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Author(s): Judith G. Smetana, Aaron Metzger, Denise C. Gettman and Nicole Campione-Barr
Source: Child Development, Vol. 77, No. 1 (Jan. - Feb., 2006), pp. 201-217
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Child Development,January/February2006, Volume 77, Number 1, Pages 201-217
Beliefs about parents' legitimate authorityand adolescents' obligations to disclose to parents and actual dis-
closure and secrecy in differentdomains were examined in 276 ethnicallydiverse, lower middle-class 9th and
12th graders(Ms = 14.62and 17.40years) and their parents(n = 249).Adolescents were seen as more obligated
to disclose prudentialissues and less obligated to disclose personalthan moral,conventional,and multifaceted
issues; parents viewed adolescents as more obligated to disclose to parents than adolescents perceived them-
selves to be. Adolescents disclosed more to mothersthan to fathers,particularlyregardingpersonalissues, but
mothersoverestimatedgirls'disclosure.Greatertrust,perceivedobligationsto disclose, and, for personalissues,
more parentalacceptanceand psychologicalcontrolpredicted more disclosure and less secrecy.
Recentresearchhas highlightedthe importanceof that adolescents who are more disclosing view their
children'sdisclosureas a sourceof parentalknowl- parents as more trusting of them.
edge about children'sactivities(Crouter& Head, These findings are intriguing, because they shift
2002;Kerr&Stattin,2000;Kerr,Stattin,&Trost,1999; the focus of this large body of research from
Stattin& Kerr,2000).Althougha greatdeal of re- parenting practices to adolescents' active manage-
searchindicatesthat parentalmonitoringbecomes ment of informationabout their lives. Yet the find-
increasinglyimportantin adolescence,as adoles- ings are incomplete, both conceptually and
cents spend less time with parentsand more time methodologically.As adolescents spend more time
with peers (Csikszentmihalyi & Larson,1984;He- away from home, they have increased opportunities
therington,1993;Larson,Richards,Moneta,Holm- to manage information,keep things secret,and make
beck, & Duckett,1996),Crouterand Head (2002) choices about disclosure, but Kerrand Stattin(2000)
have noted that most of the researchhas assessed did not systematically consider what adolescents
parentalmonitoringin termsof parents'knowledge disclose or are secretive about. Adolescents may
of children'sactivitiesand thatparentalknowledge choose to reveal or conceal informationto parentsfor
can be obtainedin variousways. Kerrand Stattin differentreasons,including attemptsto assert power
(2000),Kerret al. (1999),and Stattinand Kerr(2000) or manipulate parents (Stattin, Kerr, & Ferrer-
distinguishedamongchilddisclosure,parentalsoli- Wreder,2000), avoid disapproval (Marshall,Tilton-
citation of information,and parentalbehavioral Weaver, & Bosdet, 2005; Stattin et al., 2000), gain
controland found that,controllingfor trust in the autonomy (Finkenauer, Engels, & Meeus, 2002;
parent-child relationship,only adolescentdisclo- Marshall et al., 2005), or because they increasingly
sure was associatedwith lower levels of juvenile view some aspects of their behavior as private mat-
delinquencyand adolescentconductproblems(but ters and inappropriateto disclose to parents. Fur-
see Fletcher,Steinberg,& Williams,2004,who found thermore, teenagers' management of information
thatparentalcontrolcontributedsignificantlyto pa- may vary for different types of activities and the
rentalknowledgeand also to reductionsin juvenile extent to which they believe those activities may
delinquency).Furthermore, Kerret al. (1999)found elicit parentalconcern.
Youniss and Smollar (1985)found that adolescent
boys and girls talk to both mothersand fathersabout
schoolwork,future plans, and social issues, but they
We thank Dr. KennethHilton, the Rush-HenriettaSchool Dis- do not communicate much about issues like dating
trict,and the many families who participatedin this research.We (although they disclose more to mothers than fa-
are also grateful to AparajitaBiswas, Emily Locker, Gregory thers).Likewise,Noller and Callan(1990)found that,
Sherman,Pia Weston,and AlexandraRiverafor their assistance in general,adolescents reportednot disclosing much
with this study.
to their parents,with adolescent girls reportingmore
Correspondenceconcerningthis articleshould be addressedto
Judith Smetana, Departmentof Clinical and Social Sciences in disclosure to mothers than to fathers and adolescent
Psychology, Meliora Hall, RC 270266, University of Rochester,
Rochester,NY 14627. Electronicmail may be sent to smetana t 2006 by the Society for Research in Child Development, Inc.
