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1. Mothers play a crucial role in child development through emotional bonding, teaching trust and security, being sensitive, kind and loving, emphasizing family, maintaining a positive attitude, demonstrating the value of hard work, and establishing discipline and routine.
2. Fathers also significantly influence children both directly and indirectly, such as by having a good relationship with the mother and being involved in children's lives, which is linked to better social and educational outcomes for children.
3. Both parents fulfilling their roles helps children to develop healthy emotional attachments and social skills.
1. Mothers play a crucial role in child development through emotional bonding, teaching trust and security, being sensitive, kind and loving, emphasizing family, maintaining a positive attitude, demonstrating the value of hard work, and establishing discipline and routine.
2. Fathers also significantly influence children both directly and indirectly, such as by having a good relationship with the mother and being involved in children's lives, which is linked to better social and educational outcomes for children.
3. Both parents fulfilling their roles helps children to develop healthy emotional attachments and social skills.
1. Mothers play a crucial role in child development through emotional bonding, teaching trust and security, being sensitive, kind and loving, emphasizing family, maintaining a positive attitude, demonstrating the value of hard work, and establishing discipline and routine.
2. Fathers also significantly influence children both directly and indirectly, such as by having a good relationship with the mother and being involved in children's lives, which is linked to better social and educational outcomes for children.
3. Both parents fulfilling their roles helps children to develop healthy emotional attachments and social skills.
1. Duet Task of Parents-to-be: Mothering and Fathering Role 2. Diff erent Parenting Styles 3. Behavioral needs of expectant mothers 4. Selected situational crises aff ecting parental assumption of roles a. single parents b. birth of handicapped child c. separation/divorce d. migrant/overseas parents e. working mother/absentee parent 5. Eff ects of a childless marriage a. artifi cial insemination b. surrogate mother c. adoption
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LOCQUIAO, MARIA CLARISSA O.
LOPEZ, JERLYN MAY L. LUCAS, MARIZEN D. MABALOT, PAULA JEREMY D.G. MACUJA, JC RENZ MADJID, AYEZA SAPHIA T. MADJID, DANA T. MADJID, ZERFA-NISHREEN T. MAHIMER, INGRID MAHIMER A. MAMOGAY, MARIA LOURDETTE A. NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents
learning to trust and providing emotional
DUET TASK OF security. As a mother, you have the onus PARENTS-TO-BE of teaching your child about the importance of being able to trust and be trustworthy. If your child can trust you, he will be confident and emotionally secure. MOTHERING ROLE Be around when your child needs you and In a family, the mother's role has always make sure you support him and traditionally been to raise the children and encourage him to do better. Your take care of household chores. However, encouragement will show your child that the role of mothers in the family home is your love for him is a constant, and it will constantly changing. Mothers are make him more secure. increasingly taking on multiple roles, such 3. Be Sensitive: as working and looking after young ones - As a mother, there will be times at the same time. The role of a mother in when you feel that nothing is going the child development will greatly influence planned way. It is natural to lose your cool social, emotional and overall and give up in despair, but wait. Think development. Make sure you take note of from the point of view of your child. Your whatever you do, especially in front of child will learn a big lesson in life from you your child. Because mothers give birth to that of being sensitive towards others their children, it only makes sense that needs and thoughts. As a mother, you they stay at home and bond with the may have a certain way of looking at newborn, at least during the initial stages. things and doing tasks while your child The wisdom and knowledge that a mother may have an entirely different view. can impart to her children helps them to Understand your childs perspective too. If develop into mature young adults. For you feel that your child is wrong, try and single mothers the pressure is even explain to him what you feel he can do greater, as parenting responsibilities are differently. not shared with a partner or husband. 4. Be Kind and Loving: 1. The First Bonds of Emotional - The way you behave towards your Attachment: child will have a lasting impact on your - As a mother and the primary childs development throughout his caregiver in your childs earliest days, childhood as well as his adult years. weeks and months, you are your childs Always be kind and loving towards your first link of any emotional bonding and child, no matter how stressed or angry you attachment. Your baby will learn his first are. Your response to your childs day to emotions in relation to you. The way you day activities and needs will show him the bond with your baby in the earliest importance of being loving towards others. months and years will leave a deep impact The way you speak to your child and on your childs overall well-being and others around you will teach your child development. The mother and child about dealing kindly with others. relationship you create with your child 5. Family Is About Being during the earliest years will greatly Together: influence the way your child behaves in - Your child will very soon learn the social and emotional settings, especially in meaning and importance of a family, later years. As a mother, how soon you especially from you. The way you interact react to your childs needs and how you with other members of your family will try to take care of those needs will teach teach your child about many important your child a lot about understanding relationships in life. Make sure you others and his emotional requirements. introduce your child to different family 2. Teaching Trust and Security: members and take him to various family - If you want to know the importance outings. Make family time a regular affair of mothers in child development, you need at home. to learn this. Two very important life skills 6. Positive Attitude: that your child will learn from you are
