To bear children is very important element in creating a family and establishing better relationship

between husband and wife; but it is something which Awiyao and Lumnay will never achieve. It is a story
between two people belonging in one of the ethnic groups in the Philippines, the Ifugao. In order for us
to better understand the story, we must understand their law. It states "A couple who wish to divorce
due to infertility of either one of the partners is allowed by the law. A husband who divorces a wife
without any valid reason will have to leave all properties to the children and the wife, this is another
law." Though it was hard and painful, Awiyao wanted to have children so much that he divorced Lumnay
and remarried another Ifugao named Madulimay. In the old Filipino culture, when people have not
known anything about how fertility happens, a man questions another mans masculinity if he does not
have a child. In the case of Awiyao, though he feels that no one can replace Lumnay as the best wife, he
still feels the need to divorce her just for him to have children who will follow him in the fields in the
future. Lumnay asked why they should part if theyre love for each other is eternal. Why should they
separate if there really is nothing wrong in their personal relationship?

I nearly burst into tears while I was reading the story. Daguio had shown the readers the great love
Awiyao and Lumnay have for each other by heartbreaking lines they exchange while saying goodbye.
Daguio had written a great love story with a great sense of ethnicity. He really showed people how rich
culture Filipinos have.

In the story mentioned about Gangsas (gongs), which many ethnic groups in the Philippines play at a
time of celebration. Women together with other men should dance around the fire at the sound of
gongs while children sit and watch. The gangsas in the story is like a spirit calling Lumnay to take part in
his ex-husbands wedding. To her, hearing the gangsas is just like eating a poisoned apple, softly killing
her, and taking away her soul. However in the end, the gangsas made Lumnay want to go to the
wedding dance and question their law. She wanted to ask them why is it wrong to not bear children if
you are married. Could they not stay the same way? They love each other anyway.

I like how Daguio constructed the story. It is very local, very nationalistic, no stain of western culture at
all. If I were of another race, Ill surely be more amazed and curious while reading the story. The story is
very cultural from the way Awiyao opened the door and lit their fireplace up to the end where Lumnay
ran into the woods and sit with their crops. It also mentioned about beads, and farm tools: the only
worldly possession they have. Filipino life before was so simple yet so beautiful. If you would think about
it, people in the ethnic group have a very different but astonishing way of living their lives. Now, youth
could not live without computer as part of their school life; and gems, diamonds, and pearls are couples
symbols of love for each other. In the story, the simple necklace made from beads is the symbol of their
promise. See how simple they live in simplicity?

I needed to reread the last part because I was not able to understand it that much; but as I was reading
it for the second time, I realized what the growing bean pods mean. At the last paragraph of the story
states:
The stretching of the bean pods full length from the hearts of the wilting petals would go on.

In my opinion, Daguio meant that life still goes on. The hearts of the wilting petal symbolizes Lumnays
broken heart. It means that though her heart is broken today, still her life goes on and there will be a
new morning to face.
She would be holding the bean flowers, soft in texture, silken almost, but moist where the dew got into
them, silver to look at, silver on the light blue blooming whiteness, when the morning comes.

Her painful experiences from getting out of the desolate memories she had while reminiscing Awiyaos
love will eventually fade and will transform her to a beautiful bean pod.
Though there is a huge gap between ethnic filipino groups from modernized Filipinos, surely the readers
of the story could still relate a lot. Filipinos have great adoration of love stories relating to family crisis;
and though the Wedding Dance by Amador Daguio is a simple one, it deserves a vote of confidence,
for it stands up and shows the world how rich culture the Filipinos have.