Epsych.rochester.edu. All rights reserved. 0009-3920/2006/7701-0014
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202 Smetana, Metzger, Gettman, and Campione-Barr
boys reporting equal disclosure to mothers and fa- personal issue by adolescents; likewise, some
thers about relationships, sexual attitudes and in- friendship issues may entail overlapping conven-
formation, and plans. Although these studies are tional, prudential, psychological, and personal con-
informative,they lack a conceptualframeworkand a cerns. As parents generally believe that they have
more systematic approach for understanding the more authority over personal and multifaceted is-
types of issues that adolescents disclose or conceal sues than adolescents desire, parents may view ad-
from parents. olescents as being more obligated to disclose these
Moreover,Kerrand Stattin(2000)and Stattinand issues than adolescents believe. However, previous
Kerr (2000) examined disclosure as assessed by five research has not examined adolescents' or parents'
questions: whether adolescents spontaneously tell, perceptions of adolescents' obligations to disclose
like to tell, usually tell, keep a lot of secrets, or hide information in different domains. Furthermore,
their everyday activities from their parents.Previous whether adolescents actually disclose these issues to
researchhas shown that disclosure and secrecy are parents may vary according to the nature of the
only moderately (and inversely) correlated (Fin- parent-adolescent relationship.
kenauer et al., 2002), as are disclosure and conceal- In contrast, previous research has shown that
ment (Finkenauer,Frijns,Engels, & Kerkhof,2005), adolescents and parents agree that parents should
but they were combined in Kerrand Stattin's(2000) have legitimate authority over moralissues (which
measures. Kerrand Stattin(2000)found that greater pertain to justice, welfare, or rights), conventionalis-
disclosure was associated with more positive out- sues (the arbitrarynorms, like etiquette and man-
comes, but Finkenaueret al. (2002) found that for ners, that facilitate the smooth functioning of social
both early (12- to 13-year-olds)and late (16- to 18- systems), and prudentialissues (which pertain to the
year-olds) adolescents, secrecy (but not disclosure) individual's comfort, safety, or health;Fuligni, 1998;
was associated with poorer relationships with par- Smetana, 1988a,2000; Smetana & Asquith, 1994). In
ents, more physical complaints,and more depressed turn, this suggests that adolescents may believe that
mood. Moreover, adolescents' disclosure and con- they are obligated to disclose their moral, conven-
cealment (as rated by parents) each have unique tional, and prudentialbehavior to parents.
associationswith parenting (Finkenaueret al., 2005). Finally, Finkenaueret al. (2002) also found that
This research suggests that disclosure and secrecy adolescents' self-disclosure was negatively associat-
are empirically distinct, perhaps because they vary ed and secrecy was positively associated with emo-
conceptually in the extent to which they may entail tional autonomy, as assessed on Steinberg and
acts ot omlsslon versus commlsslon.
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Disclosure in Adolescence 203
1988a, 2000; Smetana & Asquith, 1994), we hypoth- ences in disclosure. We expected that adolescents
esized that judgments of legitimate parental au- would disclose more and conceal less about aca-
thority would be highly associated with obligations demic than personal or peer issues and that they
to disclose to parents and that both adolescents and would disclose more and conceal less about peer
parentswould view adolescents as more obligatedto than personalissues. Furthermore,previous research
disclose moral, conventional, and prudential issues on disclosure has focused primarilyon middle ado-
rather than multifaceted and personal issues. Fur- lescence (Kerr& Stattin,2000;Stattin& Kerr,2000)or
thermore,we hypothesized that generation and ad- has not distinguished between middle and late ad-
olescents' age would moderate these findings and olescence (Darling, Cumsille, Hames, & Caldwell,
that parents would view adolescents as more obli- 2004). In this study, we examined middle (9th grad-
gated to disclose to parents, particularlyregarding ers) and late adolescents' (12th graders')secrecy and
multifaceted and personal issues, than adolescents disclosure regarding these different topics. On the
believed they were obligated to do. We also hy- basis of the previous research(Buhrmester& Prager,
pothesized that adolescents' obligations to disclose 1995; Finkenauer et al., 2002; Youniss & Smollar,
issues in all domains, but particularlyin the personal 1985), we hypothesized that adolescents' disclosure
domain, would decline with age. Because previous of personal issues to parents would decrease with
research on parental authority beliefs has revealed age. Furthermore,we hypothesized that adolescents
few systematic sex differences, sex differences in would disclose less, particularlyat older ages and
beliefs about disclosure were examined, but no spe- regardingpersonal issues, than parents perceived.
cific hypotheses were tested. Furthermore,Crouterand Head (2002)have criti-
The second aim of this study was to examine ad- cized past researchon parentingas focusing globally
olescents' (and for disclosure, parents') perceptions on "parents"rather than assessing parenting sepa-
of actual disclosure and secrecy to parents. We fo- rately for mothers and fathers. Thus, in this study,
cused here on everyday issues to ensure that the is- adolescents separatelyrated their disclosure and se-
sues examined afforded frequent opportunities for crecytoward mothersand fathers.On the basis of the
disclosure or concealment.Thus, we examined per- previous research,which has shown that disclosure
ceptions of disclosure and secrecy regardingschool- varies for mothers and fathers and interacts with
work (such as whether homework was completed or child gender (Bumpus, Crouter, & McHale, 2001;
how students are doing on different subjects in Crouter,Helms-Erikson,Updegraff,& McHale, 1999;
school), peer issues (like whether parents are home Noller & Callan, 1990; Waizenhofer,Buchanan, &
when teens are at other friends' houses or whether Jackson-Newsom,2004;Youniss& Smollar,1985),we
they are dating), and personal issues (how adoles- expected that adolescents, and particularly girls,
cents spend their free time or what they talk about on would report greater disclosure overall to mothers
the phone with friends). Although academic issues than to fathers but that adolescent boys would dis-
can be conceptualized as primarily prudential in close personalissues more to fathersthan to mothers.
