Kingdom Youth Issues

Here in the Kingdom Nation, our motto is Thy Will be Done, Father. In
everything that we do, we always ask, Will this make the Father happy?
Or will this make the Father sad? Will the Father be proud of me if I do
this? Or will He be ashamed of me? The following are the common
youth issues encountered by the Kingdom Youths that needed guidance
from the Appointed Son of God:
Issue # 1: Boy-Girl Relationship/ Marriage
issue

Part I- The Origin of the

Problem
There are three components of man- body, soul and spirit. But these
three are not totally owned by our Almighty Father.
1. When Adam listened to the voice of the serpent instead of Gods, he
and his descendants fell under the control of Satan Lucifer the devil.
Thus, his body and his flesh is now under the dominion of Satan.
And because of this, all men who are born in the flesh, man or woman,
are no longer virgin because you are being used
and abused by the spirit of the devil. (In the
spiritual world, virginity means being in the
state of innocence where you know nothing but
the will of the Father.) Thats why the devil said
in:
Luke 4:5-7
(5) And the devil, taking him up into an
high mountain, shewed unto him all the
kingdoms of the world in a moment of time.
(6) And the devil said unto him, All this power will I give thee, and
the glory of them: for that is delivered unto me; and to
whomsoever I will I give it.
(7) If thou therefore wilt worship me, all shall be thine.

The flesh is of Satan, while the Spirit of God.

John 4:24

God is a Spirit: and they that

worship him must worship him
in spirit and in truth.
Galatians 5:17
For the flesh lusteth against the
Spirit, and the Spirit against the
flesh:and these are contrary the
one to the other:so that ye
cannot do the things that ye
would.

John 6:63
It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing:the words
that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.
2. What is the role of the Begotten Son of God in our conquest to be one
with God in the Spirit?
The Reason why the Son of God
came is to subjugate the flesh to
the Spirit. The Spirit came in the
likeness of a sinful flesh to
condemn flesh.
John 1:14
And the Word was made flesh,
and dwelt among us, (and we
beheld his glory, the glory as of
the only begotten of the Father,)
full of grace and truth.
Romans 8:3
For what the law could not do, in
that it was weak through the
flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh,
and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:
John 8:34-36
(34) Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever
committeth sin is the servant of sin.
(35) And the servant abideth not in the house for ever:but the Son
abideth ever.
(36) If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free
indeed.

3. If we are born in the flesh, then how can we become spiritual?

John 3:3-6
(3) Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee,
Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
(4) Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is
old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be
born?
(5) Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be
born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom
of God.
(6) That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is
born of the Spirit is spirit.

4. Thus, there is a need of

Spiritual Revolution. It is the
Battle of wills.
It is the dethroning of your own human
will, the rule of flesh in your heart and
mind, and then enthroning the will of the
Spirit. The key is repentance or
surrendering your own will to the will of the Father.
In this Battle of Wills, you need to participate by using your freedom of
choice to decide to follow the will of the Father.
Luke 13:3
I tell you, Nay: but, except ye
repent, ye shall all likewise
perish.
Check you carnality index: The
Manifestation of the Flesh
Galatians 5:19-21
(19) Now the works of the
flesh are manifest, which are
these; Adultery,
fornication, uncleanness,
lasciviousness,
(20) Idolatry, witchcraft,
hatred, variance, emulations,
wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,
(21) Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like:of the
which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they
which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

1 John 2:16-17
(16) For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust
of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of
the world.
(17) And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof:but he that
doeth the will of God abideth for ever.
Check you spirituality index: The Manifestation of the Spirit
Galatians 5:22-23
(22) But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
gentleness, goodness, faith,
(23) Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.
5. How does the process of transforming from carnal to
spiritual happen?
In order to overcome and conquer your flesh, you have
to become spiritual by eating the flesh and
drinking the blood of our Lord Jesus Christ. We need
to obey His Words.
John 6:51
I am the living bread which came down from
heaven: if any man eat of this bread, he shall
live for ever: and the bread that I will give is my
flesh, which I will give for the life of the world.
John 6:53-54
(53) Then Jesus said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Except
ye eat the flesh of the Son of man, and drink his blood, ye have no
life in you.
(54) Whoso eateth my flesh, and drinketh my blood, hath eternal
life; and I will raise him up at the last day
John 5:24
Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that heareth my word, and believeth
on him that sent me, hath everlasting life, and shall not come
into condemnation; but is passed from death unto life.
John 12:48
He that rejecteth me, and receiveth not my words, hath one that
judgeth him: the word that I have spoken, the same shall judge
him in the last day.
6. How do we totally overcome and conquer the flesh?

