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In Junior High, our daughter was not permitted to use the girls restroom or locker room or to participate
in girls sports. As a result, she was bullied on a daily basis. The emotional toll this took on her broke our
heart and we vowed to do all we could to ensure she never had to endure this kind of abuse in High
School.
We knew that a big factor in whether our daughter would be fully accepted by her peers was whether the
High School would treat her as a girl in all respects. If she was segregated, forced to use separate
facilities, it would signal to others that it was acceptable to treat her differently. To ensure our daughter
would not be discriminated against, we legally changed her name, obtained a passport which correctly
identified her gender as female, submitted medical records to the District which demonstrated she had
been diagnosed with gender dysphoria and was receiving treatment for it including hormone injections.
Despite the overwhelming evidence that my daughter is a girl, the institution that is charged with
educating and enlightening our children, was only concerned with her body. The District therefore did not
allow her in the girls locker room and instead felt compelled to discipline her on several occasions after
she did, in fact, dare to use the same facilities as every other girl. The result was devastating to her there
were times she was inconsolable and all we could do was hold her and tell her that we loved her and
would continue to advocate on her behalf.
After four months of meeting with the administration, it is the District that left us no other remedy but to
file a complaint with the Department of Education with the help of the ACLU of Illinois. Despite the
Districts best efforts to frame the OCRs findings as big governments attempt to regulate at the local
level, it is the District that has trampled on the rights of our daughter. The fact that Superintendent Cates
has the nerve to state hes being bullied into complying with the law shows he has absolutely no
sensitivity or compassion for what my daughter or any other transgender youth in the District has suffered
under his policies. It is simply reprehensible and the lowest form of political posturing.
The fact that neighboring school districts have managed to grant transgender youth access to the locker
rooms which correspond with their gender identity without any issues only serves to highlight that District
211s stated concerns are mere subterfuge for discrimination. The only real fear is that which my daughter
faces now and probably will for the rest of her life fear that she will never be truly accepted by society,
fear that she will never get married and have a family and, most concerning, fear that she will be harmed
by people who are threatened by her very existence.
Some of the opinions and comments on this case have been hurtful and difficult to read; still, we are
pleased that the issue is in the public discourse. We are hopeful that those with open minds and hearts will
come to a place of acceptance. And we are thankful for the courageous voices of those who came before
us and those who stand beside us in this journey for justice. And while our daughter will continue to
remain anonymous for now, she is well-represented by the thousands of transgender youth who are
fighting for the right to live their true authentic selves.
Issue(s): LGBT Rights
http://www.aclu-il.org/our-child-is-a-girl/
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