His 9 Pleasure Triggers

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Mar 7, 2008

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As you know, the male body is a hotbed of feel-good zones. But now experts are
saying there are nine special spots that you should know about when it comes to
sexual gratification. We're talking about passion points that even he may not even
know about. "These are places on his body that are literal hot spots, loaded with
supersensitive nerve endings that instantly rev him up when stimulated," explains
Patti Britton, PhD, Los Angeles-based clinical sexologist and author of the The
Complete Idiot's Guide to Sensual Massage. Here, check out our guide to those nine

naughty triggers, as well as the specific lick, squeeze and stroke technique for each
that will send him into orgasmic overdrive.
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The Outside of His Lower Lip

The male mouth is an obvious hot zone. But zeroing in on that slope between his
outside lower lip and chin will bring ultraintense bliss to his kisser. We've discovered
that this tiny, delicate curve is packed with extrasensitive nerve receptors, says Lou
Paget, author of The Big O and a certified sex educator.
Manhandle-him move: While making out, suck his lower lip into your mouth. Use
the tip of your tongue to stroke up and down mere millimeters below it. "That motion
stimulates the whole erogenous zone in a teasing way, which will put him on the
erotic edge," says Paget. "And by keeping his lower lip inside yours, you magnify the
sensation. It'll feel as if electric currents are shooting from his mouth straight to his
member."
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The Front of His Neck

Women tend to pay oral attention to the sides of his neck between his ear and his
collar but it turns out they're missing the major stimulation spot: just below his
Adam's apple. "The thyroid, a butterfly-shaped gland about halfway down the front
of his neck, is closely linked to the sex organs, according to ancient Chinese
medicine," says reflexologist Master Mantak Chia, author of Sexual Reflexology.
Manhandle-him move: Have your guy lie on his back with a pillow plumped
behind his head so his neck is exposed and slightly arched forward. Warm him up by
brushing your wet lips against the hollow of his throat. Next, run the soft flat of your
tongue straight up until you're licking his Adam's apple. The thyroid is just beneath
it; dip down and pause here and massage the area in wide circular motions with your
tongue. "Teasing him in circles ensures that you excite the entire thyroid, so he gets
maximum pleasure," says Chia. He'll be so hot and bothered, he'll gurgle your name
in gratitude.

His Nipples
You know that your nipples are a carnal command center. Yet experts found your
guy's headlights might be even more sensitive, since most men aren't used to having
these sexy switches lavished with attention. "For a lot of men, their nipples are
uncharted territory an erogenous zone they haven't experimented with," explains
Britton. Touch them, however, and you'll send shock waves of pleasure radiating
through him, she adds.
Manhandle-him move: Our ultimate manipulation trick is called the ice cream
swirl. While he's stretched out on his back, "slowly lick in a circle starting outside his
areola, circling closer toward the nipple as you would an ice cream cone," says
Britton. Keep tantalizing him by zeroing in closer with your tongue. Finally, quickly
flick the nipple, then very gently bite it. "Men love when you slowly build up the
pressure like that," she says. So don't be afraid to nip him harder than you would like
to be.
To up the erotic ante, suck on an ice cube before you begin. Your cold tongue will
supercharge the concentrated cluster of nipple nerve endings.

The Dip Under His Ankle

Halfway between his heel and ankle bone is a fingertip-size pressure point that we've
learned has enormous passion potential, explains Laura Norman, author of Feet
First. "This spot is linked to the sex organs," says Norman. "Pressing it releases
energy, producing feelings of pleasure."
Manhandle-him move: Do the deed in the reverse girl-on-top position, so you
face his feet. As you sense your guy is getting close to climax, reach forward, grab his
ankles and pulse each pressure point in rhythm with your thrusts. He'll blow a gasket
in seconds...and playing footsie will never be the same.