When you are born again in the Spirit of obedience to the will of the
Father, the Spirit within you, the Spirit of the Almighty Father, who is the
most powerful of all, will make you overcome all things.
1 John 4:4
Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because
greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.
1 John 5:4
For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this
is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith.
Romans 8:31
What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can
be against us?
7. The ULTIMATE test:
In our spiritual journey of becoming appointed sons and
daughters of the Almighty Father, the last enemy to conquer is
death of the flesh.
1 Corinthians 15:55-56
(55) O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?
(56) The
sting of death is sin;
and the
strength of sin is the
law.
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The last

Corinthians 15:26
enemy that shall be
destroyed is death.

When this happens, you go back the State of Innocence, where you know
nothing but the will of the Father. In any situation of your life, you will
always ask, Is this the will of the Father? Will this make the Father happy

or sad? And when you have entered the Gate of Innocence, you become
a virgin.
Virginity is restored when you become innocent, but when you are still
used by
the devil, and you are still malicious, then you are not a virgin.
Issue # 1: Boy-Girl Relationship/ Marriage issue

Part II- The Kingdom Standard on

Relationships
1. There are three kinds of love.
Eros love is a love between the opposite sex.
o Eros love will end. It is a fleshly love. Sometimes lust is
mistaken for love. When there is an attraction between the
opposite sex, man and woman, boy or girl, and then there is
infatuation in between, many thought that that is love.
I felt love, that is not love at all. You have to look at that because
many, many times it is only eros love that pushes you to do some
of those things that later on you will regret. And after that eros love
has dissipated, then the attraction of that kind of love vanishes
away.
That is why there are divorces, there are separations. There are
things that do not constitute the first thing that you felt when you
look at the opposite sex. After all, it is only something that is lower
than that. It is only lust that had attracted you to the opposite sex.
Philio love is love for relatives and that will even dissipate, that
will even fly out of the window if given the chance. When it is tried
and tested, this kind of love will not endure.
o How many brothers have murdered each other?
o How many brothers and sisters have separated that until
death they have not been in talking terms?
o How many fathers and sons have a dispute that they carried
until death? There are so many of them; that love cannot
sustain, it cannot endure.
Agape love is the love that comes from the Father Almighty. And
this is the definition of divine love, when we were yet sinners, He
came and loved us and died for us. So when you have the love
of the Father in you, it transcends all of this kind of love.

o This kind of love never ends.

o Love when it is defined by the Father endures forever.
That is why in marriage, the Father said, What God had
joined together, let no man put asunder (Mark 10:9)
o That is why when the Father is in the bond of the union
between a man and a woman, it transcends eros and philio, it
includes divine love.
2. There is marriage in the Kingdom but it is done not according to the
standard of the world. It is always subjected to the Fathers perfect will.
What does the Word of God say about marriage?
1 Corinthians 7:1-40
Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me:It is good for a
man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every
man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let
the husband render unto the wife due benevolence:and likewise also the
wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the
husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body,
but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for
a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come
together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. But I
speak this by permission, and not of commandment. For I would that all
men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God,
one after this manner, and another after that.
I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they
abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry:for it is better
to marry than to burn.
And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the
wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain
unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband:and let not the husband put
away his wife.
But to the rest speak I, not the Lord:If any brother hath a wife that
believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her
away. And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if
he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. For the
unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is
sanctified by the husband:else were your children unclean; but now are
they holy. But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a
sister is not under bondage in such cases:but God hath called us to
peace. For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy
husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy
wife?
But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every
one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches. Is any man called

