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MY FATHERS IMAGE
HANNAH VANDER HEY 8
FORMING OF A PASTOR
LEVI GARDNER 20
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We are more when we are together.
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VOL. 2 NO. 1
SUMMER 2014
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Amazing Grace
IF YOU KNOW MY STORY, you know I didnt come to Frazer for its
great worship, world changing missions, powerful preaching or deep
theology; no, I came because of a girl! I was
dating Emily (now my wife), and she went to
Frazer, so I went to Frazer.
Having been raised in another denomination, I
knew very little about the Methodist church. But
I loved what I foundnot only the girlbut also
the spirit of the Frazer family, the Bible based
Christ centered message, and the emphasis on service and missions.
As I began my studies this summer at Asbury Theological Seminary,
however, I began to develop an even greater appreciation for the
Methodist tradition: particularly, the unmatched emphasis that John
Wesley and his successors in the Methodist movement have put on
the incredible power of Gods grace.
Grace is Gods power at work within to transform us from the inside
out. Mercy is God loving us even when we were sinners, but grace is
God loving us enough not to leave us sinners. Grace is God patiently,
persistently, powerfully perfecting the work He began in us by His
Holy Spirit, until we are filled from top to bottom with lovelove for
God and love for people. Grace really is amazing.
In this issue of Following Jesus, grace abounds. Its there in the story
of two daughters, one facing the challenge of growing up without her
dad (p. 8), and one seeking to find self-acceptance (p. 14). Its there in
the calling of a young man to leave his plans to be a medical doctor
and enter the ministry (p. 20). Its there in a couple who both came
from broken homes, and have made it their mission to teach Gods plan
for marriage to others (p. 40). Its there in an artist struggling through
depression, and in a young man who was thrown into teaching Sunday
School before he was ready, and ended up teaching Sunday Schools
around the world (p. 30). Its certainly there in the stories of women
who have gone from being homeless, to hope-filled (p. 35).
Grace is changing us. Its changing the world. If you let it, grace will
change you, too.
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Amazing Grace
Grace is fundamental to
following Jesus. We can no
more follow Jesus without
grace, than we could follow
a fish without gills, or follow
a bird without wings. Grace
begins with the free gift of
salvation in Christ, but it
extends far beyond that. Grace
is the transforming work of
the Holy Spirit in our hearts
that fills us with love for God
an for our neighbor. Be on the
lookout in this months stories
for evidence of grace at work!
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In My Fathers
Image: Hannah
Vander Hey
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30
Hiding Place:
Anne Louise
Pass
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40
The Forming of
a Pastor: Levi
Gardner
24 Missions Updates
35 Transformations in Progress
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SHORTS
Frazer Reaches Out to
Persecuted Believers
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Welcome Mary
Causey
Frazer is excited to announce the
addition of Mary Causey to our
staff as
Connections
Coordinator.
Mary will
take on
responsibilities
for
coordinating
the staff and volunteer efforts
to reach out to our community,
welcome visitors, and help new
members, connect to the life of our
church. Mary and her husband,
Adam have a 2-year-old daughter,
Abby James. They have been
members of Frazer since 2007. Look
for more of Marys story in a future
edition of Following Jesus.
Offered for six Sunday nights, 7:308p.m. starting Sept. 7, this study
Followership 2015 is
your opportunity
to plan how you will
follow Jesus
in giving, service,
and mission in
the year ahead.
Followership
Churchwide
Dinner/Rally
SUN . OCT. 19
5- 7PM WESL EY H A L L
Enjoy food and fellowship
as we celebrate together
on frazerumc.org.
followership@frazerumc.org.
Followership
Commitment
Sunday
OCT. 26
For those who have not
already completed their card
online or at the Dinner/Rally,
we encourage every member
to turn in their Personal
Response Card during
worship this Sunday morning.
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FAMILY
IN MY
Fathers
Image
Karen and Hannah Vander Hey Learn to
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A Legacy of Faith
Elmer grew up in church, accepted Christ in
middle school, and although his faith was back and
forth in college according to Karen, he got serious
about following Jesus when he married. He told
me he had been wild in college, but he would pray
in his dorm room for God to send a godly woman
to help him get back on track, says Karen. He went
on to become a solid follower of Jesus. He left a
legacy of faith, courage and strength, says Karen.
