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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
InHappiness takes this opportunity to thank

the following organizations. Their help and support

enabled the development of the JOYGYM Happiness System.

USAID/PEPFAR (United States Agency for International Development,

The United States President's Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief)

University of the Witwatersrand Center for Excellence in Palliative Care

Department of Education Gauteng Province (South Africa)

HPCA (Hospice Palliative Care Association of South Africa)

SACBC (Southern African Catholic Bishops' Conference)

Department of Social Development (South Africa)

Hospice in the West (Krugersdorp South Africa)

Matlosana Hospice (Klerksdorp South Africa)

Laughter Yoga International (Mumbai, India)

Hospice Association of the Witwatersrand

(Johannesburg & Soweto, South Africa)

AngloGold Ashanti (South Africa)

Xstrata Minerals (South Africa)

FHI (Family Health International)

EAP Association (South Africa)


Standard Bank (South Africa)

Sparta Foods (South Africa)

Cotlands (South Africa)

DEDICATIONS

From the Authors

We dedicate this book to all children.

May you have long, healthy and happy lives.

From Bill

To Peter and Lillian Webber and Sannie Grobler.

Your lives taught me Happiness Intelligence.

From Malik

To my compass and rudder. Thank you Ambereen for your love,

joy, happiness and laughter. Thank you for accepting this adventure

with me, and for putting up with me along the way. I love you.

From Memory

To my children a constant source of fun and happiness in my life

and to the memory of my late mother. Thank you for believing in me.

ABOUT US

InHappiness International Happiness Institute was founded

in Mumbai, India and currently works from Johannesburg, South

Africa to build global Happiness Intelligence. We are non-profit


all monies earned go to sponsoring happiness programs for orphans

and vulnerable children, people living with HIV, hospice patients,

others in need and their caregivers.

Happiness Intelligence helps us develop a more fulfilling,

happier, healthier, and longer life. Build your Happiness

Intelligence and happiness will follow.

JOYGYM Happiness System is a proven positive psychology

based system to help build Happiness Intelligence. JOYGYM is

delivered in two streams: Aerobic Laughter (practical training or

therapy) and Happiness Coaching.

Aerobic Laughter a powerful cognitive behavioral therapy

and one of the most effective positive psychology interventions.

Happiness Coaching education, self discovery, and positive

psychology techniques are delivered with guidance, support and

encouragement to help build Happiness Intelligence.

HappyMetrics All our programs are evidence based.

HappyMetrics provides happiness assessment to track your

happiness, measure changes, and monitor your results.

Healing with Happiness Is a JOYGYM psychosocial support

program helping tens of thousands of orphans and vulnerable

children, people living with HIV, hospice patients, the needy, and
their caregivers to lead happier and healthier lives.

Happiness University Happiness-U.org opens online mid-

2011 with online Happiness Coaching to build Happiness

Intelligence in all corners of the world.

Happyness Advantage corporate happiness consulting and

coaching service. JOYGYM can boost productivity, engagement,

sales, and profit. Happiness provides a real business advantage.

Natural Laughter spontaneous joyful laughter and non-verbal

emotional communication native to children. Aerobic Laughter

enables adults to reconnect with this beneficial laughter.

Unhappifiers the bad guys responsible for most unhappiness

today: stress, anxiety, depression, burnout, grief, trauma and

post-traumatic stress disorder.

JOYGYM Experience one-day happiness and laughter

adventure introducing Happiness Intelligence, Aerobic Laughter,

and the new science of happiness.

JOYGYM Foundation two-day training in Aerobic Laughter

practice and kick starting Happiness Intelligence.

African Happiness our charitable program to bring Healing

with Happiness psychosocial support to 15 million orphans and

vulnerable children, people living with HIV, hospice patients,


people in need and their caregivers. We need your help to make

this dream come true!

Happiness Volunteers Trained happiness volunteers provide

Happiness Coaching and therapy to build community happiness.

Start or join a Happiness Volunteer Club in your company or

community.

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Preface: Bill Gee

My journey into spreading happiness started when I joined Dr. Madan

Kataria, founder of Laughter Yoga International in Mumbai, India.

Laughter s potential to heal the damage caused by modern stress excited

me. It became my mission.

Id been a casualty of stress and felt its destructive power.

I left my comfortable south-east Asian island life and moved to the

colorful bedlam of Mumbai, India.

Dr. Kataria was a gifted teacher. His work with deaf children, mentally

challenged children, and street kids was an inspiration.

In my work as a director of Laughter Yoga International I collaborated


with laughter professionals around the world a terrific opportunity to

exchange ideas and learn from their experience.

We re-imagined Laughter Yoga training, researched the benefits of

laughter on health and in the workplace, trained the governments

disabled support organization, and arranged worldwide training tours.

We worked with schools to transform the learner and teacher experience

and boost academic results, and collaborated with a Canadian laughter

professional that introduced Laughter Yoga into aged care facilities.

As I leant more about the power of laughter to heal, I was saddened

because laughter s therapeutic power was not taken seriously.

I dreamed of laughter and happiness healing individuals and improving

business, healthcare, the armed forces, government, and education.

Making that dream come true became my purpose.

UNHAPPINESS IN AFRICA

In 2007 I travelled with Dr. Kataria to bring Laughter Yoga to Africa.

Hospice workers told of the extreme and widespread unhappiness caused

by the African HIV and AIDS pandemic, and the heavy toll inflicted on

caregivers, victims and the community.

Later that year I moved to Africa with Dr. Katarias blessing to bring

laughter and happiness to those wounded by HIV.

Two-thirds of all people infected with HIV live in sub-Saharan Africa.


More than 15 million have died here 1.3 million children and adults in

the last year.

Imagine the suffering of their families and the impact on the economy.

While treatment is starting to reduce the impact, Africa will pay a

terrible price for generations to come.

HEALING WITH HAPPINESS

I founded InHappiness International Happiness Institute to develop a

happiness system combining positive psychology and laughter therapy.

Four years later we are proud to offer:

JOYGYM a proven positive psychology evidence-based happiness

teaching and coaching system

Aerobic Laughter a powerful cognitive behavioral therapy, one of

the most effective positive psychology interventions

Healing with Happiness a successful psychosocial support program

helping tens of thousands of orphans and vulnerable children, people

living with HIV, hospice patients and their caregivers to lead happier

and healthier lives

JOYGYM programs have been presented at scientific conferences, been

adopted by some of the worlds leading NGOs, and have gained the

support of USAID for orphans and vulnerable children programs.

HAPPINESS INTELLIGENCE
As we rolled out our programs we saw that we were not simply providing

knowledge and effective new skills.

Our trainees were changing in a deep and fundamental way.

They developed a new consciousness a moment to moment awareness

of how events and relationships were impacting on their happiness.

They used their new skills to manage events and relationships to reduce

unhappiness and increase happiness in themselves and others.

They internalized the knowledge of how happiness affects their body,

mind, immune system, emotions, values and beliefs, and became

fiercely protective of their happiness.

They developed Happiness Intelligence!

This exciting insight crystallized our understanding and provided clear

direction for our work: Happiness Intelligence is the key to happiness.

If we could help people to build happiness Intelligence, then happiness

would follow.

DELIVERING HAPPINESS INTELLIGENCE

InHappiness is dedicated to building Happiness Intelligence.

Were developing innovative new programs and delivery channels.

Healing with Happiness provides effective, low cost psychosocial support

on a large scale.

Our business programs help organizations develop Happiness


Intelligence.

Happiness-U, an online university will provide Happiness Coaching and

build Happiness Intelligence worldwide.

I hope our work will raise and earn money to deliver the Healing with

Happiness program to the tens of millions children and adults suffering

as a result of the AIDS pandemic.

Lets make the 21st century the Age of Happiness.

Johannesburg, South Africa April 2011

Preface: Malik Jaffer

I first encountered Aerobic Laughter therapy during the Hospice

Palliative Care Association annual conference in 2008, where Bill spoke

and ran an Aerobic Laughter workshop.

I tend to be skeptical and analytic, but found myself intrigued. I

somehow recognized that happiness and laughter have a powerful

potential for healing and decided to explore this further.

I began to study happiness and positive psychology, and read books,

scientific papers, news articles, and blogs everything I could get my

hands on.

Guess what I learned?

Happiness and laughter are good for us.

This learning and knowledge provided the analytical base to substantiate


what I intuitively knew to be true.

I committed that my family and I would live a life filled with laughter

and happiness, through good and rough times.

WHY ISNT IT OUT THERE?

As I experienced the power of laughter and happiness to improve life, I

was amazed that we dont all practice happiness in our everyday lives.

Many people feel anger, pessimism and despair as their primary emotions

rather than happiness, optimism and hope.

Positive psychology shows that happiness can be built and learned.

Science shows the clear benefits of happiness.

