5 Levels of Beauty

A Different Approach to talking about Sex

Beauty is the glory of the body. Yet there are many ways of perceiving it and too often we fail to
grasp the types of beauty are treasures buried deeper within. Too often, people consider
Catholic morality as as suppression of beauty, rather than a celebration of it.
Beauty today is a very confusing and ambiguous term; whats more, the experience of beauty
has very deep links to the human heart and throughout history has always been the source of
both beautiful romances and heart wrenching tragedies.
To simplify things, sometimes it is easier to go at it with a basically moral, practical approach:
you can do such and such; but you cant do such and such. Again, this helps for clarity and
practical guidelines are necessary. Still, if we arent able to transmit a much richer and complex
vision of beauty, many people - especially the youth - will get the impression that the Christ
came to build fences rather than to lead us toward lifes fullness. A good friend once compared
our cultures vision of beauty to a piece of chocolate at the Dollar Store, while what the Faith
offers us is Godiva chocolate (I prefer Lindt chocolate myself, but you get the idea.). The first
might taste ok, but God wanted to give us a so much more!
When speaking to others about sex, more than giving the list of what can and cannot be done,
first open their eyes to a horizon of beauty that they perhaps have never even heard of or
immagine. Capture their hearts, then let them ask how to get there.
We Christians are daring folks: we dare to affirm that the bodily characteristics of a person
and sexual encounters are not the culmination of beauty in our lives. We do so, however,
because beauty fascinates us and, as such, so does purity. With a pure eyes, we can
celebrated the beauty of both the skin and the heart. Still, we can do nothing but mourn when
the latter is divorced from the former.
So today I would like to offer a few thoughts on 5 types of beauty, each one deeper than the
other. My proposal is that our eyes were made for beauty, but for types that go much deeper
than the sexualised versions (sexualised in a very banal sense, in another, all kinds of human
beauty of sexualised in the sense that they are feminine or masculine) that we typically see in
advertising. With this I hope to offer a tool that will help to illuminate the very positive path of
beauty which our faith invites us to walk. These thoughts are based on Xavier Lacroix's, Il
corpo e lo spirito.
Plastic Beauty (Image)
Here we gaze upon the simple harmony of forms and volume. The level of pleasure and
attraction that it generates will depend on personality, history and cultural background. For
women, for example, a luminous, unblemished complexion and things like large eyes, a small

nose and fuller lips might be all considered traits of a beauty face. Such beauty is most certainly
worthy of being appreciated and it is an important, enchanting part of our lives.
Some say that such traits (symmetry, luminosity, etc.) to be beautiful in that they relay biological
signals of health and fertility. Unfortunately, beauty and life, in many respects, have been
divorced today. While true beauty not only attracts but also transforms the admirer (thus a man
who falls in love becomes a husband and father, thus a giver and not only a receiver), today we
make great strides to gorge ourselves in this attraction, while abandoning any and all
transformation (pornography, no-risk relationships, etc).

That said, this kind of beauty is quite similar to the kind of beauty that we find in an object of art,
a statue perhaps. It is a beauty that is almost anonymous (a beauty that is independent of a
who), storyless, something ephemeral that is quickly generated with the passing of Photoshop
brush or the scalpel of a plastic surgeon.
Link: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LTp9c9bsY_Q
Sensible grace of Expression (Image: Henri Matisse)
Something different appears when we gaze upon the face in a different way. The face is, above
all, manifestation, revelation. It is something that we receive. More than the manifestation,

however, we receive the expression. Put simply, here we are not perceiving an object, rather a
subject.
The sensible beauty here lies in the ability to express. Some are more expressive than others.
Why? Very difficult to know. That gift known as charism, that simple joy of living that irradiates
intelligence, humor, lightness, agility and which exercises an almost gravitational pull on others
is ungraspable and mysterious.
Certain faces are simply blessed and others cannot help but appreciate such charm. Still,
sometimes it is this charm alone that is beautiful and basing a relationship on such foundations
alone can bring about tragic consequences.

