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vol. XXX, issue 3


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the north carolina school of science and mathematics


february 2010
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Boarman Steps Down


By Avani Uppalapati in Washington D.C. changes
After that meeting, Boarman quickly, since
After ten years of service was called to interview at the students only
to the NC School of Science school and went in to it with a attend for two
and Math, Chancellor Gerald noncommittal outlook. He said years. Under
Boarman is stepping down he answered with no political the trimester
from his position. Boarman correctness, noted that the schedule,
is slated to start his job as the “facilities kids had at their more classes
new head of the private Bullis home schools were better,” were offered
School in Potomac, Maryland, and was surprised when he and juniors
in July of 2010. was called back for a second had more
“Maybe ten years is what interview in spring. freedom. “We
it should be,” he said, noting Boarman recalled that started seeing
that his predecessors had been the area where the swing set students
Chancellor for ten years each now stands was the site of throwing
as well. the power plant, covered in around a
Boarman will rejoin his graffiti, surrounded by barbed Frisbee,
family in Maryland, whom he wire. “There were no fobs or walking off
has been away from for ten security. The school was in bad campus to
years. “It’s a matter of looking shape,” he said. Ninth Street,”
at what’s best for my family, Since he started working Boarman said.
and being able to reunite with here in July of 2000, Boarman One of Boarman’s favorite pastimes has been conversing with students. He hopes Students were
them,” Boarman explained. has made many changes. that his replacement will also be student-centric. • Photo courtesy of Steve Wilson less stressed
Eleven years ago, the school Before his arrival, the school after the
was looking for a new head. At had no GPA or classes labeled but that doesn’t mean more had a prescribed course of change.
the time, Boarman was chief AP (though students still took orderly,” he said. study. Under Boarman, the school
educational administrator of the the AP tests). Boarman argued His next major decision Boarman also created the made many new research
Eleanor Roosevelt Community that offering AP classes and was to close school early Curriculum, Assessment, and mentorship opportunities
Schools in Maryland, one of calculating a weighted GPA for Thanksgiving break so and Standards Task Force available to students. He
which was a technology school would benefit students in the that students had a week off, to introduce new ideas and introduced robotics to the
of about five hundred students. college application process. instead of only 5 days. He saw fix problems in the school. school – something he had
Boarman did not know Before Boarman’s arrival, that students were worn out When asked to come up with at his old school. “It’s been
much about this school and got the Student Center was not and felt they needed a break. different ideas for the schedule, exciting to see all the changes,”
a call from a search firm asking open to students, which is Students did not have as Jim Litle, a current economics Boarman said. Boarman
if he knew anyone who would ironic considering its supposed many free (or “study”) blocks, teacher and then a part of the recalls that the faculty was
be interested in the position. A purpose. On his second day as as students do now. Part of the task force, came up with the very supportive of the changes,
couple of weeks later, the firm Chancellor, he decided to open reason was that students had trimester schedule. and the administration became
called again and asked him to that area for student use. “The to take 6 core classes each Boarman and the much more student friendly.
meet with some administrators school was a stricter place, semester and juniors generally administration tried to make Continued on page 11

Food for thought: an inside look at school world record attempt


By Jennifer Zhu The idea of setting a food Life Instructor and organizer because we wanted to make is not limited to canned food
drive record evolved from of the world record attempt Sue sure there was a lot of detail and includes peanut butter
At NCSSM, it is difficult Residential Life Assistant Anne Lewis talked to Kevin and we went over and beyond and rice. The Church of Jesus
to not be aware of the school’s Hannah Wyatt’s idea to set Cromwell, Director of Student to Guinness’s answers to show Christ of Latter-Day Saints in
scheduled Guinness World a world record for World’s Services. “Mr. Cromwell how committed, how much Calgary, Alberta, Canada holds
Record attempt on Mar. 20, Biggest Gathering of Nerds. suggested that we take the idea we wanted to do this attempt. the current record and has been
2010. However, although many Part of her idea was that in [of donating food to be part We sent it in first week of tracking the progress of the
people, both inside and outside order to be a part of the record-
of the nerd world record] and December and heard back first NCSSM Food Drive. “I have no
of the school, have heard of setting nerd experience, each turn it into a food drive [world week of January that we had idea how they found out!” said
the attempt to break the record person had to donate at least one
record attempt],” said Lewis. gotten approved.” Lewis. “Honestly, I have no
for “Largest Food Drive in canned item that would then be There is the intrigue: how Although Guinness World idea—they’ve been following
24 Hours at One Location”, donated to the food bank. Afterdoes one work with Guinness Records officially approved the us on Twitter as well! She [a
students have confessed to not the nerd proposal was sent to World Records to schedule NCSSM world record attempt, leader of the church] was very
knowing much about the world Guinness World Records in a world record attempt? there are some restrictions excited, wished us the best of
record attempt beyond the September and rejected near “They were hard to contact,” placed on the association of luck, and hoped we would beat
basic details. the end of October, Student Lewis admitted. “We found NCSSM with the famous the record so that later they
an organization Guinness World Records. Prior could go and beat us.”
in Massachusetts to the event, NCSSM cannot Speaking to the current
that had actually publicize the world record record-holder helped Lewis
been in contact attempt with the Guinness greatly. Many of Lewis’s
with Guinness and World Record logo or use questions were answered,
they gave me their the phrase “Guinness World including one that made a huge
[Guinness’s] phone Records” on banners and in impact on how NCSSM will
number, and we the headlines of news articles organize the food drive. Lewis
had to write up a and flyers, although “Guinness explained, “I thought the single
proposal. Guinness World Records” may be used location defined in the world
was pretty unhappy in the body of an article. The record meant Science and
about that [world’s right to use the logo and phrase Math and that we couldn’t go
biggest gathering is purchased from Guinness out and get food, that the food
of nerds] proposal. World Records, so Lewis and had to all come here, but it
From there, it her NCSSM World Record actually means all of Durham.
took Ryan [of task force must wait until two So when I talked to them, I
Developmental weeks prior to the event in found out they canvassed the
Office] and I about order to have that right. neighborhood, had dropoff
a month to put The record to beat is more locations in different stores,
Committee members (from left to right) Yusra Iftikhar, Elliot Cartee, Patrick together the food than half a million pounds of found out about how they
Yang, and Rebecca Pham pose for a Herald Sun photo shoot. drive proposal, non-perishable food, which organized that, also found
Continued on page 11
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Students Bring Zombie Game to Campus


By Nathaly Lemoine Mansur, initially contacted and original zombie to start off one of the reasons the game help, to tagging roommates
met with administrators to get the game. Out of several ended as quickly as it did and and cheating. Because this rule
In the second week of approval and to set down the possible candidates, senior that he would change that rule could be argued, moderators
December, approximately rules. Even though NCSSM has Chris McMahon was chosen. for the next game. “Instead Nick and Tylor reviewed
seventy students took part in residential students, it still has “We offered everyone the idea of no headband, the original scenarios where this rule might
a campus-wide role-playing to abide with high school rules. to be original zombie and we zombie would have twenty- have been broken.
game of Humans vs. Zombies. “Originally we had the bandana considered them. We looked four hours to stay invisible to Humans that felt they
Though it originated at Goucher idea [to distinguish between for someone who is social and humans until he tags someone, were tagged unfairly could
College, this glorified game humans and zombies], but who had the qualities needed then he is automatically seen,” contact their moderators via
of tag is increasingly being because it might get associated to start a game, so we chose he said. Facebook, email, or face-to-
played on college campuses with gangs, we decided to use Chris,” Tylor explained. Another one of the last face to report the scenario. If
across the country. In the headbands and armbands of Within the first twenty- remaining humans, junior humans were tagged fairly,
game, participating humans any color,” Tylor said. “Also, four hours of the game, Chris Will Greene, remembers when they would hand the zombies
utilize Nerf guns and socks to we couldn’t use Nerf guns.” managed to attack about half he was tagged by a group of a card with their unique ID
ward off a zombie horde. As long as the participants of the human population. zombies outside of his hall. numbers. The zombies would
Senior Nick Sienerth first followed school rules and “I kind of had an unfair He was normally careful enter this ID number in the
heard about the game from an administrators’ requests, the advantage because unlike about where he went, but this website and they would receive
NC State Facebook page and game could continue. “We other zombies, I didn’t have to group was determined to tag a feed. Going twenty-four
decided to organize one here were stringent on all the rules,” wear my headband for the first him. “On the zombie forum hours without a feed would
on campus. “[I] thought it was Tylor said. “If any school rules twenty-four hours,” Chris said. on Facebook, they had my result in death.
a good idea to bring it here… were broken, the game would Senior Macey Matthews, one schedule, paths I was going to Currently, moderators and
we had all the requirements for be accountable and we would of the last remaining humans, take, people I walk with,” Will representatives are trying to
the game, that is, residential stop it.” One rule, that school believes she would change said. meet with administrators to
students and an open campus. comes first, discouraged this and a couple of other He believes this violates start a second game, sometime
I thought that a zombie-tag participants from skipping rules for the original zombie. the number one rule – don’t third trimester. Their hope is to
game would generate a lot of class to avoid zombie attacks. “It’s ridiculous the amount of be a jerk. This ambiguous convince them that Humans vs.
interest and everyone would Before starting the actual people who were gone the first rule encompasses anything Zombies could have a positive
have a lot of fun,” Nick said. game, Tylor and Nick had day,” she said. from setting up ambushes or effect on the campus and
Nick, along with senior Tylor to select a patient zero, or Tylor agrees that this was camping out, to getting outside promote social interaction.

How the (Mr.) Unicorn Got Its Horn


By Molly Kuo Roger Kromer (’82). “I
attempted to solve a Rubik’s
It is an odd tradition: every Cube—they were a new fad
year, men come together then—while the theme to the
to dance, sing, and model 1968 movie 2001: A Space
formal wear in a competition Odyssey played over the PA
for the esteemed title of Mr. system. I was unsuccessful in
Unicorn. Still going strong, solving it in the allotted time,
the humorous male pageant which I can only surmise to
has actually been held annually be the reason I lost the Mr.
ever since the senior year of Unicorn title,” Kromer said.
the first graduating class. “I [remember being] decked
Irene Kuo (’82) distinctly out in over-the-top prepster
remembers when the idea of a drag; a pink twill scooter
Mr. Unicorn pageant first came skirt, white 100% pima cotton
up at a Student Activities Board buttondown, kelly green solid
meeting during her senior year. pullover, 14kt. gold add-a-bead
The board had wanted to have necklace, Dottie B reversible
a Homecoming; it seemed canvas belt, grosgrain ribbon
unlikely that it would work, headband, espadrille wedges,
however, because the school and a matching pink Bermuda
had no alumni to invite back. bag.”
Students still wanted some sort In the end, it was First
of homecoming queen contest, Beall’s choice, Gerry
but the board decided that Sherman (’82), who became Gerry Sherman (left), the original Mr. Unicorn, sings his self-penned song. Another contestant,
singling out one girl was not the first ever Mr. Unicorn. Roger Kromer, models a preppy version of formal wear.
representative of the spirit of Sherman remembers that
the school, so Kuo suggested many contestants “performed
that “it would be entertaining humorous acts,” but he sang
to have the guys do it as a a song that he wrote himself,
spoof.” which he still believes was an
Each hall picked a male important factor of his success
representative, and helped in the competition. “I suspect
him find his feminine side for delivering a self penned song
the competition. Without an may have given me the edge.
auditorium on campus, the [But] it was actually the first
competition, which included time in my life that I wasn’t
talent, swimwear, evening trying to win a competition...
gown, and question/answer none of us were trying to win.  I
sessions, was held at EK Powe believe we were all just caught
Elementary School on Ninth up in the spirit of having fun
Street. and making others laugh.”
Kuo’s hall, 2nd Wyche (now It is exactly that
Royall) nominated Ishan Sehgal noncompetitive spirit that has
(’82) for the competition, who stayed with Mr. Unicorn to this
twirled baton for his talent and day. In this year’s pageant,
sported a speedo/bikini during two contestants tied for the
the swimwear portion. First first time in the history of the
Hunt chose Robert Lee (’82). contest: AJ Woodard and Arjee
“I read some German lyrics Restar are Mr. Unicorn 2010.
from a Frank Zappa album,” Junior Durant Carter won the
Lee recalled, “which you can title of Baby Unicorn, a more
imagine were pretty explicit.” recent addition the pageant that From left to right: Gerry Sherman, Nate Dobson, Ishan Sehgal, Hector Cooper, and Robert Lee.
Second Beall nominated allows juniors to compete.
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Sadie Hawkins: Is it still important?