The couple visited Frazer together, and although
they initially thought the church was too big for
them, their older daughter, Heather, kept asking,
When are we going back? Eventually they joined,
and got involved as volunteers, purposing to be
part of whatever ministries their children were participating in. After their youngest daughter, Hollon
Jane, was born, Karen came on staff part time in
Frazers nursery.
During Elmers illness, Karen remembers praying and asking God, why arent You healing him?
Eventually she realized she was praying wrong
seeking her own will, rather than Gods will. After
submitting her heart to the Lord, she was able to
see His hand in everything as they sought to make
the most of those last days, and she was able to
give Elmer permission to leave. He was tired of
fighting, she says. I was able to tell him, were
going to be okay; God has never let us down, and
He never will.
Karen had to be strong through the midst of her
grief for the sake of her girls. I made a promise to
Elmer that I would stay faithful for them, she says.
I was all they had. If I cave in and turn away from
God, whats that showing them? Yes, this is horrible,
its not what we had planned, but God has a plan.
Her church family provided Karen with love and
support. While she says it is too hard to come to
church on Fathers Day, every other Sunday they
are here in worship, and she has continued to be
actively involved as a volunteer in the student ministry with her daughters.
Admitting Need
For Hannah, the story was a little different. She
had accepted Christ at Camp Chandler with Frazers
PREVIOUS PAGE: Hannah and Elmer Vander Hey. ABOVE: Karen Vander Hey and Elmer. P HOTOS CONTRIBUTED.
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ABOVE: The Vander Hey family on vacation: Elmer, Hannah, Heather, Hollan and Karen. P HOTO CONTRIBUTED.
Childrens Ministry in second grade, but her relationship with God was about to be severely tested with
her fathers death. I didnt care, she says, I didnt
want to believe. I didnt want to trust anyone who
would take my dad away.
Hannah says she did not really cry until three
years later, in the 9th grade. It took that long to
process her grief enough to let out her emotions. I
had to learn that you need people. Im not one to
show emotions, but you cant do it by yourself. It
doesnt get easier if you push people away. I had
to push my stubbornness and hard-headedness to
the side and be willing to let others know how I
was feeling.
Each year of high school, Frazers DNOW
weekend for students was a milestone in Hannahs faith life. Her 10th grade year was when she
considers herself to have become a fully devoted
follower of Jesus, truly owning for herself the
decision she had made as a child. This year, as
a senior, she once again rededicated herself. It
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Influences
Along the way, Hannahs faith was formed in a
variety of ways. Attending public school at Brewbaker Technology Magnet, her teachers were not
able to give her faith-based advice or Bible teaching,
but she says she benefitted from those who genuinely cared about her and pushed her to the top,
especially her math teacher, inspiring her to want
to be an educator herself. Youth leaders like Brian
Word invested in her, and she says she saw Jesus
in the way Brian treated everyone like they were
his own sons and daughters.
Impact
Like her parents, Hannah got involved in service. Twice she went on mission to the Dominican
Republic, as well as participating in numerous local
mission projects at Trenholm Court, Adullum House,
neighborhood block parties and nursing homes.
Through Youth Worship Arts she sang, went on
tour, and developed a reputation as the white girl
rapper. Her love of hip hop often enabled her to
make a connection with boys and girls at the youth
clubs and missions her group would minister to.
BELOW: Whether at a local outreach in Montgomery or on mission overseas in the Dominican Republic, Hannah
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BELOW: Hannahs Student Ministry Life Group has been a critical source of spiritual strength and growth throughout
her high school years. From left, Sofi Gelabert, Katie Heacock, Victoria Conner, Cayla Hamilton, Logan McKissick, and
Hannah. RIGHT: Hannah (right), her mother Karen and sister Hollan Jayne show their joy in Christ after participating
in a color run. P HOTOS CONTRIBUTED.
