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The inventor of the human machine was telling us that its two
halves, the male and the female, were made to be combined
together in pairs, not simply on the sexual level, but totally
combined.
CS Lewis attacks the modern view that when people feel that
they are no longer in love with one another, or when either of
them falls in love with someone else, the answer should be
divorce. This is usually what happens in modern day married
couples. There is that idea that just because they arent in love
anymore, they should get a divorce.
IDEA OF BEING IN LOVE
The idea that being in love is the only reason for remaining
married really leaves no room for marriage as a contract or
promise at all. If love is the whole thing, then the promise can
add nothing; and if it adds nothing, then why should it be
made?
o Couples who are in love know this. Those who are in love
have a natural inclination to bind themselves by promises.
So you notice that couples make all these promises to each
other as a sign of their love. This is because they know that
it is not just a feeling, it requires effort and commitment. It
is action, not just something that happens.
o Even love songs hold promises.
Marriage should be for people who are ready to lose that thrill
and settle down to the sober interest, those who are then most
likely to meet new thrills in some quite different direction.
Jesus once said that A thing will not really live unless it first
dies. So one should allow that love to die first.
CS Lewis also talks about FALLING IN LOVE and the wrong notion
that it is something that just happens to a person. And because
people believe this, some married people find themselves giving
in when they find themselves attracted to another who isnt their
husband or wife.
o CS Lewis stresses that love is a CHOICE. So when one finds
himself or herself in that kind of situation, he or she has
the choice to give in to it or not.