WOW, I got here way back in March and, through the course of things, somehow six months have already passed. We had a changing of the guard, so to speak, as I arrived just days before the Spencer family went home. God willing, they will return to Uganda in 2015. Please pray for the sale of their home and for mercies as they prepare for life in Uganda. Before they left, we were able to do a birthday party for those kids celebrating in the first three months of the year. For their birthday meal, they wanted American cuisine, so we gave them PB&J sandwiches and hotdogs and friesa big hit! I have continued with PB&J sandwiches for those high school students who have Satur- day classeswe have as many as 6 who go to school on Saturday, but because the kitchen is not staffed on the weekends, they have gone without food all day. I pack for them a sandwich, carrot sticks, and apple and a snack. It would be cheaper for me just to give them lunch money, but this way I know they are getting a balanced meal: protein, starch, fruit, vegetable, and a little sweet.
Bed Bug Free... The Spencers did a very fine job of eradicating the HUGE population of bed bugs that we had here. My first week here, I had a small scare as I watched something small and dark run up the wall. It was just a baby cockroach and I dont think I have ever been so glad to see a cockroach in all my life. It was an enormous undertaking for the Spencers last December as they burned old stashes of notebooks, boiled clothes, and cleaned shoes, and took out all the old mattresses and beds and put in new ones. Even now, there is no sign of them; we are BEDBUG FREE at Abba House!
Irrigation Comes to the Garden... I have dealt with many frustrations in these six months and have used them as one of my excuses for not writing a newsletter sooner. For instance, the African garden is to plant everything everywhere. So there may be corn, eggplants, tomatoes, and collards all planted in the same section with pumpkin and beans as cover crops to discourage weeds. When a garden is full, it means there is absolutely no more room to plant anything else and we have to watch where we step when getting through to pick something. Though it was difficult for me to see through their methods, we did have a bumper crop of eggplants and greens, and we fed the children for several mornings with roasted corn, instead of the normal porridge. Thanks to Sarah Spencer for teaching some girls how to bake, we have enjoyed pumpkin cake about every week, since June. With the help of Wayne Stoll and Rick Aspegren (from Missouri) who came in August, we are getting things set up with an irrigation system so that we can continue to water the garden in the dry season, there- fore increasing the growing seasons. I am very ex- cited, not only for the irrigation concept to be intro- duced, but that the Abba House kids will learn first- hand a method of producing more food from the ground we have. Our original purpose at Abba House was to be self-sufficient. It is becoming quite possible now with teaching row planting and spacing, which makes it easier to weed and tend, and the use of drip-tape irrigation.
New Stove for Kitchen... In 2013 we exchanged the cook shed outside for a new, spacious, brick kitchen. From that spacious, smoke-filled kitchen, we put in an efficiency stove, with stove pipes! With this stove, the pile of firewood purchased in June, that would have (continued on back) September 2014 Missionary Quarters...
If time flies when you are having fun, well, it seems to jet away when times get busy. In these last six months, we have taken the Missionary Quarters from rustic brick walls and a bare concrete floor to be tiled, painted, and furnished. Though there is not yet water in the faucets and the toilet tank has to be re- filled every time its flushed, Im safe and com- fortable and have my own bathroom. I think all the volunteers that came this summer went back home never again to take the self-filling toilet tank for granted. I have wanted to get connected with the citys water, but there is a problem with the water line. So, until that gets solved, the MQ is waterless, except for jerry cans and buckets. The last team that was here, however, built a tank stand and we purchased a tank so at least there will be water by gravity flow. The system is not connected yet, nor do I have gutters to harvest the rain and fill the tank, but we have a tank and a stand. (continued on back) Barb Decker Garden tilled and planting in rows. Wayne & Rick pause after installing the water tank. FROM TO Stove (continued from front) lasted three weeks, has lasted until the end of July! I thank everyone who was praying for Abba House, especially in the areas of kitchen and dining room. The firewood lasts more than three weeks and the cooks are not breathing so much smoke. Its good. The dining room is still waiting for construction. The children dont use the eating tables at noon, in full sun, or when it rains. The dining room cost from the foundation to the roof is about $8000. The kitchen is doing well except for some inside cosmetic things. The doors have helped tremendously in controlling the entrance way. With no dining room structure and the cool morn- ings and evenings that we are experiencing now, sometimes into the 60s, the kitchen is the warmest place and sitting on the ceramic part of the stove is a popular place.
Mission Teams at Work...
Weve had three teams this summer that came to be a blessing as well as to get a blessing. The Kansas City Chris- tian Fellowship Church sent a group of six who blessed the children with blan- kets, dance, and smiles as they visited places, took provisions, gave their tes- timonies and helped in many ways. They even painted the inside of the Missionary Quarters. John Gross and Chad Spencer came for just a week to research the true possibilities of getting the Kuwl Farm Project going and to install solar panels, at least at Abba House, so we have an extra source of power when the electricity goes out. They also brought a family uniform t-shirt so we can declare that we are all members of Abba House. House of Friends partners with Grace Global Impact Ministries as joint parents of the 40 children here. Kuwl Farm Project... Part of the original plan for Abba House was to use a tract of land north of Kampala (the capital city of Uganda) owned by Pastor Richard Kaaya, to grow crops and raise animals in order to make the childrens home self-sufficient. It would also serve as a learn- ing experience in farming and food production for the boys from the childrens home. The Kuwl Farm Project is that vision com- ing into being. This has been mentioned in other newsletters, re- questing funding for a tractor for the farm and some sort of vehicle for hauling the food, firewood, and other goods to Abba House. We are still in need of a vehicle and we would still like a tractor; but right now, we are getting the project started from the ground up. The project is getting under way with goats. We now have 42 females and a buck and we are hoping to raise that number, ulti- mately to 1000 goats. This is exciting to me because the vision of getting Abba House kids into the direct production of food through farming is actually getting under way. We are trying to find a du- rable clover seed to plant that will be beneficial for the goats to eat. Through the blessings of Wayne and Rick we were able to pur- chase a chainsaw to start clearing land. This will make way to plant the grass and clover seed so the goats can graze and grow.
Missionary Quarters (continued from front)... The whole project of tiling the missionary quarters was because my bedrooms concrete floor still emits moisture. Now the MQ is almost done and I still need tiles in my room. I have a nighttime, chronic, con- gestive cough that could be connected to the floors moisture. The MQ also needs a couple of doors and some paint. Once that is fin- ished, I think it will be done. Total cost for finishing; about $700.
Education... On a discouraging note and a matter for prayer--the 2nd term report cards were very disappointing. Out of 16 high school stu- dents, some having as few as 5 classes and some having as many as 14 classes, they brought a conglomerate total of 91 failing marks. We are in the process of hiring a tutor to help them this third (and last) term, which is from September to December. Please pray not only for funds to pay a tutor but also that these students would get serious about their studies. We have three students graduating this year, two with the basic high school diploma (11 th grade) and one with a college prep diploma (13 th grade).
Wrapping Up... One last note, God willing I am going to Israel in November. I will meet up with members of the church in Waverly, MO where I have attended, for a ten-day tour. Elaine Wittmeyer will come and stay at Abba House in my absence. Please pray for travelling mer- cies for her. This is a time of uncertainties. It is always important to rely on Gods word for our peace and tranquility. Psalm 91 has great promises of peace and protection; please read it, receive its prom- ises, and declare it. Thank you all for your continued support and prayers, even in my lack of communication. I thank those churches that sent forth and those individuals that came to bless Abba House this year. May God bless your efforts with the abundance of His word.
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