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for Parents
VIEWERS GUIDE
FOREWORD
These days more than ever, parents
need to be able to answer questions
and to give children information
about sexuality, especially since the
messages of movies, TV, and the
advertising industry can be
inaccurate and incomplete. Besides,
their values are probably not going
to reflect the values of your family.
Today, too, theres more at stake
with our childrens health. There are
more sexually transmitted diseases,
and some of them can be fatal. You
can help your child stay safe. The
information and advice provided in
the Sex Spelled Out programs and
viewers guide is designed for
parents. It can help you to:
ESTABLISH YOURSELF AS A SOURCE OF
VIEWERS GUIDE
TABLE OF CONTENTS:
PROGRAM 1- OVERVIEW.................................
PROGRAM
2 - PRESCHOOLERS ........................ 6
PROGRAM
3 - PRIMARIES................................ 10
PROGRAM
4 - INTERMEDIATES........................ 12
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facts, make sure you get to them early. (Many kids hear
about the stork early, in movies and cartoons, so its
never too soon to start).
Thats fine;
you never have to if you dont want to. Sex is for adults,
not kids.
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BREASTS
PUBIC HAIR
.Comes in all different colours, often the same
colour as hair on the head.
.Does not necessarily grow in a neat triangle.
TESTICLES
PENISES
GOOD HYGIENE
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WEIGHT GAIN
In a grade 5 class:
Meg: Boys get wet dreams, what do
girls get?
Kids: Dry dreams.
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ADDITIONAL RESOURCES
The resources listed below can help parents and
their children learn what can be expected in growth
and sexual development. Most of the books should
be available at your public library.
For Parents
Cappello, Dominic, and Schwartz, Pepper, Ph.D.
Ten Talks Parents Must Have with the Children
About Sex and Character. Hyperion, 2000.
Intended for parents of children in grades 4 through
12. Developed to help parents and children talk
about sexuality and building character. Topics
include safety, character, peer pressure, ethics, the
Internet, and the media.
Gordon, Sol, Ph.D., and Gordon, Judith, M.S.W.
Raising A Child Responsibly in a Sexually
Permissive World. Second Edition. Adams Media
Corporation, 1999.
This book provides practical information for
parents to discuss sexuality issues with their
children.
Hickling, Meg, C.M., O.B.C., LL.D. (Hon.). More
Speaking of Sex: What Your Children Need to
Know and When They Need to Know It.
Northstone Publishing Inc., 1999.
This book provides practical, age-appropriate
suggestions for parents and caregivers to discuss
sexuality issues with their children.
For Children
Brown, Laurie & Marc. Whats the Big Secret?:
Talking about Sex with Boys and Girls. Little,
Brown & Co, 2000.
This colourful, illustrated book for children
presents information and answers about sexuality.
A great book for ages 3 to 10 years.
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For Adolescents
Bourgeois, Paulette and Martin Wolfish, M.D.
Changes in You & Me: A Book About Puberty
Mostly for Girls. Key Porter, 2002. Also Changes
in You & Me: A Book About Puberty Mostly for
Boys. Yankee Publishing, 2002.
Colourful, factual account of puberty filled with
diagrams and transparent overlays. For ages 9 and
up.
Drill, Esther, McDonald, Heather and Odes,
Rebecca. Deal With It! A Whole New Approach
to your Body, Brain, and Life as a gURL. Pocket
Books, 1999.
This book is intended to help teenage girls learn
and laugh as they go through adolescence.
Harris, Robie. Its Perfectly Normal: Changing
Bodies, Growing Up, Sex and Sexual Health.
Candlewick, 1996.
A comprehensive book on puberty and sexual
health for young people. This book has marvellous
illustrations and is suitable for ages 10 and up.
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WEB SITES
Parents may also wish to review the Web sites
listed below for adolescents. Some of the Web sites
may include explicit information.
For Parents
National Parent Information Centre
Research-based information on parenting and
family involvement in education
http://www.npin.org
Options for Sexual Health
Provides great resources on educating your
children (and yourselves) about reproductive health
and sexuality
http://www.optionsforsexualhealth.org
Talking with Kids about Tough Issues
A national initiative to encourage parents to talk
with their children earlier and more often about
issues like sex, HIV/AIDS, violence, alcohol, and
drug use.
www.talkingwithkids.org
For Adolescents
Condomania
Information and education about safer sex
http://www.condomania.com
gURL
Information on issues that affect the lives of girls
13 years of age and older
http://www.gurl.com
Iwannaknow
A safe and fun place for teenagers to learn about
sexual health and for parents to receive guidance
http://www.iwannaknow.org
SEX, ETC.
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CONTRIBUTORS
Sex Spelled Out for Parents Programs
Meg Hickling, R.N., Sexual Health Educator
Elaine Gans, Carson Street Productions Ltd.,
Producer
Learners Guide
Shari Graydon, Writer
Dawn Rae Downton, Ph.D., Editor
Elaine Gans, Editor
Faye Bebb, R.N., B.S.N., Researcher
Advisory Committee
Margaret Arcus, Ph.D.
Joyce Branscombe, Ph.D.
Jane Carnahan-Schultz, R.N.
Marion Cook
Dawn Rae Downton, Ph.D.
Anne Fuller, R.N., M.S.N.
Ann Little, R.N., B.Sc.N.
Carol Matusicky, Ph.D.
Dorothy Shaw, M.B. Ch.B. F.R.C.S.C.
Cathy Stewart, R.N.,B.N.
Brenda Tamke, R.N.,M.B.A.,M.S.
Project Sponsors
BC Council for Families
BC Ministry for Children and Families
Health Canadas Community Action Program for
Children
Options for Sexual Health
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