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Though considered
to
be
a
psychological
problem, anger is
related with poor
liver function. Most
organs
are
connected to an
emotion and liver is
the
organ
connected
to
anger. Liver is
considered as the
seat of anger, it
stores not only
your anger but the
anger from others
as well. It's the
main
organ
responsible
for
handling all of the
chemicals coming
into the body.
But, if your liver is unable to render a toxin harmless for you, it'll store it for you to
keep it out of your blood. The toxic energy stored will eventually affect the organs
function and leads to anger problems. (Read Liver Cleanse)
blood flow is increasing to the frontal lobe, specifically the part of the brain that's over
the left eye. This area controls reasoning and is likely what's keeping you from
hurling a vase across the room. These areas generally balance each other out
quickly; according to some research, the neurological response to anger lasts less
than two seconds. This is why you get a lot of advice about counting to 10 when
angry.
Anger is a powerful emotion. If it isnt handled appropriately, it may have destructive
results for both you and your loved ones. Uncontrolled anger can lead to arguments,
physical fights, physical abuse, and assault and self-harm. On the other hand, wellmanaged anger can be a useful emotion that motivates you to make positive
changes.
Health problems
The constant flood of stress chemicals and associated metabolic changes that
accompany recurrent unmanaged anger can eventually cause harm to many
different systems of the body. Some of the short and long-term health problems that
have been linked to unmanaged anger include:
Headache
Insomnia
Increased anxiety
Depression
Heart attack
Stroke.
Anger explosions some people have very little control over their anger and
tend to explode in rages. Raging anger may lead to physical abuse or
violence. A person who doesnt control their temper can isolate themselves
from family and friends. Some people who fly into rages have low self-esteem,
and use their anger as a way to manipulate others and feel powerful.
If you feel out of control, walk away from the situation temporarily, until you
cool down.
Once you have identified the problem, consider coming up with different
strategies on how to remedy the situation.
Keep a diary of your anger outbursts, to try and understand how and why you
get mad.
See a counsellor or psychologist if you still feel angry about events that
occurred in your past.
Anger Cleanse
Deep Breathing
Breathing can alter your body's physical state. Relaxation is an important step
towards healing. The simplicity of deep breathing makes this process easier. Inhale
through the nose and draw as much air as is possible. Once the lungs are
completely filled, hold the lungs full for a count of 5 (five). After a count of five, exhale
from the very bottom of your lungs through your mouth. Do this 3 times. To start, this
breathing should be done three times daily with an increasing count.
Exercise
The next technique will be coupled with the healing sound. Each organ has an
associated color. The color for the liver is green--bright dark green--like emerald
green. We will use two things to impact the liver-the smile-down and healing light.
Think of an event in your past that was the funniest thing you've ever experienced.
Just thinking about this event causes you to laugh. This is the smiling energy you'll
use to help your liver. After doing the healing sound for your liver, begin this
following:
1. Stand, and walk around for a while.
2. As you are walking, use your hands and your thoughts to move the energy from
your liver into your naval area.
These are some basic techniques that can detox the liver and remove the charge of
anger stored there. With daily practice you'll find the depression lifting and the
triggers that used to key your anger no longer working.
To solve your anger problems, make some choices
Controlling or
In every case, learning to control your anger and act responsibly will get you more of
what you want from life.
If someone tends to be too argumentative, use behavioral training. Treat him or her
very well as long as he or she's agreeable and will discuss things calmly. If s/he gets
oppositional and controlling, try to be silent. Do not respond at all. If the person
doesn't stop after a few moments or if she or he gets louder, that may be evidence of
anger management problems. Out of control yelling and bad behavior is actually a
childish temper tantrum and it is not necessary to put up with it. Leave on the spot. If
youre home, go to another room, or take a walk. If you're dining out, take a taxi,
leave money for the bill if there is one, but get out of there. It doesn't matter how
important the occasion is; it's ruined anyway. Once the person realizes you're not
going to put up with bad behavior, he or she will hopefully understand it is
unacceptable and change it if possible or perhaps even get necessary therapy.
The person who loses his or her temper looks like the bad guy to everyone else, no
matter who started the problem or who is really at fault. Keeping your cool is a very
important social skill. It doesn't matter who's right, who started it or whether it's fair.
He (or she) who "loses it" to win an argument actually loses everything instead.
To get better at controlling your anger, use the following exercise to visualize a
scene where you got angry, and replay the tape several times, to get a clear picture
of yourself responding in different ways. When you do this, you are actually
rehearsing different reactions and giving yourself new options. You always have
choices. You can laugh, walk away, get thoughtful, be afraid, be angry or be
reasonable.
Rewinding the Tape
1. Imagine a previous angry situation as if its occurring now. Get as clear a picture
of the scene as possible, imagining what people are wearing, what the room
looks like, etc.
2. Mentally play the scene as if it's a video, and see how it develops. Don't worry if it
plays out according to your worst fears; just watch it as you would any video?
3. Because this scene didnt go well originally, consider what you'd like to change
about what you're doing (remember, you can't control the others in the scene, but
you can get them to respond differently by giving them something different to
respond to.) Rewind and replay this mental image, trying new ways to handle it
until you are successful (that is, you handle the situation without losing your
temper).
4. Play the tape a few more times, with this successful process and outcome, until
you feel confident you can do and say what you are visualizing.
5. Play the tape again and again, visualizing your successful outcome. The more
you replay it, and practice your new responses, the easier it will be to access
them in the next discussion.
6. You have just reprogrammed your mind to create some new responses to tense
or angry situations, and you'll find these responses are available to you when you
need them. Use this technique any time you're concerned about an upcoming
discussion or confrontation.
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You are more than whatever is troubling you. A very real part of you exists beyond
your worries, beyond your doubts, independent from the troubles and frustrations of
the present moment. Step back and observe yourself as you experience each
moment. Be present. Watch yourself as you think, as you take action, as you
experience emotions. Your body may experience pain, and yet that pain is not you.
Your mind may encounter troubles, and yet you are not those troubles.
Think of the most difficult challenge you face right now. Imagine that its not you, but
a close friend who is facing this challenge. What advice would you give her? If you
could step back and, instead of being the subject, look at your situation as an
objective observer, would you look at it any differently? Think of the advice you
would give your friend if your friend were in your shoes. Are you following your own
best advice right now?
Dont allow your current troubles to cloud your thinking. Take a few steps back and
give yourself the benefit of this distance and then give yourself some great advice.
8. Give yourself time.
Take all the time you need. Emotional healing is a process; dont rush yourself
through it. Dont let others force you through it either. Moving on doesnt take a day;
it takes lots of little steps to be able to break free of your broken past and your
wounded self.
Take today breath by breath, one step at a time. Never let trouble from the past
make you feel like you have a bad life now. Just because yesterday was painful
doesnt mean today will be too. Our wounds are often the openings into the best and
most beautiful part of us. Today you have a choice to explore these parts of
yourself. Give yourself the needed time and permission to explore and heal.
9. Look for the beginning in every ending.
A wise man once said, Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings
end. Today is a new beginning; treat it that way. Stop thinking about what might
have been and starting looking at what can be.
Say to yourself: Dear Past, thank you for all the life lessons you have taught me.
Dear Future, I am ready now! Because a great beginning always occurs at the
exact moment you thought would be the end of everything.
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