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CUISINE
46 Off the Eaten Path
Tea House: Offers Most Authentic Szechuan Menu Locally
Photo by Hubert Bonnet OUR FAMILY WEDDING KYLIE MINOGUE
DVDS APHRODITE
Tea House SPORTS & LEISURE CDS
51 Fun Fur All Weekend
Has Myriad Activities
52 Lavender Lens
Minnesota Lynx Pride Post Game
TANGLETOWN 53 The Main Club
Hosts Frisch Bear Art Attack
GARDEN 53 Lavender Lens
TOUR Bingham Cup
ENRIQUE IGLESIAS KELIS
BACKTALK EUPHORIA FLESHTONE
54 The Network CDS CDS
Business Services Directory
Photo by Hubert Bonnet
54 LavenderMagazine.com Calendar
Plan Your Fortnight
COVER FEATURES 57 Ms. Behavior
12 Tangletown Garden and Art Tour Untangles
Horticulture
Quiet Homos Upstairs WandaWisdom.com
Interview with Scott Endres 59 Classifieds America’s ORIGINAL Podcasting
Find Some Classy Stuff Drag Queen
16 Green and Blue Thumbs Abound at St. Croix
Garden Tour 60 Community Connection
Tom DeGree of Wilde Roast Café Chairs the Event GLBT-Friendly Nonprofits Celebrate Intergalactic
Wanda Wisdom Month!
61 Dateland The dog days of summer
COMMUNITY DIALOGUE Tattoo You are just around the corner
6 A Word in Edgewise
An Afternoon in the Park 63 Hardline Mobile iPhone App and the world’s original
First To Offer Voice and Video Messaging podcasting drag queen will
10 Queer As Folks be heating things up! Click
Lee and Miller Take First Place in Lavender Win A Wedding 65 Consider the Source
Contest • PFund Executive Director Grinley Moves on to Writes of Passage on over to wandawisdom.
New Opportunities • Open Arms of Minnesota Holds Grand com daily to keep up with all
66 Yellow Pages Advertiser Index the wacky shenanigans! Photo by Brian Roby
Opening at New Home • Foster Receives Minneapolis/St. What’s Where This Issue
Paul Magazine’s 5-Star Wealth Manager Award
66 Cartoon
11 Passing Trolín
Daniel Boyer
Correction
PRIDE IN PICTURES In the June 18 Lavender, Reverend Tom Brock was referred BigGayNews.com
18 Pride Grand Marshal’s Reception and Art Show to as Associate Pastor of Hope Lutheran Church. His correct
Opening title is Pastor. Your daily podcast of GLBT world
news!
19 Pride Boat Cruise
20 Pride Picnic
Top Headlines
22 Queer Music Consortium Concert Stanley Cup Rode in Chicago Gay
22 Twin Cities Gay Men’s Chorus Songs from the Heart Pride Parade
23 Pride in the Park at Pine City European Court Rules Same-Sex
Marriage is Not Universal Right
NEWS & POLITICS Judge Won’t Bar Anti-Gay Activist
26 Big Gay News from Minneapolis Pride Festival
Local, National, and World News Iceland’s Prime Minister Marries
28 Gay Order of Mychal Lesbian Partner
July 2-15, 2010
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Volume 16, Issue 394 • July 2–15, 2010
Editorial
Editor Emeritus Ethan Boatner 612-436-4670
Editorial Director Sede Vacante 612-436-4671
Editorial Intern Justin Reis 612-436-4670
Editorial Associate George Holdgrafer 612-436-4672
Podmaster Bradley Traynor 612-436-4669
Contributors Kolina Cicero, Meryl Cohn, Carla Continenza,
Julie Dafydd, Heidi Fellner, Terrance Griep, Ed Huyck,
Steve Lenius, Casey Merkwan, Jennifer Parello, Todd Park,
Amber Schadewald, Elizabeth Stiras, John Townsend, Carla
Waldemar
Advertising
Sales & Advertising Director Barry Leavitt 612-436-4690
Senior Account Executive Suzanne Farrell 612-436-4699
Account Executives Jonathan Halverson 612-436-4696,
Michael Ladzun 612-436-4697
Sales & Advertising Traffic Coordinator
Linda Raines 612-436-4694
Advertising Associate George Holdgrafer 612-436-4672
Classifieds Suzanne Farrell 612-436-4699
National Sales Representative Rivendell Media
212-242-6863
Creative
Creative Director Hubert Bonnet 612-436-4678
Creative Assistant Mike Hnida 612-436-4679
Photographer Sophia Hantzes
Cartoonist Rodro
Lavender Studios Hubert Bonnet, Mike Hnida
Administration
Publisher Lavender Media, Inc.
President & CEO Stephen Rocheford 612-436-4665
Vice President & CC Pierre Tardif 612-436-4666
Chief Financial Officer Carolyn Lima 612-436-4664
Administrative Assistant Austin Lindstrom 612-436-4661
Founders George Holdgrafer, Stephen Rocheford
Inspiration Steven W. Anderson (1954-1994), Timothy J. Lee
(1968-2002), Russell Berg (1957-2005), Kathryn Rocheford
(1914-2006)
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Community Dialogue > A Word in Edgewise [ by E.B. Boatner ]
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Community Dialogue > Queer As Folks
LEE AND MILLER TAKE FIRST PLACE IN PFUND EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR GRINLEY MOVES
LAVENDER WIN A WEDDING CONTEST ON TO NEW OPPORTUNITIES
Bernie Lee and Mark Miller recently took first place in the Gregory Grinley, Executive Director of PFund since 2006,
2010 Lavender Win A Wedding Contest. They have been stepped down from his position on June 30. He will
together since October 5, 2001, when they met while continue in a part-time role while a search committee
attending Rutgers University in New Jersey. Their ideal finds his successor. Hat’s Off to Greg takes place July 27,
wedding would be at James Hill Library in St. Paul, with 4:30-7 PM, at Woman’s Club of Minneapolis, 410 Oak
their Unitarian Universalist minister presiding. Grove Street, Minneapolis.
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Passing |
[ Daniel Boyer ]
1954-2010
D
aniel Lee Boyer, 54, died unexpect-
edly on June 15, at his home in
Minneapolis. He was born May 10,
1954, in Detroit, Michigan. He moved to
the Twin Cities to be part of a larger GLBT
community. He was a financial advisor with
Ameriprise Financial for 10 years.
Boyer was a leader in a number of
GLBT nonprofits, including The Alive-
ness Project Capital Campaign Co-Chair,
Human Rights Campaign Twin Cities
Federal Club Co-Chair, and Friends Din-
ing With Friends Host.
Survivors include his siblings, Mary
Jane Putt, Jane Niedzielski, and John
Boyer.