Aerobic Laughter provides a fun and easy way to beat stress and build

joyfulness.

Why werent we all using these tools to build happiness in everyday life?

MY JOURNEY

My experience with mind, body, spirit interaction began when I was very

young. In my early years I learned the value and practice of meditation.

I also learned mind improvement techniques and read The Power of

Positive Thinking. These impacted me in ways that I still carry with me.

As I grew older, there were times when I became engrossed in the

material aspects of life and my mind, body, spirit alignment went

dormant.
My choice of career in Public and International Health has been a

catalyst in getting me re-aligned.

In 25 years I have had worked and visited more than 50 countries. Im

grateful, humbled and fortunate to have had the opportunity to serve

others and positively impact on the lives of millions.

Ive seen happiness and joy in the eyes of children around the world.

Their eyes glow and faces radiate the same way everywhere.

It doesnt matter what their clothes or house look like, where they live

happiness sparkles equally in the eyes children of all ages.

There is nothing more satisfying than seeing happiness on someones

face.

For all who read this book and for those who are touched by those who

read the book, my wish is that you are blessed every day of your life

with happiness.

I hope we motivate you to pursue and build your Happiness Intelligence.

I pray we can touch millions with happiness, one person at a time.

Johannesburg, South Africa April 2011

Preface: Memory Matanda

I discovered Aerobic Laughter therapy in 2009.

A SKEPTIC

I intuitively grasped that laughter was beneficial, but as a psychologist I


found it hard to believe the results I was shown. I grappled with the lack

of empirical scientific evidence to back up these benefits.

I joined InHappiness to help develop a solid evidence-based scientific

approach and assessment program.

I soon attended my first Aerobic Laughter therapy training sessions to

oversee the implementation of the Healing with Happiness assessment

program.

When we returned two weeks later for follow up assessment, I was

amazed by the obvious and visible transformation. The sad and gloomy

caregivers I had met were now lively, playful, happy and energetic. They

greeted us with warm laughter and a spring in their step.

Our assessments confirmed significant reduction in stress and

depression. The challenges these caregivers faced had not disappeared

or changed, but their outlook towards these challenges was far more

positive.

The stories of personal transformation that I had not believed were

playing out before my eyes.

They were assimilating our training and techniques to build Happiness

Intelligence and transform their lives.

I was humbled to receive testimonies from caregivers who had not been

coping and were now upbeat about their lives. I could see visible
changes by the end of their one-day training.

I watched this process repeated at the next group, and then at dozens of

groups where we introduced the Healing with Happiness program.

I found that the program was responsible for profound changes in

severely stressed people. Healing with Happiness helped them to

overcome severe stress, depression, burnout, grief, trauma and post-

traumatic stress disorder, to identify and reframe their stressors, and to

bounce back very quickly from adversity.

I was overjoyed when we received funding to extend our Healing with

Happiness monitoring and evaluation from two weeks to six months.

We gained deeper insights and evidence of the programs impact on

caregivers and downstream participants. We saw significant life

improvements and dramatic increases in Emotional Intelligence continue

throughout the six month period.

A BELIEVER

I have worked in the HIV and AIDS sector in Africa since 1988 and seen

the extreme psychosocial suffering it has caused firsthand.

Healing with Happiness cannot stop that suffering, but it can vastly

improve the quality of life of all people affected by the HIV and AIDS

pandemic.

Its like a happiness virus that takes root in caregivers and quickly
spreads to the adults and children they care for, and then to their

families and friends and into the communities.

We need to spread this happy virus through the HIV and AIDS networks,

and through other caregivers to those they care for around the world.

It is my prayer that the JOYGYM system will spread happiness while

helping us to fund the task of bringing happiness and healing to more

than 15 million children orphaned by AIDS and others suffering from the

AIDS pandemic.

Johannesburg South Africa April 2011

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CONTENTS

Section 1: HAPPINESS

Re-discovering Happiness .................................... 1

The New Science of Happiness .............................. 4

Happiness Myths .............................................. 10

Happiness ...................................................... 13

Unhappiness ................................................... 18

Stress ........................................................... 18

Unhappifiers .................................................. 26

Depression ..................................................... 27

The How of Happiness ....................................... 32

Emotional Intelligence ...................................... 36

Happiness Intelligence....................................... 37

Building Happiness ........................................... 40

Delivering Happiness ........................................ 41

Happiness University ........................................ 43

JOYGYM Happiness System ................................. 46

Elements of Happiness ...................................... 47

Aerobic Laughter ............................................. 50

Understanding Laughter .................................... 51

Is Laughter the Best Medicine? ............................ 55


Natural and Organic ......................................... 57

Laughing with Children ...................................... 64

Learning Aerobic Laughter .................................. 68

JOYGYM Programs ............................................ 71

The Happiness Advantage ................................... 74

Organizational Programs .................................... 77

Happiness through Service ................................. 81

Happiness Volunteers ........................................ 83

Section 2: HEALING WITH HAPPINESS

Healing with Happiness ..................................... 89

The AIDS Pandemic ........................................... 89

The Caregiver Explosion .................................... 91

Caregiver Syndrome ......................................... 93

Patient Syndrome ............................................ 95

OVC Syndrome ................................................ 97

Our Commitment ............................................. 99

Defining the Goals ........................................... 99

Development ................................................ 100

Section 3: HEALING WITH HAPPINESS CASE STUDY

The Case Study .............................................. 105

Roll Out ....................................................... 107


Notes on the Case Study ................................... 108

Does HWH Build Happiness? ............................... 110

Happiness .................................................... 110

Yes. HWH builds Happiness ............................... 114

Can HWH Heal Caregivers? ................................ 114

Stress and Depression ...................................... 115

Coping ........................................................ 121

Resilience .................................................... 123

Burnout ....................................................... 125

Emotional Intelligence ..................................... 126

Work Relationships ......................................... 129

Home/Family Relationships ............................... 134

Mindfulness .................................................. 138

Adaptability ................................................. 140

Positivity ..................................................... 142

Well-Being ................................................... 144

Physical Health .............................................. 146

Life Change .................................................. 148

Yes. HWH Heals Caregivers ................................ 150

Can HWH Improve Care? ................................... 150

Absenteeism and Presenteeism........................... 151


Productivity ................................................. 154

Quality of Care .............................................. 156

Yes. HWH Improves Care .................................. 158

Can HWH Heal Patients? ................................... 158

Healing Patients ............................................ 159

Yes. HWH Helps Heal Patients ............................ 162

Can HWH Heal Orphans and Vulnerable Children? .... 163

Healing Orphans and Vulnerable Children .............. 163

Yes. HWH Helps Heal Children ........................... 169

In Their Own Words ........................................ 169

Section 4: BUILDING HAPPINESS

The Next Steps .............................................. 175

You Can Help ................................................ 177

Thank you ................................................... 179

REGISTER YOUR COPY ONLINE (registration code)................. 180

ABOUT THE AUTHORS ................................................... 181

EXPRESSION OF GRATITUDE ............................................ 182

RESOURCES AND REFERENCES ......................................... 184


H E A L I N G W I T H H A P P I N E S S

Re-discovering Happiness
Twenty-first century science has developed amazing new tools and

technology.

For the first time we are able to look inside the human mind and body

and watch what is happening in real time.

What researchers and scientists are seeing is often very different from

accepted knowledge. Theyre creating a new understanding of how our

bodymind works.

The distinction between body and mind is fast disappearing we are

one interlinked and interdependent system.

One of the most surprising discoveries is the importance of happiness,

and the powerful effects of both happiness and unhappiness on our

bodymind.

Happiness is a major determinant of our mental and physical health, our

success in all aspects of life, and even how long we live.

Our happiness level is much more important than we believed.

HAPPINESS DRIVES SUCCESS

Twentieth century wisdom told us that success would bring us

happiness.

We created a work ethic that increased chronic stress to the highest

levels in history and made us increasingly unhappy.

The new science shows that stressing to become successful is likely to


lead to failure, poor health, and even an early death.

The truth is that happiness drives success.

Happy people are more successful. They make better decisions, earn

more enjoy better mental health, and better marriages.

A study that considered results from more than 275,000 people

worldwide showed that happier people enjoy greater job satisfaction,

have enhanced social relationships, have more friends, receive more

support and assistance from coworkers and supervisors, suffer less

depression, and are less likely to use drugs than their unhappy peers.

Happy people tend to have more positive perceptions of themselves and

others, are more sociable, active, likeable and cooperative, are more

adept at solving problems, have higher energy levels and show increased

creativity.

H E A L I N G W I T H H A P P I N E S S

They cope better with stress, are better negotiators and are better at

conflict resolution. Happy people are better and more efficient decision

makers.

