Szemlyes vonatkozsok, csald

1. A vizsgz szemlye, letrajza, letnek fontos llomsai (fordulpontjai)

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bemutatkozs: nv, kor, honnan jttem

ltalnos iskola 2000, millenniumi knyvek
gyerekkor vge: Timi halla
kzpiskola: nehz vlaszts, gazdasgi, j osztly, j krlmnyek
sznjtszs, szavals, Rkczi szvetsg
angol s fldrajz rettsgi 12-ben
mostani rettsgi, clok a jvre

Good morning ladies and gentlemen. First of all I would like to introduce myself. My name is
Rebeka Mszros what you can also translate Butcher this is very funny especial for my
American pen friends. Im 19 years old and I came from Esztergom. One of the oldest city is
my hometown where I started my studies in 2000. For the millennium every school beginner
got a song book and a folktale book, too. I really enjoyed be with my class. We organised
English nights where we told poems and practised our pronunciation. Before the beginning of
the last year in the primary school my best friend died in an inexplicable illness. This was the
biggest landmark in my life. I couldnt be a child anymore. It was a very laborious time. My
family and my belief helped me to got over it. And now when I speak about it I can smile and
think about just the pleasant stories what we underwent. It was really hard to start new
friendships because I was frightened, I don t wanna lose more people who are nice and close
to me. However, I got new friends, but I know that they cant replaced my best friend.
At that time, the most difficult question was: what do I want to do with my life and where
should I continue my studies? With my parents bless I choosed Balassa Blint Economical
secondary and trade school. The first days were formidable because of the new enormous
building, new strict teachers. Everybody was shy, and noiseless, but after a couple weeks
everything changed we got know each other, and new friendship were concluded.
Unfortunately, the attitude of studying is very low in my school so my classmates thought Im
crazy to take part in every school events and learn as hard as I can.
I joined to a acting group. One of our performance where I was Puck from William
Shakespeares drama in the Midsummers Nights Dream. It was really funny to play a boy in
the stage and after that my destination was to play a boy almost all in our action. Once I acted
a girl who was an alterego of a boy and in a woman body I tried to find out what women
need. On the other time I played a 50 year old widow woman who has a pub and she was a
little bit alcoholic in Sndor Petfi drama, the title of this drama is The hammer of the
locality.I figured many vers mond verseny , and I wrote articles to the schools newspaper
too.
I have been chosed to the vice-president for the Rkczi alliance. It is a Hungarian association
whose purpose is to keep tauch with students who are living in the next part of the border.
Before the last year I took my final exam in English and Geographic in middle level and both
was higher than 90 percent.
Now as a school leaver I would like to continue my studies in a university. I hold dear to work
with my age. That is why I want to become a teacher or a psychologist. And of course as a girl
I would like to have a big family and live with them live happily ever after.

2. Csaldi let, csaldi kapcsolatok

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szleim, testvrem bemutatsa: munka, hobbi

csaldi programok: kirnduls, kzs tkezs, otthoni munkamegoszts

a mai csaldkp: vls, nevelszlk, rvahzak
milyen egy normlis csald
csaldi kapcsolatok: kzeli-tvoli
a szeretet szerepe a csaldban: szeretetnyelvek

Nowadays just few people can say I came from a healthy and proper family. Fortunately, I
have a complete family. My parents have been married for 21 years and they still love each
other. We are an average family that is mean we are 4 together. While some areas in the
world are way too overpopulated, in other places the number of people is decreasing apace.
The overpopulated areas are usually the backward ones, where the social and medical system
is rather poor. Because of the high population, each person's wage is less than sufficient.
While these areas suffer from too many births, other places suffer from the lack of them.
These are the developed countries, where women usually give birth no more than 1 or 2
children (if they do). I think the reasons behind this are the more expensive life and the
working hours. It's simply too hard to bring up as many children as people did about 30 years
ago.
Governments always support families. For instance, if you have 3 or more children, you get
money which helps you to raise them. Another example is when you are a single/divorced
parent and you gotta take care of your child/children on your own, in this case the government
gives you family allowances. Or if you've lost your job, you get unemployment benefits, so
this won't concern your kids as long as you find another one. Mothers also get maternity leave
after giving birth.
My mother name is Eve, she is working as a health visitor. She is very domesticated and
provider. My father name is Attila, he is working as a mill-hand in Suzuki. His property is that
he is unfaltering and he has enthusiastic personality. I have a younger brother whose name is
Thomas, he is 16 year old grammar school student. Hes hobby is playing football, his
position is quarterback. He is the biggest mkamester in the family but at the same time very
emotional.
We always discuss our problems and the good things that have happened to us. We can relay
each other and trust. We share all the housework, we plan what to do around the house. But
what I like the most the Sundays lunch together, it really brings the family together after busy
weekdays, and this time we can rest a little bit.
In my eye, it has a big value to be with my loved ones. We go to the hills twice a year. Apart
from hiking, we visit small villages there and try traditional dishes. In summer we either rent
a small house to stay in. Its very important to be contact with your relatives, too. My close
relatives are my grandparents, incles and aunts and their families. My distant relatives are, for
instens, my grandparents siblings and their families.
A new family starts when two people get married. Of late its not general to get married. In
other Western cultures there are more couples living together without any official documents.
Its true that getting married means a kind of a commitment, and big responsibility.
Everywhere there are happy and unhappy married couples, as well as unmarried ones.
Damaged family means that you have one parent or your parents divorced or you have to deal
with drug problems and alcohol problems in your family. More and more marriages break up
nowadays, because people seem to have no time for each other, they are impatient and
stressful. Orphanages are full of kids, because lots of parents resign rlik, they cant feed
them or take them a place what they can call home. Unfortunately, a part of the pregnant
women decide to kill their child inside the womb.