A celebration of Boyer’s life will
take place on July 12, 6-9 PM, at Ni-
collet Island Pavilion, 40 Power Street,
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Minneapolis.
Memorials may be directed to Open
Arms of Minnesota, 2500 Bloomington
Avenue South, Minneapolis MN 55404.
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TANGLETOWN
GARDEN AND ART
TOUR UNTANGLES
HORTICULTURE
INTERVIEW WITH SCOTT ENDRES
[ by E.B. Boatner ]
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cott Endres, co-owner with Dean Engle- Refreshments will be offered courtesy of
mann of Tangletown Gardens in Min- Tangletown Gardens in all the gardens, plus,
neapolis, took time from preparing his as always, St. Paul’s Solo Vino will offer wine
own garden to chat with Lavender about the tasting throughout the afternoon. This year,
Tangletown Garden and Art Tour on July 24. the Chef Shack will be roaming St. Paul with
their delectable fare, so no one misses a beat
Tell us about this year’s tour. of the day’s excitement.
This will be our sixth Tangletown Gardens The gardens close at 4 PM, but the fun
Garden and Art Tour. We will showcase sev- continues at Tangletown’s evening celebra-
en gardens in Minneapolis and St. Paul. Each tion, where ticket-holders mingle with the
year, we choose a different region of the Twin gardeners, artists, and Tangletown team
Cities, then select gardens that have passion members. Chef Scott Pampuch of the Cor-
and personality, choosing a diverse roster that ner Table, and Chefs Lisa Carlson and Carrie
includes something for everyone. Summer of the Chef Shack, will use their cu-
linary skills to prepare the best of the season’s
What’s the turnout like? Do you expect produce from Tangletown Gardens Farm.
it to grow? While sampling the food and sipping wine
Attendance has grown every year since and champagne from Solo Vino, visitors will
2005. Last year, 1,600 guests toured the gar- enjoy the distinctive sounds of Tambuca.
dens—a definite record-breaker.
Ticket-holders pick up detailed programs at What is the beneficiary?
9 AM at Tangletown, then kick off with coffee So far, thanks to moneys procured from
and pastries from Wilde Roast Café. After the the Art and Garden Tours, we’ve been able
tour, they return for an evening of celebration. to benefit numerous causes, including resto-
Individual gardens are transformed into ration of a magnificent bronze Japanese urn
outdoor gallery spaces displaying the works for the Minneapolis Park Board; scholarships
of dozens of talented regional artists. We’re through the Minnesota Nursery and Land-
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lucky to have St. Paul’s Grand Hand Gallery, scape Association; sponsorship of Minnesota
Minneapolis’s Gallery 360, and Swan Song Public Radio; garden partnerships with the
Gallery of Maiden Rock, Wisconsin, helping Minnetonka Center for the Arts, The Mu-
us curate the spaces. seum of Russian Art, the City of Minne-
apolis, the Minneapolis Park Board, the Minnesota Landscape Arboretum and
Department of Horticultural Science at the University of Minnesota; and count-
less other charities and nonprofits.
How would you answer the cry, “Oh, I can never have a garden this grand!”
Nobody goes to an arboretum or botanical garden expecting to implement
that scale at home, but one can be inspired. Even with a few containers, there are
basic principles and elements of design to consider. Any effective windowsill box
has a focal point, contrasting textures, and complementary color themes.
Tangletown Gardens
5353 Nicollet Ave., Mpls.
(612) 822-4769
<www.tangletowngardens.com>
July 2-15, 2010
Scott Endres.
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mong the wonderful horticultural FamilyMeans.
events happening in and around the DeGree reminds readers that even
environs of the Twin Cities is the an- though “Stillwater has a bad rep from our
nual St. Croix Garden Tour on July 17-18. District 6 Representative, Michelle Bach-
Simply by enjoying the beauty and flo- mann, the St. Croix Valley is gay-friendly.
ral abundance showcased in seven gardens, Out in the Valley[, a local GLBT group,]
participants also will benefit FamilyMeans, has more 2,000 members. The area has
a nonprofit organization that helps fami- families in need, and FamilyMeans provides
lies in crisis. support. This fundraiser goes 100 percent
Tom DeGree, Chair of the tour, is co- to provide that support.”
owner of Wilde Roast Café in Minneapolis According to DeGree, for more than 40
with business and life partner Dean Schlaak. years, FamilyMeans has provided the help
When asked if FamilyMeans is particu- Photo by Tom DeGree that individuals and families need to lead
larly dear to his heart, DeGree answers, healthier and happier lives, In 2009 alone,
“Yes! Two years ago, they asked me if our yard and driveway, and flowed to the storm he notes, it assisted more than 28,000 peo-
garden could be on the tour. Then, the year water system draining to a small lake in our ple to find renewed hope through family
after, they asked me if I would chair the backyard. In an effort to mitigate our nega- counseling, mental health services, financial
tour. As a teacher, I am always looking for tive input, and improve water quality, we counseling, caregiver support, and youth
good places that help kids and families, and consulted with Blue Thumb, and worked and family enrichment programs.
FamilyMeans does exactly that.” with Rusty Schmidt, a landscape ecologist. All proceeds from the tour benefit
The tour starts in Stillwater with four Wetelak adds, “He designed rain gardens FamilyMeans, whose stated mission is to
historic homes that have small, city gar- for us utilizing shade-loving native plants strengthen communities by strengthen-
dens. Visitors move on toward Mahtomedi with deep roots to capture and infiltrate the ing families. From its base in Stillwater, it
to visit two “huge gardens,” one of which is initial flush of rainfall that contains most of serves communities in the Twin Cities met-
sited on five acres, and the other on a lake. the pollution and sediment as it runs across ro area and Western Wisconsin.
This year, the tour is partnering with surfaces. Once established, native plants DeGree stresses that his involvement in
Washington Conservation District (WCD) require minimal maintenance, as well as the tour is not a matter of promoting Wilde
to feature several rain gardens. WCD’s mis- provide the wonderful benefit of attracting Roast Café, but rather stems from, in his
sion is to enhance, protect, and preserve the wildlife such as birds and butterflies. We words, a “sense of civic obligation”—which
natural resources of Washington County also had a 2,100-gallon rain-containment simply means “practicing what we preach,
through conservation projects, technical system installed under our driveway that we not only asking that others give back to
guidance, and educational services to citi- use to irrigate our landscape during the dry the community, but that we give back our-
zens and local government. times. Rusty also simplified the application selves, setting a visible example of doing
A seventh home on the tour has a num- process with Washington County Conser- something for others.”
ber of these “rain gardens”—areas specifi- vation District’s cost-share program.” The gardens will be open on July 17 and
cally designed and landscaped with native A Blue Thumb display will be at Wete- 18, 10 AM-4 PM.
plants adapted to wet conditions to manage lak’s home, plus WCD staff will be on hand Tickets at $15 are tax-deductible. Chil-
excess water runoff. to talk about Blue Thumb gardening. dren under 12 get in free.