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Hiding
Place
Anne Louise Pass is learning that grace is for everyone
BY KEN ROACH | If you heard her singing a solo
in the Sanctuary at Frazer, or sharing a testimony
on stage in Wesley Hall, or saw her playing a role
in the church Christmas
drama or a school play,
you wouldnt imagine
that Anne Louise Pass
was the sort of person
to hide from people. But
when her family first
came to Frazer when
she was in the 6th grade,
Anne Louise skipped
Sunday School and hid to
avoid being around the
rest of the youth group. I
knew every hiding place
in the church, she says.
What has changed over
the years is not simply a
story of a young woman
who has matured in selfconfidence; it is the story of a follower of Jesus who
has learned what it means to trust in his grace.
Anne Louises parents have been in ministry
in one form or another since before she was born.
OPPOSITE: Anne Louise Pass at her graduation with her father Frank Pass. PHOTO BY BILLY POPE.
ABOVE: Anne Louise being baptized at Frazer in 2008 by former teaching pastor Rev. John Schmidt. P HOTO CONTRIBUTED.
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LEFT: Anne Louise with her mother, Robin. PHOTO COURTESY OF NIKKI P. PHOTOGRAPHY AND POTENTIAL MAGAZINE.
RIGHT: Playing with a child at a special needs orphanage on a mission trip to China. P HOTO CONTRIBUTED.
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BELOW: Anne Louise and Robin perform in Frazers 2012 Christmas musical drama. P HOTO BY CHRIS THORNTON.
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am I going to make fun of? she jokes. But in all seriousness, she sees the hand of God at work through
combination of her family experiences and her own
personal struggles to prepare her to be sensitive and
caring towards the needs of others.
That dual lesson of finding ones acceptance in
God, and through Him learning to accept others,
has doubled back to some of the same class mates
who teased her for being a nerd when she was
younger. She refers to middle school as her dark
years. I was angry at school, mean to people, and
bitter, because I felt excluded by them. But when I
got to know them better in high school, I realized,
they werent judging me, I was judging them. I
became friends with some people I never thought
I would, and Im grateful.
The love and acceptance she has found in Christ
overflows for Anne Louise in service and mission.
Whether it was visiting retirement homes with her
grandmother, going on choir tours with YWA, or
traveling on short term mission trips to work with
the deaf in Haiti or visit orphans in China, she sees
service as simply the outflow of loving God and loving people. She stresses that serving God is seen
just as much in being there for a friend, or cleaning your room when your parents tell you to, as in
traveling across oceans to share the gospel. (And
yes, Frank and Robin, she admits that she needs to
do a better job of cleaning her room!)
As Anne Louis prepares to head off to college at
LEFT: Matty Drollette was instrumental in welcoming Anne Louise into Frazers Youth Worship Arts.
RIGHT: Olivia Wilson and Anne Louise during the 2014 YWA Choir Mission Tour to Chicago. P HOTOS CONTRIBUTED.
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THE FORMING OF A
Pastor
DISCOVERING A CALLING
Levi was baptized in the Episcopal church in the
Gulf Coast region of Alabama. He remembers serving as an acolyte in worship and attending Sunday
School, but he also remembers when he reached
fifth grade and his mother allowed him to choose
for himself, sometimes he would just lay in bed
and skip church on Sunday mornings. Nevertheless,
over time the Holy Spirit continued to draw him
toward devotion to Christ, and in his sophomore
year of high school he made a conscious decision
to fully follow Jesus through the youth ministry
of Gulf Shores United Methodist Church. His faith
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ABOVE: Rev. Levi Gardner and his wife, Caroline. PHOTO BY STEGALL SEMINARY SCHOLARSHIP FOUNDATION.
about life and faith. Levi saw Bill, who passed away
a few years ago, as a servant leader, who used every
interaction in his position in business to honor Christ.
GROWING MINISTRY
OPPORTUNITIES IN COLLEGE
Levi traveled the summer following his call in
Quito, Ecuador, helping to build a Christian daycare.
For the first time, he was able to see that our God
is not just God of the Southeast part of the United
States in North AmericaHe is truly God of the
whole world. Seeing children with joy on their faces,
serving alongside them and developing relationships
with them despite barriers of culture and language,
reinforced that Christianity is not limited to a particular worldly lifestyle or earthly community.
