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Rent-Boys, Barflies, and Kept Men: Men Involved in Sex with Men for
Compensation in Prague
Timothy M. Hall
Sexualities 2007 10: 457
DOI: 10.1177/1363460707080983
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Timothy M. Hall
University of California, USA
Copyright 2007 SAGE Publications (London, Thousand Oaks, CA and New Delhi)
Vol 10(4): 457472 DOI: 10.1177/1363460707080983
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men prefer to play the aktivn and others the pasivn role in anal sex
(Prokopk, 2001), they elaborate this distinction much less than some
other cultures. Likewise, interviews with gay tourists in Prague failed to
elicit consistent representations of Czech men as either hypermasculine or
particularly feminine (or predominantly tops or bottoms); instead they
were contrasted favorably with Western gay men in terms such as uninhibited, unpretentious, and friendly. Western tourists perceive the
image projected in locally produced (and internationally marketed and
financed) gay pornography as a polymorphous (Bunzl, 2000: 8590) and
natural pansexuality (Quin, 2005).
This international marketing as a sexual paradise by both local and
foreign enterprises has profoundly shaped the economics and social structure of gay life in the Czech Republic. Alongside the significant heterosexual sex industry in Prague and the border towns, Prague has an
extensive homosexual commercial sex scene with many gradations:
cruising grounds, penzione for tourists looking for rent-boys, strip clubs
and saunas. (Many English-speaking expatriates and tourists throughout
Europe use the term rent-boy to describe males who engage in compensated sex and guidebooks often refer to availability of rent-boys or escorts
at particular venues.) Gay Praguers are frequently reminded of the
presence, money, and activities of Western tourists, and a spectrum of
commercial sex activities paralleling and intersecting mainstream gay bars,
cafs, and discos.
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lives of young men selling sex in Prague in the 1990s. His films focus on
the least empowered of Czech males engaged in sex work: often fleeing
abusive homes; exposed to violence from rivals, pimps, and clients; eventually hooked on hard drugs and sometimes contracting HIV. There is a
different story to tell regarding heterosexually-identified students or
young men during their military service who engaged in occasional sex
with men for spending money. None of these groups have much contact
with the mainstream gay scenes in Prague except through a handful of
establishments (bars and guest-houses) oriented towards homosexual
commercial sex. In his essay on gay Austrian tourists who visit Prague
looking for sexual encounters with young Czech men, Bunzl (2000)
describes and interrogates the Orientalist views of many Germanophone
tourists in Central Europe.1
The present article tells a different set of stories: those of young Czech
men who identify as gay and see themselves as part of the gay community
and who also engage in various forms of sex for compensation. This article
describes various strategies used by men who engage in sex for compensation, some ways that young gay men become involved in it, how they
represent themselves and their activities, and some of the problems they
face. It thus aims to fill an important gap in our understanding of gay
males who exchange sexual services for various forms of compensation by
blurring the lines between sex work unitarily conceived and more
nuanced forms of compensated sex (Agustn, 2005a).
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Case studies
Discussions of commercial sex often ignore the fact that people engage in
sexual acts for many reasons: gratitude, pity, admiration, or affection;
desire for security or companionship; to make someone jealous, enact
revenge, or outdo a rival; to obtain payment or a favor none of which
entail or exclude sexual desire and pleasure. Some interactions (especially
with foreigners and tourists, who are perceived to be wealthier than most
locals) are entered into partly because of financial considerations but may
be leavened with a mixture of romantic ideas on both sides (cf. Brennan,
2004; Kempadoo, 2004). Often these exchanges are expressed as gifts and
friendliness rather than quid pro quo transactions. One unanticipated
finding from a demographic survey I distributed was that a number of
young men who admitted to having sex for money also reported having
paid others for sex.3 Like Robert, they may participate as consumer or
seller of sex depending on their finances and their desires at a given time.
Others view some regular clients as a sort of friend, and in some cases
progress to the point where a client or potential client becomes a
boyfriend. As recent studies of women who engage in commercial sex have
increasingly noted, many only do so occasionally, either to supplement
income from other sources or to support themselves between other jobs;
often they see sex work neither as a defining feature of their identities
nor as a long-term or full-time career (Agustn, 2005b, Keough, 2003).
