Supernatural

The Quickest System To Meeting, Attracting And Seducing Women: Supernatural Seduction System
Supernatural Seduction System

- Volume I: Self Discovery
Testimonials
"Thanks Maurice Jackson, Your Own Wingman! I was so heartbroken when my last
girlfriend left me, but after reading the chapters outlined in your book I realied I
could do so much better ! and I did! The girl that I"m dating now is a #uality woman,
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one that dumped me, and I wouldn"t be able to ha&e been able to be with her had it
not been for directly applying the theory and teaching in your guide!
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and getting dumped, I started looking for books and I came across firstly your
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%ystem$ *fter reading the system, I realied that I was making all the mistakes that
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Supernatural Seduction System -
Volume I: Self Discovery
Table of Contents
Introduction..............................................................9
What Makes The Supernatural Seduction System Uniue!
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$hapter " % It Starts With &ou....................................'(
"." Working on &)U............................................... '*
".' Inner game.....................................................*'
".* +ooks and money don,t matter...........................*-
".# .estroy all negati/e sel0 talk, dou1t and sel0 limiting
1elie0s.................................................................. ##
$hapter ' 2 Step up and 1e the man you 3ere 1orn to 1e
.............................................................................#-
$hapter * 2 4o3 and 3here to meet girls.....................5#
$hapter # % What do 3omen desire in a man!..............6*
$hapter 5 % .on,t 1e like this guy .............................. -7
$hapter 6 % 4o3 to make her like you......................."(#
6." 4o3 to 1uild com0ort 3ith a 3oman!................."(7
6.' 4o3 to increase her attraction to you................"'*
6.'." Make her in/est in you................................."*(
6.* 4o3 to make her 0eel like you t3o ha/e rapport and
a deep connection................................................ "*9
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6.*." Treat her like your annoying little sister ........."##
$hapter 7 2 The approach........................................"#7
7." .isarming o1stacles........................................ "55
$hapter 7 2 8roup theory........................................."6"
7.' 4o3 to deal 3ith )T49: M9; and Their ;egati/ity
......................................................................... "7"
$hapter - 2 The meet up......................................... "79
-." Should you pay 0or her!.................................. "-6
$hapter 9 2 <lirting and =hysical 9scalation................"--
9." ;egging........................................................"-9
9.' .ou1le meaning 3ords.................................... "96
9.* 9scalating =hysically.......................................'(*
9.# The 1latant >oke style o0 0lirting........................'(6
9.5 Supernatural Seduction <lirting.........................'(-
9.6 The process o0 0lirting and se?ual escalation.......'"(
9.7 =ro1lems men su00er 3hen 0lirting.....................'"*
9.- 4o3 to talk dirty............................................'"6
$hapter "( 2 4o3 to talk to girls and con/ersational tips
............................................................................ ''"
"(." <lirtatious 1argaining.....................................'''
"(.' $on/ersational contri1ution............................''6
"(.* Questions /ersus statements..........................'**
"(.# <uture@=ast =ro>ections.................................. '*7
"(.5 Al3ays lead a con/ersation............................'*9
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"(.6 Should you compliment a 3oman!..................'#6
"(.7 What to do is she,s unhappy or sad.................'5"
"(."" 4o3 to 1reak do3n her resistance.................'56
"(."' Sho3ing anger to 3oman.............................'59
"(."* What i0 you really are angry! .......................'6#
$hapter "" 2 4o3 to tell i0 a girl likes you!.................'67
""." 4o3 to con0irm i0 a girl has 1een checking you out
......................................................................... '7'
"".' =assing a 3oman,s test ................................. '75
"".* .ealing 3ith re>ection....................................'-5
$hapter "' 2 4o3 to close the deal! .........................'9(
"'." Why men 0ail at closing .................................'9"
"'.' 8eneral tips 3hen closing..............................*(*
$hapter "* 2 Seduction routines ..............................*(6
"*." )peners......................................................*(7
"*.' Auilding com0ort routines...............................*(9
"*.* What do you do!..........................................*'(
"*.# 4o3 to handle shit tests 0rom a 3oman...........*'"
"*.5 Testing her interest in you..............................*''
"*.6 8etting her num1er...................................... *'5
"*.7 Biss close routines........................................*'6
"*.- When she asks C.o you ha/e a girl0riendD........*'7
"'.9 :e>ection sa/ers...........................................***
"*."( 4o3 to get her 1ack to your room 0or the
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seduction close.................................................... **#
"*. "" =hone@Te?ting@$hat routines........................**6
$hapter "# 2 +ast Minute :esistance..........................*#(
"#." Why do 3omen put up +ast Minute :esistance!.*#"
"#.' 4o3 to pre/ent +ast Minute :esistance............*#*
"#.* )/ercoming +ast Minute :esistance to &our
Ad/ances............................................................ *#7
"#.# )/ercoming +ast Minute :esistance Techniues.*5(
"#.5 +ast Minute :esistance Es ;o, means ;o..........*5#
$hapter "5 2 9scaping the C<riends FoneD..................*56
"5." Steps to get out o0 the 0riends Gone.................*6"
$hapter "6 2 Aehind e/ery great man is a great 3oman
............................................................................ *7(
4ighly :ecommend :eading.....................................*77
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Introduction
Are you sick o0 3atching the 3omen you are interested in
3alk a3ay 0rom you!
Are you tired o0 1eing totally helpless around the 3omen
you are attracted to and not kno3ing 3hat to say!
.o you really 3ant to 1e a1le to 1e Cthat
guyD 3ho gets all the 3omen!
Well, my dear 0riend, I kno3 9HA$T+&
ho3 you 0eel.
We ha/e all 1een there at one stage.
&ou kno3 that 0eelingI
I3here you,re 1y yoursel0I
I replaying the moments o0 re>ection like a 1roken record
in your o3n mindI
Iand 3atching yoursel0 0ail o/er and o/er and o/er again.
It,s depressing.
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It,s heart 1reaking.
And you kno3 3hat!
It hurts to kno3 that you could ha/e done things
di00erentlyI
&ou kno3 in your o3n mind that you should ha/e said
somethingI
I1ut didn,t.
And i0 that 3asn,t 1ad enoughI.
This starts to happenI
Iall the C3hat i0D uestions start popping into your mindI
CWhat i0 I told her ho3 I 0eltID
CWhat i0 I told her earlierI.D
CWhat i0 I didn,t tell her 0riendsID
The uestions >ust ne/er end and the 3hole 3orld seems
to re/ol/e around the 0act that you 0ailedI
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I 1ecause you >ust let the girl o0 your dreams slip right
through your 0ingersI
Seriously, 1uddy.
I am your o3n 3ingman, and I kno3 e?actly that 0eelingI
I the 0eeling you get, 3here you ha/e hit rock 1ottom and
you,re at that stage 3here you realiGe that your li0e should
not 1e like this.
&ou kno3 deep do3n inside that you deser/e much 1etter
and you shouldn,t 1e ha/ing such a se/ere hang up o/er a
girl 3ho doesn,t 0eel the same 3ay you do.
+ogic tells you that you should >ust mo/e on.
Aut your emotions tell you other3iseI
CMay1e I do ha/e a chanceDI
CMay1e there is hopeDI
CMay1e I can get her 1ackDI
WellI
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My 0riend, the good ne3s is % yes, you can get that girl
1ack.
In 0act, I 3ill teach 3hat e?actly you need to do, to not
>ust get T4AT girl, 1ut A;& girl you desire.
Aut the 1ad ne3s isI you ha/e to take time to read and
applied the principles gi/en in this system.
In 0act, once you understand the system in/ol/ed to
1ecoming a Supernatural Seducer you can get pretty
much any 3oman you desire.
Aut 1y that time, I,m sure you 3ouldn,t 3ant to get the
girl that re>ected you. &ou 3ould 1e ha/ing so much more
success 3ith hotter and more desira1le 3omen. I dare
say, that in time you,ll look 1ack and laugh at yoursel0
that you 3ere once so useless around 3omen.
)nce you master the Supernatural Seduction System, you
3ill 1e the guy that e00ortlessly attracts and dra3s 3omen
closer to you. &ou,ll 1e put in situations 3here you ha/e to
acti/ely put yoursel0 in positions 3here you 3ill ;)T meet
ne3 3omen % other3ise you,ll get yoursel0 in trou1le
1ecause o0 your popularity other 3omen in general.
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This may sound like a 0antasy to you at the moment.
It may sound too 0ar20etched to 1e real.
&ou might e/en 1e thinking that I am >ust telling you lies
and com0orting 3ords to make you 0eel 1etter.
Aut I guarantee you, and you can hold me to my 3ord.
)nce you 0inish reading the Supernatural Seduction
System and the A==+& the concepts taught, you 3ill 1e an
entirely ne3 man.
&ou,ll lea/e that man that 3as impotent around 3omen
and e/ol/e into one o0 the coolest guys to hang around.
&ou,ll ha/e an aura that simply pulls attracti/e 3omen
closer to you.
&ou,ll 1e the one that decides 3hether or not you 3ant to
date this girl.
&ou,ll 1e the one to decide ho3 many 3omen you 3ant in
your li0e.
&ou,ll 1e the one to decide 3hat kind o0 3omen you like.
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&ou,ll 1e in the dri/ers seat.
&ou 3ill ha/e the po3er to decide.
What Makes The Supernatural
Seduction System Unique?
So you may 1e thinking, 3hy is the Supernatural
Seduction System di00erent than all the other dating 1ooks
out there!
What makes it di00erent to the
Mystery Method, .ou1le &our
.ating the teachings o0 :eal
Social .ynamics and all the
other dating methods out there!
Well 0irst and 0oremost.
Unlike most o0 the other pickup and dating guides 3ho
gi/e you general theory and ad/ice. The Supernatural
Seduction System pro/ides a systematic 0rame3ork 0or
3hich to 1uild your dating and relationship skills.
It pro/ides detailed e?amples and the actual 3ords to say
0or you i0 you don,t kno3 ho3 to implement the general
theory into practice.
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So instead o0 generic tips and in0ormation that reuire you
to pull your hair out to understand the application, this
system gi/es you e?actly 3hat you need to do or the
3ords to say so you 3ill come across as a smooth
$asano/a.
It is also a tested system that is pro/en to gi/e you the
results that you seek as the routines ha/e 1een 0ield
tested % unlike many o0 the other methods out there that
>ust sound cool, 1ut ha/e ne/er 3ork in real li0e.
Secondly, and most importantly, the Supernatural
Seduction System stands out 0rom the rest o0 the other
dating products 1ecause it is the only system that
incorporates your mind, 1ody and soul in unison to 1ring
a1out a rapid e/olution inside you to 1ecome a man that
3ill e00ortless and magnetically pull 3omen to3ards him.
So 3hat do I mean 1y this!
Mind Connection The great 9arl ;ightingale
3as uoted in his 0amous speech, The Strangest
Secret that people 1ecome 3hat they think
a1out. Whether you like to 1elie/e it or not, it,s
a 3ell kno3n and documented 0act that the
most success0ul people en/isioned their success
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in their o3n minds long 1e0ore attaining it.
The Supernatural Seduction system 3ill teach and
train your mentality in e/ery aspect. A0ter learning
the secret o0 the 0emale code, you 3ill kno3 e?actly
3hat to say at e/ery moment in time so that you,ll
1e 0eeling as i0 your mind and the 3omen you are
seducing are as one. In 0act, you,ll 1e so in tune 3ith
3omen and the 3ay they think you 3ould 1e a1le to
3rite their intimate and personal diary entries 0or
them % 1ecause you 3ill 1e a1le to 0igure them out
and read them like a 1ook.
Body connection % +et,s 0ace it, as men
3hene/er 3e see an attracti/e 3omen 3e
instantly ha/e a 1odily reaction to3ards her. It
could either 1e in the 0orm o0 3anting to look at
her a 0e3 more seconds or it could 1e simply
the urge to 3ant to go up and ha/e a
con/ersation 3ith her.
A0ter completing and understanding the concepts and
1ecoming a supernatural seducer you 3ill 1e the guy
that 3ill 1e a1le to not only connect 3ith 3omen
mentally, 1ut also you,ll ha/e the a1ility and capacity
to 0ollo3 through 3ith your physical 3ants.
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&es, I am saying you,ll 1e a1le to seduce nearly
e/ery 3oman you 3ant and 1e a1le to connect 3ith
her 1ody and engage in passionate se?. ;o longer
3ill you 1e lost 0or 3ords not kno3ing 3hat to say,
1ut rather your pro1lem 3ould 1e ho3 are you going
to re>ect her politely 3ithout hurting her % so she,ll
gi/e you more time 0or you to spend 3ith other
3omenJ
The other aspect a1out the 1ody connection is the
importance o0 prioritiGing yoursel0 as num1er one. As
a supernatural seducer you 3ill come to the
understanding to de/elop and e/ol/e into a man that
is naturally desira1le to the 3omen that you seek.
This may entail some changes in your 1ody.
Whether it is you making a commitment to impro/e
on your health or perhaps make a change on your
3ardro1e 0or a 1etter you. The 0ocus 3ould no longer
1e on 3hat the 3oman 3ants. Aut instead, it 3ould
shi0t to 3hat &)U as a man 3ant and 3hat the
3omen you desire can gi/e you to compliment you.
Soul connection As humans 3e are al3ays
longing 0or the need and touch to socialiGe 3ith
another person. Throughout history and
di00erent cultures there has al3ays 1een the
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concept and notion o0 0inding that one special
soul mate. The one person 0or you that no one
else in the 3orld can replace. Whether this is
true or 0alse, there is no proo0. 4o3e/er, 3hat I
can guarantee to you is this.
&ou 3ill 1e a1le to let the 3oman that you engage in
0eel as i0 you 3ere her soul mate.
&ou 3ill ha/e the po3er to gi/e the 3oman you are
3ith the emotional connection so deep and
meaning0ul that to her, there can 1e no other
e?planation 1ut 0or the 0act that perhaps you are in
0act her soul mate.
A0ter 1ecoming a supernatural seducer and 0ollo3ing
the Super ;atural Seduction system, then you 3ill
ha/e the 0inal say in your relationships and you can
1e the one in control.
In 0act, chances are that there are 3ill 1e so many
other 3omen 3ho also see you as their soul mate,
1ecause you 3ould 1e the only one that 3ould 1e
a1le to understand them on a 3hole ne3 le/el that
no other man has 1een a1le to achie/e.
I hope you are e?cited at the potential 0ollo3ing this
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system 3ill do 0or you. So I strongly urge that you do not
only read the contents o0 this guide 1ut also spend the
time in applying the concepts taught here and re0ine it so
you 3ill 1ecome a master0ul seducer.
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Chapter 1 It Starts With You
The 0irst and most important thing you need to
understand to 1egin your trans0ormation is this.
&ou are in "((K total control o0 the situation you are in.
I kno3 that a lot o0 people,
especially encouraged 1y our
modern day society that Cit,s not
your 0aultD i0 things don,t go your
3ay. )r Cthings >ust are out o0
your controlD and that there,s
nothing you can do to change
your situation.
I am telling you this.
I0 you do nothing to your current
situation and do not make a
conscious e00ort to change 3here you are right no3 then
you 3ill not 1e a1le to impro/e upon anything % especially
in relation to getting to succeeding 3ith 3omen.
&ou are in "((K total control o0 your li0e.
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In 0act you MUST take control o0 it right no3.
&ou ha/e taken the 0irst steps o0 changing the situation
you,re in, 1ecause you ha/e purchased this system in a
positi/e action to make sure you impro/e on an area o0
li0e 3here you are lacking.
Ay taking that simple act, you ha/e done much more than
most men 3ould do already.
&ou 3ere a1le to man up and ackno3ledge that there,s a
pro1lem you need to 0i?.
&ou 3ent online to 0ind a solution to it.
Which e/entually led you to this system.
;o3 you must 0ollo3 the system.
It is imperati/e that you 0ollo3 the contents to change
your li0e, slo3ly.
