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The Ideal Life of

Everything I want to do, have, be, and become:

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USE QUESTIONS TO DISCOVER SOLUTIONS

/POSITIVE OUTCOMES
When Challenged, Ask Yourself:

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What could be POSITIVE about this?

2.

How could I see this differently?

3.

How could I use this for my growth?

4.

How could I REFRAME this situation to create a positive

outcome/state of mind?

5.

What is the most positive thing I could do in this situation?

FOCUS = REALITY

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QUESTIONS TO ENERGIZE THE BRAIN

(AND ACCESS YOUR INNER KNOWER.)
1.

What selling/communications skills do you need to develop in order to be a

peak performer?

2.

What would be a perfect day for you?

3.

If you woke up with any one quality or ability, what would this be?

4.

Your house catches fire. You time to make a final dash inside to save one
item. What would it be? Why?

5.

What are the things or experiences you most want in life?

6.

Who do you need to totally forgive to SET MYSELF FREE?

7.

What personal skills or qualities would help me to improve my life?

8.

What would be your dream vacation?

9.

If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, whom would you want
as a dinner guest?

10.

What would be your ideal joyous life? (Be specific all areas.)

11.

How much would you invest to be a super star? (As a parent, a partner
or professionally?)

THESE QUESTIONS WILL ENABLE ME TO TAP MY

EIGHTEEN BILLION BRAIN CELLS AND
EMPOWER MY LIFE.

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QUESTIONS TO ENHANCE RELATIONSHIPS

WITH SIGNIFICANT OTHER/SPOUSE
1.

How can we be closer?

2.

How can I be more loving to you?

3.

How can I change my behavior so our relationship can go to a higher level?

4.

What do you need from me to feel loved?

5.

If you could change or improve anything about our relationship, what would it be?

6.

On a 1-10 scale, how would you rate our relationship?

(If they respond with anything less than a 10, ask, what can I do to make it a 10?)
(Asking for feedback and really, really listening builds trust!!)

QUESTIONS TO GAIN CLEAR

FEEDBACK FROM CHILDREN
1.

How can I be a more loving Father/Mother to you?

2.

How can I be more supportive to you?

3.

If you could change or improve anything about our relationship, what would it be?

4.

How can I change my behavior so that our relationship can go to a higher level?

Seek to understand others before asking to be understood.

-- Stephen Covey
Listening is LOVING!!
-- Bob Conklin, Founder Adventures in Attitudes

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One of the characteristics of Peak

Performers is Imaging/Mental Rehearsal.
IMAGING DAILY SUCCESS
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Daily, in the morning, image your ideal day.

2.

Image success after success after success.

3.

See and feel yourself becoming more unlimited every day.

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Picture yourself living your ideal life!

5.

Plan a celebration for when you achieve your important goals!

DIFFERENCE MAKERS IN MY LIFE

1.

T.U.A. - Total Unconditional Acceptance.

(This is a major difference maker in life!)

2.

Daily Gratitude. (Cannot emphasize this enough!)

3.

When I achieve my most important goals, my Exciting Celebration

will be:
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Start giving more in every area of your life.

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My Ideal Life

(Be TOTALLY Unrealistic and use the present tense)

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