nature (e.g., having to do with potential long-term The final aim of this study was to examine the
harm or benefit to the self), this differs from the correlates of adolescent disclosure and secrecy re-
prudential issues examined in both the current as- garding these differenttypes of issues. We examined
sessment and previous researchon the legitimacy of the unique influences of adolescents' beliefs about
parentalauthority,which has focused on prudential their obligations to disclose to parents, parenting
issues of risk, such as drug and alcohol use or sexual (including acceptance and psychological control),
activity (e.g., Smetana, 2000; Smetana & Asquith, and the quality of parent-adolescent relationships
1994).The peer issues examinedhere were consistent on disclosure and secrecy. We hypothesized that
with the multifacetedfriendship issues examined in adolescents who viewed themselves as more obli-
previous researchon the legitimacy of parental au- gated to disclose to parentswould disclose more and
thority in that they included both personal and po- conceal less. We also expected that the quality of the
tentially conventionalor prudentialconcerns. parent- adolescent relationship would influence
On the basis of results of Finkenaueret al. (2002, both disclosure and secrecy, but that different di-
2005), we expected that adolescents' disclosure to mensions would be important for each. Based on
parents would be only moderately and inversely Kerr et al.'s (1999) findings, we expected that trust
associated with their ratings of secrecy or conceal- (both parents' perceptions of trust in their adoles-
ment from parents about the same issues. We also cents and adolescents' perceptions of trust in
examined age, sex, and topic differences in adoles- their parents) would be associated with disclosure
cents' disclosure and secrecy and generation differ- regarding all three types of issues. However, we
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of Disclosureand Secrecy
Correlates Adolescents and theirparentswere recruitedfrom
a suburban school district. Researchers visited all
Trust.Adolescents completed the Trust subscale 9th- and 12th-gradehomerooms to inform students
(10 items) of the Parent-Peer AttachmentInventory about the research. Interested students took the
(PPAI;Armsden & Greenberg,1987),which assesses survey packages (for both students and parents)
adolescents' trust in parents.Responses were scored home. Because of the number of single-parentfami-
on a 5-point Likertscale ranging from 1 (almostnever lies in the district, only one parent per family was
or nevertrue)to 5 (aZmost alwaysor alwaystrue).Ad- asked to complete the surveys. Studentswere offered
olescents completed the questionnaire twice, once small honoraria for their participation. Completed
for mothers (a=.74) and once for fathers (a=.77). surveys were returned in school or, in a few cases,
The items were reworded to assess parents' trust in mailed back to the researchteam.
their adolescent (a=.69). Adolescents' ratings of Participationrates, based on the number of stu-
trust in mothers and fathers were significantly as- dents in each grade and the average daily absence
sociated, r(263)= .43 (except where otherwise noted, ratesfor those grades,were 33%for the 9th grade and
all ps<.Ol); ratings of mothers and fathers were 27%for the 12th grade. The race/ethnicity and soci-
combined for the analyses. oeconomic status of our sample closely matched the
Adolescent-parentconflict.Adolescents and par- demographic characteristicsof the district, which
ents rated 11 different areas of day-to-day decision was primarilylower middle-classand 78%White,9%
making (dress or clothing, helping out around the African American, 1% American Indian, 7% Asian,
house, homework, time to be home, choice or vol- and 4%Hispanic.Participatingstudentswere slightly
ume of music or TV,time spent on the phone, who above the district average in academic achievement
should be friends, bedroom, spending or managing (assessed by self-reportedgrade point average), and
money, dating), drawn from previous research on girls were overrepresentedin our sample.