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents - Life is tough, but how you handle dealing with defiant toddlers; and better your problems can teach your child about confidants for teenagers seeking advice the importance of positive attitude. Your and emotional support. response towards various problems, Fathers who treat the mothers of their whether small or big, will show your child children with respect and deal with conflict that having a positive attitude can help within the relationship in an adult and overcome many difficulties. Encourage appropriate manner are more likely to your child to learn from his mistakes and have boys who understand how they are to never give up. to treat women and who are less likely to 7. Hard Work: act in an aggressive fashion toward - No one can teach your child the females. Girls with involved, respectful value of hard work as much as you can! fathers see how they should expect men The hard work you do for your childs to treat them and are less likely to become development and education is the biggest involved in violent or unhealthy example in front of him. Your child may relationships. In contrast, research has feel that working hard is something that shown that husbands who display anger, makes you tired at the end of the day. But show contempt for, or who stonewall their remind him of the immense pleasure and wives are more likely to have children who satisfaction it gives you to ensure your are anxious, withdrawn, or antisocial. childs well-being. From birth, children who have an involved 8. Importance of Discipline and father are more likely to be emotionally Routine: secure, be confident to explore their - In his earlier years, your child will surroundings, and, as they grow older, be most comfortable while following a set have better social connections with peers. pattern in his daily life. Show your child These children also are less likely to get in how you can effectively manage time and trouble at home, school, or in the commitments by following a routine. neighborhood. Infants who receive high Sources: levels of affection from their fathers (e.g., http://www.momjunction.com/articles/diffe babies whose fathers respond quickly to rent-ways-in-which-a-mother-can- their cries and who play together) are influence-child- more securely attached; that is, they can development_00353010/#gref explore their environment comfortably https://www.reference.com/family/responsi when a parent is nearby and can readily bilities-mother-ae6997cf40a7a8a9# accept comfort from their parent after a brief separation. A number of studies FATHERING ROLE suggest they also are more sociable and One of the most important influences a popular with other children throughout father can have on his child is indirect early childhood. fathers influence their children in large Children with involved, caring fathers also part through the quality of their have better educational outcomes. A relationship with the mother of their number of studies suggest that fathers children. A father who has a good who are involved, nurturing, and playful relationship with the mother of their with their infants have children with higher children is more likely to be involved and IQs, as well as better linguistic and to spend time with their children and to cognitive capacities. Toddlers with have children who are psychologically and involved fathers go on to start school with emotionally healthier. Similarly, a mother higher levels of academic readiness. They who feels affirmed by her childrens father are more patient and can handle the and who enjoys the benefits of a happy stresses and frustrations associated with relationship is more likely to be a better schooling more readily than children with mother. Indeed, the quality of the less involved fathers. The influence of a relationship affects the parenting behavior fathers involvement on academic of both parents. They are more achievement extends into adolescence responsive, affectionate, and confident and young adulthood. Numerous studies with their infants; more self-controlled in find that an active and nurturing style of
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents fathering is associated with better verbal The time a father spends with his skills, intellectual functioning, and children is important for at least three academic achievement among reasons. First, spending time together adolescents enables a father to get to know and to be The way fathers play with their children known by his child. A father can best also has an important impact on a childs discover his childs virtues and vices, emotional and social development. Fathers hopes and fears, and aspirations and spend a much higher percentage of their ideals by spending lots of time with his one-on-one interaction with infants and child. Second, a father who spends lots of preschoolers in stimulating, playful activity time with his child tends to be better at than do mothers. From these interactions, caring. Time spent together makes a children learn how to regulate their father more sensitive to his childs needs feelings and behavior. Generally speaking, for love, attention, direction, and fathers also tend to promote discipline. And third, children often do see independence and an orientation to the time as an indicator of a parents love for outside world. Fathers often push them. So fathers should spend achievement while mothers stress considerable time with their children nurturing, both of which are important to playing and having fun. They should healthy development. As a result, children engage in productive activities with their who grow up with involved fathers are children and should spend time fostering more comfortable exploring the world their childrens intellectual growth. around them and more likely to exhibit Nurturing children self-control and pro-social behavior. In With infants, fathers should be addition, numerous studies have found responsive to their babies cries, hold and that children who live with their fathers hug them often, and participate in their are more likely to have good physical and basic care (e.g., feeding, changing emotional health, to achieve academically, diapers). Throughout