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Help My Son Deal with a Bully
Stop My Son from Bullying
Help My Son Cope with Cyber Bullying
Get Help with Bullying from My Son's School
Boys Who Bully: What, When, Where, Why, and How
What Is Cyber Bullying and How Can I Protect My Son?
Bullying Information Resource List for Boys
Is He Teasing or Bullying?
Is My Son a Bully?
Stop Bullying (Boys Bullying Boys)
Do I need this EduGuide?
Yes, if you are concerned about the effects of bullying on your son—whether he’s the victim or the bully. This EduGuide has
information about why boys bully, how they bully, and what you can do to stop this serious problem as quickly as possible.
2 How does it work?
ONLINE EDUGUIDE www.EduGuide.org
Is My Son a Bully?
Stop Bullying (Boys Bullying Boys)
Do I need this EduGuide?
Yes, if you are concerned about the effects of bullying on your son—whether he’s the victim or the bully. This EduGuide has
information about why boys bully, how they bully, and what you can do to stop this serious problem as quickly as possible.
How does it work?
l Quizzes help you know where you stand.
l Articles give you the background information you need to make a decision.
l ShortCuts help you take immediate action. Choose one or go through them all.
What will I learn?
l How to tell the difference between teasing and bullying
l How to help protect my son from bullying and keep him from being a bully
l How to recognize bullying on the Internet
Quick Solutions
l What can I do in fifteen minutes? Take the quiz “Is He Teasing or Bullying?” or “Is My Son a Bully?”
l What can I do in an hour? Find a quiet time to ask your son if he’s seen boys being bullied at school and what he thinks about
it. Then read and discuss “Boys Who Bully: What, Where, When, Why, and How” with him.
Help My Son Deal with a Bully
If your son says he is being bullied, take the bullying information seriously and respond thoughtfully. The effects of bullying can be
grave, but bullying can be overcome. Here are some ideas to help you and your son deal with bullies.
When a bully confronts your son, suggest your child do the following:
l Act confident (even if he isn’t). If the bully believes that your son is confident and that the bullying is not having the desired effect,
the bully may give up.
l Ignore the bully and walk away. Walking away can be very effective. Bullies rarely want to waste time bothering someone who
doesn’t react.
l Be assertive but not aggressive. Speak directly to the bully and tell him to stop bullying. Remind your son that assertiveness is
different from aggression. Physical contact is never acceptable, so no punching.
3 l Find a friend. Take a friend with him to classes, the bathroom, the lunchroom, and home (if he walks to school). Having a
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companion will make your son feel safer and more confident if a problem arises.
l Find a safe person. Find a trusted adult (teacher, counselor, administrator) at school that he can go to if he feels threatened.
Help My Son Deal with a Bully
If your son says he is being bullied, take the bullying information seriously and respond thoughtfully. The effects of bullying can be
grave, but bullying can be overcome. Here are some ideas to help you and your son deal with bullies.
When a bully confronts your son, suggest your child do the following:
l Act confident (even if he isn’t). If the bully believes that your son is confident and that the bullying is not having the desired effect,
the bully may give up.
l Ignore the bully and walk away. Walking away can be very effective. Bullies rarely want to waste time bothering someone who
doesn’t react.
l Be assertive but not aggressive. Speak directly to the bully and tell him to stop bullying. Remind your son that assertiveness is
different from aggression. Physical contact is never acceptable, so no punching.
l Find a friend. Take a friend with him to classes, the bathroom, the lunchroom, and home (if he walks to school). Having a
companion will make your son feel safer and more confident if a problem arises.
l Find a safe person. Find a trusted adult (teacher, counselor, administrator) at school that he can go to if he feels threatened.
He should also choose a backup person in case the goto person is absent.