Happy people are the first to be employed, get promoted faster, perform

better, earn more money, have greater influence on group decisions, and

perform more helpful acts of kindness. Happy people are more


successful in education. They learn faster, retain knowledge longer, are

better at applying knowledge, and perform better in tests and

examinations.

The research is in increased happiness will make us a better and more

successful brother, sister, mother, father, parent, child, friend,

volunteer, student, employee, manager or boss.

It is human nature to seek and enjoy happiness.

The new science of happiness shows that building Happiness Intelligence

is the natural way to achieve happiness.

HAPPINESS DRIVES GOOD HEALTH

Happiness improves health dramatically.

We dont yet fully understand how this happens. We know that happiness

profoundly affects the immune system, and perhaps activates and boosts

our natural (homeostatic) healing system.

Scientists are quickly uncovering and beginning to understand the

secrets of bodymind medicine.

Happiness therapy is a powerful tool for prevention, healing and

maintaining good health.

Happy people enjoy improved mental and physical health.

They are less likely to suffer from anxiety, social phobias, and depression

and are better at coping with stress and bouncing back from adversity.
Happy people report better health and fewer unpleasant physical

symptoms. They take fewer days off work for health problems, are

relatively more energetic and more likely to engage in physical exercise.

Happy people have lower blood pressure and a lower incidence of

cardiovascular disease. They heal and recover from surgery faster.

They are less likely to engage in harmful and unhealthy behaviors

including smoking, unhealthy eating, drug and alcohol abuse, and risky

sexual behavior.

H E A L I N G W I T H H A P P I N E S S

Happy people have stronger immune function that protects against colds

and flu and provides increased resistance to infection. A study of nearly

ten thousand adults in Australia confirmed that happiness has a positive

effect on general health.

Sick people that are happier are more compliant with treatment and

experience less pain. Happiness can slow disease progression and reduce

mortality in a wide range of conditions including chronic heart disease,

cancer and HIV and AIDS.

Studies confirm that happy people survive longer after serious illness.

Happier patients with terminal renal disease survive longer. Women with

breast cancer recurrence who manifest joy are more likely to survive.
Happier spinal cord injury patients live longer. Optimistic men are less

likely to die of coronary heart disease.

HAPPINESS DRIVES LONGEVITY

Happy people live longer.

The connection between happiness and longevity has been confirmed in

studies around the world, with happier people shown to live from 7 to 12

years longer than their unhappier peers.

European research into twenty-eight studies on happiness and longevity

showed that happiness predicts longevity among healthy populations.

Happiness extended life the same amount as not smoking. A Yale study of

660 seniors confirmed that happier people lived 7.5 years longer.

All-cause death rates for happy people are lower. Lower death rates are

noted from causes ranging from traffic accidents to cancer, and from HIV

to suicides.

A study of the lives of 180 Catholic nuns in convents showed that their

happiness levels when young (average 22 years old) accurately predicted

how long they lived. The happiest 25% of these nuns lived almost eleven

years longer than the least happy quarter.

Another study rated photographs of 230 American baseball players taken

in 1952 on the intensity of their smile. Gloomy players lived an average

of 72.9 years, while those that looked happiest lived to 79.9 years
seven years longer.

Researchers found that happiness reduced blood pressure and

cholesterol levels in a sample of nearly 100,000 women. The happier

women had developed 9% less heart disease and their risk of dying from

any cause after eight years was 14% lower.

H E A L I N G W I T H H A P P I N E S S

A study titled Dont worry, be happy followed 1,739 adults in their

mid-forties for ten years. On a one-to-five happiness scale, every one-

point increase reduced the risk of coronary heart disease including heart

attack by 22%.

The desire to live longer has fascinated us since the beginning of time.

The Use of proven techniques to build Happiness Intelligence, may add

seven, ten or perhaps even more happy healthy years to our lives.

The New Science of Happiness

SCIENTISTS, ARMED WITH NEW TECHNOLOGY RE-DISCOVER THE


IMPORTANCE OF

HAPPINESS.

LOGICALLY, THEY TURN TO PSYCHOLOGISTS AND ASK HAPPINESS

IS REALLY IMPORTANT. HOW CAN WE BECOME HAPPIER?

UHMMM, SAID THE PSYCHOLOGISTS. WE DONT KNOW.

A TWENTIETH CENTURY FABLE

Twentieth century psychology focused on helping damaged or unhappy

people to become normal.

When science discovered the importance of happiness, normal was no

longer good enough. We dont want to be normal, we want to be

happier!

POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY

Psychology quickly responded. At the 1999 annual conference, American

Psychology Association president Martin Seligman announced the launch

of positive psychology a new discipline focused on making people

happier and more positive.

H E A L I N G W I T H H A P P I N E S S

Positive psychologists around the world turned to the study of happiness.

For the first time, scientific method is being applied to find out how to

make humans happier.


Before this turn of events, anyone could say take my course, buy my

product, follow me, and you will become happier.

Now positive psychologists have scientifically assessed thousands of

happiness techniques and interventions to verify which ones really help

to build happiness or reduce unhappiness. Those that work are further

assessed to understand how they work and how they can best be

applied.

Positive psychology has progressed quickly over the past decade with

important new discoveries being made weekly.

DIFFERENT WORLDS

Each of us lives in a different world.

When we are happy, our world can be a great place, filled with fun,

satisfaction and people that we enjoy interacting with.

On the other hand when we are unhappy or angry or depressed, our

world can be a miserable place full of annoyances and disappointments.

We may feel that other people are there just to make us unhappy, and

we even wish that they would go away and leave us alone.

Where would you rather live? Most people choose the happy world.

Positive psychology tells us that we have the power to decide which of

these worlds to inhabit. Given the right techniques and training we can

take control of our own happiness.


HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE

Many people take a fatalist view of happiness:

You seem sad today John.

Yes, I got out on the wrong side of bed.

This attitude implies that there is some outside person or force

determining Johns level of happiness.

The reality is quite different. There is no one with a remote control and

wicked sense of humor that decides, Im going to make John wake up

miserable this morning. Or tomorrow decides, Hell wake up happy,

but at noon Ill crash his mood.

H E A L I N G W I T H H A P P I N E S S

Mood is a choice that we have the power to control.

All we need is the right tools and the determination to use them well.

HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS

Happiness and unhappiness are separate emotional forces that exist and

act on us independently.

The term positive affect is used to describe things that make us

happier, and negative affect is used to describe things that make us

unhappier.

Good things and bad things happen, and that triggers an emotional
response in us.

The degree to which these things make us happy or unhappy depends on

how we choose to respond to them.

With the right tools the power is ours.

HAPPINESS CAN BE MEASURED

We cant manage what we dont measure.

A range of assessments can measure aspects of happiness and

unhappiness separately and in combination.

Reliable measures exist for anxiety, burnout, coping, depression,

Emotional Intelligence, happiness, gratitude, meaning in life, negative

affect, positive affect, positivity ratio, resilience, satisfaction with life,

stress, well being and more.

Other assessments can help us to measure physiological variables that

are clearly linked to aspects of happiness.

Measuring these variables before, during and after different happiness

interventions shows us how well they work, and helps us to create a

clear and accurate evidence base.

H E A L I N G W I T H H A P P I N E S S

HAPPINESS IS CONTAGIOUS

Both happiness and unhappiness are contagious.


Get on a bus where someone wont stop complaining about something,

and chances are that well get off the bus more stressed and unhappy

than when we climbed aboard.

Get on another bus where someone is celebrating a wonderful event or

cracking happy jokes, and chances are well get off feeling happier.

American professors from Harvard University and the University of

California published a study that followed 4,739 individuals from 1983 to

2003 to track how happiness spreads.

They found that happiness is contagious up to three degrees of

separation (for example, to the friends of ones friends friends).

People surrounded by happy people are more likely to become happy in

the future.

Nearby mutual friends that become happy increase our probability of

happiness by 63%.

Similar increases are seen when co-resident spouses, family members

and next door neighbors become happier.

When a friend living within half a mile becomes happy, our chances of

happiness increase by 42%. Increase the distance to a mile (about 1.6

km) and this reduces to 25%. At two miles it drops to 22%, and drops

further at greater distances.

HAPPINESS IS SOCIAL
Happy people have more friends, and lonely people are less likely to be

happy.

This isnt rocket science. Happiness is contagious. We seek out and

spend time with happy people because it makes us happier.

That means that happy people are more popular. They enjoy a richer

social life and have more friends.

If we are unhappy, were less likely to have lots of friends and more

likely to be lonely.

Thats also simple: when we feel unhappy, we interact with people in a

negative way and they avoid us to protect their happiness.

Beware. Unhappiness and loneliness are also contagious.

H E A L I N G W I T H H A P P I N E S S

POSITIVITY

Positivity is really important to our happiness.

