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First breath. First smile. First steps.
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November, 2015
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Reflections. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10
A big sister mentor gains much
New Jersey Ballet presents
Generation G.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11
Playing Monopoly on Shabbat
Cover Story . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
Chef Eitan Bernath makes Thanksgiving sweet
Top Choices . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15
Picks for November
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Gallery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17
Pictures of our youngsters
Calendar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18
Listings of things to do
Simchas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19
Marking the milestones
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About Our Children is designed to help Jewish families in our area live healthy, positive lives that make the most of
the resources available to them. By providing useful, current, accurate information, the publication aims to guide parents to essential information on faith, education, the arts, events, and child-raising in short, everything that todays
Jewish family, babies to grandparents, needs to live life to the fullest in northern New Jersey and Rockland County.
About Our Children is published 11 times a year by the New Jersey/Rockland Jewish Media Group,
1086 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 07666; telephone: 201-837-8818; fax: 201-833-4959.;
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Persistence
Persistence is about knowing what you
want and not stopping until you get it.
Remember Watty Pipers The Little Engine that Could? While the little blue
engine is the smallest of all the engines,
she is the only one who agrees to help
the dolls and toys over the mountain.
Though it is unclear whether such a
small engine can succeed, the engine
repeats to herself, I think I can. I think
I can. And eventually makes it to the
other side of the mountain.
It is just this persistence or perseverance that we need to teach our children.
When struggling, we need to push ourselves in order to reach our goal. Like all
non-cognitive skills, persistence cannot
be taught through a worksheet. As parents, we can be role models for our children and teach them that when things are
tough, they still need to keep trying. Setting our own goals (whether they are fitness, educational, or personal goals) and
then sharing our triumphs and failures
with our children will teach them that it
is okay to fail and then keep on working
towards a goal. Parents and educators
need to model persistence and encourage
second, third, and twentieth tries.
Grit
The truth is that you cannot teach curiosity. You can, however, model curiosity when your children are little by asking
your own questions and working with
them to look them up. You can also answer their questions, regardless of how
silly or frequent they are. These questions will get longer and more important
and as time goes on they will develop
skills to answer them themselves.
Self control
A famous study in the 1960s, often dubbed the marshmallow test,
tested children on their self control.
The very young children were handed a marshmallow and told that they
could get a second one if they waited
until the researcher came back in the
room in order to eat the first. Some
children ate the first right away and
did not receive a second, but others sang or talked to themselves in
order to avoid eating the marshmallow. Eventually, when the researcher
returned, those children received a second marshmallow. The researchers then
followed those children for the next several decades.
What the researchers found astounded them. Those children who
had managed to control themselves in
order to get the second marshmallow
had more successful marriages, careers,
and lives in general. The ability to con-
Self-confidence
Curiosity
Curiosity is about asking questions and
wanting to know how the world works.
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In a session that some have described as therapeutic, Ms. Breslow,
who has the students visit her at her
home which creates a warm, informal
environment plumbs their interests to
come up with a good essay idea, takes
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The essay has taken on a really,
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process, says Ms. Breslow. Just how
important the essay is, and how many
may be required in the admission to
several colleges, can become very
overwhelming.
Unfortunately, so many kids still
dont know how to write an essay.
When it comes to lessons for bar
or bat mitzvah or Judaic studies, Cantor Barbra Lieberstein visits her clients
weekly in their homes in Bergen or
Rockland. Her lessons, which focus on
learning Hebrew, prayers and other essentials for the bar and bat mitzvah, are
personal and tailored to each students
needs. With some 70 clients, Cantor Barbra Lieberstein will now send out some
of her trained staff to help prepare students, but when the event nears, she will
resume tutoring the students herself.
In addition to her bar and bat mitzvah training work, Cantor Lieberstein
also teaches Hebrew in small groups
from two to four people, usually clients
who are unaffiliated otherwise, but want
to have a religious education.