Here are some other tactics to protect your son from bullying and help him deal with bullies:
l Be supportive. Make sure your son knows that you don’t think he has brought the bullying on himself or that the bullying is in
any way his fault.
l Involve dad or another positive male role model. Bullying may make your son feel insecure, but having a man in his life who is
interested in his wellbeing can help build your son’s selfesteem.
l Keep a log. When bullying occurs, have your son tell you what happened, who was involved, when it happened, and where it
happened. Be sure to record every incident and keep a log of all the details.
l Make an appointment. Meet with his teachers, counselor, and principal (if necessary) to let them know about the bullying. Ask
them to let the other teachers know about the situation, so that all teachers can be alert for suspicious behavior from the boys
involved. Also find out what the school plans to do to help resolve the issue.
l Communicate with your son openly and frequently. Ask your son about his day—every day. Ask such questions as Who did you
eat lunch with? and Who did you hang out with at recess? Play a game of HighLow at the dinner table. Ask each member of
the family to tell the high point and low point of the day. If your son consistently responds with a low point that involves recess,
friends, lunch, or “everything,” be on the lookout for possible bullying.
l Do your homework. Inform yourself about the laws in your state designed to protect children from harassment at school and in
the community. You can usually find information online or at your local library.
l Role play. Practice different types of bullying situations at home and ways your son can respond appropriately to each one.
This will help him be more confident if he faces bullies.
l Arrange play dates. Whether your son is six or sixteen, suggest he invite a friend over. If your son is a teenager, you can take
him and his friends to the movies or bowling or have a movie night at your house.
l Suggest exercise. Sometimes just getting out for a good run or brisk walk will improve your son’s mood. Better yet, join him
and talk about something that makes him feel good about himself.
l Be proactive. If you are looking for a new school, ask questions about bullying such as the following: What is the school’s
policy about bullying? What are the statistics about bullying at the school?
Sources:
kidshealth.org
education.com
menshealth.co.uk
Stop My Son from Bullying
Is a Bully Living in My House?
What should you do if you notice your son acting like a bully or if a teacher, neighbor, or another kid’s parent tells you that your son is
bullying someone? These suggestions can help:
l Listen with open ears. When a teacher or another parent describes your son’s bullying behavior, it’s natural for you to react
defensively or deny that your child is capable of bullying. But it’s important to take a deep breath and really listen to what the
person has to say. Ask questions to gain understanding—not to prove the other person wrong.
l Keep things in perspective. When talking to the parents of the victim, discuss the issue in a mature, respectful way. It is
appropriate to say, for example, “Please don’t label my child or call him names. Just explain what happened.” Remember that
this discussion is about the wellbeing of the victim. It’s not an attack on your parenting skills.
l Try to be understanding. Your son’s adolescent behaviors may come from feeling vulnerable, as ironic as it seems. Try to
discover what might be going on in his life that causes him to bully. Has there been a major change or a death in your family?
Are there other family pressures he might be reacting to? Stress in children can change their behavior drastically.
l Teach control. When you discuss your son’s behavior with him, don’t blame him. Emphasize that he is responsible for his own
behavior and that anger in children is a normal feeling everyone experiences but one we must learn to control. Teach your son
alternative ways to deal with aggression, such as shooting hoops in the driveway to work off excess energy (this will be more
effective if you join him) or spending some time alone listening to music or meditating to relieve stress.
l Reinforce kindness. Encourage your son (and help him) to do one nice thing for three different people every day, such as
helping tutor a younger student, doing a chore for a neighbor, or phoning a grandparent. This exercise helps shift the mind
from negative behavior to positive behavior, and it can be very effective. Be sure to model kindness yourself.
l Seek help. If you believe that your son is bullying other boys, get help for him as soon as possible. Meet with his pediatrician or
family doctor, teachers, school counselor, or principal to create a plan to help your son work through his problems and get to
the root of the bullying. If the bullying persists and all parties agree that he needs professional help, ask his doctor to
recommend a therapist in your area who specializes in adolescents, preferably one who has had experience treating bullying.
Sources:
aacap.org
EduGuide (articles on file)
kidshealth.org
education.com
Help My Son Cope with Cyber Bullying
If your son is being bullied over the Internet or through other kinds of information technology (that is, cyber bullied), take these steps.
l Contact the bully’s parents. As calmly as possible, let them know about the bullying and describe its effects on your son.
Explain that you will be contacting the school with the information about the cyber bullying. If the bully’s parents don’t seem to
be taking the problem seriously, add that you will notify the police if necessary.
l Change your son’s email address, cell phone number, passwords, and so on. Make sure he understands that he is never to
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give his passwords to any of his friends no matter what the circumstances or how much he trusts hem. Once your son has a
new cell phone number and email address, remind him to share them only with his close friends and his family.
kidshealth.org
education.com
Help My Son Cope with Cyber Bullying
If your son is being bullied over the Internet or through other kinds of information technology (that is, cyber bullied), take these steps.
l Contact the bully’s parents. As calmly as possible, let them know about the bullying and describe its effects on your son.
