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Inevitably, all the people have to buy things from time to time. But
there are people who go shopping to relax or to escape from a gloomy
and mundane daily life. While for some people shopping is just another
daily activity that needs to be done to provide for their family's needs,
others may get a lot of anxiety wandering around stores. Having turned
shopping into a leisure activity will inevitably have future consequences,
which will undoubtedly lead to other social changes. Now, the question
of who will step outside this system to think about the eventual
consequences still remains unanswered.
In recent years, many people have adopted the habit of going
shopping as a hobby and have renounced to other traditional activities
such as socializing with their peers. Activities such as sports or a sincere
conversation with their families and friends have surrendered to the
charms of modern, materialistic society. People shop not only to keep up
with the trends any more. Deceitful fantasies about personal appearance
and social success blinds buyers, who become narcissistic and selfcentered. In the end, instead of opening their range of friends and social
activities, which would be tremendously enriching for them and for
their society, people end up isolating themselves and choosing friends
who wear the same expensive clothing or have the latest mobile phone.
Peer pressure may be decisive at the moment of buying, in the need of
making new friends or feeling accepted by society. 'To have or not to
have' the latest and most expensive clothing, cars or gadgets has
recently become a national sport. Evidently, upbringing today lacks solid
moral values.
Commerce success depends largely on people's low self-esteem,
complexes and anxiety. There are people who may have such a strong
Essay Shopping by Ana Sofa -11 mayo 2015
desire to buy new things, that they leave everything behind and rush to
the nearest shop searching for something that would cheer them up.
Clearly, a shop is seen as a place where they can relax and forget about
all the troubles that they have to deal with during the day, or a place
to escape from boredom, anger or sadness. That is to say, shopping is a
way for them to deal with stress, some kind of therapeutic resource,
though it is clearly not solving any emotional need whatsoever. I do not
see this habit would ever harm anyone, provided that they can afford
their shopping without getting indebted, and that they understand that
the shopping would never solve their emotional problems. Probably,
speaking about their problems with friends or family will surely alliviate
their anxiety and will keep them from buying unnecessary things.
But when it comes to a serious emotional disorder, it is evident
why shopaholics will never be completely satisfied with their purchases.
As they suffer from an addiction, the things they buy never fill the
emptiness they have inside. Deceitful advertising campaigns promise
potential customers that their product will satisfy all their physical,
emotional and social needs. And though people are aware of the deceit,
they yield to the temptation and acquire the product, only to find out
that the products never fulfill their expectations. And so the cycle starts
again: they feel empty and frustrated, and start searching for another
product. Sooner or later, these people will have to face the fact that
peace, self-acceptance and self-love cannot be bought. No matter how
glamorous, shiny, or luxurious an article may be, none of them will ever
have the therapeutic power of a hug, a kiss, or words of acceptance and
love.
All things considered, today nobody can deny that shopping is
inevitable. City dwellers have no escape but to buy everything they need
to cover both basic needs and wants. The challenge we face today is
when we decide what is a basic need and what is not, because that
concept has radically changed over time, take mobile phones as an
example. It is evident that people who take shopping as a hobby, as a
kind of therapy, or as an obssession are unable to judge what is the
efficient way of dealing with their emotions, and eventually it will be
costly for them. As a child, I did not get everything I asked for,
expensive gadgets were unimaginable, and most frequently my friends
and I ended up creating our own games and toys. I cannot claim to
know the answer to solve society's problems, but I will definitely teach
my children to be creative and run away from the slavery of social
trends as fast as they can.
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