Facebook Dating - Turbocharge your love life online with social media.

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By Nicholas Jackman
Copyright 2012 by Powerful English
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Table of Contents
Foreword
Table of Contents
Five Steps as easy as A-Z
CHAPTER 1 - Facebooks Best Asset
CHAPTER 2 - Go Get Those Girls
Chapter 3 - FACE VALUE
Chapter 2 - The Way to Talk FB Dating Style
Chapter 3 - Standard Setting
Chapter 4 - caught in Your Net
Chapter 5 - Seal of Approval
Chapter 6 - Trigger Happy
Chapter 7 - Line of Engagement
Chapter 1 - Instant Gratification
Chapter 2 - With Tease Please
Chapter 3 - Get the Girl
Chapter 4 - Rate Your Date
CHAPTER 5 - Tip Top Dating Form
CHAPTER 6 - Prince Charming or Biker Dude
CHAPTER 7 - Youre Qualified

FOREWORD

Welcome to the new age of dating

Words can get you where you want. Words can get you into trouble. Words can take you to places that you never dreamed imaginable.
When it comes to dating on Facebook the following are the words we proudly present to you as the way forward in getting out of Facebook
the very best it has to offer. Although not a dating site per-se, it is being used this way all over the globe. The writer of this Facebook dating
guide is practiced in the art of Facebook dating. The skills he has honed in his dating through Facebook over the years are all within this
book. There have been many failures of course, the failures have been omitted and what you are left with is the gold that has been mined.
Internet dating land is a mine field, to ensure that you dont come out with egg on your face from your online dating ventures, go the
Facebook route. Take the Facebook route to dating with confidence and the backing of a real expert in the field. This Facebook Dating Guide
is for you, use it and succeed. It is easily consumable and provided in a format containing 3 X 7 chapters. Each chapter should be taken in
turn, as the book is divided into beginner / experienced and advanced sections. It is a progressive manual, taking things slowly at first, and
then as your abilities improve moving on to more complex concepts to take on. This allows you to become an expert in Facebook Dating
just like the writer. Read on and enjoy your conquest(s)

TABLE OF CONTENTS
Beginners Guide
1. Facebooks best asset. Introduction to FB Dating.
2. Go get those girls. Tools n tricks of the trade to finding the girl you want on FB.
3. Face value. What is in a photo? The ultimate profile for FB dating success.
4. Desperation stations. Are you desperate? Dont be, and dont appear so
5. Facebook con women. How to spot the con girls Be coy, dont be conned
6. Flirt until it hurts. Youve got to flirt to get that skirt. Here is how.
7. S elf-belief. Confidence is key to dating success.
The Experienced Facebook Dater
1. Real world Vs online dating. What is the difference when it comes to dating?
2. The way to talk FB style. Here are ones we made earlier M essages that worked!
3. S tandard setting Why you shouldnt have to accept lower standards
4. Caught in your net. How to network and make friends with girls in real life
5. S eal of approval. Endearing yourself to her friends via FB
6. Trigger happy. The beauty of words. The Lingo to get that number.
7. Line of engagement. M ake that call Lines and mantras have you got the nerve?
The Expert Facebook Dater
1. Instant Gratification. Instant message box as a date in itself including typing sex
2. With tease please. Tickling her where it matters
3. Get the girl. Converting your Facebook friend to girlfriend
4. Rate your date. Telling if your date went well
5. Tip top dating form. Real life dating tips.
6. Prince Charming or Biker Dude. What is the girl looking for in a guy?
7. Youre Qualified. Here is your PHD in Facebook Dating Science.

Facebook Dating Guide Round-Up

FIVE STEPS AS EASY AS A-Z

Getting started in your attempts to Facebook Date is an easy process. Becoming a master however in the discipline, now that takes a little
longer. This short guide is intended as a step by step, now of course it is always possible to jump right in to any new undertaking and adopt
a sink or swim mentality to your breast stroke attempts, but as you will find from the information contained within this Dating Book, it
isnt quite as simple as that.
M ake mistakes in this arena and you will suffer long term for those initial mistakes. Best practice is to practice and hone your abilities
before going out there into the Facebook Dating world with gusto. Take on each chapter of this book as a lesson, practice that lesson and
then move on to the next.
That is the best and sure fire route to success in Facebook Dating. However if you just cant wait and are willing to throw caution to the
wind, then here is what you should do.
We dont advise that you go by this means, but at the end of the day it is you who are in control of your actions. Enjoy.

Steps:
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.

Create user profile that the girls will just love.

Find a girl you want to get with
Find an area of commonality that will allow contact to be made
Go for it, attempt to flirt with her via postings before moving on to chat
Convince her to hand over her phone number and make the call.

It seems simple really doesnt it, but it may surprise you that each area mentioned here that you should go through, has pitfalls. One or two
of them may even seem impossible to you at the moment given your own lack of self-esteem.
The Facebook Guide you now possess is the route to finding out how you can take on these five steps time and time again, successfully
dating a wonderful stream of women.
If you do not follow the advice contained in this book you could very easily find yourself banned from using the site out of misadventures
in dating. To ease you into some of the complex concepts in Facebook Dating that lie ahead for you, please run through this quick and easy
A-Z.
It will give you insight into how you can go ahead boldly into this brave new world. Here finding exceptional dating material within the
confines of the worlds number one social networking site. Here is to realising that the confines of the site are not confining at all.

A is for Arrangement M ake that plan with her and stick to it.
B is for Bide your time Waiting for the correct moment to strike.
C is for having C*** about yourself You must present yourself to your best.
D is for Dating Notice the use of the continuous, multiple quarries, multiple successes
E is for Ego Leave it be when you log in and just be yourself online.
F is for Friends Amass many friends to better your chances.
G is for Gossip If you are going to talk with her then have something to say.
H is for Hung up Try not to fall in love before they fall for you.
I is for Image Portray yourself at your very best in this domain.
J is for Joke It is through humour that you can win her over.
K is for Kingdom The Facebook Domain is yours to rule.
L is for Like When she likes you, you are in.
M is for Manage You will be chasing multiple targets do not get confused
N is for Name and S hame If you misuse Facebook this will happen to you
O is for Open Put yourself out there and open up to her when you connect
P is for Picture Use only pictures that show you at your best
Q is for Queue Jump the queue of guys lining up for her with instant connection
R is for Read Find out what you can about her before making contact
S is for S hame Dont have it, be proud of who you are when you take on the FB world
T is for Time The more time you spend working on it the more success you will have
U is for Us Read inside how coming together with other users will improve chances
V is for Villain If you are one then mask your tracks, your online fingerprint
W is for Waste Dont waste time online, use your dating time productively
X is for X-Rated Use the Facebook Chat function for X Rated activities

Y is for You She likes you, dont pretend to be someone else

Z is for Zoo One of the ultimate first date activities

Facebook Dating Section 1 Getting There

CHAPTER 1 - FACEBOOKS BEST ASSET

Introduction to Facebook Dating
The, who, what, where, when, and how of online dating through Facebook will soon be at your fingertips. In this book you will encounter
not practical advice and tips for your success in this domain alone. You will find much more. The easy to follow chapters contain a regime
of persona change too that will make you more proficient in your task.

The road ahead will require effort on your part

Whatever your reasons for turning to Facebook as a means to the end of finding lovely girls to share your time with in a romantic fashion,
this book will be your guide. Dont be under any illusions however. Anything of substance and anything that is worthwhile in life requires
effort. As you endeavor to charm offensive your way into battle against other would be Facebook daters, remember that you are not alone in
your pursuits.
We will deal later with the possibility of combining with other Facebookers for mutual gain in dating, but in the interim let us quickly round
up why you are here, and why the medium of Facebook is the latest and hottest thing in dating.

The real method of Facebook Dating is not in the Dating applications

The initial design of Facebook was not with dating in mind, whilst many applications have been written for the Social Networking M edium
you will not find a guide to use these applications in this book. This book concentrates on the Facebook main package basics first, as you
progress, the concepts and skills that it will provide you with will become more advanced in developing you to date within the real
Facebook.
That is the world where you have found friends from eons past, the world to which you have uploaded videos. A world where you have
learned about the ways of other cultures, and have seen the opinions of girls you wouldnt mind dating. It is in the real Facebook that this
book can become a living tool. Take in its contents and know how to network with prudence for success with those girls.

The skills contained here will help you for decades, and will not go out of date

That is the real beauty of Facebook; it is a user friendly environment. Whilst fads change, and many of the other social networking tools that
have existed in the past have faded away, Facebook will stand the test of time. It is possible that if you are 20 now and find a long term
partner through using this guide on Facebook, that you will be able to take the skills to the medium in finding a new partner when 10 years
down the line, the relationship fails for whatever reason.

Facebook is not an accidental dating platform

Facebook is a connector of people. That is what it has been designed for yes, but so too it was forged for a College audience as a pathway to
random hookups. There have been changes to the site to facilitate a wider clientele of users, but fundamentally the site has not changed all
that much. The tools it allows in the connection process are also the tools that will be of value to you once you have learned how to use
them properly for finding dates. The immediacy of the instant chat device may be overwhelming at first. The openness and vulnerability
you may feel by leaving your profile page open to all may leave you feeling a little bit exposed. It is exposure you are hunting as you
venture forward, you must leave yourself open to being found too.
The possibility of being found, you will quickly learn, will leave your dating chances doubled. It is always nice to be found, to be chased as
opposed to doing the chasing. This book will detail how you should react in such a scenario and how you can get to this scenario of being
the hunted.
The book not only deals with how to date on Facebook, it takes you through the mindset of a male in the dating field. It will teach you, that
you have the right to be a success. It will give you the dos and the donts in a real life dating environment. It passes on the skills and dating
abilities of an expert who has built this methodology taking the best of what he has learned himself in using the tool successfully.
I will be your guide and teacher, have a seat, read on and apply each new lesson learned as you read. It is with practice that you will achieve.
You will get from this book exactly what it is you want to get from it. All you need to do is believe in the techniques. Some are not world
beating ideas, in fact some of what you read will be common sense. In the main however, the techniques you find are new. New information
that you will wish you had uncovered before the unsuccessful Facebook dating attempts you made in the past.

More is more

Facebook allows the connection to more girls than you could possibly connect with in the physical realm. For want of a better statement, it
is your voyeur window on the world. Window-shop with the knowledge that any one of those beauties on display can be yours. The road

and the pathway to Internet dating success, is through the only site that can offer it without actually offering it as a selling point. Facebook,
the happenings on it are on every persons lips. This guide is a first, the best free guide that will ever be produced on the topic. It is
definitive, no corner of the apparatus has been left unturned in finding for you the ability to find and be found with love in mind.

Facebook Dating Section 1 Getting There

CHAPTER 2 - GO GET THOSE GIRLS

Tools and tricks of the trade to finding the girl you want on Facebook
When the number of occasions you have in real life to meet girls is somewhat lacking, or when you want to supplement your dating
opportunities, the window of opportunity afforded by Facebook is a welcome pathway. Facebook is the tool; it has many backdoors
beyond the easily accessed front door. The highways and byways of the Information Superhighway is your way to play away.

Balance between high profile usage and obsession.

Facebook; much like the couchsurfing.org phenomenon (also a prime dating destination in spite of its not being a dating website per se) has
led to weddings galore and a hell of alot of intercourse. Groups are an important tool in finding delectable ladies; mutual areas of interest are
your common ground for starting off a communication. Whenever you go online, and whatever group you join, you will be best noticed if
you maintain as high a profile as possible without going over the top.
Never be so keen to be involved that the timings of your postings show you to be a Facebook obsessed no lifer, Facebook is there to
complement our lives, filling a small part of them. Those persons who find themselves lost in virtual worlds like Second Life are losing out
on life. Facebook can never be a total existence. It will if you work at it, and apply these formulas, net you real life encounters. But this can
only be achieved by combining the real world with these tools.

Changing face of Internet encounters.

The times of Internet chat-rooms leading to direct sexual encounters are fading to a new era, where the Internet can lead to dates, and from
these dates the sexual encounters will come. With this in mind who do you want to meet? The woman of your dreams perhaps? Good luck
with that. Hey it may happen, but it happens for few of us in our lifetimes, as chance and opportunity cant look favorably on us all. This
book is realistic above all else, I wont make false assertions.
At least in this Facebook world however, given the millions upon millions of potential companions, all of which can be hunted through
quickly, your chances of finding that special someone are greatly improved. Profiling the type of girl you are looking for is a useful
mechanism for finding the right one.

Building a profile of your perfect girl.

