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JustBeYourself
OnMay8,2011byShark
Itsnosurprisethatbetamalesarelikecrabsinabarrelmisery,complacency,andsexualdementia
haveanuncannytasteforcompany.
Assoonasyoustarttryingtomakepositivechangestoyourself,thepeoplearoundyouwillreactinone
of2ways:
A)Iftheylikethechangetheywillaccommodateitandcommentonhowyouhavematuredorsee
thelight
B)Iftheydontlikethechange,ifthechangeconflictswiththeirownselfinterests,oriftheywould
simplypreferifyoustayedonthesameboatasthem(mostAFCs)theywillresentitandimmediately
resorttotheirJustBeYourselfplatitudes.
Inotherwords,ifyourfriendsareAFCsandyoutryandreversethevirginauracurrentlyomnipresentin
yoursemblanceofself,thereisa90%chancetheywillattempttoteardownyoureffortsbysayingshit
likeStoptryingsohardorStoptryingtobesomeoneyourenot.
Womenwillusethesametechniquetosubdueanytypeofbehaviorthatviolatestheirfeminine
imperative.Shamingispossiblythemostancientandeffectivefemalesocialconventiontodate.
FortunatelyIamheretellyouthatyouneedtoignoreyourdiseasedAFCfriendswhowhispervirgin
lullabiesintoyourears,masticatethespreadingtorrentoffeminismaroundyou,andnumbyourselfto
thesubcommunicationconstantlybeingmarketedtoyoubytheMatrix.
Menhavebeentoocomplacentwiththeirownsterilizationandtooquiteabouttheeverincreasing
vilificationofmasculinity.Evenabrontosauruswoulddrowninallthebullshitcoveringthesurfaceof
ourperceptions.ThenexttimeANYONEtriestoholdyoubackfrombeingabetterperson,whetherits
yourfriendswhotellyoufuckdoingworkoryourgirlfriendwhotellsyoustoptryingtobeall
masculine,shoveachiwawauptheirassandmakeamentalnotetoignorethemmoreoften.

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OnasidenoterememberthatchangemustbeSUBTLE,itmustbeINTERNAL.Ifyoutryand
forceyourdominanceonothersortryandextracttheirapprovalbywildlyswingingtheswordof
Alphaness,yourejustanotherpricktryingtoqualifyhimselfforattention.Womenareprofessionally
trainedintheartofexploitingOVERTmasculinebehavior.RememberSUBTLEpoweriskey.

