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~for more ideas on step1 (getting your state ready for approaching),
check out: the "warm-up ritual" section on PU101's FFI program;
xuma's approach women now program and ross jeffries's beyond
confidence series~
~ For more information on this, check out his interview with Wendi Friesen Radio~
5:4541:30 Position1
Comment,question,observation
At this point of the sarge the thing to REMEMBER is: That the WORST that can
happen is that nothing will happen (that's it!!) 90% of the time that it doesn't go well
they just don't respond, they just don't say anything or just say "hmm, that's nice and
walk off"
~ Again, check out David Wygant for more examples of this, or what's more important,
his thinking process for the "comment, question, observation" step, it's also covered in
PU101's FFI in the "calm enviroments" section~
Here's what I like to comment on:
- How they carry themselves
I'll compliment on posture or energy. Give yourself this assigment, for one day,
you will do nothing else except comment on POSTURE, and ENERGY
MENE posture ( )
The key thing here is to do it MATTER-of-factly
"You oughta do it just as a way of attacking your own shame, attacking your own
embarassment. If you can learn to do that. You can learn to do anything. You especially
need to learn to let cut loose that way! "
~ Pickup101 also uses the step-back and teaches it in fearless first impressions~
~These belief-sets (frames) are awesome, and really make all the difference, they're
also covered in Vince Kelvin's video presentation where he gives some awesome
frames, there is also pickup101's "everything she does is cute"frame, covered in
fearless first impressions these frames make all the difference ~
~I'm glad you laughed, coz I wanted to see if there was a fun person wrapped up in all
the pretty~
47:0001:06:03 Blurt out
Being vulnerable and sincere WITHOUT being needy
"I looked at you, and thought to myself, ohmigod if you don't go talk
to that girl, I'mma kick myself for the rest of the week"
Canned Blurt-out
52:10 54:42
ANYTHING THAT COMES UP IN THIS PROCESS OF LEARNING IS TO BE
HANDLED, HEALED, LEARNED FROM and RELEASED. Any fear or anxiety,
anything that seems to be coming on your way. ~Also covered in RJ's Beyond
Confidence series~
BELIEFS:
- Any response she gives me is just info to use
- I control where my energy goes
- I don't take her first response as written in stone
~These belief-sets (frames) are awesome, and really make all the difference, they're
also covered in Vince Kelvin's video presentation where he gives some awesome
frames, there is also pickup101's "everything she does is cute"frame, covered in
fearless first impressions these frames make all the difference ~
EXPERIMENT FRAME