Perhaps you want a Kirsten Dunst, a girl next door type, or a mirror image of an ex-girlfriend you loved and lost, perhaps you want a rock
chick, a nemo, an artist or philosopher with whom you can spend hours pondering existence. Do you want a wealthy babe to be your sugar
mommy? All are there on Facebook, and all are susceptible to learned techniques. The dimmer the light-bulb, the better the chance of
knocking her lights out, but with added downside of having a poor conversationalist on your dates.

Groups are the way to go in the first instance.

Once profiled, in particular if it is based around an area of interest, you are likely to find a girl in your area that suits your requirements.
Such a girl will be likely to join groups in your geographic region on Facebook that come within their own areas of interest. This is where
you will find them, and start the ball rolling. Dont begin contact immediately, be too forward and you will chase them away. Just as you
have spent time working out which girl you want, you must be willing to bide your time for the opportunity to strike.

Get her into a back and forth.

Within these groups you have either joined or liked, you should set your agenda to begin discussions, or contribute to those taking place.
Showing knowledge and flare in your ability to communicate your reasoning may impress your quarry, so that when contact is initiated she
has a bit of background on you already. The delayed timing, of postings on Facebook is useful to allow you to get your thoughts together.
However once you transcend into real life engagement, you will not have the luxury of time, so you will need to practice skills in this
domain also.

Go Private Detective on her ass

The wondrous Internet does allow you to find out further information on a girl than that which is afforded through Facebook. A quick
search engine input of her name and general location, should bring you back a few links that will reflect further information. This information
is for you, it is useful in furthering your ability to communicate as you will have a bit of background on her. It may give you a heads up as
to where she is going to be at a particular time, but at no point should you entertain the idea of telling her that you have done such an act.
M any if not most girls will find such an activity a bit freaky, dont go all stalker, but do conduct some research to better equip yourself.

See if she will put the hand of friendship out first

On the Facebook home page the activities of your friends will be there for all to see. Their postings are there, and with these postings will
be comments from girls you are not friends with, but perhaps girls you would like to befriend. Perhaps the picture alone or some comment
they have made has stirred your interest. Get in there, and join in the banter, the next thing you know if your post hits the spot (on point
amusing demonstrating intelligence etc.) the two of you will be in a delayed time conversation.
A back and forth is the best possible predecessor to an unsolicited Friend request it is possible and likely that she may make the first
move in this regards. Give her a chance to do so, to see if she is keen, but dont wait too long. Earlier in the chapter we spoke about biding
your time, but in this instance you need to strike while the iron is hot.
Once friended the two of you will be able to maintain the conversation in privacy via instantaneous messaging, or delayed time as your
regular messaging system kicks into play, and you will be able to take it from there. Or will you? As we delve further into the art of
Facebook Dating, a myriad of new skills will be at your disposal. You will find the girl you want, from the multiple millions out there.
Believe in your ability to get better at dealing with women.

Facebook Dating Section 1 Getting There

CHAPTER 3 - FACE VALUE

Whats in a photo? The ultimate profile for FB dating success.

The trend that has taken men to a par with females in the grooming stakes, is a change in society that has not gone unnoticed by female
kind. They have upped their game considerably too, and it is difficult for the Facebook Dater to find a natural looking girl amongst the
crowd.
M en have started to look after themselves, clean shaven, clean cut, rugged scented, well dressed and fresh breathed as they go about their
business. What does this have to do with photos? You ask. The answer is everything. Digital technology and the manner in which it
captures all of the light surrounding the object means the camera to now take in every flaw.

You are no Brad Pitt

Surely not flaws, you say, They are a part of you, and therefore a quality as opposed to a flaw. This may be the case, but for female
kind, accustomed to males looking their best, this is what they have now come to expect; your best. But Brad Pitt is often photographed
looking disheveled, and printed up in those celebrity rags the girls love to read, without consequence for their fancying him, you argue.
First you may have to accept that you are no Brad Pitt, and secondly they have already seen him at his best, and become enamored with his
looks. As a prospective Facebook Dater it is likely you dont have the luxury of already having been seen at your best. You need to ensure
that the first time your face and body grace the girls presence via the Facebook profile medium, that they like what they see.

Photos first, talk later

For you and for them equally, it is the photo(s) which are the first thing upon which impressions are based. First impressions are lasting.
This does not have to be the case but for the interim period, it is a fact that we will take as gospel. It is only after the initial observation of
photos that the prospective female will take into account other key profile data that will convince them you are worth their time.
Freaky isnt it? The potential. Every moment you are logged in to this technology of the century, you could start in motion a process that
will see you hook up with female kind.

The superficial reigns supreme

In your reality the competition you face look at their best, so you must follow suit. The way we dress, the way we hold our body attracts
others towards us in living life. These characteristics transcend into photos too, and as such we can control what is observed of us.
It would be untruthful of me to say that professionally taken photos are a must. They may even backfire. How often have you seen the
professionally taken photo-shoot on a girls profile, and thought that she is full of it? It may of course mean that she is in a way
uncomfortable in her own skin, and as such weak to your charms. (We will cover this weakness later as your competency in Facebook
dating improves.) The result of a girl seeing professional photos, unless you are an actor or suchlike, will for her be off putting. Heed this
warning as professionally taken shots stand out a mile.

Location, Location, Location

Is it a snap showing an obviously foreign location? This will give a perception that you have depth, and are consequently a more rounded
individual. Are there others in the photo too? Having other people present in the shot you select will represent you as a person who has
friends, of utmost importance in the Facebook Dating scene, just as it is in real life dating.

Ugly duckling scenario

The problem here is in the friends of yours present in the photo. You could be a victim of the ugly duckling Facebook Profile picture
phenomenon. If the friends within are better looking than you, then this could draw her interest away. Despite eagerness of males to declare
that they do not know what constitutes a good looking male, we all do. Use your judgment, dont be the ugly duckling.
Likewiseare those present in the photo very bad looking? Having very bad looking friends makes you look un-cool. Knowing that
coolness is a state of not knowing you are cool, and the oxymoron this entails aside, that is something you need to factor into your selection.

Booze blues

Are there signs in the photo that you have been drinking? The majority of snap shots are taken at parties and nights out. But the dynamics
of drink when photos are taken is ironic. Whilst making people appear better looking to the person who has consumed the drink, it has the

opposite effect in reality on the appearance of said drinker. Pay careful attention to your eyes in the shot. Surveys show repeatedly that
this is an area of appearance where women place a large deal of focus. If the shot shows that you are, shot, then recycle bin the photo.

Honey trap

Is there a female in the photo? Single status or not, the girl will be intrigued to look further into your profile, if there is a sign that a women
is on your arm. Just as you have experienced in the past, that when you are in a relationship is when other women seem to show more
interest in you, these dynamics hold true here. Another girl will set her mind asking questions, and these questions will drive her to go
further into your profile seeking answers.
You can now give her the answers she craves, by carefully targeting the remainder of your profile. We will cover the essentials in the carving
out of the best profile as a magnet to attract her interest, in the more advanced stages of this training.

Facebook Dating Section 1 Getting There

CHAPTER 4 - DESPERATION STATIONS

Are you desperate? Dont be, and dont appear so

We have all seen it. The guy who goes around at the teenage disco, and on the nightclub dance floor desperate. He tries to put himself in a
position where his crotch meets the girls bottoms in a, dancy, motion. We have all seen the man who drinks himself into oblivion, to get
the guts up to make a poor attempt at seduction. This is not exclusively a real world phenomenon, and the Facebook Dating scene is full of
these losers.

A harsh word, but harsh lessons to be learned here

Loser is a strong word, but is only used here to reflect the reality. It is guys who behave in this fashion who ultimately lose. Be it getting
nothing at all, or the worst pick of the litter of girls and women out there. If this is you, then apologies for using the term, but follow on this
chapter and come out the other side as a winner.
It is a matter of self-esteem and self-worth. You are worth better than that, better than taking on the worst picks of Facebook Dating
material out there. Define your standards, and then set out to exceed them. We will deal later with the topic of confidence, how to portray it,
how to feel it, and how to use it in seduction, but for now we will use the military term of having c*** about yourself.

Dating by a new set of standards

It is a known term used in the military, it is centred around; how if you do not have a faith in your appearance, and a willingness to present
yourself at your optimum in training, then how do you propose to present yourself to the enemy? Now women are not the enemy, they are
the loot you are fighting for, but the analogy holds. Present yourself, picture yourself, and then represent yourself through the social
medium of Facebook in a manner befitting to those standards you set.
We coin the term here, Social Networking Tedium, for persons who use the social networking medium desperately. You will find them
adding comments oh you look sexy, on any picture uploaded by their, friends, showing a girl looking well. Yes there is nothing wrong
with telling a girl she looks well, but in this medium you have just given a remark for The World to see that you are trying to hit on the girl.
It is tedious for the girl. She of course gains a little satisfaction, and sees her confidence slightly boosted even if she sees it as having come
from a loser. But, that is how she sees it, it came from a loser, and it will be of no benefit to you in the long haul art of perfecting the
Facebook Chase and catch.

Find someone to look up to and then copy their habits

From the guys you know who always get the girl; what separates you from them? How do they think? Find in them a positive role model
you can mimic, and attain their prowess. If you are the picture of the man detailed in the first paragraph of this chapter, take this as the
turning point, an end point to that character. Lose the loser in you by thinking, and thereby acting like a winner.
You are intelligent with the ability to adapt to your new surroundings. The Worlds citizens have quickly evolved to keep a pace with the
changing face of communication, like that offered by Facebook, and Skype. Evolve yourself, set parameters and standards for yourself in the
online domain, and in the real world. Have c*** about yourself.

Flower or thistle?

Personal standards with how you compose yourself accomplished now go about setting the standard of the girl you ultimately want to
attract. Bad looking girls of course are by and large nicer people, more caring and tentative to the needs of their friends and lovers. If this is
your standard, then absolutely fine. Commendation where it is due for your ability to see beyond the physical, to a new realm of
relationship building, but there is a heavyweight butt.
Attraction is the glue that binds relationships, over the long haul. It will in the end be a disappointment you will be faced with every
morning you wake up, when it is with a person to whom you hold very little physical attraction. M ost of us have awoken, and there beside
us lay a person we were embarrassed at the idea of having bedded. Imagine that thought every morning of your life.

Consequences Schmonsequences

It is desperation which drives us, makes us strive out there for sex and closeness with an individual, and to hell with the consequences of

that striving. One night stands with undesirable females are sometimes an essential to keep the wolf from the door, but dont make it your
end goal. Your M ount Everest need not be a female mountain.
Your Facebook etiquette, if you follow each chapters keys in this book will not allude to desperation in your pursuit. Even if you are
desperate, if you are careful this fact will not shine through for the females you encounter online. The world is not a one size fits all, and it
will be required of you to hone the skills in these pages, and tailor them to meet your own needs, your own style.

Take on Facebook Dating with a style all of your own

Heed those words, Your own style you have it within you, it is what makes you unique and attractive, use it to your own advantage. Do
not play into the hands of other Facebook Daters by making them look good, with your own humble loser efforts. Take your role model,
and ponder how they would act, act their persona into your own life. I am not saying you need to change who you are. M erely to weed out
what it is that makes you feel and appear desperate.
This needs to be done so that when you look in the mirror a new you eventually comes out. Comes out and sees your own role model
staring back at you, with that glint in the eye possessed by those who know they will never look, act, or feel, desperate again.

Facebook Dating Section 1 Getting There

CHAPTER 5 - FACEBOOK CON WOMEN
How to spot the con girls Be coy, dont be conned
1000 monkeys on 1000 typewriters over 1000 years could come up with this stuff. We are talking about date chat invites, do you know
what we are talking about? From your youth you have been warned that the online world can be a dangerous place. It is full of people out
there attempting to generate a quick buck, and in the Facebook Dating environment there are also charlatans.
Isnt it apt and coincidental that as you browse online, pop up messages appear telling you how there are girls waiting in your area now that
want to meet you for sex. You may even be greeted with poorly thought out profile pictures, which bear no ethnicity likeness to the region,
no matter where in the world you are. Facebook has become a wasps nest for these invites too. There is a thin disguise that you will be able
to see through with the assistance of this chapter.

Who is doing it, and why?

Were you to look through the drove of websites where barely literate freelance writers can obtain low level rates of pay for producing
squillions of words, you would see the following. 1000s of dating requests required, and a drove of individuals trying to outbid each
other to get a hold of the work. An eager person with some talent may get a hold of the job, and when they are good at what they do, yes
they can entice online Facebook Daters to fall into their trap. So be wary, and learn to spot the signs when all may not be as it seems.