Explain that you will be contacting the school with the information about the cyber bullying. If the bully’s parents don’t seem to
be taking the problem seriously, add that you will notify the police if necessary.
l Change your son’s email address, cell phone number, passwords, and so on. Make sure he understands that he is never to
give his passwords to any of his friends no matter what the circumstances or how much he trusts hem. Once your son has a
new cell phone number and email address, remind him to share them only with his close friends and his family.
l Contact the school. If both boys attend the same school and if the bullying has been going on for some time, tell school
personnel what is happening. They may have some suggestions about ways to help. If they know about the problem, they can
monitor the bully’s actions at school.
l Keep personal information private. Remind your son never to give out personal information over the Internet—no exceptions.
l Don’t respond. If your teen receives a threatening message or experiences any other types of bullying behavior online or on his
cell phone, tell him not to respond. Explain that the bully is looking for a reaction, preferably one of distress or fear. By failing to
respond, your son is taking away the bully’s power.
l Don’t forward. If your son receives an email or any other form of electronic communication about someone else that is hostile
or defamatory, make sure he doesn' forward it to anyone. Remind him that if he does forward such communication, he could
find himself in just as much trouble as the person who sent it to him. Your son should contact a responsible adult and show
him or her any communication that he feels is inappropriate.
l Keep records. Keep every example of cyber bullying that your son receives. Make sure the date and source of the
communication are clear. Keep this information organized in an electronic or paper file (or both) to use as proof later if you
need to.
l Do your research. Search online or contact your local police department to find out what the cyber bullying laws are in your
state. Many states are creating tougher laws to help kids understand the seriousness of cyber bullying.
l Join with other parents. Join an existing group focused on cyber bullying or form one to research and discuss this form of
social violence and take steps to address it.
Get Help with Bullying from My Son's School
If your son is being bullied at school, there are actions you and the school can take to remedy the problem. Here’s what you need to
know about getting help for your son and about school policies for preventing bullying.
Stop Bullying Now
l Set up a meeting. First meet with the appropriate teachers and the principal as soon as you can and have your child explain
what is happening to him. If you don’t think your concerns are being taken seriously enough, contact the school counselor and
superintendent and meet with them.
l Take notes. At the meeting, record everything the school personnel promises to do. Before the meeting ends, repeat your list of
expectations and make sure everyone agrees.
l Ask about the bully. Be sure the school is also meeting with the bully and his parents. Ask what type of punishment he will
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receive and what the next step will be if the bullying happens again. Follow up to make sure the school is executing its plan.
l Consider counseling. If the school has a counselor on staff, have your son meet with him or her. You may want to be present
social violence and take steps to address it.
Get Help with Bullying from My Son's School
If your son is being bullied at school, there are actions you and the school can take to remedy the problem. Here’s what you need to
know about getting help for your son and about school policies for preventing bullying.
Stop Bullying Now
l Set up a meeting. First meet with the appropriate teachers and the principal as soon as you can and have your child explain
what is happening to him. If you don’t think your concerns are being taken seriously enough, contact the school counselor and
superintendent and meet with them.
l Take notes. At the meeting, record everything the school personnel promises to do. Before the meeting ends, repeat your list of
expectations and make sure everyone agrees.
l Ask about the bully. Be sure the school is also meeting with the bully and his parents. Ask what type of punishment he will
receive and what the next step will be if the bullying happens again. Follow up to make sure the school is executing its plan.
l Consider counseling. If the school has a counselor on staff, have your son meet with him or her. You may want to be present
for the first meeting and then let your son meet with the counselor independently. Also ask what type of counseling is available
for the bully and suggest that the bully’s parents be informed about counseling.
l Write a letter. If you’ve contacted the school and met with administrators and the bullying continues, write a letter to the
superintendent and copy the teacher, principal, and counselor. Include copies of any evidence (notes, emails, photos) of the
bullying.
l Be persistent. Be your son’s advocate and do your best to protect him from the effects of bullying. Contact the administrators as
many times as necessary if your concerns are not being addressed and the problem continues.
l Be informed. Learn the antibullying laws in your state.
l Contact the bully’s parents. Discussing the problem with the bully’s parents may be very helpful, but only if you are calm and
reasonable.
l Find a safe person. Identify at least one person at school (a teacher, principal, or staff assistant) that your child can go to at any
time if he needs to.