Later he spent three months on mission in Costa
Rica. As he worshipped and served in their native
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BELOW: Bishop Paul Leeland commissions Levi as a provisional elder in the United Methodist Church during the
2014 Alabama West Florida Annual Conference hosted by Frazer. PHOTO BY LUKE LUCAS (AWFUMC).
church and got to know their families, he could see
that human needs were not so different around the
world.
His junior year of college, Levi transferred to
Auburn University, where he had the opportunity
to serve as an intern under Pastor Tim Thompson,
who was serving at that time at Opelika First Methodist. He went on to intern at the Auburn Wesley
Foundation, helping to build its vibrant ministry to
students during his senior year.
After graduation, Tim once again hired Levi,
now in his new appointment at Frazer. Arrangements were made for Levi to serve as director of
outreach and evangelism while traveling back and
forth to attend seminary in Atlanta. For the next
three years, Levi would greet visitors, lead new
member classes, and help the church extend welcome to the community, all the while keeping up
the class load for his theological education at Emory.
What stands out about Frazer is the opportunity Ive had to learn from Tim, Patrick (Quinn), the
whole contemporary worship planning team, and
all of the talented staff here, says Levi. Ive loved
leading the new member classes, getting to know
people, their names and their stories, as they make
that first vital connection into growing and thriving
church members. It was phenomenal to get to preach
my first sermon in a church this large, he continues.
The church really placed a lot of trust in me, which
in turn gave me tremendous opportunities to grow.
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ON MARRIAGE AS DISCIPLESHIP
On June 16, 2012 Levi married Caroline Van
Pelt, whom he had known in high school and got
to know again while at Auburn. He sees marriage
as the latest aspect of how he is learning to follow
Jesus. Spiritual disciplines like reading scripture and
prayer take on a new dimension as you learn to do
them together, he explains. The every day frictions
that come along for every couple as you learn to
live together are also a school for discipleship. I
have a new understanding of Luke 9:23, take up
your cross daily and follow me, Levi notes. Thats
what marriage is about, no longer living for your
own agenda, always thinking of the other person.
Thats even more important in ministry, he says. It
would be easy to fall into the trap of thinking, my
job is more important to God than yours; the reality is that God wants me to help nurture Carolines
calling just as much as my own.
hile Frazer has recently celebrated a number of members who have decided to pursue ordination in the church later in life, relatively
few young people of Levis age are choosing to
enter ordained ministry (Frazers college ministry
director, Patrick Craig, who will head to Duke
Divinity School this fall, is a notable exception).
In fact, there is a worldwide shortage in trained
pastors, making the development of a new generation of Christian leaders one of the United
Methodist Churchs four areas of focus.
I asked Levi during our interview
what he would say to students who
feel like God might be calling them
into ministry, and to their parents.
Students: Be open. You may
think you want to be a _____ (fill in
the blank), and that may be a great
and noble thing, but God may call you
full time ministry, and that is a great blessing,
too. You get to be with people at the greatest
moments in their livesbirths, baptisms, weddingsand at their moments of greatest need, in
hospitals, at funerals, in times of tragedy. There
are many roles in ministryleading the church,
preaching Gods word, counselingso many ways
to engage in mission and live out your gifts.
Parents: Let your children know you will
support them however God may call them. The
greatest thing to me was my parents affirmation. Have the share their call story, and back
them up.
Here are some further steps you can take to
explore your calling:
1. Serve where you are. Remember, every
Christian is called to ministry. At Frazer,
our core value is everyone matters, everyone ministers. The real purpose of the
ordained clergy is not to do the work of
the ministry, but to equip the church so
that they can do the work of the ministry. With over 200 volunteer positions at
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ANOTHER SIDE OF
Haiti
TOP: Haitis beautiful Caribbean beaches could point the way out of Haitis dependence on foreign aid and toward
a future of dignity through tourism. PHOTO BY JAN STEVENS. BOTTOM LEFT: Mark Stuart, director of the Hands and Feet
Project (HAF), and Frazer pastor Patrick Quinn, at Haiti Made, a new manufacturing initiative that provides jobs for
older children and adults served by the HAF orphan villages. BOTTOM RIGHT: Frank and Gabe Stevens. The Stevens
family are Frazer members who were commissioned by the church earlier this year to follow Gods call as full-time
orphan village directors through HAF in Haiti.