Too good to be true

It is the dream scenario really. Lizzy19 wants to flirt with you the message is received in whatever format, usually accompanied by a
picture of a little cutie. Other social networking sites that have now gone to the wayside as Facebook has taken dominance were riddled with
them, and Facebook is becoming increasingly littered. The dream scenario is often unfortunately too good to be true.
Just like those Youve won the lottery, please give over your bank account details so that we can lodge the money, are too good to be true
on the basis of your not having even bought a ticket, the same holds true here. This mantra is a means for Facebook Daters to be able to spot
con artists. As good looking as you may be, as honed as your profile is in passive flirtation (M ore of that in Chapter 7) it is unlikely that
little cuties posing flirtatiously in a tank top are interested in your goodies. They are more likely than not interested in your readies
exclusively.

Who is she?

This Journalist and Facebook Dater has during research pursuit of an article on Irelands first sex TV channel, garnered a small interview
with one such Lizzy19. Her name was Rose and she was a very attractive Black girl, who was just one of many soliciting their wares on
Facebook. The solicitation of real girls of their own sex based wares is one thing via Facebook, but the mass market of those 1,000s of
created dating requests is another.
The path may be to nowhere, the link may be to spy and other malware that will damage your computer, and acquire your personal
information. The link too will probably lead you to actually parting with money for nothing at all. The framework of Facebook is that it is a
free medium, however with people eager to earn their livelihoods from this connector of people, you need to be careful.
Initial contact was made with Rose after receiving a friend request from her. This is not the oddest thing in the world, and you will during
the building stages of your Facebook profile have received possibly 10s of such requests. Always be wary however, when a hot looking girl
you dont know wants to be your friend. Even as we mentioned when you have been excellent at putting yourself out there, there is always
a motive to smell a rat to go with that skimpy underwear.

See the telltale warning signs

That is the first warning sign. M any that will try this on, are skimpily dressed, all are hot. You may need to hold yourself back with both
hands from taking the natural step to confirm friend. It isnt every day that a hot girl is coming looking for me, you tell yourself. True,
but as Facebook grows, it is likely that this trend will continue, until yes this becomes an everyday phenomenon.
Before you confirm, just go into her profile, most settings are private in the Facebook Domain for obvious reasons, and there will be limited
information available on the girl who has solicited you. You will get a few key details, they may claim to be an American College Student,
they will have their age available for all to view, and if you are lucky maybe a photo or two. This is the norm No giveaways here to say she
is a con, you say.

M aybe not, but there is one key piece of information that is available, with all profiles no matter how private, giving a list of friends that
connections have already been made with. Click in here and browse. Do you see anything that particularly stands out? Hey, where are the
girls? Exactly! Virtually all of the connections made are with males only, males who have all been duped.
Now in the case of Rose who was interviewed she had targeted willy nilly a group of males who she thought she could entice, and with
some success. Some of the enticed guys even paid for the webcam shows she was offering, but the point is that this was no freebie. She was
a lovely girl, but a con-artist of sorts too, and Facebook is full of them. With the male ratio, and your knowledge of what that means (what
girl out there has no female friends) as your main shield from being taken in by these requests, what do you do under a new increasingly
recurrent theme?

They are getting smarter

Having copped on that men are scanning the friends list pre-acceptance, some girls have started to garner female friends ad hoc. This is in
order to curb our ability to tell the difference between an actual interested girl, and a webcam girl. What it comes down to here is common
sense really. I will leave that one down to you, at the end of the day what harm can it do to let one through the net? The answer is quite a
large amount, and if a potential girl who you have attracted becomes a welcome stalker looking through your friend connects, she will be
deterred from contacting you when she sees, Suzie the webcam slut.
As Facebook evolves it is likely that new con methods will be developed. Be on your guard, be coy, be smart and dont let the bad ones in.
Keep your Facebook Dating chat-up lines reserved only for those who will freely give you the goodies once wooed and wowed.

Facebook Dating Section 1 Getting There

CHAPTER 6 - FLIRT UNTIL IT HURTS

You got to flirt to get that skirt. Here is how.

Take it from a successful Facebook Dater, there is no pursuit more fulfilling, more exciting, and pleasurable than seeing good flirting paying
off its dividends. So you have begun your Facebook Dating attempts, you have been browsing through profiles and found girls you are
interested in seeking out. In particular you have found girls whose photos and interests, interest you.

Passive and Active Facebook flirting

Your database of connects and contacts has been building consistently since you first logged in. The flirt is an inevitable part of moving
things a step forward, and with Facebook there are two types of flirting; Passive and Active. As you scan page after page of profiles visible
and open to you, it is likely you will come upon countless others who have thread before the path you are seeking to take. You can see
perhaps their pathetic attempts to flirt left there for all to see.

Real time and Delayed time Facebook flirting

So girls you havent slept with yet but would like to. At this point you will have one or two of them, or perhaps many more in your friends
list. The passive and active Facebook flirt is possible in real time, or in delayed time. Real time is via the instant chat, delayed time is
through postings. Passive is when they see you. Active is when you push through to seeing them, and make an attention grab.
Remember that a girl is an intelligent creature, and sometimes quite psychic and intuitive. M aybe this is down to them having seen it all
before, but they will in the bulk of cases know what is coming next. M en follow a clear path, in the instant message, friendly first then
naturally within minutes the connotations of what they say become increasingly sexual. This sexual motive is an area of the flirt that you
need to avoid straight off the bat in most instances.

When tongue in cheek is foot in mouth

You can come off the mark quite well, being positive, calculated, humorous even (well done! This is what flirting is all about.) But, you go
one step too far, far too quickly and your tongue in cheek becomes your foot in mouth. Passive flirtation on Facebook is all about your
profile page, and your wall. It is about the things you do in the real world, and it is about your viewpoint, the morals and sensibilities you
hold, and show through from the real world into the online domain.

Where no meat is wholesome

What if I was to tell you that becoming a vegan can be passive flirtation? How so? For example becoming a vegan implies a serious of
personality traits that many girls will find an affinity with, and want to get closer to. As you research passive and active flirtation methods
on Facebook, take a good look at male vegans on the site. You will find that their balance of male versus female friends is better than yours
(This will improve dont worry.) The question for now is; why?
Take a look through their uploaded photos, the thing about vegans is that they see it as their duty to tell the world that meat is murder. As
you browse the male vegan profile you will most likely find doctored photo after photo of cutesy animals. We all know that girls love these,
but that is not our point. The girls attracted to him via his blogging about the rights of animals, see in this male vegan, a caring attitude
towards all of Gods creatures.
This caring attitude that he exudes via Facebook has no doubt paid dividends. It is likely that from both the real, and the online world, he
had elicited relationships with females based on this quality. Think! Are there any causes that you feel strongly about? A cause to get the
new half nude female American Football on a dedicated channel will not raise the female eyebrows in the way you are seeking. Think harder.
Save the whales, prevent human trafficking, adopt an orphan. Beyond charities and stumping yourself with a $10 a month contribution to a
drought hit African village, where else can you find an impassive flirting methodology that will work for you? This book is not intended to
create a sea of, do gooders, but the idea works. So..try it out and find your own passive means of flirting.

Keep uploading to get her down low

The new pics you upload that show you as cool as ice, the blog you create that is amusing, the likes you draw on posts that will garner
female attention and likely praise, are all passive flirtation with Facebook methods. In a later chapter, as you get to grips with the
fundamentals, we will show you tried and trusted flirtation messages, messages that have worked.

No room for error

Take your time; a single mistake at this point could lead you to be blacklisted by any girls who see your delayed time flirts. When a flirt is
received, it is important for a girl to feel special. The residual effect of the flirt will be stronger, and more likely to get you somewhere, if she
feels she is the only one being flirted with. Knowing that you have just flirted with half a dozen birds will drive her cuckoo.
Save yourself the embarrassment of being pawed off, reported for abuse, and flirtation failure. Do this by not only knowing how to flirt
well, but by knowing when to flirt well. Know when to flirt with cheese piled on, and when to flirt steadily, heavy on, when both your
hearts are racing. How to flirt when she is hooked on your bait in real time, or in messages that she eagerly awaits with baited breath.
To get to this point it is not as simple as a wink or making eyes at a girl, it is even easier. Yet you still see the pathetic out there in delayed
time on Facebook photos, postings and walls. Why? Because in order to flirt there is a deeper understanding of how women work needed.
The pathetic FB flirters dont understand, but you soon will.

Facebook Dating Section 1 Getting There

CHAPTER 7 - SELF-BELIEF
Confidence is Key to Facebook Dating Success.
For everything we do in real life, it is the manner in which we achieve, that attracts the eye of our dating quarry. In the online world it is
much the same, although here in Facebook Dating land there are some pertinent, blags that can be made. It is easier to pretend on
Facebook, you dont have to be confident in real life to be so in your online life, but of course it helps. A lot.
The chapter title is a truth, whether you are soliciting for females in a bar, or in the virtual caf that is the Facebook Wall. Caf is a more
apt name here, for the wall transcends, religion, hobbies, and boozing, overall appearing to you as a conversation list that would be found in
Starbucks on any given day. The only difference is that it is much easier to demonstrate confidence and enter the conversation uninvited
here, than starting to talk to an unknown girl in said caf on a rainy Saturday afternoon.

All the time in The World

Going up to a girl you find attractive, requires the confidence of a person at ease with themselves, comfortable with their appearance and
confident in what they have to say. It is much the same with Facebook, but with one key difference, a difference that allows you to feign
confidence. With Facebook you have time, time to gather your thoughts after each probing or insightful comment, more time to contemplate
the words that will work.
By virtue of everything you say using this wall being on public display, you leave yourself open to ridicule from a lengthily list of
individuals outside of your control. The friends of all of those people who have made comments on a post always have the potential to be
cutting. With the confidence you exert in putting your thoughts out there, you also must have the confidence to back up your comments if
need be. You are leaving yourself open to ridicule, and ridiculed they will be, if that is what they are worth.

Knowing youve got the goods

Being confident in the words we put out, and the links we paste, can be a natural or a learned process. Real world confidence will be
necessary to back up the online persona you put out there when it comes to taking things out of the Internet realm, and into your living love
life. It is a difficult thing to explain really, it is intangible, but when you are confident, you will know it.
You will know it because you are showing and demonstrating it. You are living it. It is the essence of a man, it is a fragrance we wear, and it
is the armor that will protect us in the battlefield of dating. It doesnt take much confidence to browse through photographs hunting for your
quarry on Facebook anonymously. When you leave your mark however, it is essential that you have the confidence to know you have said
or done the right thing.

Opportunities lost

How many times can you look back and know that; had you just had the confidence to say a particular thing, anything in fact, then a
rendezvous would have gone so much better with a member of the opposite sex. You nod your head, and recount a multitude of such
occasions. Ask yourself, would it be so different today? Hindsight is a waste of time, reflecting over an untaken course of action, and
vowing to not let it happen again can also be an absolute waste.

Change ourselves to change our actions

The change in how we deal with it the next time the chance comes around is down to a change within ourselves, lest we again let the
opportunity pass, and live to regret it. Browsing onto the, Home, page beyond your profile, you are linked into what is not just an
entertaining stream of comments and links and actions. Each link and post is a reaching out into the world, it is sometimes a look at me, it
is sometimes an out of boredom act, it is sometimes out of a Facebook addiction.
You can have great crack reading, and equally you can in a controlled and confident manner participate in the debate. Join the caf stream
of consciousness for the building of your online presence, putting out a persona that oozes sex appeal, like a fragrant scented confident man.
The words selected come with confidence in your comedy, and your ability to disseminate information in a logical manner.

What is real?

If you have quirks in your language, then either be willing to put them out there into this public forum, or control these quirks. You have
that opportunity; time slows down in Facebook land, allowing everyone who goes public to show themselves in the best light. In a way, the

impression that we see of others from their own running commentary, their profiles built, their instant messaging language used is a false
impression of the real person.
The real person is likely totally different than the digital version. There will be some hallmarks of their persona that shine through however.
The same goes for you, if you are unconfident then this hallmark will show through too, and stand against you. You will know confidence
when you feel it, as the girls you want to take on dates will know it when they see it demonstrate itself. They like it because it takes away
their need to be confident in the long run. If they select a mate who is confident enough for the two of them then they can drop their guard,
comfort is a womans pursuit.
Everything you do, every connection made, does not need to be with the objective of dating, but everything you do and say must portray
confidence. Girls will see it, girls will love it, and most importantly girls will love! Love! Love it! Youll know they love it, when they hit
the like button.