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Jackie Wetelak, owner of the home, ex- Each year, approximately 1,000 visitors To order tickets, or for more informa-
plains, “We were acutely concerned about from around the Midwest attend the tour, tion, call FamilyMeans at (651) 439-4840,
the amount of runoff entering the street raising more than $15,000 annually to ben- or visit <www.familymeans.org>.
from rain, as it ran over our shady, sloped efit directly the programs and services of
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Pride in Pictures
2010
TWIN CITIES PRIDE GRAND MARSHAL’S RECEPTION AND ART SHOW OPENING
June 10, The Arts Institutes International Minnesota, Minneapolis
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Pride in Pictures
2010
PRIDE BOAT CRUISE, June 19, Harriet Island, St. Paul
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Pride in Pictures
2010
PRIDE PICNIC, June 20, Como Park, St. Paul
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Pride in Pictures
2010
[ Photos by Sophia Hantzes ]
QUEER MUSIC
CONSORTIUM CONCERT
June 7
Lake Como Pavilion
St. Paul
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Pride In Pictures >
[Photos by George Holdgrafer ]
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Big Gay News >
[ Written & Compiled by Bradley Traynor ]
LOCAL
NATIONAL
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of California Los Angeles School of Law
found that about 220,000 more pints of
blood would be available each year if the
FDA lifted the ban.
WORLD
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GAY ORDER OF MYCHAL Local Acolytes Form GLBT-Friendly Religious Order
[ by Terrance Griep ]
It began, as so many religious things do, with death. who you are. We believe doing God’s work
is the primary thing—to use the resources
That is, the very first attributed to the terror attacks of we’ve been given.”
9/11/2001: the death of Father Mychal Judge. GOM is, in fact, a confederacy of such
resource-usings, with each member em-
The Catholic priest had been Chaplain As Hartigan recalls, “I entered a religious bodying a discrete ministry that connects
of the New York Fire Department for nearly order when I was, like, 18 or 19, I guess. I en- to all the others.
a decade. After the World Trade Center was tered the Christian Brothers, and I left because Hartigan shares, “My ministry is work-
hit by twin jetliners, he immediately made his there was an issue with another one of my ing with kids. That’s something a little bit
way to Ground Zero to do what was needed. classmates. They asked him to leave because different. One of our founding members
Confuted by the carnage Judge wit- they assumed he was gay. So, I said, ‘If he’s not does a great deal of work with nursing
nessed upon entering the North Tower, he good enough, then I’m not good enough.’” home residents who don’t have visitors.
shouted Heavenward, “Jesus, please end Along with two other devotees, Har- That’s one of his ministries. If you come
this right now! God, please end this!” tigan resolved to turn that gendercentric into the Order, and your ministry is, say,
And in that moment, the carnage did stigmata into a sectarian stimulus, whip- working with the homeless, we will support
end for Judge. The South Tower collapsed, ping devotion into a specific shape: the Gay you in that. We’ll help you in any way we
as if shorn by the winds of Babel. Its apoca- Order of Mychal (GOM). can. You’re not alone out there.”
lyptic detritus closed the circle of his earth- Hartigan testifies, “We decided to open Those ceremonious ministrations natu-
ly existence in a lavish of concrete and steel, the door, and come out of the closet, be- rally begin with an initiation.
and crafted thunder. cause most of the work that’s done for reli- Hartigan relates, “We ask that people who
Harry Hartigan, an out Twin Cities-based gious orders is done by gay people.” want to come into the Order do a six-month
admirer of Judge, says, “His whole life is truly In current Catholic religious orders, journey of discovery. That means they take
the life of a Christian. He was the first Catho- Hartigan explains, “You can be gay, as long the time to work with other members of the
lic priest to work with AIDS patients. He as you maintain celibacy, and you follow Order to discover what it is they want to do,
worked with the homeless, and, of course, the what the Vatican says. You can be in an and if they really want to be there.”
firemen. He had done everything.” order, but you must hide who you are. It’s The reason for such a trial hearkens back
Perhaps one reason for that level of ac- time to stop that. We [GLBT folk] need to to that most basic and profound of reasons:
complishment was an early start. The future have the credit for what we do.” the tick-tick-ticking of the cosmic clock.
Father Judge joined the Franciscan Order of Like their patron, GOM members min- Hartigan remarks, “Father Mychal
Friars Minor before his 16th birthday. Despite ister through good deeds, not mere words. Judge died on 9/11, and his death brought
the insular nature of this Catholic subcommu- Hartigan maintains, “We’re not preach- hope to countless people after the horrors
nity—or perhaps because of it—he eventually ing anything to anybody. The Order is not of that day. Folks of different religious
would earn a reputation as a grand uniter. connected with any church. It’s totally sep- faiths and folks with no connect to religion
Hartigan recounts, “He bridged gaps arated, totally independent.” came together on this day. Amazing! Death
between gay and straight, and he brought it While GOM owes some of its structure is one of those facts of life that folks really
all into perspective.” to more orthodox lineages, it embodies an don’t want to think about or deal with un-
Though celibate, Judge privately ac- important break from their always-paternal, til they are forced to. Death teaches us that
the time we have to live and do what God
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MYSTIC LAKE
Offers Superb Dining, Entertainment, Accommodations, and More
[ by Heidi Fellner ]
T
he recession isn’t a novelty any-
more, and I’m just as tired as the
next person of hearing chipper
television hosts toss around the
term “staycation.” It usually doesn’t sound
all that great—schlepping from museum to
museum, all of which I already have seen. I
want a real vacation. I want escape. I want
excitement. And it wouldn’t hurt if I got a
little pampering, either.
Would you be surprised to know you
can have it all without getting on a plane?
I was. I’ll admit it. I’ve been to Mystic
Lake before: I visited the casino, and then
scurried back home. But it has much more:
variety of restaurants, world-class enter-
tainment, luxurious spa, golf course, meet-
ing facilities, and access to Dakotah Sport
and Fitness.
I recently had the pleasure of spending
the weekend at the resort, and I almost for-
got I was just 30 minutes away from home.
My first taste of Mystic Lake was The
Meadows Grille, an upscale casual eatery
that offers a lovely view of the golf course.
Watching the sun set over the grounds sets
the mood for a relaxing getaway. Consider- Heidi Fellner luxuriates at Mystic Lake. Photo Courtesy of Heidi Fellner
ing that a steak dinner costs under $20, it’s
luxury that’s actually affordable.