adolescent-parent conflict (Smetana, 1989). Using
proceduresderived from the Issues Checklist(Prinz,
Foster,Kent, & O'Leary,1979;Robin & Foster,1989), Results
respondents indicated whether each issue was dis-
Legitimacyof ParentalAuthorityand Adolescents'
cussed during the past 2 weeks (scored as O= not Obligationsto Discloseto Parents
discussedor 1 = discussed).Then, for each issue dis-
cussed, respondentsrated the frequencyof discussion Means and standard deviations for adolescents'
during the previous 2 weeks on a scale ranging from and parents'judgments of the legitimacy of parental
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authority and adolescents' obligations to disclose and obligations to disclose, F(3,711)= 327.23, re-
their behavior in different domains are reported in vealed that prudential issues were seen as more le-
Table1. Our hypothesis that ratingsof the legitimacy gitimately subject to parental authority and more
of parental authority and obligations to disclose to obligatory to disclose than all other issues (Bonfer-
parents would be highly associated was confirmed. roni t-tests, all ps<.01). In turn, socially regulated
Total ratings were strongly correlated for adoles- (moral and conventional) items were seen as more
cents, r(275)=.59, and parents, r(249)=.62. How- legitimately subject to parental authority than mul-
ever, although statistically significant, associations tifaceted and personal issues. In contrast, adoles-
between parents' and adolescents' ratings of the le- cents were seen as more obligated to tell parents
gitimacy of parental authority,r(249)=.20, and ob- about their behavior vis-a-vis multifaceted issues
ligations to disclose to parents, r(249)=.29, were than moral, conventional, and personal issues. As
only moderate. hypothesized, personal issues were seen as less ob-
To test hypotheses about domain, age, and gen- ligatory to disclose and less legitimately subject to
eration differences, separate 2 (grade) x 2 (sex) x 2 parentalauthoritythan all other issues.
(generation:parent vs. child) x 4 (domain) repeated Findings regardingthe legitimacy of parentalau-
measures analyses of variance (ANOVAs) with thority were qualified by significant Generationx
generation and domain as repeated measures were Grade, F(1,236) = 4.93, p = .03, Generationx Do-
performed on ratings for the two judgments. As main, F(3,708) =42.76, and Domain x Grade x
hypothesized, parents werei seen as having signifi- Generation interactions,F(3,708) = 4.50. For obliga-
cantly less legitimate authority,F(1,236) = 6.17, and tions to disclose to parents, there was a significant
adolescents were perceived as being significantly Generationx Domain interaction, F(3,711)=20.49,
less obligated to disclose to parentsas they got older, and the three-way interaction approached signifi-
F(1,237)=7.94. Also consistent with expectations, cance, F(3,711)= 2.56, p = .054. Post hoc analyses
parents viewed parents as having significantlymore revealed that there were no significant age differ-
legitimate authority, F(1,237)= 239.14, and adoles- ences in 9th and 12th graders' ratings of the legiti-
cents as having significantlymore of an obligationto macy of parental authority for any of the domains,
disclose to parents, F(1,237) - 220.30, than did ado- but parentsof 9th gradersviewed parentalauthority
lescents. Furthermore,significant main effects for as more legitimate for multifaceted, socially regu-
domain in ratings of legitimacy, F(3,708)=523.69, lated (moral and conventional),and personal issues
Table 1
Means and StandardDeviations for Ratings of Legitimacyof Parental Authority and Obligations to Disclose
Prudential
M 4.17 3.96 4.05 4.73 4.52 4.64 3.63 3.33 3.51 4.74 4.55 4.66
SD 1.12 0.98 1.08 0.88 0.92 0.90 1.37 1.28 1.30 0.75 0.70 0.73
Social
M 2.91 2.89 2.90 4.29 4.05 4.19 2.89 2.66 2.79 4.07 3.80 3.96
SD 0.99 0.94 0.92 0.72 0.86 0.75 1.09 1.02 0.96 0.73 0.75 0.75
Multifac
M 2.76 2.74 2.75 4.24 3.75 4.05 3.25 3.18 3.22 4.29 3.90 4.12
SD 0.91 0.85 0.87 0.72 0.79 0.78 1.02 0.89 0.94 0.70 0.71 0.73
Personal
M 2.11 2.18 2.15 3.16 2.80 3.02 2.55 2.49 2.52 3.35 3.07 3.23
SD 0.88 0.79 0.83 0.80 0.79 0.81 0.88 0.86 0.87 0.78 0.68 0.75
Total
M 3.02 2.98 3.00 4.12 3.79 3.99 3.09 2.91 3.01 4.11 3.84 4.00
SD 0.82 0.71 0.77 0.59 0.65 0.64 0.91 0.85 0.88 0.62 0.59 0.62
Note. Multifac = Multifaceted; Social = Moral and Conventional. Items were rated on 5-point scales where higher scores = more legitimate
parental authority and greater obligation to disclose to parents.