Research shows that we pay more attention to bad things that happen to

us and make us unhappy (negative affect) than to good things that make

us feel happy (positive affect).

We also dwell on bad things for longer than on good things.

Positive psychologists calculate that we need three or more good things

to compensate for every bad thing.


A ratio of three positives for every negative provides a happy balance in

our lives where we can operate well and flourish.

This ratio of positive affect to negative affect is called positivity ratio

an important measure of happiness, health and success.

INCREASING OUR POSITIVE AFFECT

Positive psychology has discovered many proven ways to increase our

positive affect.

This sounds easy, but not every technique works for everyone. It takes

commitment to learn and try different ways and find those that work

best for you, then discipline to practice them and create new happy

habits.

DECREASING OUR NEGATIVE AFFECT

Decreasing our negative affect is a bit more difficult, but provides

greater increases in positivity and happiness.

Most negative affect is related to stress, anxiety, depression, burnout,

trauma, post-traumatic stress disorder and grief the unhappifiers.

Positive psychology has developed proven new techniques to prevent and

counter these without the use of pharmaceuticals.

SELF DISCOVERY

A good place to start is using a process of self discovery to identify

personal unhappifiers. Once we know our enemies it is easier to find


ways to deal with them.

Self discovery can also help to build mindfulness, a powerful tool for

reducing negative affect.

H E A L I N G W I T H H A P P I N E S S

JOYGYM is a powerful system that combines stress reduction, stress

prevention and stress management techniques that build resilience and

coping skills, techniques that help us reframe stressors, and even

techniques that help us to prepare for known stressful events like

presentations, job interviews and exams.

Finding the techniques that work best for you and incorporating them

into your life can make a dramatic difference to your happiness levels.

WHAT DETERMINES YOUR HAPPINESS LEVEL?

It turns out that each of us has our own unique level of happiness.

About 50% of our happiness level is determined genetically.

If we tend towards happiness, we should thank our parents.

A further 10% of our happiness level is determined by life factors that

are quite difficult to change, for example place of birth, career and

marriage status. It is possible to change these factors, but making

changes can be disruptive and stressful.

The remaining 40% of our happiness level is up to us!


That changes the game.

We alone are responsible for our own happiness.

REVERT TO NORMAL

Our happiness level is not fixed its dynamic and subject to change.

When good things happen it increases, and vice versa.

In most cases, changes in happiness level are short lived. We tend to

revert to our normal happiness level.

We believe that if something amazing and wonderful happens lets say

we win the lottery then well suddenly become much happier.

But studies of lottery winners show that they may be happier for a

while, but they soon revert to normal.

The opposite is also true. Victims of crippling accidents reported short-

term unhappiness, after which their happiness tended to revert to

normal.

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THE NUDGE EFFECT

Can we change our normal happiness level?

Yes we can.

By working to increase our positive affect and decrease our negative

affect we can increase and slowly raise our normal happiness to a higher

level.

This is not an overnight process.

Working at it for a few days or weeks may induce temporary change, but

the effects wont last.

Work and dedication are required to find the changes that work for us

individually and then practice them until we create new happy habits.

This change in lifestyle and continued practice can slowly nudge our

set point up a little every day. Eventually well achieve lasting change

and a happier, healthier you.

Happiness Myths

A few happiness myths that have gained wide acceptance can actually

cause great unhappiness.

HAPPINESS IS NOT WHEN

You will be happy when

you finish school, get your degree, get your first car, move out of

home, graduate, grow up, get your first paycheck, get married,
lose your virginity, have a child, buy a house, get that raise, and

so many more whens

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Its a lie.

Some of these events might increase our happiness for a short time, but

this boost soon disappears.

How long does the thrill of that new car last? Generally as long as the

new car smell. Then we get used to it and life returns to normal.

Happiness is not a when. When is a destination.

Happiness lies in the journey. Happiness lies in every minute of every

day. Its up to us to seek it out, nurture and enjoy it.

Forget the destination and enjoy every minute of the journey.

THE STRIVING FOR SUCCESS LIE

Another lie is that success brings happiness.

In this lie, success is measured in Dollars or Pounds or Rupees.

We authors have visited, lived in or worked in more than 60 countries

interacting with people at all levels of income.

Most of the happiest people weve met are among the poorest, and most

of the deeply unhappy people weve met are those with the most money.

Real success isnt measured in money.


Its time we realize that real wealth comes from a life well lived, from

the satisfaction of working to increase our own happiness and the

happiness of others.

In these terms, many poor fishermen and farmers are wealthier than

lots of millionaires.

The quest for money drives stress and can easily become an obsession

that robs our mindful enjoyment of each moment.

Dont confuse net worth with self worth.

Wealth and success are what we believe them to be.

They come from a happy life well lived.

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EMPTY PROMISES

Twentieth century advertising implies that we are miserable and will

always remain miserable, and are probably are not deserving of

happiness.

Unless we buy

this washing powder, dishwashing liquid, insurance, banking, or

brand of fashion, cosmetics, accessories, car, ketchup, computer,

phone, pad, political party, candidate

Ads work hard to show cool, hip and happy people that achieve a
blissful state by making the right purchase.

Its a lie!

Those are actors modeling in cleverly written, styled and produced

fiction.

Advertisers spend millions to produce these ads hoping to influence our

next purchase.

Do you think they care about our happiness?

Or taking our money?

The clever psychological programming built into ads really can convince

us that well feel happier.

Its an empty promise.

Any flashes of gratification we may experience dont contribute to our

Happiness Intelligence.

BUYING HAPPINESS

Advertising promotes the myth of buying happiness.

This lie led to an explosion of wasteful consumerism that has gobbled up

planetary resources, made a few people very wealthy, and tricked huge

populations into working harder and harder to try to buy their way to

happiness.

In the past 30 years we have consumed one-third of the planets natural

resources to manufacture products that are almost all (99%) thrown


away within 6 months.

This ridiculous lie is based on the false value that our worth is based by

on how much we spend.

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We urge you to visit www.storyofstuff.org, a remarkable website that

will help you to start developing real consumer intelligence and reduce

your part in this wasteful road to unhappiness.

Research is pretty clear on money and happiness.

If we dont have enough money to pay for a roof, food and basics, then

more money will buy us happiness.

Once were past that threshold, more money doesnt buy happiness. In

fact in most cases it causes stress and worry that can reduce happiness.

Theres one way we can buy happiness: invest time or money to help

others become happier.

Happiness
Everyone is different and unique, which means that there is no universal

formula for happiness.

Having said that, we are learning a lot about what makes most people

happy.

JOYFULNESS

This wonderful happy feeling is familiar to people who laugh or play a

lot, genuinely have fun, or practice Aerobic Laughter.

Joy is a raw and powerful feeling that lifts our spirits and our mood

instantly. Joyfulness can melt away stress, leave us cheerful and build

resilience.

We often experience flashes of joy, but there are ways to stretch that

feeling and elevate our state of happiness.

Joy is pure positive affect.

Find out what gives you joy and practice it often.

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POSITIVITY RATIO

The ratio of positive to negative events in our life reflects directly on

our happiness and ability to flourish.

When positivity ratio reaches 3 we become happier, and also much

better at relationships and performance.


Increasing our positivity ratio is not just about making more good things

happen in our life. Reducing the bad things increases our positivity ratio

even more.

Reducing stress and negativity is a great investment.

Our attitude and mood play a strong role here because we tend to get

back what we give. If we are miserable to others then they are more

likely to be miserable back to us.

Improving our attitude and optimism and taking steps to increase the

happiness of those around pays big positivity ratio dividends.

OPTIMISM

Try to see things in a positive way.

Our brain judges things by comparing them to other things.

When things happen to us (the fact), our brain invents or provides an

alternative to compare that event to. Lets call it a counterfact.

Lets say we bite into an apple and theres a worm in it. Whats the

counterfact?

If it is: Why me? Thats disgusting! then weve turned that event into a

negative affect that will make us unhappier.

If we think: Wow, Im glad I got that apple and not my guest then

weve managed to turn that event into a positive affect.

Remember that counterfact is a choice. By mindfully choosing worse-


case counterfacts, we can build optimism, positivity and happiness.

Make this a habit and you can change from a glass half empty to a

glass half full person.

MINDFULNESS

Many people rush through life like someone running blindfolded through

a forest, just bouncing off the trees and bushes they happen to run into.

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Mindfulness can change that.

Being mindful means opening our eyes to the repercussions of all that we

do, and of all that happens to us. Being a non-judgmental observer

creates a new awareness of how people and events influence us - and we

influence them.

The practice of mindfulness brings wisdom and opens our eyes in the

forest so we can decide what we to bump into or avoid.

Because we are all unique, the valuable lessons of mindfulness can only

be found through self discovery.