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MISSIONS
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MAKING
History
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The Artist
AND THE
Teacher
Jim and Ann Salminen Share a Journey With Christ Together
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BY SARA PRINCE | Jim and Ann Salminen compliment one another in many ways, including their
ways of following Jesus. One is a teacher; the other
an artist. For both, their walk with the Lord began
to take root when they were in high school. But it
would be many years before they each personally
gave their lives to the Lord and felt confident about
calling themselves Christian. As Ann puts it, We
thought we were Christiansuntil we became one.
The Teacher
Jim Salminen grew up in a church-going family in a small village of 350 people on Long Island,
New York. His father was a deacon in the American
Baptist Church (later called the Community Church),
the only one in the village. His mother was an
elementary school teacher and the Sunday school
superintendent. At just 15 years old, he took on the
role of a Sunday school teacher.
It happened this way: Jims mother had six boys
as studentsJims two brothers among themwhom
the other Sunday school teachers could not handle.
She decided to set up a class especially for these
boys and asked Jim if he would teach it for her. Jim
reminded her that he had never done that, but she
assured him that she would walk him through it.
So I started, Jim says, and, you know, those
kids behaved. They listened. I couldnt believe it. I
knew them all, and they knew me, and I guess the
fact that we were on an even playing fieldit just
worked. Thats how I got started.
Now mind you, Jim continues, I was not yet
a Christian. I knew about Christ, I knew about the
Bible, to cite from it, that sort of thing, but I did
not become a Christian until Ann and I had been
married for 11 years.
Ann became a Christian first, and I saw her miraculous changeshe was being treated at the time
for depressionactual, chronic depressionby psychiatrists and psychologists. And when she became
a Christian, God healed her. I saw a tremendous
change in her, so I became a seekervery quickly.
Jim had an unexpected day off and decided to
go fishing, but he found himself bored and restless.
So I started looking around in the Volkswagen
The Artist
When Ann was in the ninth grade, she joined
the First Christian Church, in her home town of
Selma, Alabama. I hate to say it, Ann admits, but
all I got was wet when I got baptized then, and
I did not grow into maturity as a Christian then.
I remember we were supposed to pick a verse,
she says, it would be our life verse that we could
use. I must admit that in the ninth grade, I didnt
have a lot of intense purpose looking for the right
scripture. But I took the Bible and it fell open to
Psalm 46. I read the first verse and it said, God
is my refuge and strength, a very present help in
trouble. And I said, Hmm, I think that sounds good;
Im going to adopt that one.
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BELOW: Jim and Ann Salminen with daughter Krista and son Scott in 1990. PHOTO CONTRIBUTED.
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Ann and I became Sunday school teachers almost every place we wentlittle kids, adults, high
schoolers, didnt make any difference, we did some
of each of that from that time on, Jim recalls. I
can remember our daughter Krista saying, Mom
and Dad, when will I get to go to Sunday school
and youre not going to be my teachers?
While stationed in England the Salminens led
a study for high school students and young airmen,
and some British friends as well. It was a family
affair. On a Friday night it wouldnt be unusual for
us to have 50 or 60 young people in our home, Jim
says. They filled up the living room, spilled over into
the dining room, sat up on the stairway. And our
daughter, who was in the sixth grade then, would
make two cakes every Thursday night for us to have
after the Bible study was over.
Jims wove his talent as a musician into his service to Christ as well. Having learned to play ukulele
and then guitar as a teenager, music had long been
a part of his life. Together with other musicians
and singers in that Friday night study in England,
Jim and Ann helped produce and performed in a
published Christian Musical called Come Together.
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BELOW: Jim serves communion to a Frazer member Ryan Colburn at a special worship service in 2006.
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Transformations
in Progress
Transformation Montgomery expands and deepens
through Getting Ahead program
BY CANDACE RUTHERFORD | To transform
means to change in form, appearance, nature or
character. It implies an ongoing process. Thus Transformation Montgomery, Frazers faith-based community development ministry, is aptly named as
it continues to transform the lives for participants,
volunteers and our city. Three years in the making,
many lives have been positively affected; houses
have been renovated in a previously depressed part
of the city; and the ministry keeps moving on inspiring others in its wake and making a big impact.