the rest of early and to avoid drugs, violence, and childhood, fathers should praise their delinquent behavior. In short, fathers have children when they behave well or a powerful and positive impact upon the accomplish something, hug and kiss their development and health of children. children often, and comfort them when Fathering Roles to be an Effective Parent they are sad or scared. Fathers should Fostering a positive relationship continue to praise adolescents, especially with the childrens mother when they achieve significant Fathers who can keep calm in the accomplishments. One unique way that midst of conflict, who can speak non- fathers nurture their childrenespecially defensively, validate their partners toddlers and teenagersis by remaining concerns, and attempt to respond to calm when the child is upset or acting out. legitimate issues raised by their partner For they exercise a critical role in providing are much more likely to have a strong and their children with a mental map of how to happy relationship with their wife and respond to difficult situations. This is why children. The virtues that a father displays they have to learn the art of self-control as in his relationship with the mother of his they interact with their children so they children set an important example for the will not grow aggressive and will be children. Children who witness positive most of the times. affectionate, respectful, and sacrificial Disciplining children appropriately behavior on the part of their father are Discipline often is difficult and more likely to treat their own, future frustrating; hence, fathers can make spouses in a similar fashion. Couples who raising children easier for all in the family can raise issues with one another by taking up a substantial share of child constructively, compromise, and forgive discipline. Fathers must maintain control one another for the wrongs done generally of their emotions, their body language, have happier marriages and happier and their hands when they discipline their children. children. Fathers who scream at their Spending time with children children, who pound tables, or who strike
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents their children are destined to fail as Historically, fathers were viewed as disciplinarians, both because they are chief financial provider for and protector of modeling bad behavior and because they their children. As the traditional roles of lose their childrens respect when they let mother and father, and likewise man and their emotions take hold of them. Inorder wife, have changed over the years, the to properly discipline their children they distinctions have blurred, especially when should: it comes to who is the breadwinner. One 1. Set clear rules and enforce them. study, however, found that men view Be consistent. marriage as a partnership of equals, 2. Never give in to a tantrum. This will albeit one in which the man is the partner only teach children that tantrums work, ultimately responsible for the provision of and will encourage more and louder income and the familys protection. The tantrums in the future. ability to provide and protect is still, today, 3. Keep anger out of discipline. This very much tied up with the average mans also helps the parent refrain from either sense of self and sense of manhood. inappropriate or excessive discipline. Research consistently shows that fathers 4. Do not confuse bad behavior with a who are employed full-time express more bad child. Parents need to verbalize to happiness with family life and has better children that its the bad behavior they relationships with their children, compared dont like, not the child. to fathers who are underemployed or 5. Use time-outs and other unemployed. appropriate consequences. On the other hand, fathers can 6. Praise good behavior. protect their children by monitoring their 7. Combine rules and limit setting social environment. Research indicates with explanations. Telling children why that children benefit when their parents rules are what they are, and why they are know their friends and the parents of their being punished helps them learn what is friends. Fathers can use this and is not acceptable behavior. intergenerational closure, as social Serving as a guide to the outside scientists call it, to keep track of their world childrens whereabouts and activities and Fathers need to be preparing their to collaborate with other parents in children for the challenges and making sure that their children are opportunities of adulthood by gradually behaving in ways they approve. It is giving them more opportunities to act important that they should pay close independently and to make good use of attention to the type of peers with whom their independence. As children begin their children are spending time. school, fathers can tell their children of Serving as a positive role model their own experiences in school and Fathers also exercise a strong encourage them to study hard, teach influence on their children through the them about money management, or teach type of life they live in and outside the them a sport that will help their children home. For example, in the wake of child learn about teamwork. They should also maltreatment, it is very important that the include their children in some of their work father examine what sort of role model he or community activities so as to give their is presenting to his children. Of course, if teenaged children a taste of their lives he is the perpetrator of the maltreatment, outside the home. They also should talk to the answer is that he is providing a very their children about peer pressure and the poor role model. If the father is not the dangers of alcohol, drugs, early sexual perpetrator, it is still very important for activity, and violence. Fathers should him to look at what kind of role model he incorporate discussions of their core is portraying. Children will look to the beliefs and life experiences into ordinary adults in the household for emotional conversations with their teens and have sustenance, including how to respond and meals with their children on a regular behave moving forward. It is at such times basis. of familial stress that the role model Protecting and providing provided by the father is of the utmost