By Ade Ilesanmi dance,” states senior Shawna many guys beg to differ. ‘empowering’ girls anymore, “I think there should be a
Schafle. “For the young men but rather as a tradition that dance where the girls get to ask
At some point in the past While Sadie allows girls to involved, our ‘swagger’ we continue. I’m perfectly fine the guys out because otherwise
Sadie Hawkins must have enjoy the liberties of asking the shouldn’t be damaged by with a Sadie Hawkins dance” we look stupid if we want to do
been a pretty taboo concept. guys out, it leaves boys in the something so little as being says senior Tylor Mansur, a just that.  Even though a lot of
The idea of women in a reversed role, in which they are asked to a dance by a girl. If it male with a similar view. social progress has been made
dominant role to men has yet left apprehensive and waiting. is, swagger is nothing more than Though some students feel in the past century concerning
to gain complete popularity, One anonymous male excessive pride and egotism. that Sadie does not affect girls’ this topic, it is still customary
but back in the thirties when student put it this way, “One The world is no longer ruled gender roles, others believe for the guy to be the one to ask,
Sadie Hawkins Day was first which does not help us if the
mentioned in the hillbilly guys are too shy to ask,” retorts
comic strip L’il­ Abner, there “It does the opposite of empowering girls, because junior Michelle Barton.
must have been some real As an anonymous student
commotion going on. usually we have the power of rejection.” states in agreement, “[i]s [the
Nowadays, the whole girls- concept of Sadie Hawkins] as
asking-guys phenomenon is
less of a phenomenon and
Michelle Ye big a deal as when the dance
was conceived? No. Does there
more of a yawn. need to be a specific dance for
“I don’t think it’s as big of it? Yes, many girls still hold the
a deal as it was when the idea shortcoming of Sadie is that… by physical strength alone, and that it has a negative effect on idea that guys should ask them
first came about.  I think that girls still don’t seem to like women are no longer inferior it. unless otherwise stated.”
the concept of it only being asking guys. Sure, you don’t to men,” said senior Stephen “I think it does the opposite So what can be taken from
socially acceptable for guys to see as many guys moping Wise. of empowering girls because all these viewpoints about
ask girls is a way for [girls] to around about not getting asked Junior Neil Macintosh agrees usually we have the power of Sadie Hawkins? Well, there
appease themselves when they like girls do come prom time; that insisting on guys asking rejection, but I don’t mind. It’s does not seem to be any real
don’t have the guts to do what it’s still nice to have someone girls “is only perpetuating a not like girls can’t ask anyone problem with the concept of
they want,” says junior Anna to go with….I guess it’s not system based on the assumed to a regular dance. This is just girls asking guys, but I do
Hall. totally unacceptable for the inferiority of women.” taking off the pressure on those personally agree with the
So does the concept of male to ask the female to It is this “assumed poor shy boys,” says junior notion that there shouldn’t be a
Sadie Hawkins remove the Sadie, but it carries the same inferiority” which makes it Michelle Ye. specific dance for girls to ask
sense of security given when weight of awkwardness as it difficult for the idea of women With her point being guys. I think that eventually
guys are always expected to would for a girl asking a guy to courting men to be accepted made, there grows yet another there will not be a need for
ask girls to a dance? Does it Semi….[G]irls don’t seem to even outside the realm of high question of whether a dance Sadie Hawkins, or rather, it will
make girls more vulnerable, want to ask guys…[and] I have school dances. should even be necessary for become irrelevant because the
or does it do just the opposite no idea [why]. I’m not a chick. “Men usually ask girls girls asking guys to be socially idea of girls asking guys will
and make them feel more in But don’t think that we don’t on dates, they usually pop acceptable. Shouldn’t girls become the norm. It already
control, reversing the gender have the same apprehensions/ the engagement question, asking guys be welcomed has, as I have heard stories of
roles defined by society? Both ideas when we pick dates for and they usually ask girls to for any dance or other social girls asking guys to semi and
the girls and boys of our school semi/prom. We are just as dances.  Not only is the asking affair? Some, but not all, would to prom.
have mixed feelings about the afraid of rejection as [girls] are. itself intimidating, crossing answer “yes.” Most girls do not have a
answer to these questions. Unlike girls, society does not this unfortunate boundary can “In order for girls to be problem with asking guys
Generally, people tend offer us the convenient option be the added weight that deters empowered, it should be out, and most guys do not
to perceive Sadie as an of going as a group of male us girls from asking that special socially acceptable for them care if a girl asks them out,
opportunity for girls to escape friends (because that would someone to a dance,” explains to ask guys to ANY dance. so what exactly is the barrier
the status quo of how the just be weird and everyone senior Eileen Smith. Also, guys shouldn’t always that perpetuates the need for
“asking out” should occur. knows it)….Regardless of the As one of the few current be expected to do the asking.  I a dance like Sadie Hawkins?
“I think Sadie Hawkins excuse, girls don’t really have avenues in which girls in think most guys would love to Is it those few people that are
dance is fun. It’s the time an excuse to not ask a boy now a dominant role to guys is have that pressure taken off of not okay with the idea? Until
when girls do not have to wait and then expect to be asked socially accepted, the question them. Sometimes both genders that question can be answered,
for a guy to ask her to the (probably in some really cute arises of whether Sadie really are just a little shy and afraid of I think that we as confused,
dance. The girl gets to do the and prohibitively expensive does make girls feel all that rejection,” says senior Chelsae hormonal individuals can do
sweet ‘asking out’ thing. And fashion) to prom two months dominant and “empowered” in Dumbauld. no more than continue our
it’s when the girl can almost later. This is not my opinion the long run. Wise concedes with tradition of Sadie Hawkins
casually hit on a guy of her alone….Many…men feel this “I don’t think that the Dumbauld on this view, with the notion that it is not
interest,” says senior Ami way. It is not a huge deal to us concept of girls asking guys stating, “there shouldn’t be right in its entirety, but that
Sueki. but it is kind of annoying.” is anything new, or even that a specific dance that allows there is nothing wholly wrong
Indeed, Sadie does allow Even when girls have the uncommon today. Granted, it young women to ask out about it either.
the girls to enjoy the more “permission,” there is still is still more socially acceptable young men, but rather a Anna Hall quoted the
appealing aspects of courting. apprehension about asking the for the guy to ask the girl but change in tradition and social Relient K song Sadie Hawkins
“I enjoy planning and guys because of the emphasis it is commonly accepted either acceptance that lets either party Dance: “Sadie Hawkins dance/
thinking about how I am going placed upon guys asking girls. way. Maybe some girls feel take the lead.” In my khaki pants/There’s
to ask that one guy to the There is a certain perception empowered by it, but it doesn’t Others feel that a specific nothing better/The girls ask
dance. It allows the girls to ‘be that girls asking guys takes make a difference to me,” dance for girls asking guys the guys/It’s always a surprise/
in the guy’s shoes’ for every away from the “macho-ness” states senior Jeanette Juran. is necessary, at least in our There’s nothing better/Do you
time he has to ask a girl to a of the guy being asked; though, “I personally don’t see it as current society. like my sweater?”

Sadie Hawkins Day was originally a plot device in the hillbillie comic strip L’il Abner. It is now a tradition at many high schools and colleges.
• Picture from Wikipedia
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A Romantic Date On Broad Street


By Chris Maynor and
Christian Johnson Good Food, Good Date Restaurant All To Myself
Ah, Valentine’s Day is close
upon us. For most, this means Chris Christian
trying to find that one special
card or fretting about which For the appetizer, I ordered the chili bowl with cheddar I was duly impressed with the atmosphere of Watts Grocery
chocolates to get for your
cheese and mole verde. The dish was a beauty to look at when as soon as I entered—the place certainly seems very well-kept
significant other. But really,
that mass-produced Hallmarks it arrived at the table, but the tongue told a truer tale. The mole and we were seated immediately. For anyone who cares, the
greeting card isn’t that unique, verde, a Mexican sauce made from toasted pumpkin seeds, sanitation score was 93.5 if my memory serves me, more than
and chocolate from Walgreen’s was creamy and infused with a subtle roasted flavor. While satisfactory for a casual restaurant like this. I took no issue with
is, well, chocolate from the beef chili had a mild spiciness to it, this was partnered any comfort or service amenities, except for the fact that we were
Walgreen’s. nicely with an underlying sweetness. The texture of the chili the only customers in the restaurant for about half an hour.
So in order to go beyond was almost perfect, but it could have been slightly meatier and I ordered the Yellowfin Tuna Sandwich with bacon, avocado,
these commercialized rituals a little less runny. and red pepper aioli, mostly because I saw that it had bacon in
and find a real way to celebrate For the entrée, I ordered Zuke’s Country Pate on buttered it, and overall I was extremely satisfied with my choice. I found
true love or whatever, the two baguette with Creole mustard dressing, cornichons [basically the tuna to be just the right consistency for a sandwich, without
of us decided to go on a little small pickles] and pickled vegetables. In all honesty, the being overcooked or chewy. Likewise, the bread was toasted
lunch date to Watts Grocery.
sandwich had me at first bite. The tangy, crunchy cornichons just a slight amount, which provided some nice texture contrast.
The restaurant is open Tuesday
through Friday for lunch, and vegetables along with the mustard gave good contrast to Unfortunately, the sandwich suffered from slight structural
Tuesday through Sunday the softer yet still meaty pate, while the mixed greens salad integrity problems: the tuna and bacon had a tendency to slip
for dinner, and Saturday and on the side with a creamy balsamic vinegar was simple yet out of the bread. In addition, the aioli was, in my opinion, a
Sunday for brunch. Lunch refreshing. I found myself taking smaller bites so that the dish little lacking in flavor. However, these are at best very minor
prices are around $10 for a might last longer. complaints, and in general the sandwich was fantastic.
main entrée, while dinner is a The two courses went very well together, and although I ordered my sandwich with a side of French fries, which were
little more expensive. most of you won’t have the chance to experience dining with definitely up to snuff. They were crispy without being crunchy,
Well then, how did the tall, handsome, and still-single Christian Johnson, I’d and were perfectly seasoned. If you would like to learn more
it compare to cards and definitely recommend this location for a simple meal out with about Watts Grocery, you can visit their website http://www.
chocolates? someone close. wattsgrocery.com/ and check out their different menus. I’m sure
you will have as good an experience as I did!.

Chris Maynor (left) enjoys a romantic lunch with Christian Johnson (right) one Tuesday. (This is not actually Watts Grocery.) •Photo by Dustin Burleson

Non-Couples To Celebrate Music Review: Justin Nozuka


Single Awareness Day B X J Holly as a whole. Nozuka an apartment flat next door to
y avier arrett
By Emma Hawkins You would be surprised how found his niche in the musical the fighting couple where he
Valentine’s Day is a day for much Cherry Garcia heals a Though it is now almost world with the more hardcore hears the husband beating his
lovers to buy chocolate, teddy broken heart. So go ahead, three years old, Justin Nozuka’s songs that fought back against wife each night after returning
bears, and giant cards. It is a head to the school store, and debut album, Holly, still has the troubles and talked less from work. Each time that he
time where one can experience buy a pint—or two if you are a profound musical impact about subjects that make up would beat her though, the
romance and love in all its really depressed. Grab a spoon today. our society. wife would fall to her knees
magnitude. But what are the and attack the ice cream. You The acoustic indie-soul The melancholy feel of and ask for him to be saved
chronically single to do? Some could go to the gym and work album harbors a great deal of Nozuka’s music in its entirety from his sins.
suggest they simply spend the out your frustrations; but let’s talent along with meaningful can be heard in “Mr. Therapy The song continues, telling
day with their friends, buying face it: this feels so much lyrics. Justin Tokimitsu Man.” The second single from about the physical abuse she
gifts and enjoying each other’s better. Nozuka, 21, decided to push Holly tells a story of heartbreak received from her father in her
company. But if you happen to Find some sad songs. I find the envelope in a unique way centering on a woman fleeing early childhood. Eventually the
be without a significant other that Whitney Houston’s cover when he constructed the album. secretly into the night from song reaches its climax with
or friends this year, here are of “I Will Always Love You” Instead of having the profanity Nozuka. The lyrics are filled the father killing both himself
some options you can look into is a heart-breaking ballad. Or if and sexual implications found with a pain that is conveyed and his wife while their child,
to make sure your SAD (Single you’re looking for something in many songs of today, each expertly by Nozuka as an artist. the wife now being beaten as
Awareness Day) is all that it to mock yourself, I find that song from Holly features a Melding in with the heavy Nozuka listens and watches
can and should be. Ne-yo’s “So You Can Cry” mature, adult-themed topic that drum and guitar instrumentals, from the doorway.
One’s first course of action is an excellent find. If you’re has an undercurrent of sadness the song showcases a slightly Holly is not an album
is avoiding couples sure to single because you’re in love or nostalgia. more up-tempo side of the for everyone; some of the
be roaming about campus with someone who hasn’t “After Tonight” was the first album while keeping up with messages conveyed are
this Valentine’s Day. As an noticed, I recommend Taylor single released from the album Nozuka’s image of being a depressive and grave. But
inherently awkward person, Swift. Anything by Taylor and won Nozuka momentary thought-provoking and serious there are inspirational tracks
I find that sneezing loudly Swift. That girl has some man- fame. The acoustic guitar artist. scattered throughout the the
or jingling my keys usually issues. sound along with his soft, yet Even though “After Tonight” album, which showcases
forewarns any caught in an However, the most important powerful vocals mesmerized and “Mr. Therapy Man” human nature in its rawest
awkward position. However, thing you should do is go to many. The love song’s carefree were two singles released by form and is guaranteed to have
if this Valentine’s Day the Sadie. Whether you weren’t video could be found repeatedly Nozuka, the true masterpiece a song that you can relate to.
couples are extra aggressive, asked or didn’t do the asking, running through VH1’s Top 20 track on Holly was “Save Nozuka seeks to affect
don’t leave your room without a get dressed, get sexy, have a Countdown for several weeks Him.” The song is the epitome people on an emotional level
water gun. Whether the couple good time, and don’t think straight; however, the song of Nozuka’s indie-soul image. that few other albums have
is holding hands or studying about how depressed you’ll be lacked the true feel of Nozuka The five minute track runs like accomplished. Through the
anatomy, a few squirts of water tomorrow. Just get out there! as an artist. a miniature novel telling the release of Holly, he surpassed
typically does the trick in Then this Sunday, SAD, follow The centralized theme love story of a couple whose this goal as his music continues
breaking them up. the afore-mentioned tips to of the hit single radiated an relationship dies due to the to bridge the three year gap
Something else to do this ensure your February 14th is all upbeat and positive message effects of domestic abuse. since the CD’s release and still
SAD is invest in Ben &Jerry’s. it can be. that could be said to contradict The song places Nozuka in attracts fans young and old.
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A Romantic Date On...Campus