Mystic Lake does not allow or serve al-
cohol on the premises, but I honestly didn’t showroom as “Best Concert Venue” and service tray. This is the way to do a stayca-
miss my glass of wine. Instead, I took a “Best Live Entertainment” for a reason. tion right.
stroll out onto the golf course, took some The acts are top-notch, and not a bad seat is A great night’s sleep prepared me perfect-
deep breaths of fresh air, and felt perfectly to be found. The night I was there, Second ly for my massage the next day. Walk-ins are
relaxed. The lack of liquor also helps to City’s touring company played to a packed OK, but it’s nice to have yours scheduled in
keep the atmosphere more wholesome. house. The showroom also has featured Jay advance, so you don’t have to fret about the
Look around the casino floor, and you Leno, Counting Crows, and Ringo Starr. time. The facilities are first-rate, complete
see a lot of extended families enjoying each After the show, I was eager to get back with steam rooms, multiple-head showers,
other’s company, celebrating each other’s to my room. I have a confession to make: and beautiful dressing areas. So, relaxation
wins, and laughing off their losses. All in I am a travel enthusiast, but I never, ever begins as soon as you walk in the door.
all, the crowd has a small-town, country have sprung for the fancy room. I get it now. I must say I didn’t want to leave. As
vibe that makes for a nice change. If you’re When you visit Mystic Lake, if you can, go someone who isn’t into gambling, I never
not into all the nostalgia, let’s just say the for the suite: whirlpool tub built for two, might have given Mystic Lake a second
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people-watching is fantastic. separate shower with two showerheads, thought, but now, I’m convinced it’s one of
I’m not much of a gambler myself, but luxury linens over an absolutely dreamy the best staycations in the area.
I had no fear of boredom. Midwest Gaming mattress, flat screen TVs, minifridge, and For more information, visit <www.mys
and Travel recently selected Mystic Lake’s enough room to be piggy about your room ticlake.com>, or call 1-800-548-8536.
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Arts & Entertainment > On the Townsend [ by John Townsend ]
DOLLHOUSE
Through July 11
Guthrie Theater
818 S. 2nd St., Mpls.
(612) 377-2224
<www.guthrietheater.org>
gotten his discharge letter.” stage work reprises Beauty is a Rare Thing
Two other Lavender community faves, (July 8-11). Curiously, in the press info, you When Adrienne “Ady” Fidelin appeared
Kats D. Fukasawa and Bessie-winner Karen won’t find anything at all about the explo- in the September 1937 issue of Harper’s Ba-
Sherman, also present SOLO work. sive queer content in Marion McClinton’s zaar, she was the first black woman whose
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photo was printed in a major fashion hoped would star the group.
magazine. Hailing from Guadalupe in the Traveling Light’s intentionally slated
Eastern Caribbean, she became the muse closing night, July 28, marks the 43rd an-
of iconic French photographer Man Ray. niversary of the Sexual Offences Act of
Their work together reflected an exotic 1967, which stated that UK criminal law
equatorial sense and African motifs. The could not use a guilty party’s sexual orien-
haunting last report of Fidelin is that she tation to increase or compound the sever-
was seen dancing at a “Negro” club in Par- ity of a crime’s punishment.
is after Man Ray fled France because of the David Beukema plays button-down
Nazis. Pangea World Theater remembers closet-case Epstein. Wade A. Vaughan por-
Fidelin with Rhianna Yazzie’s new play. trays rebelliously homoerotic Orton. They
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Arts & Entertainment > On the Record [ by Ed Huyck ]
Sometimes, it doesn’t take a Dougherty’s MySpace page The last thing you’d expect Supergroups come and
whole roomful of musicians proudly declares the act is from titles like “Lazy go as quickly as moths to a
to make beguiling music. the “loudest folk band in Bones,” “Organ Donor,” flame. The key is to catch
Local two-piece Peter Wolf America.” You could argue and “A Girl, a Boy and a them while they’re hot.
Crier creates engaging music the point, but the group Graveyard” is a collection Heavily hyped Gayngs—
throughout Inter-Be, which does bring the noise on of jaunty pop tunes, but masterminded by producer
recently was rereleased by in- this collection, either as an Jeremy Messersmith pulls Ryan Olson, and featuring
die stalwarts Jagjaguwar (also accent or a way to build the it off with aplomb. The artists as diverse as Solid
the home of Gayngs). Band musical intensity. Employ- winning tunes are only part Gold, Dessa, and members
members Brian Moen and ing a gentle voice that of it, though reminding the of Bon Iver—blazes on
Peter Pisano create layered easily grows with the music, listener of the Kinks in the Reylated. The set sounds like
musical tapestries, though Dougherty takes us through album’s first few seconds 10cc’s strung-out brother
usually starting with a low- lost loves, heartbreaks, and is a wonderful start. The made it after a weekend
key folk-rock vibe. They add lessons learned. The songs vocals also contribute, often bender. It would be a misno-
all sorts of touches, from clas- are bracing in their honesty, soaring over the melodies, mer to call the spare, moody
sic pop vocals to organ lines such as “Loose Leaf Love drawing one into the songs, sonic landscapes “mellow”—
that play off the main melody Letter,” where someone as well as—on a tune like even the lyricless “The
without directly connecting tries a fresh start by break- standout “Violet”—forcing Beatdown” carries plenty of
to it. When all the elements ing away from the memen- him or her to stop whatever menace and paranoia, while
come into complete focus, tos of past love, or “My he or she is doing, and listen lead-off track “The Gaudy
Peter Wolf Crier is an incred- Father’s Lullaby,” where the to the gorgeous harmonies. Side of Town” uses all its
ible listen, such as tracks narrator searches for the dif- That brings us to the lyrics seven-minute running time
like “You’re So High” and ficult but joyful truths in his of the songs themselves, to build a distinct atmo-
album closer “In Response.” father’s life. Working with which—as indicated by the sphere. Give plenty of credit
The finale builds slowly—all a talented band, Dougherty titles—do land on the darker for that to Solid Gold’s Zach
centered on a simple guitar crafts a set of music that— side. It’s not a heavy-handed Coulter, whose voice helps
riff—into something grand unlike plenty of modern folk Goth darkness, though, but to give the album a distinct
and beautiful. The weak- rock—sticks in the head. more the wry, knowing lyri- sound and vibe. In the
sounding indie-rock vocals They even include a blank cal downer you might hear end, more than two-dozen
do get a bit wearing over the disc with instructions to on a Magnetic Fields album. contributors are here, but
length of an album, but the “burn this for a friend.” The Even when the music gets a no one is showing off—all
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tunes, the playing, and the ar- band plays the first Wednes- bid maudlin, these elements the pieces are for the moody
rangements make up for any day of the month at Acadia still make it pure joy. and murky (in a good way)
weakness in that department. Café, Minneapolis. whole.
