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Gifting Options
Unless you get a thrill out of bumping shoulders
with a zillion strangers at mega-sales, shopping for
Christmas gifts just may not be your cup of tea. Join the
club. Many people put it off until the last minute for several
reasons. You may be low on dough, dreading the
decisions, or fear hearing the song, Santa Baby played
over and over on the mall intercom.
First of all, the most meaningful gifts will come from your
heart, wether they are wrapped in paper or wrapped in
sincerity. Dont pretend to be wealthy to impress anyone.
Dont pay for everything with plastic just to postpone
the head aches. Be truthful to yourself and your family.
You may only be able to afford sharing a dream with
someone you love, yet how meaningful that could be.
What I mean is, sometimes I will share with my wife that
I would love to build her the kitchen of her dreams
Perhaps someday, should God bless us with the extra
income. And she may say to me, I would buy you a
Jeep if I had the money too. We dont get depressed
over what we dont have. But knowing that we can share
each others dreams and make them future goals,
strengthens our marriage.
If you are able, make the children your priority. Get them
things that they need. If you dont have the funds, check
with the local charities early so that you can wrap the
gifts and have them ready for your family party. If you
dont have a local charity that can help, dont hesitate to
write, call or e-mail a reputable ministry. Remember, the
son of God depended on the kindness of strangers too
(Matt 25:34-36, Matt 25:40). Do not feel ashamed for
relying on charity now and then. Most everyone
experiences times when ends are hard to meet.
Trading can often work as well. If you can offer a service
in payment for something you desire to give, that is not
as uncommon as you may think. Perhaps you could detail
a few vehicles for a local car dealer in exchange for a
windshield installed in your mothers pickup. You get the
idea. Or if you have a few extra bucks, but not much
time, shop by catalog. And, local merchants who know
you by name, may extend a little credit to you with no
interest if you just ask.
Be Truthful.
If you are just not prepared to meet Christmas
head on with Jingle Bells and the whole
shmear, dont hide it from friends and family. Let them
know that this year may be a bit different. You may not
be able to abide by everyones wishes. You will be
trimming costs and taking time to do other things not
on the itinerary. Truth will reduce the pressure and you
will not have to work overtime to prove anything to
anyone. (John 8:32 & 36, 2 Cor 5:9-10, Gal 1:10, ) Just,
dont forsake a time of worship and thanks in your local
church. I have found that the times when I least want to
go to the church and I go anyway, are the times when
God has a special blessing waiting for me there. A brother
or sister in Gods family may approach you with words of
Jesus Understands.
Though Jesus was the sinless son of God,
he had days when it was a physical, mental or emotional
challenge to make it through. He was known to go to a
quite place and regroup now and then. He honored the
customs of the day to the best of his ability and
understood the needs of those who surrounded him.
(Heb 4:15-16) Yet He too relied on guidance from his
Father during times of great trial.
As Christians, each day is part of a greater journey. Each
day is a bridge closer to fulfilling Gods will in our life. We
must not degrade anyone as being a Scrooge when
they are not full of Christmas Cheer. And if you need to
take a detour from the traditional Christmas pageantry,
do not feel guilty about it. Guilt is the major tool Satan
will use to turn your heart towards despair. Jesus can
relate to your circumstance and offers you hope, not
frustration. Rest in the promises of our Lord. Only he can
satisfy our soul. (Ps 37:4, John 10:10)
This pamphlet is dedicated to my many friends who struggle with the expectations of a secular
Christmas. God bless you as you grow in His grace.
Special thanks to Chaplain, Tom Hammond for scripture research.
Copyright 2006 NewPage Publishing
(Permission to reproduce this pamphlet is granted for non profit ministry only)
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