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Is your child always on the brink of tears? Does your child suddenly go all quiet, or shy
away from people and situations? Do you feel your childs reactions are a little too
emotional? If your answers are yes, then your child could be sensitive. A sensitive child
needs to be dealt with delicately.
If you feel your parenting skills are resulting in extreme reactions from your child,
maybe its time to do a reality check. Read on to know if your child is highly sensitive
and what you need to do to handle him with care.
1. Reacts Emotionally:
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Your highly sensitive child will react with emotionally to almost everything. A simple
visit to a pet store could leave him feeling miserable for the animals there. A stern look
from you could reduce him to tears. Being highly sensitive also makes your child
empathize with others. He may feel so bad about others problems that he wants to go
out of his way to help them. He may worry too much about others and want to make
things right for them.
5. Feels Guilty:
If your child feels that he has taken a wrong decision he will feel extremely guilty. He
will ponder over too much into the reasons. No matter what you say or do, he would not
come out of it for a long time.
Once they have taken a decision, they usually stand by it even if they are alone and can
be disheartened at times to see how insensitive others can be.
3. Reassure Him:
Tell your child that you love him no matter what. Use your words and actions to
show your child that you love him just the way he is.
Your child may sometimes feel he is different from others, and it can be quite a
dismal thought for him.
For instance, your child may find it difficult to make friends in a new school or
class. Help him out by planning individual interactions. You can arrange for
separate play dates at your place where your child can interact with one or few new
friends. It will help him gradually break the ice and get more comfortable and
confident.
[ Read: Ways To Boost Confidence In Kids ]
8. Plan Ahead:
Sudden situations can be very difficult for your highly sensitive child to handle.
Parenting a sensitive child in this situation can be done the this way:
You already know that your child does not like big interactions and social
gatherings. Hoping that maybe it will work and planning something without his
knowledge may prove a disaster instead of a success.
It is good to first plan out things with your highly sensitive child. Sit down with him
and take him through all that you are planning. Tell him why you feel he should go
ahead with it even if he feels uncomfortable. Tell him about all the fun you can
have together and how much he and everyone else will enjoy.
Tell him he can always take a break with you in the middle of the event if he does
not like it. Ask your child if he would like to help you plan things. Involve him in
the preparation activities to help him cope with the situation.
identify their talents. Sensitive children are often gifted with various arts and skills;
you just have to help them identify their potential and help them with it. Tell your
kids about famous people who have their traits.
3. Count On Friends:
Highly sensitive children find it difficult to be part of groups. Children in a group arent
bullied as everyone is there for the other. It is important you tell the child the importance
of having a friend and help them identify a good friend who will understand your childs
sensitive condition.
4. Be Physically Fit:
Children who are active in sports are physically fit and also have more confidence than
the other kids. As a sensitive child may avoid team sports, it is important you train them
to be fit individually. Physical exercise helps them become healthier, stronger and
confident.
individually.
feelings.