Section 2
You are half way there But there is no such thing as half a date now, is
there?
Now that you have a good handle on the basics of Facebook dating it is time to move things up a notch. The concepts
you will face in this second section of the guide will be more complex. They will be more useful too however in
allowing you to get ahead of the other Facebook daters out there. Read on and practice what is taught, building on
what has been learned and practiced from the initial chapters of this book.

Facebook Dating Section 2 Gaining Experience

CHAPTER 1 - REAL WORLD VS ONLINE DATING
What is the difference when it comes to dating?
Your adventure has only just begun my friend. See its easy to call someone a friend. Nowhere is this more evident than in the world of
Facebook where people are chalking up 100s of friends they have never met in real life. They are getting their Facebook friend numbers
up as a matter of posterity. Something to boast about.

Follow the Bosnians lead

There is in fact nothing to boast about getting above the international average of 200 friends. The Ambassador of Pakistan to Bosnia has
commented recently to this journalist, on the citizens Facebook behavior. He told how Bosnians appear to have the largest number of
Facebook friends per capita than any other nation. Here there is actually something very real world about their exceptional Facebook
statistics.
That is against other nations full of teens hitting the friend request juncture at every turn of a page. Hitting up those they have no
possibility of ever meeting, let alone even having a Facebook chat encounter with. It is about quality not quantity, and the Bosnian
exception to the rule is inherent in their low employment rate (40% of youth unemployed) and a coffee culture.

Is one ever enough?

Bosnians, despite the harsh restrictions imposed on the predominantly M uslim population with regards to observing religious rules
pertaining to relationships, have been using their contact list for the finding of long term partners. This may not be your goal, but with
finding a picture perfect representation of your perfect girl, the question has to be, when you have found the one, why give it up in pursuit
of others?
In Bosnia for many dating is not simple. Going online to supplement the search for sex, or a life partner, can be advantageous. Why not
simple? It could be down to a desire to be secretive in their affairs, the eyes of friends may put them off, they may live in a community
where everything is watched, leading to fears of being the subject of gossip as opposed to its spreader.

The reality is; online is easier

These are outside chances however; the fundamental reason is the reality. Dating is hard work in real life. It involves putting yourself out
there, and this may not be for everyone all of the time. All dating, be it in the real world or in Facebook land involves putting yourself out
there, but, discretion can be assured by the virtual means. M ore importantly putting yourself out there, can be completed with a fervor
online that is difficult to replicate in the real world.
The benefits to dating online are numerous, in the real world it is nigh on impossible to simultaneously chat up four girls at once. Of course
you can, but it is a major undertaking, and it is only in fantasy land that there can be the opportunity to get further than chatting with each
one of them. In Facebook land you are not excluded from what is not directly in front of you. Often when, on the hunt, there are slim
pickings available. However on Facebook, literally the virtual world of beautiful ladies is at your disposal.
Facebook dating allows the time to compose thoughts for greater success, particularly by taking part in the delayed time dating options. In
the real world you must be quick on your feet, the next line to woo constantly on the tip of your tongue. Virtually the persona can be
tailored; there may be things about you the lady might find disturbing, until they get the chance to know you better that is. They can get to
know you better than you would imagine, courtesy of Facebook. Once she has already been baited, already struck by your more interesting
quirks, be it your sense of humour, your interests and abilities or otherwise, she in turn will be more comfortable on finding the perceived
negatives of the idiosyncrasies you may possess once you meet in the real world.

Girls are at the core the same as Guys

M embers of the M uslim community in Bosnia have used the medium to keep their relationship pursuits privy from the eyes of parents
who as a norm keep a watchful eye on this. Whilst the tone of this book may appear to be exclusively written with the male of the species
in mind, the skills it denotes and the advice contained within are of equal benefit for girls who are seeking to use Facebook as a Dating
method also. Remember this. Whilst it appears that the girls hold all the cards when it comes to dating, and in many ways they do, life is
never this straightforward, in particular regarding affairs of the heart. Virtual dating for girls is a mechanism to find the perfect one for them,
just as it is for the male.

Wearing our personalities on our sleeves

Imagine a Real world environment where the words that define you were written across your chest, where the onlooker could see the real
you at a glance, and cast away dispersions about you instantly. Well this is the instrument of Facebook as a dating mediums success. At a
glance being able to tell, who is right, and who is just wrong for you. This makes things easier for us all, it takes the chance of failure to new
lows, it means that striking out, does not need to be embarrassing.
It just means that the next one on the list, a person that is attracted to you based on what you offer as a person, will be more likely to take
things further. Weeding out the wrong ones is easier to accomplish online, and as you become more comfortable with this format, premium
success in dating will be quicker, less expensive, and all round easier to achieve.

Facebook Dating Section 2 Youre Half Way There

CHAPTER 2 - THE WAY TO TALK FB DATING STYLE

Here are ones we made earlier Messages that worked!

My agenda

As with manuals for your car, VCR, or other, if you follow the instructions, they will work. Whilst there are two flirtation dating examples
given, one would have worked for one girl, and not for the other. There are an infinite number of FB flirt styles and talk styles which will
work. You will find your own style, non phony, a style you will love because it will be successful for you.

When the student is ready the teacher will appear

It is important with everything, whether you are teaching the English language or teaching how to date on Facebook that, ownership of the
learning process is handed over to the student. When the student is ready the teacher will appear, so the saying goes. So are you ready?
Before commencing, and in appreciating your need to have ownership over everything you say on Facebook (to give it meaning according to
your own values,) I need to say that these examples are here as a framework for you to build your own conversations. A starting point only
A template for ideas on how you can do this A real world example to assist you in developing your own style.

Your voice, your words, your way

Wouldnt it be slightly sickening, especially when the date turns into one of the loves of your life, to look back and realise that you won her
affections by merely copying and pasting a prewritten line, a line composed by someone else entirely? You should not ruin the feel, the
genuine nature of what dating, and love is all about, not taint the relationship in the early stages by not being yourself. It should be your
words, your feelings that lead to the composition of words to woo and wow.
The examples given provide context for how it is achieved, you will notice a few clues on how the female mind works. These are the keys to
take from this chapter, these are the lessons that you should learn. Now student are you ready to learn?

Conversation 1 Facebook Chat Real Time

Setting: Facebook Dater had found a girl on a Facebook group page, an Ex Pat group for a city he was located in at the time. The girl had
been posting looking for a roommate on the group page. There was one line which stood out to the Facebook Dater about the girl. In the
religious views section she had written, The religious have no faith. She accepted a Facebook friend request that came with the message,
You are right, it would solve the worlds problems to burn those books. Her acceptance, the Facebook Dater believes came on two main
basiss , but of course the Facebook Profile created had much to do with it.
1. The girl saw an affinity with the Facebook Dater as a result of their both being foreign and in the same location. 2. The words in the
message gave her a positive affirmation over one of her beliefs.

First Contact
FB Dater: Hey good to see you, you find a fellow atheist to shack up with yet?
Girl: See me? Where are u, can u see me? Im the one burning books by the waterfront. Nah, everyone in this group already seems to have
their homestead. Do u know someone?
FB Dater: I know lots of people from the humble homeless, to the tax collectors, Im a regular JC. I take it youd prefer a non-smelly
housemate though, or does the fact that your Facebook shot was taken by yourself with an outstretched arm mean that you are too smelly
for people to get close to you?
Girl: LOL, I think. M aybe Im not what people are looking for in a housemate. Im not the tidiest; maybe u could tell from my hair that day
the picture was taken. Need to change that.
FB Dater. No no, its very natural, it is good to be natural it is the way God intended. U new to these parts?
Girl: Got a contract with ***** last month, here to do Gods bidding, or should that be Satans? What about u, u know the area well? U
find it hard to settle in?
FB Dater: Had a bit of luck meeting locals working in the hostel the first day, helped me feel at home and figure out the workings of this

place. I came here alone too, the international community is a good sort, and there are dinner parties every so often. I was going to have one
myself next week. U hungry?
Girl: Oh u cook!! I guess not everyone in this place is a M ummys boy.
FB Dater: Its a BBQ, very simple but the flavor is in the company. A few locals going to swing by my way too, gud people, the great
thing about holding the parties is u only have to cook the once, and then u get about ten freebies out of it. Its a BYOB
Girl: Can I bring a friend?
FB Dater: As long as he isnt smelly.
Girl: No its a girl; she is having trouble settling in.
FB Dater: Sure here is the address, ****.. Do you want me to text to remind you.
Girl: Heres my number ********

Rapport building keys. Face Facebook Facts, Friendship First!

The key to building up a rapport with a girl over Facebook with the positive conclusion of getting their digits is to play to their sensibilities.
Practice humour wherever you can. Dont go all out to tell them they are cute in the preliminary stages. The basis of any future relationship
should always be friendship first.
Take something like; in this instance her profile comment on the religious, and take your time in developing a suitable first contact statement
or question. Context is always important, if you can find a basis for the establishment of a connection, then that is much better than going in
with an unsolicited connection request.
As we have mentioned, this can be taken as an abuse of the system which can lead to the suspension of your account. Always be willing to
bide your time, keep your eye on a range of potential prefect girls, and monitor their activities waiting for the opportunity to strike.

Conversation 2 Post by post response. Delayed Time

Setting: A male friend has made a posting in relation to the changing political circumstances of our mutual nation. The post was a link to a
You-tube video where the party leader debate was taken frame by frame taking certain phrases that the politicians used and making a rap
song with them. M y friend added the comment, It seems the lefties have it all rapped up. It wasnt the most intelligent of comments
but it was slightly amusing with the video itself being very funny. Given the times that were in it, and the currency of the posting, it
instantly attracted a range of comments. One of the friends of my friend, who I bore no connection with on any level, but whose activity
I was monitoring, with the hope of finding an opportunity to change that, made a posting.

First contact: Posting

She commented: Glad to see theyve changed their tune, perhaps someone will do us all a favor and go all Tu-Pac on their ass.
Here was the opportunity.
FB Dater commented: Unfortunately that probably wouldnt be the end of them, and wed be marauded as a nation by the zombies with
their dead in the water policies. It would be undeadly.
A few minutes later came the next posting immediately below mine. The next postings came more quickly, but still with a pace that allowed
for careful thought to be put into the writing of the next post. Same end, same goal, slightly different medium, and a hell of a girl to chat
with, as she had the mutual interest of writing poetry just like The Facebook Dater. That was the reason he was interested in getting to
know her in the first place, along of course with her good looks.
She commented: I can see it now.
Give us your taxes,
Give us your brains,
Us and our homey Tupaces,
We cant be slain,
Pop a cap in our asses,

Well cap civil servant income,

Screwing the masses
Chewy membranes yum yum
Upping the tax on your car under bum.
This girl was great, the Facebook Dater and she went into a back and forth that took up the next ten postings, each verse of political rap
getting cruder and cruder until perhaps it risked becoming of a language outside of the Facebook decency standards. She hit The Facebook
Dater up with a friend request, and the online relationship blossomed. The Facebook Dater invited to see her the next time she was in the
area to meet the now mutual friend.

Internet and Real World Connectivity

The key to communication in this realm is connections. Find them and you will find plenty of real life dating opportunities through
Facebook. It is about being smart, not about being false and hunting down girls in a hit and hope manner. Find a girl who you truly would
like to connect with, and set about intelligently finding a means to connect. The use of language is important. When we speak to a person in
real life to whom we are attracted, our voice and our body language will mimic theirs, as will theirs mimic our own.
It is a natural thing, once you take to Facebook Dating as a duck in water, you will find that this medium is one where language mimics are
evident. You can see example of this from the first communication example where You naturally became U for both parties as the
conversation unfolded. The friendly tone can, (and will) change to one of flirting, or flirting can be combined in undertones contained within
the friendly banter.
There are times of course when even experts fail to hit their mark. I exclude these from the book, not because I am embarrassed by them,
you will get nowhere in this online dating medium if you are afraid to embarrass yourself a smidgen. Any aspect of living life, where you put
yourself out there, has the potential to embarrass. We limit these by playing it smart, and using all of the cards in our deck in pursuit of
Facebook dating excellence. I exclude my own failures, but you will find countless examples of failure as you search the site. Your perusal of
nice looking girls profiles will throw up examples of how other Facebook Dating wannabes have given it a go, and failed miserably.

Facebook Dating Section 2 Youre Half Way There

CHAPTER 3 - STANDARD SETTING

Accepting lower standards Why you shouldnt have to.
Take a look around you the next time you walk the streets. Perhaps you have already noticed that good looking guys dont always have a
good looking girl on their arm, and vice versa. It is not an oddity, there is far more than meets the eye going on here. Personality plays a
major role behind the scenes.

