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Found via Pinterest and edited to be a little more Berglerian.
1. Accept the truism that the world is not your oyster. The world provides you, tax-free,
with a constant flow of nuisances; it is your business to cope with and neutralize these nuisances
internally.
2. Keep your sense of proportion. Recognize the fact that the aggressive actions of the people in
your environment are not necessarily meant to attack you personally.
3. Dont accept your tensions at face value, excusing them by making the convenient claim,
Im just that type of person.
4. Be prepared to face the music, in the form of constant reproaches from your inner
conscience.
5. Accept the fact that everybody unconsciously harbors self-damaging tendencies;
understand that your conscious rationalizations have the purpose of obscuring, not clarifying,
the reasons for your tensions.
6. Since the complex detail-interconnections in your tensions are beyond your reach,
start your attack on these tensions by sending up a trial balloon: consciously perceived (though
not understood) indictment of self-damage unconsciously enjoyed.
7. Determine whether some of your tensions are not self-created.
8. Ask yourself whether you arent an unconscious in-justice collector and self-appointed
trouble maker. Consciously, of course, you are your own best friend and well-wisher;
unconsciously, the story may be different. Dont automatically dismiss your environments
indictment of you as a person who asks for it and leads with his chin. The criticism may be
valid.
9. Understand that your inexplicable depressions and lousy moods are no more than
alibis presented to your inner conscience.
10. You cannot eradicate nuisances, but you can keep them on the level of incidental
irritations, instead of paying them the costly compliment of elevation to intolerable tensions.
His language may be a little old-fashioned but his ideas are not. I encourage everyone to look up Dr.
Bergler. His books are out of print but you can find more information at edmundberlger.ca.
(http://edmundbergler.ca)
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June 20, 2014 at 2:30 am
Wow, I had no idea. Its hard to find his work these days so I havent read any of his theories
on homosexuality. I know that he had written about it but because it doesnt pertain to me I
havent looked into it. Good to know. Thank you for stopping by to let me know.
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