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02 BRASS RAIL
422 Hennepin. Ave., Mpls.
(612) 332-RAIL (7245)
<www.thebrassraillounge.com>
Completely remodeled elegant lounge featuring variety
of entertainment: live piano, karaoke, male dancers. •
Superior WHO
Chris
03 CAMP
490 N. Robert St., St. Paul Somerset• Wisconsin
(651) 292-1844 WHAT
<www.camp-bar.net> Recipe: Bazooka
An upscale but casual spot with great video, dancing, 2 parts Three Olives Bubble
cabaret, and the friendliest staff in town!
1 part Grenadine
Lemon Lime
04 COALE'S Shake hard. Serve over ice, or shoot
719 N. Dale St.
St. Paul, MN (651) 487-5829 straight up.
Areanna Coale, proprietor. Opening soon.
An eclectic enigma filled with joy and happiness.
WI BOOTLEGGERS BAR & GRILL
Everyone welcome! 235 Main St.
Somerset, WI (715) 247-2668
<www.bootleggerssomerset.com>
WHEN
05 GAY 90’S Wednesday • 5 PM-2 AM
Just 25 minutes east of Twin Cities. Fierce: A Show For
408 Hennepin Ave., Mpls. Everyone every Saturday.
(612) 333-7755
<www.gay90s.com>
Upper Midwest’s Largest Gay Entertainment WI
THE FLAME WHERE
Complex. Serving reasonably priced menu in main 1612 Tower Ave., Superior Gladius
bar Wednesday-Sunday. (715) 395-0101 1111 Hennepin Ave., Mpls.
<www.SuperiorFlame.com> (612) 332-9963
06 GLADIUS <www.gladiusbar.com>
1111 Hennepin Ave., Mpls.
(612) 332-9963 WI
<www.gladiusbar.com> THE MAIN CLUB
The New York Chic of Minneapolis. Gladius God-
desses Tuesday. Killer B's Karaoke Wednesday.
1217 Tower Ave., Superior
(715) 392-1756
WHY
<www.mainclubsuperior.com>
“Large, strong drinks. Original martinis
07 and infusions. Perfect space for a date
TICKLES night or an upscale party. Plus, the
420 S. 4th St., Mpls.
(612) 354-3846 staff and shot boys are hot to look at.”
<www.ticklesbar.com>
Live Piano Music. Full-Service Menu, Happy Hour,
Sports on 10 Flat-Panel TVs, Pool, Darts.
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Bar Scene > Bar Calendar
For club addresses, phone numbers, and Web
sites, see “Bar Advertiser Guide” on page 38.
For events not at bars, see <LavenderMaga-
zine.com/calendar>.
FRIDAY, JULY 2
Gary Collins
5 PM. Tickles.
Mia Dorr
9 PM. Tickles.
SATURDAY, JULY 3
Jeff Olson
9 PM. Tickles.
Lip Service
9 PM. Town House.
FRIDAY, JULY 9
Gary Collins
5 PM. Tickles.
Jeff Olson
9 PM. Tickles.
YOLO
9 PM. Town House.
SATURDAY, JULY 10
Mia Dorr
9 PM. Tickles.
TNT Show
9 PM. Town House.
SUNDAY, JULY 11
Michelle Glaser
July 2-15, 2010
7 PM. Tickles.
THURSDAY, JULY 15
Lavender's ThirstDay
6 PM. Town House.
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TEA HOUSE
OFFERS MOST AUTHENTIC SZECHUAN MENU LOCALLY
[ by Heidi Fellner ]
ormally, when old-world cuisine ar- now, most of our Chinese restaurants have a
rives at a new-world kitchen, some- menu as American as it is Chinese, and I am as
thing is lost in translation. The in- happy as the next person to celebrate the fu-
gredients aren’t quite the same, sion. But if you really want Chinese food here, it
or if they are, the locals might not can be a challenge—that is, if you haven’t been
appreciate them, so adjustments are made. By introduced to the Tea House.
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Tea House. Photos by Hubert Bonnet
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with the tendon, proceed to Sliced Beef in when warmed. The wine list is designed to Tender Eggplant in Garlic Sauce ($11.95)
Spicy Sauce ($8.95), which features tripe accommodate a spicy menu—the sweet and and silky Ma Pa Tofu ($11.95) are among
and stomach—yes, it is superb. citrusy Riesling ($21) and the low-tannin the 20 vegetarian items on the menu.
If you require liquid courage, the admit- Barbera ($9/$34) were both up to the task, If you take my advice, and fill up on
tedly heavy-handed bartender mixes the fin- even at our spice-happy table. appetizers, you must return to Tea House
est nontraditional mojito I ever tasted. Blue- The next few dishes included flavorful to give the entrées their due. I am left as a
berry Mojito ($9) is a potent, smooth little Szechuan dumplings ($6.25), which are oh so writer how I was as a diner—with no room
wonder: fat, dark blueberries muddled with lovely topped with fresh garlic; the delicate- left to do them justice.
mint soothe the tongue between Szechuan ly-fried Scallion Pancakes ($4.50); and the Desserts will be appearing on the menu
bites, with a healthy kick from Stoli Blue- famous Juicy Buns ($7.95). Word has spread shortly, although a fragrant Jasmine Tea
beri to keep things interesting. Chinese about the buns, and it’s no wonder—pork suited me perfectly. But on your first visit
Martini ($10) is gin-based, combined with filling is steamed inside housemade dough to the Tea House, celebrate the experience
champagne and fresh lime juice to smooth to create its own juice. Eating a delicate bun with sparkling Hou Hou Shu sake ($16 for
the finish. Asian Pear Martini ($10), which is an art, so ask your server for instructions if two glasses). After all, it’s not every day that
mixes Absolut Pear, simple syrup, and sake, you haven’t had the pleasure yet. you really get to taste something so fabu-
is the sweetest of the bunch. If you still have room for an entrée, Pan lously different without packing a bag.
The Tea House also has a thorough Fried Pork Belly ($12.95) is what manager
July 2-15, 2010
wine and sake list. We sipped a flight of David Harvey lovingly has nicknamed “Chi- Tea House
2425 University Ave. SE, Mpls.
Ichishima ($10/$19/$48), served at vary- nese bacon.” We also sampled Chung King (612) 331-8866
ing temperatures. Sake has a rather incred- Spicy Chicken ($12.95); assertive House <www.ourteahouse.com>
ible response to temperature. In this case, Beef in Szechuan Spicy Sauce ($13.95); and
the gentle Ichishima releases its sweetness moist, salty Tea Smoked Duck ($14.95).