3. A csaldi let mindennapjai, otthoni teendk

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mindennapi teendk, munka- iskola

szemlyes napi beoszts
otthoni munkamegoszts
papnl szretels
egytt dolgozni hatkonysg, jtkony hats
sok utazs, kocsi legjobb beszlgetsek helyszne

4. Szemlyes tervek
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rettsgi
jogostvny: flek sok baleset, a nk nem vezetnek jl, fontos a fggetlensghez
tovbbtanuls: miket jelltem be s mirt
mi lesz, hogy ha nem vesznek fel
Magyarorszgon szeretnk maradni elnyk, htrnyok, sokan kimennek
eskv!!!! minden lny lma
csaldalapts, 4 gyerek - ha megtehetnm csak anya lennk
biztos lls, nem sokat, hogy a csaldommal lehessek
szleim tmogatsa
hit dolgai, fiatalokkal foglalkozni

5. A csald szerepe az egyn s a trsadalom letben

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milyen egy normlis csald

rossz csald kp: fajti, mirt van ez? lehet-e ezen vltoztatni
milyen jv vr arra aki egy egszsges csaldbl jn, milyen jv vr arra aki nem
lelki srlsek
a trsadalom a csaldokbl pl fel
mi a szerepe a csaldnak a trsadalomban
mit jelent az, hogy egy csald
kinek mi a felelssge a csaldon bell

I think It's not exaggerating to claim that families are the base of the whole society. It teaches
us the main rules of social life and morality, furthermore you learn the basics in it, like how to
behave, the value of things, or responsibilities. It's indispensable to have a proper family
behind you, otherwise by the time you reach adulthood you'll have been done by deprivation.
I reckon that the root of every crime is the inappropriate family background. Damaged family
means that you have one parent or your parents divorced or you have to deal with drug
problems and alcohol problems in your family. More and more marriages break up nowadays,
because people seem to have no time for each other, they are impatient and stressful.
Those children, who have been grown up in an unhealthy family not just may become
criminals but also have to live with many traumas in their whole life.
If you have a complete family I have to say you are a very lucky person, and you have to

appreciate it. Fortunately, I have a healthy family, too. For a teenager, who comes from a
proper family has bigger chance to live his or her life in higher level. For example you may go
to college or university and your parents if both have a job can help in your costs.
Your present determines your future. On the biggest video sharing portal, you could find a
very shocking short film about social problems. The title of the movie is Children see,
Children do. It shows us that what children are taught by their parents they will follow them.
For instance, if a kid see his or her parents solving a problem with anger and physical abuse
unfortunately when they will have an own family, there is a big chance that they are going to
solve their problems the same way as his or her parents did in the past.

6. Csaldi munkamegoszts, szerepek a csaldban, genercik egyttlse

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kell munkamegoszts, egyms segtse, felelssg vllals

munkamegoszts clja: felelssg vllals, nevels, felntt vls
szerepek megvltozsa, nem egszsges
rgen: anya otthon, apa dolgozik
a hatrok elmosdsa
genercik ne ljenek egytt: kivve betegsg, szksg esetn
fontos a genercik kzti problmk megoldsa, egytt ls szablyai, egyms segtse

In the past the father was the breadwinner, he worked all day while the mother was staying
home with the kids and cooked dinner for his exhausted husband, who usually came home
late. Nowadays it's a bit different: women rather like to deal with their career instead of giving
birth to children. Men also work too much or too far away, they can't devote enough time for
their families. In my opinion in a family the man has a bigger responsibility because he is the
leader and a head of the family. Usually they earn more money and make the hard decisions.
I reckon that women need job, because only one payment is not enough. Nevertheless, they
would work less, and be with their family, because families are the base of the whole society
and you can learn a lot of things from your mother and father.
Family is a kind of community where you have to follow rules and learn to adapt to the others
and of course share the housework.
Siblings can help each other to do the homework or clean their room. Usually mothers does
cook and the biggest part of the housework. If you live in a house with a garden mowing the
grass is the mens job. Boys also care about their cars, and they repair everything in the house
because they are handymen.
In the XXI. century everything changed. Nies munkk elfrfiasodnak + plda. Masculine
jobs are done by women which was unimaginable in the past. These typical jobs for example:
doctor, engineer, electrician and so on. For these jobs you need also good condition. Despite
of that ladies are the fairer sex we can handle these jobs, and we are very successful and
recognized in the market. If a missus earn more money than her husband they can decide to
stay the father at home with the new born baby.
If we look into the inventors word, the belief is that men are cleverer and more resourceful
than women. But its not true. Did you know that the dishwasher and disposable diaper were
also invented by creative women.
One of the main question in a family life is this: Is it healthy to live a lot of generations
together? For example in India its a tradition. Everybody lives under one roof from
grandparents to grandchildren. They are obedient to the oldest man in the house because they
think they are the wisest in the family. Family is sacrosanct.
In Africa families live in tribes. They live together and hunt together. They have to trust each

other, if they dont they cant survive in the middle of nowhere.

In my culture living with your parents isnt very regular. In my opinion its not healthy to live
with your parents because it can cause many conflicts. So if its not necessary dont live
together.
In Europe the generation gap is wider than before, life is so busy so a lot of elderly people are
put to nursing homes. In my view its not a solution. When I was a child and I was sick my
mom cherished me, without questions. Why should I behave so selfish to put her in place
what is absolute unknown to her? If a situation like this occurs the generations should share
their homes and live together.
If two generations must live together the most elemental rule is to respect each others private
life and accept each others opinions and decisions.