Magical Working for Reconciliation

* A word of gratitude to an important teacher, miss cat of Lucky Mojo. We are blessed by her
generosity, and her prolific sharing of her magical techniques and wisdom. This spell draws on
some of her teachings, notably the honey jar technique. I don't know how I ever managed
without it and am deeply grateful.
There are a lot of supplies and a lot of steps involved with this particular spell. This spell is
complex becuase reconciliation is complex. If you want it bad enough, you will follow this spell
to the letter. You are being aided by many naturally powerful items such as Lodestones and
Herbs which will combine with your intent to help effect your reconciliation. Don't leave out any
steps.
Do not be intimidated - you can do it, many others have paved the way. Read my other article
entitled "Cast Your Own Magic Spell..." for more info, and also don't hesitate to contact me with
any questions. If you are contemplaing this spell, please read it over in its entirety several times
before starting. All the supplies can be purchased at your local occult shop or botanica, and
can also be easily had from any number of online merchants. I also make and stock many of
the requisite supplies. Check out my website for more info and
pricing: www.ahighersourcesupply.com I will also offer substitution suggestions in the body of
the spell to save you money on supplies.
You will need:
~ 8 Red 4" candles ~ 2 small candleholders with a small base ~ Reconciliation Condition Oil ~
Reconciliation Incense ~ a packet of Love Herbs (about 1/2 cup) ~ a matched pair of xsmall or
small Lodestones of the appropriate gender (male/female, male/male, female/female
depending) ~ a small bag of Magnetic Sand ~ a pair of Balm of Gilead Buds ~ a clean and
empty glass jar with a METAL lid (a mason jar, salsa jar, etc.) ~ enough honey to fill this jar
halfway ~ stationary ~ two squares of paper about 3"x3" ~ a pencil ~ an incense burner for
loose incense, not a stick burner unless you're using stick incense (you can use a small cast
iron skillet and put down an inch or more of kosher salt to protect the finish if you desire) ~ a
pin
1) Re-read the spell a dozen times or so until you are familiar with it. Collect all the supplies
and lay them out on your altar space. This needs to be a cleared off table or counterspace of at
least 18." You will need to keep the altar set up for 7 days, if not longer, so consider a space
that is private. Some folks have erected altars on top of a refridgerator, on their bedside table,
or in a closet. You will have to burn candles, so keep that in mind when selecting an altar
space. Decorate this altar with any other personal items which represent love and your
relationship such as photos, flowers, cards, etc. Make sure you leave yourself plenty of room,
though.

2) Start this spell on a Friday morning, preferably before dawn, certainly before you have begun
the mundane aspects of your day. Expect to devote two hours for the first morning's work.
Prepare youself in any way which feels right to you - bathe with a special Rose-scented soap,
meditate, smudge yourself with a Sage wand, pray, etc. Make sure you will not be bothered,
lock your door and take your phone off the hook.
3) When ready, stand before your altar and light some incense. Use a magical incense for extra
power such as Reconciliation, or use regular Rose, Vanilla, or Sandalwood stick or cone
incense to save on money.
The spell has begun.
4) Set up the altar as follows: incense burner in the back right corner, jar in the center, filled
halfway with honey, other supplies in the back left corner. You are going to prepare a candle to
represent yourself which will start on the far left side center about 9 inches away from the
honey jar. You are going to prepare a candle symbolizing your lover which will start on the far
right side center, again about 9 inches away from the honey jar. These two candles are going to
move slowly together during the spell, symbolizing you and your ex coming back together, until
they reach the honey jar and then they'll burn together, reunited.
5) Before all that, though, prepare a name paper for yourself. Use a small square of paper.
Write the sentence "I am open to forgiveness and reconciliation" across the center. Feel this
statement as you write it. Turn the paper 90 degrees and sign your name over the sentence,
making a cross, your name over the petition. Set this on the left side of the altar.
6) Create a name paper for your ex. Do it in the same manner as above, but sign his name
instead. Set this down on the right side of the altar.
7) Prepare your candle. Take one of your red candles, and using the pin, carve your initials
over his initials with a plus sign in the middle surrounded by a heart - you know, the kind of
thing people carve into trees. Carve the words "Return to Me" on one side writing in a vertical
line, from top to bottom, one letter on top of the other. Carve any other symbols like a peace
sign, more hearts, personal symbols such as astrology gylphs, etc.
Rub Reconciliation Condition Oil on the candle from the wick downward, with the base of the
candle pointing at your heart. As you do so, state with great feeling "(Name of lover), Return to
Me." Place your candle in a candleholder on top of your name paper on the left side of the
altar.
If you cannot afford to purchase a magic Condition Oil such as Reconciliation, you may anoint
each candle with a bit of honey from the jar - it's used to sweeten your relationship and
sweeten your lover back to you.