It may take some time 1ut e/entually you,ll look 1ack at
yoursel0 and smile to the 3oman lying ne?t to you % a0ter
you made lo/e to her and tell her Cdid you kno3, I used to
1e super shy around 3omenD and she,d laugh and punch
you so0tly on the arm and tell you she doesn,t 1elie/e you.
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This might sound like a 0ar a3ay dream, 1ut that,s 3here I
came 0rom and I kno3 that 3ithin a 0e3 months or
perhaps 3eeks o0 0ollo3ing this system you too 3ill 1e
a1le to turn things around.
Aecause i0 you don,t change anything no3.
;o one 3ill change it 0or you.
:ead that again.
;o one else in this 3orld cares a1out you moreI
;o one else in this 3orld can help you moreI
And no one else in this 3orld can li/e your li0eI
Aut you.
9/erything is up to you.
So you must make a conscious decision to learn the
teachings in this 1ook 1ecause i0 you don,t.
;o one else 3ill.
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So enough o0 me talking ram1lingI
+et,s start 3ith 3hat you need to start doing no3.
The 0irst step to impro/ing yoursel0 is understanding ho3
you are percei/ed 1y others.
4a/e you e/er thought a1out this!
What do other people think o0 you 3hen they take a look
at you or meet you 0or the 0irst time!
&ou also do this on a su1conscious le/el to other people
1ut perhaps you ne/er noticed itI
4ere is a list o0 things that you,ll notice in others, and
others 3ill also notice in you.
These are the things that 3e need to start 3orking on
right no3.
1.1 Working on !"
Body #$ngu$ge % did you kno3 that 7(K o0
human communication is not through the 3ords
that you say, 1ut rather ho3 you present
yoursel0 3hen you say it! That is 3hy 1ody
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language is such a crucial 0actor 3hen you are
meeting people.
4ere are some o0 the most common types o0 poor 1ody
language that people display that demonstrates to
others that they are 0eeling uncom0orta1le, ner/ous or
simply not sure o0 themsel/es.
I0 you see any o0 these, then please
make a conscious e00ort to correct it
yoursel0 so that you do not gi/e the
3omen you meet the 3rong impression.
Since most o0 the time you only get one
shot at creating a good 0irst impression.
". #$ck o% eye cont$ct & <orce
yoursel0 to look others in the eye
3hen greeting, talking, and
especially 3hen listening. It takes some skill, so
learn 0rom others 3ho do it 3ell. Lust make sure
you don,t end up staring at her.
'. S'e$king not cle$rly or too (o%tly 2 .o not
mum1le 3hen you talk. That is an unconscious
need to a/oid 1eing heard. .o speak up loudly and
3ith con0idence in 3hat you ha/e to say.
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*. )*itc+ing your ,ody *+en not re-uired &
A/oid e?traneous 1ody mo/ements that do not
positi/ely support 3hat you are saying. <inger
drumming, scratching, t3itching, and darting eyes
around the room all discredit 3hat you are saying.
#. .ot (t$nding t$ll $nd co/%ort$,ly 2 .o stand
tall and proud to 1e you and 1elie/e in 3hat you
are saying. Ae com0orta1le 3ith yoursel0 in the
presence o0 others.
5. 0iding your +$nd( *+en t$lking 2 9/asi/e
people 3ith secrets donMt sho3 their hands.
Whereas 3omen sho3 their so0t 3rist underside to
0lirt. I0 you,re the type o0 guy 3ho likes to put your
hands 1ehind your 1ack or pocket, make sure you
get them out and start using them to help you
e?press 3hat you say.
6. Clo(ed ,ody 'o(ture(1 like $r/( %olded $cro((
c+e(t & Beep your posture open, e?cept your legs.
$rossed at the knee or ankle is 0ine, 1ut this
depends a lot on the culture. <or e?ample, in
Thailand donMt cross your legs and point your toes
at anyoneJ Aut 0or most Western societies, this
should 1e 0ine.
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7. "nnece(($rily touc+ing your %$ce & A/oid
touching your o3n 0ace 3hen e?cessi/ely 3hen
speaking. :u11ing nose, eyes, ears, head, or neck
sho3s dou1t in 3hat you are saying or hearing.
-. 0$2e nor/$l %$ci$l e3're((ion( & A/oid an
un1linking stare and the same 0acial e?pression.
Alink normally and nod your head to sho3
agreement, and that you are still ali/e and not
1ored to death.
4er(on$l 5roo/ing the great thing a1out
1eing a man is that 3omen are less >udgmental
a1out your natural 1orn looks than 3e are in
relation to theirs. I0 a 3oman is unattracti/e,
then no matter ho3 se?y she dresses, 3e,ll >ust
re0er to her as Cthe ugly chick in a mini skirtD
and her attire or grooming does not increase
her o/erall se?ual desira1leness 1y much.
The 0act o0 the matter is, you still 3ouldn,t really 3ant
to sleep 3ith that Cthe ugly chick in a mini skirtD unless
either you 3ere really drunk and@or your 0riends 3ould
ne/er kno3 a1out it.
4o3e/er 0or men, i0 you 3ere not 1lessed genetically,
or you li/e a less healthy li0estyle and are o/er3eight,
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there are a 0e3 1asic things that you can do to increase
your o/erall se?ual attracti/eness to 3omen 1y a long
shot.
This means that 3omen 3ould 3illingly sleep 3ith you
as long as you keep some 1asic personal grooming
notes in your mind % and she 3ouldn,t need to 1e drunk
or em1arrassed to tell her 0riends a1out it eitherJ
To make things simple, here are the most common
things you need to keep in mind in relation to personal
grooming:
". S+$2ing % some men look good clean2sha/en.
Some do not. &ou should 0igure out 3hich one you
are and then keep your 1eard or 0acial hair in good
condition. .o not look scru00y or ha/e unsightly
hair dangling around your 0ace. Some 3omen are
/ery particular a1out 0acial hair and you should 1e
too.
<acial hair is an important 0actor to consider it can
either make you look more 0riendly or less
approacha1le. 8enerally speaking, the more hair
you ha/e on your 0ace the harder it is 0or 3omen
to 0eel com0orta1le around you 2 unless o0 course
you,re one o0 those grand 0ather 0igures 3ho ha/e
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a long 3iGard like 1eard. )ther3ise, ha/ing 0acial
hair on most men make them seem more
aggressi/e looking.
I kno3 this may sound 1asic, 1ut I cannot mention
the num1er o0 times I see a guy 3alking around
3ithout tidying up his 0acial hair. I0 you are going
to go 0or the Cone day unsha/en lookD, make sure
that it suits your 0ace other3ise you,re >ust
reducing your chances o0 attracting people in
general and not >ust 3omen.
'. 0$ir % The 1ene0it a1out 1eing a man is that you
do not need to do much to your hair to make
yoursel0 look "( times more appealing than most
3omen 3ith a lot o0 makeup.
I personally pre0er shorter hair and put 3a? in my
hair to make it look spikey. This look really suits
my 0ace and my style. I look horri1le 3ith long
hair and I am not nearly as attracti/e 3ith /ery
short stu11ly hair.
&ou ha/e to 0igure out 3hat kind o0 hairstyle suits
you, then stick to it.
I0 in dou1t, most 3omen pre0er men 3ith shorter
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hair. I also recommend 95K o0 men I meet to cut
their hair shorter. The simple reason is this, it
makes it easier to keep and you 3ill look younger
and more energetic.
*. Clot+ing % I kno3 that there is a lot o0 de1ate
a1out 3hat kind o0 clothes you should 3ear. Some
gurus say you ha/e to 3ear something outrageous
to help you get the attention o0 the 3omen you
3ant, others say you need a special gadget on
your clothing to help you in your openers.
My take on this is simple. <igure out the type o0
3omen that &)U 3ant to attract and dress
accordingly.
Mystery, the 0amous =ickup Artist dresses like he
is a rockstar and 3ears 3eird clothing compared to
the rest o0 us 1ecause he 3ants to target girls 3ho
are interested in that sort o0 identity.
I0 you 3ant sophisticated and elegant 3omen,
then perhaps the clothing you should 3ear should
match your target market. I0 you are into hip hop
dancing and like girls 3ho 3ear 1aggy clothes,
then you need to 3ear clothing to suit that.
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My point is you need to decide 3hat &)U 3ant as
a man and then dress accordingly.
Aut make sure 3hate/er you do decide to 3ear
does con0irm 3ith the o/erall theme o0 your dress
code.
I0 in dou1t, go 3ith simple colors.
.ark grey or 1lack suits most guys i0 it is matched
3ith 3hite and 1lue.
.o not go 0or anything too 0ancy like light green or
light yello3, unless you are certain that you,ll 1e
a1le to pull it o00.
#. S+oe( % The type o0 clothing you 3ear should
dictate the type o0 shoes you 3ear. Make sure that
the shoes you ha/e do match 3ith the clothing you
are 3earing. <or e?ample, you 3ould look silly i0
you 3ere dressed up in a 1usiness suit 1ut
3earing slippers.
Alternati/ely it 3ould eually look unsightly i0 you
3ere 3earing 1oard shorts 3ith a pair o0 dark
dress shoes.
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5. Scent % A lot o0 men neglect this, 1ut did you
kno3 that your scent alone can get a 3omen
interested in you!
Make sure you take good care o0 yoursel0 in terms
o0 taking daily sho3ers and i0 you do ha/e a
pro1lem 3ith 1ody odor, then it is /ital you take
care o0 it.
I kno3 many guys 3ho
think it,s >ust CmanlyD to
3alk around smelling like
they ha/e >ust 1een to the
gym 3hen they 3ant to
meet ne3 3omen.
Aut let me ask you this. 4a/e you e/er met a
3oman that smelt 1ad! I0 you did then I
guarantee you 3ould not 3ant to 1e in the same
1ed as her. Women 0eel the same 3ay a1out men
3ho smell 1ad as 3ell.
6. 0ygiene % you do not need to pay too much
attention to this aspect as 3e 3ere 1lessed as
men. What I mean 1y that is 3e do not need to
sha/e our legs, or armpits and make our entire
1ody itsel0 look appealing.
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Instead, 3hat 3e need to do is >ust take daily
sho3ers, make sure our nails are 3ell kept, make
sure 3e 1rush our teeth and make sure o/erall 3e
do not look like 3e are homeless.
&es, this is 1asic I kno3, 1ut there are still plenty
o0 guys 3alking around 3ondering 3hy they are
not getting 3omen 3hen they look as i0 they
cannot 0ind a house to li/e in to keep themsel/es
clean.
1.2 6nner g$/e
It,s 0unny 3hen most people learn a1out seduction and
dating they are al3ays 3anting to kno3 3hat,s the coolest
line or 3hat should they do or say in order to get the girl.
I must admit, I 3as like that also.
4o3e/er, a0ter 1eing in the seduction game 0or a 3hile
you come to a realiGation.
;o matter 3hat routine you ha/e, no matter 3hat line you
use, no matter ho3 good you are 3ith memoriGing games,
you 3ill not ha/e succeeded 1ut 0or inner game and
con0idence.
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The reason 0or this is 1ecause the inner game is the
personality and con0idence in yoursel0 that you are a1le to
con/ey to 3omen. It is through this they see the Creal
youD. The routines and lines only help to illustrate 3hat
type o0 man you are. There are situations 3here you can
say the right thing at the right time, 1ut you still do not
get the results that you seek.
Why is that the case!
It is 1ecause you did not ha/e the capacity 1oth mentally,
emotionally and the internal /alidation 3ithin yoursel0 to
1ack up 3hat you said.
Ae0ore I e?plain 0urther, I need to clari0y 3hat is inner
game.
Inner game is essentially ho3 you percei/e yoursel0. It is
the 3ay you think to yoursel0. It is the 3ay you talk to
yoursel0. It is 3hat you see yoursel0 as. The re0lection o0
your inner game is 3hat you pro>ect into the 3orld and
into others.
A truly con0ident person 3alks out the door 3ithout a care
in the 3orld 3ith a s3agger, 1ecause he kno3s himsel0
that he is the man. :egardless o0 3hat other people might
think, say or act, he doesn,t let their thoughts inter0ere
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3ith ho3 he thinks o0 himsel0.
That is a truly con0ident person.
Some may say that he 3ould 1e delusional.
Aut I 3ould argue it is much 1etter to 1e delusionally
con0ident than ha/ing no con0idence at all.
&our con0idence and personality that you demonstrate to
others is simply a mirror o0 ho3 you see yoursel0.
This e?plains 3hy the truly con0ident guys out there do
not need any routines or lines and can say the most
lamest and dum1est things and still end up seducing the
3omen they 3ant. That is 3hy so many 3omen >ust say
C1e yoursel0D and you can attract 3omen.
It is 1ecause there are guys like this around.
I 3as not 1orn like that.
;either 3ere you.
Aut the good thing is this is a personally trait that can 1e
moulded and 1uilt upon.
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4ere are some o0 the elements o0 a con0ident personality
that is attracti/e to 3omen and comes 3ith a solid
grounding o0 good inner game:
". 73tre/e o'ti/i(/ e/eryone likes 1eing around a
person 3ho is optimistic and happy. The /i1es o0 people
can 1e 0elt and transmuted among indi/iduals. That,s
3hy i0 you 3alk into a room a0ter someone has >ust had
a huge 0ight, you don,t need to say anything, you can
>ust 0eel the tension in the air.
The same goes 3ith positi/ity and optimism. I0 you are
an optimistic indi/idual, you,ll not only 1e liked 1y
others, 1ut you 3ill make others actually more happy
1ecause you 3ill 1e a1le to trans0er your Cgood /i1esD
to them. This is a trait o0 solid inner game 1ecause you
3ill 1e a1le to the a00ect the emotions o0 others and not
1e a00ected in turn.
'. 73tre/e ,elie% in ,eing $,le to +$ndle $ny
c+$llenge 4a/e you e/er noticed 3hat makes the
great people in history great! Take a look 1ack at the
empires o0 the past and the cities o0 the present. The
people that appear in your mind as 1eing 3orthy o0
mentioning such as the likes o0 Ale?ander the 8reat,
Lulius $aesar or in more modern time 4enry <ord or the
Wright 1rothers.
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What did they do to set themsel/es apart 0rom the rest
o0 the people around their time 2 so much so that their
names 3ould 1e mentioned in the history 1ooks 0or
thousands o0 years to come!
They simply had an e?treme 1elie0 that no matter 3hat
happened to them, they could deal 3ith any challenge
presented and then push on 0or3ard 3ith their plan.
They 3ere trail 1laGers 3ho created a legacy and did
not 0ollo3 in the paths o0 others.
;o3, 3hat I am not saying is that you need to 1e a
historical 0igure to seduce 3omen, 1ut 3hat you do
need to ha/e is a Cgo getterD attitude and ha/e the
1elie0 that no matter 3hat you encounter you 3ill 1e
a1le to deal 3ith it, handle it and then manage it like
the man that you are.
This type o0 independence in your personality is not
only attracti/e to 3omen, it is also /ital 0or the success
in your o3n personal li/es. That is 3hy it is one o0 the
most important attri1utes that you can posses. It is
3hat separates 1oys 0rom men and 3hat makes you a
Supernatural Seducer. It 3ill make you stand out 0rom
the cro3d.
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What you need to do is al3ays look 0or an ans3er to
C3hy notD. Instead o0 1eing like most people 3ho 0ind
reasons to >usti0y 3hy they should 0ail, 1e the person
3ho 3ants to disco/er ho3 to make things happen and
not look 0or more e?cuses to hide your o3n
inadeuacies.
)nly real mature men ha/e the 1ra/ery and con0idence
and 3ill po3er to go through 3ith a trial and tri1ulation
3hen the others ha/e >ust all 1ut gi/en up.
*. 5re$t (en(e o% +u/or % The last element that makes
an e?tremely con0ident personality and attracti/e
persona is the a1ility to ha/e a lot o0 0un. That,s 3hy
3omen lo/e Lames Aond. 4e not only does the dirty
3ork 3ell, he has a lot o0 0un doing it at the same timeJ
;othing speaks more a1out con0idence than 1eing in a
1ad situation, handling it 3ell and then 3alking a3ay
0rom the e?perience 3ith a cool smile on you 0ace 3hilst
1eing a1le to tell a 0unny >oke at the same time.