Prevent Bullying before It Starts
l Bully prevention. Many schools have adopted bully prevention programs and have trained teachers to stop bullying before it
starts. Find out what type of training your school is providing.
l Training for parents. Are parents encouraged to be involved in bullying prevention? If not, suggest that the school bring in guest
speakers and conduct antibullying workshops for parents.
l Help for bystanders. Teaching kids to speak up and help when their classmates are being bullied is tough to do. Be sure your
school offers training for all students so they know what to do if they witness bullying.
l Security. Be sure your school has working security cameras throughout the school that are checked regularly. In addition,
school personnel should routinely check hallways and bathrooms to make sure all areas of the school are safe.
l Shop around. If you’re researching new schools, do your homework before you meet with administrators. Look for schools and
teachers who reward children for being kind and have zero tolerance for bullying. Ask specific questions about bullying, such
as What is your policy on bullying? and How are kids who bully punished?
Boys Who Bully: What, When, Where, Why, and How
Bullying is the most frequently occurring form of violence in American schools. Just about everyone has known a bully at school, but
until the recent epidemic of school violence, few adults took bullying seriously. Since then, researchers, educators, administrators,
and parents have been taking a close look at bullying and its effects on children.
Many elementary through high school students experience bullying and other kinds of social violence daily. Bullying statistics show
that as many as half of all children are bullied at some point in a school year, and at least ten percent are bullied regularly (see
www.aacap.org). In addition, according to the Kaiser Family Foundation, bullying is the biggest school problem for kids ages eight to
fifteen, surpassing even alcohol, drugs, racism, and premarital sex.
What Is Teasing?
Teasing is usually playful, and the kids involved are most often of the same social status, so there is no imbalance of power. Teasing
includes occasional peer conflict—often unintentional. Kids who tease are willing to work together to resolve the conflict.
What Is Bullying?
Most experts agree that bullying has the following characteristics:
l Bullying is a relationship in which one individual seeks to gain power and control over the life of another.
l Bullying comprises repeated intentional actions that bring harm to an individual.
l Bullying involves an imbalance of power between the bully and victim.
l Types of bullying include verbal taunting, threats, stealing, and acts of physical aggression.
It may be difficult for you to figure out whether your child is exaggerating harmless teasing. To learn how well you can recognize the
differences between bullying and teasing, take EduGuide’s quiz “Is He Teasing or Bullying?”
Look for the following evidence if you suspect your son is a victim of bullying:
l Change in appetite or eating habits
l Loss of interest in school and schoolwork with or without a drop in grades
l Difficulty going to sleep or staying asleep (insomnia)
l Frequent stomachaches, headaches, or other reasons to stay home from school
l Sudden withdrawal from family activities
l Change from seeming happy and secure to moody and depressed
l Torn or bloodstained clothes
l Change in the group he usually hangs out with, especially if his friends suddenly stop coming around
l Sudden need for extra money for school lunches
l Increased anxiety
l Spending more time on the computer and not wanting anyone to see what he’s doing online
Any one of these behaviors by itself may not be cause for alarm. But several of them combined could signal that your son needs your
help, so start asking him some questions. Left unchecked, boys who are bullied over time can suffer serious problems throughout
their lives.
Why Do Boys Bully?
l They’ve learned bullying at home. Bullies often (but not always) come from homes where they are bullied or abused by their
parents or older siblings. Bullying is a way for these boys to regain some of the control they have lost at home.
l They’re insecure. Many bullies are insecure, and intimidating other kids is an attempt to cover up their insecurity. The bully's
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strategy is to attack others before they attack him. www.EduGuide.org
l They want to feel powerful. Boys who bully need to control others. To make themselves seem more powerful, bullies often
Why Do Boys Bully?
l They’ve learned bullying at home. Bullies often (but not always) come from homes where they are bullied or abused by their
parents or older siblings. Bullying is a way for these boys to regain some of the control they have lost at home.
l They’re insecure. Many bullies are insecure, and intimidating other kids is an attempt to cover up their insecurity. The bully's
strategy is to attack others before they attack him.
l They want to feel powerful. Boys who bully need to control others. To make themselves seem more powerful, bullies often
target boys who are quiet, easily pushed around, and have very few friends
l They crave attention. Many boys bully to gain attention from their peers. They think that by being mean to others, they will
become more popular with the “cool” crowd and become more important.
l They have personal issues. Quite often, boys bully because of personal troubles at home or at school, which cause them to act
out against other boys. Underneath this tough exterior, the bully is likely to be angry or depressed.
