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Cohabitation
a. Differences and similarities to marriage
i. similar to marriage:
1. emotional, physical, financial relationship
2. 40% include children
ii. different from marriage:
1. group level:
a. no legal contract (not a social institution)
b. no public commitment (less social pressure/acceptance; social pressure to
take the next step
2. individual level:
a. less guidelines, less clear social roles
b. more focused on personal autonomy
c. 50% are either uncertain about or uncommitted to relationship-less sharing of
resources
b. Casper & Sayer: Which types of cohabiting relationships are most common?
i. substitution for marriage (older) 10%
ii. precursor to marriage (engaged) (46%)
iii.trial marriage (15%)
iv. coresidential daters (29%)
c. Which are most likely to end?
i. trial marriage and coresidential daters
d. Pew Research on Millennials attitudes
*LESS RELIGIOUS->MORE POSITIVE ATTITUDES
i. % saying the cohabitation trend is:
1. 22% bad
2. 63% no difference
3. 14% good
20s
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How does age affect whether or not one has had vaginal intercourse?
-The older the age, the more likely a person has had vaginal intercourse
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Facts on teen sexuality: what do we know about teen sexual behavior, e.g. sex before age
15, sex within love relationships?
1. Teens are waiting longer to have sex. 2006-2008 14% of females and 11% of males had
had sex before age 15.
2. 70% of females and 56% of males: first sexual experience was with a steady partner
3. 16% of females and 28% of males report first having sex with someone they just met
or was just a friend.
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Hooking up: why are young women likely to hook-up rather than commit to a
relationship?
*because relationships can be greedy and guys can be disrespectful and have less
satisfaction
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TEXT: pp265
1. What affect do parents have on teen sexual behavior?
parent presence makes a difference
the more teens and parents see of each other, and the closer their relationship in general,
the more restricted will be the sexual behavior of the teens
adolescents who are not living with both of their biological parents are likely to become
sexually active at younger ages than children in intact families
an intact family unit, especially one that is close-knit, seems to have a conservative
influence on sexual behavior
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What do Gallup Poll -- what is the characteristic most sought after in a potential mate?
a. 94% of never-married 20-29 year olds want spouse to primarily be soul matessurpassing matters of religion, economics, and the ability to be a good mother or father
b. 80% of women feel that a husband who can communicate about his deepest feelings is
more desirable than a good living
c. only 16% have main purpose of having children
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male authority
romantic/passionate love
From text, 10 family roles that are part of the marital script.
a. provider
b. housekeeper
c. child care
d. child socialization
e. sexual
f.
therapeutic
g. recreation
h. kinship
12.
i.
friendship
j.
religious
What are the secret contracts or tacit agreements that couples begin to make during
courtship?
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What are the three stages of the stage model of relationships? What are the
characteristics of each stage?
a. expansion stage
i.
romance/sexual electricity
ii. reach out for connection and support, share feelings, perspectives
iii. feelings of creating a common vision, supporting each other's dreams, accepting each
other unconditionally
1. rose colored glasses idealized version of partner
2. everyone can have what they want
iv. Ive found my soul mate!!
b. contraction stage
i.
ii. differences in expectations and needs emerge that can not be overlooked
especially when roles are not clear cut
iii. disillusionment->feeling the other is inflexible or that you have been deceived or they
changed
iv. focus on negative behaviors as deliberate and provoking
v. negative feedback cycle: try to change other who gets defensive->power struggle,
withdrawal
vi. Youre not my soul mate!!
c. resolution stage
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How is the ideal of romantic love different from the expectation of commitment?
a. romantic love
i. idealized
ii. self focused
iii.sexual attraction
1. =NO WORK
b. commitment
i. expectation that relationship will grow, be strong, and last
ii. engage in Relationship Maintenance Behaviors (p.326)
1. Positivity
2. Openness (communication)
3. Assurances (commitment)
4. Network (common family/friends)
5. Sharing Tasks
TEXT
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What are the characteristics of the 10 family roles that couples must consider in scripting
their marriage (figure 12.2)?
a. housekeeper: includes both management and task aspects of running a household, from
meal planning and deciding on cleanliness standards to doing laundry and tidying the
house
b. provider: focuses on supplying the money and material goods necessary to support the
family
c. sexual: involves satisfaction of the sexual wants of the couple
d. kinship: the kin-keeper role maintains the place of the couples nuclear family in a
network of extended families
e. recreational: involves the leisure activities of the couple
f. therapeutic: deals with emotional and instrumental needs of the couple, providing
sympathy, understanding, and advice
g. child-care: primarily involved with the physical care of children, including feeding,
bathing, and protecting infants and young children
h. child-socialization: involves the responsibility of instilling the values, attitudes, skills, and
behaviors required by the children for success in society at large
i. *religious: includes the responsibility for formal and informal religious practices
j. *friendship: locates the couple in a network of extra-familial social relationships
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What are the secret contracts or tacit agreements that couples begin to make during
courtship?