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents importance. Being a role model is not a in shaping his sons and daughters simple or easy task. In the way that approach to romantic relationships and fathers treat other people, spend their marriage, interpersonal relationships, and time and money, and handle the joys and school and work stresses of life, they provide a template of Source: living for their children that often proves https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubPDFs/fath critical in guiding the behavior of their erhood.pdf children, for better or worse. Fathers treatment of the opposite sex, his ability to control his own emotions, and his approach to work all play a formative role self-discipline and self-control, and report a lot of sadness. 4. Neglectful/Uninvolved Parenting - Parents who are neglectful is DIFFERENT PARENTING characterized by few STYLES demands, low responsiveness and little communication. there are no rules or expectations and if there are it is relatively 1. Authoritarian Parenting - where few. Parents fulfill basic needs but they parents establish the rules and expect that are generally detached from their child's children will follow them without life. sometimes neglectful parents are due exception. Failure to follow such rules to apparent mental health issues or usually results in punishment. substance abuse or they may lack Authoritarian parents don't explain the knowledge about reasoning behind these rules. If asked to parenting. Children tend to lack self- explain, the parent might simply reply, esteem and perform poorly academically. "Because I said so." These parents have they exhibit behavioral problems and rank high demands but are not responsive to low in happiness. Children often have no their children. trust foundation from these parents thus 2. Authoritative Parenting - Like they have a harder time forming authoritarian parents, those with an relationship or bonds with other people, authoritative parenting style establish especially children their age. rules and guidelines that their children are expected to follow. However, this parenting style is much more democratic. Authoritative parents are responsive to BEHAVIORAL NEEDS their children and willing to listen to OF EXPECTANT questions. When children fail to meet the expectations, these parents are more MOTHERS nurturing and forgiving rather than punishing 3. Permissive Parenting - They are also Rubin (1984) identified four major tasks called indulgent parents. They are lenient that the pregnant woman undertakes to and often avoiding confrontation. maintain her intactness and that of her According to Baumrind these parents tend family and to incorporate her new child to be more responsive than demanding. into the family system. These tasks form They are generally nurturing and the foundation for a mutually gratifying communicative with their children opting to be a friend than a parent. children with relationship with her infant: permissive parents tend to exhibit 1. Ensuring safe passage through behavioral problems as they are more pregnancy, labor, and birth. The likely not appreciate authority and rules pregnant woman feels concern for and they tend to struggle academically. Children often have low self-esteem, little both her unborn child and herself.
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents She looks for competent maternity form. The mother develops a care to provide a sense of control. fantasy image of her ideal child. She may seek information from This binding-in process, literature, observation of other characterized by its strong pregnant women and new mothers, emotional component, motivates and discussion with others. She the pregnant woman to become often engages in self-care activities competent in her role and provides related to diet, exercise, alcohol satisfaction for her in the role of consumption, and so forth. In the mother. third trimester, she becomes more 4. Learning to give of oneself on aware of external threats in the behalf of ones child. Childbirth environment a toy on the stairs, involves many acts of giving. The the awkwardness of an escalator man gives a child to the woman; that pose a threat to her well- she in turn gives a child to him. being. Sleep becomes more Life is given to an infant; a sibling difficult and she longs for birth is given to older children of the even though it, too, is frightening. family. The woman begins to 2. Seeking acceptance of this develop a capacity for self-denial child from others. The birth of a and learns to delay immediate child alters a womans primary personal gratification to meet the support group (her family) and her needs of another. Baby showers secondary affiliative groups. The and gifts are acts of giving that woman slowly and subtly alters her increase the mothers self-esteem network to meet the needs of her and help her recognize the pregnancy. In this adjustment the separateness and needs of the womans partner is the most coming baby. important figure. The partners support and acceptance help form a maternal identity. If there are SINGLE PARENTS other children in the home, the mother also works to ensure their acceptance of the coming child. Single-parent families can be defined as The woman without a partner looks families where a parent lives with to others such as a family member dependent children, either alone or in a or friend for this support. larger household, without a spouse or partner. 3. Seeking commitment and acceptance of herself as Mother-Only and Father-Only Families mother to the infant (binding- Single-parent families are generally in). During the first trimester, the categorized by the sex of the custodial child remains a rather abstract parent (mother-only or father-only concept. With quickening, however, families). Mother-only families include the child begins to become a real widows, divorced and separated women, person, and the mother begins to and never-married mothers. develop bonds of attachment. The Challenges of Single-Parenting mother experiences movement of Parenthood is challenging under the best of conditions. With one parent, the the child within her in an intimate, challenges are multiplied. Coping with exclusive way, and bonds of love childrearing for single parents becomes