How Do Boys Bully?
Boys often bully physically. They may punch, kick, push, or tickle excessively. Bullying may also include the following behaviors:
l Verbal assaults. Boys use verbal methods (namecalling, insults, teasing) to target their victims. Sometimes these assaults
take place in front of the victim. ther times, they happen behind the victim’s back.
l Exclusion. Boys sometimes form groups of similar social status and shun other boys who try to join. They either tell the victim
to leave them alone or walk (or run) away without saying a word.
l Online attacks. Cyber bullying (bullying online) is becoming common. Kids cyber bully by using computers to send mean
emails to their victims and through instant messaging, blogs, and chat rooms. Exclusion is used by ignoring certain boys while
carrying on conversations with others who are in the “group.” For more on cyber bullying, see “What Is Cyber Bullying and How
Can I Protect My Son?”
l Scare tactics. Actions like stealing lunch money (or lunch!), threatening to take away a friendship, or threats of physical
punishment are ways bullies scare victims into doing what the bullies want.
Who Are the Bullies? Who Are the Victims?
Many parents think they can spot bullies easily, but that’s not always true. Bullies come from all types of homes, ethnic and racial
groups, and economic backgrounds. Even boys known as “good boys” can be part of a bullying pack. Boys who stand by quietly and
go along with a bully simply build up the bully’s power by making it seem that the bully has support all around him. This makes the
victim feel as if everyone is against him.
Like bullies, victims come from all types of backgrounds. Victims of bullies often suffer from low selfesteem and may be self
conscious about their appearance. Many victims lack adequate social skills and the ability to communicate well. Many are also
sensitive or cry easily.
Outcomes of Bullying
Fear of a bully and embarrassment at being bullied may keep a victim from telling a parent or teacher about the situation. And
unfortunately, too many school personnel excuse bullying as “boys being boys.” They may blame the victims of bullying because
victims cry too easily or are overly sensitive.
Victims of bullying can suffer serious longterm effects if bullying persists. Here are just some possible consequences of bullying:
l Depression
l Suicide
l Physical ailments (headaches, digestive problems, ulcers)
l Sleep problems
l Academic problems
l Low selfesteem
l Weight loss or gain
l Longterm emotional scars
l Serious physical injury
l Property damage
l Problems with future relationships
l Violent revenge, aggression
What Is Cyber Bullying and How Can I Protect My Son?
Cyber bullying, using the Internet, cell phones, or other forms of information technology to bully others, is an easy way for boys to bully
other boys and put teens at risk. While most boys use the Internet for friendly communication, cyber bullyin is on the rise. Cyber bullies
may use the internet to send intimidating and threatening emails to others, create hostile Web sites, post inaccurate and
embarrassing information in blogs, ignore kids who send them messages, and pose as people other than themselves in chat rooms.
Cyber bullies may also upload embarrassing photos of their victims online and through cell phones.
Cyber bullying is just as cruel as name calling, exclusion, prank calls, and other traditional forms of bullying, and its consequences
can be just as horrifying. Here’s one sad example. Recently a teenage boy from Vermont committed suicide after being bullied online.
Another boy pretended to be his friend, and when the first boy shared some personal information about himself, the bully turned the
story around and spread rumors that the teenager was gay. To stop the rumors, the Vermont teen started “dating” a girl from his
school online. The two chatted all summer over the Internet, but on the first day of school when he approached the girl in front of her
friends, she laughed and told him he was a loser she wanted nothing to do with. The bullying and humiliation were too much for the
Vermont teen, and he killed himself.
Understanding why kids cyber bully is the first step in figuring out how to prevent this devastating form of bullying. Here are some
reasons boys may be drawn to cyber bullying:
l As with traditional bullying, kids who cyber bully feel a need to control others. And the Internet is an easy way to gain control.