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208 Smetana, Metzger, Gettman, and Campione-Barr
disclosurewere examinedin a separateanalysis, hoc tests indicated that 12th-gradeboys kept secrets
describedin moredetailbelow.) about schoolwork more than did either 12th-grade
Adolescentsecrecy.Meansandstandarddeviations girls or 9th-gradeboys (see Table3).
for adolescents'ratingsof secrecytowardmothers Adolescentdisclosure.Adolescents' ratings of dis-
and fathersare shownin Table3. Adolescentswere closure to mothers and fathers are also presented in
more secretiveabout peer than personalissues or Table3. As hypothesized, adolescents reported vol-
schoolworkandmoresecretiveaboutpersonalissues untarily disclosing more to mothers than to fathers,
thanschoolwork,F(2,246)= 34.10.A significantSex F(1,252)= 52.66, Ms = 3.16, 2.92, SDs = 0.85, 0.90,
of Childx Sex of Parentinteraction,F(1,248)= 5.64, respectively. Mirroringthe results for secrecy, ado-
was qualifiedby a significantSex of Childx Sex of lescents also disclosed more about schoolwork than
Parentx Topic interaction,F(2,496)= 3.61. Boys either peers or personal issues and more about peers
concealedpersonalissues frommothersmorethan than personal issues, F(2,504) = 175.87.
girlsdid, F(1,248)= 4.79. A significantSex of Child x Sex of Parentinterac-
A significant Topicx Grade interaction, tion, F(1,252)= 10.54, was qualified by a significant
F(2,496)= 7.06,revealedthat9th gradersweremore Sex of Child x Sex of Parentx Topic interaction,
secretive about peers than either schoolworkor F(2,504)= 6.39. Post hoc analyses revealed that, as
personalissues and more secretiveaboutpersonal expected, girls disclosed more about personal issues,
issues than schoolwork, Ms = 2.87, 2.68, 2.11, Ms = 2.96, 2.65, SDs = 0.94, 0.87, and schoolwork,
SDs = 1.21,0.93,0.98,respectively.In contrast,12th Ms = 3.93, 3.69, SDs = 0.90, 0.91, respectively,to their
gradersdid not differentiatebetweenpersonaland mothers than did boys, but boys and girls did not
peer issues, although they hid both more than differ in their voluntary disclosure to mothers about
schoolwork,Ms = 2.59, 2.69, 2.29, SDs = 0.89, 1.02, peers. Contraryto hypotheses, there were no differ-
0.93,respectively.Thesefindingswerequalifiedby a ences in boys' and girls' disclosureto fathers.
significantGradex Child'sSex x Topicinteraction, In addition,a significantTopic x Gradeinteraction,
F(2,496)= 5.40,whichwas due to a Gradex Child's F(2,504)= 10.60 revealed that 12th gradersvoluntar-
Sex interactionfor schoolwork,F(3,269) - 2.84. Post ily disclosed more about peers than did 9th graders,
Table 3
Means and StandardDeviations for Adolescents'Ratings of Disclosure and Secrecy to Parents
Disclosure
Personal
M 2.59 2.73 2.65 2.94 2.98 2.96 2.40 2.63 2.51 2.52 2.45 2.49
SD 0.93 0.81 0.87 0.93 0.94 0.94 0.90 0.76 0.85 0.87 0.88 0.87
School
M 3.84 3.52 3.69 3.97 3.87 3.93 3.65 3.29 3.49 3.70 3.57 3.64
SD 0.99 0.79 0.91 0.91 0.89 0.90 1.07 0.91 1.01 1.13 1.09 1.11
Peer
M 2.72 3.13 2.91 2.98 3.19 3.08 2.65 3.00 2.81 2.55 2.77 2.65
SD 1.08 1.04 1.08 1.26 1.78 1.22 1.14 1.06 1.11 1.21 1.21 1.21
Secrecy
Personal
M 2.78 2.72 2.79 2.55 2.48 2.52 2.77 2.68 2.73 2.76 2.59 2.69
SD 0.95 0.92 0.95 0.93 0.92 0.93 1.02 0.93 0.98 1.02 0.99 1.00
School
M 2.10 2.57 2.34 2.07 2.09 2.12 2.17 2.58 2.36 2.17 2.23 2.20
SD 1.03 1.00 1.04 0.99 0.90 0.95 1.00 1.06 1.05 1.09 1.02 1.06
Peers
M 2.97 2.53 2.85 2.71 2.70 2.68 3.07 2.50 2.81 2.90 2.87 2.90
SD 1.17 0.88 1.06 1.26 1.13 1.21 1.20 1.02 1.15 1.35 1.18 1.27
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Obligate Disclose .05 .48** * .06 .38*** .08 .43* * * .08 - .25* ** .08 - .17* .09 - .15*
Table 5
Means,StandardDeviations,andCorrelations
AmongVariables
M SD Age Sex TTrust Freq Intens Self-E Oblig PTrust Accep Psych
A Age 15.87 1.49 1.00 - 0.04 - 0.02 - 0.05 - 0.03 0.05 - 0.12* 0.01 - 0.06 - 0.06
Sex (1 = female) 0.66 0.48 1.00 - 0.13* 0.17** 0.18** - 0.10 0.13* - 0.04 0.10 - 0.01
A Trust 3.81 0.72 1.00 -0.01 -0.38** 0.43** 0.38** 0.39** 0.29** -0.11+
A Discussion Freq 2.15 0.63 1.00 0.52** 0.06 0.23** - 0.09 - 0.01 0.07
A Conflict Intensity 2.11 1.04 1.00 -0.08 -0.03 -0.15 -0.11+ 0.18**
A Self-Esteem 3.09 0.56 1.00 0.19** 0.10+ 0.16* - 0.06
A Obligations 3.11 0.86 1.00 0.17* 0.20** -0.04
P Trust 4.13 0.53 1.00 0.46** -0.17**
P Acceptance 2.56 0.32 1.00 - 0.14
P - Psych Control 1.81 0.33 1.00
Disclose-Personal 2.66 0.85 - 0.00 0.05 0.44** 0.16* - 0.08 0.28** 0.57** 0.23** 0.27** 0.06
