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There is time for everything under the sun, and presently we are in the season of love but
considering the importance and significant of love in the family, the nation, and the world
at large, one can’t but keep wondering if love really should be seasonal? Love due to its
complexity has a whole lot of different meaning to different people, but this four letter
word hasn’t been impressively understood by all.
During the 17th century, Emperor Fredrick wanted to bring to assertiveness one of his mind
boggling observations on the significance of love. So he carried out an experiment that was
later discovered to be an expensive one. He gave an order to nurses and baby sitters that
they shouldn’t express any form of love or affection to some selected infant, they were
permeated to feed them, change their diapers and do all other necessary things apart from
expressing love in any form of touch, warmth, care and communication.
To the utmost surprise of the monarch and the midwives, all the babies died.
This makes it clear that love is the foundation on which our world operates; with the
outcome of this experimentation, it becomes obvious that love is vital for existence and
survival. Love is one of those indefinable reasons why we stay alive. Love is such an
overwhelming affection that can’t really be expressed in words alone. Or how do we
explain the death of those infant whose death wasn’t as a result of starvation or chronic
disease but due to the absence of expressive affection in form of touch, cuddling and care.
It has always been difficult to present what one doesn’t possess. Our outward expression is
always dominated by the abundance that exists inside. The major reason why we find it
difficult most times to love the way we should is probably because we weren’t shown
adequate love and affection while growing up. Lets imagine that one of those babies used
for the experiment survived, such can’t give what he never had.
For instance, it has been psychologically proven that the reason while a lot of female
recognize touch has a love language is mostly because a female ward receives more
touches, cuddling, hugs and warm embrace while growing compared to the male. The male
in contrast will rather be given a pat at the back, a hand shake knuckle jamb, a show of the
thumb or at times a slight blow to express excitement.
If you weren’t shown enough acceptance and love, you may not have control over that but
you are saddled with the responsibility of nurturing yourself because Until we genuinely
love and appreciate our being and individuality, appreciating others would only remain an
excruciating task. When you don’t see anything good about yourself how would you see
positivity in others? When you don’t say positive things to yourself how would you ever
encourage others? After all the love rule is to “love your neighbor the same measure you
love yourself”.
It’s absolutely erroneous to think that absence of facial beauty or any kind of deformity
would affect others perception towards us, rather it’s our inner beauty and sincerity
towards others that showcase who we really are. Most times we think that when we look
better they would be more accepted; hence we begin to major in the minor and minor in
the major which is the inner beauty and self acceptance. It doesn’t really work like that, the
truth is that you look and become more beautiful when you genuinely accept yourself then
love and care for others.
To love at times makes us look vulnerable and stupid because to love is to give and to
forgive, to appreciate others, love is bearing others unlikeable behaviour with patience and
to keep hope alive.
One could give with ulterior motives without any iota of love, but it is practically
impossible to love without giving. The every man for himself god for us all mentality should
be buried if we must succeed collectively as a nation. It is a pity that selfishness and greed
has become a national culture in our own country which shouldn’t be. When we begin to
love genuinely the need to be apprehensive of the future wouldn’t arise since positive
investment has been made in others. Most times the things we lack are the things we never
gave. Afterall, we only reap that which we sow
The creator of the cosmos has given us many things for our satisfaction, we don’t pay for
the air we breathe neither does he levy us for our ability to think and become creative
which distinguishes us from other animals.
If you are still wondering what love really is?
Love is always willing to wait instead of demanding
Love keeps on being friendly to those who aren’t friendly back
Love doesn’t boast about your good grades and qualification
Love admits when he is wrong and shut up when he is right
Love doesn’t think you are better than others because your clothes or phone is more
expensive
Love lets others have their own turn talking; it never puts others down by acting as If they
don’t count
Love doesn’t lose its temper when a brother or sister finishes the meal or spend too much
time in the bathroom
Love never feels doing wrong is cool
Love looks out for the genuine interest of others
Love keeps hoping when the right choices you made don’t turn out the way you wanted.