Once we learn what makes us feel happy, what makes us feel stressed,

and how our actions make other people feel happy or stressed, we can

take control of our life in a new and masterful way.

SATISFACTION
We are as happy as we feel.

Joe who lives in a $75,000 house in a suburb of $50,000 houses probably

feels much happier than Jack who lives in a $75,000 house in a suburb of

$100,000 houses.

Much of our happiness comes from subjective comparison.

Even though they both live in $75,000 houses, Joe is more satisfied with

his house, because Jack compares his house to the bigger and better

houses around him.

Comparing ourselves or our situation with other better situations will

make us unhappy.

Understand that people in the bigger houses are not necessarily happier.

Happiness isnt about living in a bigger house its about living in a

happy house.

Happiness lies in being satisfied with what we have.

STRENGTHS AND FLOW

Every one of us is gifted with special talents and strengths.

We should discover our strengths and exercise them in our work, our

family life and our play.

By exercising our strengths well get more done and have more fun doing

it.

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Intensively doing things we enjoy and are good at energizes us and

induces a wonderful state called flow.

During flow we become immersed in what were doing and lose track of

time and other things happening around us.

Exercising our strengths is a sure way to happiness.

SOCIAL EXCHANGE

We are social by nature.

While some people may find happiness in solitude, for most of us

loneliness brings unhappiness.

A rich social network provides support and builds happiness.

How we interact with people whether we contribute to their

happiness drives our social network.

Think about the most popular people you know. If theyre not rocks stars

or famous, theyre probably also the happiest people you know.

The more happiness we spread, the more it comes back.

VOLUNTEERING

Giving service to others is a fast track to happiness.

There are countless opportunities to help others. Voluntary service

makes the world a better and happier place. Well also learn new

skills and meet new people.


If we contribute to the happiness of others, happiness shall be returned

to us in spades.

MEANING AND PURPOSE

Are you drifting through life without a rudder without meaning and

purpose?

Think about it. What are your values?

Dont just accept what weve been told or what you think is right or

politically correct. Consider them seriously as if your life depends on it.

One day it may.

We should discover what we really, really believe in.

Life is a series of decisions. Making decisions can be stressful.

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Five or ten values that we believe in can transform our life.

Clear values act as signposts to guide our decisions and move our life in

a consistent and meaningful direction.


Values create purpose.

Meaning and purpose provide a deep and lasting happiness.

HEALTH AND WELL-BEING

Look after yourself.

Happiness drives good health, and good health builds happiness.

Learn to eat healthy. A well balanced diet can prevent health problems.

Exercise. Walk when you can, swim and get active. We were designed to

be active. A recent study showed that too much sitting increases the risk

of cancer.

Learn about and cut down on the chemicals we are exposed to.

Get into nature, stop rushing and make time to rest and relax.

Our bodies are a wondrous instruments, be kind to it, love it and it will

contribute to our happiness.

A LIFE WELL LIVED

Imagine being near the end of your life looking back.

How will you feel about your life?

Did we learn from our mistakes and grow stronger, care about those

around us, work to bring happiness to others, look after our health,

improve ourselves and the impact of our actions, exercise our strengths,

and live a life of meaning and purpose?

Will we feel proud and satisfied with a life well lived?


Will we feel happy?

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Unhappiness

Imagine a new virus that shortened our lifespan by ten years.

It would be a global health emergency. Governments would scramble to

discover and roll out a cure.

Yet unhappiness is allowed to drive ill health and early death and nobody

appears to notice.

UNDERSTANDING UNHAPPINESS

Happiness and unhappiness coexist as separate forces. Both spread

through emotional contagion.

Happiness can improve our life and health, and even give us extra happy

years.

Unhappiness often driven by stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma,

post-traumatic stress disorder and burnout affects us the opposite


way.

Lets review these unhappifiers, then look deeper into the dangers of

stress and depression.

Stress

Stress plays a leading role in global unhappiness.

Chronic stress grinds away at our mental health causing emotional

damage and physical illness. Long-term stress even rewires our brain,

leaving us more vulnerable to everyday pressure and less able to cope.

Over time, chronic stress can cause anxiety, depression, eating

disorders, and substance abuse.

Long-term stress can cause serious health problems as it disrupts nearly

every system in our body. It can raise blood pressure, suppress our

immune system, increase the risk of heart attack and stroke, contribute

to infertility and speed aging.

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Stress causes or accelerates most illness and disease.

Stress levels have been increasing steadily over the past century with no

end in sight.

Although stress related illness, disease and conditions are known killers,

we seem to accept stress as a fact of life to which there is no solution.


Thats not true. There are many natural ways to reduce stress exercise

and meditation are growing in popularity. There is a desperate need for

education on how stress works and how to manage it naturally.

Through education and building stress mindfulness we can live much

better and longer lives.

WORKPLACE STRESS

Twentieth century management strategy can be paraphrased as if you

want people to work harder, stress them.

As a result, workplace stress is skyrocketing. Ever-increasing stress levels

are costing companies and governments billions of dollars every year in

lost turnover and reduced productivity, and costing individuals their

health and happiness.

New science clearly shows that stress doesnt make people work harder

or better, rather, it reduces productivity, boosts absenteeism, and

increases health care costs.

THE STRESS RESPONSE

The human stress response is controlled by the amygdala part of our

limbic brain that acts as our bodys security control center and scans all

our senses for danger 24 hours a day.

When the amygdala senses danger, it triggers our stress response,

instantly releasing a cocktail of stress chemicals, hormones, and


neuropeptides into our bloodstream.

These chemical messengers race through our bloodstream to deliver

instructions to every organ and body system on how to react to the

perceived stress.

This fight or flight response prepares us to cope with perceived dangers

and maximizes our chances of survival.

Thousands of years ago the danger might have been an angry lion

threatening to attack.

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Imagine yourself armed with a stick facing an angry and roaring 500-

pound cat with big fangs and sharp claws you have little chance of

running away. A response that enables you to run faster, hit harder and

jump higher than ever before, to fight or flee would really improve your

chances of survival.

Our body still responds to stress in exactly the same way.

The chemical messengers cause some of our body systems to become

turbocharged for maximum performance, while body systems and

organs not needed to survive the life or death struggle are slowed or

even switched off so all our energy is available for the intense action of

fighting or fleeing.
STRESS AND OUR BODY

These chemical messengers instruct our body systems to act in order to

maximize our chances of surviving the attack.

Adrenaline pumps up our major muscles to give us almost superhuman

physical abilities.

Our liver releases reserves of glucose into the blood to provide fuel for

action, and our lungs start pumping short sharp breaths to quickly

deliver more oxygen. Our heart pumps furiously to deliver the fuel and

oxygen to all parts of our body.

Blood vessels constrict to reduce blood loss in case we are wounded.

Body systems not needed for the expected action are switched off or

slowed, including our digestive system, sexual/ reproductive system, and

our circadian clock.

This hardwired sequence of events plays out in our body even for minor

stresses, and not only for a lion attack.

Did you spot the underlying causes of diabetes, heart disease, high blood

pressure, digestive, sexual/ reproductive and sleep problems in the

above sequence?

As stress levels continue to increase, these diseases and conditions

increase to their highest levels ever.

IMMUNE STRESS
Our immune system is also reset by the stress messengers.

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Think of the immune system as a team with many different specialized

players, with each player working, dying and constantly being

replenished by the body.

Immune cells dont live long constantly replenishing them uses

significant energy.

To maximize this energy for fight or flight, the stress messengers disable

(or reduce production of) most of these team players, leaving us

susceptible to colds, flu and other infection.

A few immune team members are not switched off in fact they are

turbocharged to help prevent infection and reduce bleeding in case we

are wounded.

Without the rest of the team members to guide them, these players can

rampage and attack healthy parts of our body, causing autoimmune

diseases like arthritis, eczema, fibromyalgia, inflammation, irritable

bowel syndrome, multiple sclerosis, lupus, psoriasis, rheumatoid arthritis

and more.

An imbalanced immune system can result in serious allergic reactions

and asthma.
A recent study showed how stress disrupts the immune system, resulting

in inflammation that can lead to asthma, rheumatoid arthritis,

cardiovascular disease, depression, and certain types of cancer. Another

study shows that building happiness and reducing stress extends the

lifespan of our immune cells, boosting our natural protection system for

better health.

This immune stress response is a great reaction if we were facing an

occasional lion attack, but the chronic stress of modern life means that

it is triggered almost continuously, causing chronic health problems that

build unhappiness.

THE STRESS-MONKEY RESPONSE

Stress can make monkeys of us by reducing our brain function.

The brain parts we use to make reasoned decisions, practice Emotional

Intelligence, communicate and empathize, innovate and be creative, are

slowed or switched off by the stress messengers.

Our cortex is a powerful reasoning and decision-making tool, but it takes

longer to receive sensory information, process it, take decisions and act

upon them than our amygdala and limbic brain.