Dont let what The World tells you to accept, determine your standards

Of course there are the it couples who have found their apparent match, beautiful people holding on tightly to each other as they stride
with pride. There are also the match made in heaven couples at first comparison, the guys and girls on the lower ranks of the good looking
stakes are just holding on tightly to what they have, for fear that they will lose what little they have.
The world tends to naturally put us in a place which we often accept, but when if ever, did you decide to let The World decide what is best
for you? It is the way of The World that you control your destiny. Your actions, and your beliefs control your outcomes. You have the
strength of mind to cast the dispersions that rejection has brought your way in the past, into the dustpan of the past.

Standards can always be upped, and exceeded

The world does not know your standards and they may shift from day to day. Just because the last girl you were in a relationship with may
not have been the prettiest, this does not have to reflect on what the next girl will look like. Standards too are not only in relation to looks
and body type. They are in personality type also. Just because you have always had the girl who walks all over you in the past, does not
mean that this has to be the case next time round either.
The forces of time, nature and your own learning are in your favor. We learn from each encounter, taking that learning with us into the next.
Facebook has brought to The World the means to really select our partners. Why shouldnt your selection be a woman you would truly like
to be with? Here we get down to the bones of it. Being true to yourself is your achieving the very best for yourself.

Girl of glass syndrome

The definition of the right girl for you is a lady whom you not only are attracted to, but are comfortable in being with too. There is no point
in finding yourself with a girl you feel outclassed by. Take this into account when going hunting, and putting the Facebook Dating
techniques learned here into effect.
It would be unfair on the girl to constantly feel as though you are treating her like glass.
Afraid that at any point you can say or do the wrong thing. Even down to wearing the wrong attire one day, and fearing that at any point
you will break the gift that she is to you, and lose her. There is no quicker route to losing her, than by acting in this manner.

Selection is based on a variety of appeals

The standards you set can be very much down to the standards the girl maintains in how she conducts herself. It could be down to how she
reacts to people she feels superior to.
The standards you set for yourself, can place importance on demeanor, and the content of her conversations with you.
You will probably have dated a girl who was a consistent complainer in the past. It takes one good looking set of high cheek bones to
counteract that irritant. As you date girls you find via social networking, do not be afraid to break off the relationship if her personality is
not what you are looking for.

Never be afraid to lose what you have achieved

The effort made in finding one, we sometimes feel outweighs the opportunity cost of missing out on another. Be aware though that the
relationships we choose to keep, are amongst the most important decisions we will make in life. Purchasing a house is considered as the
most important purchase we are likely to make. Putting a woman in place to keep us company in our dwelling is possibly the next biggest
decision.
We are talking about dating here, not a lifelong relationship, you say. True, but with every encounter we choose to pursue, we
simultaneously run the risk and opportunity of finding the one. Wasting time with the wrong one can lead us to miss out on the
opportunity of the right one. You will know the right one possibly the instant you begin your Facebook chatting. Her words will resonate
instantly. It is rare that a relationship that doesnt feel to be the optimum in the beginning turns out to be optimal.

Tight may mean very tight

When it comes down to getting physical postdate there are a few blockages. The 9 hour rule exists (Statistically the average amount of time
a girl needs to know you before she will sleep with you) She may feel that you will need to get to know each other all over again when you
meet in person. The time invested in the means by which you met; the social networking medium being cast aside. You will hone your
abilities over time to tell which type of girl is which, and it is not the most unusual thing in the world for marriage to be required first.
Arggh! At least you have not wasted an entire week in her pursuit exclusively, and you have other pans in the fire.
Or perhaps this is the standard in women you are seeking. As stated, it is up to you the standards you set for yourself, just as it is up to
you to go about meeting those standards in your hunting. Each woman, although with similar thought processes and sensibilities on many
levels, is a unique entity. They will have standards unique to them also, and often the standards they set are not as based in the superficial
as those that we possess.

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CHAPTER 4 - CAUGHT IN YOUR NET

How to network make friends with girls in real life
Whether headhunting, driving sales targets, practicing journalism or dating, there is one commonality between them all, networking works.
Imagine an STD, not the best possible analogy given the dating topic, but it is a useful symbol of the transferability of impressions. Every
time you are sleeping with someone you are in many ways sleeping with every individual that party has gone to bed with.

Dont play it safe when it comes to new interactions

Every time you meet someone new, an impression of you is taken forth by the person you have met. We each rub off on each other a little.
As we meet, what is remembered of us may be passed on via a joke we told, a piece of info, a story from our lives that we recounted. The
information we pass on builds upon the other stories and inputs a person has heard, to give them a better picture of a situation, and the
ability to pass it on with greater ease.
If we are lucky it will not just be, a guy told me, it will be by name with a little more information. The impression being passed on is an
introduction to you, in the same way an STD is transferred. It is this, little more information that holds the key to this chapter and the
keys to maintaining and building a network for your gain in the dating arena.

Dont get entangled in the web you weave yourself

Knowledge of this potential is power in warding off its possibility. You need to accomplish things, and know that your time spent within
the fabric of this community is not wasted. Each log in, should be with a motivation to spread your tentacles, your words need to take the
relationships you build in the online environment, into the real world. This real world Vs online paradigm has been mentioned on several
occasions thus far, but with what end?
Looking at webcams, even taking part in dynamic conversation in chat rooms is never really real. It never comes with the amassment of
pleasure that the same developments would amass in the real realm. The focus should always be with Facebook Dating on bringing the
contacts you make with women into this real realm. As the salesman should be focusing on closing the sale from the instant that the sales
call or meeting begins, so too you should be closing.

Limited pleasure is better than none at all

Yes there is potential for some amount of tension to be relieved courtesy of the instant messaging option if a connection of flair and sexual
dynamism is conducted. But it is always going to be third best to; physically holding hands, and actually doing the real thing in real time
in the real world. We will discuss in the Advanced section of this manual the sexually dynamic potential of the instant chat. But first
one question.
So how do you bring the connections with your peers on Facebook into the real world?

Converting virtual into real and harnessing the potential of both

The options are varied. clubs, societies, events, areas of your interest, and those of the girls you are connecting with online, all have a real
world presence. It is with a view to being at these real world events in the same time and space as your Facebook target that is the objective
initially. Getting to know your quarry virtually based on building a line of engagement through these groups / clubs / Facebook profiles etc.
is best achieved first.
It can be conducted in the aftermath too though. The virtual and real environment should be looked at interdependently. Use your passive
flirting techniques via posting in these groups, and use the fact of your being present therein in conjunction with your target girl as an
excuse for connection. Getting close to one member of the group, opposite sex or otherwise, and being present with them when the
physical event occurs, will aid you in converting the connection you really want into a physical meet.

Communism didnt work until Facebook made it possible

There are plenty of girls out there, and as you reflect over the girls you know who are unsuitable for you, there are plenty of male peers in
your Facebook friend list who they would be suitable for. One good turn deserves another, sharing the wealth in economic terms increases
the productivity of said wealth.
Taking females that are within the sphere of influence of you and your peers, and by assisting each other in spreading this currency, to
where it is most needed, will increase satisfaction for all parties, (The girls included.) This is not the high thought concept it first appears, it
is practical. Nor should it be looked on in a negative light. First impression may say that there is something sleazy in a way about it, but
look at the way love relationships are built in many cultures.

A new concept in Facebook Dating excellence

For some cultures it is the norm that the sisters of the man will find a wife for him, and it is the brothers obligation to do likewise for his
sisters. Why would it then be wrong to take it out of the family sphere, and through concerted efforts assist each other, and assist yourself
in the process? Each girl made satisfied will be a referrer too; one sale leads on to further sales.
It is a rather communist dating motif. But think about it. How useful would it be in dating to approach it with a team methodology? Not
ganging up, but backing each other up, girls do it all of the time, why should it be different for males. We offer each other advice, but always
seem to fall short when it comes to assisting our peers in finding dates. The go it alone attitude, where there is a competition over the same
quarry means that neither party will get the quarry.
This new concept is yours to put into practice, amalgamate, speculate and accumulate to take the Facebook date potential to new heights.

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CHAPTER 5 - SEAL OF APPROVAL

Endearing yourself to her friends via FB
No girl is an island. She lives her life along with her cohorts. She demands acceptance from the group, she is eager to please the group. She is,
as a rule unwilling to accept a man that does not meet the standards the group has set for her. She will seek their advice on men, she will, if
you get close, seek their advice on you. The opinion of the female group is of paramount importance. We will now look into how to make
this opinion as positive as possible.

Never underestimate the power of her friends opinion

Everything that a male does in life, from each weight lifted in conditioning our bodies, each exam taken with a view to a successful career.
Each line that is spoken, each joke learned by heart is unbeknownst about one thing: Looking better in the eyes of female kind. Having done
well in using your flirtation techniques there is one further barrier to overcome. It is more a hurdle than a barrier; it is easily jumped with the
right technique.

Relics of your relations

You can always delete delayed timing flirts if you start to go steady, with one girl whilst simultaneously continuing to flirt elsewhere.
However if, as is likely, a positive outcome is forming with one of your quarries, how do you go about explaining why you are deleting the
very makeup of your encounter? You may have a collection of old valentine cards received in a drawer somewhere in your home. You can be
certain that the other girl you are moving towards getting into, has such a collection also.

The protection offered by a herd of girls

She will likely look upon the fingerprint of communication with you nostalgically as your relationship develops, and the posts you make
actually mean something to her (imagine that.) The problem is that when the other girl tells their friends about you, they will immediately go
to your profile, and seek to hunt out any negative info about you in order to protect their friend.
They cannot be blamed for this, and you will need to find a balance in covering your tracks from their watchful eyes. Worst case scenario
the two timing is with one of her friends. With limited lines of separation between us all, proven time and time again through mutual
friend Facebook searches, this is possible. It is a risk you always take, the only means to control this risk is by spending time in screening
all girls you are communicating with for any crossovers, links/ mutual friends/ mutual groups.

Lose time or lose out to miscalculated risks

Unfortunately that is time you should be using in monitoring the activities of your dream girls. So there may be risks that need to be
taken in shooting for multiple opportunities at once. Or there may not be. The extra time spent sussing out commonalities will remove the
risk of bad feedback from her friends, as you will be not laying tracks that you may need to cover up in the delayed time environment.
Just as the potential for good outcomes is there whilst Facebook dating, the potential for bad is present also. No action you take is ever
without repercussion of some form. What do her friends want to see in a guy? How can you make them like you? You should get to know
them through her, via your communications. It is one of the basic dating talk topics.

Save your communications, learn her, study her friends

Learn what you can, copy and pasting the online communication into a text document under each girls name for future review. This is a
very useful tool, especially when you are engaging with many girls over a period of time. As you may be yet to have met these girls in
person, sometimes it may be difficult to separate all the girls using memory alone. Equally it can be difficult to remember the little details,
and in building rapport with any girl, it is the little things that matter.
The information you possess about the girls friends can endear on both counts. When something occurs in the girls life relating to her
friends etc, and you can relate the information you have received and stored to this new event, the girl will be impressed. It is even better, if
you can dole out advice to her friends through her. It shows thoughtfulness
A Golden Rule:
Gossip amongst girls, good or bad, spreads like wildfire.
Be careful:. As the volume of females in your friend connections database increases, you can start to lose track of where the friendship
initiated. It would be a big mistake to inadvertently flirt with the wrong girl now wouldnt it?

What they see in you, is you at your best

It is likely (and hopefully the case) that the friends will see in you, what the girl you are chasing sees in you. What they see of you, is you
at your best, based on your carefully pruned and honed profile page. She may be in the business of saving key information from your
communications too, and may pass these on to her friends to give them the once over, or just to show off what a wonderful guy you are.
Just be yourself at all times in your communicating, and forget that what you type may be viewed by others she is showing off to. If she
likes you, she will only display the best of it. She will apply discretion if she has become entangled in erotic exchange (again covered in the
Advanced Section of this guide.) As covered earlier, taking on the promotion of a humanist or animalist cause, can be endearing to her
friends.

Take the chance to satisfy her friends desires, AND help your mates

You can also moot to connect with her friends, and point her friends in the direction of your friends ones you think make for suitable
relationship fodder. Your selection based of course, on the information you have learned about them. So her friends hold the keys to her
heart, they will hand them over to you at their discretion.
It is likely that in the first date scenario there will be a friend there too. When you both are moving out of the online domain, and into the
real world domain she may choose to take a chaperone with her for the initial meet and greet. This is a safety issue, and you should not be
put off by it (easier said than done, we know.)