being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in

uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised. Circumcision is nothing, and
uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.
Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called. Art thou
called being a servant? care not for it:but if thou mayest be made free,
use it rather. For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the
Lord's freeman:likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ's
servant. Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.
Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.
Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord:yet I give
my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.
I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it
is good for a man so to be. Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be
loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. But and if thou
marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned.
Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh:but I spare you.
But this I say, brethren, the time is short:it remaineth, that both they
that have wives be as though they had none; And they that weep, as
though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not;
and they that buy, as though they possessed not; And they that use this
world, as not abusing it:for the fashion of this world passeth away.
But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth
for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: But
he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may
please his wife. There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The
unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy
both in body and in spirit:but she that is married careth for the things of
the world, how she may please her husband. And this I speak for your
own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is
comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his
virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do
what he will, he sinneth not:let them marry. Nevertheless he that
standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over
his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin,
doeth well. So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that
giveth her not in marriage doeth better.
The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her
husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in
the Lord. But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment:and I
think also that I have the Spirit of God.

a.

Concerning Married couples (Read 1 Corinthians 7:17)

1. Our Almighty Father forbids fornication.
2. When you become a wife, you will no longer have power over your
body, but the husband; while husband has no power over his body,
but his wife.

b.

Concerning Unmarried (Read 1 Corinthians 7:8-9)

1. If boy-girl relationship would be the cause why you will be burned,
then marriage could be sought out.
2. Abide in the same calling that you are called. If you are called
unmarried, then stay unmarried. The bottom line is circumcised or
uncircumcised, it doesn't matter, what matters is you obey the
commandments of God.

c.

Concerning Divorce (Read 1 Corinthians 7:10-24)

1. Remember that an unbelieving husband/ wife/ child is sanctified
by his/ her wife/ husband/ parent who is a faithful Kingdom citizen.
Unless you are driven away, then stay with your family.

d.

Concerning Marriage (Read 1 Corinthians 7:39-40)

1. If you have husband/ wife:
you have not sinned but you will have trouble with flesh;
you care for the things that are of the world, and how to
please your husband;
you seek to please your husband.
2. If you are unmarried:
you care for the things that belong to the Father, and how to
please Him;
you seek to be holy both in body and in spirit, and you can
serve our Father without distraction;
you are free and will be happier.

3. Here is the challenge to all those who desire to follow the

will of the Almighty Father just like the Appointed Son:
Dont give in to your emotions or to the lust of the flesh and
eyes. Decide to be clean and pleasing in the eyes of our
Almighty Father.
2 Corinthians 7:1
Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse
ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit,
perfecting holiness in the fear of God.

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Issue # 1: Boy-Girl Relationship/ Marriage issue

Part III- Emotional, Psychological, Physiological, Social,

and Moral Concerns of being on a Relationship
Advantages of Being on
a relationship
Emotional

1. You will build a sense of

interdependence or ability
to maintain close
relationships.

Disadvantages of being on a
relationship
1 . Emotional stress caused by
physical or overt aggression (i.e.,
efforts to harm through direct
physical and verbal threats or
assaults) and relational or social
aggression (i.e., efforts to
damage relationships).
2. The emotional hurt due to
the trend of divorce and the
falling out of love
3. Usually bad relationships end
up to empty relationships and
feelings of contempt.
4. Depression and suicide.

Psychologic
al

1. The thought that you

have someone to talk to
and you can confess all of
your senseless and trivial
ideas.

1. Relationships could take a toll

on people's psychological and
physical health. In fact, several
mental health issues arise related
to unhealthy and immature
relationships-- depression,
anxiety, sleep problems, and
"emotional blunting," in which
a person experiences reduced
emotional reactions.
2. Negative relationship
processes like disagreements,
poor communication have a
bigger effect on the mental
health of the younger people. It
can lead to apathy or
decreased enthusiasm to do
other activities.
3. Stunted personal
development. Then you usually

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end up yearning for meaning

in your life.