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Because we need the fastest responses possible to cope with a lion


attack, the stress response chemically shuts down our cortex during

the stress response.

Intelligent people often become incoherent during job interviews, well-

prepared students can freeze up and perform badly in examinations, and

many people are immobilized when asked to speak to a large audience

or to meet new people.

The stress response can leave us behaving like monkeys.

The chronic stress of modern life leaves us functioning with reduced

mental capacity for extended periods.

SWITCHING EMOTIONS

The stress response can shift us from happiness into a negative

emotional state in an instant.

Imagine you are driving its a wonderful day, you're feeling happy,

enjoying the sunshine and singing along to your favorite song. Suddenly,

the driver ahead of you brakes sharply.

The amygdala senses danger and triggers the stress response. It helps us

to stop the car in time, but switches us instantly into a state of negative

emotions.

We may respond with anger and even aggression or violence.

Even at our happiest, the stress response can switch us into negative

emotions like anger, anxiety, bitterness, fear, frustration, jealousy,


panic, rage and righteous indignation.

Even small stresses can negatively impact on our mood.

The ever increasing levels of chronic stress we live with make negativity

and mood swings more prevalent, wiping the smile off our faces, and

driving us towards depression.

DISCONNECTING FROM OUR VALUES

The stress response can disconnect us from our deeply held values and

beliefs.

Consider a dog lover walking with their young child. Suddenly an

unknown dog runs up barking and growling. Under the influence of the

stress response they may lash out violently towards the dog, perhaps

injuring or killing it.

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Consider the non-violent nice guy who explodes with road rage.

Consider a nation of people who love their neighbors, but when faced

with the stress of a threatened attack by another country will urge their

leaders to declare war and even send their sons and daughters into

battle.

These people are driven to act in ways contrary to their values and

beliefs by stress.
Our self image is based on our beliefs.

We may believe that we are nice people, or gracious, or open to change,

but stress can cause us to behave in ways contrary to those beliefs.

Disconnected from values and beliefs, the stress response can cause us

to live in ways that cause deep long term unhappiness.

TOXIC STRESS

The stress response is hardwired and involuntary once it starts we

cant stop the release of the stress cocktail that prepares us to fight or

flee.

These substances are powerful. If they remain in our body for too long or

in high concentrations they can be harmful and even toxic.

Major stresses trigger their release in large quantities, but even small

quantities triggered by smaller stressors can rapidly accumulate to levels

where they can cause lasting harm.

THE DE-STRESS RESPONSE

Our body is also hardwired with a system that can quickly clear the

stress cocktail from our blood and reverse the ill effects of the stress

response.

The human de-stress response is triggered automatically after the

intense physical activity of fighting or fleeing is over.

After strenuous exertion from running to escape the danger, or struggling


to overcome and chase the lion away, we are left gasping for air using

our entire lungs to take deep breaths using our diaphragm.

The deep diaphragmatic breathing signals our amygdala that the danger

is past, and it triggers our de-stress response.

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In addition to quickly metabolizing and reducing stress substance levels,

the de-stress response triggers the release of natural pain killers into our

blood.

These endorphins natural opiates and muscle relaxants and

endocannabinoids powerful pain killers and mood elevators relax

tense or sore muscles, alleviate pain from injury or muscle strain, and

restore a positive emotional state.

HOMEOSTATIC HEALING

The de-stress response triggers our natural (homeostatic) healing system

that scans our body then acts to return all our systems to a normal well-

functioning state.

Our heart rate slows, blood pressure and blood sugar levels normalize,

and the digestive, sexual reproductive and circadian clock return to full

operation.

The de-stress response is natures perfect antidote to the stress


response.

It clears toxic stress substances from our blood, resets our body systems,

deals with any pain caused during our fight or flight, and leaves us

relaxed and feeling happy.

MODERN LIFE AND THE DE-STRESS RESPONSE

If your boss or a customer says something to upset you, do you hit them

and start a fight?

If youre late for a meeting, stuck in traffic and become stressed, do you

leap out of the car and start running?

Modern life has socially reprogrammed us not to engage in the physical

exertion of stress-induced fight or flight actions.

While this makes it easier for us to live together and get along, it means

that we no longer trigger our natural de-stress response.

The combination of ever-increasing stress levels and this lack of de-

stress is causing chronic high concentrations of stress chemicals in our

bodies that are driving huge increases in stress related illness and

disease.

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Levels of heart disease, hypertension, depression, diabetes, asthma,

allergies, sleep problems, digestive problems, sexual/ reproductive


problems, arthritis and other illness are soaring.

Stress is killing us.

DE-STRESS OPTIONS

We need to find and practice new ways to reduce stress levels or face

ever increasing unhappiness, health problems and costs.

Exercise can mimic fight or flight activity and trigger our natural de-

stress response. Strenuous exercise that gets our heart pumping and

results in diaphragmatic breathing is the best way to naturally de-stress.

Instead of regular exercise were increasingly abandon active movement

for the convenience of sitting, driving or using public transport and

waving a remote control at our television.

Our amygdala may be telling us to exercise, but our cortex finds excuses

to put it off. We need to get to the gym, run or find other ways to

exercise strenuously to reduce the levels of stress cocktail in our blood.

CEOs of some of the worlds leading corporations maintain their health

and keep their brains sharp for peak decision making under stress by

exercising in their office or private gym.

Hearty laughter has the same effect, triggering diaphragmatic breathing

and the de-stress response and boosting joyfulness.

Massage, yoga, meditation, time spent in nature, relaxing and sleeping

also reduce stress levels to a lesser degree, but perhaps not enough to
counter our lifestyle of chronic stress.

PROACTIVE STRESS MEASURES

Proactive interventions can significantly reduce stress.

Improving stress management and coping skills and building resilience

are good investments.

Work to build new lifestyle skills and habits that increase happiness,

mindfulness and Emotional Intelligence.

Positive psychology provides interventions to teach these skills, and is

searching for new ways to deliver this knowledge on a vast scale.

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Unhappifiers

Anxiety, burnout, trauma and grief account for a great deal of

unhappiness

ANXIETY

Anxiety is a mental state that results from a stress or difficult challenge

for which we have insufficient coping skills.

Anxiety is a normal reaction to stress. Thinking about stressors can help

us to deal with tense situations, study harder for an exam, or keep

focused on an important issue.

But anxiety can also become a source of stress, causing a vicious circle
with increasing levels of stress and worry.

Physical symptoms of anxiety include ongoing worry and tension,

irritability, muscle tension, headaches, sweating, difficulty

concentrating, frequent bathroom visits, tiredness, sleep problems, and

being easily startled.

Reducing stress and working to build happiness can provide a solid

defense against this dangerous and disabling disorder.

BURNOUT

Too much stress for too long can lead to burnout a state of emotional,

mental, and physical exhaustion that can leave us feeling disillusioned,

helpless, hopeless, cynical, resentful, and completely worn out. Burnout

reduces our productivity and saps our energy.

Workplace burnout is becoming a serious health and productivity

problem. In a UK study more than half the workforce reported symptoms

of burnout within the previous six months.

Burnout is most prevalent in relational and service professions that

involve emotional contact with customers or patients.

High risk occupations include health care, teaching, law, and call center,

sales, and customer service occupations.

The incidence of burnout is on the rise globally with cases of burnout

being identified across communities including students, housewives, and


people with illness, disease or medical conditions.

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TRAUMA AND GRIEF

Psychological trauma occurs as a result of a traumatic event.

Grief is a type of trauma caused by the loss of someone or something to

which an emotional bond existed.

Trauma can affect peoples ability to cope with stress in their life,

causing a dangerous condition known as post-traumatic stress disorder.

These conditions are more frequent in southern Africa due to the high

incidence of HIV and AIDS and violent crime.

Trauma manifests in the lives of people living with HIV and other serious

illness, often resulting from confirmation of their HIV status or illness.

Orphans and vulnerable children are particularly vulnerable to trauma

and grief. Many have witnessed one or both parents die from what can

be a long illness. Stigma, isolation and having to move to a new home or


institution can compound the trauma leading to post-traumatic stress

disorder, regression or withdrawal.

Grief affects caregivers when they lose patients they cared for. They can

struggle to get back into their normal routine after the loss of a patient.

Unresolved grief may result in post-traumatic stress disorder and spill

over into their personal lives.

There is an urgent need for psychosocial support to prevent, counter and

heal these problems.

Depression

Depression is one of the fastest growing and most dangerous human

diseases.

More than 120 million people worldwide are affected.

Depression drives more than 850,000 people to suicide a year, and is the

leading cause of disability worldwide measured by years lost to

disability.

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In addition to causing deep feelings of unhappiness, depression stops the

brain from experiencing positive affect and happiness.