Disclose-School 3.70 0.96 - 0.13* 0.09 0.48** 0.14* - 0.09 0.29** 0.50** 0.17** 0.29** - 0.08
Disclose-Peers 2.83 1.12 0.11+ 0.00 0.40** 0.14* - 0.10 0.18** 0.50** 0.19** 0.13* 0.01
Secrecy-Personal 2.64 0.92 - 0.02 - 0.01 - 0.28** -0.02 0.08 - 0.22** -0.30** - 0.08 - 0.01 -0.12+
Secrecy-School 2.19 0.96 0.12* - 0.10 - 0.25** 0.01 0.12+ - 0.22** - 0.23** - 0.12+ - 0.10 0.02
Secrecy-Peers 2.80 1.13 - 0.09 0.03 -0.28** 0.00 0.17* * - 0.21** - 0.21** -0.13* - 0.02 - 0.12+
Note. A = Adolescent; P = Parent; Freq= Frequency; Intens = Intensity; Self-E = Self-Esteem; Auth = Legitimacy of Parental Authority;
Oblig = Obligations to Disclose; Accep = Acceptance; Psych = Psychological Control. ns ranged from 276 (for associations between ado-
lescent-rated measures) and 242 (for associations between parental and child reports).
+p<.10, *p<.05, **p<.01.
mothers and fathers.In these analyses, we used ad- and adolescents' beliefs about their obligation to
olescents' parent-specificratings of trust, discussion disclose to parents were statistically significant in
frequency,and conflictintensity,as well as measures each analysis. Adolescents who trusted their parents
of parentalpsychologicalconbol, parentalacceptance, more and who believed they were more obligated to
and beliefs about obligationsto disclose used in the disclose to them reported greaterdisclosure regard-
previous analyses. Results differing from the com- ing personal, peer, and schoolwork issues. In addi-
bined analyses are noted in parenthesesin the text. tion, more parent-reported psychological control
Uniquecorrelatesof adolescentdisclosure.Older ad- predicted greater adolescent disclosure about per-
olescents reported greater disclosure over peer is- sonal issues (for both mothers and fathers) and
sues. As can be seen, adolescents' trust in parents marginally (p<.07) for peer issues (for fathers only,
Table 6
Regression
Modelsof Adolescents'
Perceptions
of Disclosureand Secrecy(n = 232J
Predictor SE p SE ,B SE p SE : SE : SE ,B
A Age .03 .09+ .03 -.04 .04 .20*** .04 -.07 .04 .12+ .05 -.14*
A Sex .09 -.01 .11 .08 .13 -.03 .13 -.03 .13 -.11+ .16 -.05
A Trust .08 .24*** .09 .28*** .11 .28*** .11 -.19* .11 -.10 .13 -.20*
Discussion Freq .08 .06 .09 -.01 .11 .10 .12 .03 .12 .02 .14 -.05
Conflict Intensity .07 .01 .08 .07 .10 -.04 .10 .02 .11 .10 .12 .17*
Self-Es teem .09 .04 .10 .08 .12 -.09 .12 -.07 .12 -.16 * .14 -.04
Parent Acceptance .14 .11* .16 .14* .19 -.02 .20 .13* .20 .01 .23 .09
Parent Psych Control .13 .15** .15 -.01 .18 .10+ .18 -.16** .19 -.01 .22 -.20**
Model Total R2 .46 .41 .38 .18 .14 .17
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range than previous studies, which typically have tionships (Furman & Buhrmester,1992), we found
spanned pre- or early to late adolescence. Further- that boys were more secretive about personal issues
more, unlike the previous research, where beliefs with their mothers than were girls, whereas girls
aboutlegitimateparentalauthorityhave been assessed disclosed more about personal issues (and also
using binomial judgments,this study used a 5-point schoolwork)to mothers than did boys. Furthermore,
Likertscale. Even though parents'ratingsof their le- mothers overestimated this disclosure and rated
gitimate authoritydeclined significantlywith adoles- their daughters as more disclosing than daughters
cents' age, there were large (approximatelyl-point) actually were (although no differences between
differencesin parents'and 12th graders'ratings. mothers and sons emerged). It has been hypothe-
Parallel findings were obtained in ratings of ob- sized that mothers identify more with their daugh-
ligations to disclose to parents. Parents consistently ters than their sons (Chodorow, 1978). In fact, we
viewed adolescents as more obligated to disclose found that girls did disclose personal issues more to
their behavior in each domain than adolescents mothers than did boys, which may lead mothers to
perceived, although discrepanciesbetween parents' overestimate parent-adolescent similarities. In ad-
and adolescents' judgments decreased with adoles- dition, parents have a greater "generationalstake"
cents' increasing age, mostly because of age-related (Bengston & Kuypers, 1971) in maintaining conti-
differencesin parents'beliefs. Unlike the findings for nuity between generations, whereas adolescents, in
legitimacy, however, and most likely reflecting the contrast,are attemptingto differentiatefrom parents.