From the beginning, however, the vision behind
Transformation Montgomery was about more than
houses. Affordable home ownership is simply one
WHAT IS POVERTY?
Approximately 21.6% of people in Montgomery
live below the poverty level, according to recent
census information. If you ask most people to define poverty, they will describe in terms of a lack
of material things. But if you ask a person who is
experiencing true poverty, they are more likely to describe their condition in psychological terms such as
a feeling of shame, frustration or helplessness. According to the authors of When Helping Hurts, you
cant cure poverty by giving things to people. Their
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A GROWING IMPACT
mindset has to be
changed.
To address these issues, Frazer has created the
Getting Ahead workshop, under the leadership of
Peggy Spaeth. A unique program that offers support and friendship to people who want to create
a path out of poverty, the Getting Ahead Workshop
is free and open to everyone in the community. Getting Aheadis required for individuals entering the
Steps to Home Ownership, but it can be beneficial
to anyone whether or not you are interested in home
ownership at this time.
Getting Aheadis not about getting information,
it is about changing your thinking, says Peggy.
Poverty has a way of focusing our thinking on the
presentjust getting by from day to day. Faith starts
when we think about the futurehow we can get
ahead, not just get by.
FINDING ALLIES
Participants in Getting Ahead are paired with
volunteers called Allies for 16 weeks of meetings.
Allies arent there to tell people how to live their
lives, but to help them to identify and achieve goals
using support networks and various church resources. These goals can be financial, educational, job
related, strengthening of family and relationships,
and spiritual.
Jane Allen has been an ally to three women in
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Sophias Story
BY KEN ROACH | For Sophia and her 16-year-old
son, the worst part of finding themselves homeless
was that it was the second time around. Sophia had
worked her way out of poverty as a nurse in the
past, but lost her license due to poor life choices.
Without that income she found herself back in poverty. She remembers when she first told her son they
would have to leave their home, he climbed into a
bathtub and did not want to come out; although
only a boy, he blamed himself for not taking care
of his mother.
However, Sophia found a place to live at the
Valerys Story
In January of 2014, Valery was living in her car
with two young children. Six months later when we
sat down, she had a job, an apartment, and hope for
the future. What brought about her transformation
is a remarkable God story.
Valerie grew up in a dysfunctional family: a
mother with mental health challenges, a father who
liked crazy women, and grandparents who were
uninvolved. By the time she reached the 12th grade,
she had failed math twice. When she turned 18, she
dropped out of school. She married, and soon had
two children.
She was happy staying home, and focusing on
being a mother. Her husband Chris worked, but they
stayed close to poverty. Then a dishonest landlord
took advantage of them, taking money for a house
that turned out to be unlivable due to substandard
electrical wiring. They found themselves homeless,
having lost what little savings they had.
During that time, however, Chris had become a
believer through the ministry of Faith Rescue Mission.
He started reading the Bible to her in the evenings.
Because of the change she began to see in him,
Valery also turned to God. At first, I didnt feel
any different, she admits. However, she
soon became, as she puts it, addicted
to my Bible. She read it night and
day, especially Psalms and Proverbs,
color coding it with highlighters.
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Sheilas Story
Unlike other participants in the Getting Ahead
program, Sheila was not homeless or unemployed
when she came into the class. She had a small apartment, a good job, and a church that she loved. Some
might not have considered her to be in poverty.
But one of the themes of Getting Ahead is that
there are many kinds of poverty, and for Sheila, as
she sat in her small apartment feeling that the walls
were getting smaller and her spirit was shrinking,
she heard God tell her to get up and join this class.
It was a moment of faith for her to believe, God
wants me to go further.
Sheila has already accomplished a lot, having
raised four boys mostly on her own. However, the
pain of a divorce left her depressed for many years.
Both of her parents have passed away, and her
children live across the country on the West coast,
leaving her isolated. She has found a new family
in Frazer, attending the Women in Christ class on
Sundays as well as two worship services.
