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2. Write about the first few days or your pregnancy with her in story from
3. Take her out to a local coffee house on a school night
4. Surprise her with something new to make her feel pretty like a scarf, new
lip gloss, etc.
5. Write a list of at least 10 things that make her beautiful on the inside and
out
6. Buy her some fresh flowers for her room, something that could later be
planted like tulips
7. Put a picture of a special family memory in a frame for her room such as a
family vacation
8. Help her do her hair or nails by having a spa night at home
9. Plan something fun to do together after you save for it a concert, a night
painting pottery or canvases, or a trip to get pedicures
10. Find a book for girls and moms to read together, and read it, faithfully
together
11. Look through home magazines, dreaming of her dream home with her
12. Let her do your makeup, and then wear it for the rest of the day (it will
be ok, I promise)
13. Treat her to a bubble bath complete with bath salts, music, and
candlelight
Having a teen daughter can be trying at times, but it can also be truly
rewarding. I find it so helpful to remember what it was like when I was a teen
dealing with peer pressure, friendship woes, changing body, acne and other
awkward things about physical appearance, growing responsibilities and
expectations, and the list goes on and on.
It is important to do whatever we can as moms to proactively equip our
daughters to feel good about themselves, to feel loved, and to feel accepted.
compass or a set of living standards that will truly promote a prosperous and God-loving
future.
I, too, had accepted this lie, thinking that the knowledge and wisdom of my own understanding
was due to the educational materials of my own upbringing, and the continued research and
learning that I was continuing to undergo. I thought that if I simply taught our children the
accepted subjects, but from a Christian standpoint, going through it all in the systematic nature
of a qualified professional, they would inevitably end up with moral and quality character.
This was when the rug began to be pulled out from underneath of me.
First, my oldest was a reluctant learner, in the traditional sense. Although an incredibly
intelligent child, the thought of sitting down and learning how to read became one of the biggest
battles of the day! It ended in tears repeatedly, and I began to question my own sanity with
what I thought was expected and normal education. I had to learn to let go of that god and
submit our homeschooling to the true God (heres my testimony to Gods perfect timing).
So, I stopped trying to teach her to read, and simply stayed at the basic revelation of phonics
while we carried on throughout our days. Yes, thats an A. A says ah. Can you say that
word? Excellent, C-Ah-T, CAT! GREAT JOB!!! I halted all official learning materials and simply
let her learn at her own pace.
I had to learn to be creative with our education and follow where the Lord was leading us, even
if it meant removing preconceived and good educational materials that were not the right fit for
our family, or the individuals of our household.
Now, five more kids later, 3 officially school-aged, and our days look completely different (this is
why we must practice the art of embracing real life). Although I still would love for the schooltime to reflect what I know and am familiar with, the Lord is continuing to do a new thing in our
home. He has led me to the very basics of reading, writing, and arithmetic with Bible to
relieve our days of all promoted expectations and to free us back up to learn as we are led.
The freedom we have experienced is amazing, but it does not come without its own set of
concerns: will the State approve? Will the children prosper? Are we doing the right thing?
But, every time I worry with concern, and become burdened with fear of the unknown (check
out a printable of 23 scriptures to stop ungodly fear and worry), desiring instead the
assurance of the worlds educational plans to secure the education of my children and their
future jobs and adulthood, the Lord simply reminds me of His Word.
I dont know what other households homeschools look like anymore, which once burdened my
soul with the heart of comparison and superficial standards and expectations. Now, I have
learned to simply trust where the Lord leads. Sometimes we binge learn a TON of history or
science, and then go months without these additional lessons.
Sometimes the kids spend endless hours outside building forts, and teepees, and swings
between trees with rope and a log, but every day we are learning and growing in the character
of the Lords people. Our guide remains firmly centered upon whats known as the Shema,
which sets the foundation of educating all of Gods people:
Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart
and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today
are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home
and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as
symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of
your houses and on your gates. ~ Deuteronomy 6: 4-8
We may teach all the knowledge in the world and still miss the Truth of the Gospel message.
We may learn all the science books that abound and never truly know the Lord. We could read
all the classics and never grow in grace.
The focus could remain on creating futures of grandeur, financial security, and high-powered
careers, but none of these lead to a saved soul. None of these focuses promote an eternal
love. All of these goals are empty and easily gone with the wind.
He has continued to show me that some things are imperative and lay a foundation for Him (3
Rs), while others can be reclaimed and learned later without any consequence (science, history,
art, etc). But, if we miss the most critical lessons (all things pertaining to learning the Word of
GodSee Psalm 119), the ones that truly guide the soul, steer the character, and bring our
children to the feet of the Lord in humble love, we will have missed the entire point of this life
and led our children on sinking sand.
The Lord has continued to place our feet upon the Rock: His Word, and everything else
comes second or less. So, today, we simplify the expectations of our education and instead
attune our hearts to the mind of the Lord; His good, pleasing, and perfect Will.
But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord. ~ Joshua 24:15