taken-for-granted nature of these expectations Although parents viewed adolescents as increas-
(Smetana& Daddis, 2002),we did find that with age, ingly less obligated to disclose about multifaceted
adolescents viewed themselves as less obligated to (including peer and friendship) issues with age, it
disclose to parents about their moral and conven- was surprising that 12th graders actually disclosed
tional behavior.As expected, ratings of adolescents' more about these issues than did 9th graders. This
obligations to disclose to parents and the legitimacy may be because conformity to peers, particularly
of parental authority were strongly associated, but regarding antisocial issues, peaks in 9th grade
the strength of the correlations also indicated that (Berndt,1979;Sim & Koh, 2003). Thus, 9th graders'
these constructsare not identical. secretiveness about these issues may reflect their
greatersusceptibilityto peer pressure at this age. As
Disclosure and Secrecy
the peer issues included an item pertainingto dating,
it is also possible that adolescents become more
As Crouterand Head (2002)have recommended, willing to talk to parents about their romanticinter-
we examined adolescents' ratings of disclosure and ests and peer relationshipsas they get older. Finally,
secrecy separatelyfor mothersand fathers.Although it is unclear why 12th-gradeboys were more secre-
these ratingswere very highly associated,there were tive about schoolwork than either same-age girls or
significant mean level differences, which were fur- younger boys. The 12th graders in this study did
ther moderated by type of issue and, as others have report lower academic performance(as assessed by
found, adolescents'sex (Bumpuset al., 2001;Crouter grade point averages)than did 9th graders,although
et al., 1999;Noller & Callan, 1990;Waizenhoferet al., no sex differencesin academicperformanceemerged
2004; Youniss & Smollar, 1985). Our findings are in our sample.
consistent with previous research indicating that
both boys and girls, but particularly girls, have
Correlatesof Disclosure and Secrecy
closer, more supportive relationships with mothers
than with fathers (Furman& Buhrmester,1992)and, The results of this study did not provide strong
more specifically,that girls confide more in mothers support for Finkenauer et al.'s (2002) claim that
than in fathers (Noller & Callan, 1990; Youniss & disclosure and secrecy are conceptually distinct. As
Smollar,1985)about schoolworkand less often about expected, secrecy and disclosure were significantly
personal issues. Our findings did not support the and inversely correlated. Although the strength of
hypothesis that boys would voluntarily disclose the associationindicated that these measures are not
more about personal issues to fathers than mothers; identical, they did have relatively similar correlates.
boys and girls in this study did not differ in their Consistentwith the previous research(Finkenaueret
disclosureor secrecyregardingany of the issues with al., 2002;Kerret al., 1999),we found that a context of
fathers. However, consistent with previous research mutual trust facilitates adolescents' disclosure to
indicating that mother-daughter relationships are parents over all of the issues examined here. In con-
closer and more supportive than mother-son rela- trast, secrecy over personal and peer issues was
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associated with less trust in the parent-adolescent Previousresearchhas shown that overcontrolof
relationship, whereas secrecy over schoolwork was the personaldomainleads to greaterfeelingsof pa-
associated with lower self-esteem. Secrecyover peer rental psychologicalcontrol (Smetana& Daddis,
issues was also uniquely associated with greater 2002)and moreinternalizingsymptoms(Hasebeet
conflict intensity.Thus, like Finkenaueret al. (2002), al., 2004).Contraryto our hypotheses,the findings
we found that disclosure has positive implications fromthis studyfurthersuggestthatgreaterparental
and secrecyhas negative implicationsfor adjustment. psychologicalcontrol was associatedwith more
However, we did not find that secrecy has positive disclosure(and less secrecy)regardingpersonalis-
benefits during adolescence, although our assess- sues and less secrecyregardingpeer issues.We as-
ment of adjustmentwas more limited than theirs. sesseddisclosurein termsof how much"adolescents
It should be noted that we assessed adolescents' usuallytell, withoutparentsasking"aboutdifferent
perceptions of trust in parents, whereas Kerr and issues. Thus,the findingsfor psychologicalcontrol
colleagues (Kerr et al., 1999; Kerr & Stattin, 2000) raisethe intriguingpossibilitythatadolescentswith
assessed adolescents'perceptionsof parents'trust in parentswho use morepsychologicalcontrolmayfeel
them (which we assessed directly here through subtly coercedto disclose personalissues without
parents' reports). Although there were significant parentsovertlyasking;this issue bears furtherin-
bivariateassociationsbetween parents' trust in their vestigationin futureresearch.Darlinget al. (2004)