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents more difficult because of responsibility overload, when one parent makes all the The Effects of single-parent home on decisions and provides for all of the family a childs behavior needs; task over-load, when the demands for work, housework, and parenting can be Academic Achievement overwhelming for one person; and emotional overload, when the single Most single-parent households are run by parent must always be available to meet mothers, and the absence of a father -- both their own and their children's coupled with lower household income -- emotional needs. Alone or in combination can increase the risk of children these result in problems for the single performing poorly in school. The lack of parent, including loneliness, anxiety, and financial support from a father often depression. results in single mothers working more, which can in turn affect children because Support from friends and relatives can they receive less attention and guidance offset the effects of overload, with friends with their homework. offering a buffer against loneliness and relatives giving more practical help Emotional Effect (Gladow and Ray 1986). One difficulty is asking for help in a society that defines the family as an autonomous unit Having only one income earner in the responsible for its own circumstances and home puts single parent households at well-being. However, few single parents risk for poverty, finds research compiled can successfully raise children alone, by the University of Washington's West despite the social expectation that Coast Poverty Center. Living in poverty is noncustodial parents (usually the father) stressful and can have many emotional should only be responsible for effects on children, including low self- supplemental financial support, while the esteem, increased anger and frustration custodial parent (usually the mother) and an increased risk for violent behavior. takes on both parenting and economic Besides financial constraints, other roles (Goldscheider and Waite 1991). emotional effects of growing up in a single Some suggest that the ideal of an parent household may include feelings of independent family head represents a abandonment, sadness, loneliness and Eurocentric view which is challenged by an difficulty socializing and connecting with African-American model of motherhood others. (Hill Collins 1994). In this model the importance of caring for and supporting Positive Effect children in the context of community development and social activism is Single parenting can have positive effects emphasized. Children are cared for and on children as well, depending on other raised by their own mothers factors such as personality types and (bloodmothers), other women in the parenting techniques. According to a study community (othermothers), and relatives. at Cornell University, positive single African-American children are more likely parenting did not show any negative to live with a grandmother than are white impact on the social and educational and Hispanic children. development of the 12- and 13-year-olds participating in the study. In addition, Source: children in single-parent families may http://family.jrank.org/pages/1575/Single- exhibit strong responsibility skills, as they Parent-Families-Mother-Only-Father-Only- are often called upon to help out more Families.html with family chores and tasks. Children in
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents single-parent families often form close genetically passed on to the child by the bonds with their parent, as they are parents. But, predicting before pregnancy closely dependent on each other whether or not a parent will pass on to the throughout the childs life. Children from child some genetically linked disability is single-parent families may also form often difficult, if not impossible. closer bonds with extended family However, in the vast majority of children with disabilities, no genetic cause members or family friends, as these can be identified. Yet, blaming the parents people often help raise them. when children are born with these conditions seldom leads to productive parent professional interactions. Sometimes, tracing the cause of disability Source: to some factor related to the parents may http://www.livestrong.com/article/83670- prove helpful towards diagnosis and effects-single-parent-home-childs/ prevention of similar cases in future. Parent's reaction to the birth of a child with disabilities varies widely. While somewhat speculative, 3 to 7 emotional stages of parents are usually identified. They are as: a) feelings of shock and disbelief b) denial c) anger and guilt or depression BIRTH OF d) a shift from self-absorption HANDICAPPED CHILD to concentrating on now to deal with the child's needs With the above in view parents of the disabled take on multiple roles, which Parents and family need to fulfill certain are not separate and distinct from one responsibilities in order to function. A another, nor do they fall into distinct family must generate income, protect and chronological periods. Rather, they often maintain its members and home, nurture overlap and share common elements. and love one another and see to it that children are taught social norms and Reference: educated. When a child is handicapped, http://ayjnihh.nic.in/awareness/parentsgui these responsibilities become more de2.asp crucial. There is the expense, the time, the energy needed to care for the disabled member and his safety. Besides this there is the difficulty of helping the disabled SEPARATION or member develop a good self-image and DIVORCE social skills, and the problems of seeing to it that the disabled member receives an appropriate education. Every ordinary task becomes more difficult and more stressful. Marriages that end in divorce typically As per the Eugenics Movement begin a process of unraveling, (1880-1930) assumed parents to be the estrangement, or an emotional separation underlying source of the child's physical, year before the actual legal divorce is emotional or intellectual disability. A obtained. During the course of the primary goal of this movement was to marriage, one or both of the marital remove human flaws by regulating human partners begins to feel alienated from the reproduction. Towards the end of the 19th other. Conflicts with each other and with century, through research it was found the children intensify, become more that some disabilities/conditions are frequent, and often go unresolved.