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Duluth-Superior
BINGHAM CUP 2010
JUNE 19
The Main BLAINE
MINNESOTA
Club
Hosts Frisch
Bear Art Attack
For one night only, July 14, The Main
Club, 1217 Tower Avenue, Superior, Wis-
consin, hosts Frisch Bear Art Attack. Fran
Frisch enjoyed 40 formative years in Min-
nesota before moving to California in 1990
to become part of the rapidly emerging
bear culture. He was the first to design,
print, and sell a T-shirt for the bear com-
munity. His drawings have raised more than
$60,000 for various charities worldwide. A
founding member of the Bears of San Fran-
cisco, he was Mr. Palm Springs Bear 2009.
For more information, visit <www.frisch
draws.com>.
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Calendar |
Accounting &
Bookkeeping Services____ Driveways_______
______ [ LavenderMagazine.com ]
FRIDAY, JULY 2
Dollhouse. Inspired by Henrik Ibsen’s masterpiece A
Doll’s House, this production raises questions about
women and financial independence, marriage, and
Attorneys__________
_____ motherhood, as well as how keeping up with the Jo-
neses may be setting us behind. What looks like the
picture-perfect life is actually a complicated trap of
secrets and lies with no easy bailout. Rebecca Gilman
has crafted an intuitive adaptation that transports Ib-
sen’s classic into 21st-Century suburbia. Through July
11. Guthrie Theater, 818 S. 2nd St., Mpls. (612) 377-
2224. < www.guthrietheater.org>.
River of Passion. This second show of The Flower
Shop Project’s 2010 season, by Bethany Hummel,
Brenna Jones, and Stephen Moeller, is an experiment:
Financial Services______ a live-action soap opera with a new episode every
week. The cast and crew are having a wonderful time
preparing the tales (in the bedroom and the board-
room!) of two rival families in a soapy, fictional version
of Minneapolis and St. Paul. July 2, 9, 16, 23, and 30.
Bryant-Lake Bowl Theater, 810 W. Lake St., Mpls. (612)
825-8949. <www.bryantlakebowl.com>.
Taste of Minnesota. Its new management team has
promised to deliver a more family-friendly, foodcen-
tric event, with better music. You be the judge. Mu-
sic headliners include The Gin Blossoms, Counting
Barbers__________
______ Crows, NeedToBreathe, Pepper, 311, and Sammy
Hagar. Note: fireworks on July 4 only. Through July
5. Harriet Island Park, 200 Dr. Justus Ohage Blvd., St.
Paul. <www.tasteofmn.com>.
SATURDAY, JULY 3
Minneapolis Red White and Boom. Get ready to
celebrate Independence Day like never before! Par-
ticipate in the inaugural Hot Dam 5K Fun Run. Arrive
early to enjoy Music and a Movie at Water Power Park,
plus other live entertainment and free family activities.
Happy Fourth of July! July 3-4. For more information,
Funeral Services___ ___ check out <www.mplsredwhiteboom.com>.
A Streetcar Named Desire. This play delivers an un-
forgettable dramatic ride, filled with love, loss, and the
dream of what’s to come. In the heart of New Orleans,
Blanche DuBois arrives on the doorstep of her young-
er sister, Stella, and her sister’s sexy, brutish husband,
Stanley. Blanche settles into their small apartment, all
the while failing to complete the mysterious picture
with details of her unexpected arrival and unknown
departure. As Blanche’s fabrications wane, and her
Computer Sales & needs multiply, Stanley’s skepticism boils, driving a
deep wedge between them. Through Aug. 2. Guthrie
Services______________ Theater, 818 S. 2nd St., Mpls. (612) 377-2224. <www.
guthrietheater.org>.
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THURSDAY, JULY 15
Rochester Pride. Show your pride at the 13th annual
Rochester Pridefest! Enjoy performances by Guest
Emcee Gosh Alice Jones, along with a Saturday night
performance by the Rochester Girls. Celebrate at the
Rochester Bears Barbecue and Fundraiser. Through
July 18. <www.glcsmn.org>.
FRIDAY, JULY 16
Aquatennial. Celebrate the official 71st summer civic
celebration of the City of Minneapolis. Residents,
workers, and tourists have come to love and ap-
preciate all that Minneapolis has to offer during the
Aquatennial Festival. Participate in the Life Time Fit-
ness Torchlight 5K, enjoy the annual Block Party, and
top it all off with the astounding fireworks display on
the Mississippi Riverfront. Through July 24. <www.
aquatennial.com>.
Target Arts & Wonder Free Family Events. Target is
granting free admission to cultural institutions for the
entire weekend. Participating venues include Walker
Art Center, Minnesota Orchestra, Minnesota Chil-
dren’s Museum, and many more! Through July 18. For
more information, visit <www.target.com>, and click
on Community for more information.
TICKETS
Tickets ON SALE
On Sale
ONGOING
Ongoing
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Ms. Behavior© |
[ by Meryl Cohn ]
Medical Services______ Psychotherapy_______
Quiet Homos
Upstairs
Dear Ms Behavior:
We live year-round in a vacation com-
munity, where we rent a house from a cou-
ple of very messy lesbians. They come and
stay in the separate little downstairs apart-
ment for just a few weeks in the summer,
but they definitely make quite a ruckus
with their snotty nosed babies, lawn fur-
niture, toddler toys, dogs, cats, barbecue, Psychotherapy_______
garbage, and friends.
About nine people converge on the
house and yard—which the lesbians own,
granted, but which we, as their upstairs
tenants, keep clear, neat, and well-tended
all year round. We acknowledge that they
own the place. On the other hand, they
are heavy drinkers, with no sense that this
place is actually our rented home.
We are looking to you for a nice way to
say, “Hey, Loud, Messy Lesbians, Have a
Little Respect!”
Is it possible to say this politely?
—Quiet Homos Upstairs
Dear Quiet Homos Upstairs:
You can’t tame mountain lions or rude
lesbians. You do not speak their language.
Plus, if they are drunk, and encumbered
with babies and Big Wheels, you’re invis-
ible to them, anyway.
If you still feel moved to attempt com-
munication, keep in mind that your com-
plaints about their empty beer cans and their
general messiness will make them view you
as a nuisance. They don’t sound like very
process-oriented lesbians, so your need for
order may confuse or annoy them.
As renters, you unfortunately don’t
have much power to change the behavior
of the people who own the house. The
only thing you can adjust in this case is
your expectations. Try to be grateful that
the rude lesbians only descend upon you
for a few weeks.
