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a great
coach
Video #3
Hey, its Christy again from the Quantum Success Coaching Academy I hope youre loving the
series so far.
In the last video, we started building our solid foundation for becoming a coach and
hopefully youre excited about the possibilities and are starting to envision yourself living a life
of purpose, freedom and abundance.
If you didnt get a chance to watch that video yet, I would recommend going and watching it first.
Okay, so in this video were going to take it to the next level, and I am going to share with you
three things.
1. The Top Ten Attributes of Successful Coaches: What do you need to already have
and what can you develop in order to really succeed as a coach.
2. 4 Formulas for coaching effectively
Just learning these 4 formulas alone, will make you a more effective coach, so be sure
to pay attention and take notes if you like. As a matter of fact, below this video is a
PDF learning sheet that you can download and use to follow along if you like.
3. Finally, were going to talk about some very important distinctions about
coaching that will set you apart from all the rest.
Well discuss the difference between:
ww Being a Coach VS
ww Being a therapist VS
ww being a friend with good advice.
Look, its really easy to fall into the trap of feeling like a therapist or friend and Ill show you how
to always be a life coach for your clients and how to draw boundaries and keep them.
This is a key distinction that most new coaches fail to grasp and their businesses and clients
suffer from it.
So, if youre ready
Then lets get right to it.
First, what are the ten attributes of being a great coach?
Being a Coach means taking on a very skilled role. The International Coach Federation also
has a comprehensive list of core competencies which they believe must be met for someone to
be called a Coach.
Coaching can be a very rewarding option for people. It is the ideal choice for people who:
1. Like to work with others
2. Desire to see people excel in their lives
3. Are prepared to let others do the talking
4. Have an open mind
5. Are creative in their thinking
6. Are prepared to be tough with people
7. Are prepared to be honest with people
8. Are enthusiastic and happy individuals
9. Have their lives well sorted in the areas they plan on coaching on.
10. Are interested in continuing to learn and grow
Formula #1 - Authenticity
To be an effective coach, the very first thing you have to do is start from that authentic part of
who you are.
Your own inner being is your primary tool for being a great coach.
Your inner being is that non-physical part of you that old, wise part of you.
When I start a coaching session, before I get on a call, I dont prepare anything.
I dont say, Okay, Im going to talk to them about this process and that process. I connect with
myself. I connect with my own inner being.
That way, I put myself aside and allow my authentic being to show up and be the guide, be
thecoach.
Thats when you are going to be your best coach when youre coming from your authentic being.
Your own strengths and skills, your own life experience and your own intuitive sense are enough
to make you a phenomenal coach.
Consultants and therapists are the experts.
And that is something that I really want you all to understand that there is a distinct difference
between coaching and consulting, or even therapy.
One of the key distinctions is that coaches dont need to know more than their clients do.
Let me say that againYou dont need to know more than your clients do.
Coaching is about listening to and responding to your clients, rather than advising or fixing your
clients.
So many coaches think, I need to fix the client.
I need to make it all better for the client.
You dont have to. Its not a coachs job.
Thats a therapists job; thats a consultants job; thats a psychiatrists job.
Its not a coachs job.
Being a coach:
ww Being with your client
ww Listening to your client
ww Giving sample sessions
ww being authentic
ww being open to outcome
ww trusting its working
ww holding the vision for your client
ww helping clients have a total vision of their lives instead of tunnel vision
Being an effective coach is much easier when you are being a coach instead of doing coaching.
Your authentic part of who you are is always present and available to the client when you are
being rather than doing. That is when coaching is not only effective, but fun.
So remember,
You are there to:
ww Create a safe space
ww Ask powerful questions
ww Listen to them
ww Guide them in creating their own solutions
ww BE their coach
If you follow these simple steps, your clients will:
ww See amazing results in their lives
ww Continue to want to be coached
ww Love you
ww And refer you to all of their friends
Okay, now lets talk about some very important distinctions for being a successful life coach vs
being a therapist, friend, consultant, or even supportive spouse.