Through Getting Ahead, she began to recognize invisible forces keeping her from reaching
her potential, including predatory lenders and a
lack of healthy boundaries in her relationships with
relatives. After graduating from Getting Ahead she
moved on to Transformed, by Rick Warren, offered
by Frazer as a follow up study that delves more
into the spiritual aspect of getting out of poverty.
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MARRIAGE
A FAMILY TEAM
for Christ
Mike and Lisa Conn Thrive on
Sharing Gods Plan for the Family
BY KEN ROACH | When the Air Force moved Mike worship, but he was persistent. After six weeks,
and Lisa Conn to Montgomery, Alabama as a young they agreed to come. The first Sunday at Frazer,
couple in the late 1980s, nothing in their past had Mike describes feeling a tingle down my spine,
prepared them to have a strong marriage or a strong and he and Lisa said to each other, were home.
family. Lisas parents divorced when she was 16,
Lisa had been raised in the church, although
back in a time when that was still considered un- she does not recall her parents sharing much about
usual. Mikes father, who died of alcoholism many their faith with her. She accepted Christ at a church
years later, left home when Mike was just 5 years camp around age 12, but did not truly begin followold. Mike calls himself his fathers twin and be- ing Jesus at that time. He was my savior, but not
lieves he would have followed much the same path my Lord, she explains.
that his dad did had he been left to his own devices.
Mike likewise went to church with his mothWith shaky models to build on, and the pressures er and older brother every Sunday whether we
of military life, the first few years of marriage had wanted to or not, and was baptized at age 10, but
been difficult for the young couple. With both of it was not a meaningful experience for him. All I
our parents divorced, we vowed not to make divorce remember is seeing the chest waders the pastor
part of our vocabulary, Lisa says, but those were wore, and realizing that was how he didnt get wet.
hard times. We were not equipped.
God was distant for him.
All of that was about to change when a young
At Frazer, the preaching of pastor John Ed
captain invited the Conns to come and worship Mathison opened up a new appreciation for the
with him and his family at Frazer United Methodist relevance of the Bible. Mike remembers thinking,
Church. They turned him down, thinking they had this was written thousands of years ago, but it
already found a comfortable church home to attend actually applies to us today.
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level practical instruction in following Jesus, covenant marriage, and character-based parenting. However, the military has continued to be a key part of
their lives. Many of the couples who attend Family
Teams for Christ are officers and their spouses. Because of their non-denominational status, Covenant
Family Ministries is also able to provide marriage
and family training through the Maxwell base chapel. The result is that, as these couples move on
to other assignments around the world, the Conns
influence is literally being felt around the world. One
colonel assigned to Korea requested that Mike send
him curriculum so he could train others. Just as the
Conns created an Explorers West, now there will
be a Family Teams for Christ East!
The Conns have also been able to follow Jesus in reaching out to the nations through couples
mission trips to Brazil, Haiti and Cuba. Going on a
mission trip together can be an effective way for a
husband and wife to bond more closely with God
and with one another. Mike has also found mature
believers in the indigenous churches who are able
to take the biblical teaching he has developed and
put it to work to share Gods plan for families in
their own nation.
BELOW: Mike and Lisa with a Frazer mission team and local church members in Cuba. The Conns have discovered
that taking couples on a mission trip is not only a way to share the gospel around the world, it is also an excellent
way to build marriage oneness. PHOTO CONTRIBUTED.
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last year (2013) Aimee was preparing to go with her homework or finishing reading assignments, her
parents on a mission trip to Cuba. Not long before goal was just to pass the 9th grade. For all of the
they were to depart, Lisas father became ill. She family, the experience has pushed them to draw
was able to see him one last time before he died closer to God, to spend more time in prayer, crying
on September 11. A week later, Aimee had an ac- out to Him, and learning how to quietly trust in Him.
cident during a self-defense class that knocked her It forces you to your knees, says Lisa.
unconscious. She was rushed to the ER, but seven
Just as her parents turned the pain of dysscans revealed no serious problems. They thought functional families into a passion to minister to
things would be fine.