Similarly, many Prague men who on some occasions engage in commercial
sex may at other times serve as unofficial tour guides, interpreters, or as
intermediaries in finding and negotiating for sex with others.
All this makes it difficult to define commercial sex or who counts as a
participant within the Prague gay scene, as much of it occupies a spectrum
of contestability: time-limited, framed as a gift, occurring within a
relationship with financial benefits. Though some who engage in sex work
full time or nearly so, as Petr (described later) has come to do, may
acknowledge a status as prostitute, most do not. (None of my informants used the term sex worker. When speaking English, Czechs tend to
say prostitute or bitch; in Czech, the colloquial term is lapka,
roughly streetwalker.) Both the commonness of commercial sex and its
relatively fluid boundaries generate an anxiety among many men on the
Czech gay scenes, and a need to draw lines locating the pale of acceptable
behavior somewhere beyond ones own actions. While Czech society
generally holds tolerant attitudes towards private sexual behavior (Hall,
2003), compensated sex and particularly the explicit exchange of sex for
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money, though legal, are marked rather than unmarked forms of sex.4
Most of my informants involved in sex for compensation strove to represent themselves in the least stigmatized light possible when interacting
with their mainstream peers. Some openly denied past engagement in
commercial sex if the subject arose, while others presented themselves as
having participated in less potentially stigmatizing activities such as go-go
dancing or stripping, but not having exchanged sex for money (Morrison
and Whitehead, 2005; cf. Salamon, 1989).
The cases that follow demonstrate three strategies of sex for compensation: the barfly, sex for pocket money, and the kept man. These forms
are neither exhaustive nor exclusive, nor do they represent distinct types
of persons, but they sketch out the variety of behaviors between explicit
sex-for-money transactions and romantic/sexual interactions construed
by all involved as non-commercial. Though these are not clearly defined
emic categories, I argue that many persons on the gay scenes implicitly
recognized them. The barfly strategy and sex for pocket money are
effective ways of resisting identification as a sex worker, the one because
it is (initially) occasional, and the other because sex, when it occurs, is
bound up in multiple exchanges of services (such as interpreting) for gifts
(such as drinks). Similarly, men on the gay scene do not usually use a single
word or phrase to identify relationships that they consider to be heavily
influenced by one partners financial advantages, but they often comment
on these obliquely: Of course, Jardas bringing his new boy, where
everyone knows that Jarda, a successful Czech businessman in his 50s, is
dating a different blond in his 20s every few months. Friends and
acquaintances are generally discreet regarding longer term relationships
with obvious disparities in finances and age or attractiveness; however,
when problems such as infidelities or monetary conflicts occur, they are
quick to invoke the basic inequality of the relationship (implying a less
solid emotional foundation) as explanation.
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Three years later, Robert is in his mid-20s and again living at home in
the village, renting from his parents and working in construction nearby.
When business is slow, he comes to Prague. He still visits his German
acquaintances when he needs cash, either sleeping with them for money
or gifts, or acting as a mediator when they want to solicit Czechs who do
not speak German. When I visited him and his family in 2006, he was
again smoking marijuana regularly; at least two dealers in the village now
supply harder drugs, and he and several heterosexual friends take pervitin
when they can afford it.
Robert expresses mixed feelings about his previous activities. He says
that he was happier when he was younger because he was more desirable,
Everyone wanted me then, men and girls. On the other hand, his work
gives him a local identity as a man: even though he is often disruptive and
undisciplined, his faults are viewed as masculine faults and his family
accord him much more respect than before. Though Robert has no moral
qualms about commercial sex as such, he distinguishes among different
forms of involvement in it. When I recently asked about his former schoolmate, for instance, he replied with a mixture of contempt and jealousy,
Radims in Prague these days sucking cocks for cash. Radim identifies as
heterosexual and was living with an older girlfriend in Prague before she
broke up with him; now he spends most of his time in gay clubs with
clients. Robert feels that Radim is motivated by laziness and drugs rather
than sexual desire, whereas he himself engaged in compensated sex both
with his preferred gender and in a more occasional way.