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents Feelings of bitterness, helplessness, and Migration is an economic, social anger escalate as the spouses weigh the and political process that affects those costs and benefits of continuing the who move, those who stay behind, and marriage versus separating. Gay C. the places where they go. And with the Kitson's (1992) influential study of marital advent of globalization, labor migration breakdown describes a distressing process has become a worldwide phenomenon. characterized by emotional distance, People are crossing borders to search for dissatisfaction, and frequent thoughts and better job opportunities and to provide a discussions about whether and how to better future for their families. Along this separate. Many unhappy couples explore development is the plight of more children marital counseling, extramarital being left behind by either one or both relationships, and trial separations, with parents, leaving them to the care of marital happiness fluctuating upward and extended family members or friends. downward from day to day and year to The impact of migration varies - year as the marital relationship and ranging from economic benefits not only marital roles are renegotiated. for the family Divorce changes in the family often but the country in generally through its negatively influence the psychological remittances to the security and well-being states of parents; parental stress, anxiety, of the family of migrants. But a major and depression, in turn, inhibit effective concern here is the social costs of parenting. migration specifically to the children left Intervention: The way to allay negative behind. feelings related to divorce, then, would be Parental absence creates to counsel children regarding the displacement, disruptions and changes in normative process of divorce, to let them care giving arrangement. There is always know that they are not alone as children of an emotional aspect that goes along with divorce, and to educate them regarding parents leaving their children, especially the healthy functioning of many divorced for long periods of time. Nevertheless, it is families. Also through social service also a relief to have the extended family personnel and officials of the courts could looking after the children left-behind. be trained to be supportive of divorcing However, it cannot negate the fact that parents and their children as a means to the children are longing for the love and strengthen family relationships and reduce care of their biological parents. feelings of stigma. General Impact on Children Source: Children have a different level of http://family.jrank.org/pages/413/Divorce.h acceptance or tolerance of the situation tml depending on their cognitive development. For young children, they only see migration as a form of abandonment of their parents; while MIGRANT / OVERSEAS adolescents may either be receptive or PARENTS resentful. Related articles on children left behind also focus on the effects of mothers absence to children, where People have been on the move children have varied reactions to since human life began. Migration is migration situation depending on the age neither a new phenomenon, a failure of of the child i.e. for pre-school children (0- development, nor a substitute for 5 years old), the absence of mothers is development. Individuals move as part of somewhat easily accepted since no their effort to improve their lives and the bonding has yet been established but the lives of their families, to learn new skills, adjustment for those children ages 6-16 to gain new experiences, to find a job or to years of age is more difficult because they flee insecurity, disaster or famine. had already known and established affection with their mothers.
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents material benefits but the Global Parenting painful one is they cannot It was highly recognized that the hide their sadness. transmission of values, including spiritual o The parents long period of formation, from one generation to the next absence gives an OFWs is one of the major responsibilities vested child a feeling of in the family. But the 2003 study found permanence of absence, that migration of parents did not matter in very similar to those the formation of important values and experience by orphans and spirituality since this is also passed on abandoned children. Most of from parents or caregivers. At the same them have not really gotten time, through the help of advance to know their parents well technology, a different level of intimacy because they have not lived which also strengthens the linkage and with them for years. nurturing bonding is being established Children can only associate among migrant families. This is what their parents with the Tanalega (2002) is also talking about money, gifts and phone (Global Parenting) wherein parenting calls (Atikha and becomes a long distance love affair Balikbayani: 2002). synchronized with the fast paced Burden of girl children in development of technology. The absence performing the caring work of the parents is substituted through the o Many young adults who different technological mechanisms have migrated mothers felt (cellphones, emails, videocams) to make neglected or abandoned. their presence felt by their children even if They do not see their they are thousand miles away. fathers as performing the Unfortunately, this techy parenting will caring work in the family, still not replace the emotional bonding rather they pass over the that can develop in the relationship when caring responsibilities to they are physically present. At the same other women in the family, time, they will miss the growing up years more often to the eldest of their children and their value formation. daughter. This immense responsibility in turn affects Effects on Children their performance in school. Longing for parental care (Parrenas: 2006). As noted o Though family separation in another study, when may not necessarily lead to mother migrates, the father extreme cases of emotional does not automatically disturbance and assume the roles previously delinquency among children undertaken by women, (Scalabrini:2004 and hence, it becomes a burden Asis:2000), children have to the girls in the family who different levels of assume the roles of the acceptance and tolerance of mother migrants. (Asis: the migration depending on 2000). their cognitive Confusion over gender boundaries development. For young and reversal of gender roles children, they see this as an o It is unfortunate that gender abandonment and not boundaries are very much seeing the other side of the keen on childrens views on picture; it could however parental migration, have either a positive or children of migrant fathers negative effect for the are more likely to say that adolescents somewhat their father left the happy because of the Philippines to provide for
