The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is a step-by step formula,

followed by a number of laws which govern its use for maximum

effect
!t is designed to provide a smooth escalation, containing no
significant "umps that may cause a woman to ob"ect #t the same
time, the DEL contains no extraneous steps which are non-
essential to the seduction process This results in a $#%T
escalation se&uence which is compatible with a variety of verbal
structures, and has been field tested and perfected by myself,
'incent DiCarlo, in hundreds of trials
(ithout further mar)eting, hype or other bullsh*t, ! present+ the
DiCarlo Escalation Ladder,
DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
1. Eye Contact and Initial Conversation
Eye contact is the first step !ts use shows social awareness and
always improves your chances of starting a conversation %tart
your conversational game shortly after eye contact
2. Incidental Class 1
The first class of incidental )ino involves the arms and hands
%ha)ing hands, tapping people on the shoulder and brushing
arms are all very common things that we do on a daily basis
Done in an incidental manner, ie occurring merely by chance or
without intention or calculation, it is extremely effective at
building initial comfort
!ncidental Class - Examples.
* /and sha)ing
* #rm brushing
* Light touching on her arm to emphasi0e your points
* #nchoring her arm near elbow to hold her close as you tal)
* %tanding next to her with your arm touching hers
* /igh $ives
* 1alm 2eading
3. Overt Class 1
There is an unmista)able recurring pattern throughout the DEL.
incidental )ino, followed by overt )ino 3vert means open to view
or )nowledge4 not concealed or secret (hile incidental )ino is
usually done in a context which mas)s your intention, overt )ino
is not The incidental )ino which precedes it creates the
familiarity necessary for the overt )ino to be accepted
3vert Class - Examples.
* /olding hands
* #rm in arm escorting
4. Incidental Class 2
Class 5 )ino involves any contact which ta)es place on her torso
or legs This is slightly more intimate than class -, but does not
include erogenous 0ones such as her breasts, crotch or inner
thighs Those areas are not paid any direct attention until the
escalation ramp - to be defined later
!ncidental Class 5 Examples.
* %tanding very close with your legs touching hers
* %itting close together with your legs touching hers
* Lightly and incidentally brushing her abdomen with your hands
while tal)ing
* 6riefly touching her bac) with your palm while spea)ing as if
you are pulling her in to hear you better
5. Overt Class 2
3vert class 5 )ino is usually done while sitting down !ts not
necessary, but definitely a smart place to ma)e the transition to
sitting down This class of )ino should be done in a protective,
almost romantic manner
3vert Class 5 Examples.
* $rontal /ugging 7done best as a positive reaction to her
compliance8
* Escorting her through the bar with your hand on her lower bac)
* %itting next to her and placing her leg over yours
* /olding her abdomen on the side while sitting down and tal)ing
* 1lacing her hand on your thigh
6. Incidental Class 3
/er hair, face and nec) are the regions included in class 9 :any
guys ma)e the common mista)e of touching these areas too
soon, with a girl they first met ;irls are surprisingly protective of
their hair, face and nec) placing these relatively high on the
ladder #nother common mista)e is that more experienced guys
will generally s)ip this step altogether, only to face last minute
resistance later on
!ncidental Class 9 Examples.
* 6rushing 7or pretending to brush8 something off of her face
* Tal)ing very closely with your face touching hers because the
environment is extremely loud
* Touching an interesting nec)ace shes wearing, meanwhile
allowing your fingers to lightly caress her nec)
* 1layfully pinching her chee)s
7. Overt Class 3
The manner in which )ino is delivered in overt class 9, is very
direct !t is meant to prepare her for )issing, and is done in a very
slow, gentle and romantic way :ost of the time you should be
sitting down, relaxed and maintaining a good sexual state and
strong eye contact
3vert Class 9 Examples.