Brain scans of depressed people show little or no activity in the

happiness processing areas, and high levels of activity in areas that


process negative emotions.

In prolonged depression, happiness processing areas in the prefrontal

cortex and hippocampus areas can shrink, while the unhappiness and

stress controlling amygdala increases in physical volume and activity.

AN INCREASING PROBLEM

A hundred years ago, the chance of experiencing major depression

during ones lifetime was only 2-3%. The incidence of depression has

steadily increased to ten to 25% today.

In one country 60% of locally born residents were found to experience

depression.

A hundred years ago depression typically started around the age of 35.

After World War I depression was starting by age 15. After World War II

depression was seen in children as young as 5 years old.

Today even toddlers are depressed.

Studies have discovered depression in preschoolers. A Danish study

identified mental health problems in 16-18% of children 1 years old.

STRESS AND DEPRESSION

Depression is a complex disease that can occur as a result of a multitude

of factors.

For some, depression occurs due to a loss of a loved one, a change in

one's life, or after being diagnosed with a serious medical disease. For
others, depression just happens, possibly due to their family history.

Stress and depression are closely related. While stress may not be the

only cause for depression, it is often tightly bound with other causes

such us grief, personal disputes, physical, sexual, or emotional abuse,

serious illness, substance or emotional abuse, and social isolation.

CO-MORBID DEPRESSION

Depression is seen in physically healthy people, but often together with

other medical problems.

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In the US for example, depression is found in 25% of cancer patients, up

to 27% of post stroke patients, substance abusers, and diabetics, 1 in 3

heart attack and HIV patients, 50% of Parkinsons disease patients, up to

75% of eating disorder patients.

THE UNHAPPINESS ACCELERATOR

Stress can contribute towards or accelerate depression.

Depression reduces our ability to cope with and bounce back from stress,

while causing additional stress.

Both stress and depression act to accelerate many diseases and medical

conditions and can increase mortality.

Worsening health can increase both stress and depression.


This combination of cause and effect can result in a dangerous spiral of

increasing levels of debilitating stress and depression.

It is important that depression is quickly diagnosed and treated before it

causes serious health damage and unhappiness.

Unfortunately few cases of depression are diagnosed perhaps less than

20% and of those, even fewer receive treatment.

DEPRESSION IN PREGNANCY

Depression in pregnancy is risky for both mother and child.

Depressed women often take poor care of themselves. They may smoke,

drink to excess, or neglect proper diet.

Their babies are often irritable and lethargic, with irregular sleep

habits, and may grow into infants who are underweight, slow learners,

and emotionally unresponsive with behavior problems such as

aggression.

In the same way that a new scale needs to be set to zero, a fetus

natural (homeostatic) healing system is setting its zero point that will

comprise this new persons normal.

If the mother is depressed during pregnancy, the fetus adopts the

elevated levels of stress hormones and other disruptions in blood

chemistry as being normal and is born with a profile that mimics its

mothers prenatal state with elevated cortisol, lower levels of dopamine


and serotonin, greater relative right frontal electroencephalograph

activation and lower vagal tone.

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Because the childs homeostatic system regards these levels as normal,

they may experience sleep problems at 18 and 30 months and lifelong

problems in coping with stress and difficulties in emotional control.

Perinatal depression is associated with infants and childrens

vulnerability to depression, reduced brain development, affective and

interpersonal functioning, electroencephalograph and neuroendocrine

abnormalities.

Mothers depressed during pregnancy were four times as likely to have

children who were violent at age sixteen.

YOUTH DEPRESSION

One in five teens will suffer from depression before adulthood. At any

one time 10-15% show symptoms and 5% suffer from major depression.

Episodes of teen depression typically last 8 months and recur in more

than 70% of cases.

Depressed teens are at high risk for other problems: 30% develop

substance abuse problems, have fewer friends, get sick more often, are

less likely to be successful in their education and careers, and more


likely to struggle with relationships, have trouble at school and in jobs,

and engage in risky sexual behavior.

Depression in teens can significantly reduce their chances of a happy,

healthy and successful life.

Untreated depression is the major cause of teen suicide and the third

leading cause of teen deaths. Depressed teens are twelve times more

likely to attempt suicide.

Teens have to rely on their parents, caregivers and teachers to identify

symptoms of depression and refer them for treatment.

In the US it is estimated that less than a third of depressed teens get

help. In Africa this figure is far lower.

Orphans and vulnerable children are at higher risk of depression as they

have been exposed to trauma and grief, and in some cases stigma,

relocation, life in an institutionalized setting and other prime indicators

for depression.

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DEPRESSION IN HIV AND SERIOUS ILLNESS

The World Health Organization estimates the incidence of depression in

people suffering from diabetes at 27%, hypertension at 29%, stroke at

31%, cancer at 33%, HIV at 44%, and TB at 46%.


Depression in this group is characterized by poor self care, poor

adherence to medication, increased reporting of symptoms, poor

relations with their family, friends and caregivers, poor attendance of

support groups, lack of hope, energy and by chronic fatigue.

Studies show faster disease progression and increased mortality in

depressed patients in HIV, lung cancer, breast cancer, rheumatoid

arthritis, and lupus.

ANTIDEPRESSANTS

We know very little about how antidepressants work.

Antidepressant medications provided under the guidance of a medical

professional can be helpfuleven life-saving in cases of severe

depression.

They provide some symptomatic relief but dont cure the underlying

problem and/or provide a long-term solution.

ANTIDEPRESSANT EFFECTIVENESS

Antidepressants can cause significant side effects and dangers, and

recent studies have raised questions about their effectiveness.

A 2006 study showed that fewer than 50% of people became symptom-

free on antidepressants, even after two different medications. Many of

those who do respond to medication slip back into major depression

within a short while, despite sticking with drug treatment.


In some cases antidepressants can cause an increase in suicidal thoughts

or behavior in children, adolescents and young adults.

Studies show that their benefits have been exaggerated, with some

researchers concluding that antidepressants are only slightly more

effective than placebos for mild to moderate depression.

Patients already battling the side effects of medications for HIV, cancer

and other conditions may not tolerate additional antidepressants side

effects and discontinue their use.

The use of antidepressants during pregnancy is not recommended.

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OVERCOMING DEPRESSION NATURALLY

Traditional psychotherapy for depression is less used today due to high

costs and a limited number of practitioners.

Excellent results may be achieved using cognitive behavioral therapy and

lifestyle changes, especially in cases of early detection.


In his new book Flourish, Dr. Martin Seligman the father of positive

psychology directly challenges traditional approaches to depression,

saying, The dirty little secret of biological psychiatry and of clinical

psychology is that they have both given up the notion of cure and

heres the second dirty little secret. Almost always the effects are what

is technically called, smallrecurrence and relapse are the rule.

In contrast, he offers evidence and exercises from positive psychology,

explaining that they are fun and easy-to-do, and self-reinforcing over

time.

In his tests positive psychotherapy provided dramatic results: depressive

symptoms decreased into non-depressed ranges and remained there for

the year of study.

He says, Positive psychotherapy relieved depressive symptoms on all

outcome measures better than treatment as usual and better than

drugs.

The JOYGYM Happiness System has achieved similar dramatic results in

overcoming depression using Aerobic Laughter, a cognitive behavioral

therapy.

The How of Happiness

Can we increase our happiness?

Yes.
It is surprisingly easy.

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BUILDING HAPPINESS

Happiness is an intelligence.

To increase happiness we need to increase our Happiness Intelligence.

Happiness Intelligence, like many other intelligences, can be learned,

developed and strengthened.

WHAT IS INTELLIGENCE

Intelligence is not IQ.

IQ is a measure of cognitive abilities. We recommend that another name

be found for this assessment, perhaps cognitive ability scale?

Intelligence is the ability to reason, form concepts, and solve problems

within the context of a particular field of human endeavor.

The components of an intelligence are field, skill, knowledge,

mindfulness, passion and application.

FIELD

The area of human endeavor under consideration.

For example, we can define musical intelligence, mathematical

intelligence, woodworking intelligence, Emotional Intelligence and

countless more.
Fields of intelligence may be narrow or broadly defined. Broadly defined

intelligences often incorporate many narrower fields.

SKILL

Skills within the field may be natural gifts or learned skills. Skills

generally require practice to be improved and maintained.

KNOWLEDGE

The breadth and depth of our acquired knowledge within the field.

Knowledge may be acquired through introspection, observation, insight

and through study.

Dont confuse knowledge with intelligence. We may learn about music

but not be able to play an instrument.

MINDFULNESS

The ability to see life though the filter of this knowledge and skill is key

to developing an intelligence. For example, a person with woodworking

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intelligence may see a chest of drawers quite differently, understanding

the quality of materials, how the joints work, the difficulties of

assembly, artistry and more.