That is 3hy it,s so imperati/e that you go out o0 your
3ay and 1ecome a less serious person. I kno3 a lot o0
guys 3ould succeed so much more 3ith 3omen i0 they
3ere less serious a1out things in general.
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As a rule o0 thum1, you should al3ays ha/e a great
sense o0 humor and not take anything too serious
unless it is a matter that in/ol/es conseuences that
3ould 1e hard to remedy.
)ther3ise you should make it a ha1it o0 yours to make
>okes a1out anything and e/erything and lighten up the
attitude around you. This 3ill make you much more
care0ree and 1e seen as a much more happy go lucky
type o0 guy % 3hich is /ery attracti/e to 3omen.
1.3 #ook( $nd /oney don8t /$tter
;o3 one o0 the 1iggest myths in the dating 3orld that 3e
encounter is the notion that looks and money and 0lashy
cars get you 3omen.
In 0act, there are some guys 3ho
think that the 1asic prereuisite
to ha/e 3omen in their li/es start
o00 3ith ha/ing a AMW in his
garage and possessing head
turning looks.
I am going to tell you that is not the case at all.
)nly your inner game and your personality are a1le to get
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you 3omen that you desire.
;o3 don,t get me 3rong, ha/ing looks ad money do not
tarnish your a1ility to get 3ith girls, 1ut they are not
9SS9;TIA+.
A lot o0 guys ha/e no sel02con0idence in themsel/es in
general, so they attri1ute their lack o0 success 3ith the
notion that they are not rich enough or not attracti/e
enough to get 3omen.
Most o0 the time this is >ust another e?cuse to make
themsel/es 0eel 1etter and to com0ort themsel/es in order
to >usti0y their 0ailures.
4a/ing great looks and material 3ealth doe( 1ene0it you
in certain 3ays. <or e?ample, 3omen might take a little
longer to shoot you do3n a0ter an approach or they might
stay and chat 3ith you a little 3hile longer 1e0ore 3alking
a3ay and re>ecting you.
What looks and money do 0or you is simply create another
opportunity 0or you to use.
Aut, i0 you don,t ha/e inner game and the personality, no
matter ho3 many opportunities open up to you, you,re
still going to 1e going home alone.
I ha/e spoken to many girls 3ho 3ould tell me Coh I 3as
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interested in that guy 1ecause he 3as so cuteD then I
asked C3ell, 3hat 3ent 3rong!D she responded, Cuntil he
started talkingID.
This is one o0 the 1iggest distinctions 1et3een ho3 men
and 3omen think.
A guy 3ill 3illingly >ump into 1ed 3ith a 3oman 1ased on
her physical traits.
A 3oman 3ill not do this.
;o matter ho3 good looking or rich you are, you,re >ust
going to get a little more lee3ay in your interactions 3ith
3omen.
That is 3hy i0 you,re a guy caught up thinking to yoursel0
Coh man, I,m not /ery attracti/eD or Coh man, I don,t ha/e
that kind o0 money to spendD then 89T )E9: IT.
It doesn,t matter i0 you,re not 3ealthy or attracti/e, as
long as you come across in a presenta1le manner, that is
1eing clean and dressed some3hat decently, you,ll 1e
0ine.
Aecause that,s not 3here 3omen are 0ocused upon.
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In order 0or a 3oman to sleep 3ith you, you ha/e to
possess the characteristics and traits that good looks and
money do ;)T grant you.
So 3hat,s that!
It,s ha/ing a uniue and one o0 a kind personality and
ha/ing a presence that no amount o0 money can 1uy you.
In 0act sometimes good looks and ha/ing a lot o0 money
can 1e a hindrance then 1ene0it.
I kno3 plenty o0 good2looking men, 3ho are una1le to
seduce 3omen properly Nunless the girls are really drunkO
1ecause they >ust don,t kno3 3hat to say in order to
charm and seduce a 3oman.
;o3 the reason 3hy their looks make it harder 0or them is
1ecause, other girls automatically assume that since he is
good looking, 3ill 1e a player, so they increase their guard
up against him.
Which o0 course makes it all that more di00icult to succeed.
So this 1rings me 1ack to my point.
I0 you,re an ordinary looking or ugly you can turn it into a
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1ene0itI
4o3!
&ou don,t e/en come across as a threat.
I kno3 a guy that 3as not 1lessed in terms o0 his physical
attri1utes, 1eing he,s short, 0at and ugly.
Seriously, I 0elt sorry 3hen I 0irst met him, and I sincerely
dou1ted his stories o0 picking up girls.
=lus, he didn,t ha/e money, so in my mind I thought he
3as >ust a guy 3ho 3ould like to 1oast a1out approaching
3omen and 1edding them.
That 3as until I got to kno3 him more and 3ould
constantly appear and sleep 3ith many attracti/e 3omen.
So 3hy is this short, 0at and ugly guy 3ith no money a1le
to succeed in his dating li0e!
The reason is 1ecause he goes under the radar o0 most
3omen, and he 3as the a1ility to get their num1er
3ithout 0eeling like he is picking them up.
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The 3omen look at him and don,t 0eel threatened.
Until he starts charming them and 1e0ore they kno3 it,
they ha/e 1een seduced 1y him already.
This is proo0 again that looks don,t matter.
4ere,s another important point that most men do not
realiGe 3hen they think o0 money and 3omen.
I0 you use money to attract 3omen, then you,ll only
attract 3omen 3ho are attracted to money.
I0 you mo/e the 0ocus and your attention a3ay 0rom
materialistic things that you cannot change, then you,re
going to 1e in a position 3here 0ailure 3ith 3omen is not
you,re 0ault.
So that means you don,t need to take responsi1ility and
0i? your mistakes, 1ecause Cit 3asn,t really your 0aultDI
right!
Aut i0 nothing 3as e/er Cyour 0aultD, then you,re ne/er
e/er going to 1e a1le to really meet the 3omen you 3ant
truly desire.
Aecause e/en i0 you do meet them, you,ll ha/e no a1ility
to capitaliGe on your opportunity and you,ll her 3alk a3ay
0rom you right 1e0ore your eyes.
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&ou didn,t take the time to de/elop the personality to
allo3 you to e?ploit opportunities presented to you
1ecause you ha/e no inner game or con0idence in
yoursel0.
I guess the 1est analogy to descri1e the relationship
1et3een looks and money is like ha/ing a /ery 1ig and
e?pensi/e looking rocket launcher going into a 3ar. Aut it
is your personality and inner game that makes up the
ammunition.
I0 you don,t ha/e 3hat really matters Nthe ammunitionO,
you,re >ust going to end up looking as i0 you,re going to 1e
a1le to do a lot o0 damage Nsince you carry a 1ig gunO, 1ut
3hen you press the 0ire trigger, nothing,s going to come
out o0 it 1ut a 1ig 1unch o0 disappointment lea/ing smoke
in the air.
So don,t 0ocus on 3hat doesn,t matter, and 3ork on
yoursel0 and your inner game.
1.4 9e(troy $ll neg$ti2e (el% t$lk1 dou,t $nd
(el% li/iting ,elie%(
Ae0ore you can succeed on this >ourney and 1ecome a
supernatural seducer you must, do this.
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&ou need to 1elie/e in yoursel0.
&ou need to 1elie/e in the 0act that you can succeed 3ith
3omen.
Sure, in the past you didn,t ha/e
the 1est success.
I 3as there.
)ther men ha/e 1een there also.
Aut the good ne3s is, you can change it.
&ou need to 1elie/e that you can in 0act succeed 3ith
3omen 1e0ore it happens.
The simple reason is this.
)ur su1conscious mind does e?actly 3hat 3e 3ant it to
do.
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As long as you 1elie/e you can do it, chances are you,re
going to think o0 a strategy or a plan and then implement
it.
Su1consciously, you 3ould think that it is not 1eyond
something you can achie/e, so i0 it happens, it,s no 1ig
deal.
<or instance, you ha/e no dou1t in your mind that you can
talk naturally 3ith other men.
So I guarantee that you ha/e no pro1lems 3ith talking to
men.
Aut 3hen you start talking to 3omen, i0 you ha/e dou1ts
in your mind, then you,re planting seeds o0 0ailure in your
su1conscious and it 3ill reap 3hat you se3.
So make sure 1e0ore you 1egin on this >ourney, you
remo/e all negati/e sel0 talk and dou1t a1out 3hether or
not you 3ill succeed 3ith 3omen.
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Take a3ay all sel0 limiting 1elie0, and 0or >ust one moment
in your li0e, pause the negati/e thoughts and test and see
i0 3hat I,m going to sho3 you 3ith 3omen 3ill 3ork.
All I am asking is 0or you gi/e it a chance to 3ork.
.o not su1consciously sa1otage your only chance o0
succeeding 3ith 3omen in the 0uture 1ased on negati/e
e?periences in the past.
Make yoursel0 this promise.
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Chapter 2 - Step up and be the man you
were born to be
4a/e you e/er paused and took
notice that men in this 3orld
especially, in our 3estern society
are 1ecoming more and more like
3omen!
Men in ancient times 3ere
responsi1le 0or hunting and
3ar0are and the separation o0 the
roles o0 se?es 3ere /ery clear.
Women did the house duties 3hilst men did the dirty 3ork
outside.
Aut e/er since our society has 1ecome more and more
ci/iliGed, 3ith less o0 a reuirement and emphasis on
manual la1our, the /alue o0 male traits ha/e also
d3indled.
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It used to 1e a good thing to 1e acti/e and running
around the house as a child.
I mean causing trou1le and grie0 to your parents used to
1e seen as a 1adge o0 honor 0or a child.
4o3e/er, no3adays this is totally di00erent. In our modern
times, i0 you are a little more hyperacti/e than other kids,
then there are 3hispers that perhaps you need to 1ecome
medicated 0or your Cout o0 control 1eha/iourD.
Male aggression and other CdominantD characteristics that
men posses are also constantly portrayed in a negati/e
light 1y the media.
+o/e mo/ies today 0alsely create an atmosphere that gi/e
men the 3rong impression that they need to 1ear out
their hearts and sho3er 3omen 3ith 0lo3ers and gi0ts in
order to attract them.
I mean, e/en the mo/ie, 4itch starring Will Smith 3ho
3as Cpick up and dating guruD only 3on the girl o0 his
dreams 1y declaring his emotions and lo/e 0or the girl in
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the end o0 the mo/ie in a totally 3himpish 3ay in order to
3in her lo/e.
So 3hy am I mentioning all this and 3hat does this ha/e
to do 3ith you!
As a 3hole, men, are 1ecoming 1rain3ashed to act more
and more like 3omen.
We are gi/en the 3rong idea on 3hat 3orks in order to
really understand a 3oman.
In the same process 3e,re misin0ormed 1y the lies and
misconceptions that 4olly3ood mo/ies dictate regarding
the dating and seduction process.
We are told that 3e S4)U+. act like a chump 1y putting
3omen on a pedestal and treating them as a superior
than us.
Aut I ha/e noticed something really interesting.
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4a/e you e/er looked a homose?ual couple!
.o you notice that e/en 1et3een gays and les1ians there
is a person 3ho plays the act o0 a man, and the part o0 a
3oman.
.oesn,t that tell you something!
.eep do3n, it is 3ithin the essence o0 human 1onding,
there lies a need 0or someone to 1e a man and another to
1e a 3oman in order 0or the relationship to 3ork,
regardless i0 1oth parties are o0 the same se?J
What I,m saying is this.
+isten to your core as a man.
I0 you ha/e an urge to 3ant to talk to an attracti/e
3oman, and the only reason you 3ant to talk to her is
1ecause she is attracti/e, then you,re not shallo3.
&ou are >ust a man.
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&ou,re merely acting on the impulses that are 3ithin you.
As a man you are genetically predisposed to 3ant to
attract and then mate 3ith a 3oman 3hom you 0ind
desira1le in order to produce the o00spring that
theoretically 3ould 1e the 1est at sur/i/ing.
.on,t 0all 0or the nonsense that is pushed into your 0ace
1y modern day media, and 3omen 3ho accuse you o0
1eing shallo3 1ecause you,re attracted to an attracti/e
3oman.
The 0eelings and emotions that you 0eel to3ards someone
3ho you 0ind desira1le due to her physical traits is e?actly
the same as a 3oman 3ho 0inds a man 3ho is con0ident to
1e attracti/e.
<or men, mostly it is the physical attri1utes that plays the
initial role o0 sparking the attraction process.
<or 3omen, it has more to do 3ith 0eeling sa0e and
protected.
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Aoth o0 these needs and desires are /alid.
It,s ironic that society is una1le to make the distinction
1et3een 3hat triggers the attraction s3itch 0or men and
3omen. Aut are uick to point the 0inger and accuse men
o0 1eing shallo3, and thus should 1e looked do3n upon.
4a/e you e/er thought to a1out this!
Why is that 3hen a 3oman 3ho likes a guy 3ho is
Ccon0ident and am1itiousD is not shallo3, 1ut 3hen a man
3ho 3ants a Chot girl0riendD then he is immediately
la1elled as 1eing shallo3!
The 3oman is eually, or i0 not more Cshallo3D than the
male, 1ecause in the end she,s thinking a1out sel0
perse/eration 0or 1oth hersel0 and also her potential
o00spring. Why else 3ould they 1e attracted to a con0ident
an am1itious male!
$on0idence and am1ition in a person generally means that
they 3ill 1e 3ealthy and success0ul, 3hich in turn means
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that they 3ill ha/e money and riches. This ultimately
satis0ies a 3oman,s 0eeling o0 1eing sa0e and protected.
So my point is this.
&ou should not make e?cuses or 0eel 1ad 0or ha/ing urges
as a man to 3ant to meet, attract and seduce the 3oman
that you desire.
It is coded 3ithin you.
It is your nature to do so.
&ou are a man, so step up and act like it.
&ou do not need to apologiGe 0or 3hat you 3ant.
Chapter 3 - How and where to meet
girls
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Meeting 3omen is a /ery common pro1lem that most guys
0ace. They o0ten ask the uestion 3here do they need to
go and meet the girls or 3omen that they are attracted
to!
I mean sure you,re a good guy and you
ha/e a good >o1 and an a3esome
personality, 1ut you >ust can,t seem to
0ind the girl o0 your dreams to share your
e?periences 3ith.
So 3hat,s 3rong 3ith you!
Well the /ast ma>ority o0 guys li/e li0e like they are
3alking ro1ots.
They ne/er stop to think a1out 3hat they are acti/ely
doing day to day that is =:9E9;TI;8 them 0rom meeting
the 3omen that they desire.
The reason 0or this is t3o0old, and it,s due to the
0ollo3ing:
". Mo(t /en don8t kno* *+$t t+ey *$nt in $
*o/$n % What I mean 1y this is simple. I0 I asked
you 3hat kind o0 girl you,re looking 0or, you,d
pro1a1ly ha/e a criteria list that included something
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along the lines o0 Cgood looking, nice 1ody and cool
personalityD.
;o3, it is correct to say that most men do 3ant a
good looking 3oman 3ith a nice personality, that
alone is not a criteria 0or them to really kno3 3hat
kind o0 3oman they 3ant.
The reason 0or this is 1ecause they are not speci0ic
enough in their 3ants.
&ou 3ouldn,t go to a car yard and tell the salesman
you 3ant something that mo/es and dri/es you
around right!
&ou 3ould 1e /ery speci0ic, 0or e?ample you 3ould
look at your o3n li0e cycle and determine the type o0
car you 3ould 3ant to dri/e. I0 you 3ere a younger
man you 3ould pro1a1ly look 0or a car that 3ould
more suit your personality and your 0inances at the
time. =erhaps a t3o door sports car or a sporty
looking sedan 3ould 1e 3hat catches your eye.
Whereas i0 you 3ere are more esta1lished man you
3ould pro1a1ly 1e looking more to3ards prestige
/ehicles and you /alue more a1out the com0ort o0 the
car you are dri/ing.
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The same thing applies to choosing 3omen too.