No psycho, then she go go

After the three of you meet up, there is a very tight timeframe to impress on them both that you are not a psycho. As soon as you have
achieved this, the friend will be on her way, and let the two of you get on with things. Her friends pose a test to you which you can fail or
pass.
It may be a difficult exam, as girls can be very protective of each other. Protective in particular, if the girl you are seeking to date has been on
the receiving end of a bad breakup, or just a downright bad boyfriend in the past. Dont (whatever you do) stress the relationship with any
of her friends. Even if one of them appears to, have it in for you, dont ask your girl to choose between you and her friend. You will lose,
and you will miss out.

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CHAPTER 6 - TRIGGER HAPPY

The beauty of words The Lingo to get that number.
Hey, how is it going? You look well today? I always wondered. Take it from me. Howdy ho. Good Afternoon young lady. Hi. What you
up to? Good to see you. Where have you been? I was hoping youd come online today. Hey. Whoa you scared me. Well if it isnt?
Whats up? Thought youd never get here.
The above are just a selection of the different ways to say hello for the first time or to begin subsequent encounters on Facebook. Seems
pretty straight forward doesnt it? Well that is because it is. It is simple to say hello, yet even the first words we use, if they are not backed
up by not only enthusiasm, but an amount of knowledge and confidence that there is more to come with it, can leave us regretting hitting her
up.

Charm offensive needs ground support

You can go on the charm offensive all you want, but you need backup out there. Whilst you will be enforcing your presence on her alone via
Facebook, you are backed up by your knowledge of how this whole conversation thing works. The online only differs slightly from the real
world. It differs in that firstly you have more time. Secondly you can drop out of conversation for a range of reasons without looking bad,
and thirdly, the risk of nerves getting the better of you are more limited.

Conversation openers to open the door

So which of the openers mentioned in the first paragraph are good ones to start you off? The answer is all or none, it depends on the girl.
Each girl is different. An opener is of no value by itself, unless it is backed up by a statement, question, or observation that really speaks to
her. Throwing out a greeting without any backup as regards things to say, is as dangerous as building your ice cube house next to a fireplace.
Of course you can throw it out there, and she will give the necessary response details that allow the beginnings of a conversation to develop,
but there is a high risk you will be left without a thread to string a sentence together with. It is you striking up the conversation today.
Therefore it is you who should be able to bring the conversation to the table today. We have all at some point worried that we will never be
able to say the right things to girls.

Focus on ability

We have focused our thoughts on this area of inability with two ends 1. We have learned that through focusing on what we do know, we
have the ability to extract more. 2. We have resolved that we will never know, and we will always struggle. The main thing to remember is
that there is a real physical human being at the other end of that Facebook chatter with a physicality you want to get physical with. The
more you push and poke the more reaction you are going to get.

If its funny honey, youre on the money

Ah, there is the buzzword, humour. It is the most coveted, and for many of us the rarest of commodities. If you ask 100 girls what they are
looking for in a guy, they will all agree on one thing. All 100 will say funny. Girls want to laugh, but the standard of the humour they need
is not defined. Rest assured though they do not need every man they date to be of standup comic standard. That would be unfair, and if
there is anything that female kind is, its fair.
Sarcasm although a low form of wit is permissible, mixing your metaphors too. Your notes on what she has said, looking to them for little
insightful remarks that may be visually humorous once inside a girls head is a useful for enamoring her via humour. Once she makes a joke,
take the form of the joke that she has told, and try your own paraphrase of her humour style when the opportunity arises.
The art of carving jokes into your Facebook chat communication is very important if you are to have a chance to take things further.

You dont have to say I love you

Writing communication is easier for most, than communicating in the real world. However a desperate communicator in the real world isnt
going to come online for their first online conversation, and automatically become a professional. You will need to practice, but who with?
Your male FB friend of course. Just leave out the bit where you tell them how much you like them. In fact leave that out entirely from
your FB chat with girls too.
It gets you absolutely nowhere until she feels the same way about you, and is best left for the face to face encounter when you manage to
take her out. Dont save your best lines; dont get in the habit of rehashing old lines, old tales and well-practiced jokes. It is a form of
cheating in effect. When conversing we all want to think that at some level the conversation we are having is unique, that no other two
entities have had this same conversation in any way. Saying the same thing twice, would ruin that idea wouldnt it now? Just as would

trying to pass off a line as your own, when she has already heard it countless times.

Getting better

To talk online in a way that will get the girl, you must be on the top of your game at all times, you must want to succeed. Doubly you must
be willing to lay it on the line, to go places with your words that you have never gone before, pushing the boundaries of your own abilities
until you find that it gets easier every time. It gets easier because you are getting better.

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CHAPTER 7 - LINE OF ENGAGEMENT

Make that call Lines and mantras have you got the nerve?

It all seemed so much easier when we were just texting. This is a statement that has crossed your mind as you have made voice to voice
connection over the phone in the past. It can be as nerve racking as a salesmans first sales call with a new firm. Your fingers may have
hesitated. You may have left it until the last minute you knew she would be available to take it. And yes you may indeed have chickened out
entirely.

Why is it more difficult to talk than to text?

The dead air between words in a phone-call is a much more difficult void to fill than in the world of text conversation. Humans were able to
communicate vocally long before the invention of writing, so how can this be the case? It has nothing to do with our history, but it does
have a great deal to do with time.

You need words son and plenty of them

It is about the immediacy, and the amount of time it takes to utter words. When a radio presenter is creating the script for their one hour
show they are just as concerned about this time. A human being speaks at an average rate of 3 words a second, which means that in a ten
minute conversation somewhere in the region of 2000 words will be needed. Wow, ok so you know that you are going to say hello, and at
some point you are going to invite her to do whatever with you. Thats ten words taken care of, phew only 1990 to go.
Starting to feel more confident yet, or has your hand rushed back from the phone and back into your pocket?
Going in gung ho is perhaps the best way to pick up that phone, and take on the noble art of real time real talk. It can be more difficult
even than: real life real time real talk. It may be advantageous to you in the dating scenario, coming from initial Facebook flirtations to
now; look at the whole process as having been a progression. From delayed time text talk to real time text talk. Texting her phone, to
now talking to her on that phone is a progression. Ultimately every Facebook Chase should be with this progression in mind. It may on
paper seem like quite a journey from that first moment you saw her picture, to moving onto seeing her eyes in front of yours, striving to
make those pupils dilate with fondness for you, but the whole journey is fun.its not effort, it is how us 21 st century people have
evolved. Our natural environment is a complex one.

Thump, thump. Are you a hit?

Your heart may be pounding; youve come a long way to get to this point. You are armed with experience; you are armed with knowledge of
her. You have an idea of what she likes. She likes you; otherwise she would not have given you her number. However; it is only if she feels
confident a date will not make her feel nervous that she will be willing to say yes when you ask her. You need to be confident now, for her
to allow things to go further into a real life date. Remember; You need to be confident enough for the two of you.
A great deal is riding on this call. I do not say this to make you feel more nervous. It is important that the call is given the weight it deserves.
She wants you, so give that to her in your conversation. Give her you. Have the confidence to be you, and give her something of yourself.
This is likely the first time that you will hear her voice, and vice versa. Your focus is what you want: her. That is the carrot to get you to
make that call.

Look for your motivation

You want her, you want to know more about her, and you want to be in her presence. Her being at the other end of a phone-line, her breath
dancing little bubbles of condensation on the phone in her hand is your objective. Her words electronically move through the tangle of
signals to be projected into your ear. This is what you desire, and it is at the touch of your fingers.
You make the call and all goes well, you talk, you laugh, she listens, she talks, you both laugh and agree to do whatever it is you wanted her
to agree to. All great! But what do you do if things didnt go so well? You plucked up the courage to call her on her mobile, and you got no
answer. The phone just rang out, den, den, den. Horror, there are two possibilities here which will now plague your mind. Did she let the
phone ring out on purpose, or did she genuinely miss the call?

Dont be a stranger, equally dont appear like a stalker

Dont whatever you do ring again straight away. Dont make a call in the next hour. The next thing you know four missed calls on her cell
will greet her when she picks up the phone. M aybe she has realised that she left her cell at home whilst out to the shops, and she will
automatically think that you are some kind of psycho.

Just send her a text saying that you called her, (in-case she didnt recognize the number) take time in this case, this is a very important text,
and you are dealing with two possible scenarios. She genuinely missed the call, or was too nervous to pick up the call. What you say now
needs to be self-affirming for her, but not overly so. It is a difficult but worthwhile text to make, but you have all the time in the world for
its creation.
Next if the initial call was missed, you must bide your time, forget that you ever made the call. Stop thinking about her, but return to
Facebook, and hope she pops up online. It is very easy to look like a psycho stalker in this world. For many guys it is quite a natural way
to act. In wanting to be around a particular girl, they are led strongly and heavily influenced by the chemicals that keep them going.

Section 3
Now its time to make the most of your skills with some advanced work.
With the right basic skills, you can get results faster, and go further with better attention to detail and some insider
tips. These advanced handling techniques have all been tried and tested since Facebook and social media first began.

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CHAPTER 1 - INSTANT GRATIFICATION

I nstant message box as a date in itself including typing sex

The engagements of this kind should be used only within the parameters of the instant chat box. There is no other place on Facebook that
this would be allowable. Imagine your tet a tet mind blowing experience exploding out on a public message board accidentally.
Embarrassing, eh?

You need to be discreet

Avoid the temptation to pass on samples of what you have encountered from this girl in typing sex to your mates showing off. It is just not
a done thing. Under these rules, shall we go on?
So when do you know that it is time to engage in such activities? They are not for everyone, as you will learn for yourself if you are not
careful. Imagine how shocked you would be if a girl started to make highly sexualized advances. OK perhaps not the best example.

Sugar and spice

But girls are not like you, some are soft on the interior, and may be highly offended by such activity. Here you will know as soon as the girl
starts to talk about sex, that you are almost good to go with this. You will know that at least your words will not fall on offended eyes.
Now it is a matter of sussing out her ability to write one handed as she lets loose on herself with the other. I kid you not. You dont want
this to be a one sided thing, I am not going to go into the dynamics, the morale issues or the pathetic-ness of getting off to words. It is
gratification of this type that is the best instant gratification method available on the social networking tool.

This is fantasy writing, write fiction into salacious fact

M ake it your own, with words of your own. Perhaps you have encountered the words within Hustler? Words that could engorge the
hardiest males or sweetest girls are there as samples of what can be achieved in type sex. This is your calling, excel in this department in the
ultimately safe area of text sex, and those plane tickets will soon be in your inbox with her desperate for the real thing. A girl within a closer
proximity may be enticed to call round to yours straight away. SoWork your magic.
When doing this, you must be very visual, visually stimulating, describing everything as it would occur. Immerse yourself in the moment of
it all, with your mind focused on her right where she is. If it has been a while for her since any sexual act, this will be all the more
overwhelming for her. If she has been conversing with you from her office desk (naughty thing) then taking part in type sex from her office
chair with others in her vicinity will turn her on no end.

Making the most of what you have to work with

The problem and benefit all in one, with Facebook is that it is primarily a no sex zone. Images of an explicit nature are a no no. As we
move around the online world we are besieged by the opportunity for sexually provocative images everywhere. It is often difficult to not
give in.

Refrain and feel the benefit

Facebook is a zone that can take us away from these temptations. Hours spent here take us away from the other perverse locations on offer.
The longer we are away, the more ability soft core stuff like type will have to give the effect you are looking for. The longer we are away
from sex, our immunity, and threshold for arousal wanes.
Blow her away with adjectives, doing all the things to her slowly or harshly as you figure her out as a sexual animal. It can be very exciting
for her if there are others in the room as she gets it on with you this way. But try not to be so good, as to get her fired!
What you do at your end in the physical realm is up to you. This book is not here to teach you how to do that!
M ore sex type tips for you to get tip top at the dip of the wick over the web now. Adjective are good, they build on the visual experience.
Use as much variety in the way that you describe the organs themselves and the instruments of pleasure being applied e.g. fingers can be
replaced with digits. You want to keep her eager, and hot, not bored to tears with the repetition that comes out of your limited sexual
vocabulary.
You are a male for feck sakes, everything that has crossed your mind since puberty and before had a sexual basis to it. There were words

therein that will assist you now. There were films you watched that will help you now. There were couples doing things that you did a
voyeur job over on the bus one day that will help you now. This is about expansion of your writing ability. You are pushing for the ultimate
sex type trophy. You want a total stranger to be able to climax from 1,000 miles away, just because of your words.

