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This is the new blog for the Facebook page "Recovering From a
Relationship With a Narcissist". There will be multiple authors. The
focus of the blog is recognizing, understanding, dealing with and
recovering from, relationships with Narcissists/Sociopaths/Psychopaths.
Saturday, September 26, 2015
15 distinctive phases of a relationship with an N/S/P.

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*This is a listing of the 15 distinctive phases that I have identified in

a typical NS abusive relationship. Please feel free to comment if you think ther
e are others I might have missed. The changes we go through while being brainwas
hed and abused take us from one high stress period to another. We should be prou
d that we have survived the turmoil...and if we can retain our empathy and carin
g for others.....we MUST be wonderful, valuable people indeed!*
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*1. Honeymoon period*
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The target is basking in the attention of, what they believe to be, the most won
derful relationship they have ever known. Head over heals in love and feeling VE
RY lucky. Often, the target feels as though they "must be dreaming" or "they do
not deserve such a wonderful partner". The target lets down ALL BOUNDARIES and s
hares their innermost secrets and feelings with the abuser. They BELIEVE that th
e abuser is, likewise, being open and sharing truths about themselves as well.
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*2. Idolization Period #1*
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The target is still on their best behavior and gives, without limit, of themselv
es and of their possessions. By the end of this period, the abuser has AL needed
information to begin to control the target and the target has nearly NO FACTUAL
information about the abuser. The target is likely to neglect everyone else in

their life and focus ONLY on the abuser. The abuser seems to be doing this as we
ll. The abuser pushes the relationship into very high gear and things progress q
uickly into a "serious" relationship.The target truly believes that they have fo
und the perfect partner. They have seen few, if any, "chinks" in the armor.
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*3. The Questioning*
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Time spent together brings to light some "chinks" in the armor. The target may b
egin seeing some things that concern them. Usually, these are minor annoyances b
ut even fairly significant things can be ignored based on the overall "perfectio
n" of the abuser. The target may actually begin to question some of the habits o
r actions of the abuser. This questioning often results in the abuser reacting i
n anger and using veiled threats of ending the relationship "if the target is so
unhappy". This usually results in the target being forced to weight good agains
t bad attributes and trying to hold only the relationship.
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*4. Re-evaluation and Idolization Period #2*
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The target now realizes that the abuser is NOT PERFECT, and there are some thing
s that keep cropping up in the relationship, but they are still firmly convinced
that the abuser is FAR superior to any other partner they are likely to attract
. Even after re-evaluating the abuser and the relationship, the target determine
s that the relationship is worth salvaging.
*5. Self-Questioning*

The target/victim usually begins to sense a change in the attitude of the abuser
. The victim begins to question whether they are being unreasonable and too diff
icult to please. This frequent self-examination in the light of being downgraded
by the abuser, usually results in the target feeling as though they may, indeed
, be to blame for the small issues that arise. The target is often receiving fee
dback from their support system about how much the abuser loves them and how luc
ky they are. The discrepancy between what the target is feeling and what the sup
port system is stating causes further self-examination by the target/victim. The
behavior of the abuser when other people are present is still, usually, loving
and sweet. The treatment of the target/victim in private begins to deteriorate.
*
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*6. The Cover-Up*
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Once the target/victim has advised the support system of how WONDERFUL the abuse
r is, it is very difficult to admit that they may have made an error. Everyone w
ants their support system to think that everything is going well in their lives.
..and the constant insinuation that any problems that DO EXIST are the fault of
the target/victim, makes it even harder to be real with people and verbalize you
r concerns. For these reasons, and many others, the target/victim often continue
s to reign perfection in the relationship and the abuser, long after cracks begi
n to appear. This may be particularly true if the beginning of the relationship
including the abuser walking out on, or leaving, a marriage or long term partner
. It seems OK that another relationship was "destroyed" when the new relationshi
p was "in the stars" or "meant to be", but admitting that this may not be the ca
se leaves the victim/target open to criticism (from others and by self) regardin
g the way the relationship started out. Since so MANY of these relationships beg
in when a prior victim is "discarded", the feelings of guilt associated with thi
s can keep a victim professing perfection in the abuser for an extended time.
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*7. Brainwashing Complete*
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After a period of continued manipulation, the victim is now well aware of the fa
ults of the abuser. The victim, however, is usually NOT AWARE of the true mental
illness of the abuser, or of the fact that the abuser is UNABLE and UNWILLING t
o ever change. The victim is full of self-doubt and is convinced that the good t
hings in the relationship still outweigh the bad. The victim has started to ques
tion their own sanity and reality and has fully begun to adopt the reality as gi
ven by the abuser.