Aut amaGingly i0 you ask a guy 3hat they 3ant in a
girl they are not a1le to tell you e?actly 3hat they
3ant.
Then it,s not surprising that they are not a1le to
succeed 3ith the kind o0 3omen they desire %
1ecause they really don,t kno3 themsel/es and
chances are they end up 3ith 3hate/er comes along.
So the 0irst step to meet the 3omen you truly 3ant
as a Supernatural Seducer is to determine e?actly
3hat kind o0 3oman you 3ant in your li0e. Make sure
you de0ine the 0ollo3ing:
o :ge
o :''e$r$nce
o Body ty'e
o Body +eig+t
o 6ntere(t(
o ;eligiou( 2$lue(
o 4er(on$lity ty'e
)nce you ha/e a good idea o0 3hat you,re looking 0or
then it,s much easier to 0ind the 3oman that you
seek.
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2. Mo(t /en don8t 'ut t+e/(el2e( in $ 'o(ition
*+ere t+ey8ll ,e $,le to /eet de(ir$,le *o/en
t+$t t+ey $ctu$lly *$nt.
:emem1er 1e0ore ho3 I said that most guys don,t
kno3 3hat kind o0 3omen they 3ant, hence they 0ail
3ith 3omen!
Well once you kno3 3hat kind o0 3oman truly
satis0ies your desires, then you can use it as a
starting point to put yoursel0 in a position 3here you
can acti/ely meet these 3omen.
I0 3e 3ill in the criteria listed a1o/e 3ith an e?ample
o0 the type o0 3omen I desire, then it,ll 1e much
easier 0or me to 0ind the girl that I 3ant. +et,s apply
a real li0e case study.
o :ge % I like younger 3omen. 8enerally I am not
looking 0or a serious long2term relationship and
marriage is 0ar o00 and 0ar20etched 0or me, so I am
looking 0or girls under '5 years old.
o :''e$r$nce I like girls 3ho are more 0eminine
looking, that is they ha/e long hair that needs to
1e at least shoulder length and ha/e a look that is
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either cute or se?y.
o Body ty'e % I pre0er slimmer 3oman 3ith large
hips and large 1reasts. &es, I,m a typical male.
o Body +eig+t % I like girls 3ho are shorter than
me in high heels.
o 6ntere(t( % I,m interested in dancing and like
listening to 4ip 4op and :PA music, so hope0ully
the girl I 0ind 3ould 1e interested in the same
things as me.
o ;eligiou( 2$lue( % Since I,m not looking to 1e
married, I don,t mind 3hat she 1elie/es in.
o 4er(on$lity ty'e % outgoing, 0un lo/ing and not
looking to settle do3n 0or the long term to ha/e
kids any time soon.
So i0 you took an in/entory o0 the criteria I >ust listed, it,s
/ery easy to imagine 3here the type o0 girl that appeals to
me 3ould hang out.
$hances are they 3ould 1e either still studying at
uni/ersity or 3ho >ust entered the 3ork 0orce. These kinds
o0 3omen 3ho like :PA and dancing 3ould most likely go
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to night clu1s and 1ars. Alternati/ely, i0 I do not like going
to nightspots I can >oin a local dance studio and take
lessons to meet these kinds o0 girls.
So no3 I kno3 3hat kind o0 girl I like, I need to acti/ely
change my o3n routine and 0it my li0estyle around looking
0or the type o0 3oman I desire.
This is the 0inal step that most guys are either un3illing or
una1le to complete.
They like to stick to their o3n routine.
.ay in and day out.
They do the same things.
Meet the same type o0 people.
Indulge in the same past times.
+i/e a li0estyle that in/ol/es nothing ne3.
So is it any 3onder they don,t meet the girls they really
3ant!
So my uestion to you isI
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A0ter you de0ine the kind o0 girl you like, are you 3iling to
take proacti/e steps in order to change your li0estyle
routine to 1e a1le to put yoursel0 in a position to meet the
type o0 girls you like!
)r are you >ust going to sit there and 3hine and complain
a1out not 1eing a1le meet ne3 3omen!
&ou ha/e to acti/ely MAB9 time to meet girls.
&es, I kno3, I kno3, you,re a 1usy guy and you >ust don,t
ha/e the time.
Aut let me ask youI
Are you content and happy 3ith your current le/el o0
success 3ith 3omen right no3!
I0 not, then it is time to make a change.
&ou are the only one that is a1le to change things.
So take action.
4ere is a list o0 common places 3here you,ll 1e a1le to
meet 3omen in general. 4o3e/er, i0 you are /ery
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particular a1out the type o0 girls you 3ant, then you,ll
ha/e to 1e a1le to clearly identi0y 3hat you 3ant 1e0ore
you can get it:
Aars and clu1s Nnot the 1est place to meet
uality 3omenO
Tea 1ars
$o00ee shops
At 3ork
Uni/ersity, learning institutions
Through 0riends
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Chapter 4 What do women desire in a
man?
4a/e you e/er thought to yoursel0
C3hat the hell is she thinkingD and
C3omen >ust don,t make senseD.
Well you,re not the only one like that
my 0riend, 3e 3ere all at that stage at one point.
What I e/entually 0igured out is 3e men, think in 3ays
that 3omen do not consider to 1e logical.
That is 3hy they think men are irrational and do not
understand us. It,s also 3hy 3e do not understand them.
Aut once you understand their sense o0 logic and the
reasoning 1ehind ho3 they 0eel you,ll 1e a1le to read a
3oman like an open 1ook.
)nce the code has 1een cracked you,ll 1e a1le to decipher
the hardest 3oman emotionally and open up to yoursel0 a
ne3 3orld o0 3omen you ne/er imagined possi1le.
What I,m going to teach you in order 0or you to 1ecome a
Supernatural Seducer is to understand chick logic.
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Unlike men, girls and 3omen care a lot more a1out ho3
other people 0eel.
In 0act the entire e?istence o0 a 3oman is determined 1y
ho3 3ell she interacts 3ith the people around her.
So the num1er one priority 0or a 3oman is to maintain her
social status or gain more o0 it. This to a 3oman is much
more important than anything, it is more important to
them than e/en more than ha/ing se?.
This is the 1asic premise % 3omen treat social status like
ho3 men treat se? in terms o0 importance.
+et me rephrase that.
Women and their social status perception to them it,s >ust
as important, or more important than the urge 0or men to
ha/e se? 3ith a 3oman.
That is 3hy you need to understand the ualities o0
1ecoming 3hat is attracti/e to 3omen to essentially
increase your social /alue around 3omen. This 3ould
make it logical 0or 3omen to 3ant to sleep 3ith you.
4ere is a list o0 the ualities o0 a high status person that
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you should stri/e to possess. I0 you ha/e these
characteristics and you,re a1le to sho3 her this, then
you,re .emonstrating 4igher Ealue N.4EO and you,re
making her more attracted to you.
The trick to this is you 3ant to sho3 as many o0 these
ualities as you can 3ithin the shortest amount o0 time
possi1le. The 0aster you do it, the easier and uicker it is
0or you to complete the seduction process:
". 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue $re
$d/ired $nd t+u( de(ired ,y
ot+er( % Admiration and desire
has a cyclical relationship. A
person 3ho is admired 1y others o0
the same se? is normally desired
1y mem1ers o0 the opposite se?. That,s 3hy guys think
rockstars are cool 1ut girls 3ant to sleep 3ith them.
This is also 3hy girls en/y supermodels and guys >ust
3ant to ha/e se? 3ith men. So status and admiration
and desire go hand in hand.
'. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue $re $l*$y( c+illed out
$nd rel$3ed one o0 the 1iggest things you notice
3hen you meet a person is 3hether or not they are
chilled and rela?ed or i0 they are all stressed out. I
kno3 you might not kno3 this consciously 1ut as
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humans 3e are all looking to kno3 3hat the emotional
0eeling o0 the people around us are like.
4a/e you e/er 1een placed in an en/ironment and you
naturally >ust get tensed and stressed out 1ecause the
people around you are all too 1usy! Well that,s 1ecause
the /i1e o0 others can a00ect you. In order to 1e a high
status person, you ha/e to 1e chilled out and rela?ed all
the time. The reason 0or this is 1ecause there,s no
1etter indicator 0or others to pro/e that you are the
man % i0 you,re calm and collected in all occasions.
I0 you are a con0ident person you are rela?ed in the
kno3ledge and understanding that you can handle
anything that li0e thro3s at you and you can succeed at
3hate/er comes your 3ay % no matter 3hat the
challenge is. This also means that you are not needy
and other people 3ill actually need you to 1e around in
order to 0eel good around themsel/es.
*. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue $re n$tur$l in t+eir
,e+$2ior I kno3 that one o0 the 3orst pieces o0
dating ad/ice around is >ust C1e yoursel0D. What this
essentially means is 1e naturally like the person 3ho
you are. It doesn,t mean you can >ust 3alk around in
your under3ear, 1ut it means you should not try too
hard to look good.
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Sure, there are times that you need to 0ake it till you
make it, as e/eryone starts o00 some3here, 1ut as a
Supernatural Seducer you need to 1e a1le to make it,
and 1e0ore you do that, you ha/e to 0ind a style 0or you
to C0akeD so that it,ll 1e /ery natural 0or you so you,ll 1e
a1le to make it e00ortlessly.
The reason 0or this is simple. Women ha/e a /ery good
intuition and can read 3hether or not a guy, especially
someone 3ho is attracted to them, is ner/ous or not. I0
you are ner/ous and unnatural you,ll 1e making the
3oman 0eel uncom0orta1le and then it 3ill >ust all go
do3nhill 0rom there.
#. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue $re recogni<ed $nd
$''reci$ted ,y ot+er 'eo'le 2 )ther 3omen and also
men like you 1ecause you or your 3ork is appreciated
1y others. <or e?ample, other people may come up to
you and say C)h man, 3hat you did 3as 0antasticJD. )r
you ha/e good2looking 0riends around you and actually
saying good things a1out you.
There is no 1etter indicator o0 ho3 3omen 0eel around
you, then ha/ing a group o0 attracti/e girls 1eing in
your presence and en>oying themsel/es. I0 you ha/e a
group o0 good2looking 3omen constantly around you
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and laughing at your >okes, o1/iously other 3omen 3ill
see this. These other 3omen 3ill think that you are
socially dominant 1ecause you ha/e so many girls
around you, and they look like they are ha/ing the time
o0 their li/es so you must 1e /ery cool.
5. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue +$2e ot+er 'eo'le
(eeking $''ro2$l %ro/ t+e/ % 0or e?ample you
might 1e 3alking and talking to a 3oman in a clu1, and
a 0riend asks your opinion o0 something. This sho3s
that you are a decision maker and 3hate/er you say is
important. I0 other people care a1out 3hat you ha/e to
say, then your opinions ha/e higher /alue.
6. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue +$2e (t$nd$rd( % most
men 3ho do not succeed 3ith 3omen don,t actually
care 3ho they attract and they ha/e an Canything 3ith
a hole is a goalD attitude. This is e?tremely unattracti/e
1ecause it sho3s desperateness.
4a/e you e/er paused to ponder 3hy men 3ith
standards al3ays get attracti/e 3omen!
It,s 1ecause, unlike the guys 3ho don,t get girls, these
men ha/e a set criteria.
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+et me demonstrate this to you through an analogy.
<or e?ample, i0 you 3ere purchasing a /ehicle, and you
had all the money in the 3orld, 3ould 1uy >ust any car!
;oJ
Aecause you kno3 that i0 you are the richest man ali/e
you 3ould 3ant something that no one else 3ould getJ
4a/ing standards make you standout, 1ecause 3omen
and 3ill see you as a guy 3ho is picky and choosy 3ith
3omen. This 3ill imply to them, that 0irst o0 all you are
a man 3ho is con0ident 3ith himsel0. Secondly, 3omen
to you must 1e in a1undance, so you must ha/e
something other 3omen desire. That,s 3hy you are a1le
to re>ect 3omen and 1ecause most men cannot do this.
So in general this 3ill increase your natural a1ility to
attract 3omen.
Aeing picky 3ith standards increase your attracti/eness
1ecause ha/ing criteria makes you standout unlike
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other guys.
7. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue +$2e t+eir o*n rule(
$nd li2e in t+eir o*n *orld & 3omen 0ind men
en>oying li0e 1y their o3n rules as 1eing incredi1ly se?y.
I0 you,re a man that determines his o3n destiny and
decides 3hat you 3ant, then you dictate the 0uture and
lead people. This is a characteristic o0 a true leader and
a natural seducer.
-. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue $re un$%%ected ,y
ot+er 'eo'le1 $nd nonre$cti2e 2 i0 a 3oman sees
that you are not a00ected 1y things around you 3hether
they are internal or e?ternal, she 3ill 1e e?tremely
impressed 1ecause most men 3ho are not con0ident or
supernatural seducers 3ill 1e a00ected 1y emotions
around them. This is especially true i0 she kno3s she
can a00ect their emotions. <or e?ample, i0 a 3oman is
a1le to get your angry or annoyed at her and
emotionally charged 1ecause she,s 0lirting 3ith another
guy, she kno3s she has you in the palm o0 her hand.
Aut i0 she acts out in such a 3ay, and you act like you
don,t gi/e a damn. It tells her you must 1e something
special.
&ou need to disarm 1eauti0ul 3omen o0 their most
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po3er0ul 3eapon o0 mass manipulation.
That is their looks.
What you need to do communicate to her that, yes, she
is attracti/e and hot, you may notice it, 1ut it,s not
going to change the 3ay you act around her.
I0 you do this, then you,re taking her a3ay her most
po3er0ul mechanism o0 control o/er men.
&ou 3ill standout 0rom other guys 1ecause she,ll think
C3ho is this guy! I,m hot, and I,m 0launting my goods,
other guys are drooling all o/er me, 1ut he,s not
a00ected! 4e must 1e some 1ig hot shotD. This 3ill in
turn make you e/en more po3er0ul and attracti/e in the
eyes o0 3omen.
9. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue don8t c$re $,out t+e
out(ide *orld $re not 2$lid$ted ,y it There many
men out there 3ho do or say things >ust to get the
attention o0 others. They seek e?ternal /alidation. <or
e?ample they might dress up in a 0ancy costume to get
comments 0rom people. Aut this only goes to sho3 that
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they are not con0ident in themsel/es and need other
people to push up their sel0 3orth. A person o0 high
social status kno3s internally 3hat he is 3orth and
does not need to pro/e nor e?press it to the 3orld.
"(. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue $re gre$t co/'$ny &
4a/e you noticed that the men 3ho succeed 3ith
3omen are not only cool to 1e
around 3ith guys in general 1ut
are also good at entertaining
3omen! I0 you sho3 her a good
time, 3omen 3ill also 1e
attracted to you 1ecause you
are a cool and 0un lo/ing guy.
"". 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l 2$lue $re (el%le(( gi2er( %
the truly po3er0ul people are the ones that gi/e things
and do not e?pect anything in return. This is po3er0ul
and is attracti/e 1ecause only people 3ho are truly
a1undant can gi/e like this. I,m not talking a1out
donating to charity, 1ut also a1out pro/iding help and
ser/ices to people in desperate need 3hen you kno3
you get nothing out o0 it. ;o3 this doesn,t ha/e to 1e
anything ne3s3orthy, it could 1e small things like
pro/iding interest 0ree loans to your 0riends 3hen they
are in times o0 distress. The point I,m trying to make
here is that you do things out o0 the goodness o0 your
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heart 3ithout needing anything in return.
"'. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( +$2e /en %ollo*ing
t+eir co//$nd Since most 3omen 0ollo3 others, i0
you can lead men, then you truly are a person o0 high
status.
"*. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( $re 're(elected ,y
ot+er girl( men 3ho are success0ul 3ith 3omen
ha/e social proo0. This means there are al3ays girls,
and attracti/e ones 1y their side. )ther 3omen 3ill see
this and think to themsel/es that they can not only
trust this guy 1ut also 3ill most likely en>oy their
presence, since so many other girls do so already.