Robert demonstrates a mixed repertoire that blurs the lines between
what is locally recognized as commercial sex and other forms of sexual and
economic relationships. Though he has, on occasion, exchanged sexual
favors for money, he more often tries to find some other approach. Robert
prefers to trade his companionship, interpreting abilities, and youthful
charms for money or favors without usually engaging in sex. He attaches
himself to an older partner who will subsidize him, put him up for a night
(or longer), or buy him drinks, and persuades former lovers or new
acquaintances to lend him the money for a bus ticket home on Monday
morning. Occasionally he even pays it back. This mixed, partial, and
variable engagement with sex for compensation allows Robert to present
himself convincingly on the gay scene as an amiable opportunist rather
than as dependent on commercial sex (in contrast to his former friend
Radim, or to Petr, described next).
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he was then madly in love. Petr was an incorrigible flirt with a penchant
for older men and a large circle of casual acquaintances. He came from a
middle-class family and was attending a college preparatory school
(gymnzium), though he had no concrete plans to attend university.
Like most Czech students, Petr and most of his friends were
chronically short of cash when I first knew them. Often I would see them
together at the main gay disco, discreetly passing around a bottle of wine
that they smuggled into the club to save money on drinks. A few months
later, however, the situation changed. Petr had found a new friend,
Zdenek a few years older than most of the boys in the group and always
dressed in provocative clothing: tight-fitting, often sleeveless shirts and
tight pants, and with bleached hair. After Zdenek joined their group, I
saw them much less often in the mainstream bars. When I did encounter
them, they were evasive about where they had been. Suddenly they had
money not only to buy their own drinks, but new mobile phones and
new clothing as well. I would sometimes see Petr later in the evening
with men who were clearly clients Germans, Britons and Americans in
their 40s and 50s. As the months passed by, Petr spent more and more
time in his new role and less and less time with his old friends. When I
pressed him on the matter, he seemed embarrassed but explained, You
know I like older men anyway. Its not hard for me to go on a date with
someone like that. His former friends who had not followed him into
sex work expressed disappointment and dismay when they talked about
Petr. As his former boyfriend told me, I didnt want to believe it about
him at first. He comes from a good family and I dont understand why
he does this. He doesnt need the money.
When I left the field two years later, Petr was still in school (and now
spoke excellent English and German, practiced with his many clients),
though he had not yet matriculated at university. He continued to live at
home with his parents who appeared unaware of his activities. By that
point, however, he had largely discarded his former modesty about his
source of income while among his peers. He was bragging to his schoolmates about getting money from tourists in return for sex, and he had not
held any other jobs. Petr was quite visible in his involvement in sex work
and would likely be unable to hide his past should he choose a more
conventional gay lifestyle. However, like most of the young men in similar
positions whom I interviewed, he has no clear plans or aspirations for
other work when his career as a rent-boy comes to an end.
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know him as a younger Czech man with an older and much wealthier
foreign boyfriend, and commentaries on the dynamics of their relationship
constituted much of the gossip about him.
Richard was in his mid-20s during my fieldwork, and was widely
rumored to be a former prostitute. Several times during the first few
months that I knew him, he himself brought up these rumors and denied
them. When he was drunk, which occurred on many evenings, he would
complain No one understands me. They tell stories about me for no
reason. Richards official employment had been in minimum-wage jobs
with no real future until, at 24, he met his boyfriend Hans, whom
Richard described as his first real love. A German businessman some
eight years older than Richard, Hans owned commercial real estate and
other investments around Prague, including the flat where Richards
mother lived.
Richard lived with Hans and worked at various odd jobs for Hanss
business, including chaperoning Hanss business partners when they
visited, typically ending in a rent-boy bar or strip club. Hans also picked
up rent-boys himself from time to time. Richard had very mixed feelings
about this: he did not mind if Hans engaged an attractive young man for
the two of them to share, but he became extremely jealous when he
believed that Hans was alone with someone else. On these evenings I
would often encounter him in a pub, consoling himself with beer.
Their relationship was frequently stormy and strained, with short-term
break-ups a few times a year followed by emotional reconciliations. On the
one hand, both seemed to regard themselves as genuinely in a dating
relationship; on the other, Richard was significantly younger and more
attractive, as well as being a Czech citizen, while Hans had all the financial
advantages, though a foreigner. Neither seemed to be entirely clear about
their commitment to sexual fidelity, each allowing a certain amount of
sexual activity outside the relationship and yet frequently becoming jealous.
In a sense, Richard had achieved the goal of many young men who engage
in sex for compensation. He had found a wealthy foreign boyfriend and
his feelings were not motivated only by thoughts of material comfort. On
the other hand, their relationship remained heavily coloured by the
exchange of youth for wealth, leaving neither partner entirely satisfied.
