Академический Документы
Профессиональный Документы
Культура Документы
Note that the term target is used throughout this book rather
than victim to reinforce the idea that people need not be passive
recipients of such hurtful behavior. Care providers can be trained
to recognize and minimize bullying behaviors, and those who are
bullied can be taught effective skills to address and even prevent
such behaviors.
It is my hope that this book will extend the reach of this vital
information to more individuals who are positioned to improve
social relationship experiences for more older adults.
PART I
An Overview of
Bullying Behaviors
Among Older Adults
CHAPTER 1
An Introduction to
Bullying Behaviors
Among Older Adults
“He calls me ‘fatso.’ He says, ‘Hey fatso.’
Then as he goes down the hall . . . he makes oinking
noises [like a pig] as he goes to the elevator.”
This comment, and others like it, was made by a 72-year-old res-
ident of an assisted living facility (Bonifas, 2011). His target, a
78-year-old woman, had heard similar comments from this indi-
vidual for more than a year, beginning shortly after she moved
into the facility. These repetitive negative remarks about her body
size lowered her self-esteem and contributed to self-isolation; she
reported reluctance to leave her room for fear of being ridiculed
by the individual, whom she referred to as a “bully.” The incidents
this woman experienced represent relational aggression, a form
of bullying common among older adults in communal living set-
tings and congregate service organizations.
People who rarely interact with older adults often erroneous-
ly perceive that the population is composed primarily of sweet little
grandmas and grandpas who get along well with one another. Ac-
cordingly, many people are surprised to learn that bullying behav-
iors actually occur among older adults. Indeed, they do. Although
bullying is commonly associated with youth in school settings, re-
search and media reports indicate that such behaviors are common
as well among older adults. For example, up to 20% of older adults
in assisted living facilities (Bonifas & Kramer, 2011; Trompetter,
3
4 Bullying Among Older Adults
Bullying Defined
Bullying is intentional repetitive aggressive behavior that involves
an imbalance of power or strength (Hazelden Foundation, 2011).
Associated peer bullying extends beyond this to include the ex-
perience of “persistent negative interpersonal behavior” (Rayner
& Keashly, 2005, p. 271) that is directed at a specific individual or
a group of individuals (Rayner & Keashly, 2005). As noted earlier,
among older adults, such negative behaviors often take the form
of relational bullying, which represents nonphysical aggression
intended to hinder the formation of peer relationships and so-
cial connections (Hawker & Boulton, 2000), such as gossiping,
spreading rumors, and public ridiculing.
Surprisingly, bullying among older adults looks similar in
many ways to bullying among younger age groups. For example,
both include verbal, physical, and antisocial or relational behav-
iors that occur in the context of social relationships in communal
settings. Furthermore, the individual targets of bullies at any age
suffer considerable emotional anguish.
Types of Bullying
The following sections review the characteristics of three types
of bullying behaviors among older adults: verbal, antisocial or re-
lational, and physical.
Verbal Bullying
Verbal bullying refers to the use of words to intimidate or oth-
erwise usurp another’s power. Behaviors include name-calling,
malicious teasing, hurling insults, taunting, threatening, or mak-
ing sarcastic remarks or pointed jokes. An example of verbal bul-
lying is the name-calling experienced by the 78-year-old woman
introduced in the chapter’s opening. As another example, George,
6 Bullying Among Older Adults
Physical Bullying
Physical bullying involves actual bodily contact with the target or
the target’s belongings, including pets or personal possessions.
Example behaviors include pushing, hitting, kicking, destroying
property, or stealing. Hitting might be with a hand, closed fist,
An Introduction to Bullying Behaviors Among Older Adults 7
Staff and family care partners should watch for these emotional
effects as indications that someone is potentially being bullied.
Bullying behaviors also negatively affect senior living com-
munities as a whole. For example, bullying among residents can
contribute to pervasive feelings of fear, disrespect, and insecurity;
perpetuate more bullying behaviors; and lead to lowered resident
satisfaction and reduced involvement in planned group activities
(personal communication, Marsha Frankel, March 14, 2014). Al-
though research has yet to be conducted on the organizational
implications of bullying among older adults, anecdotal evidence
provided by Frankel suggests that working in a senior living or
senior care environment where bullying and other negative social
behaviors occur regularly contributes to low employee morale
and poor job satisfaction. These outcomes can lead to decreased
feelings of loyalty and commitment to the organization and, ulti-
mately, costly staff turnover. Furthermore, Frankel notes that the
possibility of staff bullying residents in retaliation for peer bully-
ing or even of abusing residents in their care may increase due
to feelings of frustration and anger. The potential for such neg-
ative outcomes is magnified when staff members feel unable to
take steps to reduce the bullying behaviors, either because they
do not know how or because efforts are repeatedly ineffective.
Thus, equipping staff with skills to effectively address bullying
is critical to minimize negative outcomes. Chapter 7 provides a
detailed intervention to teach long-term care staff how to thwart
bullying incidents.
An Introduction to Bullying Behaviors Among Older Adults 9