"#. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( 'rotect 'eo'le t+ey
c$re $,out & 3omen 3ant to kno3 i0 they are sa0e
around you. Women are generally regarded as the
3eaker se? and they 3ill need some men 0or protection.
This is great 0or men 3ho are slightly o/er3eight,
1ecause you,re a1le to 3ork 3hat others regard as a
disad/antage Nyour 3eightO to your ad/antage Nyou,re
1ig and you,re not easy to 1ullyO.
"5. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( click *it+ girl( the
men 3ho understand 3omen as emotional creatures
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get laid the most. As their 0oresight in the minds o0
0emale psychology is rare and this makes a guy like this
stand out 0rom the other guys, as you Cget itD.
"6. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( $re +u/,le ,ut
con%ident 2 you kno3 that you,re po3er0ul 1ut you
don,t 1rag. This 3ill make you stand out 0or 1ecause
most other guys don,t do anything 1ut 1rag to make
himsel0 look good.
"7. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( $re e3tre/ely
'o(iti2e 2 did you kno3 that emotions a00ect others!
;egati/ity destroys an interaction and makes you >ust
horri1le to 1e around in general. =eople run a3ay 0rom
negati/e indi/iduals, as it,s not only 1oring to 1e around
someone like that, it,s depressing.
"-. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( $re (el%&%ul%illing &
you don,t need anything 0rom other people 1ecause you
are not desperate. In 0act, the guys 3ho get the most
attention 0rom 3omen are the ones that direct their
attention at 3omen and they 0ocus on making the
3oman 0eel good. &ou do not need the energy o0 others
to 1uild you up, 1ut instead you can pro/ide the
1uilding 1locks to make others 0eel great.
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"9. 4eo'le o% +ig+ 2$lue8( ti/e $nd energy +$2e $
lot o% 2$lue % I0 you are percei/ed to ha/e high social
/alue, then others 3ill recogniGe that your time and
your presence is /alua1le. <or e?ample, this means that
you are a1le to cut o00 a con/ersation 1e0ore it actually
0inishes e/en 3hen you,re chatting to people that you
0ind attracti/e.
Take 0or e?ample you might 1e in the middle o0 a
con/ersation and suddenly realiGe that you ha/e a
phone call to take, so you 0inally say C)h sorry, I ha/e
to take the phone call 2 I,d like to talk to you again,
1ut I really need to take this call right no3D and i0 you
are a1le to do that and 3alk a3ay 0rom an attracti/e
3oman, this means that they 3ill see you as a more
attracti/e person.
Why is this so!
Aecause unlike most men 3ho 3ouldn,t miss this great
opportunity to talk to her, and 3ho 3ould >ust let the
phone ring through, you,re actually cutting her o00, thus
sho3ing her, that your phone call is more important to
you than she is.
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This tells her that you li/e in your o3n reality and your
o3n 3orld.
I0 you do things like this, soon
enough 3omen and people in
general 3ill understand that you
are an important person 1ecause
you /alue your time and energy
despite her looks.
'(. 4eo'le o% +ig+ $re (oci$lly intelligent2 this is
/ery important 0or 3omen 1ecause in order to 1e a
supernatural seducer you need to understand that
3omen /alue the social status o0 a relationship a1o/e
e/erything else.
8etting a grasp o0 social intelligence is /ery critical. Ay
doing this you are a1le to 0eel the /i1e o0 the people
around you. It,s imperati/e to de/elop an intuition that
can see di00erent people o0 /arious social hierarchies so
you are a1le to tell and decide 3ho is more socially
important and 3ho is not.
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So in other 3ord you don,t need to say ho3 you 0eel,
rather you 0eel 3hat you need to say and you are a1le
to understand ho3 people interact around you. )nce
you understand the energy 1et3een social interactions
you can 1e the one that is a1le to keep the group
together.
This means you don,t need to actually /er1aliGe ho3
you 0eel.
It should come naturally to you.
An e?ample o0 this 3ould 1e, let,s pretend you,re sitting
around 3ith your mates during a 0oot1all game.
.o you actually say to your 1uddies Clook that guy >ust
scored a goalDJ
;o, 1ecause it 3ould 1e so pain0ully o1/ious and i0 you
did, you 3ould actually demonstrate a lo3er
understanding o0 the situation and thus lose the respect
o0 your peers.
The same thing goes 3ith understanding the connection
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1et3een social 1eings.
&ou don,t need to tell people 3hat it actually is i0 you
understand the situation, 1ecause e/eryone there
kno3s the score and you kno3 the score as 3ell you
don,t need to tell people, this is 3hat I mean 1y social
intelligence, you don,t need to mention the o1/ious.
;o3 the 1ad ne3s that I,m going to say a1out social
intelligence is that most girls ha/e much more social
understanding o0 the situation than you.

The good ne3s is that this skill is /ery easy to de/elop,
and all it takes is 0or you to understand reactions
1et3een people 1y looking on ho3 people interact 3ith
a talk.
&ou don,t actually need to do much in order to de/elop
an understanding social interaction.
Lust in the 0uture 3hen you go out in a group, 3atch
and o1ser/e to see 3ho is the one that is al3ays asking
uestions in a needy 3ay. These people ha/e lo3er
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social /alue. The people that ans3er uestions and
come across in a more dominating manner ha/e higher
social /alue.
=ossessing social intelligence also means you are a1le
to think like a chick and you understand ho3 3omen
think. &ou do this 1y not saying silly things, not doing
stupid things, and not making her 0eel uncom0orta1le.
:ather you are making the 3oman around you laugh,
ha/e a good time and really en>oy hersel0.
=lease note, you don,t 3ant to 1e the comedian or Cthe
0unny guyD that 3omen don,t take seriously. :ather you
3ant to 1e the guy that all those girls 3ant to 1e
around 1y sho3ing social intelligence.
4o3 do you do this!
&ou are a1le to keep the group together, you are a1le
engage e/eryone,s emotional le/els 1y keeping the
people around you happy and high all the time.
In other 3ords you are drug o0 the group, 3ithout you
the group is 1ored and has nothing to do. With you the
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group is 0un and high at the same time 1ecause it,s so
0un to 1e around you.
'". 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( o%%er 2$lue to t+e
*orld This means that instead o0 seeking to gain
something 0rom others, since a man o0 high status is
sel0 0ul0illing he is more than happy to pro/ide /alue to
his surroundings. In social settings, this can 1e
e?pressed 1y 1eing entertaining and 0unny, thus
creating a /i1e that is accepting 0or e/eryone there. ;ot
only does he ha/e a great time, the people around him
and especially, 3omen, lo/e to 1e in his presence. It,s
as i0 he has all the time in the 3orld 0or e/eryone and
he,s >ust a cool guy.
''. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( +$2e $n $,und$nce
/ent$lity as a high /alue male, you need to
understand that the 3orld is 0ull o0 hot gorgeous and
desira1le 3omen. That means you kno3 that i0 0or
some reason you mess up 3ith this particular 3oman,
you don,t let it a00ect you emotionally. &ou shrug o00
re>ection and keep on mo/ing. The a1undance
mentality that you possess makes you imper/ious 3hen
3omen try to make you >ealous 1y talking to other
men, 1ecause you kno3 that you ha/e other girls >ust
3aiting to get your attention, so you 3on,t 0eel
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threatened 1y other men.

'*. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( $re *illing to le$2e
$n $ttr$cti2e *o/$n % &ou need to 1e a1le to
actually like a 3oman 1eyond her looks and let her
kno3 that you care 0or her personality. Attracti/e
3omen ha/e 1een complimented 0or their looks since
they 3ere "*. &ou need to stand out.
4o3 do you do this!
Well, you don,t let the 3omen get a3ay 3ith 1eing rude
or 1eing a 1rat.
I0 she does, you don,t >ust take it like any other chump.
:ather you are 3illing to either ignore her or 3alk a3ay.
This is e?actly ho3 the rich or cele1rities act.
They don,t take shit 0rom no one, and i0 they recei/e
shit, they don,t accept it.
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That,s 3hy these people are percei/ed as 1eing special
1y our society and glori0ied as such.
'#. 4eo'le o% +ig+ (oci$l (t$tu( do not gi2e $ d$/n
$,out *+$t ot+er( t+ink $nd t$ke ri(k( doing
*+$t ot+er( *ould con(ider =cr$<y> the most
success0ul people in our 3orld got there 1y doing the
most uncon/entional things. <or e?ample, 3ho 3ould o0
thought a uni/ersity drop out 3ould 1e the 0ounder o0
one o0 the 3orld,s 1iggest organisation,s Microso0t!
Imagine 3hat 3ould ha/e happened i0 Aill 8ates took
seriously the criticisms other people 3ere directing at
him 3hen he 3as a geeky teenager starting his
so0t3are 1usiness in his home garage.
The 0act o0 the matter is, people rarely think a1out
anything use0ul 3hen it relates to others.
Most o0 the time society 0ocuses on the negati/es 3hen
it comes to other people.
Lust look at gossip magaGines and you,ll get the less
than desira1le opinions o0 columnists 3ho like to point
the 0inger at 0amous cele1rities.
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Aut in the end, you ha/e to think to yoursel0, does it
really matter 3hat others think o0 me!
To succeed 3ith seducing 3omen, you ha/e to ha/e the
attitude that you don,t care a1out 3hat other girls or
guys might think o0 you.
&ou ha/e to thro3 out the thoughts relating to Coh I
3onder i0 this 3ill 3ork, 3ill she think I,m strangeD.
Aecause at the end o0 the day, it really doesn,t matter
3hat other people think.
Also, I,d like to highlight this one /ery important uote:
=ou *ouldn8t c$re $,out *+$t ot+er 'eo'le t+ink
$,out you i% you kne* +o* little t+ey did.>
+et,s 0ace it, 3e li/e in a sel0 centred society 3here the
only thing /alua1le to us, is oursel/es.
We hardly de/ote any o0 our time thinking a1out
others, i0 at all.
So really, i0 you,re putting your li0e on hold 1ecause
you,re 3orried a1out 3hat others might think or say
a1out you, then it,s time to release your reigns.
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The 3orld is your oyster.
The 3omen you meet are ready 0or your taking, i0 you
really 3ant it to 1e that 3ay.
When you start to apply the principles I listed a1o/e it is
as i0 you,re a lion in the animal kingdom.
&ou dominate the 3orld you li/e in and 3omen are dra3n
to that.
The 1est thing is that 3omen 3ill 1ecome attracted to you
and dra3n to 3ith irresisti1ly.
The reason is, 1ecause like .a/id .eAngelo 0amously said
CAttraction is not a choiceD.
Women are naturally attracted to high /alue men, >ust like
ho3 men are dra3n to gorgeous looking 3omen.
In order to attract 3omen you need to sho3 3omen that
you are e?tremely high /alue and sho3 that you are a
man 3ith high social status and con0ident 3ith yoursel0.
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.id you notice in the a1o/e comprehensi/e list o0
attracti/e ualities o0 a man, I did not once mention looks
or money!
It,s interesting to note that our society places so much
emphasis o0 a man needing to 1e 3ealthy or physically
attracti/e in order to get the 3omen that he desires.
The 0act o0 the matter is that this is simply not true.
I kno3 plenty o0 ugly, o/er3eight and A:)B9 men 3ho
are a1le to date e?tremely hot and attracti/e &)U;8
3omen.
Attracting 3omen is all a1out it,s all a1out your
personality and the 3ay you present yoursel0.
It has nothing to do 3ith your re0lection in the mirror or
ho3 1ig your 3allet is.
This means that i0 you 3ant to attract 3omen, make sure
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you don,t chase her too much, and you don,t let 3hat she
says a00ect you.
Ae the li0e o0 the partyJ
Ae the guy that people 3ant to 1e aroundJ
Ae the one that doesn,t gi/e a damn a1out 3hat others
thinkJ
Ae the man you 3ere 1orn to 1eJ
Ae a Supernatural seducer.
Ae the guy that gets all the 3omen naturally.
Ae the man that you 3ere 1orn to 1e.
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Chapter 5 Dont be like this guy
In all situations you need to a/oid
1eing percei/ed to 1e a male o0
lo3 status. 4ere are a list out the
ualities o0 people 3ith lo3 social
status posses and you need to
a/oid these things like the plague.
I0 you do the 0ollo3ing, then you are .emonstrating +o3er
Ealue to a 3oman N.+EO, 3hich means you,re actually
pushing her a3ay. The more you do it, the more you,re
going to repel her a3ay 0rom you. The less you do it, the
higher the likelihood that she,ll 0ind you less annoying:
". 4eo'le o% lo* 2$lue (t$tu( try to (eek $cce't$nce
& they are al3ays asking uestions like Coh 3hat do you
think o0 this! .o you think I can do 3ell on this! do you
think I can do good on this!D. They al3ays 0ind 3ays to
1e e/aluated 1y the people 0rom the outside.
The reason 3hy it is risky to seek appro/al 0rom other
people is /ery simple, it sho3s that you don,t ha/e
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much con0idence in yoursel0 to make a decision 1ased
a1out ultimately 3hat 3ill a00ect your li0e.
T4IS M9A;S &)U 4AE9 ;) EA+U9 AS A =9:S);J
+et alone as a manJ
There0ore, you don,t 3ant to 1e
percei/ed 0or someone like this and
you don,t 3ant to ask silly uestions.
Sure, there are some legitimate 1ut stupid uestions
you may ask at times, 1ut you need to ask a uestion
that directly a00ects upon ho3 you are as a person,
present it in a 3ay that is more dominating.
<or e?ample you don,t need to say, especially 3hen you
ask a 3oman C)h 3hat do you think a1out me! .o you
think I,m attracti/e! .o you think I,m ugly!D that kind
o0 uestion tells the 3oman that you are not
com0orta1le in your o3n skin and 3hate/er her ans3er
is it a00ect you directly.
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Instead, you could say something like this CI kno3 you
think I,m attracti/e, 1ut ho3 se?y do you think I amD.
;ot only does this re/erse the situation around, and
makes you 1eam 3ith con0idence, the statement is
3orded in a 3ay that makes the interaction and
con/ersation 1oth arousing and interesting at the same
time.
There,s al3ays a 3ay to 3ord a 3eak uestion to get a
positi/e outcome.
'. 4eo'le o% lo* (oci$l 2$lue $re e3tre/ely
'redict$,le ha/e you noticed that the men 3ho 0ail
3ith 3omen al3ays seem the same in terms o0
personality!
It,s as i0 they came out o0 the same 0actory and are the
least intriguing, least entertaining and least 0un to 1e
around!
I,m sure you,/e had 0riends like this 1e0ore, 3hen e/ery
time you 3ant to do something 0un they ha/e no
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interest in taking part and >ust sit 1ack and spectate.
This not only makes their presence useless NI mean
3hat,s the point o0 1eing there i0 they don,t 3ant to 1eO
1ut also kills the >oy in the situation and they are
essentially Ckill >oysD. &ou do not 3ant to 1e seen as the
guy 3ho,s a kill >oy, as this demonstrates super lo3
/alue.
*. 4eo'le o% lo* 2$lue (t$tu( $re 2ery $n3iou( $nd
e$(y to (c$re2 ha/e you e/er noticed that Lames 1ond
in the 1ond mo/ies ne/er gi/es a shit! 4e is ne/er lost
0or 3ords and he ne/er >umps 1ecause a pro1lem
comes his 3ay.
&ou 3ant to 1e like Lames 1ond, and once you learn the
art o0 supernatural seduction you 3ill 1e.
=eople o0 lo3 social status as I,/e mentioned 1e0ore
ha/e no con0idence. There0ore, they react to things
around them in a reacti/e 3ay, they are not proacti/e
and they are perpetually scared on 3hat may happen to
them.
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An e?ample o0 this i0 you ha/e a group o0 0riends and
you 3ant to go to a ne3 clu1, then the guy 3ithout
con0idence 3ill say something like C)h no I,m 0eeling
really sa0e here so I don,t 3ant to go to a ne3 clu1D 1ut
then your 0riends 3ant to make him go and he 3ill 1e
angry and make e/eryone else 0eel uncom0orta1le and
then ruin the night 0or himsel0, 1ut the 3hole group.