By Emma Hawkins set up a romantic evening in

Top Ten Nerdy Pickup Lines


the PFM. Hire a musician
A romantic Valentine’s Day to serenade you, light a few
is hard to put together under candles, sprinkle rose petals
the best of circumstances. But from the entrance to a table. Compiled by Sangeetha Kumar
our teenaged awkwardness, However, a work service
coupled with 600+ teenagers, student may sweep up the
and no vehicles to move around rose petals. And candles are 1. I can figure out the square root of any number in
in, makes for a challenge. not allowed. And I don’t
know how much serenading
less than 10 seconds. What? You don’t believe me?
Some would like to get out
and go on a loop to a romantic violinists go for these days. So, Well, then, let’s try it with your phone number.
restaurant where they can have
reservations.
worst case scenario, you can
bring an air freshener, iPod, set
2. I don’t like my current girlfriend. Mind if I do a u-
This may be an issue, given of speakers, and pretend it’s a substitution?
our current recession and lack
of a bus for loops. Your only
romantic evening.
As a last resort, if you’re
3. What’s your sine? It must be pi/2 because you’re
option may be to prepare a desperate for romance, you the 1.
can ask for help from mom
special dinner here on campus.
Our PFM lacks the atmosphere and dad. Maybe they’d be 4. Like a graph with n^2 edges, you complete me.
of most romantic venues and willing to drive you and your 5. If you were C6, and I was H12, all we would need
despite what some of the more significant other. Just be sure
sketchy couples may say, there they understand that they are is the air we breathe to be sweeter than sugar.
are not very many areas where there for a ride to your venue. 6. I wish I were adenine because then I could get
one can exclusively enjoy one They are not dining with you.
another’s company. If you can arrange it, they are paired with U.
A nice picnic can be not even in the same restaurant
as you.
7. You’re like an exothermic reaction, you spread your
one good way to start your
Valentine’s Day off right. However, it may be an hotness everywhere!
Perhaps outside on the chiba
is a good idea; however if
awkward car ride to the
restaurant. If your parents are
8. Baby, if you were words on a page, you’d be what
the weather is cold, or wet, anything like my dad, they may they call FINE PRINT.
or windy, I would advise you
move the picnic inside to an
tell your date fun facts such as
“I have a concealed carrier’s
9. Why don’t we measure the coefficient of kinetic
open classroom. Sure, it may license” or “I’ve spent almost friction between me and you?
thirty years in the Army.”
be dusty and you may end up
interrupting someone, but at True story: he does this. I find 10.If I were a 30 degree angle, you’d be a 60 degree
least you and your honey-bee that you can typically avoid angle. You’d be my complement, and together we’d
will be out of the foul weather. awkward moments like this if
If a classroom is not you pretend your date speaks be right.
available, then you can always only Spanish.

Love: The Universal Language


Compiled by Avani Uppalapati
Arabic Chinese
‫أحبك‬
Russian 我爱你 Japanese
uHíbbik
Basque я тебя люблю
Wo ai ni 愛してる
Maite zaitut Ja teba lublu Aishiteru

German Korean
Ich liebe Dich 사랑해
Saranghe

French
Je t’aime Tamil
Naan unnai
kaadhalikkiren
Italian
Ti amo
Tagalog
Spanish Mahal Kita
Te quiero
Swahili
Turkish Ninakupenda
Seni seviyorum

Hebrew
Igbo ‫אני אוהב אותך‬
A hurum gi nanya Ani ohev otakh

Esperanto
Mi amas vin
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Love Legends: Dr. Wilson

Dr. Wilson smells the flowers and remembers falling in love. •Photo courtesy of Dustin Burleson

By Jennifer Zhu
Do you believe in true love and a soulmate? What is your get married. He asked my parents’ permission in December of the
philosophy on love? second year. We were holding hands, and I felt like he was killing
my hand and my wrist was dying, he was so nervous.
Yes, I believe in true love. I think that love isn’t just infatuation:
love is something that is built on a deep friendship and an ability How do you know it’s the right person?
to communicate with each other, to go through the thick and thin
of life, knowing that you’re going to have some bumpy roads and I don’t know how you know; it’s just a feeling. When you’re dating
everything isn’t going to be perfect. You have to look out a window somebody, you know them but you don’t know them. In that way,
and see the world pretty much the same just in the big world view, not love is always a chance, but we’ve been married for forty six years
the little things, and see the same big picture as in the same outlook this June. Love has to be something that will stick. You have to go
on life [not necessarily same political and religious beliefs]. into marriage thinking that this is forever. That’s something that
people don’t really do now, but you have to go into it really thinking
What was your most interesting date? that I’m going to find a person that I can spend the rest of my life
with. You have to go in thinking this is for life.
I think it’s the night I met my husband! I can tell you where my
husband was standing and my first impression of him. I remember, What about changing yourself for the person you love?
I don’t remember for anybody else I dated. I had gone on the date
because my roommate had fixed me up, and she was dating a friend There’s always compromise with anybody, whether it’s just a friend.
of my husband, I mean, I don’t go on blind dates! But she told me, You have to know that you’re going to have to compromise, but if
“Okay we’re going to study and then at 10 o’ clock, we’ll go have somebody wants you to change in major ways, then it’s probably
a beer.” And later, my husband and I discovered that we both didn’t not the right person. You always want to improve yourself, and you
like beer, that we both had just ordered one to be polite. This was need to give each other space, space to grow. When you grow with
the month after I graduated from college—I was back on campus that space, there’s also that mutual love that holds the two of you
to start my master’s. This was all at Duke. together while you’re growing. You can’t say I want my husband
to be this, this, this. I think you have to know yourself well enough
How did you meet your husband? First impressions? that when you meet somebody, he may look different or be different
than what you pictured.
You know it’s kind of interesting because another friend of mine told
me, “Ginger, I just met somebody who is perfect for you!” I told What about listing out characteristics and criteria you want
her to forget it—I don’t go on blind dates. And it was Gerald [my that significant other to have? Is it good to have an idea of what
husband]. She couldn’t believe it when I told her who I was dating you’re looking for or is that making you too inflexible?
later—she said, “That was the guy I wanted to fix you up with!” Very
soon, I realized we [Gerald and I] had a lot of common interests. I When they [characteristics/criteria] are broad, it’s okay. You want
was a history major, he was a history major. He was very interested somebody who is smart, and they don’t need to be clown funny but
in politics, I was very interested in politics. We liked the same kind they need to have a sense of humor because things will happen that
of architecture and furniture and basically, neither one of us really if you can’t laugh, you’re going to be crying a lot in life.
enjoyed just dating for dating. We really wanted to date somebody
who was interesting, who sort of looked out of the window and saw Any advice on love for the readers, especially for us
the picture that I did, who was a possibility for marriage. teenagers?

How did he win you over? First of all, I think you need to know yourself, and know yourself
well and what kind of things make you happy and what kind of things
I think he has a beautiful speaking voice. Not only did I like his make you sad. And I think that if you know yourself well, then you
voice but I liked what he said. He had and has a very good sense of can look at other people and see if they’re going to complement
humor: he’s an optimist. He sees the world in positive terms. you. And I think that love is the most important thing in the world,
whether it is between husband/wife, siblings, parent and child, love
When did you know that he was the right one? between any two people or love between a person and an animal. It
makes your life to know that other people care about you and you
I think after the first summer, by September of that year, I knew that care about other people.
I really liked him in a way that was different from other guys.
Don’t ever get desperate and just take anyone just to say you have
How did he propose? someone! If you know yourself and you feel good about yourself,
I don’t think you would do that.
After the first year, it was sort of a given that we were going to
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Love Legends:
Mr. & Mrs. Gann
By Kirby Varnadoe-Russ

What was your most interesting date? that was the first time I had ever seen his parents. Also, later
that day Chris and I were driving in the car with his dad, who
Mrs. Gann: On our first real date, we went to a Chinese restaurant, and was talking about how appalling he thought tattoos were. I
Chris got something that was really, really spicy. had gotten a tattoo about a year before, and Chris new about
Mr. Gann: Yeah, it was, like, the spiciest thing I’ve ever eaten. I didn’t it of course, so we just kept our mouths shut… until later that
get it to be impressive or anything, I love spicy food, but it day when I bent down to pick something up and his mom saw
was hot it and asked me about it. His dad was really embarrassed,
Mrs. Gann: I didn’t actually notice anything, I found out when we were especially because we got along really well.
talking about it a couple of weeks ago, so he must have pulled
it off really well. I think he might have been a little sweaty. What was the proposal like?
Mr. Gann: Yeah, I definitely didn’t finish the dish.
Mr. Gann: It was shortly after we had returned to school from Christmas
How did you meet each other? First impression? break. I had gone ring shopping with my dad over break, and
so I took Cheryl to this spot on campus…
Mrs. Gann: We met in college freshman year – we both went to Berry Mrs. Gann: I think we had gone on a date there before…
College in northwest Georgia. We had seen each other around Mr. Gann: It had a little pond and a little lamppost and a walkway.
campus, and we had some mutual friends. Mrs. Gann: It was actually in sight of the chapel we got married in, Frost
Mr. Gann: The first time I saw [her], we were at a pool hall and… Chapel. Anyway, it was really cold outside and so I was like ‘I
Mrs. Gann: (laughing) One of the people in the group I was with broke a don’t want to get out of the car!’ but Chris said ‘No, no, come
light in the pool hall! It wasn’t me, it someone else. Definitely on!’
not me. Mr. Gann: It was dark outside, and so we stood under the lamppost in the
Mr. Gann: We really met 2nd semester freshman year, we were in a class freezing cold.
together called “Authority, Freedom, and Postmodernism”; it Mrs. Gann: He just said very sweet things about how much he loved me
was an honors class. and things like that, and then he asked me to marry him. We
Mrs. Gann: I thought, ‘Who’s that cute guy with the eyebrow ring and the immediately started making plans for the wedding… we
sweet smile?’ definitely wanted to wait until we were out of college. We got
Mr. Gann: I used to have an eyebrow ring. I remember telling my friend, married on July 6, 2002… it was the hottest day of the year.
‘that girl Cheryl in our class, she’s pretty cute. I think I’ll talk
to her after class.’ During class I think we had been having When did you know that he/she was the right one?
some kind of debate, so that was an opening to talk to her. I
think she happened to be tying her shoe and so I was able to Mr. Gann: Almost right away when we started dating we spent a ton of
catch up to her. time with each other. I think we realized that we were really
Mrs. Gann: He asked me to hang out later and so we hung out in his dorm serious when the school year was coming to a close and we
room. I think we talked, and maybe strummed the guitar a had to decide what to do about the summer… it would be a
little. long time to spend away from each other. So I spent most of
the summer in Georgia living with her and her parents… it
Talk about the time you dated. Any enlightening or funny stories? was a lot of fun, we both had jobs a temp agency, which was
interesting…
Mrs. Gann: There was one time when I convinced my parents to let me
spend spring break with him in Pennsylvania, and I went to What do you think about changing yourself for the person you love?
meet his parents. Chris didn’t have a car, and I didn’t want to Is it a good thing or should you never change yourself for somebody
put a lot of miles on mine, so we decided to take the bus all the else?
way there. It was a horrible adventure. It took 20 hours. We
had to wait in all of these dirty bus stations at 2 in the morning Mrs. Gann: I think that the motivation for changing should be motivated
with all of these shady people around. by your desire to. You shouldn’t do it just for someone else but
Mr. Gann: At one point on the trip, the only two seats that were together it’s okay if it’s partly a factor.
were right in front of the bathroom, and so they didn’t recline. Mr. Gann: People change because people are dynamic, but in a good
So the whole time we sat bolt upright with people practically relationship, people talk about their self goals and if they’re
in our laps. It wasn’t exactly comfortable. in accord, people can keep each other accountable for the
Mrs. Gann: And then when we got to his house we were disgusting, and changes they want to see in themselves.