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents the family, whereas children abuse than female children. of migrant mothers more Gender differences were commonly claim that their largest for such abuses as mothers left to escape being belittled and being poverty. (Parrenas:2006). hurt. The feeling of being This study of Parrenas abandoned was rather further shows how the pronounced among the society views the children of migrant mothers dysfunctional transnational (boys and girls alike). families by blaming the Reference: migrant womens https://www.unicef.org/philippines/Synthes disruptions of the gender is_StudyJuly12008.pdf conventions where there is also a greater demand for childrens care expectations from women than from men. WORKING ABROAD And when the father is the one left at home, there is an impact to children of the reversal of roles of fathers Parents who work overseas assume that from being a main provider their kids understand fully why they have to that of a nurturer. to leavethat it is for the childrens good (Pingol:2001). There is also and their future. confusion and resentment Many parents leave when their kids are of children over the young. The children do not even know transformation of traditional where in the world their mothers or gender roles especially fathers are. where most fathers refuse to perform nurturing roles Children of OFWs believe their parents are even in the absence of the working abroad to give them better food, mothers. (Yeoh and Lim: nd) better education and better home. The Developing a consumerist attitude eldest child then assumes the role of a o Most children accept the parent.Many OFW parents think material migration of their parents as things can compensate for their absence an opportunity to have a but, when asked, the children would better life, they only see the probably say, Sana hindi na lang ninyo money equivalent of kami iniwan, sana hindi na lang kayo nag- migration. As long as they abroad. (We wish you never left us to work receive their money abroad). regularly, they will be fine. This also leads to a Negative effects that going to work abroad materialistic attitude of has on children identified both from children of migrants specialized consular doctrinal elements, Vulnerability to abuses national statistics and own research and o Vulnerability of children to reports by other institutions and large abuse and violence is one of stakeholders are: the worrying aspects of 1. The emergence and development of the parental absence. Study phenomenon of child abuse shows that among the 2. Neglect common form of abuse are 3. Legal effects on the infringement of verbal, intimidating and fundamental rights of the child hurting children. And among 4. Psychological Effects children of migrants, it is Pain, anxiety, depression the male children who reported experiencing more
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Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents Loneliness of children and the effects of separation from parents (maternal EFFECTS OF and paternal deprivation) CHILDLESS MARRIAGE Suicide 5. Social effects Deviance 1. ARTIFICIAL INSEMINATION Absence from school It is one of many fertility options available Juvenile delinquency to women who are either having trouble Parents going to work abroad and leaving conceiving naturally with their partner or children in the country may take the form who want to have a child without a male of child abuse, depending on the situation. partner. A doctor inserts sperm directly What a parent cant do? Make sure your children know they into a woman's cervix, fallopian tubes, or are loved. Be Truthful. Share uterus. Feelings. EFFECTS: Explore Destinations. Using a map or On the Child globe, show your child where your The majority of children conceived by husband or wife is going and chart the gamete donation grow up unaware that route. Using books or encyclopedias, they lack a genetic relationship with one explore weather conditions, cultural or both parents. The early studies found norms, or attractions in that part of the no evidence of emotional or behavioral world. Keep in constant touch. Thanks to problems. Although one study reported a new communications technology, higher incidence of psychological videophones can help erase the distance problems among donor insemination between the absent parent and the children than among naturally conceived children. Scheduling a regular day for talking with one another will help your children, controlled studies that used children forget the separation. standardized measures found donor Keep in constant touch. Thanks to insemination children to be functioning new communications technology, well. videophones can help erase the distance On Family: between the absent parent and the The use of a donor introduces new genetic children. Scheduling a regular day for material into a family, which is foreign to talking with one another will help your the couple. There is a great chance that, in children forget the separation. a sperm bank, the same material will be http://www.asianhospital.com/health- used for multiple inseminations; therefore, digest/separation-anxiety-disorder-the-s-a- those children will be half-brothers. d-case-of-children-with-parents-working- Furthermore, there may be consequences abroad/ of consanguineous marriages of half- http://www.asianhospital.com/health- digest/separation-anxiety-disorder-the-s-a- brothers that are unaware of their own d-case-of-children-with-parents-working- condition. It is a new type of family, a abroad/ "pluriparental" one, comprised of http://www.asianhospital.com/health- biological mother, legal father, sperm digest/separation-anxiety-disorder-the-s-a- donor (biological father) and child. d-case-of-children-with-parents-working- On the Society abroad/ Catholic Church's views: http://www.asianhospital.com/health- The church considers IVF and artificial digest/separation-anxiety-disorder-the-s-a- insemination morally unacceptable for at d-case-of-children-with-parents-working- least three fundamental reasons. First, abroad/ from the time the ovum is fertilized, a separate human life has begun that has its own identity and dignity. Commercial, scientific and other procedures violate the