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10ResponsestoJustBeYourself

Jaws
May8,20115:19pm
HeyIthinkyoushoulddoanarticleonantislutdefensehowyoutriggerithowtoavoidit
howtotearthoughitonceitstarts.InoticedthatIvebeentriggeringitalotafterfollowingadvice
fromsomeofyourarticles.
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John
May8,20116:11pm
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Heyshark.
Illstartoffbysayingyourpostsaregreat,youreallyhaveunpluggedme&mythoughtpattern
hasalreadydrasticallyimproved.
MyquestionregardsthefriendzoneIreadyourpostongettingoutofit,butwantedtogivea
morespecificexamplethatiwouldappreciatehelpwith.
Ivebeeninthefriendzoneforoverayear.
Afterreadingyourpostsiverealisedthativebeengoingaboutgettingherthecompletelywrong
way,andalthoughImnowcuredofOneitis(itwassurprisinglyeasy,yourwritingreallyis
effective)Idstillliketopursueherwiththisnewfoundstateofmindbasicallyonelastshot
beforeIcallitquits.
Myquestionis:
Isitworthtrying?&howwouldigoaboutdoingit?
Thanks.
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fiticent
May8,20119:05pm
hahahaloveit
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DontMatter
May8,20119:37pm
Yojohn,sharkwillprobablywriteanarticleonthis,buthereisaquicksuggestion.Donttryto
pursueher.Noreally.Forgetaboutherandbecomeinterestedinothergirls.Ifyouvebeeninthe
friendzoneforayearnow,shelldefinitelynoticeyourabsenceandlackofyoukissingherass.
Ifyouresincerlylookingatothergirls,whenshegetsincontactwithyouoryoutwoinevitably
endupmeeting,justgameasnormal.BeAlphanotBeta.Themostimportantthingto
rememberwhenyouregamingheristhattherearemanyotherhottergirlsoutthereIfindthis
especiallyimportantwhendealingwithgirlsthatyouwereinthefriendzonewithdontputup
withANYBULLSHITfromher.
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DontMatter
May8,20119:51pm
Alsoshark,Iwannagetyouradviceonsomething.Ivebeenfollowingyouradviceandyourblog
foralongtimenowalsoIwasalreadyworkingonimprovingmyself(inotherwordsunplugging
myselffromthematrix.
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Thethingisitsnowthenormformetobealpha,whichiskindaweirdbecauseIwassousedto
alwaysinternalizingandreenforcingconceptsthatIneededtounderstandandadopt.NowthatIve
internalizedalotoftheconceptsitsweirdbecausenowImjusthere.Imfollowingyourblogand
stillgrowingbutforthemostpartIdontfeeltheneedtoactuallygooutandenforcetheconcepts
anymore.ItsnaturalbutitfeelsunnaturalbecauseImsousedtotryingtointernalize,andthink
therightwayandapplyconsistentconcepts.
IamfollowingmydreamsandgunningdownwhatIwant(itsjustnaturalnow).Ifeeltheneedto
approacheveryhotgirl(becauseitswhatIdidtogrow),howeverIdontfeeltheneedtoapproach
thembecauseIknowImnotreallyinterestedinthemandnolongerneedtoconsciouslyapplythe
concepts.ItsmoreofifImgenuinelyinterestedIllgo.
HowdoItransitionintothismorenaturalalphaness?Letmeexplainfurther,itsnaturalbecauseI
donthavetothinkaboutitanymore,yetitsunnaturalbecauseimsousedtodrivingtheconcepts
,thinkingaboutthemandinternalizingmasculine,alphatraits.
ThanksBro
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bulgariBLACK
May9,20114:24am
First,anotheramazingarticle.Ifeelthatyouconsistentlycaptureandhelpyourreadersinternalize
yourmindfuckingrealitychecks.
Myonlyproblemis,whyhaventyoumadeaStopchoding,askaquestionheresectionforthe
site.Ithinkitsprettylamethatinsteadofcommentingontheactualarticleitself,everyonesjust
askingcompletelyunrelatedquestionsinthecommentsectionhopingtogetyoutowriteanarticle
onit.
Withthatbeingsaid,regardingthisarticle,Itoohavebeenintheprocessofanewlifestyleand
changingmyselfforthegreatergoodofmankind.Iveeliminatedthosepeopleinmylifewhowere
hating.Thatpickupshititstupid,thatsnotforme,yourealwaystryingtochange,beyourself,
whydontyoujuststop,yourefinehowyouare.WhileIagreethatsubtletyisthekey,Ialso
believethatunlessyoufullyenthrallyourselfinthechange,unlessyoutrulywantthedifference,
unlessyoucanabsolutelydemolishtheblocksofestrogenthatarewithinyou,youllfail.Iveread
TheSecretafterreadingabouthowhighlyyouspokeofit,andIcansaythataftertheeyeopening
information,itstrulyhelpedmemakethischange,notthechange,butthechangeofmindset
thatallowsmetopursuethischangewithanopenmind.
Thanksagainforeverything,youreafuckinggorilla.
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Samuel.
May9,20118:53am
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HeyShark,Letmefirstsay,thatyourpostingissomethingthatonlycanbeexpressedasmind
fuckingblowing.Thisisnotastatementnoraquestion,morearesultofmypersonalchangeby
readingthis.AlthoughIlovethisblog,thetoolsandwaysyouteachareveryverypowerful.Inmy
casetopowerfulIstartedtryingtoapplyeverythingfromthisblogintomyrelationship.Idonot
knowifIsimplychangedintoajerk,butmygirlfrienddevelopedaseverecaseofanorexia,
becausesheconstantlyfeltacertainpressurefromme.Inowfirstlyfeelreallyshittyaboutcausing
this,andsecondlyduetoheranorexia,sheconstantlyexperiencesmoodshiftsIthasruinedour
relationship,wearenowonabreakandaretryingtoworkitout.
peace.
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John
May9,20115:24pm
Anotherquestion:
WhatdoesbeingcharmingACTUALLYmean?Andhowoftenshouldyoucomplimentawoman?
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Brett
May9,20116:54pm
John..ionceheardsomeonesaybeingcharmingistreatingwomenlikelittlegirls.
Sharkinyouropinion,whatareafewpositivequalitiesthatnotmanywomenpossessthatmight
actuallymakeherworthyourwhileandkeepyouonyourtoesifyouranacrosssuchawoman.
whatdoyoulookforinthatraregirl.
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A
May23,201110:52pm
JBYishorribleadvice.Duh!Weallknowhowtobeourselves.Butforsomeofus,wehaveto
stepoutofthatinordertogetresults.IfjustbeingmyselfreliablygotmetheresultsIwanted,I
wouldntneedtheadviceinthefirstplace.
Notonlythat,butImsorry,butsayingthatJBYissomesortofcodephraseforbeingauthentic,
etc.,innothingbutacopout.Iftheadviceistobeauthentic(whichOTOHIhavenoproblem
with),thensay,Beauthentic.Dontmakeyouradviceanymoredifficulttofollowthanitneeds
tobe.
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