I dedicate to my children and my beloved husband who was lying ill.

Hope you get well my beloved husband, I miss you.................

I love you all, my husband, my children Said, and Sa'wa

Marriage

llah, the creator of heaven and earth. He made for you pair-mate from

your own kind, and from livestock species pairs (also). Made his breed

you that way. There is nothing like Him. And He is the Hearer, Seer.

“(Ash-Shura: 11)

Marriage, this is the will of God. So, his run with a sincere intention and pure.

How to Sakinah marriage? Mawadah and Rahmah. Mawadah physical

relationships and the Rahmah of the inner relations. Both should take a

coherent and harmonious.

Marriage is not merely united two people, men and women. There is a lot of

wisdom in a marriage. Not merely the distribution of libido sexual desire is

halal, or produces offspring. But also bringing together two differences that

strengthen the bonds of belonging, love, sacrifice, and responsibility.

Marriage is based on pure intentions will lead to the formation of a family

man who sakinah (calm), mawaddah (love-libido), and rahmah (love-love).

In this sacred relationship, the two beings permitted to conduct a legitimate

sexual relationships in the eyes of God and in the eyes of the law.

Islam gives such great attention to this marriage. Marriage in the eyes of

Islam, is a sacred bond between two subcultures great man: men and women.

Even mentioning Allaah as mitsaqan ghalizhan wedding or a very strong

agreement.

WIFE
"The best woman is your wife that if you look at her, it is makes you happy, if

you tell her, she was obedient, and if you're not there, she always keeps your

possessions and herself." (Narrated by Abu Dawud)

Indeed, if a woman willing to marry you, then she has entrusted her whole life

to you. Could you be trusted?

Every woman would dream of a happy marriage. Have a loving husband,

understanding, responsibility, could be a friend also a partner in running the

household ark.
What duties of a wife? First, a wife should obey her husband in all things,

without any laws against religion. Second, receive a weakness husband. Third,

wherever you go always ask permission of your husband. Fourth, giving

grateful husband.

The main conclusion of a wife's role to make the household atmosphere gives

happiness to the husband. Prophet Muhammad saw, describing that a good

wife is a wife who can please her husband when viewed, obey her husband

when ordered, and keep themselves, their wealth and their children if her

husband was not there. If we women are able to do that, it is the way heaven

for you.

Husband
What obligations of a husband for his wife?

First, provide maintenance to his wife, living in physical and spiritual. Second,

to treat his wife well, third, be gentle and patient with his wife, five, educating

families become pious family. Seems easy in theory, but very difficult when

execute.

The husband is the household leader, who led the wife and children.

Leadership is trust that will be required accountability.

Prophet Muhammad, said, "Fear Allah in taking care of a wife: for, they are

the trust for you. Whoever does not tell his wife to pray, that he has betrayed

Allah and His Messenger"

A wife is the fields of the most valuable. a place to plant the seed descent, also

a place to plant good deeds. The rights of the wife are fertile ground for the

husband to plant and harvest a lot of reward from Allah SWT.

WHEN YOU FALL IN LOVE

Great scholar, Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah, says that love has a few marks.

People who love each other will not betray each other, people who loves each

other will put a loved one, and people who love each other do not want to part

with his beloved.

"We do not see (way better) for two people who are in love than marriage"

(Narrated by Ibn Majah)

When you fall in love ... keep a sense of it .. do not you feel betrayed that

love. Have each other, sincere ties, sacrifice, and responsibility.