Think of it as a planned natural disas-
ter. Instead of stocking up on water and
canned food, barricade yourself inside
with movies and treats. Plan some week-
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Backtalk > Dateland [ by Jennifer Parello ]
Tattoo
A
You
good friend of mine, who is (and I’m being gen-
erous here) on the dark side of her fourth de-
cade, approached me recently with a terrible
idea: “I’m going to get a tattoo on my butt.”
“Doesn’t sex have enough surprises?” I
asked wearily. “Is it necessary to frighten
your partner, who, in the dark, while slowly
creeping down your belly, may mistake the
rose for a large, blood-filled tick—and then
try to squash it?”
Things you shouldn’t do in middle age:
wearing sleeveless tops; dancing with too
Upon hearing this disturbing news, much gusto; engaging in any activity you
I immediately choked on the sandwich I think makes you look hip. Also, dating the in-
was eating. When I recovered, I croaked, sane (a sport for only the young), backpacking
“Why? Why?” through Europe, and getting tattooed.
“Because it’s sexy!” she chirped. Odd, unsettling things begin happening
Now, I make it a habit never to see my to your body once you hit 40. Doesn’t mat-
friends naked, but once, quite by terrible ter how much you exercise, or how little you
accident, I happened to see this friend’s ass. eat. One day, you wake up, and find yourself
It was on a bright, moonlit night. Every in a foreign body. It’s as if an alien life form
time I see the moon, I can’t help but think from a particularly lumpy and jiggly planet
of her ass. And I so used to love the moon. has co-opted your once taut and supple flesh.
“Honestly, honey, if I were you, I You now resemble an unbaked cookie.
wouldn’t do anything to draw attention to Imagine what this transformation does
your ass,” I said. to a tattoo. A pig becomes a sow; a naked
“Are you saying I have a fat ass?” she lady stretches, and sags into a mess; and
demanded. Chinese characters melt into something re-
“At this point, it speaks for itself,” I said. sembling river muck. This is not sexy.
I wasn’t being facetious! One night at Still not convinced? OK, consider this:
a bar, her ass overflowed onto a neighbor- Imagine a day in the not-distant future. You
ing bar stool, ordered itself a margarita and are now in your 80s. You are lying in your
nachos, and started spouting opinions on bed at the nursing home. It’s time for your
world affairs. I was shocked to discover that bed bath. A hot nurse enters the room. Be-
her ass is a conservative Republican who cause you just had blue rinse applied to your
wants to bomb Iran. hair, you think you have a shot with her.
Some people can carry off tattoos: Ma- You chat her up, as she sponges your arms
rines, certain arty types, people who keep they tend to place them in areas usually and chest. You are poised to ask her for her
snakes as pets, and convicts. But for the covered by clothing. I suppose this makes number. But then, she turns you over.
crowd I run with—who are hopelessly sub- them feel naughty. “What the hell is that?” she exclaims in
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urban, no matter how hard they try to dis- When I asked one friend why she chose horror.
guise it with chic black clothing and expen- to get a single red rose etched just below her There, on your ass, is a tattoo, stretched,
sive eyewear—tattoos are, in a word, stupid. underwear line, she remarked that she want- dimpled—and looking like something Pica-
When middle-aged ladies get tattoos, ed a “surprise factor” in her lovemaking. sso created on a bad day.
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Backtalk > Consider the Source [ by Julie Dafydd ]
Writes of Passage
A
mong my most vivid memories from high school Liechtenstein On the Day of Man-
hood, boys are blindfolded, then made to
is a documentary about tribal life. In a test of identify each of the 67 varieties of Ger-
manhood, boys no older than myself were pre- man sausage merely by smell. Hence, the
sented with their own spears, and instructed to expressions of admiration for men: “He
can sniff a bratwurst from six kilometers
go off into the jungle on their own and return with some away”; and “You can’t pull the knackwurst
wildlife they had slaughtered to feed their tribe. over his nose!” Conversely, one who is not
considered a full man is often referred to as
a “little weenie.”
I was fascinated, because it was so far lenge may be accepted into a secondary, Honduras Boys in Honduras are
removed from anything that anyone I less-respected group of men by portraying hooked into a device that measures pulse
knew had ever experienced. The closest I all the roles in the films of George Hamil- rate. First, they are shown a video of sev-
ever came to anything similar was when ton, Ben Stiller, or Abe Vigoda. eral children enjoying a wild food fight in a
my mother gave me a dollar to bring back Monaco What could possibly test the banana grove. Next, they are shown an old
some eggs from the SuperValu. And she manhood of boys born in this principality, Jane Fonda workout video. If their pulse
even wrote the item down for me. But I known primarily for its tourism, gambling, while watching Fonda exceeds their rate
didn’t have to leave my family for days on breathtakingly beautiful vistas, and royalty? while watching the banana fight by at least
end, travel through a perilous jungle, or Not much. So, 13-year-old boys are airlift- 25 percent, they are considered men. If it
slaughter anything. ed to New Jersey, where they must survive exceeds it by more than 75 percent, they
Since then, I’ve been captivated by the on their own for three months with indig- are still considered men, but are sent to the
concept of boy-to-manhood ceremonies. enous persons called “Snookie” and “The Honduras Center for Testosterone Stabili-
In the United States, we’re probably most Situation.” Some don’t make it. Those who zation for two weeks of observation.
familiar with the Jewish bar mitzvah. On this return invariably have the tortured, haunt- Bhutan Boys about to become men are
day, a boy receives the two things most de- ed faces of those who have looked into the given this problem: “A team of pack mules
sired by every 13-year-old: savings bonds eyes of the Beast. Nonetheless, the question leaves its Himalayan home at 9 AM, travel-
and chopped liver molded into a swan. “Have you been Jersied yet?” is considered ing west at approximately seven miles per
By investigating the rich variety of man- the hip way to ask a Monacan boy if he has hour. Another team of pack mules leaves
ly ceremonies globally, I have been able to become a man. the Duar Plain at 10 AM, traveling west at
do more than just deepen my knowledge. Fiji When a boy reaches age 13 in approximately five miles per hour. Which
I can also share an appreciation of other Fiji, he is stripped naked, smeared with ox team will reach Thimphu first? At what
cultures with Lavender readers—and deduct dung, and made to perform an exotic dance time? How much later will the other team
any future around-the-world boat cruises as through cane fields, singing a medley from arrive? Show all work.”
a research expense. South Pacific wearing nothing but a tropical Well, consider the source here, but I
Here’s some of what I found: fruit hat. This colorful manhood rite was think boys in Minnesota have it pretty lucky.
Qatar In this Arabic country, boys must also, coincidentally, the exact same initia- Here, manhood is measured by a boy’s abil-
memorize every film Omar Sharif has ever tion ceremony used by Delta Lambda Phi ity to pee his full name in the snow.
