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SHensitivity
raw courage displayed in someones writing?
Well I have! Captivating. Insightful. Beautiful. Honest. Courageous.
These are but a few of the words I will use to describe Ray Allens journey
into the mind and heart of a true champion of Gods love. In this message to men, he graciously
instructs the reader to dare to love his wife purposefully, sacrificially and biblically. He confidently
takes the reader where few men have dreamed to go; but he has been there and is Divinely qualified
to guide us on this blissful journey. This is not another how to book. This is it!
Prophetess Barbara Williams
The Ministry of the Watchman, Intl.
It has always been just a matter of Gods timing that his writings would impact multitudes Theusbands Ministry
to
I recently received a text message from my husband Dr. Marlin McNichols in which there were
His Wife
various book cover concepts. As I noticed the title of the book, the word Sensitivity jumped off
the page at me followed by The Husbands Ministry To His Wife. My spirit leaped and I
yelled, yes!!! I read even further and there it was, the authors name: Raymond E. Allen, Sr.
I then said praise God this is it! So many doors are about to open for you my friend. It is truly
your time. Its as if God allowed all these experiences so that through you He might bless the
world! Thank you for hearing His voice and being obedient to the call
Minister Joyce Dozier-McNichols
Sound In The Spirit Ministries
SHensitivity
raw courage displayed in someones writing?
Well I have! Captivating. Insightful. Beautiful. Honest. Courageous.
These are but a few of the words I will use to describe Ray Allens journey
into the mind and heart of a true champion of Gods love. In this message to men, he graciously
instructs the reader to dare to love his wife purposefully, sacrificially and biblically. He confidently
takes the reader where few men have dreamed to go; but he has been there and is Divinely qualified
to guide us on this blissful journey. This is not another how to book. This is it!
Prophetess Barbara Williams
The Ministry of the Watchman, Intl.
It has always been just a matter of Gods timing that his writings would impact multitudes Theusbands Ministry
to
I recently received a text message from my husband Dr. Marlin McNichols in which there were
His Wife
various book cover concepts. As I noticed the title of the book, the word Sensitivity jumped off
the page at me followed by The Husbands Ministry To His Wife. My spirit leaped and I
yelled, yes!!! I read even further and there it was, the authors name: Raymond E. Allen, Sr.
I then said praise God this is it! So many doors are about to open for you my friend. It is truly
your time. Its as if God allowed all these experiences so that through you He might bless the
world! Thank you for hearing His voice and being obedient to the call
Minister Joyce Dozier-McNichols
Sound In The Spirit Ministries
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by Eugene H. Peterson
Dedication
TO ALMA JEAN COLEMAN ALLEN
I will see you again my love, my
precious darling, my angel.
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C O N T E N T S
Dedication .............................................................................................................. 3
About The Author & Tribute to Wife .............................................................. 5
Acknowledgements ............................................................................................... 7
Forward................................................................................................................. 13
Authors Preface .................................................................................................. 17
Introduction ......................................................................................................... 21
CHAPTER ONE ................................................................................................... 25
Sensitivity The Husbands Ministry to His Wife
CHAPTER TWO .................................................................................................. 35
Dont Forget the Little Things
CHAPTER THREE ............................................................................................... 41
She Is Her Own Universe And You, My Friend, Are...
CHAPTER FOUR ................................................................................................. 47
God Said, Wash The Dishes
CHAPTER FIVE ................................................................................................... 51
So, You Are Not Talking To Her, Huh?
CHAPTER SIX ..................................................................................................... 59
Protect Your Garden of Eden
CHAPTER SEVEN ............................................................................................... 65
One of Womans Greatest Gifts
CHAPTER EIGHT ............................................................................................... 71
Unequal Love
CHAPTER NINE .................................................................................................. 77
Youre Not Kenneth Copeland, And Youre No Fred Price
CHAPTER TEN .................................................................................................... 83
The Secret Destroyer
CHAPTER ELEVEN ............................................................................................. 89
Knowing Your Priorities
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CHAPTER ONE
Sensitivity:
The Husbands Ministry to His Wife
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Chapter One
from the time I was twelve years old. Even though Farrell was a
small town, it was a rough town. Seems like we had projects and
playgrounds on every side of town and I lived in all of them, and
played on all of them.
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Though He has all power, in the above passages Jesus said that
He is gentle and humble. Let me share another passage with you
that will give you more insight into Jesus heart and power. I know
some of you might say well, that is Jesus. However, you really
need to understand that He was functioning as a man during his
time on earth.
Now there was room for the blind and crippled to get in.
They came to Jesus and he healed them.
(Matthew 21:12-14 MSG)
I want you to notice that Jesus was neither weak nor was He a
pushover, but He turned that temple out, whipping folks, turning
tables over, and throwing folks out of that facility. WOW! That
sounds like something out of a Rambo movie.
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When Mary came to the place where Jesus was, and saw
him, she dropped down at his feet, saying to him, Lord, if
you had been here, my brother would not have died. When
Jesus saw her sobbing, and the Jews who came with her
[also] sobbing, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled.
(John 11:32-33 AMP)
You can see that Jesus himself was sensitive to peoples hearts
and full of compassion. Additionally, I am reminded that when
Jesus was being crucified even then He asked Father, forgive them,
for they know not what they do. Jesus had a tough hide, but a
tender heart, and hence so should we.
RAY NUGGET
Sensitivity is not weakness as many of us were lead to
believe, but a powerful gift that real fearless men are not
afraid to release.
There is a God given obligation for us to be receivers and
responders to the waves of emotion and the love our
wives and loved ones send out to us.
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To those folks that will say Well, Ray, thats Jesus, the Son of
God, I invite you to read the book of Acts.
Now you really need to understand that the mob was in the
process of murdering Stephen. They were so enraged that they
actually began biting him with their teeth. Lets skip a few verses in
the story.
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Now notice how the next verse reads; I think this particular
passage is truly amazing.
And he kneeled down, and cried with a loud voice,
Lord, lay not this sin to their charge. And when he had
said this, he fell asleep. (Acts 7:60 KJV)
This man literally said the same thing Jesus said while hanging
on the cross; Father, forgive them. What men of power. These
two men - Jesus and Stephen - demonstrated great compassion
even while facing death. There is no strength stronger than what
Jesus and his followers demonstrated in their lives and deaths. The
ancient Romans were absolutely amazed by such Christians, who
were meek and gentle, but demonstrated willingness to go to their
deaths with fearlessness and bravery.
I personally believe that many times in our lives God will allow
us to meet angels, some we will know about and some we will not
even recognize. I was blessed enough to have had many angels in
my life, heavenly and earthly. I met a very beautiful woman from
Leeds, Alabama, who had suffered with pain all her life. Her story
was like that of a modern day Cinderella, only with constant pain
and suffering, she had amazing strength and was country tuff.
Many think she was just another country girl from Alabama,
but to her family and many others she was an angel.
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RAY NUGGET
As soap is to the body, tears are to the soul.
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Too many men are bound by fear of being hurt or that a woman
will take advantage of them. Consequently, the way they love and
express the emotions of love is never full throttle, but is just a
watered down love. This hinders men from ever tapping loves full
potential and releasing the incurable romantic trapped inside
them. Do not betray your wife by travestying the romantic side of
yourself.
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