Only ever a poor second to the real thing

Ive achieved it, and there is no reason why you cannot do it as well. That is if you want to at all, and you may have been reading this very
chapter with disgust. In which case, Get the hell out of here you prude, move onto the next chapter. The disgusted man might be right,
you know. There is no moral issue here of course, but type sex is by no means the real thing, it is not even close. However it can provide a
means of gratification when there are no signs of the real thing in the near future, or indeed make things move swiftly towards a real life
encounter.
Some girls will look at this as the foreplay of dating. Some of those you will date will use this as a one last time, a; for old times sake,
the irony being that it is being conducted through the Facebook medium in which you met.
Whatever you do, you should do it well. Find some poor unfortunate looking girl, and fulfill her dreams to practice on, or find the hottest
cutest thing you could only hope to do this thing with in real life. With any luck, and with a whole lot of loving words, you can use the type
text to bring things a step forward for the two of you from your initial Facebook connection.
Just dont ruin your keyboard, you are going to need it as you bid in this domain to be an advanced master of Facebook dating.

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CHAPTER 2 - WITH TEASE PLEASE

Tickling her where it matters with Facebook

The art of the tease is just that, an art form. As with any art it is the artist themself that has talent. Besides the showing of how to draw
particular shapes, it is difficult to teach talent. Not to be one to shy away from a difficult task herein, I will now strive to give you great
value for money. I will make a Tease M aster out of you yet boy.

Hurt her to hold her

Your most advanced teasing ability was in pulling a girls hair back as a wee boy. Then it was about making her feel bad, but the principles
of teasing in the grown up world of dating, is to make her feel better, via, the angle of making her first feel worse. Why should you do that?
The emotional rollercoaster, the thought patterns that must be gone through to come out the other end; in-like with you (not just the
Facebook like kind) are a vast conundrum.
The mind is complex, we hit it here, we hit it there with idea and thought, we excite it, and in a way we confuse it.
It is this confusion we are after as a means to turn any girl into a face to face date. There are practically a million and one ways to do this.
You will find however that virtually pulling her hair may not be as effective as it once was as a teasing technique. You will have to be
smarter than that boy. That is what it is all about, playing to the best of your abilities, and paying attention to every little detail of her.
Finding her sensibilities and pushing lightly on them, softly and surely you will tentatively confuse her emotional stream to think it likes
you.

Humpty Dumpty is a cracking stereotype

Words are your weapon: Take the opposite of things sometimes, go a little humpty dumpty, creating little arguments in your discussions
here and there. Pretend to be upset by something she has said. Trigger her memory back to embarrassing moments, constantly pushing with
little links that you know will draw an emotion.
However in all of this toying with her feelings never ever push it too far. Never allow yourself to lose the run of yourself. It is easy to go
too far and almost impossible to undo the damage when, Good Tease Goes Bad.

How to avoid going too far, artfully

It is an art, and you can artfully dodge any hurt feelings by following these rules. Just be careful that you dont take the objective of
confusing her too far, and actually confuse yourself as to why you are teasing her in the first place. You want to make her smile eventually;
every little snipe you make should come with a balancing affirmation, to make her feel better about herself.

Use the tease to empower yourself

This tease mentality is a great mechanism for you to overcome your worry that this great girl may be out of your league. By teasing her, you
are removing her from that pedestal, and putting yourself in a dominating position. It is a position you will like, and it is a position she will
be happy for you to take, being the man and all, it is your natural position.
Do not go over the top with the tease, every second sentence shouldnt be composed with the intention of confusing her emotions, that
would be, well just plain confusing for her now wouldnt it..

It is your knowledge of her that will endear you to her

Use of information from previous chats with her, and useful comments she has made in postings that you have also saved, can be make the
tease phase an easy task to complete. Gaining knowledge of her is the power you possess to overcome the barrier of her self defense
mechanisms. She will defend herself from the advances of people who show no effort in getting to know her.
This is not an unreasonable request from a lady. Girls by and large are interested in much more than the physical realm.
As you learn more however, always do so with the intention of discovery. You are discovering if this girl is really for you, if she in fact is
worth it? Will you just get bored with her? Is she a nice person? It is not a one sided thing. You have to be culpable to your own standards
too. If it appears she is failing to meet these standards, then always be ready to stop making your advances, and pull back towards another
target.
She will thank you in the end for not pursuing something that you could never have been serious about long term, and you will be thankful

too. Dont be fooled that effort made should not be wasted, it is never entirely wasted, and each advance is useful in the learning process
towards perfecting your Facebook Dating abilities to get you the one you want: That is the very best girl(s) out there for you.

Giving away her card that she fancies you

Directly teasing her and tickling her in a manner that she will enjoy, will be enjoyed by you both. Dont forget that girls are masters at this,
and it is when she teases you that is the first giveaway she fancies you. The more she teases, the more she is naturally endeavoring to
confuse you, and get you to like her too. (Who said the art of human seduction was uncomplicated) M aybe we need our heads examined for
pursuing this method of flirtation.
Of course it is possible to seduce without ever teasing, but then isnt it possible to seduce without ever talking too? The ability to tease is a
friend indeed, in particular in Facebook flirting, where all you really have at your disposal beyond wall photos is a type based means of
getting her where you want her.

Something that cant offer any confusion

If she is teasing you back, then it is only a matter of time before one party or the other makes it known that a face to face conversation is
what they want. Passing on your digits, defining the time and the place of your meet, will be one or two sentences where you will and
should show no confusion whatsoever.

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CHAPTER 3 - GET THE GIRL

Converting Facebook Friend to Girlfriend

You have come all of this way to get a girl that you like, to like you right back. She is eager to meet you in person, are you going to let any
issue deter you from finding yourself in the arms of someone you could grow to love? Let a personal hang-up stop you sharing time with
someone you are certain to enjoy time with? You arent? Well lets move on tough guy.

To turn the friend into a girlfriend rapidly.

Ring the number when you get it, dont delay.
Tell her you like her when the time is right.
Kiss her when the time is right.
Be a good guy, respond to her texts.
Do buy her the occasional flower, or better still steal them.

Simplicity for intimacy

It is as simple as that. Of course there are all of the hurdles to jump before you actually get the number, but it wouldnt be fun if it was too
easy would it? Any intimacy you acquire through dating is oh so much more worthwhile than that achieved with readies in your local
brothel. Dont ever get desperate. Always know that there is a girl not far from you through Facebook means.

There is always backup

Even when things dont work out in a relationship, always know that you now have the skills to start again from scratch. M ove things on
multiple fronts, with multiple girls all at once, lest one or two fall by the wayside.
Dont look at the number being handed over as an endpoint to the input Facebook may have in building the relationship. You will find that
in this medium where you two met, there will always be a sense of nostalgia. You may find it more comfortable for you both to type your
conversations, than to be constantly on the phone to each other. This is the place where you met, and in her mind it will always be a special
place for the pair of you.

She is probably a girly girl

Dont be afraid from here on in to use some of Facebooks cutesier little tools. Girls like those teddy-bear trinkets, little e-cards sent to
them on any occasion, God forbid they even love, love hearts in messages. Girls by and large live up to that sugar and spice and all things
nice, ideal, and they arent embarrassed by it.
In fact no matter how late into their 20s or 50s they are, they see it as a symbol of their femininity, and will be happy that you play on it.
It is of course not by itself going to turn a friend into a girlfriend, but the whole dating game is just a composition of all of the small
things done well.
Understanding all of the small steps leads to a big picture understanding. Do the little things well, and the end result will be positive.

Never fail to notice her

There is nothing that will make her feel inadequate quicker than if you fail to connect when she sees that you are online. Resolve this by two
means. You can go offline whilst you are in a relationship of sorts at times of your choosing. Alternatively when you see her green light
whilst you are online, no matter how busy you are send her a little greeting.
She is worth it, and it will stand in your favor in developing the relationship. It is only in the end game, often when a man is about to lose
something that could and should have been great, when he has been, or is in the process of being dumped, that a man will be over eager to be
in communication with the girl. He will be trying to make up for years of neglect in a few days or weeks, and resultantly will start to appear
obsessed (never a good thing.)

She will want you to connect with her as often as possible in the opening phase

In the opening game however, feel free to connect with her as often as you like. Dont forget that she has a life of her own outside of you,
but too, she will be excited by your advances and want to reciprocate. We have broached earlier, how statistically a woman may need to
spend up to nine hours with a man before she feels comfortable enough to take her clothes off.

There is the advantage that this 9 hours of time with you does usually include time spent Facebook chatting, although to a lesser extent. You
cannot just make a single post in delayed time, and get an answer back from her 9 hours later and expect thats it shell go to bed with me
now. Sorry to let the truth inconvenience you there tough guy.
Do you want solidity or a quick fix
The process of converting her, first into a friend, and then, into a girlfriend is not the most difficult task in the world. The main thing is
that you are pushing things to occur where you will be happy with the outcome. At all points, assess your reasoning, and ask yourself, Do
I really want this girl as something more solid in my life?
It may well be that the two of you are not compatible. You may be more in tune with reality than she is, to see that this is the case. Your
choice to act on this will be the basis of whether or not you are content in your next relationship. The greatest benefit of online dating
through Facebook is that you have all the girls of the world at your disposal. You have the means to target the girls you really want, you
also have the ability to get to know these girls better before things advance.
Ensure that only the girls you really want, going forward, are the ones who make the cut of advancement.

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CHAPTER 4 - RATE YOUR DATE

Telling if your Date went well

How did it go? You ask your friend on coming back from a date with his latest attempted conquest. Fine, he tells you. He always tells
you it is fine, it seems no matter how the date went a mans opinion is; that the outcome is always defined by a single syllable. The man will
not be eager to show his own failings to his peers in reflecting the reality that the date was an out and out disaster.

How the date went is between the two of you only

You however, when reflecting on your date only have to answer to yourself. In your mind there is the space to decipher the code that
decides if the date went well or not.. A date can go any way, it can end with a peck, it can end with a feel, and it can end in a bed. A date
getting to a point of total physicality does not necessarily mean that it went to the optimum.

Different endings are differing results for differing persons

It all depends in how shallow, how physically needy you are. Quit talking crap Facebook Dating Guide, of course getting physical means
that the date went really well, you say. Ah yes, but a positive outcome can be entirely down to luck and chance in spite of a poor date
performance. So too getting physical too soon may lead you to look at your quarry in a way, which means she cannot become girlfriend
material, and vice versa.
We are complex creatures after all, often with disparate views on sex and reactions to it when we finally accomplish the feat.
Looking at the date as a whole, we can make an accurate assessment of how it all went. Back to the moment you acquired her phone number.
Did you have to practically pry it from her cold dead hands? That is obviously not the best way to do things, but well done anyway for
getting it. The less eager they are to give such information in the opening phases, the less likely it is that they will like you in the long term.
However as you have learned from experience, a girl can turn full circle in her opinion of you at any point, and her like of you can hit her
like a train at any point too.
So how did this portion of the chase go, was the number correct? Great 10 out of 10. The purpose of your Facebook dating encounters,
successful or not, in getting you to the end game are about honing skills. They are about finding that comfort zone where you can behave
exactly as yourself without the nerves that hold us back from success in life.

Comfort zones are the main marker of success

So were you nervous when you took those digits, and made that call to her for the first time? If you were then there is no shame in it. You
will find that as your Facebook dating endeavours become more numerous, the fears will have dissipated, and the action will become more
natural. How did the call go? Nervousness can lead you to repeat yourself, to say the wrong thing, and not show yourself to her in the best
light.
Use each call that you make as a sounding board for new means of phone based discussion, experiment with it, girls love to hear that
something different from new potential boyfriends. Of course dont be odd, but do be different in the way you put forward the best parts
of you.

Up and down like a yo yo

During the call on reflection did you raise your intonation? Did you hear her doing so? Did you sound exciting or boring, did you manage to
make her laugh, and did she do the same for you? It is all part of getting to know her better, and like with your Facebook encounters you
will get better at it with time and experience.
M ost importantly did the call have a successful outcome in your managing to set a time and a place for your physical meeting? Yes? Well
done, 10 out of 10.

The date itself Was it just the two of you?

The date itself, did she bring a chaperone along? Was it awkward, did you give in to the awkwardness by letting yourself appear to be
awkward? Hard luck boy, the chaperone is a hurdle that can be difficult to overleap in the first instance. Take what you can from the
experience. It is a regular safety net that girls use, in particular if the guy was met online.
Was the girl looking at her phone a lot during your first engagement over coffee or a drink? This is as you probably recognised a bad sign

that you are not holding her attention. It is unlikely that such a date had a successful outcome. It may be however that she herself was a bag
if nerves, and that the phone for her represented a crutch she could rely on to keep her nerves from getting out of hand.

