and say: O so and so (Fulaan), what happened to you? Did you not used to enjoin good on us
and prohibit us from evil? So he will say: I used to order you with good and not do it myself, and I used to
prohibit you from evil, and I did it.

This will be the condition of the one who calls to Allaah, enjoining the good and prohibiting the evil, whilst
acting contrary to his word, or making statements that differ with his actions. We refuge in Allaah from
this! So from the most important attributes, and the greatest of its obligations is to act according to his
da`wah and stay away from those things that he prohibits. The daaee should have a praiseworthy
personality and an excellent behaviour, while in a state of patience and calling to patience. The daaee
should be sincere in his da`wah and strive in spreading goodness amongst the people, and keeping them
away from falsehood. And with that he should supplicate for guidance for them(the people his is giving
da`wah to). Say: May Allaah guide you, grant you the ability to accept the truth. May He help you with
acceptance of the truth. (Hidaak Allaah wa faqak Allaah li qubool al Haqq Aaanak Allaah alaa qubool al
Haqq).

So from the excellent manners of a daaee is supplicating, guiding, and being patient with the harms that
come with this da`wah. When the Prophet(s) was informed that the tribe of Daws was becoming
disobedient, he(s) said: O Allaah guide Daws and bring them close

So the daaee should make dua for guidance and ability to accept the truth for the one he is giving da`wah
to, and he should have patience and enjoin patience in it. He should not despair, of have hoplesness, or say
anything except that which is good. He should not be harsh and strict, he should neither say a statement
which might cause aversion to the truth. However, if anyone commits aggression and injustice, then a
different treament is given to those people, as Allaah the Most Majestic, and Most High says:

And do not argue with the people of the Book except in a way that is good, except those who commit
injustice.

So a dhaalim (one who commits injustice), who opposes the da`wah with evil and enmity, and seeks to
cause harm, is to be dealt with in a different manner. If possible, such a person should be imprisoned, or
something similar to that. This depends on the kind of opposition to the da`wah. However, as long as he
causes no harm, then it is upon you to be patient, and self-evaluating, and to argue with him in ways that
are best. If any personal harm was caused by that person, then harm should be endured with patience - as
did the Messenger(a) and those who followed them in good, and righteousness, enduring harms in
patience.

I ask Allaah the Majestic to grant us all the well being and the ability to give this da`wah with wisdom. May
He correct our hearts and our actions, and that He grants us understanding of the Deen and evidence on it.
Make of those who are guided, while guiding other, righteous, and teaching others righteousness. Surely
He is the Most Majestic, the most Supreme, the Most Noble. And may Allaahs prayers, peace and blessings
on His slave, and Messenger, and Prophet Muhammad, and on his Companions all those who follow him
until the Day of Jugdement.