Kids (especially teens) also use the Internet and cell phones to take out their anger and get revenge on other kids.
l When teens have nothing constructive to do, the Internet is an easy place to look for—and find—trouble.
l Some kids think tormenting other people online is fun, and they enjoy the reaction they get from their victims.
l Cyber bullies enjoy the safety and anonymity of numbers—they can bully in groups without ever seeing their victim face to face.
To avoid having your son become a cyber bully or the victim of one, keep the lines of communication open so that you know what is
going on in his life. In addition, as difficult as it may be, you must monitor what your son is doing online and with his cell phone.
Bullying Information Resource List for Boys
Web Sites, Books, and More
EduGuide Staff
Many resources are available to help boys who are being bullied. Here are some of the best Web sites, books, and other resources.
Bullying Web Sites
l bullying.org Founded by father and teacher Bill Belsey in response to the school shootings in Littleton, Colorado, and Taber,
Alberta, this is the leading site on the internet for bullying information. It has three goals: to help people understand that they
are not alone, that being bullied is not the victims’ fault, and that there are many successful strategies for dealing with bullies.
l easingtheteasing.com The works of certified social worker and author Judy Freedman are featured on this site, which also
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gives access to all her programs, information, and workshops. www.EduGuide.org
l education.com This Web site includes a special edition devoted to bullying and cyber bullying. It includes numerous articles on
To avoid having your son become a cyber bully or the victim of one, keep the lines of communication open so that you know what is
going on in his life. In addition, as difficult as it may be, you must monitor what your son is doing online and with his cell phone.
Bullying Information Resource List for Boys
Web Sites, Books, and More
EduGuide Staff
Many resources are available to help boys who are being bullied. Here are some of the best Web sites, books, and other resources.
Bullying Web Sites
l bullying.org Founded by father and teacher Bill Belsey in response to the school shootings in Littleton, Colorado, and Taber,
Alberta, this is the leading site on the internet for bullying information. It has three goals: to help people understand that they
are not alone, that being bullied is not the victims’ fault, and that there are many successful strategies for dealing with bullies.
l easingtheteasing.com The works of certified social worker and author Judy Freedman are featured on this site, which also
gives access to all her programs, information, and workshops.
l education.com This Web site includes a special edition devoted to bullying and cyber bullying. It includes numerous articles on
bullying of both younger and older kids, the different types of bullying, and bullying in many different situations.
l stopbullyingnow.org This U.S. Department Health and Human Services site is designed to attract kids of all ages. Users can
download antibullying podcasts, cartoons about bullying, and a Stop Bullying Now mobile ring tone.
l stopcyberbullying.org New technologies create new ways for kids to bully. Get strategies for prevention, tips, and information
about online bullying.
l nasponline.org Find information about “CyberSmart! Cyber Bullying Awareness Curriculum,” a free program for educators. This
program facilitates the prevention of cyber bullying and helps provide outreach to families and communities.
Books on Bullying
l Schools Where Everyone Belongs by Stan Davis This book is designed for educators and parents to help create a safe and
inclusive environment at school.
l The Brand New Kid by Katie Couric This book for young kids was inspired by Couric’s childhood memories and by the
Columbine school shootings. Through this story, Couric challenges parents to stop excusing meanspirited behavior and
instead teach children to be kind and tolerant.
Other Help with Bullying
l Friendship seminars These very effective seminars are becoming more popular in schools throughout the country. Check with
your child’s school to see if they have considered a friendship seminar, or look online to find out how to bring one to your
school.
l Friends Who Care This awardwinning disabilityawareness curriculum is designed to help sensitize nondisabled students to
their peers with disabilities. The program includes a teacher guide, video, and several posters. You may be able to obtain a
copy from your local library, or contact The National Easter Seals Society, 70 East Lake Street, Chicago, IL 60601, (312) 726
6200.
Due to the dynamic nature of our quizzes, they are only available on the web. Follow the addresses below to take a quiz on our
website.
Is He Teasing or Bullying?
http://www.eduguide.org/Parents/TakeQuiz/tabid/114/quizId/51/view/StepTakeQuiz/Default.aspx
Is My Son a Bully?
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