The Ganns work at NCSSM together, and both are instructors in the math Swan Lake, near where Mr. Gann proposed to Mrs. Gann, has a view of Frost
department. •Photo courtesy of Dustin Burleson Chapel from some of its walkways. •Photo courtesy of www.berry.edu/vtour
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Love Legends:
How did you court her?

I’ve always suspected that she chased me to ground. I certainly had


no conscious strategy. I never said I was going to do this for this
reason, I was never very conscious. I think things just happened. I
think she was more conscious, she was smarter. But I think that our
having the sense that we had known each other initially gave us the
sense that we still knew each other even though we really didn’t.
This sense of familiarity about it all made it really easy to sit there
and talk like we knew each other. As we pretended to know each
other, the more we came to actually know each other. Then we came
to the realization that this is who we are and where we are, and that
we enjoyed being together, and so we continued. We just got there
without meaning to get there.

We dated throughout college, she went to a girls’ college Salem


College, and I went to Davidson, which was a boy’s school back then.
Initially, dating involved my riding the bus to Salem College. It was
a five hour bus ride and I could only do that once every couple of
months, so we didn’t see a lot of each other during the school year
Dr. Miller ponders love. •Photo courtesy of Dustin Burleson the first couple of years, and that’s very hard when you’re used to
By Jennifer Zhu seeing a lot of each other, so we had on-again and off-again periods
in college but finished college on-again.
Do you believe in true love and a soulmate? What is your
philosophy on love? Do you believe in soulmates? The course of true love didn’t run smooth, and our course was not
always a smooth one. Part of the courting process is discovering who
I always hoped that the girl I asked for a date would say yes! So, you are as well as who your partner is, part of college is wanting
great hope is my philosophy. Love is great hope! to explore possibilities a bit. Sometimes, the familiar becomes
tiresome, and all of a sudden, we would find ourselves out of sorts
I don’t believe that love is easy. I think that attraction can be easy, and separated for a while, but we always seemed to gravitate toward
and the first stages of love can be easy. The deeper and the longer one another once again.
love lasts, the harder it is, the fuller and the richer it becomes, and
the more it requires. Love’s a hard teacher, and its assignments are Talk about the time you dated. Any enlightening or funny
hard. stories?
I’m not exactly sure what a soulmate is. I don’t believe in soulmates People now don’t always understand how we did things then.
if that means that there is only one person in the entire world who Dating in of itself was not necessarily so big a deal as it seems to
is singly and perfectly destined to be with you. I think statistics be now. Before I dated my wife, it was not at all uncommon for my
bear this up. If you think about the people who break up and find a friend Kent Rogers who had a car to say to me Monday morning,
new relationship, even in a small community like this [NCSSM], “Why don’t we get dates and go out Friday night?” And I would
there seem to be a lot of successes. So there seem to be lots of call somebody. Sometimes, not very often, because I couldn’t get
possibilities for loving relationships—each a bit different and each many dates. I could date somebody Friday and somebody different
special in its own way. Saturday and we would just see a movie and get a coke afterwards,
and I suppose the girls liked it because the guys paid.
What was your most interesting date?
We would go to the movies (35 cents).get a box of popcorn for a
This is a very hard question for me, since I haven’t done it for almost dime, and wind up afterwards at the Tops Drive In, where Ben and
50 years! …I’m not sure I can even remember. The girl that I married Jerry’s is right now, for a hamburger and a coke that would cost
had lived next door when we were in elementary school. When another 60 cents. There was no sense that a date meant “I love you,”
her family sat down to eat their Sunday dinner, my family whose or “this is forever”, or even that “this is the first step” even if you
house which was about three feet higher than her house could see dated the same girl ten times. Kent and I often took two girls who
them eat their dinner. And then her family moved ten blocks in one were best friends and good friends of ours out, and occasionally
direction and my family moved ten blocks in the other direction. Kent and I would forget who was officially dating whom that night.
When we went to the same junior high school, we each did our Dating was much more an activity that teenagers did than a pairing-
nerdy things separately. Then we went to high school and began off activity, so when my wife and I started dating, it was part of that
to date our senior year. herd-mentality that we did in couples.
In elementary school, we played together all the time and were in Do you think dating has become more serious now?
the same class in school. We lived right next door to each other,
and we ran and jumped and screamed and hollered together. Her It seems to me that now people don’t date as much. They go in
family took me to the beach, but not because there was a relationship, packs together, rather than as couples: at the semi-formal this year,
we were just children together. In high school, we started dating. the gym filled up for the line dances, and everybody did that group
I think walking home from school together was very special, the activity as a group, whereas in the late 50s and late 60s, everyone
most wonderful thing. I found myself to be so lucky to not only have filled the gym—the whole group dancing, but in pairs, usually very
somebody who would actually walk home with me but to have it fluid pairs. You participated in the group activities as pairs, but
be somebody I liked and was attracted to. It made me proud and people wouldn’t think of us as a pair unless you announced you
happy. Being released from school was great, but being released were “going steady.”
from school to walk those 30 minutes home with her was ever so
much greater…and of course, those dates were nothing but putting The girl I took to the Christmas formal was the only time I ever
one foot in front of the other, exploring one another’s existence and dated her. It was a big event and I probably called 15 people and she
the foolishness of the day. happened to be the 15th one that nobody else had called yet. I mean,
I took her home and as far as I’m concerned, that was the last time
How did you meet your wife? First impressions? I remembered her in my life.
Well, it must have been a good one! We got to know each other twice, When did you know that she was the right one?
because we had known each other as little children, but then there
was a break between 7th, 8th, 9th, and 10th grade, and we had never I think at some point, some things become inevitable. We finished
been on the outs [with each other], but we had simply ceased to be. college, and I had a military obligation and I had to go to basic
And we went to Durham High School, which is now the Durham officer training soon after graduation, and she had planned to go to
School of Arts. graduate school. It was the Vietnam Era and then I was going on
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: Dr. Miller
active duty and where that would lead nobody knew and we decided one for Friday night! I never had much confidence that I was in the
at that time that we would get married. choosing game, I just hoped somebody would choose me. I was
always very grateful.
And she joined me sometime later in Fort Knox, and we had a child,
and then I went to Korea for a year. And then she had to stay here, I remember a young woman who went to school here. She was
so then we kind of repeated what we did when we were in different very pretty, and the guys on campus loved her, and to this day, I’ve
colleges: we wrote letters almost every day just as we had done in had her schoolmates with their wives and two babies in arms come
college. When there were no such things as cell phones, there was a by, and I can almost watch him [the old schoolmate] get a faraway
pay phone in the dorm lobby which everybody wanted and nobody misty look in his eyes and he will ask, “have you heard from ___?”
could use for long. It was easier and better to write letters. She had Clearly, she was special to him then and the memory of her remains
majored in French, I think, to rebel against her very medical family special. This was because she said yes to any guy who asked her
and went into schoolteaching and taught only one French class for for a date. Even the nerdiest guy on campus would get the next
one year out of 30 years, and taught English the rest of the 30 years. date available, and when they went out she would make him feel
She was a very good teacher. like the most special guy in the world! She would give him 100%
of her attention for the 30 minutes it might take to get a bagel! She
How did you propose? made everybody she was with feel like a million dollars.
It was kind of mutual: “well why don’t we…well we could…let’s!” I asked her about it once when she was an adult, “You still go out
and we came to “let’s” about the same time. with anybody who asks?” And she said yes. “Why is that?” I said.
And she responded, “My mother told me that it was very special to
How do you know it’s the right person? be asked, and I believed that; and I’m very appreciative to all the
people who have asked.” I’ve always thought what a wonderful,
I think if you don’t know, then it might not be.
wonderful person she is who made a lot of young men feel better
A young woman called me ten years ago, she was a former student. about themselves.
She had a couple of guys who were interested in marrying her and
She could have married hundreds of guys who would have asked
asked what she should do. Well, answering that question is a fool’s
her in a heartbeat! Males and females need to keep that in mind: to
game. I asked what about this guy, what about that one. Then I told
recognize that other people are special, that your partner whether
her: the very fact that you’re asking this question suggests to me
it be for two dates or one or for a forever relationship needs to be
that you aren’t sure of the answer, and if you aren’t sure, then you
recognized and acknowledged for being special —whoever the
probably shouldn’t. I think this confirmed what she felt and she
person and whatever the relationship is. That’s just good manners,
ended up not marrying either of them.
and lovers can’t forget that. The fact that you’ve been married for a
Shakespeare Sonnet 116 says, “Love is not love, Which alters when hundred years does not free you from the obligations from turning
it alteration finds, Or bends with the remover to remove: O no! it is around and saying, “You know you look nice tonight, that’s pretty,
an ever-fixed mark.” This makes love a forever kind of thing and why don’t we..?” something like that. You have to recognize that
when we’re 22 or 30, we don’t know anything about being 50 or 60. that person shares the universe, the planet with you.
I don’t know how I’m going to be like and I don’t know how you’re
Shouldn’t you be selective when it comes to love?
going to be like 50 and 60, so whatever comes, you have to work
through it and with it. And in many ways, my wife has betrayed Most of us want to be exclusive and want to make a choice, but the
me horribly—when we married, she had very dark hair, now she problem is selective for what? Do you have to be selective about
has white hair! Sometimes, the changes are inevitable, sometimes your thirty minutes trip to go and get a bagel? It’s an honor to be
people change, they can be nicer or meaner—we don’t know how the asked, that was her [the former student’s] feeling, and she always
changes are going to be and how they’re going to play out, so you’ve took it as if it were an honor, she felt privileged to be asked. It’s a
got to be willing to confront these things and deal with them. wonderful way to think. That’s why so many people think so fondly
and mistily of her.
You never know your lovers. Shakespeare says that we can tell
how tall they are and what they look like, but one never knows the Any advice on love for the readers?
other person completely. Indeed, that person doesn’t know himself
or herself completely just as we don’t fully know ourselves. This Remember: I was just thankful that somebody was happy to put
means we are constantly surprised, appreciative, and horrified by up with me! If you are always thankful that somebody’s putting up
our partners and have to deal with these feelings. with you, you tend to be respectful of them and thankful for them,
which I think helps the relationship. My goodness, she is willing to
What about changing yourself for the person you love? Is it a put up with me, she must be a woman of much charity and kindness.
good thing or should you never change yourself for somebody Be honored.
else?
*in a growl* Never, ever, be maliciously hurtful. I think sometimes
You know, it always worried me! Ann Landers, who wrote the we have to be hurtful in relationships, but you never want to be
Lonely Hearts column, would get this letter a lot, “I’ve dated my maliciously so. There was a very popular song when I was in school,
boyfriend for four years, and he owes me a lot of money and he your age, and the name of the song was, “Love hurts” and it does.
beats me, but I think if we got married, I could really change him” If we sit down and think of the folk we know and the number one
and Ann Landers always said: if you want to change your lover, cause of the worst pain is relationships that have run amuck.You
you don’t really like your lover—you want to kill your lover and can get over failing an English test, but it’s a lot harder to get over
reconstruct him in your own image. So, you have to very careful being dumped. Sometimes separating is necessary because two
when you talk about changing your lover. people discover that they really don’t like each other very much.
The fact that we’ve been going out does not mean that we have to
You can change yourself, you have autonomy over that, and
spend rest of life together. When the time comes, you never want to
sometimes when you change yourself, it affects your lover, you
do it maliciously or deliberately hurtfully. Always do it in a way that
know: “I liked you the way you were!” That’s the problem with
is as gentle, generous, and kind as possible, realizing nonetheless
any relationship, there are changes in life, and people change, and
that you are still doing a hurtful thing. At the same time, you should
if the relationship is going to work, the nature of the loving has to
never feel obligated to sacrifice yourself to your lover.
grow and change with the changes of the lovers.
Any additional comments, Dr. Miller?
What about listing out characteristics and criteria you want
that significant other to have? Is it good to have an idea of what Well, I’m just sitting there, thinking this article needs to get burned.
you’re looking for or is that making you too inflexible? I’ve been making up stuff as I go! It’s all a mystery, all a wonder.
I was just very interested in finding a girl who would go out with
me! Specific criteria beyond that was always negotiable! If I called
her up Friday night and she said she would go, she was the right
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School to deal with School ‘bubble’ keeps