* 1lacing her head to rest on your shoulder
* :oving your face into her nec) and smelling her
* Lightly stro)ing her face with your finger, close in, loo)ing into
her eyes
* 2unning your fingers through her hair, close in, loo)ing into her
eyes
* /olding her behind the nec) with your palm to the side of her
nec), loo)ing into her eyes
Escalation Ramp
(hile the above steps from --< may ta)e anywhere from 9=
minutes to -= hours, the escalation ramp is very rapid The
duration of the ramp should be about -= - 9= minutes %tart the
ramp very &uic)ly once you have complete isolation in a sex
location
8. Kissin
%tart )issing from a very close proximity Dont come diving in
lips first from three feet away !deally you should already be in a
suitable position for )issing before you try !f you have overt class
9 )ino ta)en care of, youre probably in the right spot
# techni&ue for building sexual tension - move closely in, slowly
as if you might )iss her, and then move away and start tal)ing
about something else This will build the tension and she will
wonder when youre going to actually )iss her
# techni&ue to initiate )issing - try placing your finger "ust
underneath her chin and pulling her mouth towards yours
>issing should be light and short at first ?ou should be the one
to pull away first Dont use too much tounge at first, "ust use it to
tease her, and build anticipation
!. Kissin "er #ec$
3nce you have )issed her for a bit, move down to her nec) >iss
it gently, while holding her close to you Depending on how rough
you want to set the mood, feel free to throw in some gentle biting
too
1%. &o'c(in t(e )are *$in o+ "er )ac$
3nce you have established )issing both on her mouth and nec),
move your hands to her waist and underneath her shirt Continue
to hold her close to you, now with your hands directly on her
bac)
11. *tomac( to *tomac(
@ow that you have established touching her s)in, below her shirt,
simply move your hand to the front, and lift her shirt, exposing
only her stomach #t the same time lift your shirt as well so that
your abdomen is in direct contact with hers
!t seems innocent, but will meanwhile trigger intense sexual
feelings inside of her The only time she feels contact li)e that is
usually when shes na)ed and having sex
12. Kissin (er )ody
/aving her shirt pulled up affords the opportunity of moving
downwards to )iss and caress the bare flesh of her abdomen
%tart )issing her there, along the sides, and move upwards
Touching and )issing the breasts is optional !t is not necessary,
and in some cases can be detrimental to your progress There
are some women who have a negative anchor to their breasts
!nch toward their breasts and feel her reaction !f she becomes
increasingly turned on, then go for it !f she starts to close down,
s)ip the breasts until you are already having sex
13. Incidentally *tim'late ,aina
(hile you are )issing her body, you can position yourself
between her legs and use your midsection to rub against her
vagina !f you are )issing her mouth you can position your thigh
to stimulate her vagina
?ou can also be )issing her body and reach between her legs
and plant your hand on the bed below her Then use your
forearm to stimulate her vagina The )ey here is that because
you arent using your hand or fingers, she has no basis for
ob"ection
14. -irect ,ainal *tim'lation +rom )e(ind .Inside /anties0
3nce you have really amped her up by incidentally rubbing her
vagina, move your hand around to the bac) and slip it inside her
panties and touch her na)ed ass
@ext, move your hand all the way down and reach her vagina
%tart first by touching the area around it Then proceed to finger
her from behind (omen never expect to have it happen this
way Trying to reach your hand down the front of her pants will
often be resisted, but from the rear is unexpected and effective
!f she is wearing a s)irt or dress, you will instead move your
hand up the bac) of her leg, and reach her vagina that way
$inger her and then proceed directly to step -A
15. -irect ,ainal *tim'lation in 1ront
;et her heated up by fingering her, and then when once she is
sufficiently turned on, undo the front of her pants with your other
hand
?ou can use the %ituationally 2elevant phrase B:y hand is being
crushedC as you do it, although its usually not necessary %ince
she is engaged by the fact that you are fingering her, she will
rarely ob"ect to your simultaneous undoing of her pants ?ou may
also have her undo her pants, by saying BDnbutton your pantsC
as you are fingering her
:oving to the front, youll be able to get more penetration with
your fingers, and get her to the point where she is practically
begging for sex Dse a firm Bcome-hitherC motion pulling forward
on the front vaginal wall and stimulating her g-spot
16. Remove "er /ants2 *e3
The idea is to get her so heated up by fingering her, that she
ma)es a commitment to sex, verbally or physically
There are a few ways to go about this $irstly, it is very important
that you dont stop fingering her before her pants are off Too