His Perineum
Most men are shy about guiding you to this patch of skin just past his family jewels.
But beneath it is his prostate gland an organ with major orgasmic power. "A few
soft strokes here will bring him to the brink," says Tracey Cox, author of Supersex.
Manhandle-him move: Before he enters you in the missionary position, reach
between his legs and lightly tease his entire package. "When your hand is behind his
testicles, press your knuckles gently into the smooth flesh," says Cox. Your naughty
kneading will bliss him out. Then, knock boots and knead him at the same time.
When he's ready to hit the roof, push your knuckles deeper it'll extend his orgasm,
adds Cox.

His Shaft
Any nooky novice can make a man sweat by manipulating his entire love muscle. But
carnal connoisseurs now know that one specific member-only move on a certain
stretch of his little soldier is so scorching, it'll set his desire on fire.
Manhandle-him move: Have your man lie on his back comfortably, then sit
between his outstretched legs, facing him. Make two tight rings around his penis with
the thumb and index finger of both your hands, placing the rings one on top of the
other in the middle of his shaft. Slide the rings in opposite directions, going back and
forth from the base to the head simultaneously. "This is a torrid twist on the usual
one-handed up-and-down motion," says Cox. "He'll feel incredible friction, especially
if you start off torturously slow, building up speed as he gets more and more pumped
and then slowing down to keep him in a holding pattern." To make this move even
more mind-blowing, squirt some lubricant into your hand.
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The Head of His Penis

With more pleasure receptors than any other part of his package, this tip of the
amorous iceberg is the nexus of male sex nerves. But it's tricky to get the right level of
pressure so you send him soaring into ecstasy, not recoiling in sensory overload, says
Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex.
Manhandle-him move: Try the "lipstick" trick: With your man lying back and his
penis stiffly pointing skyward, hold the base with your fingers (not in a fist) to steady

him. Brush your closed yet relaxed lips against his head, rubbing it across your wet
mouth as if you were applying lipstick. "Heighten the sensation by opening your lips
a bit, rubbing his head between them," advises Keesling. Occasionally take the whole
head in your mouth, then go back to rubbing the tip against your lips. He'll feel like
he's getting a tighter, wetter version of nooky. Plus, he can watch you work him over
a toe-curling treat for him.
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The Seam of His Testicles

You know that crinkly crease that separates his boys? Well, it turns out this seam has
more passion-packing ability than we thought. "This nerve-rich pleasure trail runs
top to bottom along his scrotum," explains Cox. "It isn't touched as often as it should
be because not many women or men think of it as worthy of attention."

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Manhandle-him move: To steam up his seam, you have to take the initiative. But
tread lightly, since the area is so sensitive. Cradle his family jewels in one hand, then
gently press the first two fingertips of your other hand into the top of the crease
(close to where the testicles connect to the base of the penis). Trace downward with
both fingers until you reach the bottom of his scrotum. While still toying with his
twins, run your fingers back up again. "The two types of in-sync stimulation will
really rouse him," says Cox. "He'll never let you get away with overlooking this lusty
line again."

His Frenulum
The F Spot refers to that tiny knob of flesh underneath the crown of his penis, where
the head connects to the shaft. Because it's off the beaten passion path, it doesn't get
much amorous attention. But erotic experts and desire divas alike now consider it the
booty bull's-eye. "A bundle of nerves meet at this point, so when you touch it, you set
off an amazing chain reaction of rapture," says Britton.
Manhandle-him move: This frenulum-friendly maneuver will really flip his
switch. While holding his penis steady at the base with one hand, slowly circle your
tongue around the crown. Each time you reach his frenulum, give it a few fast flicks
with just the stiff tip of your tongue, then return to licking the crown. At the same
time, work your hand up and down his shaft. He'll respond with a tsunami of moans
and groans...followed by an out-of-this-world climax that's liable to wake the
neighbors.
Hands-on. Use your fingertips to trace tiny circles in the center of his palm, then
widen them out to the edges of his hand.
Face trace. As the back of his head rests on a cushion, place two fingers on each
temple, gently pressing both sides simultaneously.
Back track. With his shirt off, knead the area where his butt meets his spine,
pushing firmly into his flesh with each stroke.