teens and adolescent-reporteddisclosure (as well as have examineddifferentdisclosurestrategies,in-
between adolescent- and parent-rated trust), ado- cluding full disclosure, partial disclosure (e.g.,
lescents' trust in parents was more strongly associ- omittingsome details),lying,and avoidance;future
ated with disclosurethan parents'trustin their child. researchshould examinewhetherparentalpsycho-
This may reflect an informantbias, but it is also in- logicalcontrolis differentiallyassociatedwith ado-
terestingto note that parents'ratings of trust in their lescents'use of these strategies.In addition,in this
adolescent were not significantly associated with study, psychologicalcontrol was assessed using
two of the three measures of secrecy. parent reports;adolescents'reports of parenting
Furthermore,consistent with other research ex- were not obtained.As differentinformants'ratings
amining self-disclosure as an aspect of and route of parentingaretypicallyonlymoderatelycorrelated
toward achieving intimacy (Reis & Shaver, 1988), (Pettit,Laird,Bates,Dodge,&Criss,2001;Smetana&
Finkenaueret al. (2002, 2005) examined self-disclo- Daddis, 2002), future researchshould determine
sure in terms of revealing private thoughts and whetheradolescents'perceptionsof parentalpsy-
feelings. Along with other researchers who have chologicalcontrolare also associatedwith greater
examined disclosure as an aspect of parental disclosure,more secrecy,and use of differentdis-
knowledge (Crouter & Head, 2002), however, this closurestrategies.
research focused on adolescents' voluntary disclo-
sure of activities (although one personal item, Limitationsof this Stedy and FutureDirections
"having a 'crush' on a girl or boy," referredto feel-
ings). Our research suggests that it is important to A strengthof this study was that we compared
specify the issues that are kept secretor disclosed, as adolescents'ratingsof disclosureto motherswith
they have somewhat differentcorrelates. mothers'ratingsof theiradolescents,yieldinga more
Differenceswere particularlyevident for parents' preciseassessmentof parent-childsimilaritiesand
ratings of acceptance and psychological control. differencesthanis typicallyobtainedwhen students
Greater parental acceptance was associated with areaskedto rate"parents." However,becauseof the
more disclosure regarding personal issues and numberof single-parentfamiliesin our sampleand
schoolwork and less secrecy regarding personal is- thedifficultyof enrollingfathersin research(Parke&
sues. As the moderate association (r=.43) between Buriel,1998),we only obtainedresponsesfromone
parentalacceptanceand parent-ratedtrust suggests, parentper family.In futureresearch,both mothers'
acceptance partially indexes parents' warmth and and fathers'ratingsof adolescentdisclosureshould
support, which was shown to have a positive asso- be obtainedso that interactionsbetween parents'
ciation with disclosure. As adolescents (and to a and adolescents'genderin disclosurecan be more
lesser extent, parents) viewed disclosure over per- fully examined.
sonal issues as discretionaryrather than obligatory, Owing to the task demands(includingthe time
acceptanceon the part of the parent may be partic- neededto completethe surveysandthe redundancy
ularly importantin creatinga climate where adoles- of asking so many questionsrepeatedlyabout the
cents feel comfortablein revealing personal issues. same set of items),we did not obtainadolescents'
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Appendix A
Table A1
Stimulus Items for Assessments of Authority and Disclosure Beliefs, Actual Disclosure, and Secrecy
Prudential(risk) Prudential(schoolwork)
Drinkingalcohol Gettinga bad grade/not doing well on work or tests
Smokingcigarettes Finishinghomeworkor assignments
Going to a party where alcohol is served How teens are doing in differentschool subjects
Using marijuanaor other illicit drugs Doing particularlywell on an assignmentor test
Sociallyregulated(moralandconventional)
How friends are treated(teasing,saying mean things)
Spreadingrumorsor saying somethingcruel
Keepingpromisesto others (lying or dishonesty)
Talkingback or being rude to a teacherin class
Type of language (cursingor swearing)
Multifaceted Multifaceted
(peer)
Websitesvisited on the Internet
Types of movies watched or CDs listened to (watchingor listening Hanging out at a friend'swhen no adult is home
to R-ratedmovies or CDs)
Hanging out with friends parentsdon't like Spending time with someone parentsdon't like
If or who teens are dating If or who teens are dating
Personal Personal
How teens spend their free time How teens spend their free time
How teens spend their own money How teens spend their own money
What teens talk about on the phone with friends Whatteens talk about on the phone with friends
What teens write in e-mails, letters,or journals Whatteens write in e-mails,letters,or journals
Who teens like or have a crush on Who teens like or have a crush on
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