Overcoming the

Seduction Community
Aaron Sleazy

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Overview
My Background
The Seduction Industry
What to do instead
Q &A

My Background

Why listen to me?

Rapid development, nine months to
mastery

Unusually high skill-level

Had to learn game, thus: high level of
understanding (unlike naturals)

In a Nutshell
Started with game in late 2006 at the age
of 27

Began to take game seriously in early 2008

Focussed on clubs (because I love them)
Sleazy Rockstar: 2008
King of the Fools Mate: 2009
Currently in a monogamous relationship

But:
Conservative Upbringing
Authoritative Father
As a result, I never blindly accepted
authority

My life started at 25 (Berlin)

Gradually became social
How did I get good so quickly?

Decisive Factors
Probably no accident that I got heavily into
pickup when my life changed

Aimed at doing a PhD, but got disillusioned

Moved back to Berlin one year later

My Game

No-Nonsense approach to seduction, no inner

game mumbo-jumbo etc.

All about efficiency

10:23:18: TVA_Oslo: Sleazy is very onedimensional

10:23:55: apy: at the same time though, Sleazy is

trying to find the quickest route from
meet to lay, so his one-dimensionality is
understandable

More Background
Check my archive on mASF:
http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/
search.cgi

Search for author: Sleazy

Probably best documented progress of

anybody on this planet!

Have Goals!

Goals
What do you want to get out of it?
Me: losing virginity, then:
Getting sex somewhat regularly
Having SNLs (found it strangely fascinating)
being a seducer
Then I got bored of that (and my game
took off as I explored boundaries)

Some Achievements

String of ONS/SNL
Variety of relationship setups
Public indecencies
Rapid escalation angle
Lots of bathroom pulls (<15 min)

Note: cultural differences US/Europe

Nonverbal pulls
instant-pulls

The Seduction Industry

Myths & Nonsense

(just a few)
Phone numbers are an achievement
A kiss-close is an important step
You have to demonstrate value
There is a linear model (M3)
All girls are the same
Peacocking

The worst thing that

happened
Neil Strauss The Game
It is fiction!

Since The Game:

Self-proclaimed gurus with no history whatsoever

(but flashy websites)

Community turned into an industry

Marketers instead of seducers
Pickup Artists
Heaps of misinformation (because guys that dont get
laid cant teach how to get laid)

Can game even be taught, at least in the traditional

sense?

This community is
completely ridiculous.

Main Problem with old

school game

Its not fun

It takes too long to learn
It misses the point

E.g. absurd over-complications such as phone

game, text game or downright nonsense like
tapping

Mental masturbation is rampant!

It can easily turn you into a weirdo

Common Trap
1) I experienced X but ... said Y
2) ...then the guys refute their experiences
3) They never progress

Its a cultural
phenomenon
USA
UK (mainly London)
...not much elsewhere
It is not a global movement

Basics
Looks
Height
Wealth
Popularity / Fame
But dont worry, game is the great

equalizer (at least in some fictional tale)

More big lies

You can get any girl your want.
I go five out of five.
I never get rejected.
I can make any girl my girlfriend.
I can steal any girl from her boyfriend in
max. 15 minutes. (my favourite)

What does good

mean?
The pros are a lot worse than you might
think (some dont even get laid)

If you have a life outside of pickup: five girls/

year is good, ten/year is great

Bootcamps
Scam of the Decade
Works like this:
Guy tells you to approach
If it doesnt work: millions of suggestions
If it does work: millions of reasons
Hides the fact that its a numbers game

Public Forums
Mostly a haven for virgins and social retards
A minority gets laid (barely), and on a low
skill level like online dating or #/date

One-eyed leads the blind

Seniority and post-count often mistaken for
competence

But what to do instead?

What to do instead

The main idea

Pickup/seduction is not about manipulation!

Forget magic tricks, routines, patterns, NLP, hypnosis etc.

Mutual: only happens if the two of you want it!

Cool guys get laid and always got laid

Thus: become a cool guy! (easier than you might think)

Requires: sense of fashion & style, liking yourself (and your

body), being comfortable with (your) sexuality
Before we start to pick up girls, we have to
work on ourselves this might be hard work!

Consequences
Instead of learning routines, spend time at
the gym

Pick an at least semi-social hobby, get some

friends

Get a decent wardrobe

Yes, its shallow, but thats just how it is
Also proven to work

Nobody has all the

answers!
Cf. martial arts
Different styles evolve based on the
personality of the seducer

Dont follow anyones advice blindly even if

they are good

About my Style

Love going to clubs

It wouldnt work for everybody, but feel free to

try

Not overly talkative

Not extremely social
In touch with my body/sexuality
Therefore I escalate quickly and do mostly nonverbal game

A friend of mine
Precocious 17 y/o
Strong case of ADD
Couldnt even remember routines
Otherwise talkative, very impulsive and
outgoing, always talks about sex

Gets more girls than five random gurus

put together

Instead of Scripts,
Routines etc

Find your scene/environment

This method is more effective than any kind

of game. Think about that for a moment.

Show up
Choose the right girl
Be willing and ready to escalate
If she likes you shell give you a chance, if not, nothing
(=no routine in the world!) will make her change her
mind

Relationships

Bedding them is easy, keeping them is hard. (???)

Maybe this is true for routines-junkies

Looks good next to her

Can be introduced to her friends
...and her family
Satisfies her sexually
Isnt a complete dickhead

Where to meet them

Everywhere
Social circle
During your (!) day: hobbies, activities,
shopping

...or at night

Why not online?

Take home message

Get out
Forget about pickup theory
Fix your life
...and get laid
It is no big deal!

Aaron Sleazy
http://www.AaronSleazy.com
http://www.AaronSleazy.com/forum

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