#. 4eo'le o% lo* 2$lue (t$tu( ,uy *+$t t+ey c$n8t
e$rn % a 1ig pro1lem 0or most men is they think that
they can purchase the a00ection o0 3omen 2 this is
3rongJ
=lease understand you cannot AU& appro/al.
4a/e you e/er paused 0or a moment to think that
e/erything you can spend money on to purchase is
actually more in
a1undance than things you can get 0or 0ree!
&ou can al3ays 1uy a ne3 house, a ne3 car and ne3
1oatI
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&ou get these things 3ith money.
Aut you cannot replace your 0riends, your 0amily, your
parents.
&ou cannot replace these 3ith money.
So it,s ironic our society places so much emphasis on
things money can attain, as they are much more easily
replacea1le than things that cash cannot e?change.
+et,s talk a1out this in terms o0 seduction.
&ou need to kno3 that you should not spend a lot o0
money on 3omen 2 especially 3omen, 3ho you like i0
you cannot attract them 3ith your personality, in the
0irst place.
I0 they are not attracted to you, and then you end up
0irst 1uying things and gi/ing them gi0ts in order to
seek their attraction % 3hen they don,t deser/e it, then
they 3ill kno3 that you are trying to purchase their
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a00ection 3hich turns you to 1e like e/ery other guy. Ay
acti/ely trying to 1uy their appro/al this means that
you actually lose the /alue in their eyes.
I,m not saying 1e a >erk and 0orget a1out her 1irthdays,
1ut please gi/e gi0ts in proportion to your relationship
status to the 3oman.
$hances are the more se?ual the relationship the more
e?pensi/e your present can 1e.
I0 you,re not sleeping 3ith her, stay a3ay 0rom
e?pensi/e >e3ellery and rings and the like.
In order to 1e T49 MA; and attract 3omen, and to 1e a
supernatural seducer, you need to 1e a1le to seduce a
3oman 3ithout spending cash on them 2 ho3 to do
this!
&ou do this 3ith your personality.
That,s something that,s uniue in this 3orld and
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de0initely something money cannot 1uy.
5. 4eo'le o% lo* 2$lue (t$tu( di(like *+$t t+ey
c$nnot get % This is a syndrome o0 lo3 social status
people, they 3ill complain or talk shit a1out things that
they cannot do or get. <or e?ample a guy might
actually hate a /ery attracti/e 3omen, 1ecause he has
ne/er dated one. )r i0 you talk to ugly 3omen, they
might hate other attracti/e 3omen, 1ecause she 0eels
in0erior to other girls 3ho are prettier than her. This
sho3s e?treme lo3 con0idence and lo3 /alue, and it is
something you 3ant to a/oid.
6. 4eo'le o% lo* 2$lue $re not (oci$lly intelligent
$nd c$nnot c$li,r$te *it+ inter$ction( it is
important 0or a guy to understand that social /alue and
social intelligence is /ery important to 3omen. I,/e
mentioned this in many parts o0 this 1ook, 1ut I ha/e to
mention again.
An e?ample o0 1eing not socially intelligent is making
dirty >okes Ne?tremely crude onesO 3hen you don,t
kno3 ho3 the 3omen 3ill react around you. Another
e?ample o0 e?treme social stupidity is trying to touch
3omen in general, or touching them too o0ten 3hen
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you don,t kno3 them 3ell enough or that they are not
yet com0orta1le 3ith you.
Social intelligence is pro1a1ly one o0 the 1iggest keys
0or any men to attract 3omen a0ter e?treme
con0idence.
7. 4eo'le o% lo* 2$lue $re de'endent on t+e
outco/e $nd get $tt$c+ed to it & 4a/e you e/er
noticed the guys 3ho >ust go out and are 0ocused on
picking up, ha/e the least amount o0 0un!
Why!
Aecause, they make the picking
up the entire goal, and i0 they
0ail to meet a 3oman they like
or they do not pickup they get
angry and disappointed.
They lose the plot and do not 0ocus on themsel/es.
They do not understand that 3omen should only 1e
);9 part o0 their li0e.
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The goal o0 you going out is so that you ha/e a great
time, W4I+ST meeting ne3 3omen at the same time.
That is the goal, 0irst and 0oremost, is 0or you to ha/e
0un 3hilst meeting 3omen at the same time.
;ot to meet 3omen );+&.
&ou ha/e to en>oy the process and that,s more
importantJ
:emem1er, the 0ocus here is youJ
I,m not saying meeting 3omen shouldn,t 1e a 1ig part
o0 your li0e, 1ut i0 seduction and pickup is all you ha/e
going 0or your li0e then you,re in 1ig trou1le.
I0 you,re only purpose in li0e is to pickup and meet
3omen, then chances are you,re going to care too
much a1out 3hat a 3oman says or thinks % then end
up 1eing too attached to herJ
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I0 you do that then you are handing all your po3er o/er
to 3omen.
&ou are losing /alue and admitting to her that she,s
1etter than you.
Instead, 3hen you go out don,t actually care a1out the
outcome or 3hether or not you picked up that night.
:ather you should 1e chilled and en>oying the company
o0 your 0riends and ha/ing 0un during the process.
I0 you are ha/e the mentality o0 3here you see nothing
1ut picking a 3omen, then she,ll 1ecome too important
to you.
Women around you 3ill realiGe that 3hate/er they do
3ill a00ect you emotionally. This means, you,ll reacti/e
to her, then she 3ill 1e in control, thus making you less
attracti/e.
The 1est e?ample o0 3hy you should not 1e outcome
0ocused is this.
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+et,s imagine you meet a great girl 3ho,s se?y and
e?tremely 0riendly.
&ou hit it o00 and then you 0eel like the t3o o0 you ha/e
a great connection, so you ask 0or her num1er and then
she gi/es it to you.
It,s as i0 e/erything is going really 3ell, then you in/ite
her to go to your place.
She politely declines, then your 0riends come and
suddenly you turn around, 1ut to your surprise she
disappears.
&ou gi/e the num1er a call and realiGe that it,s the
3rong num1er.
&ou look around and can,t seem to 0ind her.
What happens ne?t to you, is 1ased on the 3ay you
percei/e things.
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I0 you,re outcome dependent, you start thinking in
negati/e terms. CMan that girl >ust ga/e me a 0ake
num1erD, CI can,t 1elie/e she pretended to like meD, and
then 1ad thoughts clog up your mind. &ou start getting
/ery angry and upset and you ruin the 3hole night out
3ith your 0riends.
Instead o0 ha/ing a great time out 3ith the guys you
decide to go home and start replaying the images o0
re>ection in your head o/er and o/er again.
Then the ne?t day, you 1ump into the same girl at the
1us stop and you gi/e her a death stare and s3ear at
her then lea/e.
Sounds like a 1ad ending right!
Aut guess 3hat, i0 you 3ere 0ocused on ha/ing a great
time, things 3ould ha/e 1een di00erent.
What i0 she didn,t gi/e you the 3rong num1er 1ut you
typed it in your phone incorrectly!
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What i0 she declined to go to your place 1ecause she
3as ha/ing her period!
What i0 she actually did like you 1ut 3as shy around her
0riends!
What i0 the ne?t day you sa3 her, and didn,t get mad,
you might ha/e 1een a1le to seduce herJ
.o you see 3hat I,m getting at!
Aeing outcome 0ocused not only makes
you more negati/e, 1ut 1ecause o0 the
3ay it changes your thoughts to think o0
the 3orst outcomes, it not only ruins
your o3n day, it makes people around
you misera1le as 3ellJ
-. 4eo'le o% lo* 2$lue c+$(e $ll t+e ti/e & .o not do
thisJ &ou don,t 3ant not to 1e seen as the guy 3ho
acti/ely chases A++ the time. Women 3ho acti/ely
chase men are called sluts 1ecause they +)S9 /alue 1y
gi/ing other men se?. This is the same 0or men. I0
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you,re a guy 3ho acti/ely chases 3omen e?clusi/ely all
the time, you 3ill lose /alue e?tremely uicklyJ
What you need to do is chase, 1ait then 3ait.
&ou should chase a little and see i0 the 3oman reacts, i0
she reciprocates and then you chase a little 1it more,
and i0 she does something then you do a little more. As
you can see this cycles on and on, on and o00.
An e?ample o0 this is may1e you call to ask her out a
0e3 times, and then stop. &ou 3ant to see i0 she calls to
in/ites you out as 3ell. I0 she does, you can continue
3ith the interaction.
What you don,t 3ant to end up 1ecoming is the guy
3ho calls her so much that she ends up pretending to
1e 1usy, 1ut then later you 0ind her out 3ith another
man. I0 you do this, then your actions can 1e analogous
to a man adri0t in the ocean and hanging onto a piece
o0 3ood, he,ll ne/er let go. Why is the man doing this!
It,s 1ecause he is desperate and kno3s i0 he lets go he
3ill die.
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The same principle applies here, you 3ant to let her
kno3 that you,re a man 3ho,s popular 3ith girls, and
she,s pri/ileged to ha/e your interest, and you,ll gi/e
her more interest i0 she 1eha/es in the 3ay you like %
1ut you,re 3illing to 3alk a3ay anytime she does
something stupid. The t3o o0 you 3ould 1e 0antastic
together, 1ut you,re per0ectly 0ine to 1e 3ithout her.
That is 3hat a true alpha and dominant man is like.
In short, the distinction 1et3een a success0ul seducer and
an a/erage chump is the 3ay these t3o people think. The
mindset that you ha/e in your head dictates your
outcome.
=eople 3ho are success0ul at li0e and also in seduction
ha/e a predominantly positi/e mindset, thus they are a1le
to act in the 3ays that I listed in the pre/ious chapter to
demonstrates e?tremely high /alue. Whereas, people 3ho
0ail at dating ha/e a predominantly negati/e mindset, and
they display the characteristics that I >ust e?plained in this
chapter.
=erhaps in the past you didn,t kno3 3hat you 3ere doing
that resulted you not 1eing a1le to get the 3omen you
desire.
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That,s per0ectly ok.
I 3as once there 1e0ore.
So 3ere plenty o0 others.
;o3 you do kno3 3hat you,re doing, or 3hat you should
1e doing.
It,s no3 your time to shine in the spotlight.
It,s time 0or you to shed the old persona that 3as
repelling 3omen.
It,s time 0or you to e/ol/e into a supernatural seducer.
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Chapter 6 How to make her like you
As stressed in earlier parts o0 this 1ook, the thing that 3ill
really attract a 3oman is a man,s percei/ed social /alue.
There0ore, it is not surprising
that a 3oman 3ill not take the
energy to hang out 3ith you or
gi/e you her phone num1er, let
alone talk to you, unless you
let her kno3 that you,re a1le
to pro/ide a contri1ution to the
interaction and you,re /alua1le.
Most guys 3ho 0ail 3ith 3omen and end up 1eing
percei/ed as 1eing losers or >erks in clu1s or 1ars 1ecause
they simply do not understand the importance o0 /alue in
an interaction.
That is 3hy I am spending so much time stressing this
point.
The a/erage guy 3ould say to a 3oman:
Chey can I 1uy you a drink! or C3hat,s your name!D
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I0 you look at the 3ay the man presents himsel0, he comes
0rom a position o0 lo3er status and in those 0e3 3ords,
the girl can tell that he is talking to her in order to make
himsel0 0eel good.
The more attention she gi/es him, the more /alidated he
1ecomes.
This is unattracti/e and it,s not surprising that most men
3ho try and pick up 3omen like that 0ail misera1ly.
The 3oman 3ill immediately think in her head Coh, gosh i0
I talk to this guy, I 3onder ho3 long he,s going to 1other
me 0orD.
The reason 1ehind the 3ay she 0eels a1out the interaction
is routed in the 1asics o0 human psychology.
Would you place your money in the hands o0 an
in/estment trust unless you kno3 that it,s going to 1e
3orth it!
$hances are, you,d 3ant to kno3 ho3 much you,d 1e
getting 1e0ore you put it in.
)ther3ise, you 3ould percei/e the transaction to 1e risky.
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The same principle applies here.
Women in general, especially the attracti/e ones ha/e
1een hit on so many times in their li/es they cannot
remem1er ho3 o0ten it occurs.
So i0 you 3ant to get their attention, you need to let her
kno3 that you 3ill pro/ide her 3ith a positi/e return and
gi/e her /alue in the interaction, and that you 3ill gi/e all
o0 this up0ront. )ther3ise, there are so many other guys
out there trying to get into her pants, 3hat makes you
any di00erent than the rest!
So ho3 do you gi/e 3omen /alue up0ront in a 3ay that
she 3ill 1e 3illing to reciprocate!
It,s much easier and simpler than you think.
Instead o0 0ocusing on the 3oman, 3e should turn our
attention to you.
&ou need to ensure that you,re ha/ing a good time and
1eing en>oya1le to 1e around.
I0 you come across as 1eing 0un lo/ing, happy, cheer0ul
and non2needy, then you,re display a large portion o0 the
characteristics o0 a high /alue indi/idual and she,ll 1egin
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to look at you in a di00erent like.
)nce you understand that you
need to 3ork o00 the 0rame3ork o0
a high status male, then ne?t 3ell
turn our attention regarding the
actual Cho3 toD o0 attracting the
3omen you desire.
So ho3 do you actually attract
3omen!
;o3 this is pro1a1ly the hardest part 0or most men to
understand, ho3 to attract 3omen to 1e more than >ust a
0riend. In order to understand and 1ecome a supernatural
seducer, you need to understand the 0ollo3ing:
".ho3 to make her trust youQ
'.ho3 to increase her attraction to youQ and
*.ho3 to make her 0eel like you t3o ha/e rapport.
6.1 0o* to /$ke +er tru(t you?
Well, it,s /ery simple, 1ut to get started let,s look at the
things you need to acti/ely a/oid and not do at all costs:
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". )rying too +$rd to look good % there are a lot o0
guys 3ho try /ery hard in order to try and make
themsel/es look cool, 1ut end up looking /ery
unnatural.
Women are a1le to identi0y 3hether or not you are
0eeling com0orta1le and cohesi/e in the 3ay you act or
interact around her. It,s /ery easy 0or a girl to >ust pick2
up the /i1e that you are 1eing not you. I0 you end up
doing this you not only make it 0eel 3eird, 1ecause she
kno3s she >ust changing your 1eha/iour, 1ut you,re
also are making yoursel0 0eel strange to 1e around. An
e?ample o0 trying too hard to look cool 3ould 1e to
trying to talk a1out topics that you don,t understand in
order to impress a 3oman. Then not 1eing a1le to
accurately e?plain things in more detailed 3hen asked.
'. )rying to 'ut ot+er( do*n there are some guys
out there 3ho are naturally a1le to make 0un o0 people
3hilst ha/ing 0un at the same time. It,s /ery important
that i0 you do make 0un o0 a person, that the person
in/ol/ed kno3s it,s a >oke so that the /ictim and others
0eels com0orta1le. .o not end up 1eing like a type o0
guy 3ho makes others 0eel 1ad 3hen they put them
do3n 23ithout ensuring at the same time that it,s 0or
the greater 0un and entertainment o0 the group. Making
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0un o0 others should 1e something to actually increase
the group cohesion not something that 3ill separate
people 3ithin a group.
*. Being $nnoying % no3 this point comes across in a
/ariety o0 3ays, some guys are annoying 1y >ust 1eing
too immature, some guys are annoying 1y >ust saying
the 3rong things, and some guys are >ust 1eing
annoying 1ecause they hang around the girl too much.
What you need to understand is that 3omen like most
other people ha/e a temperQ you need to 1e a1le to
read her emotional charts and understand her le/el o0
interest in you. The higher the le/el o0 interest she has
in you, the more you are a1le to hang around her and
get a3ay 3ith immature things or saying stupid things.
4o3e/er, i0 she is already not attracted to you, and you
end up saying silly immature things, she 3ill 0eel /ery
uncom0orta1le and not 3ant to 1e around you.
