Size Matters by MiMi Paris.

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 Size Matters
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Why do you want to keep the man in your life happy?
Selfishly, if you keep him happy, he will keep you happy.

Most women want the man in their lives to be more ac-

tive in the daily activities of running a functional, if not
happy, home/partnership. Let’s take this concept a step
further:

Keep the man in your life happy in bed,

and he’ll keep you happy out of bed.

It’s that simple.

If you don’t know how to do that, you’ve got to get to

know what makes your partner happy in bed. You can
find out. The good news is that men are easy to keep
happy in bed.

First, you can experiment. You know that men tend to be

visual. Use that information to your advantage. Try on new
clothes. Or wear different colors. Experiment with dif-
ferent styles. Watch his reactions carefully. He will tell
you... Even without words.

Wear sexy lingerie (if you wear any at all!). It’s not expen-
sive or difficult. Wearing attractive coordinates of knit or
silk is just as comfortable as an oversized frumpy sweat
suit. You might even ask your man how he’d like to see
you dressed. Many men love to dress their partners. Keep-

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And 21 other truths you should know to enjoy a lifetime of Effortless Success
ing your sweetheart happy in this way is your reward,
not your price.

In and out of the bedroom, understand that men want

to please women. When you don’t allow the man in your
life to please you, you deny him of something very im-
portant. You feed his spirit when you allow him to please
you. What a wonderful, easy gift to give him! You give
him this pleasure and he’ll do anything for you.

Here’s the key to this truth: Don’t make him guess at what
pleases you. Don’t hint. Be generous and willing to share
your desires. Show him. Tell him. Coach him. You’ll get
pleased... And so will he.

Important note to women! Complaints are requests

in disguise. Stop complaining and start requesting. Make
daily requests of the man who loves you. And then tell
him how much you appreciate him and how he pleases
you.

34 MiMi Paris
 Size Matters
Note to Self

What are five ways the man in my life can please me?

1.

2.

3.

4.

5.

What are the issues I am complaining about? How can I

turn my complaints into requests?

For the next five days, I will make the following requests
(one per day).

1.

2.

3.

4.

5.

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 About the Author
MiMi P ar
Par is
aris
MiMi Paris, Ph.D., CSP, MCC, is an internationally recognized com-
munications professional. Her unique perspective and style help
others discover how effortless success can be. She has an amazing
ability to get to core issues quickly and efficiently. Her clients often
say, “Wow, that was easy!”

Life was not always “effortless” for this author. Ms. Paris was born
severely deformed in Springfield, IL, and spent much of her early
years in foster homes. Then, when she was five years old, she was
sent to live with her biological father. She has never met her mother.

In her father’s home, Ms. Paris suffered emotional, physical, and

sexual abuse, which included systematic torture. She left when
she was 16 by reporting to the police. From then on, she lived in a
halfway house, a group home, and a foster home.

Ms. Paris came by these 22 truths authentically—the hard way.

Surprisingly, she shows a spirit that few do. Unlike many who turn
to bitterness and all that it brings, Ms. Paris demonstrates a positive
excitement about life.

Her educational experience includes a B.A. in English, an M.A. in

Speech Communication, and a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. She
earned several academic honors and international awards in com-
munication education. She also holds several professional titles,
including Certified Speaking Professional and Master Certified Coach.

In business for herself since 1987, Ms. Paris enjoys partnering with
high-achievers in progressive organizations that believe in devel-
oping people. MiMi Paris is available for speak-
ing engagements from high school events to cor-
porate retreats.
Contact Information
Email paris.mimi@worldnet.att.net
Internet www.mimiparis.com