8) Prepare his candle the same way except carve his initials on top of yours inside the heart.
Again speak your petition out loud, "(Name), Return to Me." Place his candle in a holder over
his name paper on the right side. Make sure both candles are in the center of the altar with the
honey jar in the middle, each candle about 9" or so from the honey jar, about 18" apart from
each other.
9) Take out your Lodestones and find out which one is the male and which one is the female.
Males are more pointed, pyramid shaped, elongated, phallic. Female Lodestones are more
rounded, square shaped, and squat. Add a pinch of Magnetic Sand to the two stones and
figure out which sides draw the strongest to each other, like depicted in the photo below. They
should also snuggle nicely together on that same side. This is the way the two Lodestones are
going to be facing each other during the spell.
Place the female Lodestone against your candle also on top of the name paper (if you are a
woman. If you're a man obviously use the male Lodestone with your candle representation and
the same gender Lodestone as your lover). Make sure the strong side is facing inwards
towards your lover's candle. Place the male Lodestone in the same manner with your ex's
candle.
10) Feed each Lodestone first with a drop of Reconciliation Condition Oil, then a pinch of
Magnetic Sand. Name your Lodestones with your name and the name of your mate. As you oil
and sprinkle Magnetic Sand on each one, speak to them by name something like this: "Marystone, thank you for attracting my John back to me," and for your lover's stone: "John-stone,
thank you for returning to me."
Lodestones are natural magnets and are used magically to attract people, money, and luck.
Their powers are unparalleled in this type of working. You can also use a regular magnet - pry
them off the back of two refrigerator magnets. Some people claim fantastic results with regular
magnets. I've never used them, but I don't see why they wouldn't work. If you are not using
Condition Oil, use honey to anoint the Lodestones. To save a few more bucks you can scape a
small amount of "homemade" Magnetic Sand by taking a flat screwdriver to the backside of a
real cast iron pan. Use these scrapings to sprinkle on your Lodestones or magnets.
11) Anoint each Balm of Gilead Bud with a dab of Reconciliation Condition Oil and place one
bud by each Lodestone.
12) Sprinkle your Love Herbs in a rough circle surrounding your candles and the honey jar. As
you do so say with emotion, "(Name of Lover), return to me." If you can't afford to buy prepared
magic spell herbs, make your own reconciliation blend choosing an odd number of the
following common household herbs: Rose Petals, Corriander Seeds, Cumin Seeds, Rosemary,
Sugar, Catnip, Ginger, Juniper Berries, and/or Majoram.

13) Make sure your incense is still going. Light the candles starting with yours first. As you light
each one say, "(Name of Lover), Return to Me." Pray for forgiveness and reconciliation. You
may also read relevant scripture and prayers which you have researched beforehand. Try the
Song of Songs and A Love Song by St. Teresa of Avila.
14) After several minutes of prayer and when you feel "right," move the two candles, with the
name papers, Lodestones, and Balm of Gilead Buds, closer together by about an inch. As you
do so again say, "(Name of Lover), Return to Me." Each time you move your candles closer,
add a pich of Magnetic sand to each Lodestone. Pray.
15) Now, write a heartfelt letter to God. If you are uncomfortable with this idea, write a letter to
the Universe or your Higher Self. Write this letter in the center of your altar in between the
candles and in front of the honey jar. Write this letter in present tense, like all your prayers have
already been answered. Thank God for reconciliation, for healing your heart, for forgiveness.
Include the lessons you both have learned and how you are a better person. Tell God your
future plans for your relationship.
This letter may go somewhat like this: Dear God, Thank you from the bottom of my heart for
warming John's heart and bringing him safely back to me. God, we feel your loving presence; it
has touched our lives profoundly. Thank you for mending my sorrows, helping me to trust, and
to put my utmost faith in Your divine plan for my life. I have learned so much in the past few
months...
Be detailed, take your time. Write a page at least. Remember to thank God for the perfect
outcome which you have already received. Sign your letter at the bottom affirming, "As God as
my witness, these truthful words shall come to pass."
While writing your letter, say every five minutes or so, move the candles and Lodestones closer
together by 1-2 inch increments. Each time you do so, say with deep feeling: "(Name of lover),
return to me." Time your letter writing and candle moving so that by the time you are finished
with your letter, the two candles are about 3 inches apart, a little in front of the honey jar.
16) Finally, move the two candles together. Have them be as close as their candleholders allow,
ideally with their two flames joined as one. Say "(Name of Lover), United in Love, You Return to
Me." Sprinkle enough Magnetic Sand on the two Lodestones, which should now be touching, to
cover them.
17) Now read your letter to God out loud with sincere emotion. When you are finished, fold this
letter in half towards you and place it under the honey jar. Stay in prayer while the two candles
burn down. Be open to any guidance you may receive.
18) When the candles extinguish, chip up the candle wax and put it inside the honey jar. Take
your lover's name paper and smear the writing side with honey. Put the Lodestones still