The most common mistake o0 1eing C>ust annoyingD is
3hen a guy tries to call a girl too o0ten and hang out
too much. The mere 0act that you see a person a lot
makes that person less attracti/e to you 1ecause, in
their eyes, you,ll 1e CcommonD and not rare, and they
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3ill not /alue the time they ha/e 3ith you.
#. Br$gging % a lot o0 men 0eel uncom0orta1le in their
o3n skin, so they end up thinking they need to make
themsel/es look 1etter in 0ront o0 the 3omen 1y
e?aggerating things or adding e?treme color to their
stories. Aragging is something that 3omen can smell
immediately 0rom a guy. I0 you end up 1ragging not
only 3ill you make her 0eel uncom0orta1le 1ut you 3ill
look like a 0ool then in turn 3ill 1e considered o0
e?treme lo3 /alue. This is 1ecause she 3ould kno3
that you,re only 1ragging to try and impress her. Which
in turn 3ill make her understand you are reacting to
her and she can a00ect you emotionally.
5. Being too clingy % 3hat I mean 1y 1eing to clingy is
that you are al3ays trying to 1e around the 3oman that
you are attracted to. I ha/e mentioned this 1e0ore, this
is a ho3 to 1e annoying. &ou need to gi/e the 3omen
you,re pursuing space to 1e alone, and 3ithout you.
8i/e her time to actually miss you.
I0 you are too clingy this tells 3omen that you cannot
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li/e your li0e 3ithout her, and she is not only a part o0
your li0e 1ut rather she IS your li0e and your 3orld
re/ol/es around her.
Most people like I,/e mentioned
1e0ore, do not like to ha/e a 1urden
o0 responsi1ility o0 taking care o0
other people, especially gro3n men.
So i0 you are to clingy then this
means it,s going make you look
really 1ad like you cannot handle li0e
3ithout her.
As a rule o0 thum1 the ma?imum times you should see
a 3oman you,re interested in is * or # times a 3eek.
This is assuming that you,re not sleeping 3ith her.
I0 you are already in the se?ual stages, then clearly she
is 0ar more interested in you than >ust 1eing a 0riend, so
you can see her a 1it more, 1ut you don,t 3ant to see
her e/ery single day. That 3ould 1e tiring 0or the 1oth
o0 you.
6. St$nding t+ere *it+ not+ing to ($y % no3 this
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pro1lem appears a lot 3hen guys hang around a
3oman too much. They end up 3ith nothing interesting
to pro/ide to the 3oman o0 con/ersational /alue. And
then it makes the 3hole situation /ery a3k3ard and
3eird 1ecause she kno3s that you 3ant to talk to her,
1ut then you,/e got nothing to say, so you end up
talking a1out silly topics 3hich e/entually make you
look like a 0ool.
Why do you end up looking stupid!
This is 1ecause o0 the 0act that most men e/entually
think o0 topics that they talk a1out 3ith other guys, to
talk a1out 3omen and it does not 3ork most o0 the
time. <or e?ample, they may start talking a1out
0oot1all, 3ork issues or anything and e/erything else
that 3ould 1ore a 3oman to death.
In order to get around the issue, all you need to do is
to make sure that you do not talk to the girl that you
are attracted A++ the time, and you only talk to her
3hen you kno3 you ha/e a con/ersational topic that is
interesting to 1oth o0 you.
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7. St$nding in $ grou' o% guy( *it+out (/iling o%
,eing %riendly to +er % a lot o0 guys are not con0ident
or com0orta1le 3ith themsel/es. That,s 3hy they hang
out in groups to gi/e each other support. In order to 1e
a supernatural seducer, you need to understand that
your presence needs to 1e not only approacha1le 1ut
e?tremely 0riendly and at all times 0un.
I0 you are standing around a group o0 guys, then
3omen 3ill notice you and 3ill not only see you 1eing
aggressi/e, 1ut 3ill actually a/oid you. &ou need to
understand that this is a natural human reaction to a
group, especially a group o0 men.
I0 you can, 1ranch out 0rom the group 3ith a selected
3ingman. This 3ill make you much more easier to talk
to and 1ring do3n the de0ences o0 the 3omen much
more.
-. S+o*ing *$y too /uc+ intere(t in $ *o/$n t+ey
$re not ro/$ntic$lly in2ol2ed *it+ % This is a
ne31ie mistake that a lot men make. In order to attract
3omen properly, you need to gi/e her the 0eelings that
you,re not interested to her. Sure she might get the
impression that you ha/e good /i1es 0or her, 1ut you
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don,t 3ant to 1e like a puppy dog and 0all head o/er
heels 0or her % then let her kno3 a1out itJ

What you need to do is stand out unlike the other guys
3ho act like puppy dogs and >ust run into her and 3ho
start missing her and thro3ing as much attention in
terms o0 1oth time and money at her as they can.
What you need to do is let her kno3 that you ha/e a
great personality. Without 1eing o/er 1earing. +et her
kno3 that you might 0ind her attracti/e, 1ut you also let
her kno3 that you not an easy guy.
4o3 do you do this!
I 3ill demonstrate using an e?ample. 8uys o0ten 1uy
girls things they do not deser/e % especially to girls
3ho they do not kno3, 1ut are physically attracti/e.
;o3 3hy is this a 1ig pro1lem!
Aecause, this 3oman 3ill realiGe that this man, and
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men like this in general could 1e used and manipulated.
I0 you sho3 too much interest too uickly, you gi/e the
girl the option o0 re>ecting you.
&ou 1ecome the one that is getting chosen, not the one
in the pilot,s shoes.
That is 3hy you do not 3ant to sho3 too much interest
too uickly.
&ou don,t 3ant to 1e seen as >ust another guy 3ho the
3oman can use.
&ou 3ould 1e seen as a sugar daddy Ni0 she 3ants
something you might 1uy it 0or herO or a dri/er Nshe,ll
call you to pick her up and take her placesO 3hen she,s
in need.
What you do instead is sho3 a little interest, then 3ait.
I0 she reciprocates then you sho3 a little 1it more
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interest.
It,s kind o0 like pushing and pulling the interest o0 the
3oman.
I0 she,s interested in you, you pull her a little 1it closer
to you 1y gi/ing more attention, 1ut then 3hen she
likes you a little you ignore her a 1it. That pushes her
a3ay and this increases her initial attachment to you
making you much more attracti/e and making her more
com0orta1le.
I0 you care too much 0or a 3oman that you are not 3ith
or romantically dating then you are sho3ing her that
you like her too much and she,s too important to you.
=eople in general do not 3ant to carry that 1urden o0
responsi1ility o0 1eing so important to someone else
that they are not o00icially together 3ith.
So i0 you are caring too much 0or the girl that you are
not dating, say 0or e?ample, calling her all the time
3ondering 3hat she,s doing, 3anting to kno3 3hat her
plans are all the time, 3anting to kno3 e/erything
a1out her li0e % 3hen you,re not 3ith her, then you,re
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simply caring too much. ;ot only can she tell that you
care too much 0or her, she 3ill e/entually 1e 0eeling so
much pressure 0rom you that you,ll make her 0eel so
uncom0orta1le and she 3ill not 3ant to 1e around you.
9. Being too (eriou( % a lot o0 guys make the mistake o0
1eing serious all the time. This is /ery 1oring. ;ot only
0or you, 1ut also 0or her.
.o you 3ant to hang out 3ith a guy
that is al3ays serious all the time!
I don,t think soI
That,s 3hy 3omen don,t 3ant to hang out 3ith guys
3ho are al3ays too serious and cannot take a >oke.
+ighten up and perhaps sometimes don,t take things so
seriously 2 remem1er the most attracti/e men are
those 3ho are rela?ed all the time.
"(. )rying to %orce re('on(e( in $ needy *$y% This
happens 3hen a guy is too o1/ious 3hen he,s trying to
test i0 a girl likes her. <or e?ample, a guy 3ould ask a girl
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directly Cdo you like meD or he,d ask 0or opinion a1out
something in relation 3ith him, 0or e?ample he,d say Cdo
you think I,m good looking!D This sho3s to a 3oman that
the man is not con0ident 3ith himsel0, that,s 3hy he does
not kno3 the ans3er himsel0 and secondly he cares a lot
a1out 3hat 3omen think o0 him.
These t3o things tell a 1eauti0ul 3oman this this man has
lo3 sel02/alue and needs to 1e ele/ated other people
around them to make him 0eel 1etter. This is /ery
unattracti/e and does not create com0ort.
"". Being goo%y to +ide ner2ou(ne(( % some guys are
ner/ous 3hen they meet girls, so instead o0 trying to
look cool they try to 1e 0unny, too 0unny. This causes
1ig pro1lems 1ecause they end up looking like a "*2
year2old child 3ho does not kno3 3hat to do around
the presence o0 3omen and this e?tremely unattracti/e.
Say 0or e?ample, they might start telling dirty >okes
3hen they,re not good a telling dirty >okes, so the >oke
1ecomes /ery crude and /ulgar. )r they might start
making 0un o0 others 3here it,s not 3ithin their
personality to do so. This sho3s e?treme ner/ousness
and makes 1oth o0 you e?tremely uncom0orta1le.
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"'. @re$king out or +$2ing too /uc+ o% $n
e/otion$l re('on(e a lot o0 guys care too much at
the outset, there0ore anything that the girl does, or
3hate/er e/ent that might in/ol/e her, a00ects the
emotions o0 the guy pursuing her 3ay too much. This is
so se/ere that they end up o0 1ecoming o0 the girl,s
0ather.
<or e?ample i0 you >ust meet a girl and another guy
starts talking to her in a clu1 3hat 3ould you do!
I0 you are a supernatural seducer 3hat you 3ill do is
>ust 3ait and see.
I0 the con/ersation lasts 0or a little 3hile, you 3ould
introduce yoursel0 to the other guy and see ho3 they
react to one another. 4o3e/er, most guys 3ill 0reak out
and start 1ecoming aggressi/e or tell the other guy to
0uck o00. This 3ill make the moment actually /ery
a3k3ard 1ecause she doesn,t kno3 you that 3ell to 1e
that loyal to you as a 0riend 2 there0ore the ne3 guy
might 1e more attracti/e to her. That,s 3hy it,s /ery
important to keep your head cool and not 0reak out and
ha/e emotional responses that are ad/erse in
proportion to the situation.
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"*. Co/'li/enting +er too e$(ily $nd *$y too o%ten
% i0 you are too nice, you,ll 1e seen as another puppy
dog guy 3ho 3ould >ust do e?actly 3hat she says all
the time 3ithout her asking 0or it. In 0act, you 3ill 1e
1egging to do her e/ery command.
This is /ery unattracti/e as you 3ill no longer 1e a
challenge and you,ll no longer 1e an attracti/e male.
&ou,ll >ust 1e easy to 3alk all o/er.
That,s 3hy it,s /ital to no complement a girl too easily
or 1e too nice.
In 0act you should 1e more o0 a nice and 0unny >erk.
Ae mean most o0 the time and 1e nice >ust sometimes,
this 3ill make her keep her in the toes, and make you
standout 0rom the other guys.
"#. M$ke t+e girl /ore i/'ort$nt co/'$red t+$n
your %riend( & I kno3 a lot o0 guys make the mistake
o0 >ust ditching their 0riends to get a ne3 girl.
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This is a 1ig no no and should 1e a/oided.
I0 you are 1acksta11ing your 0riend >ust to make the
girl impressed this causes serious pro1lems. As the old
saying goes C1ros 1e0ore hoesD make sure your girl is
not more important than your 0riends.
<riends in general should 1e a1o/e 3omen in terms o0
priority e?cept 0or the 3oman that you marry.
The reason 0or this is simple.
8irls come and go, 1ut you,re
0riends 3ere there 1e0ore this
girl arri/ed on the scene and
chances are i0 you don,t 1etray
them, they,ll 1e there 0or years
a0ter the girl has gone.
"5. :(king too /$ny unrel$ted -ue(tion % in general
guys 3ant to kno3 a lot a1out a girl, 1ut they don,t
kno3 ho3 to start an interesting con/ersation.
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So 3hat do they do!
They ask random uestions a1out random topics, 3hich
are not only 1oring to 1oth parties, 1ut do nothing to
make the con/ersation more interesting. I ha/e heard
stupid things C3hat 3as their 0a/orite car! )r 3hat,s
their 0a/orite 0ruit!D or something as stupid as that.
My point is, don,t ask unrelated uestions.
9/en i0 she does ans3er it properly, like CI like 1lue
carsD or CI like applesD, 3hat are you t3o going to
discuss a0ter!
Is it going to make her 3ant to >ump into 1ed 3ith you!
I0 you ask a uestion make sure they count. What I
mean 1y this is, make sure e/erything you say to a girl
makes her more attracted to you 1y increasing the
emotional attachment to the con/ersation.
.on,t ask random uestions that don,t ha/e any
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positi/e conseuence 0or your seduction purposes.
"6. )oo e$ger to $n(*er -ue(tion( % a lot o0 guys
sho3 3ay too much interest 1y demonstrating e?treme
eagerness to ans3er uestion 3hen the girl does not
ask them 0or it. This sho3s that the male is thro3ing all
their attention to the girl. The girl at this stage,
normally did nothing in order to 3ork 0or it. Thus,
cheapening the /alue o0 the guy,s contri1ution, as she
>ust gained something 0or nothing.
This 3ill reduce your attraction and
make her less com0orta1le around you
1ecause you 3ill 1e >ust like another
guy 3ho has no spine and do 3hate/er
that she says.
6.2 0o* to incre$(e +er $ttr$ction to you
In order 0or you to succeed 3ith 3omen, you must
understand that you need to pro/e to her that you are
interested in her 0or something more than >ust her looks.
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&ou ha/e to sho3 her that your desire 0or her is not >ust
on the sur0ace 1ut you 3ant a deeper connection.
:egardless o0 the 0act that you may simply 3ant a 3oman
1ecause you 0ind her attracti/e, you still need to someho3
let her kno3 that you like her personality.
It,s generally ad/ised that i0 you do pursue a 3oman, you
should look 0or other things than >ust her looks.
Aut I do kno3 that you,re not going to marry e/ery single
girl that you meet and there are some relationships that
you may pursue purely 1ased 0or se?. 4o3e/er, I 3ant to
make sure you,re prepared to 1e a1le to keep the 3omen
that you genuinely and truly admire.
So in order to let a 3oman kno3 that she is the target o0
your a00ection rather 0or 0actors 1eyond her physical
1eauty you need to uali0y her.
What do I mean 1y this!
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&ou 3ant to sho3 her, through a progression o0 steps, that
she initially 3asn,t /ery special 1ut e/entually through the
passing o0 time and throughout your interactions the t3o
o0 you 1uilt a connection that you cherish.
The process o0 uali0ying a 3oman to attract her is as
0ollo3s:
". Ask her open2ended uestions a1out deeper and
more meaning0ul topics 3here you truly are a1le to
disco/er her characteristics and ualities.
'. +et her kno3 that you appro/e or disappro/e o0 her
ualities.
*. Then hint to her that it is 1ecause o0 the /alues she
demonstrated 3hilst ans3ering your uestions you
t3o ha/e connected on a le/el that 3ould make her
special in your eyes.
A 3orking e?ample is as 0ollo3s:
ouA I0 you had all the money in the 3orld, 3hat 3ould
you do 3ith it!
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0erA 3o3, that,s an interesting uestion. I guess I 3ould
start an orphanage and help children 3ho are less
0ortunate than I am. I 3ould thenI 1lah 1lah 1lah
Na0ter 5 minutes o0 e?plaining 3hat she 3ould do in detailO
ouA really I ne/er thought you 3ere such a kind and
gentle person. There truly is more to you than >ust meets
the eye. I totally agree 3ith you, as I also ha/e a World
Eision child that I am caring 0or and I really like the 0act
that 3e,re on the same standing here.
&ou 3ould then repeat the process o0 asking her more
deep and personal uestions, so that she,ll open to you
more and more.
A0ter doing this a 0e3 times, the t3o o0 you 3ould ha/e
shared your deeper and more personal thoughts.