At Mathnasium in Teaneck students
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at center that concentrates on strengthening students math skills to mastery
and accommodates kindergartener-level
math through calculus, says Dan Karp,
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What distinguishes Mathnasium a
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Patricia Connelly: Test results should always be
discussed with a childs pediatrician or primary care
provider. However, a referral to an otolaryngologist
(ear, nose, throat doctor) is indicated when the hearing test results demonstrate any kind of hearing loss,
transient or permanent, if examination of the ear canals
reveals drainage, blood in the ear canal, excessive wax
build-up or a foreign body.
Donna Szabo: Children should always see an ENT
first who would recommend a hearing test. If they see
an audiologist first and hearing loss is detected then
they should be referred to an ENT. Some children who
get ear infections or swimmers ear should always be
referred to an ear specialist.
AOC: What are the most common hearing problems faced by the pediatric population?
Patricia Connelly: Persistent fluid in the middle
ear from allergies, ear infections or problems with the
adenoids, transient hearing loss from middle ear fluid.
Donna Szabo: Conductive hearing loss due to ear
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buds that are wired to limit the loudness
of the device. Insist on the use of hearing
protection earmuffs when participating
in activities with high noise levels, such
as when using gardening equipment
(mower, leaf blower, snow blower) or in
recreational activities (snowmobiling,
target shooting).
AOC: What is an acceptable level
of noise/music/sound to ensure that a
childs hearing is not compromised?
Patricia Connelly: When earphones
or ear buds are being used, the volume
should be set so that the listener can still
hear environmental sounds. This is not
only for hearing protection, but also for
personal protection and awareness of
whats going on around the child.
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Titanic: The Artifact Exhibition at The Liberty Science Center, opening Oct. 31, focuses on
the legendary RMS Titanics compelling human stories. It features more than 100 authentic artifacts set within replicas of cabins and other areas within the famous ill-fated ship.
Visitors will be drawn back in time to April 1912, when the ship embarked on its maiden
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The Jewish Museum will present The Power of Pictures Family Day, a fun-filled day of
activities, on Sunday, November 15 from noon to 4 p.m. Children can design vibrant
posters at a drop-in art workshop; create a surreal family portrait; rock out in Russian
and English with the band Lyagushki; and explore the power of the camera to capture
the world around us through gallery tours of the exhibition The Power of Pictures: Early
Soviet Photography, Early Soviet Film. This event, for children age 3 and up, is free with
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To Our Readers: This calendar is a day-by-day schedule of events. Although all information is as timely as we can make it, its a good idea to call to
verify details before you go.
DaybyDay
Sunday, November 1
Boo Zoo: At the Wildlife Conservation Society
Queens Zoo Boo at the Zoo will be 11 a.m. to
4 p.m. Highlights include face-painting, crafts,
pumpkin treats for the zoos animals and more.
For information, www.queenszoo.com.
Wandering Que: The famous Wandering Que
will be at Shomrei Torah, 19-10 Morlot Ave., Fair
Lawn from noon to 9 p.m. For information, www.
shomrei-torah.org/wandering.
Calling All Jewish Teen Girls: CTeen is hosting
the first program of the year. In addition to getting to meet the crew, the teens will be visiting a
senior home. The program is at 1 PM. It will be
at the Chabad Center, 194 Ratzer Road, Wayne.
At the kickoff event, in conjunction with Mitzvah
Day, CTeen will be visiting a senior center and
bringing joy to the seniors.
Monday, November 2
Naomi Miller Sings: The Wayne Y is holding a
special Lunch & Learn presentation at 12 pm.
The community is invited to hear Joan Limans
story of After Bad Things Happen to Good
People. Naomi Miller will sing musical excerpts
from her show, A LimanAde Life. Free. 1 Pike
Drive, Wayne, 973-595-0100.
Saturday, November 7
Bargains Galore at Beth Or: Rummage sale
sponsored by the synagogues Sisterhood offers
great deals for gently used clothing, jewelry,
shoes, toys and other items. 7 to 9:30 p.m. 56
Ridgewood Road, Township of Washington. 201664-7422, www.templebethornj.org.