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Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents respect and physical and spiritual struggle to cope with the idea that they reverence owed to these lives. Second, IVF were carried by a woman other than their procedures particularly involve producing mother. But some more research found a number of zygotes (fertilized ova). Some out that these children seemed to be or all are usually placed in a womb; all but doing well and that the primary concern is one or a few of them usually die one way that trouble could crop up later as they hit or another. At the very least it wrongly their adolescence as they try to find their places new human life in high risk of identities. death. And third, this process of initiating On the Intended Parents: new human life is a subversion of the Intended parents live through the 9 dignity and unity of marriage and of the months of pregnancy with the uncertainty integrity of natural and necessary parental of whether or not the surrogate mother relationships with children as they come will relinquish the child. Furthermore, as into the world. the intended mother is not, herself, 2. SURROGATE MOTHER pregnant, prenatal bonding with the child Surrogacy is an arrangement or may be absent or diminished. From the agreement whereby a woman agrees to perspective of the intended mother, who carry a pregnancy for another person or is unable herself to give birth, the persons, who will become the newborn relationship with the fertile surrogate child's parent(s) after birth. Intended mother may result in feelings of parents may seek a surrogacy inadequacy, depression and low self- arrangement when either pregnancy is esteem. Because of the great deal of medically impossible, pregnancy risks prejudice against the practice of present an unacceptable danger to the surrogacy, intended parents may mother's health or is a same sex couple's experience disapproval from family, preferred method of having children. friends and their wider social world. The EFFECTS: need to resort to surrogacy may interfere On the Surrogate Mother: with the intended parents quality of A study by the Family and Child parenting. Couples whose children are Psychology Research Centre concluded born through surrogacy may view the that surrogate mothers rarely had process as an inferior route to parenthood difficulty relinquishing rights to a or may feel less confident as parents. surrogate child. Studies have shown that On Family: surrogates engage in various distancing Findings from the few studies of surrogacy techniques throughout the surrogate that currently exist indicate that families pregnancy so as to ensure that they do formed in this way are generally not become emotionally attached to the functioning well, suggesting that the child. Some women have psychological absence of a gestational link between the reactions when being surrogate mothers. parents and the child does not jeopardize It includes depression when surrendering the development of positive family the child, grief, and even refusal to release relationships or positive child adjustment. the child. A study from the Centre for 3. ADOPTION Family Research at the University of It is a process whereby a person assumes Cambridge found that surrogacy does not the parenting of another, usually a child, have a negative impact on the surrogate's from that person's biological or legal own children. parent or parents, and, in so doing, On the Child: permanently transfers all rights and Some research would conclude that responsibilities from the biological parent surrogate-born children are more likely to or parents. suffer depression than those carried by EFFECTS: their real mother and that children On the Adopted Person
Locquiao, Lopez, Lucas, Mabalot, Macuja, Madjid, A.,
Madjid, D., Madjid, N., Mahimer, Mamogay, Manalo NURSING ELECTIVE RLE 1 SECTION 6 TOPIC 2: The Parents The loss of birth parents as a result of awaited role of mom or dad. The adoption may set the stage for feelings of realities of parenthood, including lack of grief. They may have difficulty finding an sleep (for parents of infants or children outlet because their grief may not be with behavioral or sleep issues) and the recognized by others. Feelings of loss and weight of parental responsibilities can be grief, as well as anger, anxiety, or fear, overwhelming. Parents may have difficulty may especially occur during emotionally attaching to the new child and may charged milestones, such as marriage, the question their parenting capabilities. birth of a child, or the death of a parent. A number of studies have found that REFERENCES: adopted person scores lower on measures http://www.scielo.br/scielo.php? of self-esteem and self-confidence. This script=sci_arttext&pid=S1678- result may reflect the fact that some 91992011000400002 adopted persons may view themselves as http://www.webmd.com/infertility-and- different, out-of-place, unwelcome, or reproduction/guide/artificial- rejected. In late adolescence, negative insemination#1 feelings and questions about being http://www.child- adopted increased. In young adulthood, encyclopedia.com/sites/default/files/textes plans for marriage may create an urgent -experts/en/887/reproductive-technology- desire for specific background information, and-its-impact-on-child-psychosocial-and- particularly about family history. For emotional-development.pdf adopted adult women, pregnancy and the http://catholiccourier.com/commentary/oth birth of a child may raise fears of possible er-columnists/what-does-church-say- unknown hereditary problems. Becoming a about-artificial-insemination/ parent may also trigger intense feelings in https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Surrogacy the adoptee toward his or her own birthmother. These feelings may include http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article- not only empathy for her difficult 2344362/Surrogate-born-children-likely- emotional situation, but also anger and suffer-depression-carried-real-mother.html disbelief that she could have given up her http://www.today.com/health/new-study- own child. tracks-emotional-health-surrogate-kids- On the Birth-parents: 6C10366818 Relinquishment of a newborn child may be https://thepsychologist.bps.org.uk/surroga damaging to birthparents and cause cy-families lifelong pain and suffering. Birth-parents https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adoption suffer from a heightened sense of https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubpdfs/f_adi worthlessness after giving away a child. mpact.pdf They may feel guilty about their actions. http://futureofchildren.org/publications/jou These birthparents may believe that their rnals/article/index.xml? offspring will not understand the reasons journalid=66&articleid=458§ionid=31 for relinquishment and that these offspring 45 will blame and hate their birthparents for rejecting and abandoning them. They may feel powerless. They have no knowledge of what is happening to their child and no opportunity to let the adoptive family know of significant events in their own lives. On the Adoptive Parents: For many adoptive parents, this change in identity means the realization of the long-
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