This is 3hat sets you apart 0rom other men and pro/es to
her that you,re attracted to her 0or more than her looks
and as such, she,ll start liking you much more.
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The critical thing to 1ear in mind is that you should ne/er
e/er stop uali0ying a girl.
&ou al3ays need to let her think in her mind that you,re
interested in her 0or more than >ust the se?.
Another reason 3hy letting a girl kno3 the reason W4&
you like her is the 0act that it 0urther enhances your
superior social standing.
When you make sure the 3oman that you sleep 3ith need
to possess traits and ualities that you acti/ely 0ilter, you
sho3 her that you ha/e other options and that you clearly
are a man that other 3omen desire.
&ou,re not >ust like the other guys 3ho like her simply 0or
her looks.
Instead you,re a guy 3ho 3ants to kno3 3hat she,s like
1eyond her physical re0lection in the mirror and you let
her kno3 that.
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In general, you should spend a lot more time to uali0y a
girl the less you kno3 her.
Typically at the start o0 the pickup, you
ask general uestions to uali0y the
3oman and mo/e into more deeper topics
as sho3n in the e?ample a1o/e.
4ere are a list o0 common uestions you
ask a girl to uali0y her at the start:
". Tell me 3hat,s special a1out you!
'. What Rs the most proudest and coolest thing you,/e
done
*. Are you an ad/enturous person! Tell me something
that you,/e done that makes you so.
#. What do you do 0or 0un in your spare time!
5. Tell me something interesting that you do to annoy
others!
6. What,s the 3orst pickup line you,/e heard!
+ater on in the pickup, you can ask these deeper
uestions:
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". What 3ould you 3ant to do i0 you could change the
3orld!
'. I0 money 3asn,t a pro1lem 3hat 3ould you 1e doing!
*. Who are the most in0luential people in your li0e!
#. What 3ould you consider to 1e more important!
+o/ing someone 1ut kno3ing they 3ill lea/e you or
not lo/ing at all!
5. Would you 0irst cheat on someone i0 you kne3 that
they 3ere going to cheat on you!
I cannot stress ho3 important it is 0or you to properly
uali0y a girl. .o not rush this stage and spend a lot o0
time at it. Also, make sure you actually +IST9; to her
responses intently.
The reason 0or this is 1ecause it 0urther opens up the lines
o0 communication and she 3ould 1e sharing her thoughts
3ith you.
This 3ould make your presence more com0orta1le and
soon she,ll 1e a1le to rela? and really let do3n her guard.
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;o3 you ha/e her initial interest, you need to 3ork on
ampli0ying her attraction to3ards you.
$reating a lot o0 attraction is not something e?tremely
hard once you understand the theory a1out it.
6.2.1 M$ke +er in2e(t in you
In short it,s all a1out her emotional
in/ol/ement in you.
4o3 do you get people to 1e
attracted to you, especially 3omen!
What you need to do is to get them
mostly attached to you, more speci0icallyQ you need to get
their emotions connected to you.
&ou ha/e a greater emotional attachment to the people
you lo/e the most.
So i0 you are a1le to make a 3oman interested in the
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dealings 3ith you, you 3ill 1e more attracti/e to her, 0ar
more than compared to other men.
+et me e?plain this theory to you through an analogy.
<or e?ample, let,s pretend you purchased a cheap run
do3n car 3orth S"((.
I0 you spend si? hours a day, e/ery single
day 3orking on that car 3orth "((
dollars, you 3ill most likely 1e attached
to that /ehicle. I0 something happened
1ad to the car you 3ill 1e a00ected in a
negati/e 3ay.
This is despite the 0act that the monetary /alue o0 the car
3as only S"(( 3hen you purchased it.
&ou 3ould take it personally 1ecause you spent so much
o0 your time and in/ested your 1lood s3eat and tears
trying to make the /ehicle 1etter.
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&ou had your emotions em1edded into the car chassis
despite the 0act, that no matter ho3 you time you ha/e
spent on the car to increase the /alue, it,s still going to 1e
a cheap car.
This is the same thing 3ith human interactions.
I0 you can get her emotionally attached to the
con/ersation or interactions 3ith you. She 3ill turn 1e
more attracted to you and you 3ill 1e liked 1y her in a
romantic sense.
So ho3 to do this!
4o3 do you get her to open up her emotional 1ank and
in/est her hard earned 0eelings into you!
&ou do this 1y asking the right uestions.
What you need to do is ask her uestions that she doesn,t
share 3ith other people, so you get responses out o0 her,
that are so pri/ate and personal that you 3ill 1e a1le to
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connect to her in the core.
What do I mean 1y this!
4er inner core is part o0 her personality that she doesn,t
sho3 to e/ery1ody.
In 0act she only sho3s it to her closest 0riends 2 i0 she
shares it at all.
Most people in this 3orld ha/e t3o type o0 personality and
personas.
The 0irst is the out3ard 0ace that they sho3 the 3orld, this
is the 0ace 3here they sho3 in the street they sho3 in
pu1lic and to co23orkers. This is their Ce/eryday 0aceD.
Aut in reality there is an inner core 1eing, this is a person
that they only sho3 to their close 0riends and 0amily. What
you need to do is talk to her core.
Ask her personal uestions that make her slightly let do3n
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her guard.
Say 0or e?ample rather asking 3hat she does 0or a li/ing,
say something like this Cdon,t you 0ind it interesting that
most people try to make 0riends 1y introducing each then
they start asking super0icial uestions a1out each other,s
education or uali0ications. It,s as i0 they are inter/ie3ing
each other to see i0 they are 3orthy o0 1eing 0riends. So
unlike those guys, I 3ant to talk a1out something
interesting. What 3as the 0unniest or 3orst pickup
attempt that you had e?perience!D.
;o3 i0 you asked a girl a1out the 3orst pickup e/ent that
she has e?perienced she 3ill share 3ith you a /ery 0unny
story.
This 3ill in turn make the interaction interesting and she
3ould not share the story to other 0riends. 4o3e/er, she
3ill remem1er it /ery 1ecause it,s 0unny and she 3ill talk
a1out it. ;ot only 3ill this open you up 0or the t3o o0 you
to talk a1out relationships, this 3ill also gi/e you access to
that Gone inside her li0e 3here she talks to you a1out guys
and people she,s 1een 3ith, or 3hat she looks 0or in a
man and 3hat,s important to her in a relationship.
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All this talk that she,ll share 3ith you 3ould 1e /ery
personal to her, and she 3ould not ha/e >ust shared it
3ith anyone.
Ay doing that, it 3ould 1e as i0 she,s taking a chance 3ith
her emotional 1ank and opening up the /aults and putting
some in your keep.
I0 you,re a1le to do this o/er and o/er again, she,ll realiGe
that you,re more than >ust a 0riend material.
That,s ho3 to increase the
attraction to you 0rom 3omen, you
need to ask uestions that are
personal to her.
Make sure these uestions allo3
her to open up and 1e a 1it more
/ulnera1le 3hen she tells you it.
9/ery time she tells you a little secret. It,s as i0 she,s
taking a little 1it more o0 her emotional 1ank and putting
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in your keeping.
.on,t 1e like a chump and ask her super0icial uestions
that really do not matter.
In order to do this, and ask these pro1ing uestions, you
need to 1e good at introducing topics.
The 1est 3ay to make someone open up to you personally
is 1y sharing 3ith her a little secret o0 your o3n.
In the a1o/e e?ample, you could tell her the time 3hen a
girl tried to pick you up and 0ailed misera1ly.
;o3, apart 0rom getting her to open up her emotional
1ank through pro1ing uestions, you can also do it 1y
asking her to do small 0a/ors 0or you.
Ay making her acti/ely take action to do things 0or you,
you,re making her in/est in you.
That,s 3hat you 3ant her to do.
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<or e?ample, you can start 1y asking her 1uy you some
cookies once the t3o o0 you kno3 each other a 1it 1etter.
I0 she does that, thank her and then tell her that home
made cookies are e/en 1etter.
So that means ne?t time she,ll 1e going to the shops,
spending time and e00ort and standing there in the kitchen
3aiting 0or the cookies to 1e 1aked. Lust 0or youJ
The point is, the more things she does 0or you, the more
she 3ill su1consciously 1e attracted to you.
It,s >ust like ho3 you spend so much time and energy
adding modi0ications and doing up the cheap car.
=eople like to rationaliGe their actions, A<T9: they ha/e
done the action.
So i0 a 3oman starts 1aking you cookies, or 1ringing you
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lunch or starts doing things that a girl0riend 3ould do, she
3ould ha/e to rationaliGe it.
She 3ould then think to hersel0, A<T9: she,s 1rought you
lunch, CI 3onder 3hy I,m doing this, may1e it,s 1ecause I
like himD. Lust like ho3 you 3ould rationaliGe all the e00ort
and time spent in repairing such a run do3n /ehicle.
&ou must do it 1ecause the car is special.
So she must 1e doing things and opening up 0or you,
1ecause you are special to her.
)nce you set this pattern up, she,ll start seeing you as the
person she 3ants to connect 3ith romantically 3hether
she likes it or not.
I0 you can get her to do things that only a girl0riend 3ould
do, then in her mind she,ll actually con/ince hersel0 A<T9:
she,s done the act, then she,s doing all these things
1ecause she likes you and you,re special to her.
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6.3 0o* to /$ke +er %eel like you t*o +$2e
r$''ort $nd $ dee' connection
In order to make a 3oman 0eel close
enough to you 0or her to 3ant to sleep
you 3ith you need to ha/e a special
connection 3ith her.
&ou create this connection through ha/ing
rapport.
What is rapport!
:apport is the 0eeling o0 closeness 1et3een t3o people
and the 1est 3ay to create is 1y using this analogy.
Think a1out this uote:
Cits you and me 1a1y alone against this mad, mad 3orld.D
I0 you are a1le to let the 3oman think that it,s the t3o o0
you are alone together, and there is no one else around
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then you 3ould ha/e created something. &ou no3 1ecome
a team. &ou are no longer alone in this 3orld, 1ut you
ha/e someone else 3ho 3ill 1e there 1y your side to 1ack
you up 3here/er you,re in need.
What this does is makes you connected to that 3oman,
emotionally, intellectually and in time physically. This 1ond
1et3een you t3o is /alua1le to her and 1ecause o0 this,
you,ll 1e e?tremely important in her li0e.
This is po3er0ul.
I0 you are a1le to make your presence and persona
connect 3ith her inner core and 1ecome apart o0 her, then
you 3ould ha/e succeed in seducing her mind and soul.
She 3ill 0eel as i0 she has 0ound a soul mate in you and
you,re the only person that truly understands her.
It,s >ust you and her /ersus e/eryone else in this 3orld.
So once you esta1lish in her mind that you and her ha/e a
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connection that is e?clusi/e 1et3een the 1oth o0 then you
3ill 1e the only one she cares a1out. This is 1ecause once
you connect to her at an inner core in a le/el that most
people can,t e/en reach, you,re presence 3ould 1e
engra/ed in her happiness.
That,s the theory relating to the importance o0 rapport and
1uilding an inner connection.
Aut 3hat are the step21y2step things you can do
practically to start this process!
4ere,s a list o0 things that I 0ound to 1e easy to
implement, 1ut it,s important to start getting a role play
1et3een the t3o o0 you. A0ter that,s done you do this:
". gi/e nicknames 0or each other
'. create personal >okes 1et3een each other
*. make a distinct language 1et3een yoursel/es
#. make 0un o0 things together in a certain 3ay.
)nce you,re a1le to con/erse and talk to each other in the
3ay I descri1ed a1o/e it 3ill 1e as i0 it,s >ust the t3o o0
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you in the 3orld and you,re gro3ing stronger that special
1ond you ha/e.
It,s /ery important to get this rightQ you need to do this at
the start, 3hen you 0irst meet a 3oman. The reason 0or
this is i0 you don,t gi/e her during the 1eginning 1ut you
try it later, it 3ill 0eel a3k3ard.
I 0ind a great 3ay to initiate this is 1y >ust gi/ing the
3oman I meet that I,m attracted to a nickname the 0irst
time I see her, and I call her that repeatedly throughout
the interaction.
I say Coh, I like your skirt, it,s so 0ull o0 color and 0lo3ers,
I,ll call you a little 0lo3er girl no3. I think that nickname is
cuteD.
Then I o1ser/e her reactions and see ho3 she plays
along. What I,m looking 0or is 0or her to reciprocate 1ack
to gi/e me a nickname o0 sorts or reacts in a 0lirty
manner.
When you start 1uilding o00 these cute nicknames, or talk
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to each other in similar 3ays that others do not, you start
to 0lirt 3ith the 3oman on a le/el that is only reser/ed 0or
lo/ers and people 3ho are dating already.
This sets up the 0uture interactions to 1e
much more romantic and 0lirtatious as
you,ll 1e creating a 0eeling 3ith her that
you understand her. &ou and her are
alone in this 3orld and that you truly are
something that she cannot li/e 3ithout.
In my 0irst interaction, 3ith a girl I,m
attracted to, this is the process I go
through:
". gi/e her a cute and creati/e nickname
'. start making >okes that only she and I 3ould
understand
*. start talking in a 3ay that is 0unny, and i0 she laughs,
I tell her that she can 1e my student and I,ll teach
her the art o0 1eing insanely 0unny
#. make her using the 3ords that I teach her, other3ise
she,s a 1ad student and I,m going to punish her
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As you can see, this is a natural pattern and is 0un as
heckJ
What you need to do is get com0orta1le 3ith 1eing a 1it
silly and gi/ing 3omen nicknames and start roleplaying.
)nce you ha/e the role2play scenario going on, then it,s
pretty much a con0irmation on her part that you can start
0lirting 3ith her.
6.3.1 )re$t +er like your $nnoying little (i(ter
In short, the easiest 3ay to think a1out creating rapport
and a deep connection 3ith 3omen is that you should act
like she,s your annoying little sister that you make 0un o0.
8uys 3ho ha/e little sisters al3ays en>oy making 0un o0
them and playing >okes on them, 1ut 3hen it comes to
serious matters o0 sa0ety and protection they step in an
de0end their si1ling 3ith their li0e.
That,s ho3 you need to come across.
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So keep this in your mind, most o0 the time you should 1e
mercilessly teasing the girl that you,re interested in.
Make 0un o0 e/erything she does or says.
.on,t take her protests too seriously,
unless you kno3 that you,re done
something really 1ad.
The reason 3hy this strategy 3orks so
3ell is 1ecause only people 3ho kno3
each other /ery 3ell act in such a 3ay.
Think a1out this, men 3ho are good 0riends constantly
make 0un and pester each other in a 3ay to 1uild 1onding
and strengthen 0riendships.
8enerally the more you kno3 a guy the more you like to
make 0un o0 them.
Then the more they 3ant to get 1ack at making 0un o0
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you.
The same goes 3ith 3omen that you,re interested in.
The more you make 0un o0 her, the more she 0eels the t3o
o0 you are close and ha/e a deep connection, and the
more she,ll 3ant to get 1ack at you.
The only di00erence is unlike men making 0un o0 each
other, 3hen you make 0un o0 a 3oman, use su1tle hints o0
se?ual innuendo and make it as i0 she,s constantly trying
to hit on you and seduce you.
;ot only does it make 0or a 0unny con/ersation, 1ut this
sho3s to the 3oman that you,re not >ust Ca 0riendD you,re
a guy that 3ants much more than that, and you,re not
a0raid to hint it to her.
Most 3omen are a1le to pick up the cues and hints that
you drop in 3hen you,re 0lirting and teasing her and i0 she
0lirts 1ack or reacts to your teasing, then you kno3 that
it,s on.
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)+i( i( t+e end o% Colu/e 6A Sel% 9i(co2ery
I hope 1y the end o0 this /olume you 3ould ha/e made a
promise to yoursel0 that 0or the ne?t 9( days, you 3ill
acti/ely take 3hat you ha/e >ust learned and apply it to
your day to day li0e.
I0 you need to kno3 e?actly 3hat to say to take it to the
ne?t le/el, then read the ne?t /olume, Eolume II:
Areakthrough
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