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*8. Capitulation*
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The victim has now come to the conclusion that "it is the abusers way or the hig
hway". They are aware that the relationship is more important to them than to th
e abuser and, often, the victim simply decides to take a back seat and allow the
abuser to steer the relationship and daily life decisions. Often, the abuser de
termines how all money is spent, even if they are not bringing in much money. Da
ily decisions, big and small, are made by the abuser. While this frustrates and
angers the victim, the only other option is the loss of the relationship and tha
t is not tolerable.
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*9. Seeing the Light*
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After a long period, the victim begins to see the self-serving nature and selfis
h behavior of the abuser. Often, there is infidelity and any questioning about i
t results in the victim being blamed for being crazy and jealous. The unfair nat
ure of the relationship is very apparent to the victim although, to the outside
world, it appears to be practically perfect. They see the absolute control of th
e abuser as agreement of the two parties or as "compatibility". They are unaware
that this "compatibility" requires that the victim SUBMIT their will to the abu
ser in EVERYTHING. This begins to wear on the victim. The victim may begin to se
e the TRUE PATHOLOGY of the abuser, but there is no one who will listen or belie
ve. As the victim begins to see this pathology, there is also a great deal of fe
ar around leaving the relationship as the victim now has an idea of what awaits
them in terms of punishment or retribution.
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*10. Sensing the trap*
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Around this time, the victim may begin reaching out to members of the support sy
stem...only to find that they are squarely in the camp of the abuser. While the
victim has been silent, the abuser has been busy assassinating their character t
o the support system who, often, no longer believe a word the victim is saying.
They are often condescending and attempt to keep the victim in the relationship
which they see as "superior" and with the abuser who is seen as being "so suppor
tive and loving" The victim suddenly realizes that they are seen as unstable and
/or, completely self-centered by their own support system. There is a sudden rea
lization that there is no one to turn to because, no matter what the victim says
NOW, the support system is convinced of the lie that has been told for so long,
both by the victim and by the abuser. The victim will sometimes attempt to comm
unicate the issues to the abuser who will not discuss anything about it and usua
lly admits no error or wrongdoing. Ending the relationship not only leaves the v
ictim without the relationship but may cost the victim friends and family as wel
l. The victim is trapped and knows it.
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*11. The Walking Dead*
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After living under the stress of the abuse and lies for an extended period, the
victim usually begins to display PTSD symptoms and symptoms of major depression.
These symptoms only further cement the story being told by the abuser. With no
where to turn, the victim soon becomes "the walking dead"...going through the mo
tions of life with little meaning, no enjoyment and no hope for the future/
*12. The Oath Keeper*
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The victim now knows EXACTLY what the abuser is and what they are capable of. Th

ey are aware that nothing is going to improve and that the future holds only mor
e of the same, or worse, abuse. They no longer feel "romantic love" for the abus
er in many cases and sexual desire for the person who torments you daily is, obv
iously, lacking. Often, the victim is aware of the vows they took and promises t
hey have made and use this as an excuse (to themselves) for why they stay in an,
obviously, ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP.
*13. Resignation*

The victim basically gives up and decides that they are destined to continue to
live the life they are living. Often, they cease to provide the praise and narci
ssistic supply and the abuser, sensing this, begins to seek out new supply. A pe
riod of relative calm ensues as the abusers attention is turned elsewhere and th
e couple live in the same house but have no real relationship any longer
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*14. Shock and Fear*
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No matter how mentally ill the victim feels the abuser is, the "dead eye" and co
ld-hearted discard of the sociopath is heartbreaking. While the victim has mixed
feelings about the partner in this long term relationship...the abuser treats t
he victim like a torn sock that is being thrown away. There is no emotion, no ca
ring, no anger, nothing. The abuser is completely devoid of any emotion as they
walk away. This results in a very deep shock and the victim truly begins to ques
tion their own sanity. There is also a great fear over the retribution that will
be coming. Having a clear picture of the abuser, the victim is aware of the len
gths the abuser is willing to go to to PUNISH the ENEMY. The victim realizes tha
t they are NOW "The enemy to be destroyed".
*15. Terror and disbelief*