Moreover, Richards social interactions outside their circle of mutual
friends (mainly German speakers) were constrained by the rumors that he
had been a rent-boy before he met Hans.
About a year after my main fieldwork ended, Hans left Richard for a
younger man. Richard then dated an older American expatriate for a few
months. When I last spoke with Richard in summer 2006, his feelings
were mixed. He remembered being in love with Hans and expressed both
sadness and anger at the end of their relationship, but did not want to go
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back. He had a new job that kept him very busy and was again looking
for a boyfriend.
Conclusion
For many of the gay-identified young men in Prague who participate in
commercial sex, the problems they face are not the dramatic ones described
in local tabloids or Mandragora violence, HIV, drug overdoses though
these occur. Most male tourists who come to Prague for commercial sex
seek youthful partners, so careers are short. Used to high compensation for
short and flexible hours (at least on good nights), some former rent-boys
find it difficult to work for the minimum wage, but often lack the skills or
credentials needed for higher-paying jobs. As several of my informants
discovered when they tried to find formal employment, those who have
not maintained a regular job or student status will be liable for back taxes
and other penalties. Some manage to acquire an older boyfriend who will
support them for a period of time. Many seem to end in the service
industry as waiters or bartenders, especially in gay clubs, making use of
their language and people skills. More subtly, and especially significant for
those who participate only occasionally in commercial sex, a reputation as
a former rent-boy can follow one for a long time.
Throughout this article I have tried to give a sense of the range of sexual
and romantic interactions inflected with considerations of financial advantage that take place on the gay scenes in Prague, from clearly recognized,
one-time trades of sex for money to much longer-term and multiplex
relationships. The evaluation of these interactions as motivated by financial
consideration is often contested as either or both participants resist identification as someone who pays for sex or who sells it. Part of that resistance
often lies in construing such labels so that they apply to others, as did
Robert and Richard. Understanding the spectrum of commercial sex
within the Prague gay scene, likely similar in ways to many emerging gay
scenes across the region, requires taking these multiple forms and contested
identifications into account, whether from the perspective of public health
or social interventions or from the more ethnographic project of understanding the subjectivity of those who engage in it, whether as seller, buyer,
or commentator.
Acknowledgements
I thank Robert, Richard, and Petr for their friendship and help, and Fabiano
Golgo, Ivo Prochzka, James Quin, and Jaroslav Zverina for discussions. Sealing
Cheng, Hulya Demirdirek, Deborah Elliston, Jack Friedman, Leyla Keough,
Laura Agustn, and three anonymous reviewers for Sexualities commented
helpfully on earlier drafts. Training grants from Jacob K. Javits Fellowship
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Notes
1. I do not overlook the presence of Czech clients; however, the financial
resources of Western tourists drive male sex work in Prague to a greater
degree.
2. Raids on child pornographers and child prostitution in Prague and other
European cities in April 2001 motivated club management to keep out
underage youths thereafter.
3. One hundred and forty four Czech-speaking men aged 1861 were surveyed
in three gay bars (not oriented towards commercial sex) and two gay social
organizations in 2002. Nineteen per cent of respondents reported having
accepted money in return for sex and 22% reported having paid for sex; 9.7%
had done both.
4. Terms borrowed from structuralist linguistics into cultural anthropology. The
unmarked form of something is the default and unremarkable, while the
marked form is seen as a special case or a deviation. Post-structuralists note that
marked forms are often viewed as defective or suspect (See Derrida, 1976).
5. Golgo (personal communication) heard similar complaints during his
interviews with male sex workers in Prague in the mid-1990s.
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Biographical Note
Timothy McCajor Hall received his PhD in psychological anthropology in 2003
and his MD in 2005, both from the University of California, San Diego and in
200507 was post-doctoral fellow at the University of Chicago. Currently he is
resident in psychiatry at UCLA. This article comes out of this ongoing
ethnographic research on gay identities/communities in the post-socialist Czech
Republic. Other research interests include eating disorders, substance abuse, folk
models of health and illness, and sexuality over the life course. Address: UCLA
Dept of Psychiatry, 760 Westwood Plaza, Room C-8222, Los Angeles,
CA 90024, USA. [email: mccajor@earthlink.net]
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