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To be honest, what do you really know about your woman? What information do you
have about her background: her past experiences, her present interests and future plans?
Based on what you know, what makes you think you are the right woman for him? In the
first place, what attracted him to you?
Generally, in the world we live, there are three basic things that attract people money:
(property), sex, religion (spirituality). This is irrespective of gender. In this case,
however, our gaze is fixed on the female gender.
First, women arguably get attracted to the world-recognized money in the form of
material possession. One of the reasons many ladies get into relationships with men and
possibly marry them is material possession, properties owned or for money sake. The
question that arises is: When there is financial insolvency, would they hold on to their
relationship status”? The answer to this question, unknown to some men, who believe
their women truly loves them, has them not exercise a second-thought approach,
regarding their ties with their so-called female lovers. Personally, on what ground is your
woman involved in a relationship with or married to you-money or material possession?
Think about it!
Besides, a factor which attracts young ladies into engaging in relationships with men is
the issue of sex. If not truly chaste, it is a likelihood that a lady would have before the
time she met her ‘beau’, been engaged in several sex-linked relationships with different
men. To an extent, she had engaged in failed ‘i-love- you’ relationships and been ‘used
and dumped’ like a disposable syringe by her partners, all in the name of fruitless
relationships. To be candid, is your woman sexually worth being faithful to?
Moreover, spirituality is a force that attracts people. As a matter of fact, this factor
accounts for the reason a considerable number of women get into relationship and
marriage-compatibility, expressed in terms of spiritual dedication. However, though
arguable, some women ‘suspiciously’ devote themselves to certain commitments in
churches, mosques and other religious centers with an innate desire to ‘settle down’ with
their Mr. Rights. Once attained, they abscond! In all sincerity, what makes you think she
is really serious with the recognized spiritual dedication you are involved in? Is she using
this tool as bait to get herself ‘hooked’ to you?
In a nutshell, the questions asked can be answered by the mentioned forces of
attraction. Therefore, it’s up to you to act now!
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
Ben4realla@yahoo.com