Coach vs Therapist/Psychiatrist
ww Both relationships develop over time
ww Confidentiality is critical in both
ww The needs and wants of the client are the focus for both
ww There are professional ethics and standards for both
There are some additional important distinctions:
ww Coaching is not appropriate as front- line support for individuals suffering from
chronic depression, anxiety, neuroses or addictions.
ww Coaching clients are well individuals who have generally accepted their pasts and
have full focus on their present and future.
ww They are individuals who take responsibility, and they will benefit from accountability.
ww Therapists and psychiatrists work with clients who need professional help to work
towards healing, recovery and issue resolution.
ww Coaches work with clients who want a detached partner to help them evolve and
enhance theirlives.
Therapists are experts in medical and behavioral sciences, and they are trained to treat
diagnosable conditions like:
ww Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
ww Addiction
ww Depression
ww Bipolar Disorder
ww Other conditions
Coaches see their clients brilliance, strengths, and areas that are in need of improvement. They
are trained to support their clients as they achieve certain desired outcomes.
Therapists are required to keep their personal feelings and thoughts removed.
Coaches use personal disclosure as a tool to help and challenge their clients.
Coach vs Friend
Whats the difference between being a coach and being a friend?
A coach holds their clients accountable for what they want to create and achieve in their lives.
As a friend, it is great to support one another, but when you try to hold a friend accountable it
can bring problems to the relationship.
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Coaching is getting clients in touch with their own inner wisdom and power so they can
determine the right steps to take in their own lives.
Coaches dont give advice, whereas friends do.
Coach vs Consultant
Whats the difference between being a coach and being a consultant?
Consultants advise their clients about how to solve problems.
They say This is what you do and this is how you do it. This is the next step you have to take.
Coaches guide their clients to their own solutions by asking powerful questions so that the
clients allow their inner wisdom to come to the right solution for them.
Consultants are focused on results and what they can measure. They are hired to produce a
certain outcome.
Coaches are hired to support their clients as they achieve certain outcomes.
So, What kind of training do you need be a great coach?
ww Law
ww Education
ww Health care
ww Consulting
ww And others
ww Communications
There are as many types of coaches as there are people.
You already know much of what is required to be good at coaching.
This is where your life experience, business expertise, and people skills count for something.
You might think that it is too late to start a new career, but the beauty about being a coach is
that you can take your current skills and knowledge and put that into your coaching business.
We have many examples of students with very different backgrounds and took their past skills
and brought that into their successful coaching practices. (Julie was a high school teacher and
is now coaching parents and teens. I was a sales training manager and used those skills to create
group coaching programs. Mary was a real estate sales person and now coaches real estate
professionals.) The possibilities are endless and your current life experiences allow you to be
an amazing coach.
There are presently no formal requirements to be a coach and there is no government entity
federal or state that requires you to be licensed.
While no official guidelines exist, the profession is strong on self-governance and on maintaining
high ethical standards.
Formal education, such as college or graduate school, is helpful but NOT necessary.
Coach training, however, is essential in positioning yourself as a professional.
It also proves critical in your success as a practitioner in the business of coaching.
Certification is not required in order to begin coaching clients for a fee. Good training, however,
will show you multiple ways of engaging people in positive experiences that show you at your
best. Remember, what prospects and clients care about most is what you can do for them.
Getting a certification should not be just about the certificate you receive, but the proper training
in order to be effective as a coach with each client in every session that you have.
Some individual training organization and associations offer their own certifications. Each
varyin terms of time, fees, and examinations required.
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For some programs it can take years and quite an investment to get all the pieces in place.
Be sure the program you choose feels like the right fit for you.
Chances are you already know a great deal of what it takes to be a good coach.
There is also an equally good chance that there are some things that will hold you back, or stop
you altogether, without the proper instruction.
Consider a training program like the QSCA our next semester opens for registration nextweek.
Thats it for todays lesson and I hope you enjoyed it.
Lets review what we learned today. You learned:
1. The Top Ten Attributes of Successful Coaches: What do you need to already have
andwhat can you develop in order to really succeed as a coach
2. 4 Formulas for coaching effectively
3. Finally, we talked about some very important distinctions for being a successful
lifecoach.
Listen, Im committed to you creating an amazing coaching business and in the next video, were
going to talk about one of the most important steps to doing that.
Im going to share with you the secrets to getting your first client and finding clients that are
willing to pay you top dollar for your services.
You definitely want to see this next video. I promise.
As always, I would love your feedback below and I would love to know
What is the single biggest insight you got from this video and how this affected you?
Thanks for watching and Ill see you again in a couple days.