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HELP yourself
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MONEY CAN T
By Dominic Cadden
BUY ME LOVE
Whoever said money cant buy happiness probably didnt have a platinum credit
card. While some people say shopping is better than sex, psychologists warn that
excessive shopping can tip people over the edge into a destructive addiction.
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years after her lowest point (when her credit card debt
amounted to R350000 at a time when she was earning
R450000 a year), Kim can only hope her brain will one day
turn off its constant urge to purchase.
I know that I hurt my husband when I have the
occasional binge, she says. I would love to learn how to save
money and enjoy life without needing to go to shops all the
time. At the same time, she says, My husband is so generous.
He wants me to be happy and if we are in a shop and I
see something I have to have, he buys it for me. Im sure
my childhood also warped my view of money. When I was
growing up I never had to worry about money. My parents
had their own business and there was always a bag filled with
cash stashed somewhere in the house.
At the height of her debt, Kim was working in fashion
and caught the fashion bug. That bug still burrows away
deep inside her: I have seen the most amazing places in
Europe but instead of appreciating them, the only thing
I think about is what I can buy.
As with other addictions, family and friends are
inevitably drawn in, especially with compulsive shoppers
tendency for secrecy. I used to feel so guilty when I snuck
things into the house, says Lisa, 28, a corporate account
executive who lives with her husband and her parents. Lisa
would hide her purchases usually clothes and open them
much later in private. Sometimes she would go two months
before she wore her new clothes for fear of what her family
would say. She would then tell them that someone gave her
the clothes as a gift. At its worst point, Lisas debt across four
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Bye-buy problems
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