Sunday, November 8
Bargains Galore at Beth Or: Rummage sale
sponsored by the synagogues Sisterhood offers
great deals for gently used clothing, jewelry,
shoes, toys and other items. 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. 56
Ridgewood Road, Township of Washington. 201664-7422. www.templebethornj.org.
Ralphs World: Experience Ralphs World, the
mega-fun musical planet where kids rock out to
high-energy tunes of Grammy nominated Ralph
Covert. For ages 3 to 8. 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
Scheuer Auditorium. The Jewish Museum, 1109
Fifth Ave, Manhattan. 212-423-3200, www.
thejewishmuseum.org
Friday, November 13
Sunday, November 15
BCHSJS The Moriah School:11 A.M. at 53
S .Woodland St., Englewood invites teens and
parents to hear Hussein Aboubakr share his connection to Israel as a former Muslim and Egyptian
prisoner, imprisoned for studying Hebrew He survived torture, his own family disowning him.
The Amit Chanukah boutique: from 1 to 5 p.m.
At Congregation AABJ&D in West Orange. If you
are a vendor or know someone who is interested
in participating, please call 973-669-8421
The Power of Pictures: The Jewish Museum
presents The Power of Pictures Family Day, from
noon to 4 p.m. Children can design vibrant posters at a drop-in art workshop, create a surreal
family portrait; rock out in Russian and English
and more. The Jewish Museum, 1109 Fifth Ave.,
Manhattan, 212-423-3200. www.thejewishmuseum.org.
Fall Boutique: Early Childhood Department
at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades holds its
annual Fall Boutique from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Also
on Monday, November 16, 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. All
proceeds benefit the Early Childhood special programs at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades, 411 E.
Clinton Ave., Tenafly. 201-408-1435
Tuesday, November 17
End the Anxiety: Rifka Schonfeld, director of
S.O.S presents Paul Foxman, author of The
Worried Child and Dancing With Fear at 8:45
a.m. to 4 p.m. Merkaz Hasimcha, 1898 Bay Ave.,
Brooklyn. Limited slots available. 718-382-5437
rifkaschonfeld@gmail.com
Wednesday, November 18
Asthma Awareness: Pulmonologist Dr. Steven
Kanengiser of The Valley Hospital leads the program on some of the latest asthma treatments
for children. From 7 to 8:30 p.m. Township of
Washington Public Library, 144 Woodfield Road,
Township of Washington. To register 1-800 8255391, www.valleyhealth.com/events.
Thursday, November 19
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Mind Your
Manners
Start early
Between the ages of 2 and 5, children are most receptive to learning
the rules of polite conduct. Begin with
developmentally appropriate manners
and expand your expectations as they
mature. Some courtesies such as saying,
Please and Thank You, staying seated during dinner and chewing with their
mouths closed are easy to understand.
Others such as greeting strangers, shaking hands or answering the telephone
may take more time to learn.
Offer incentives
One way to motivate children is to create a manners sticker chart. Focus on
one or two manners at a time and offer
stickers for desired behavior. When your
child has a good grasp on those, add
new ones to the chart.
lecturing him about what he isnt doing, offer positive reinforcement when
he does display good manners. Verbal
praise, a hug or a pat on the back goes
a long way, says Buker.
Riddell does this. When she joined
her son for a recent classroom party,
another mother privately pointed out
Nicholass well-mannered behavior.
He was sitting there with his
hands folded, quietly encouraging the
other kids to settle down, says Riddell. When the students got up to get
their food, I told him, You were being
good and doing what the teacher told
you to do. Im very proud of you. And
his face lit up.
Above all be consistent with rules
and expectations. And remember mind
your own Ps and Qs.
I think its important to live by
example because our kids are always
watching us, says Brown. Lately
when Zachary gets out of the car, hell
run to open the car door for me just
like his dad does. Then hell say,
Wasnt I a gentleman for you? And Ill
say, Yes you were. Thank you!
Denise Morrison Yearian is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the
mother of three children and grandmother
of four.
Act it out
Role-playing is a fun way to build social
confidence. Use play phones to teach
your child telephone etiquette. Let her
practice greeting and shaking hands with
her stuffed animals and dolls. Before
going out for a nice dinner, make a
special meal with good dishes at home.