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made, including Funny Girl and Funny Lady, Fraternity at the University of Minneso- Bye for now.
and reenact them, portraying all the roles— ta—until 1997, when the music publishing Kiss, kiss.
yes, even Barbra Streisand’s. Boys who are company owning the rights to South Pacific
not yet prepared for the rigors of this chal- demanded royalties.
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Hardline Gay Chat ...................... 63 The Flame Nightclub .................... 53 Homecare Assist ........................... 7 Terry & Slane ................................ 8
Megaphone .................................. 64 The Main Club .............................. 53 Minnesota Department of
Health ............................................ 9 Mortgage
Arts & Entertainment Events O’Hara, Paul................................. 57 Lozinski, David .............................. 44
The Flower Shop Project .............. 31 GLBT Pride Twin Cities ................. 21 Pride Institute ................................. 21 Gleason, Pat ................................. 9
Ordway Center for the Lavender First Thursdays .............. 24 Running Tiger Shaolin Kenpo...... 55 Grunewald, Mark......................... 11
Performing Arts ............................. 35 Lavender’s THIRSTdays ............... 43 Shaklee.......................................... 54
Stonewall Uprising........................ 32 Minnesota Zoo ............................. 31 Stolz, James ................................. 57 Optical
Summer of Pride ........................... 5, 31 University of Minnesota-Infectious Specs Appeal ............................... 15
Automotive Diseases ........................................ 25
LaMettry’s Collision ..................... 53 Financial Uptown Dermatology & Organizations
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Bars & Nightlife Palm, Karen ................................... 7 Pet Products & Services
Twin Cities Bar Advertiser RBC Wealth Management .......... 52 Home Services Animal Humane Society ............. 24
Guide............................................. 38 ROR Tax Professionals ................. 54 A-Z Electric ................................... 56 Larpenteur Animal Hospital ......... 44
19 Bar ............................................ 41 Wells Fargo Bank ......................... 15 Bauer Floor Covering................... 55
Bootleggers................................... 43 Good Stuff Moving ...................... 56 Pharmacies
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Coale’s .......................................... 42 Greenhouses ................................. 15 Hi-Tech Installations...................... 56
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Matt’s Tree Service ...................... 56
Gladius .......................................... 42 Bowman, Jennifer ......................... 58
Personal Pride Construction......... 55
Calfee, David................................ 58
Tickles ............................................ 40 Food R. Davis Construction, Inc. ........... 55
Town House ................................. 41 Farinella, Marilyn ......................... 58
Sun Chips ...................................... 23 Ryan’s Tree Care .......................... 56
gayrealestate.com ........................ 58
Vinaigrette ..................................... 41 Seal King ....................................... 54
Beauty & Relaxation Leviton, Ann................................... 58
Soderlin Plumbing, Heating
Anew Aesthetic Medical Funeral Services McGee, Michael .......................... 11
& Air Conditioning........................ 55
Center ............................................ 6 Johnson Hannah, Barbara ......... 54 Miller, Valencia............................. 27
SOS Homecare ............................ 55
Barbers on Bryant ........................ 54 Ruzick, Amy & Johnson, Kay ....... 44
The Tile Shop ................................ 33
Garden of Eden ............................ 44 Gifts Twin City Heating and Air ........... 26
Homme by Maric Group ............. 6 Fantasy Gifts ................................. 32 Restaurants
Dancing Ganesha ........................ 45
Insurance
Beverages Grocery Stores French Meadow Bakery & Café 49
American Family Insurance ......... 7
Barefoot Wine .............................. 3 Wedge Co-op ............................... 45 Ginger Hop/Honey ..................... 49
Baldwin, Davina ........................... 56
Budweiser...................................... 67 Jakeeno’s Pizza & Pasta .............. 49
Wagner Insurance-Financial
Sorella Wine & Spirits.................. 51 Health, Wellness & Recovery KinDee Thai Restaurant................ 45
Services ......................................... 56
Thomas Liquors ............................. 45 Advanced Foot and Ankle Midori’s Floating World Café ..... 45
Wolfson, Steve .............................. 56
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Catering Amble, Paul DDS .......................... 24 Jewelry Roat Osha ..................................... 49
Mintahoe Catering & Events ....... 17 Blue Cross & Blue Shield of Max’s ............................................ 6 Sushi Tango................................... 49
Minnesota ..................................... 68 T Lee Fine Designer Jewelry ........ 8 Toast Wine Bar & Café ................ 45
Communications Burns, Steve................................... 57 Uptown Diner, Woodbury
89.3 The Current .......................... 37 Carrillo, Dr. Thomas P. ................. 57 Legal Café, Louisiana Cafe,
AM950, The Voice of Chase Lisa .................................... 57 Bohn & Associates ...................... 54 GrandviewGrill ............................. 33
Minnesota ..................................... 64 Childs, Julie ................................... 57 Cloutier & Brandl .......................... 21 Uptown Diner/Calhoun
Minnesota Public Radio ............... 37 Fitness Together ............................ 17 Davis Law Office .......................... 15 Grill/Louisiana Cafe/
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Big Dog Solutions ......................... 54 Heteroflexible Therapy ................ 57
July 2-15, 2010
Pfffffff! I’m watching a porno film. Everything is so big… I wonder ….doesn’t it bother them while
Pfffffff! Je regarde un film porno. Tout est si gros… they sleep?
Je me demande … Ça ne perturbe pas leur
sommeil?
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205 Hennepin Ave., Minneapolis (612) 746-0306 2548 Hennepin Ave. S. Minneapolis (612) 874-0481
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Fusion.
OM $$
Indian
Modern approach to Indian cuisine featuring bold and distinctive flavors.
Dinner
401 First Ave. N., Minneapolis (612) 338-1510
www.omminneapolis.com
ROAT OSHA $$
Thai
Uniquely crafted authentic and American influences. Decor that invites
conversation
Lunch, Dinner
2650 Hennepin Ave. S., Minneapolis
Sat: 11 AM – 11 PM • Sun: 11 AM – 10:30 PM • www.roatoshathai.com
SUSHI TANGO $$
Japanese
Exciting and eccentric mix of Japanese cuisine and Uptown attitude.
Lunch, Dinner
Calhoun Square, (612) 822-7787
Mon – Wed: 5 PM – 1 AM • Thurs – Sun: Noon – 1 AM
www.sushitango.com
American
Fresh hand ground hash browns, French toast, omelets, pancakes, coffee,
juices, soups, salads & sandwiches.
Breakfast, Brunch, Lunch
Bielenberg & Tamarack, Woodbury, MN (651) 209-8182
Mon – Fri: 7 AM – 2:30 PM • Sat: 7 AM – 3 PM • Sun: 8 AM – 3 PM
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