increased budget cuts students in the dark
schools like us that
don’t charge a fee.
In my second year
here, I proposed a By Rebecca Hong the earthquake, which was just
nine-hundred and as strong and could have been
fifty dollar fee It is often said that students nearly as destructive.
– but what I really here live in a bubble, so caught Televised news—and
wanted was state up in the work and drama television in general—is not
funding.” of 24/7 campus living that popular among students.
Boarman got they hardly take notice when When the hall TV is on, “[it] is
his wish – and a something happens in the usually on MTV or VH1,” Qi
law that prohibits world outside. The school does said, and most students don’t
the school from not receive newspapers, most have time to watch TV anyway.
enacting a fee students don’t have radios, “Nobody takes the effort to
unless the state and when they have free watch the news,” Smith said.
legislature time, students would rather Some halls may also be
approves. Many catch up on sleep than current finding it difficult to watch
people might not events. It is partially true that news on TV due to bad
even apply for fear students here are somewhat reception. Junior Kerry Dutra,
they cannot afford oblivious to world events, but who usually follows the news at
a fee. Boarman that does not tell the whole home, explained why keeping
says he doesn’t story. Students clearly care up with local news is difficult
recommend a fee, about world issues, organizing on Third Beall. “We don’t get
afraid it “would food drives, book drives, channel eleven or five on hall,”
cause a great deal and most recently a “text-a- she said. “I used to read the
of ill-will.” thon” to support victims of newspaper, but now I don’t
With the budget in such bad shape recently, many students don’t see why we Students and the Haitian earthquake to help want to pay to subscribe to an
keep spending money on things that seem to be useless - like repainting walls parents are an people around the world. The online paper, and I don’t have
when students graffiti them or renovating buildings when we could be funding active part of question is: how—and when— the time to watch television.”
student activities. In reality, funds from three major categories (shown above) this community, are students getting their news? Though it may seem given
are not fungible and must be used as listed. • Graphic by Alex Lew and they can Some students rely on that students do not have the
help to save the their parents and friends for time to worry about news, do
By Avani Uppalapati Seventy-eight percent of budget. Students can turn important world news. When instructors also have a hard
the operating budget is used for lights off when not in use, let asked how she learned of time staying up to date? The
The NCSSM budget is salaries and benefits. The other maintenance know when the the disaster in Haiti, senior census was mixed, but all
divided into three main parts: twenty-two affects student life air conditioning is broken, Nina Qi said, “My dad had to instructors agreed that even if
the operating budget, repair and academia. The 16.5% and practice other basic tell me.” Others, like junior they didn’t get news while at
and renovating budget, and the budget cut reduced funds for conservation principles. Ivana Mbullah, learned from work, they were well-informed
capital involvement budget. books and computers. Boarman encourages friends’ updates on the social by the time they got home. Julie
Funds from one of these Gerald Boarman, the parents to donate to the school networking site Facebook. Graves, math instructor, said,
budgets cannot be transferred school’s chancellor, says by saying “Donating to the “My friend posted [news about “While I’m at school I don’t
into another section. For that there will be another hall is nice, but donating to Haiti] as a Facebook status, get news. I get news in the car
example, the school will five percent cut for the next the school goes into a fund and now I see it all over the or at home.” When asked how
continue to renovate because year, but the school won’t governed by the board.” That internet,” Mbullah said. students should stay updated,
the money available in that be able to handle more than fund helps students go to Yahoo and other news Graves replied, “If you want,
category is not transferable that. If a teacher retires or special events and activities. aggregation websites are you can get news online.”
to the operating or capital leaves after that cut, then the Boarman is setting up an also popular among students. Perhaps the online solution
involvement budget nor can it position will be eliminated advisory budget committee Senior Sangjin Smith, who is the most convenient for
be saved for the next year. and the responsibilities will to carry on after he leaves. uses a Yahoo email account, everyone in the NCSSM
The operating budget is be distributed to others in the It will include faculty, staff, said that he immediately saw community. Dr. Les Fleming,
further divided into academic, department. and students. These people Haiti-related headlines while physics instructor, said “I get
administrative, student life, But if it is a singleton will understand the cuts and checking his mail. Junior news [at school] from RSS
library, and plant operation position, like teaching how to manage them. He Kevin Huang said that he feeds to make sure the world is
sections. It affects people, German, a replacement will hopes to create transparency, also relies on Yahoo after he still there.” RSS feeds stream
supplies and dorm life. Funds be made. This adheres to which allows people to help. “stopped watching TV” at breaking headlines on any
within the divisions of the Boarman’s motto to “cut “Inclusion is important” he school. website or even on the desktop
operation budget can be things, not people.” He says says. However, students rarely of your computer as a news
redistributed. “Last year was a miracle The budget is more give online headlines more icon.
The repair and renovating budget. Everybody still has complicated than most may than a cursory glance. Though Will NCSSM students
budget is used to help improve jobs, we have what we need.” have thought, but everyone almost all students surveyed ever break out of the bubble?
the function of the school. That When asked if there is a can help The North Carolina had heard about the earthquake Unless world news becomes
budget helps with maintenance possibility of a fee to attend School of Science and Math in Haiti, only a few knew more accessible to students
issues such as creating new the school in the future, he stay afloat in these tough about the January 12, 2010 (and less of a hassle to read),
sidewalks, painting, having air replied “We’re one of the two economic times. aftershock about a week after the answer is probably no.
conditioning and fixing roofs.
The capital improvement
budget is used to create new
buildings. Since the funds
Four Finalists Named for Conrad Awards
are non-transferable, if there By Seon Kang mittee selected Team Sun protein, weight, carbohydrate, their efforts will be at the sum-
were seven million dollars in Sailors and Team Tenorios as and taste requirements while mit itself where teams will
the budget for a new Reynolds On April 8, 2010, four finalists in the aerospace ex- staying within the sugar and present their concepts to a
building, that money, for teams from the North Carolina ploration category, Team Orca fat limits.” panel of experts. At the sum-
example, could not be used for School of Science and Math as a finalist in the renewable Stone, who is currently en- mit, they will also be attending
new textbooks. will head to California for the energy category, and Team rolled in Research in Chem- workshops with other finalists
Last year, there were 18.5 Innovation Summit as Conrad Rocket as a finalist in the space istry said, “It started off as an and listening to presentations
million dollars in the operating Innovation National finalists. nutrition category. introduction to the research on innovation, entrepreneur-
budget. Of that, 6.5% was The Conrad Innovation Senior Nikita Khlystov is experience. We did a good job ship, and cutting edge science.
cut, causing the school to cut Awards encourage students to the team leader of the Sun Sail- and hopefully we’ll be able But the teams still have one
some textbooks, supplies, and use science, technology and ors, who designed a spacecraft to develop it into something obstacle left before the sum-
vacant positions. However, entrepreneurship in creating powered by solar winds. Their more.” mit - they have to raise funds
this budget cut was offset by products that can be introduced design is based on a parallel As finalists, they have the to cover the travel expenses
the enrollment growth funds. into the marketplace. Students set of panels connected by so- opportunity to win grants involved in attending the In-
In addition to newly-placed were challenged to develop lenoid coils that create a mag- based on their success at the novation Summit. The Con-
budget cuts, Governor Purdue products in the areas of green netic field to help navigate the Innovation Summit. They rad Foundation will match the
held back another five percent schools, aerospace explora- spacecraft. must create team videos, make funds raised by the teams, but
to put in a fund to help the tion, renewable energy, and Junior Samuel Stone of logos, and post on their team the costs are still substantial.
school in crises. Therefore the space nutrition. Team Rocket talked about the blogs to help the voting public The four teams from Sci-
total budget cut was 11.5%. The four NCSSM teams judging criteria of the Space grasp an understanding of their ence & Math will be compet-
Another budget cut of five were among twenty five final- Nutrition Category, “We went projects. From March 26 until ing in California on April 8,
percent increased the school’s ist teams selected out of a sev- through various food filling April 12, the public can vote 2010 in each of their respective
total budget cut to 16.5% this enty two team applicant pool. and topping ideas… we had to on projects. categories.
year. The Conrad Selection Com- determine how best to meet the The culmination of all of
the stentorian | ncssm news february 2010 11

School to attempt world record: an inside look


Continued from front page
world record attempt, respond collect the most pounds of incentive, every person who bank for Central and Eastern
out how they recorded and to e-mail messages on the food will be recognized during donates on March 20 will North Carolina.
documented all of that, and they NCSSMFoodDrive@gmail. the performance and given the receive a raffle ticket and As Miniterm and trimester
sent me PDFs of their excel com account, return phone first three center rows in the another raffle ticket for every break approaches, the NCSSM
spreadsheets. So, they were calls, and contact different auditorium for the performance. ten pounds donated. These World Record taskforce will
very, very helpful and offered corporations to help sponsor A special prize would be numerous raffle prizes include be encouraging students to
any help they could get us until the food drive bills. additionally rewarded for top autographed items by television bring back food. A virtual food
we actually attempted.” Lewis has already been collecting team. stars Daneel Harris of One bank is also available on www.
More than thirty NCSSM contacted by several food Rebecca Pham, ACC Officer Tree Hill and Jensen Ackles of ncssm.edu/fooddrive. When
students are currently active distributers: Cisco Foods and and NCSSM Food Drive Supernatural, NCAA National somebody visits the virtual
in organizing the food drive the food provider of the PFM, Business Committee member, Basketball Champion Eric food bank link and enters his
through committees. There which will make large food explained, “The [Asia]fest Montross, and Anoop Desai of debit or credit card, the food
are five committees: civic donations to the food drive celebrates the diversity of American Idol. There will be bank will provide eight pounds
organizations (Lions Club, on the day of the event and Asian ethnic groups and is one one raffle for the general public of food for every one dollar
YMCA, community service- supply snacks and beverages of the largest annual events and one Science and Math-only spent. This method promises
oriented organizations), K-12 for the volunteers during the at NCSSM. I immediately raffle. There will also be prizes non-perishable food at cheaper
schools within the Triangle event. Lewis remarks, “It’s realized this would be a great for the male and female hall prices that can be generally
Area, colleges, businesses, and really exciting how the event is opportunity to contribute to that collect the most pounds found in grocery stores. Lewis
religious organizations. These snowballing, how more people the world record attempt. of food and for the individuals urged, “Every little bit helps—
students do everything from are finding out about it, and AsiaFest this year promises that collect the most pounds of one more person participating
working with NCSSM alumni how we’re getting the support to be a great show as always; food. to help our cause, one more
at the different local colleges of different communities and seats fill up fast and what better Lewis reminded not to person’s contributions to help
to going out and talking to organizations. way to guarantee a spot for the forget the main cause of the reach goal of beating world
different businesses to put up Lewis and her taskforce of best seat in the house?” Asian food drive: “The thing I’m record. When I think of it,
flyers and ask for raffle and students are not alone in their
food donations. Although work for the food drive. Ryan
spaces on the committees are Faircloth of Developmental
filled, Lewis encouraged all Office helped to write the
to help out in any way: “Join Guinness World Record
a Facebook group and invite attempt proposal and has
all of your friends! Come to been working with Lewis in
a volunteer meeting because contacting various corporations
there are plenty of opportunities for donations. Therese Taxis
to volunteer in shifts on the has been reaching out to
day of the food drive, and any alumni and parents to get
volunteer will get one of our involved. Lauren Everhart,
Together We Can NCSSM Director of Communications,
World Record shirt free of has been working on press
charge.” releases, created and is helping
Because Lewis is overseeing to maintain the website, and
the entire world record worked with the Durham Crop
attempt, she turned over the Walk to schedule Durham Fight
committees to adult sponsors Hungers weekend as the same Junior Marlee Sloan of residential hall 1E2E2D designed the logo for the NCSSM Food Drive.
to manage: “It’s kind of up to weekend as the food drive.
them [the adult sponsors] how NCSSM Asiafest is also on Cultures Club is also asking trying to keep in mind is not if each person can bring one
frequently they’re meeting and the same day as the record- for at least a one-can donation breaking the world record but paper grocery bag full [of
how they’re organizing their attempting food drive. The in exchange for experiencing bringing as much as we can non-perishable food] from the
committee. So I’m kind of Asian Cultures Club (ACC) an Asian cuisine buffet before to the food bank. If we break grocery store, if you fill that
hands off [with committees]— Officers immediately jumped to the show. Pham said, “One can it, that’s great, but if not, then [bag] up—that’s approximately
answering questions, but I have help the cause by hosting a VIP per person is not a big request it’s fine.” Nearly half a million 25-30 pounds of food you can
other things on my plate.” Seating Challenge. Groups of and the effort can go a long people are at risk of hunger bring, and that’s just in one
What Lewis does do day-to- 4-5 individuals, both students way.” in the 34 counties that make bag.”
day is answer e-mail messages and faculty, are expected to The NCSSM World Record up Central and Eastern North For more information on
from the Durham Herald-Sun collect cans and other non- taskforce is working to Carolina, and all food raised the NCSSM Food Drive, visit
newspaper, which has already perishable food items as encourage as many individuals from the world record attempt its website at www.ncssm.edu/
run four articles on the NCSSM teams, and the nine groups that to donate as possible. As would go directly to the food fooddrive.