many times a guy will stop fingering her, and then try to ta)e off
her pants, only to get more resistance
(hile fingering her you can say BDo you want me inside youEC
(hich will usually get a B?esC response #t that point you say
B3), ta)e off your pantsC and continue to finger her until her
panties are off, and shes ready to go
#nother option is to s)ip the &uestion and directly tell her to ta)e
off her pants Dsually with your fingers busy at wor), she will be
more than compliant
#nother techni&ue is to as) her BDo you want me to get a
condomEC !n F=G of all girls you as) this, they will say B?esC @ot
because they are saying they want sex, but because they want
to appear safe and level headed ?ou will interpret this as the
permission to get a condom and have sex with her, and it will
most li)ely be met without opposition
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Additional Points
1. "i(er 4evels 5nloc$ 6ccess to 4o7er 4evels
The rungs of the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder may be treated
exactly the same as compliance levels The point is, any time
you reach a higher level through situational relevance, it unloc)s
the lower levels automatically
# good example of this is in a loud club or bar, you can reach in
and tal) directly into her ear, getting incidental class 9 )ino,
touching the side of your face to hers ?ou are spea)ing to her in
a way that is dictated by the situation, so it is accepted !f you
accomplish this without her resistance, all lower levels will
become unloc)ed
2. E3ec'tion o+ t(e Escalation Ramp
The escalation ramp, which consists of steps H--A is most
effectively executed in isolation in a sex location !t is not efficient
to start the ramp with the intention of finishing it at a later time
%tarting the ramp without finishing it will lead to an increase in
fla)ing and decrease a womans attraction toward you
This is because these sexual behaviors were formed thousands
of years ago when we were still living in caves The natural
instintual urges, combined with a lac) of )nowledge of modern-
day sexual conse&uences meant that escalation with a woman
would -==G of the time lead to sex
6y executing the ladder correctly, you are matching her genetic
sexual programming and giving it to her the exact way that she
wants it
!t is acceptable to do the first part of the ramp - )issing - outside
of a suitable sex location, but only if you plan on completing the
ramp later in that same meeting !ts not to say that )issing a girl
on a non-sex meet will destroy your chances, but it certainly
wont improve them >iss-closes may loo) impressive and feed
your ego, but arent technically optimum
3. Incidental ,s. Overt Kino
There is always a &uestion as to how to execute these different
pieces of )ino !n general, you should spend most of your time in
the incidental phase, getting her comfortable with contact in
those regions
This pattern of incidental followed by overt is almost li)e a Iedi
mind tric) Dse the incidental )ino in a very non-invasive, very
much under the radar manner, and her subconscious will
automatically accept the subse&uent overt )ino
%ince she accepts the overt )ino, it is through a process of
bac)wards rationali0ation that her attraction for you increases
The )ey is to ma)e the overt )ino extremely short Each overt
phase in the initial ladder should have a duration of J--=
seconds ?oure not going to be holding her hand in the club for J
minutes at a time while in class - >eep it short and sweet
4. 8ro'p 4adder &(eory
There is &uite a bit of evidence supporting the idea of a Bgroup
ladderC concept (ithin a tightly )nit group of girls who share a
Bcollective emotional stateC with each other, it is possible that
whatever step on the ladder you achieve with one girl can
transfer over very easily to the other girls in the group
!n a sense, each group of girls has a ladder, which represents
your escalation with that group !f you can comfortably touch and
hold a girl at a certain point in the ladder, it creates an implicit
trust of Bthis guy is coolC for the other girls in the group at that
same level >eep in mind, however, this does not include the
escalation ramp, although it has been observed to happen with
)issing &uite readily
5. -iCarlo Escalation 4adder as a *tandalone 9et(od
The DEL provides both a sufficient framewor) for escalation and
a linear step-by-step process such that it could be used as a
standalone method ?ou can use one of the many popular verbal
structures out there, but basic conversational s)ills will suffice,
given an elementary understanding of the ladder
There is an inherent value and attractiveness to a man who can
escalate in such an intelligent and socially aware manner, which
is why your verbal content does not matter very much when
using this method
The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder combined with enough
conversational s)ill to disengage her critical mind is a very
powerful, yet BnaturalC method
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