The victim finally begins to realize that the entire relationship, the person th
ey thought they knew, never existed. This has all been a process of manipulation
. This is difficult to come to terms with and especially when your support syste
m is of the belief that this is "just a divorce" and cannot begin to understand
the depth of the victims damage. The victim mourns the relationship they THOUGHT
they had and the person they THOUGHT they knew. This is difficult when that per
son is doing everything they can to destroy you. The support system is fragmente
d and, often, no support system remains. The sociopath abuses the victim mentall
y, financially and will often attempt to take any minor children away from the v
ictim as a form of retaliation for the victims failure to "respect and appreciat
e how wonderful they are". This is extremely stressful for the victim and, witho

ut support, there is the very real possibility of a mental break or suicide atte
mpt.
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*Reaching out*
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*The good news is that this fear leads to reaching out for support by others who
have had the same experiences...and this is the beginning of the healing proces
s!*
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Chris
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2015 at 2:17 AM
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Wow! Perfectly explained!!!!!
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Another Soulmate
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2015 at 2:19 AM
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Thank you!
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27, 2015 at 8:53 AM
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Woooooowwww! The blessing is I saw it before it got too far gone.
Thank you for putting the words to the feeling
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Sharon G
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2015 at 9:14 AM
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This is spot on! Thank you for sharing.
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Sharon G
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2015 at 9:15 AM
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This is spot on! Thank you for sharing.
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Michelle Leroy
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2015 at 6:09 PM
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Exactly how it happened to me
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Alamelu Janakiram
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2015 at 3:37 AM
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Perfectly explained.
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deb mcleod
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2016 at 12:40 PM
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completely true. it's soul destroying. devastating. I trusted him
with all of my being. what a mistake. he ruined my world, stole my
home, my belief in human beings, my self esteem, my trust... I could
go on for days. he broke my heart and soul.
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A.Berg.
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Hi Deb, Im curious about your house situation. im at #21 with a
female N. #21 being the # of times shes left and came back in 9
months. Shes even a known friend from years ago. she talked me
into walking away from my stagnant relationship and my home
saying shes done the same before from her home. shes married to
a huge N and has kicked him out and let him back of course. we
were 500 miles apart. ive just moved back to my hometown where
she also is but left again as i was moving. and week later, i
get an email saying shes done, he bought a house i guess because
before house was in her and her brothers name and he had no
control. Now he does. this was yesterday. Shes claimed im crazy
and recited comments ive made but twisted words and has copies
of all emails. i know what I said and disproved every thought
she had including the denial of telling me to walk away from my
house. I am just wondering if you found any legal help with your
house and him? I am searching now as I stumbled on this page
Thank God! I hope someone out there can give me any advice on
this. our mutual friends have warned me about her a little but,
but i didnt have this page to fully explain every detail to a
tee! this is insane what they do and its word for word here!
Please anybody, is there any way of suing her for leading me
down this destructive path of my life?
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This is close to my life with N. & N.Family still reeling even after
15 months going through so much still it is not over yet )-:
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2016 at 4:23 PM
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Amen!
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Michael Shinakis
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2016 at 5:45 PM
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My life story exactly with a female narc.
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It is as it is.
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I just read my life story for the past 25 years. Unbelievable.

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26, 2016 at 7:02 PM
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I just read my life story for the past 25 years. Unbelievable.
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Unknown
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Excellently explained! Thank you! :) I experienced all of the above
(in two relationships in a row, the first with an overt narc & the
second with a covert narc). However, thankfully, I told my friends &
family about the narcs abusive behaviour throughout the
relationships & my support system were the voices of sanity telling
me that the narcs bad behaviour was unforgivable etc. After five
years of abusive treatment from the two narcs I'm feeling almost
destroyed.
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HappyForLife
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2016 at 7:16 AM
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You have done a impeccable job writing the process of the NSP. At
every stage I had memories of situations that would be an example to
your point. Just reading this provides some reassurances to my own
psyche and helps me to move forward with hope for better days. Thank
you.
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Kelly @ Mum-bo-Jumbo
<https://www.blogger.com/profile/14937188678654314163>February 27,
2016 at 8:44 AM
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You just wrote my marriage step by step, right up past the 15th
step. I was driven to thoughts of suicide and for the first time in