Boarman steps down after 10 years


Continued from front page
the tuition grant, he believes that her contract would not be I’ve turned down raises twice that the number of applications
Boarman proposed the that the school should pursue renewed. O’Dell claimed that because we didn’t have the to this school has more than
tuition grant to Senator Kay more articulation agreements the school’s academics were budget.” doubled since the beginning of
Hagan because “the [students] in the future. declining and later told media As far as the future of his time here.
deserve a reward.” He based Boarman’s term as such as NBC 17 that she was NCSSM is concerned, Boarman Boarman says he is glad
his idea on the Georgia’s chancellor has had its share of pressured to give A’s and B’s. was instrumental in planning to see students having more
Helping Outstanding Students controversy. When construction Recently, Boarman has the Discovery Center, which of a voice, and administration
Educationally scholarship. The began on the NCSSM soccer come under fire from local he hopes will provide great listening more. All of the
scholarship is for students who field, homeowners in the newspapers that reported opportunities for students. He cultural fests, social events
attend in-state universities and surrounding neighborhoods that his salary increased from believes it will be the hub of such as Mr. Unicorn pageant,
keep grades above a certain were worried that the light from $185,028 in 2004 to $245,000 student-oriented activity. It and seeing students run
level. Since its inception, fewer the field would be disturbing to in 2009. Boarman responded will have a brand new library, to the Butterfly House at
students have gone out of state local residents. Then in 2005, to that, “It’s kind of interesting, student center, café, outdoor prom have been part of his
for college. the administration informed because I don’t control my movie theater, and student favorite experiences. He likes
However, because future faculty council president and salary. The Board of Trustees store. conversing with students in the
classes will no longer receive math teacher Carol O’Dell actually controls my salary. Student enrollment is cafeteria as well.
expected to increase to He has enjoyed seeing
between nine hundred and nine students at reunions and
hundred-and-fifty when the finding out where students go
new center is built. Boarman after here. Boarman admitted,
hopes the school will offer “I’m not sure that I’ll ever find
more online courses and a school like this again.”
that instruction will be more He hopes that whoever the
blended; that is, students will University Board of Trustees
study independently more. He finds to replace him, that
sees our campus extending to person is student-centric.
all of the Triangle, and not just “My philosophy is students
the Durham community. first. Whatever the program
Looking back, the school is or the mission is, or what
provided him with many you want, is this best for the
memorable experiences. In students? If it is, fine. If it
When Boarman first arrived at the school, this graffiti-covered power plant stood where the 2001, he remembers that the isn’t, we need to make sure,
swingset now does. It was surrounded by barbed wire. school had its first Siemens’ and ensure, it becomes the best
winner. Boarman is excited program for students.”
12 february 2010 sports the stentorian | ncssm

Swimmers Set School Record, Student-led fencing


Have Successful Season team succeeds
start of Happy Half at 10 P.M. Senior Tony Botros said
By Vlad Krokhmal
Although some might that “having done cross By Ben Gellman
This year’s swim team has attribute the success of the swim country, track, soccer and year. “Everyone has been very
accomplished unprecedented team to the fact that Cardinal even some football, I believe Sword fighting is a staple committed and gotten very
achievements. Overall the Gibbons is now competing that swimming is the most of adventure novels like The excited. We’ve done well, so
men’s team achieved a 2nd in a different conference, demanding sport, both Count of Monte Cristo or it’s paid off,” he said.
place in the conference, there is more than just one physically and mentally.” The Mask of Zorro. Exciting There are no more fencing
trailing just barely behind contributing factor. This year, No doubt a part of the scenes involving battles to the competitions this year, but
Carboro. The women’s team juniors Tony Fang, Kyle team’s success comes from death can be found throughout Team NCSSM continues
got 3rd place, and was only 5 Finn, Garrick Gan and Nick the coaches, Darcie Smith, these works. to practice and to improve.
points short of the second To those in the NCSSM McNeary is confident that
place spot. Aside from the Fencing Club though, sword fencing will do well next year.
impressive performance fighting is something done McNeary is the only senior
during the regular season, after school for fun and for the on the seven person team,
many of the swimmers thrill of competition. and those on the team show
have qualified for the Fencing is not a varsity interest in continuing the club
NCHSAA 1A/2A Eastern sport at Science and Math, but next year.
Swimming & Diving State those who compete with the “I’m really very pleased
Meet. club team are dedicated to the with how they’re doing,” he
These results, however, art of fencing. said of his young team. He
were not achieved without “The team is very young; hopes that the club can gain
extraordinary hard work. hardly anyone had fenced attention going into the next
Junior Kyle Delehanty before this year,” said team school year.
said, “It’s quite the captain Peter McNeary. McNeary said he would like
commitment, especially The inexperience of the to see fencing become a varsity
balancing school work team has not stopped it from sport, which would entitle it to
with practices.” The swim team poses for a post-meet photo. • Photo courtesy of doing well this year, though. many benefits, including the
The importance of balance Ben Gellman The team placed third at a ability to practice in the PEC
holds especially true for tournament hosted by Bishop on a regular basis or to host a
swimming. In the middle of Woodcock broke the school’s Michael Newbauer, and Lex McGuinness High School in tournament on campus.
the season the swim team had record for the 200 freestyle Alvord. Although the coaching Kernersville, North Carolina, McNeary encouraged
trouble with their original relay, thus demonstrating the team was newly assembled in early January and placed anyone who is interested in
pool where they practiced. team’s dedication and ability. last year, it has a wealth of fourth at a tournament hosted swordplay to join the club.
Due to renovations, the team Senior Kirby Varnadoe- combined swimming and by the Cape Fear Fencing Club He talked about all the things
had to relocate to the Campus Russ was named the 2010 coaching knowledge. With a in Wilmington on January he likes about fencing in
Hills pool. Consequently, the 1A/2A Women’s Conference successful season completed, 23rd. our interview, ending with
practice time switched from Swimmer of the Year, thus and bright possibilities in McNeary has been very “Fencing is just one of those
right after school to 7:30 P.M. showing the team as strong the State Meet, the NCSSM impressed by how well his sports that you know you’re
– and the swim team only gets competition toward the other swim team has proven its young team has done this going to love.”
back to school just before the conference teams. excellence.

Women Advance to Basketball State


Playoffs, Men’s Team Improves
By Gary Li currently has an 11-10 record if it has not already been basketball team, “and we beat ambiguous feelings about the
overall and a 7-6 record in the doing so. In fact, with such Trinity School at the beginning upcoming seasons. However,
conference. confidence and diligence, it’s of the year.” Trinity School the uncertainty of the basketball
Women’s Basketball Another reason which has hard not to feed off the energy currently holds an impressive team’s future success is not to
Women’s basketball has greatly contributed to the overall of the players. record of 12-4. be confused with indifferent
progressively become one success of the team is the hard Many have their doubts feelings. Yet, the team still has
Kuo specifically mentioned
of the hotspots of NCSSM work and determination shown about the team. However it three or four games left to play,
that, “Having a crowd really
students’ attention. Two factors by many seniors and juniors cannot be overlooked that the which might be a big factor in
helps us in the game.” The
might be the cause of such on the women’s basketball team does have many gifted rousing not only team morale
increasing popularity and skill
positive growth, one being the team. According to junior players such as Zhang and but also student support as
of the women’s team has not
3 year coach David Ritchie, player Molly Kuo, “We are junior Travis Morton, just well. If the team can rally and
gone unnoticed by students
whose faith and confidence in very dedicated and are aiming to name a few. As it is well pull off these last few games,
either. Senior Mohammad
his team has had nothing but for a winning season. We have implied, a team sport requires they will be able to end the
Kodaimati reflected on one
a positive influence. “This already accomplished one of a lot of talent from many, if not season on a high note.
of their games, “Their guard
year’s team is the first in many, our goals set earlier in the year all, of its players, and a good It comes as no surprise
game has improved a lot, and
many years to have a winning – (we) qualified for states!” they seem to be much better
coach to lead it. Without such that despite the 4-15 record
record in the conference and Ritchie certainly praised the contenders than they did
qualities, it is difficult to be of NCSSM’s men’s basketball
they should be recognized for girls for their performances last year.” Certainly, as time
successful. team, the Unis still have
that,” said Ritchie. The team this school year in memorable progresses it soon may not be
The outlooks of the team enough school spirit to surge
games against Raleigh Charter may not look the best, and forward and face the roar of
a question of whether the team
and South Granville, certainly many may have enemy crowds.
can best past performances, but
“Both games the girls
whether the team can achieve
came from behind
state titles.
and showed amazing
intensity, resolve,
and togetherness.”
The future of
Men’s Basketball
women’s basketball “…I feel like this year
at NCSSM looks we’re a closer team and our
good. As Ritchie record is definitely better than
put it, if the team last year’s record,” said senior
continues to exhibit player Joshua Quinnett about
a strong sense of the current team. “We really
motivation and appreciate everyone coming
determination, next out to our games and supporting
year’s season should us.” His positive outlook is not
be very exciting. to go unaccounted for. Last
That means in the year, the team’s record was 2-
upcoming years, 20.
women’s basketball “We did beat Raleigh
Senior Aisha Venugopal tries to will be competing Charter, who has a pretty good
with many of the popular team,” said Ying-Ao Zhang, Juniors Jordan Firn, Andrew McDonald, and Jake
outmaneuver a defender.
•Photo courtesy of Britt Brown sports at Science & Math, a captain of the Unicorn Emerson stop for a huddle. •Photo courtesy of Britt Brown
the stentorian | ncssm sports february 2010 13

I Heart Winter Track team to


You compete at state meet
By Kirby Varnadoe-Russ offers. By Gary Li standard spring track events.  the team this year?
Now, I know that it is For example, there is no 100, This is the most dedicated
Not only is February home difficult to eat healthily in the The winter track team 200, 400, or 800 (meter race).  winter track squad we have
to one of the biggest chocolate PFM for reasons other than has improved significantly Instead, they run the 55, 300, had during my time here.  I
and teddy bear-buying days availability of health foods, this season, so I decided to 500, and 1000.  Officially, it’s have never had so many people
of the year, but it is also an but if students make an effort dig deeper into the sport and called “indoor track,” but that’s training so consistently over
important month in health, to avoid the unhealthy food contact Coach Nick Lehman, a bit of a misnomer since it is the winter.  All of our seniors
known as National Heart at least 3 or 4 times a week, who is not only a Student Life almost never actually indoors.   are noticeably improved from
Awareness Month. think of how much healthier Instructor, but also a teacher of The only actual indoor last year and we have some
Heart disease is the number everyone will be. the Student Life course, and track in this area is at UNC- promising juniors as well. 
one killer of Americans, and The first healthy option in a coach of the indoor track Chapel Hill.  They host the Last year and the year
so it is important to stay fit the PFM is the salad bar. The team. State Championship each before, we only had two
and heart-healthy throughout salad bar is always complete February and one or two athletes qualify for the state
February and the rest of your with salad, toppings, and most How many years have you other meets during the season.  meet.  This year, we have
life. importantly, lots of vegetables been coaching track and do Other than that, everything is eight.   Our state meet is
and fruit to munch on. It may you plan on continuing to done outside.  combined 1A/2A/3A, so when
I Heart the Gym not be the ripest of the crop, coach track? our athletes qualify, it really
One of the ways to keep the but it’s much better than not This is my 5th year coaching How many members are means they are competitive at
heart healthy is to exercise, getting your plants in at all. track at NCSSM, 4th as head currently on the track team? the 3A level. 
regularly. How should we The PFM also offers a wide coach.  I will continue to coach Currently, we have 19 students
Science & Mathers do that? variety of vegetarian items, track as long as I am here. participating.  Is there anything else that
By going to the lovely PEC, of which are often more healthy you would like to add about
course. than the main entrée because Is there any difference What is a typical training the track team this year?
The gym is loaded with they contain, well, vegetables. between winter and spring day of winter track? The state championship will
gym equipment, a dance/yoga Getting Raisin Bran instead track? We have three training groups be held Saturday, February 13
studio, racquetball courts, of Fruit Loops will help you The purpose of the winter – sprints, distance, and throws.  at UNC-Chapel Hill.  Here’s
basketball courts, and free avoid that mid-morning sugar track season is to prepare for Each group has a separate who we have competing:
weights. It may not be up to crash, and at the grill they have the spring track season.  The training plan, and there is Women’s 500: Courtney
Ritz Carlton standards, but it is veggie burgers, which actually focus is on training, not on also some individual variation Applewhite, Colleen McGuire
an effective gym all the same. taste pretty good. competition.  Athletes who within each group, so there Women’s 3200: Frances
“It’s not the biggest thing Not willing to give up your participate in winter track will is not really one “typical” Dougherty, Callie Turlington
around, but there are definitely daily hamburger or pepperoni gain a strong foundation of training day.  Women’s 4x800 Relay:
a lot of different exercise pizza? Instead of cutting out training and be able to start the The throwers have mainly Ashley Baker, Frances Dough-
programs that can be done with all unhealthy foods, try to spring season already in great been in the weight room erty, Stefanie Schwemlein,
our facilities,” Coach Gonyeau gradually work health foods shape.  developing strength and Callie Turlington
said. into your diet. The track team is much power.  The sprinters generally Women’s Shot Put: Chelsea
Gonyeau suggested that Researchers say it takes 30 smaller in the winter because alternate weight room days and Lineberger
students go online to get ideas days to break a habit, so if you we take only the most focused running days.  The distance Men’s Shot Put: Antonio
for workouts, then over time work a little bit of healthiness and dedicated athletes.  group will do long, easy runs Kornegay
build a workout routine more into your meals every day, by Competition is rare.  Most of most days, supplemented with It should also be noted that
suited for them as individuals. the end of February, you’ll our athletes will compete only some strength training and Antonio reset his own school
Of course, most students know be a lean, mean, green-eating once or twice over the course speed work.  record at his first meet this
we have a gym but don’t take machine. of the winter.   winter, throwing nearly two
advantage of it. When we do compete, the Compared to last feet further than he did last
“Well, the thing is, a lot of I Heart My Heart events are different than the year’s team, how is spring.
students don’t make the time to So whether you decide to