Nerves are a two way street

Never forget that your date, just like you is a human being, with all of the human frailties that you too can possess. If you see that the
phone is being used to a point where it is ruining the date, dont let it continue. Say something outlandish that you know will spark her
attention.
If you can follow through on this outlandish statement, and maybe end with a backhanded compliment, or a joke you are on your way to her
keeping those hands off the phone and into yours. Was there any physical connection in the date? Did those lovely eyes of hers have their
pupils enlarge in dilation? Then she likes you. Did the physicality just come from your end?

Physicality is give and take, you must learn to hold back

You must learn that it is a game of give and take in the first date scenario. What you need to do, is to hold back on your own physical
offering, and touch her in her mind. Holding back leads her to make the physical connection.
From here on in, she is yours, of course a single word or misunderstood line can ruin the positive direction things are moving in, but you
arent in the business of screwing it all up, are you?

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CHAPTER 5 - TIP TOP DATING FORM

Real life dating tips for you to put into practice

Your first date may not be a lone encounter, you may be with a group, and this can put extra pressure on you and her. If you are amongst a
group of people she will look out for you in the environment so long as you protect her. This is a useful lead up to the couple feeling that
you are trying to create from dating her.
The fact that this event has occurred in the initial dating phase is all the better, in that it moves things along faster, skipping a stage or two
by forcing this interdependence on each other. She will protect your jokes with her laughter, and she will see in you the potential for a future
that includes being able to take you with her to meet friends more often.
M ake yourself useful, by doing your fair share of controlling the conversation. By being interested and by being interesting you will achieve
greater success in your dating encounter.

Relax, everything will take care of itself as long as you take care of it

As opposed to specifically arming you with a million and one different tips that run in the manner If she does thisthen you do that..
the best advice I can offer, is to concentrate on getting into a comfort zone.
You need to be relaxed. Putting pressure on yourself to be humorous is not going to instantly turn you into an award winning comedian.
Take the time to sit back, and let what runs from your mind and mouth flow. You know your objective. You have your target in close
proximity. Take aim with the best of what you have from a steady base, a base that allows you to put yourself forward, not some guy tense
with stress. That is not you.
The location of the date is far from the most important aspect of the date. The most important thing is that you are both physically present
in the same place (Duh.) That is what is different here, but you can improve your chances of success by listening to her before you try and
make arrangements to determine a location that will suit you both, looking through the excerpts you have saved of the conversations you
have had with her will provide useful clues too.

Movie first dates are for wimps

Where do you think she might like? You base your answer to this from what you have learned about her. Select a location and activity that
she would like and you will endear yourself to her further. A girl loves someone who listens to what she says. It is the little things that will
see the deal sealed between the pair of you. Always remember one thing though, even if she says that she likes films, dont be tempted to
take the easy way out, and set the cinema as your first date encounter.
This shows a lack of both guts and brains. Think about it, you need to face your demons. It may take you initially outside of your comfort
zone to talk at length with this girl. You may worry that you will run out of things to say, but there is no benefit to delaying the inevitable.
You will, if you want things to go further, have to talk face to face with this girl. You may struggle to begin with, but you will get better at
it, and you will learn to love it.

Girls love to go for walks

So the cinema is for wimps, but walks are for tigers, girls just adore going for walking dates. So what do you wear when you take this girl
out for the first time? Stick on what looks good and feels comfy. Simple as that.

When all goes awry, dont panic just adapt

Wherever you go on your date and whatever you do, it is always a strong possibility that things will not be going according to plan. There
may even have been some kind of mix-up over the context of the encounter (Dont whatever you do, tell her you have the excerpts of your
chats as evidence.) Whatever issue you face, know one thing, you can and will adapt to them.
You may say the wrong thing, backtrack.
You may have been too physical in the opener, hold back.
Youve been knocked for six with an, I like someone else, make a comeback.
Dont pull punches in the engagement. Give strongly, and show strength, maintain eye contact, and sway the way she is looking at you.

Take control of her perspective with the power of your mind, your will and your words.

Forearmed with knowledge is a Popeye sized forearm

Research again before the first date, any added information you can consume about her will help you maintain a conversation that will
interest her. Dont be as simple, straight forward and boring as to say, It says on your profile Emma that you are.. Why is that? Can
you think of any moron out there who could not have asked that question?
Your objective is to set yourself apart from the last moron who failed to get the goods from her. Be coy, be smart, dont be shy, adapt, and
be alert to change, be the change in her eyes, her tone, or in the hand that is signaling for the check so that you can whisk her away to a new
more intimate setting.

No regrets, they dont work. No regrets they only hurt

The final tip I will afford, sending you on your way for a positive dating encounter is to intend having no regrets. This mindset will allow
you to do the things on the date you know you should do, allow you to say all the things you should say, and to get everything from the
date that you deserve.

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CHAPTER 6 - PRINCE CHARMING OR BIKER DUDE

What is the woman looking for?

God be with the days when the answer to this question was as clear cut, as the pudding bowl haircut the girl had to make do with to draw
her man out of the shadows. No use in longing for the past though. Changing female desires in what they want from male companions can be
looked on as a good thing.

Building your profile to represent the character she is looking for

She wants someone to keep her safe in their arms as she rests at night. She wants a thinker. She wants character. She wants looks, wit, and
charm. Ask many girls and you will get just as many different answers about what they want. But there is one commonality, the girls list of
most desired traits is as long as the day is long in which the male can master them.

Moving on having made the catch

Once you have her, then that is invariably it, and you would want to do something very stupid altogether to lose her at this point. The trick
is to get there. The hardest trick to master is: Once having got there, pulling oneself away and going out there to reconquer.

No one hit wonder wanters allowed, serial daters all the way

So many men sit back on the sidelines, ending up sticking on the first girl who comes along who makes for an easy grab. This random hoping
that an easy grab girl will fall into your lap is for the no hopers, the unlucky who will be losers in the love stakes. The girl you want is
looking for a man who can take the bull by the horns, a man who can surprise her, a man she wont see coming until it is too late, a man who
can and will get under her skin and sheets.

Is it a numbers game or not?

A man never knows when the plenty of fish in the sea will bite. In real life it is a numbers game, the concept remains the very same when
taking to the Internet. Now though, instead of having to head out into the world with a hit and hope mentality, you can be more precise in
your targetingactually dating girls you are attracted to.

Why bother dating, oh yeah Its everything

We all know the point of the date, the core reason why we do what we do, why we do everything that we do in life really. It is too basic a
function to even discuss. Well it is a little known secret that this is what women want from their dating too.
Now they may not be as direct in their route towards it, and they may not allow it to control their every doing like we sometimes allow it
to. They may be perfectly content to remain unattached and non sexual for long periods. It is up to you to offer something that will get her
out of this mentality, show her what she is missing out on, let her know what she really wants.

Oh no, it is the list

From you she will want quite a few things. The length of the list can be daunting. Your ability to live up to certain girls demands is down to
your belief in self. Your belief is down to your ability.
Such is the circle, but you can ellipse this circle at any point by improving your ability in any one of the areas girls look for. You can
become a more stable person by applying yourself in your work. You can get the finger out and start to look after your appearance.
As you break down the list of demands a girl holds in her wants from her love, you will find that there is always another one you can tick
off the list. She wants a charmer, a man with a tongue, sometimes money and the potential for its accrual down the years. These are the first
areas of desire for a woman. Do you possess any of these traits? Be honest. If not, it may be time to get on your bike there lad, and become
the object of her desires by being the fulfillment of these desires.

The non demanding girl may be your very type

Of course there are girls out there who dont come with demands. They just want to devote themselves to someone who will love them for
who they are. Find such a girl my man, and you are on the road to happiness, if she comes with an appealing physicality your Facebook

dating may be over as soon as it begins.

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CHAPTER 7 - YOURE QUALIFIED

Here is your PHD in Facebook Dating Science.

The skills this book defines, if practiced, can easily become a part of your dating repertoire. The advent of the Internet has done a lot for
people who sometimes dont hit all of the targets they would like on the real life dating circuit. As you will have encountered, and as we
have made clear, the Internet is not a substitute for a real world dating environment. It is a compliment to it, and should be used as such.

Masters in complimentary therapy

How can you compliment the skills taken from this book? Practice is your friend, while it could always happen that you will hit it off and
remain with the first girl you woo with your newfound skill-set, this may not be what you are looking for. If it is your intention to date as
many girls as you possibly can, then go with it.

Perhaps a Doctorate in Facebook Celebrity Dating next time

Each time you use the tricks of the trade you have found here, you will get better and better. It will become easier to the point where it gets
too easy. Then the challenge becomes in winning over the celebrities on Facebook to your charms, but that is another manual and an area in
which I unfortunately am no expert.
Dont forget not to lose the best of you in your transition
Last words of advice: Never forget who you are, never forget the values and standards you possess and hold. It is important that you never
lose sight of who you really are. The Facebook persona that is a representation of you, is not, and never will be you, do not lose yourself in
this sphere. Dont see it as adapting yourself to suit the profile you embody on the social medium, but see the profile as an ever evolving
living thing, one that will change and develop with you as you change.
It is easier to break than to mend hearts
Dont break every heart out there. There are ways and means to end things without breaking the poor girls heart. M ichael Jacksons
M other apparently always told him, Dont play around with little girlies hearts, (BTW block off any under 18s from connecting with
you on Facebook to avoid potential problems.) Girls are generally softer than males, and rejection is always difficult to deal with.
Now we are not advocating remaining in a relationship out of a fear of hurting her, or indeed continuing to see her long after you have begun
to see other people. It is just that care should be taken with these hearts, in particular with regard to girls who are single with children, and
women in their 30s. You may be their last chance for a settled normal existence, and are taking this from them if you are not interested in
committal.
There are no limitations to your dating success but your own limiting beliefs
You must believe you are capable of even what you deem to be unachievable. Belief that something can be done is half of the battle in
making it so. You too can have the most beautiful girl you have ever seen. There are no limitations. I repeat: None.
No limitation can stand in your way, and block you to the extent that a lack of belief in yourself will. What you achieve in your dating is
down to the character you represent, as much as your own physicality. Do not exclude really great girls from the chance to find you, by
fearing you are not what they want to find.
With reflection some of the skills in this book will be easier mastered
Review the skills contained within this manual from time to time. Some of the theories contained within are quite complex, and what they
are detailing will only become apparent as you learn and practice your way around the Facebook dating environment.
By reviewing, you will always see things that you failed to notice in the first instance. Important sentences will resonate with you more
thoroughly, and stick with you as you monitor, flirt and tease.
S tamina may be required for success
There has been little mention of stamina here. It has been made clear that whilst it is possible for overnight success (literally and sexually)
with Facebook dating, this is not a guarantee. Every time a man needs to blow his beans it is not always as simple as heading out to the club,
and doing so. There are a range of factors that will affect us in the human environment. The important thing is to hang in there and get better
at what you are doing. The skills you have learned, do work, they need to be adapted to your own style, they need to be practiced and used.

It may take a little time, but it will happen.

What number will the x be for you?
The Facebook dating game is a numbers game. Again looking at the salesman for an analogy, the salesman will make x sales if he makes x
amount of calls. Now that is not a guarantee, but that is a general truth, because that is the way it has happened in the past. Of course the x
amount of calls could be none, but the likelihood especially as he perfects his sales technique is that x will represent many.
Dont be afraid of love or lack of it
Never be afraid to end a relationship and never be afraid to fall in love. Fear to move on is never going to be the positive force that a
relationship needs to bring it to a higher level. It may be easier in fact to stay than to leave, but we dont get very far in life by doing what is
easiest. That is unless of course it is applying your Facebook dating skills for finding a plethora of women you want.
Love can sneak up on us, it is hard to find, and a very important asset to hold onto in our living. There are no modern fairytales in real life,
but love is that magical little twist of faith that sometimes comes our way if we are lucky. If you are lucky enough to find it, dont be too
eager to throw it all away in pursuit of just another conquest.
Enjoy the experience.
There is no point in getting stressed about the objective. There is no point in putting yourself into a pressurized environment, and perhaps
immersing yourself in real world activities you do not enjoy in order to apply truth to your Facebook boasts (You will understand this later
on.)
Let me know how you fare out
Stay in touch. In passing on the words of wisdom that I have been practicing to my pleasure since the beginnings of Facebook I are very
interested to hear what others manage to achieve in the realm. The tried and trusted will work for you, and I want to know when it does. So
drop me a line, and tell how you get on with the information I have provided.