How to

Communicate Your
Needs Without
Sounding Needy...
By: Mark Scott
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Before getting into the main concepts and principles of this
report, Id like to tell you why I was compelled to write this report
in the first place. I keep getting emails from my readers asking a
certain question over and over again. onestly, its started to
!other me to a point where I felt compelled to write a separate
report on this specific topic.
"he topic is how to have your needs met without sounding needy
or !urdening him. #irst, Id like to address an important issue and
that is this $ most women use the wrong way to communicate their
needs to a man. In fact% "he way you communicate a need is so
important that it will determine whether he will listen to you, or
run for the hills.
&hat you say to him is important, !ut how you say it is even more
important. "his is why I !elieve that, unless you educate yourself
on e'actly how to communicate a need to him the right way, youd
always struggle.
Its very possi!le that you might !e setting yourself up for failure
over and over again, without reali(ing it. ow can I !e so sure
a!out this) Its !ecause I get hundreds and thousands of emails
every month from frustrated women who feel theyre doing the
right thing, or have tried every possi!le thing in their power, !ut
never get their needs met.
I can personally promise that if you pay full attention to what I am
a!out to discuss with you ne't * put it into action, youll
e'perience a near+instant change in your relationship. ,ot only
will you have all of your needs met right away, !ut will also form a
!etter * stronger relationship with your partner in the process.
-lright, I hope you are ready% .ets get right into the main
concepts/
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"he single most important principle to having your needs met 0112
of the time, is to communicate your need in a way where it
doesnt sound like a need, !ut a want.
3ay very close attention to this distinction. If you can get this one
concept right, you will save yourself years of frustration and
heartache.
,eeding something means that if you dont get what you want,
you wont !e okay. 4n the other hand, wanting something means
that you will still !e okay, if you dont get what you wished for.
I am sure youve heard the old saying $ A hungry dog never gets
fed. Similarly, when you communicate a desire out of neediness, it
will never !e fulfilled.
,eediness only pro5ects desperation6 when you are desperate you
will only !urden a man. e will su!+consciously get negative
feelings and will struggle to fulfill your desires.
.ets say you te't your !oyfriend a few times a day, and feel
neglected when he doesnt respond in a timely fashion. 4r worse,
you picture the worst possi!le outcomes in your mind and send
him 011 more te'ts, asking him why he hasnt responded to you so
far.
&hat do you think your actions are communicating) "here are no
pri(es for guessing here, !ecause its clearly shouting neediness *
desperation. ,ot only, will he struggle to deal with your requests
from this point onward, !ut he will feel !urdened every time you
have a desire.
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,ow answer this + what if you were to place the same desire as a
want, rather than a need) &hat will happen then) e will feel less
!urdened, and will !e more likely to fulfill your desire at his own
will and will !e happy to do so.
Let me give you a graphical representation of what I
am referring to:
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Here is how it should wor:
So now that you understand, that in order to communicate your
needs without sounding needy, you have to make it sound more
like a want rather than a need. .et me now show you the proper
step+!y+step actions you need to take, in order to achieve this.

Step !" Word Your #e$uirement In % Way Where It Sounds Lie %
Want& Instead 'f % Need(
In order to do this you have to let him know, that you arent going
to go all cra(y if he doesnt meet your request. 7ou already know
that if you need something, he only feels pressured, and as a
result will not follow through with your request. So its important
to word your requirement in a way, where it sounds like a want
instead of a need.
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So lets say you want him to spend more time with you. Instead of
saying $ Honey! I need you to please spend time with me.
"ry saying $ Honey! I love it when you spend time with me.
See the distinction !etween the two sentences) "he first sentence
will instantly !urden him, !ecause the underlying message is $ I
need you to do this.
But the second sentence, will make him feel good !ecause not
only are you indirectly saying that you want him to spend more
time with you, !ut you are also letting him know that it makes you
feel good, which in turn will force him into action.

Step ) * +eep It #easona,le(
8ont ask him to do huge tasks for you. Some women ask for things
which 5ust cant !e fulfilled, even if a man is ready to work for it.
-nother mistake is, when a woman asks for too many things at the
same time. -s usual, this !urdens a man heavily and he feels
overwhelmed.
e cant help you with housework, mow the lawn, !uy the
groceries and then also take the dog out for a walk, at the same
time. 7es I know this e'ample sounds a !it e'aggerated, !ut I hope
you get my point.
"he key is to make one request at a time and wait until he fulfills
it, !efore you think a!out placing another request. "his will keep
things smooth and he wont feel overwhelmed.

Step -" .ive Him /nough 0ime(
"his is the most difficult step to follow. 8o not e'pect urgent
results after you place a request. 4nce youve made your needs
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known to him, its important to wait for him to act on it on his
own terms.
8ont e'pect him to take action right away. -lso, if you ask for
urgency, then it will sound like a desperate need, instead of a
want which will make him withdraw.
So lets do a quick review + in order to have your needs met, you
have to first re+word your request in a way where it sounds like a
want instead of a need, keep your requests reasona!le * give him
enough time to act on those requests.
,ow let me show you another important step, which will skyrocket
your results even more. "his one step will ensure that you get
most of your needs met, most of the time in the future. -lright,
here it is:
#eward or 1raise Him Whenever He 2ollows 0hrough With %
#e$uest(
I cant stress how important this one step is% &hen you reward a
guy for his actions !y giving him a compliment9praise, you
indirectly train him into doing more pleasing things for you.
Its like rewarding a kid with a candy every time he does
something good. 4ver time, he will associate the act of !eing
good, with getting a candy6 and will associate nice feelings with
doing those actions.
Similarly, your man will associate positive feelings with doing good
things for you, and will !e eager to do more of the things that
please you, 5ust !ecause he gets rewarded for it every single time.
7ou can easily achieve this !y saying things like:
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I love it when you hold me like that.
I love it when you do ___________ (Insert Action).
You are such a wonderful boyfriendhusband.
I feel so protected around you.
"hese are only a few possi!le compliments, I am sure you can
come up with more on your own.
-lright, now you have the perfect action steps you need to take,
in order to communicate your needs without sounding needy and
have them easily met. I strongly recommend that you try these on
a man as fast as possi!le. I can almost guarantee that youll !e
!lown away with the results youll see.
ow can I !e so sure of it) &ell, !ecause I get emails from my
readers almost every single day, who use this e'act same formula
in their daily dealings with a man and see e'ceptional results
every single time.
"hese same action steps have !een used !y thousands of women
across the world, and they have reported great results with it
every single time, as well. "herefore, I hope you read through this
report once again, take some notes if you need to, and put it into
action right away.
&ishing you all the !est%
Mark Scott


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