Wrestling Small, but Serious


come in. They all try to come treat your heart to something
in after school and then see special this Valentine’s Day by
that it’s busy and then give up. grabbing a bite of something
What they should do is make deliciously healthy, or decide By Vlad Krokhmal
time during the day… come to make it work for your love NCSSM wrestling this year year for the
in for 30 or 40 minutes during by breaking the sweat you has certainly become a more wrestling team
some free time,” Gonyeau never thought you had, be serious endeavor. Wrestling was against
said. heart conscious this February. is an individual sport which Granville
But what about those who Remember that if you take care requires a sizable amount of central.
are not athletically inclined? of your heart, it will always people of all weight classes. This match
Those who might cringe at take care of you. This year’s team has been showed that the
the thought of sweating, who suffering from a variety of team could pull
huff and puff after even a light setbacks, especially numerous through even
jog? They must realize that injuries and academic and against some
it is never too late to start. athletic conflicts of team of the bigger
Exercising does not have to members. Of course wrestling Junior Chance Smith watches his opponent. challenges,
be a grueling and unpleasant is a difficult physical challenge,
•Photo courtesy of Britt Brown
being able to
activity. As Cynthia Kuhn, the one that not many can devote field every
most recent speaker for senior themselves to amid academics demanding, and I am motivated team member and squeezing
student life, said, “even going and the little free time that is by this challenge to go on”. a victory. And even if the
for a walk will do, just as long left. Even with a small team, team size has not grown, the
as you do something.” One team member, Branson NCSSM has been able to do members of the team have
The important thing is to Kinsey, however, notes that he better than last year, currently certainly improved, winning
get active. Daily physical does wrestling because “It is holding a 2-4 conference their matches through quality,
activity not only promotes a tough sport, very physically record. A key match this not quantity.
heart health, but also promotes
neuron growth which aids
brain activity and makes you
smarter.
Cheerleading Renewed do last year, and even new levels this year, placing 9th in
So there are benefits all By Vlad Krokhmal
Uni-colored pom-poms. The NCHSAA competition and
around – not only will you
The renewed and reener- NCSSM cheerleading team is even getting a bid to Nationals,
have a svelte physique after
gized Unicorn Spirit is, in part, split into two parts. which NCSSM unfortunately
you exercise, but you’ll be ten
due to NCSSM’s reinvented There is an 11 person com- could not afford.
times as smart.
Cheerleading team. petitive cheerleading team and With such an invigorat-
With the new coach, Katy a 25 person (including the 11 ed team, Arjee Restar notes
I Heart Food
Greene, the team has been who do competitive cheerlead- “Cheerleading has given me
Now, we all know that the
able to soar to new heights, ing) cheerleading squad which confidence, as the only male
PFM is probably as good for
literally. pumps up NCSSMers during cheerleader, to pursue what
your heart as a fried bologna Cheerleaders are now allowed The team now has an ar- Basketball games. makes me happy without fear;
sandwich, but what most to stunt and try more daring senal of 4 types of stunts, The competitive cheerlead- cheerleading has become a part
students don’t know are the
feats. •Photo courtesy of Britt something the team could not ing team has reached new of my life.”
healthy options that the PFM Brown
14 february 2010
opinion the stentorian | ncssm

Prince Charming: Students Respond to


A Thing of the Past?
By Maili lim girl in a Nicholas Sparks fairy-
Internet Cut-off
The woman of today is tale? Still, numerous women By Kexin Yin simply want us to get to sleep you can communicate on group
nothing like her grandmother. proudly assert their mascu- in a timely manner. But hon- projects, which I personally,
No. The recent trend ob- line insensibility to the issue, In today’s society, it is be- estly, I have a lot of work some seem to be spending a great
served in today’s youth leads claiming they can play the coming harder and harder for nights, especially with [swim] deal of time doing.”
psychologists to believe we are same game of “no-strings-at- teens to live without the in- practice and meets, and a lot As for the internet cut-off,
undergoing yet another sexual tached” as men do. ternet because it is the place of times that work requires the Boodee’s take on it is that it
revolution not seen since the But between men and wom- where they go to download internet. I find myself going to is a decrease in efficiency that
1960s. The problem is not that en, whose basic psychologi- music, to find information, to sleep at 2 or 3 A.M. and then students have to learn to deal
we have entered an era where cal needs are truly being met? play video games, to watch getting up at 5 A.M. to finish with. He also believes that the
the behavior of teenagers on A survey conducted in 2007 movies, and to keep in touch internet work. I realize the internet cut off is not helping
the dating scene is troubling; found that men are three times with friends. smart thing to do would be to students finish their homework
rather, it is that we have en- likelier than women to feel sat- As students of North do all the internet work first, early and go to bed. Boodee
tered an era where the idea of isfied with a one-night-stand: Carolina School of Science but sometimes I just don’t have believes “it [internet cut-off]
courtship and dating is becom- women are twice as likely to and Math, our dependence enough time.” ensures that if students need to
ing obsolete altogether. regret the decision. According on the internet is even more However, many adults are work after one, they find them-
So what is the rationale to The Week, this psychologi- greater due to the fact that it worried that if the internet is selves unnecessarily burdened
behind some 70-80% of col- cal phenomenon becomes even is the main source used by the left on until later, students are by the lack of ability to do re-
lege students on campus par- more prevalent on college school faculty to provide vital likely to spend most of their search required for classes.”
ticipating in the exchange of campuses. With the increasing information to all students; it time on social-networking sites It can be concluded that
sexual favors before even the number of sexually available is the medium used to find and such as Facebook.com, or just while the internet cut-off is a
exchange of names (The Week, women (some 100 females turn in homework and to keep procrastinating in general. good idea, it is not suited for
“Love in the Time of Hook- for every 75 males on college from going insane during win- When asked how the Face- all of the students’ working
ing Up”)? Granted, times have campuses), women continue ter when sundown is at 5PM. book website affects her study- habits, and the belief that Face-
changed over the past century; to give themselves away un- Although the standard 1 ing habits, Brooke McKenna, a book hinders most students’
the portrait our society paints der “high supply, low demand” A.M. internet-cutoff was not junior, answered, “I feel like it ability to work is simply not
of the “acceptable” is indeed a circumstances (Psychology To- implemented at the very be- really depends on the people. true because even if Facebook
far cry from that of our grand- day). This leaves women with ginning of the year, due to For me, I set goals and only al- disappeared, those who have
mothers’ generation. But as no choice but to behave more parental concerns, the admin- low myself to sign onto Face- bad self control can still find
uninhibited sexual activity be- like men in order to keep up in istration began cutting internet book when I finish a certain other addictive sites on which
gins to replace relationships, the romantic race. off at 1 A.M. again. The rea- amount of homework and so they could pass time.
we neglect to see how the situ- In the end, women lose far soning is that the internet cut on. But yes, I can see how the Many students would like
ational power of today’s young more than just virginity: re- off would prompt students to site could be distracting and their parents to rethink the in-
women drops substantially. spect is frequently lost in the finish their homework before take away time from school ternet cut-off and consider the
From an evolutionary process. In other words, once 1 A.M. and to go to sleep ear- work especially when looking situation more closely because
standpoint, this current trend Prince Charming realizes that lier than they would normally at pictures and using Facebook NCSSM is not the typical high
in behavior does not piece he doesn’t need to be a Prince have; however, many stu- chat.” school that parents are used to
together logically at all. It is in order to get what he wants, dents are not happy with this Ryan Boodee, a senior dealing with.
widely accepted among biolo- why should he still act like change. voiced his own opinion, “I
gists that females, by nature, one? In spite of this loss, rec- Junior Jane Ma stated, “I think that Facebook, even Opinions? Write a letter to
are pickier than males when it reational sexual activity is still get that the administration’s while a distraction, can pro- stentorian@ncssm.edu
comes down to the selection of argued as a means for power intentions are good, and they vide a nice medium by which
a partner. and control. But in all actual-
According to Psychology ity, women have relinquished
Today article “Sexual Libera- much of their power in being
tion: Whose Sexuality is Liber- able to harness a secure emo-
ated, Men’s or Women’s?”, the tional commitment.
female’s significant investment And what happens when the
and energy expense in the off- evening is over? While young
spring as opposed to that of the women today are indeed expe-
male leads to the inevitable riencing a “sexual liberation”
differences in sexual motiva- from previous decades, it may
tion between the genders. In not be all that it’s cracked up
theory, the judicious nature of to be. “You have contact with
females pushes males to com- many, many more people, but
pete against each other for this each of those relationships
womanly “resource”. takes up a little bit less of your
Scientifically, women and life,” one 25-year-old woman
men have different needs; this living in New York City con-
discrepancy is bound to mani- fessed to The Week. “That
fest in behavioral differences. fragmentation creates a lot of
The male’s eagerness to mate loneliness.”
is universal; in every coun- With the tables turned, we
try of the world, men beat out begin to wonder if this isn’t
women with their interest in a sexual revolution for men
non-committal relationships after all. So what happens, la-
(Psychology Today). dies, when we give ourselves
While there are still wom- over too easily? Where are our Senior Daniel Jones is just short of pulling his hair out over Moodle and NCSSM At a Glance not
en who claim to be interested knights in shining armor? working after 1am. •Photo courtesy of Dustin Burleson

Recycle this paper!


only in casual sex, let’s look at No wonder chivalry is
this realistically. What woman dead.
wouldn’t want to be the lucky

Stentorian Staff
Editors-in-Chief: Jennifer Zhu, Alex Lew, Kirby Varnadoe-Russ
Junior Editors: Seon Kang, Nathaly Lemoine
News Editor: Avani Uppalapati
Opinions Editor: Emma Hawkins
Sports Editor: Vlad Krokhmal
Lifestyles Editor: Erica Venning, Ade Ilesanmi
Photography Editor: Dustin Burleson
Advisor: John Kirk
Thoughts? Comments? Want to write for us? Send an email to
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opinion february 2010 15