snuggled together, their Magnetic Sand, the Balm of Gilead Buds, and a pinch of the Spell
Herbs on the center of the honeyed name paper. Take your name paper and gently press it
down on top of his name paper, writting sides together, enclosing the Lodestones and other
items. Place this inside the honey jar as well, pushing down so it's covered by the honey. Add
some of the Love Herbs to the honey jar as well. If you have any personal items from your
lover, such as a hair, fingernail clipping, handwritting sample, or snip of worn clothing, add this
to the honey jar along with a personal items of yours. Cap the jar tightly. You are done with Day
1. End with prayer and go about your day.
19) On day two, in the morning prepare yourself in the same manner as the day before. Take
your letter to God out from under the honey jar. Fix one red candle in the same manner, this
time carving your lover's intitials on top of yours, oiling it, lighting incense, and now burn this
single candle ON TOP of the honey jar. As you light the candle again state, "(Name of lover),
return to me." Read your letter out loud and pray. Let the candle burn down without
extinguishing it. Don't pick at the wax drippings that may form on the side of the jar. Let them
accumulate.
20) On day three, proceed in the same manner as day two - fix your candles, read the letter to
God, pray. This time, though, compose an apology and reconciliation letter to your mate. Write
this letter while the candle and incense are burning. Include the following things in your letter:
apologize for your transgressions, forgive him for his, offer reconciliation and a desire to
rekindle the relationship. Sign your name at the bottom and kiss your signature, getting your
essence onto the paper. Sprinkle some of the herbs on the letter and run your fingers through
the herbs lightly moving toward your body. Let the reconciliation letter stay on your altar for the
next four days. You can place it under the honey jar if you so desire.
21) On days four through six continue fixing and lighting candles to burn on top of the honey
jar. Let the reconciliation letter stay in the center of your altar or under the honey jar.
22) On day seven, fix and light your last candle. While it burns, place the reconciliation letter in
an addressed envelop. Before folding the letter up and sealing it, shake the herbs off and waive
it in incense smoke. Hold it pressed against your heart and pray for reconciliation. Seal it with
another kiss. Pray while the candle burns down.
23) Finish up the spell by collecting the remnants: the Spell Herbs, incense ash, and any wax
that has accumulated off of the honey jar. Do not pick off the wax on the top or sides of the
honey jar. Wrap these items in tissue paper, a clean piece of cloth, or an envelope. Keep your
letter to God under the honey jar or amongst your most sacred items. Place the honey jar in a
special place, preferably by your bed. Build a love altar around it if you wish.
You may chose to continue burning a fixed candle a day on top of the honey jar if you so
desire. You could also burn a candle every Friday to continue the work as well. I would
recommend it.

24) Anoint your body with the Reconciliation Condition Oil, dress in clean clothes, and walk
outside to mail your letter. Keep a solemn mindframe, praying while you go about your task.
Bury the spell remnants outside your front door. If you live in an apartment, bury them in a
potted plant. The remnants will help attract your lover to you and your home.
The spell is done.
~ Please remember to keep to your time limit discussed above when doing reconciliation work.
For a boost, wear Reconciliation Condition Oil as a magical perfume and burn Reconciliation
Incense in your home.
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