i. about how the couple would behave during marriage and how they would expect their
partner to behave
b. What are these contacts often based on?
i. are often based on idealized images of each other and of marriage itself
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iii.if they do not actually work together, they share their work extensively by talking to
each other, having lunch together, and traveling together when possible
iv. it is as if 2 partners do not have a truly separate existence
v. infidelity would be virtually unthinkable
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How do the various measures of marital quality differ: happiness, satisfaction,
adjustment, stability?
a. happiness: characterized by good luck, pleasure, satisfaction, or joy; happiness is not
something a person can aim directly for but is an accidental by-product of other
phenomena;
b. satisfaction: fulfillment of a desire, need, or appetite; contentment derived from having
needs met
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What is modernization?
a. Urbanization- children no longer economic asset but economic cost, focus on emotional
bond,
b. Contraception- childbearing becomes a matter of if and when
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How and why has modernization affected fertility rates? Know the studies we went over
in class.
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How does the likelihood of being unmarried when giving birth change by age of mother?
a. younger=less likely to be married
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a. The share of births to teens mothers that are NONMARITAL rose from 79% in 200 to
86% in 2009
b. Over the last several decades, the share of all NONMARITAL births that are to teens has
been DECLINING from 52% in 1975 to 21% in 2009
c. 2/3 of teen births are 18-19 years old
d. Decline is due to contraceptive use and delayed sexual activity
e. Teen birth rates are not going up
TEXT
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birth rate: the total number of births per 1000 women in a year
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What is true of the fertility rate as compared to the fecundity rate in most societies, even
preindustrial societies?
a. rarely does the fertility rate approach the fecundity rate, although it comes close among
some groups
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What factors influenced the decline in fertility rates starting in the 1800s and continuing
on into the 20th c.?
a. Increasing numbers of years of formal education- resulted in postponed marriages and t/f
women were having fewer kids
According to the text, what was the most important contributor to the decline in fertility
rates?
a. having children became a net economic cost, rather than a net labor benefit
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Programmed to be nurturing
40 weeks gestation
Breastfeeding
-society/family
*Biology necessitates different roles in raising children
Sex-irreducible gender roles
*Biology requires the Separate Spheres model of family = traditional gender roles
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What is the characteristics of the Mask of motherhood?- Must enjoy all the work and
not complain
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What did the 2002 National Survey of Family Growth find concerning attitudes about
fathering and fathers activities with young children?
a. It is more important for a man to spend a lot of time with his family than to be successful
at his career.
i. 76% of men and 72% of women agreed/strongly agreed
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What limitations/barriers may fathers experience as they try to take on more child
rearing activities?
a. non-residential fathers:
i. residential fathers are more likely to spend time with their children that nonresidential fathers
b. employment:
i. reality of unequal salaries: men more likely to work full-time
ii. men not encouraged to do both, may be penalized
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pp347-350: What do studies show concerning the importance of mothers to children, the
importance of fathers to children?
a. mothers tend to maintain parenthood throughout life, regardless of their relationship the
the childs father
b. fathers tend to have close relationships with children as long as they have a relationship
with the child mother but often drift away from the child if the adult relationship ends
c. in american culture, a woman is a mother all of her life, but a man is a father if he has a
wife-even if he has a wife, a poor relationship with her is quite likely to mean he will have
a poor relationship with children
d. bother motherhood and fatherhood are largely socially constructed, fatherhood is more
subject to environmental and cultural influences than is motherhood
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Why is maintaining close relationships with children more difficult for fathers than
mothers?
a. Mothers are the ones who nurture and breastfeed the baby; gender roles and biology
b. Mothers maintain parenthood throughout life and dads tend to not be as involved
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What have studies shown concerning the effects of single parenting on children?
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What have studies shown concerning the effects of having lesbian parents on children?
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What are the characteristics of the three styles of parenting developed by Baumrind:
authoritarian, permissive, authoritative.
a. authoritarian:
i. have rigid expectations about proper behavior and see unquestioned obedience to
these expectations as the most important quality of their children
ii. respect for authority is emphasized, and punishment is often used to achieve that goal
iii.childrens obedience, not discussion and good communication, is seen as the solution
to problems
b. permissive:
i. see children as persons who have the right to have their emotional and physical needs
met
ii. deal with their children nearly as equals, being nonpunitive and accepting
iii.see themselves as resources for their children, who they believe will turn out fine on
their own without a lot of guidance or discipline
iv. there are frequent hugs and other physical touching of children and and absence of
physical punishment
v. parents attempt to use reason and persuasion with their children
c. authoritative:
i. somewhere on the continuum between authoritarian and permissive
ii. referred to as strictness with affection
iii.the apparent choice of current child rearing experts
iv. the most nurturing and generally use rewards rather than punishment
v. respond to their childrens demands for attention
vi. somewhat democratic yet controlling and demanding
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