Focus on grades, but Why young adults should read


keep grades off Focus Young Adult fiction
By Davis Goodnight know the general trends of By Tasha Samborski their facial expressions, fits in would find it in the teen section
how the student is performing line with our everyday lives. I is because the main character
It can sometimes be hard academically. Allowing have also found that because happens to be 17. Look at the
to adjust to the first C students parents to unceremoniously At some point in time YA authors try so hard, their Twilight series. Many people,
receive here at NCSSM. It can eyeball grades at any moment we have all walked into a books come out so much better. both young and old, have
take a while to realize that one both severs a link between bookstore and seen the section Knowing that we young adults enjoyed these books and they
bad grade on one assignment parent and child and hinders a completely devoted to teens. are a tough bunch to impress, are classified as YA.
will not keep anyone from parent’s ability to view grades Most of us do not think to take YA authors bust their butts to As you can see, YA books
graduating. But while students on a large scale, focusing a second glance and keep on write a good book for teens are not young, they do not
eventually come to understand instead on small pieces of a walking, as we seem to think rather than a mediocre book for represent a genre that we have
this, it might be harder for large puzzle. they are too young for us, or adults, a much less selective outgrown – they are simply
parents. The school is currently Luckily for others who are too much like our everyday audience. Because of this fact, books about teens, meant to be
considering requiring faculty share these concerns, the lives. The thing is, there is YA books end up just being enjoyed by all, but in particular,
to maintain an up-to-date grade situation might not progress a plethora of books in this better in regards to writing and enjoyed by teens themselves.
book on Focus visible at all to this point. Steve Warshaw, section to choose from that are storyline. It’s like applying to Just think: you have years and
times to students and parents. Vice Chancellor for Academic enjoyed by all age groups and college - you know you will try years to enjoy the thousands of
Both students and parents Programs, said that while the have so much to offer. harder and consequently write adult books that are out there,
would be able to see grades capability of showing grades Their topics range from a better essay for Harvard, but only a few to cherish those
for every assignment in every to students and parents alike high school drama, high- Princeton, or Yale, than one of that have to do with you, right
class they take. exists within Focus, this is by strung adventures, and those easy-to-get-into schools. now.
This means that, for instance, no means a definitive step in cliquey romances to the many Now many people have
a student could do poorly on the future. emotional issues that so many reservations about reading YA
a quiz and the parent could Warshaw said that, for teens face. They also act as books as they are too focused
know instantly. This removes the most part, “access to portals to unknown worlds, on teens, or they do not want to
the interaction between parent information is good,” but he just as books have promised to read about a life they already
and child, allowing parents to agrees with concerns about do for years. The characters are know about, but here’s the thing
jump to conclusions before the allowing parents to view all commonplace – they almost – you get to see a new person’s
student has any possibility to grades. He says that at some feel as if they could be your life in a different light. Also, a
justify their grade. point, teachers will probably best friend, or arch-nemesis lot of the time, the only reason
Of course, the administration have to display all grades – it is easy to relate to them why YA books are classified
is aware of the problems this on Focus, though they will and find some semblance to as such is because their main
would cause. Parents would most likely have the option to your own life. character is a teenager.
be able to access course share the grades with students, As someone who is quite Take Megan McCafferty’s
expectations explaining the parents, or both. familiar with this genre – I “Jessica Darling” series,
grading policy and difficulty No decision has been have professionally reviewed which starts out being about a
of the course. A parent would finalized yet, so there is still over 300 different titles as senior in high school and all her
then know that a D on a piece room for change. It seems a book blogger – I feel that I calamities and then proceeds
of homework is not as bad as a that both parties will have can say that you should all try to follow her throughout her
D on a test or quiz. to continue voicing their at least one good Young Adult college years. Within the books Tasha Samborsk’s book
Most students speak with concerns in the coming months (YA) book. You will see that there is gossip, juicy scandals, blog can be found at http://
their parents about grades on a to influence when, how, and for the authors try extraordinarily and oh so much more and andanotherbookread.blogspot.
regular or semi-regular basis— whom grades will be visible hard to make sure that all of it has been enjoyed by com/. • Photo courtesy of Tasha
at least enough for them to online. everything, from the clothes countless teens and adults alike Samborski
that the characters wear to – and the only reason that you

NCSSM Presents: Thoroughly Modern Millie


By Erica Venning in the dialogue never fall flat: I Miss Dorothy Brown (Jessie from 4:30-6:00 P.M. If the cast choreography down the halls
find myself cracking up during Brown), and in the end finds isn’t blocking lines, they are on the way to class. If dance
When set next to musical rehearsal every day. Also, the love thanks to the guidance of either in the dance studio or in isn’t quite your cup of tea, then
productions of the past, jokes are easier to follow. They Muzzy Van Hossmere (Erica the music wing. you certainly will enjoy the
Thoroughly Modern Millie flow better with the dialogue Venning). Thanks to Amanda Ackovitz songs. With fairly complicated
stands out. NCSSM has an and make sense with the plot. If the cuddly witticisms and dance teacher Kathy harmonies and challenging
arguably impressive string In fact, the plot itself is a bit found in the story line don’t Berberian, the choreography notes to hit, the songs are
of musicals, including The of a big joke—not in the sense evoke some musical curiosity in in Thoroughly Modern Millie incredibly entertaining. As
Boyfriend, Anything Goes, that it’s a flop, however. you, perhaps the choreography is going to be some of the best theater teacher and director
and Once Upon a Mattress The play revolves around or the song line-up will. Nearly I’ve ever seen. I’ve witnessed Adam Sampieri’s 10th show at
in the past three years. the main character, Millie every day, Monday through members of the ensemble, who NCSSM, Thoroughly Modern
However, many students cast Dilmount (Polly Tobias), who Thursday, members of the cast take part in the majority of the Millie promises to be a lively,
in Thoroughly Modern Millie moves to New York City in are in the auditorium rehearsing numbers in the play, running enjoyable, and all around
will tell you that this show is order to become a true “modern impressive experience.
going to be the best yet. woman”. In her mind, a modern
Strikingly similar to the woman should not get caught
“Roaring Twenties” feel of up with petty things like love,
last year’s The Boyfriend, and so her main ambition is
Thoroughly Modern Millie to marry well. As you may
embraces the quirky, flapper have expected, Millie is
styles which originated in unprepared for the insensitive
1920’s America. Perhaps the and unyielding populace of
main difference in the two plays New York.
is that last year, when songs Immediately after she
from The Boyfriend were stuck arrives, she is robbed and runs
in your head, you did anything into Jimmy Smith (Nathaniel
you possibly could to get them Swofford). Jimmy is a suave,
out. Now, when songs from savvy individual who looks
Thoroughly Modern Millie down on Millie for her naiveté
(TMM) are stuck in your head, and optimism, traits not found
it is probable that you will in many New Yorkers. Without
enjoy it. In essence, TMM is giving away too much more
simply a better written play of the plot, I will tell you
in both dialogue and musical that Millie longs to marry
scores. her boss, Trevor Graydon
The first thing I noticed (Nick Sanford), gets caught
when I read the script was that in the midst of a white slavery
TMM is legitimately funny. ring headed by Mrs. Meers Students rehearse as the performance dates of “Thoroughly Moddern Millie” draw closer.
The cliché jokes interspersed (Ashley Teal), finds a friend in • Photo by Dustin Burleson
16 february 2010 news the stentorian | ncssm

Students gear up Haitian earthquake moves


for Miniterm students to help
By Kagan Griffin were horrified by the images Some halls around campus
By Sangeetha Kumar swimmers, but they must also and news of grief stricken have been holding food
be willing to live without Natural disasters affect Haiti. drives. Linden Wait, a senior
The most anticipated time electricity and running water. every area of the globe, but Gino Lerebours, a junior and Resident Life Assistant
of the academic year is just Students who are not when an earthquake hit the with relatives in Haiti said, on 2nd Beall said, “We held
around the corner. Miniterm interested in any of the western hemisphere’s poorest “My parents are basically an impromptu can drive and
serves as a path away from proposed courses can submit nation, Haiti, on January 12th, keeping in touch and giving managed to send at least some
the traditional academics of an independent project. This headlines pulsed with news support to family and friends, relief to the people of Haiti.”
the school towards an exciting year, the Miniterm committee catalyzing others to help. and are setting money aside for NCSSM, slow as some may
project or class of the student’s approved twenty-four Haiti was first hit by a organizations and families that have thought it was in catching
choice. This year students are independent projects, many of 7.0 magnitude earthquake, need it.” on, is now doing something
given the choice of choosing which are group efforts. One followed by more than 52 The students without to help Haiti. Students can
from over 47 proposed courses example of an approved project aftershocks which have relations to Haiti, however, participate in the text-a-thon,
or developing an independent is seniors Olivia Pan, David devastated 3 million Haitians are not as certain about what with parental permission of
project of their own. Gu, Eric Yun, and Sandy Kim’s and killed over 170,000, as the school is doing to help. course, to send ten dollars per
One of the popular Miniterm “Exploration of Durham’s of January 27th. This horror Marcela Torres-Cervantes, text to help relief efforts in
classes over the past two years Culture and Environment drew more attention to the fact a senior, said, “I think we’re Haiti.
has been instructor Charles through Photography” project, that Haiti is extremely poor joining Facebook groups, but Haiti’s earthquakes have
Roser’s Glassblowing course. in which they plan to take bike and will not be able to house, in all honesty, whatever we’re rattled the country on political,
Fortunately for students, the rides around Durham while care for, and feed its citizens doing is not enough.” social, and economic levels.
course capacity has doubled taking scenic photography of without outside aid. Chris McMahon, a senior, The country’s infrastructure
this year, from six students the things they see. The students of the North said, “I feel like the initial can only be rebuilt with a
to twelve students. In this What should juniors expect Carolina School of Science aspect of raising awareness combined international effort,
Miniterm students will be out of Miniterm? Most seniors and Mathematics, along with is there, but it’s missing any be it a nation’s government
taught by a skillful glassblower, come to the same conclusion, countless organizations and follow through for actual or a small science and math
Jonathon Davis, who has a that whether or not juniors countries around the world, relief.” school.
studio in Chapel Hill. They receive their first choice: make
will create various items out of the best of their experience.
glass, such as vases, marbles, “I think that it is just a
and beads, then introduce great time for students to not
intricate color patterns as a have a billion things to worry
final touch. about concerning academics,”
Of the 47 proposed courses senior Josh Chappell said. “It’s
seven involve travelling. The essentially one topic, with not
oldest travelling Miniterm a lot of homework and not the
currently is the one to Belize, added pressure to make an A.
which has been in the course I think the juniors should be
listing for over eight years. excited for Miniterm.”
The students travel with Myra In regards to Miniterm
Halpin and Leslie Brinson next year, Mr. Clayton has
to immerse themselves in a discredited the rumor that the
week’s worth of field research program will be cancelled. He
of the ecosystems in the nearby says that the Miniterm will
community. Not only do the remain as long as there is an Grand seniors Sunny Huang and Mark Linnville went to Atlantic Beach for Miniterm 2009.
students have to be capable interest in the student body. •Photo courtesy of Brooke Wolford

Soles4Souls to shoe the shoeless


By Ade Ilesanmi warehouses of footwear “Around Christmas I students and their friends and distributes shoes to over 125
companies and from donations thought it would be a good families donated 112 pairs of countries, including Kenya,
Junior Catherine Thriveni of people like the students and idea to organize one at NCSSM shoes. Because of an article Thailand, and Nepal, and
started a fundraiser at NCSSM faculty at NCSSM. so students could bring back about the drive written in her because of the devastation of
for the Soles4Souls program. Thriveni was first exposed to shoes after Christmas break hometown’s newspaper, The the recent earthquakes in Haiti,
As a result of her efforts, 185 Soles4Souls when shoe drives from friends and family. When Salisbury Post, she received large amounts of the donations
pairs of shoes were donated. were run for the organization I went home [again], I could donations from people in are being sent there.
For those not familiar with at her middle school. Upon deliver them to the warehouse Salisbury as well. She was able The organization also
Soles4Souls, it is an organization arrival, she decided to bring in Alabama,” said Thriveni. to ship a total of 185 shoes to welcomes donations from
based in Nashville, Tennessee the shoe drive to the NCSSM Her plan was nothing short Alabama with the help of her abroad.
that collects shoes from the as well. of a success, as NCSSM parents. Soles4Souls is open to
Though Thriveni did a lot of individuals, businesses,
the work on campus herself, she religious organizations, and
owes much of the program’s footwear industries. There are
success to the assistance of several different ways to get
her parents, close friends, the involved, including raising
school administration, and the money or traveling with the
internet. Soles4Souls crew. One can
“A lot of close friends also follow Thriveni’s example
donated. I worked with Kevin by organizing another shoe
Cromwell [, who] sent my drive.
emails, gave me advice, and What Thriveni wants more
helped in organization and than anything is for people to
advertising. I made a Facebook get involved, not only through
group, [too]. My parents were Soles4Souls, but through any
also really supportive; they avenues they can find to take
sponsored everything: all the action.
cardboard boxes, the trips from “I really encourage people
Durham to Salisbury, and the to take initiative, start drives
shipping,” explained Thriveni. and other community projects,”
Soles4Souls has four main she said. “Everyone wants to
locations: Nashville,Tennessee; get involved but just [doesn’t]
Roanoke, Alabama; Sheldon, have the opportunity to do so.
Iowa; and Las Vegas, Nevada. That’s why it’s important to be
Donations can be shipped to a leader.”
any of the four sites. The success of this
Interestingly enough, the year’s Soles4Souls drive has
Thriveni is collecting shoes from students at NCSSM to send to Soles4Souls, an organization that influence of the donations is persuaded Catherine Thriveni
ships shoes to people who need them, all over the world. •Photo courtesy of Dustin Burleson not limited to just the United to consider running another
States. In fact, Soles4Souls one next year.

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