Social

1. It is for social approval,

for self-disclosure, and
to avoid abandonment.

1. It could close yourself off to

amazing life opportunities like
better career, freedom.
2. Its distracting for your work
or studies.
3. You lose your independence.

Physiologic
al

1. Having good
1. Early pregnancy, which is a
relationships could
life-changing event.
benefit ones health and
2. Sexually-transmitted diseases.
longevity.
2. Having stronger social
support systems overall
it has impact on your
health.

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Moral

1. Guilt is a special form of regret

a strong sense of having done
something morally wrong.
2. The feelings of regret because
you violated your moral values
and social conscience.
3. Loss of self-respect and
self-esteem.
4. The corruption of character.
When you treat others for your
selfish pleasure, you not only lose
self-respect but you also change
their/ your character.

Conclusion:
If you scrutinise the advantages of being on a relationship, it will reveal that
everyone only needed someone to talk to, a confidante whom he/ she can be
himself/ herself with no holds barred.
Thus, if you are serious in keeping the commandments of the Father, you can
be involved socially on many different levels. Involve yourself in your
community, family, business, and personally relevant nonprofit causes any way
you can. That is how you can explore more about you and whats God has
installed for you.

Issue # 2: Smoking/ Drug/ Alcohol Abuse

Our society has falsely projected that smoking, drinking alcohol and
using drugs is cool but in fact, it causes ill-effects- physically (such as
mental disorders, gastrointestinal problems, cardiovascular problems,
and weaken the immune system), socially (causes family and peer
problems), and spiritually.

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1 Corinthians 3:16-17
(16) Know ye not that ye are
the temple of God, and that
the Spirit of God dwelleth in
you?
(17) If any man defile the
temple of God, him shall God
destroy; for the temple of God
is holy, which temple ye are.

1 Corinthians 6:19-20
(19) What? know ye not that
your body is the temple of the
Holy Ghost which is in you,
which ye have of God, and ye
are not your own?
(20) For ye are bought with a
price:therefore glorify God in
your body, and in your spirit,
which are Gods.

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Galatians 5:19-21
(19) Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these;
Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,
(20) Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife,
seditions, heresies,
(21) Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of
the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that
they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of
God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10
(9) Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of
God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
(10) Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor
extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
Ephesians 5:18
And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the
Spirit;

Issue # 3: Peer pressure/ family problems.

When you become Kingdom Citizens, your family members, significant
others and peers could go against your decision. But instead of hiding
away, Kingdom Youths should display a pleasing personality. Be a bait
like in the fishermans hook.

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Matthew 4:19
And he saith unto
them, Follow me, and
I will make you
fishers of men.

Matthew 10:16
Behold, I send you
forth as sheep in the
midst of wolves: be
ye therefore wise as
serpents, and
harmless as doves.

Matthew 5:16
Let your light so
shine before men,
that they may see
your good works, and
glorify your Father
which is in heaven.

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Matthew 10:34-39
(34) Think not that I am come to send peace on earth:I came not to send
peace, but a sword.
(35) For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the
daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her
mother in law.
(36) And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
(37) He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of
me:and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of
me.
(38) And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not
worthy of me.
(39) He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my
sake shall find it.

Issue # 4: Internet Use

There is a spiritual cyberwar going on. Cellphones and computers have
been discreetly used as battlegrounds. Spiritual warriors of the Kingdom,
lets win this battle against the forces of the enemy together with the
Son by:
a. reaching one million minimum views and comments on YouTube and
Facebook.
b. testify and refute those who despise the Name of the Father through the
Son in the Internet.

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2 Corinthians 10:3-6
(3) For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh:
(4) (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty
through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)
(5) Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth
itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every
thought to the obedience of Christ;
(6) And having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience, when
your obedience is fulfilled.
Ephesians 6:12-18
(12) For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against
principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of
this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
(13) Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may
be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
(14) Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and
having on the breastplate of righteousness;
(15) And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;
(16) Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able
to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.
(17) And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit,
which is the word of God:
(18) Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and
watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all
saints;

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