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EXPECTATIONS INTERACTIONS
State rules clearly and enforce them. Define Give praise and recognition frequently. Re-
limits, but allow flexibility for children within ward children for a job well done. Emphasize
these limits. the good things they do.
Expectations for children should be reason- Let children know that you have made mis-
able and fit ability and age. Guide them in takes, learned from them, and despite it all,
setting reasonable goals so they can achieve you feel good about yourself. Be a good role
success. model.
Children feel useful and valued if they have Allow children to do as much as they can on
responsibilities. their own, but give them encouragement and
Children appreciate being kept informed of support when they need it.
family matters and being made aware of fam- Look for solutions to problems without plac-
ily values. Children benefit from hearing de- ing blame or commenting on a childs charac-
scriptions of the experiences that have deter- ter. Let children know if there is a problem
mined a familys values. The decisions made and encourage them to help figure out the best
to accept certain beliefs and the reasons be- solution.
hind feelings are important lessons for chil- Treat children as you would a good friend or
dren. as you like to be treated yourself. In commu-
nicating with your children, frequently use
ACTIONS phrases that build self-esteem such as Thank
Discuss your childrens activities and let them you. What a good idea! You did that well.
know that what they do is important to you.
Attend games, parent day at school, drama ATTITUDES
presentations, award ceremonies, etc. Deal with emotions, ideas, and feelings seri-
Teach children to spend time/money wisely. ously. Never belittle your children by making
It is extremely important to spend quality time statements such as Youll grow out of it. or
together. Shared activities become favorite Its not as bad as you think.
activities. Emphasize the uniqueness and strengths of
Demonstrate how much you care. Hug them. others. Help your children develop an appre-
Tell them and show them you love them and ciation for different backgrounds, cultures,
that they are terrific. and philosophies.
Some of the preceding material was taken from a workshop presented by Larry Deaton of Fort Osage, Mo., schools.