Encourage your child to get dressed up
then play out the scenario so she knows
what to expect.
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Bnai mitzvah
SARAH BAKAL
Sarah Renee Bakal, daughter
of Miriam and Todd Bakal of
Upper Saddle River, celebrated becoming a bat mitzvah
on September 26 at Temple
Israel & Jewish Community
Center, Ridgewood.
CHLOE CHILDS
ETHAN CHILDS
Chloe and Ethan Childs, twins
of Hope and Kenny Childs
of Fair Lawn and siblings
of Ross and MacKenzie,
celebrated becoming bnai
mitzvah on September 5 at
the Fair Lawn Jewish Center/
Congregation Bnai Israel.
REBECCA FINKEL
JACK GOODMAN
OLIVIA FORNASIERI
Olivia Fornasieri, daughter of
Belinda and Steven Fornasieri
of Wyckoff and sister of
Leo, celebrated becoming
a bat mitzvah on October
3 at Temple Beth Rishon in
Wyckoff.
CASEY FROST
Casey Frost, daughter of
Laura and Jeff Frost of
Mahwah and sister of Megan,
celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on October 24
at Temple Beth Rishon in
Wyckoff.
KYLA GINSBERG
ALYSON COHEN
Alyson Cohen, daughter of
Laine and Todd Cohen of
Woodcliff Lake and sister of
Jenna, celebrated becoming
a bat mitzvah on October
24 at Temple Emanuel in
Woodcliff Lake.
ELIZABETH ESTEROW
Elizabeth Esterow, daughter
of Laura and Ken Esterow
of Wyckoff and sister of
Alison and Sarah, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on
October 10 at Temple Beth
Rishon in Wyckoff.
EDEN GLICK
Eden Glick, daughter of Lily
and Robert Glick of Closter,
celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on October 10 at
Temple Beth El of Northern
Valley in Closter.
JORDANA SINGER
JOSHUA SANDERS
NOAM GREENSTEIN
Noam Greenstein, son of
Ami Greenstein and Deborah
Rivel of Teaneck, and brother
of Yoni and Maya, celebrated
becoming a bar mitzvah on
October 17 at Congregation
Beth Sholom in Teaneck.
LUCRECIA KLEINMANN
Lucrecia Kleinmann, daughter of Veronique and Raphael
Kleinmann of Oakland and
sister of Leonora, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on
October 10 at the Fair Lawn
Jewish Center/Congregation
Bnai Israel.
ISABEL KOSSOY
Isabel Kossoy, daughter of
Julie and David Kossoy of Fair
Lawn and sister of Nathan
and Emma, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on
October 17 at the Fair Lawn
Jewish Center/Congregation
Bnai Israel.
JAMIE NASSAU
MELISSA REIFMAN
Melissa Reifman, daughter of
Robyn and Gary Reifman of
Upper Saddle River and sister
of Stephanie and Michael,
celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on October 3 at
Temple Emanuel in Woodcliff
Lake.
MAX STUPAK
Max Stupak, son of Ilysa and
Darren Stupak of Woodcliff
Lake and brother of Sarah,
celebrated becoming a bar
mitzvah on September 5 at
Temple Emanuel in Woodcliff
Lake.
DEREK SCHULMAN
Derek Schulman, son of
Heather and Glen Schulman
of Upper Saddle River and
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LILI PITKOWSKY
Lili Pitkowsky, daughter of
Rabbi Joel Pitkowsky and
Ingrid Goldfein of Teaneck,
and sister of Jonah, celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on October 24 at
Congregation Beth Sholom in
Teaneck.
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MAX FIHMA
Max Ross Fihma, son of Patty
and Larry Fihma of Woodcliff
Lake and brother of Sam,
Robin, and Allison, celebrated
becoming a bar mitzvah
on October 10 at Temple
Emanuel in Woodcliff Lake.
ANDREW PLEETER
Andrew Pleeter, son of Sandi
Pleeter of Ridgewood and
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