Irradiation of a presence (Image)

Continuing along our path towards the depth of beauty, we reach a mode of beauty that goes
beyond any kind of pleasurable, plastic beauty or even the sensibility graceful kind. Here, the
admirers gaze goes beyond (without, of course, despising) the form and the charm in order to
grasp a kind of event in which a presence is manifested.
Perhaps the symmetry is lacking and wrinkles abound. Perhaps the expression is reserved and
timid. It matters little. . Here the gaze falls upon a person, a living presence, full of dignity and
mysterious that lies in front of us. Certain presences appear to be more luminous, others more

obscure. Nevertheless, here we perceive the beauty of a subject, of a person, of a story.

Wrinkles arent to be abolished, rather celebrated and narrated. Asymmetry becomes beauty
because it is her asymmetry, her story, the beauty she, that woman that stands before me.

Hidden glory (Image)

Sometimes a presence can be hidden, veiled behind not only a lack of symmetry rather by the
presence of disfiguration. Certain faces reveal scars, deformities, tumors perhaps the passed
through the hell of war, or the claws of violence. Perhaps they suffered the simple misfortune of
being born as such.
A banal and habitual gaze might feel repugnance, aversion, distaste. Those who suffer the
miope of superficiality will never discover the glory present here. Those who cant see it have
never listen to the Little Prince when he said: Here is my secret. It is very simple. It is only with
the heart that one can see rightly ; What is essential is invisible to the eye.
There are those, however, that, filled with certain exuberance that can only come from the
spiritual life, embrace this glory. It is the glory of being unique, absolutely unique. It is the glory
of being made in the image and likeness of God. It is a glory whose light shines even more
stronger because it is hidden to the eyes of most. It is a secret glory, a mysterious beauty, like
that of Christs beaten face on the cross.

Transfigured Face (Image)

The final beauty presented by Lacroix is that of a secret glory that becomes sensible. The
occasions are rare and holy. One cant help but think of Moses when the skin of his face shone,
and they were afraid to come near him (Ex 34:30). Or Christ, before his apostles, when his
face shone like the sun, and his garments became white as light (Matthew 17:2).
Here, we are speaking of an almost divine beauty as we find in 2 Cor 3, 18: And we all, with
unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being changed into his likeness from one
degree of glory to another.
While rare, it is not necessarily impossibly to see this kind of a beauty. Have you ever witnessed
a certain kind of luminosity in the face of some? It is that sort of glowing joy emitted by an old
monk, or by the young sister who has just taken her vows, or by a mother who has just given
birth to her newborn child.
It is a gift to perceive this kind of beauty, but it is also the horizon of each one of our Christian
lives. In fact, in one sense, the universal invitation to do apostolate, to share Christs message
means that each one of us is called to transmit this kind of beauty to others.

Finally, I would like to share a beautiful quote from Bishop Fulton Sheens book, Three to Get
Married).
Beauty of the body attracts the eyes; beauty of soul attracts God. Man sees the face; God sees the soul. Marys
beautiful purity must have been such that it attracted less the eyes than the souls of men. No one would have loved
her mind or soul because of the beauty of her body, but they would have so loved the beauty of her soul as almost to
forget she even had a body. It is very likely that a human eye, looking on Mary, would scarcely have been conscious
that she was beautiful to the eye. When one is overjoyed by the beauty of the picture, he does not pay much
attention to the frame
The cult of the body can be understood in two ways: one after the fashion of the world, and one in the light
of Mary. Both are agreed that the body should be beautiful. The one beautifies it from without; the other beautifies

it from within. One adorns the body that it may be attractive through what it has; the other adorns the body
with the reflections of the virtues within. It was only after our first parents sinned that they perceived they were
naked. When the soul lost its raiment of grace, the body lost its attractiveness. The less beauty the soul has, the
more it needs to decorate the body. Excessive luxury of dress and vain display of external beauty are signs of the
nakedness of the soul. The beauty of the Kings daughter is from within.
The blind always have kindly faces, probably because they are less materialized by the things the rest of
men see. An inner radiance seems to shine through them. Those who are naturally ugly, such as St. Vincent de Paul,
become very attractive once they become saintly, as he did. The only ones who are truly beautiful are those who
look beautiful when they come in out of the rain. That kind of beauty comes from the inside out, not from the
outside in. It is the product of Virtue, not makeup; it is not skin-deep, but soul-deep.