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Many of our families have found the support of people who are
prepared to listen to them going over the death time and time
again is invaluable. Some will find these people amongst their
own families and friends, others will prefer to seek help from
agencies, many use both. Try to be open minded to the various
types of support on offer.
We offer emotional support, help & information in a number of ways:
Telephone helpline Information
Local support group meetings
Our aim is to provide a safe, confidential environment, in which
bereaved people can share their experiences and feelings thus
giving and gaining support from each other.
For more details on our local support groups please contact us.
It might help to share stories over the telephone with others who
have "been there" with the free Child Death Helpline
0800 282986. This is available for anyone affected by the death
of a child. It is staffed by volunteers all of whom
are bereaved parents.
Other Agencies
The Compassionate Friends
14 New King Street, Deptford,
London SE8 3HS
National UK Helpline
0845 123 2304
www.tcf.org.uk
Email: info@tcf.org.uk
Samaritans
National Helpline:
08457 90 90 90
www.samaritans.org
Email: jo@samaritans.org
Child Bereavement UK
Clare Charity Centre
Wycombe Rd, Saunderton,
Buckinghamshire, HP14 4BF
Support and Information:
0800 02 888 40
www.childbereavementuk.org
Email:
support@childbereavementuk.org
Somewhere to turn
when someone dies
You should not feel you have to carry your burden of grief and
overwhelming emotions alone. You can do things to help yourself:
Relationships
Parents may change so much after the death of their child that to
each other they become unrecognisable as the people who met
and began a family life years before. They will need to discover
who they are all over again and both partners will need space and
time as they grieve for their child in their own way and on
different timescales.
My wife would be crying when I left and still crying when
I came home well, I was sad too but I still had a job
to do and I ended up becoming absorbed and getting
through the day one way or another.
Marriages and partnerships may shake or crumble under the
heavy weight of grief and loss but in time many will find a path
forward. They can become stronger and life will mean something
again. Others will be different. Some adults find the death of a
child too painful to contemplate and cope by switching off.
It can be hard if your partner appears unaffected or is behaving
in what might come across as an insensitive or
inappropriate way. It might help to remember
they are still grieving, just doing
it differently.