families, Aimees chronic pain is making her more
However, over the days that followed she de- sensitive to the hurts and needs of others. Her
veloped horrible headaches that caused her to miss struggles in school are a constant reminder that
two months of school. Those days forced Mike and we make the grade with God because of His
Lisa to their knees. These past months have been grace in Christ Jesus, not because of our own
the hardest in my life, says Lisa. Theres nothing efforts. In the midst of the trial, God has given
harder for a parent than seeing your child suffer their family these verses from Romans 5:3-5: we
and having no control over it and no way to make also boast in our sufferings, knowing that sufferit better. Doctors now speculate that Aimee expe- ing produces endurance, and endurance produces
rienced a minor traumatic brain injury that would character, and character produces hope, and hope
not have shown up on scans.
does not disappoint us, because Gods love has
Meanwhile, the straight-A student has had to been poured into our hearts through the Holy
adapt her expectations. With difficulty focusing on Spirit that has been given to us.
A FAMILY TEAM: Lisa, Aimee, and Mike Conn. PHOTO CONTRIBUTED.
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HOW TO BECOME A
Follower of Jesus
1. REPENT | To repent means to turn around, to change your thinking and your direction and
go the other way.1 The Bible teaches that every person has a Sin Naturea deeply ingrained
inner tendency to go our own way instead of following Gods way.2 When we follow our sin
nature, we violate our conscience and break Gods commands by not loving Him and not loving
our neighbor as ourself.3 The results are broken relationships, lack of peace, loss of purpose,
anger, worry, fear, frustration, and hopelessness. The ultimate consequence of sin is death.4
you can pray a prayer of repentance like this: God, I admit that I am a sinner and I deserve to die. I
have broken your commands. I have not loved you as I ought to, and not loved my neighbor as myself.
I repent of my sins. I turn from going my own way to go your way and obey you as Lord.
2. BELIEVE | The gospel (good news) of Jesus Christ is that we do not have to earn a relationship with God and pay for our sins by doing good deeds or religious rituals.5 Instead, God
Himself took the initiative to come to us, being born as a man, suffering on the cross and dying
in our place on the cross. He won the victory over sin and death by rising from the grave.6 God
promises a new spiritual birth to those who believe in Jesus, trusting Him by faith.7 This new
birth makes the believer a child of God, and begins a process of inner transformation8 that fills
us with His joy, peace, and love, and the hope of eternal life.9
you can pray a prayer of belief like this: God, I thank you that Your Son Jesus died and rose again the
third day. I trust in him alone to save me from my sins and give me your abundant, new, spirit-filled
life to transform me now, and to give me the hope of resurrection and eternal life.
3. COMMIT | The decision to follow Jesus begins with repentance and belief, but it is lived
out by a daily commitment to live according to the pattern of life and teaching Jesus showed
us.10 Some of the ways you can follow Jesus daily include:
become a member of a local church. The church is the Body of Christ,11 the living expression of
Jesus on earth. Joining a church means more than signing up for a human institution. It
means you are committed to building authentic relationships with other believers for worship,
growth, fellowship, and service together.
read and prayerfully reflect on the bible. God has revealed himself to us through the scriptures.12
The Holy Spirit uses the words of the Bible to give us understanding of who Jesus is and
how we can live like Him as we study it on our own and in community with other believers.13
serve others in humility. We enter into the experience of Jesus death and resurrection by dying
to ourselves and our selfish desires so we can discover the joy of giving and living for others.14
1 Mark 1:15 2 Rom. 3:23 3 Mark 12:29-31 4 Rom. 6:23 5 Tit. 3:4-7 6 I Cor. 15:3-6 7 John 1:12-13 8 2 Cor. 5:17 9 John
3:16 10 Luke 9:23 11 Eph. 5:29-30 12 Heb. 4:12 13 John 14:25-26 14 Mark 10:43-45
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New city?
New church!
Whether you are a military
family, job transfer, or just
new to the community, we
know change can be hard.
Finding a place of worship
can help. At Frazer we
welcome new faces. We
invite you to explore our
faith family, discover our
ministries for children,
students and adults, and
learn more about how
you can get connected at
frazerumc.org.
Frazer Church: find hope, Follow Jesus Sunday worship 8, 9:30 & 11AM
6000 atlanta Hwy. Montgomery frazerumc.org 334.272.8622