8 years, reached out to my longest friends and told them the truth.
This article brings me great comfort to know I am not crazy after
all. It was him all along....
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Nikki O.
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2016 at 4:43 PM
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This is an EXCELLENT article! It explains the abuse I experienced.
GOD was with me & I Survived. I pray for everyone who left an Abuser
to be healed & protection/deliverance for people still being abused.
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The Hapless Housewife
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Whoa! The last 3 years of my life written here. I was lucky...my
support system recognized somewhat early on. I did not want to see
it. I was always made to feel guilty if I tried to end things and he
was suddenly this great and wonderful man for a few weeks. Glad to
say, I'm out! Finally feel like a human being again. Just found out
he's engaged to the woman he discarded me for...more power to her!
She gets to pay his bills, take care of his kids, deal with his lies
and cheating. I no longer have to!
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The Hapless Housewife
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2016 at 1:37 PM
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Whoa! The last 3 years of my life written here. I was lucky...my
support system recognized somewhat early on. I did not want to see
it. I was always made to feel guilty if I tried to end things and he
was suddenly this great and wonderful man for a few weeks. Glad to
say, I'm out! Finally feel like a human being again. Just found out
he's engaged to the woman he discarded me for...more power to her!
She gets to pay his bills, take care of his kids, deal with his lies
and cheating. I no longer have to!
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This was my life for the last six month. Thank God I woke up and
discarded him. Called the cops got a no trespassing on my property.
Best thing I ever did for myself I saved my own life!!!
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New Baby Eldred
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Incredibly well written. And all too real.
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Nunya bizness
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Incredibly well written. And all too real.
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Robin Littlefeather Hannon
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Thank you!
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Been there, done that, I even bought the tee-shirt. I am ever so
happy to say I thru that tee-shirt away.
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Jillian Moen
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This has been my life story over and over. I was raised by a
narcissist mother and have had several relationships with
narcissists. It took me til I'm almost 40 to figure out what has
been going on my whole life. I cut him out of my and my daughters
life almost three weeks ago. We are both doing so much better.
Finally accepting that he wasn't the man I fell in love with, and he
would never change, and his family and friends have been enabling
him and convinced I'm the one with issues... It makes all the
difference to just accept it, accept that he is so sick he will
never see it, no matter what he says it's a lie.
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Jillian Moen
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This has been my life story over and over. I was raised by a
narcissist mother and have had several relationships with
narcissists. It took me til I'm almost 40 to figure out what has
been going on my whole life. I cut him out of my and my daughters
life almost three weeks ago. We are both doing so much better.
Finally accepting that he wasn't the man I fell in love with, and he
would never change, and his family and friends have been enabling
him and convinced I'm the one with issues... It makes all the
difference to just accept it, accept that he is so sick he will
never see it, no matter what he says it's a lie.
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Melanie Jean Mayfield
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Stockholm syndrome? maybe. After 25 years of being gaslighted, I'm a
total basket case. He destroyed my heart/mind/soul, even my faith.
The stress has affected my physical health as well. I'm "Cassandra".
Read about Asperger's Syndrome. It's a convenient excuse for
anti-social/narco/psycho behavior, including abuse of alcohol &
meds, DUIs, etc.
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24, 2016 at 4:34 AM
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I was talked into walking away from my relationship of years that
was somewhat stagnant and walking away from my house 500 miles from
her. Over the year shes walked away over 15 times. ive just got
moved and shes emailed me yesterday stating shes done....again. She
is married to the typical abusive N and has said im crazy of course,
twisting the words of my emails shes saved, and claiming ive done it
all on my own and a number of other wrong recitings. I remember
everything ive said in every instance and what shes said and i
disproved every single one of them and she tried to belittle me but
i just laughed at her saying how sad to see such a sorry shell of a
woman and recited country song "What did he do" by Lee Brice, which
I know she hates. Now...that all said, is there any legal action
that I am able to take against her for the deception and damage
caused to me by her lying and manipulation in talking me into
leaving my house? She was a Loan Officer for a major bank at one
point before we started talking again. and she info she gave me was
from her experience with a home, and her clients. I moved 500 miles
and did all of that for nothing by her word, now my credit is taking
a hit and Im just curious if anybody has any ideas for me. Thank you
all!
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None that I know of. The abuser stole from me, stole from our
retirement, socked away money, left me with nothing, forced the
sale of our home, managed to get by without paying any support
for our children, left me with a credit rating in the toilet
when it was >800 when I met him. I do not think there is legal
remedy. The only thing we can do is start over. Even THAT is a
joy without the abuse! Best wishes.
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2016 at 3:39 PM
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The last 3.5 years of my life are displayed here. Wow! I am glad are
started U-Tube therapy 3 mos. ago. I might have still been unaware
of what I was experiencing. Thank you.
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