PASSION

Powerful and compelling emotions about a field of endeavor drive the


compulsion to develop and improve an intelligence.

It is possible to develop musical skill and knowledge, but without passion

it is unlikely to develop into a strong intelligence.

APPLICATION

The ability to apply the skills and knowledge in a masterful way reflects

the level of an intelligence.

For example, ecological or green intelligence may comprise:

Skills: cycling or using public transport, purchasing goods and

services with low ecological impact, growing organic

vegetables;

Knowledge: understanding the theory and practice of

sustainability;

Mindfulness: seeing goods, services and activities in terms of the

energy they use, potential for recycling and their impact on

our planet;

Passion: the desire to slow the destruction of our planet;

Application: recycling waste, lifestyle changes, activism.

INTELLIGENCES SHAPE US

We are the sum of our intelligences.

Intelligences shape the way that we perceive and interact with the

world and make decisions.


EDUCATION

Intelligences can be learned.

The purpose of education is to build intelligence.

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For example, successful engineering education will strive to develop

engineering intelligence.

People with engineering intelligence will grow their knowledge and

skills, and start to see the world through an engineering filter that will

change the ways that their brains are wired.

With passion and application they have the ability to become great

engineers, and to achieve happiness and fulfillment through the practice

and continual development of their engineering intelligence.

AUDITING INTELLIGENCE

In his wonderful book The Happiness Advantage positive psychologist

Shawn Achor sheds light on this subject.

Auditors can spend 8 to 14 hours a day scanning accounts and forms

looking for mistakes. As they develop their auditing intelligence, their

brains rewire and develop powerful neural pathways that help them to

perform their fault finding faster and ever more efficiently.

Their world view changes and they start seeing their world through the
filter of their auditing intelligence.

Shawn gives an example of a tax auditor who revealed an excel

spreadsheet listing all the mistakes his wife had made during the past six

weeks.

Auditing intelligence may not be conducive to happy marriage!

LAW INTELLIGENCE

Law is another profession with a powerful intelligence that can lead to

unhappiness.

Lawyers are trained to doubt, to look for flaws in arguments, and to

avoid trust. They are also trained to manage their time ruthlessly to

maximize billable hours.

As lawyer intelligence develops, these characteristics spread into all

areas of their life. The inability to trust others and fixation on money

can spoil their personal and family life.

It is not surprising that the legal profession has some of the highest rates

of stress, depression, divorce, burnout and suicide.

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Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

Emotional Intelligence is the ability to recognize emotions in ourselves

and others and to manage them intelligently.


Emotional Intelligence, sometimes called social intelligence, was

popularized by Daniel Goleman in a popular series of books.

EQ is a universal and important intelligence that is closely allied to

happiness.

We respond emotionally to events and relationships in our life.

Our level of Emotional Intelligence influences our success in

relationships and to what degree they have a positive or negative affect

on us.

The higher our EQ the better we manage our relationships and cope with

emotions.

EQ AND SUCCESS

Emotional Intelligence is one of the strongest predictors of success in all

aspects of life.

EQ plays an important role in educational success. It moderates the

impact of stress, builds emotional resilience that drives educational and

career success, builds coping skills, reduces the negative impact of

trauma, helps to reduce stress and anxiety on the workplace, and can

reduce damaging behaviors such as smoking, drinking and risk taking.

Emotional Intelligence has been widely recognized as increasing

performance. Many employers seek out employees with higher EQ and

invest in programs to build employee EQ levels.


EQ AND HAPPINESS

Many studies including our own work confirm a strong and direct link

between Emotional Intelligence and happiness.

The most respected scale of Emotional Intelligence, developed by Dr.

Reuven Bar-On, includes measures that impact directly on happiness:

Intrapersonal intelligences include self-regard, emotional self-

awareness, assertiveness, independence, and self-actualization;

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Interpersonal intelligences include empathy, social responsibility, and

interpersonal relationships;

Stress management intelligences include stress tolerance and impulse

control;

Adaptability intelligences include reality-testing, flexibility and

problem-solving;

General mood intelligences include optimism and happiness.


Higher EQ can make us better husbands, wives, parents, partners,

children, students, co-workers and friends, while reducing unhappiness

and increasing our social skills.

BUILDING EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

Can we increase our Emotional Intelligence?

Yes. Knowledge can be assimilated and skills can be developed.

Many programs and exercises exist to help people to increase EQ in the

workplace, in education and for self improvement.

Emotional Intelligence is so closely linked to happiness that happiness

building programs can also significantly increase EQ.

Happiness Intelligence (HQ)

Happiness Intelligence is the ability to recognize the potential for

happiness and unhappiness in events, actions and relationships, and to

manage these intelligently to build and maintain the happiness of

individuals and groups.

Increase Happiness Intelligence and happiness will follow.

Individuals, groups and even governments around the world are

recognizing the importance of happiness and working to increase their

Happiness Intelligence.

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Happiness Intelligence can be learned and increased.

Lets review the components of HQ.

HAPPINESS SKILLS

Some people are naturally happier and gifted with natural happiness

skills than others.

Many happiness skills can be learned and improved with positive

psychology interventions.
With practice we can develop and hone our happiness skills to

significantly increase our Happiness Intelligence.

HAPPINESS KNOWLEDGE

There has been an

explosion in happiness

research and knowledge

since Martin Seligman

launched the positive

psychology movement.

The knowledge base is

developing very rapidly

with new studies and

interventions being

announced continuously.

Because we are all unique,

some of the happiness

knowledge needed to build Happiness Intelligence must be found

through self discovery.

HAPPINESS MINDFULNESS

One of the most important elements in building HQ is learning to view

events in our life, our relationships, plans and goals through the filter of
how they may impact on our happiness.

We are constantly surprised at how protective people become about

their personal happiness as their happiness mindfulness and intelligence

develops.

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Happiness Intelligence provides them with tools to take action to avoid

or prevent unhappiness and to build happiness even in adverse

conditions, and to prevent stress, depression and other unhappifiers.

HAPPINESS PASSION

While the pursuit of happiness has long been recognized as an important

human goal and purpose, a lack of knowledge about what makes us

happy has dimmed and in some cases misdirected our passion for

happiness.

In our own work we see passion for happiness increase very quickly when

people learn more about the science of happiness and how quickly and

powerfully unhappiness can reduce our health and longevity.

HAPPINESS APPLICATION

For muggles like us there is no magic wand or spell available to create

instant happiness.

Like any intelligence, we need to practice and apply our happiness


knowledge and skills, creating new happy habits and changing our

lifestyle in ways that pay happiness dividends.

Building Happiness Intelligence requires application and determination,

but the increased happiness, health, success and well being that result

make it a truly worthwhile journey.

HAPPINESS INTELLIGENT WORLDVIEW

Developing Happiness Intelligence means entering a new world where

happiness myths no longer apply and we start to live with a new

perspective.

We make life choices based on how they will affect our happiness and

well being.

We focus will turn from money and consumerism to happiness, work-life

balance, spending quality time with our friends and family, exercising

and stretching our strengths, sharing happy times and experiences with

others, and perhaps starting to volunteer time to make the world a

better place.

Intelligent career choices will be based on our strengths and values and

the happiness potential of the career path. Well be considering factors

like the potential to exercise our strengths, flexibility, stress levels,

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corporate culture, the people and manager we work with, and the

potential for meaning and fulfillment.

Building Happiness Intelligence is life changing.

Building Happiness

Weve helped tens of thousands of people to develop and increase

Happiness Intelligence.

Here are some important aspects we want to share.

HAPPINESS IS PERSONAL

We are all unique and different and respond in different ways to

happiness interventions.

An intervention that hardly affects one person may transform the life

and contribute to meaningful happiness for another.

Some interventions can take time to start working. Give each

intervention sufficient time before deciding that it works for you.

Positive psychologists have assessed hundreds, perhaps thousands of


different interventions. We use interventions that have been proven to

significantly increase happiness or decrease unhappiness in most people.

Understand that you may need to try many interventions to discover the

techniques that work best for you, and can help you to live a

significantly happier life.

HAPPINESS TAKES WORK

There is no pill or magic wand that builds instant happiness.

It takes work to increase our Happiness Intelligence and resulting

happiness.

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To build Happiness Intelligence, we need to:

Study and develop understanding of how happiness and unhappiness

work

Learn about ourselves and what makes the unique you happier or

unhappier

Build happiness mindfulness

We need to trial different happiness techniques sometimes for weeks

or months to give them time to work to discover which ones work for

us, and then change our lifestyle to incorporate new habits.

With determination we will start building lasting and meaningful


increases in our happiness.

MEASURE AND MANAGE

We cant manage what we dont measure.

If we are serious about happiness, find ways to measure happiness and

track the impact of what we learn and apply.

Measure your happiness before you start this journey.

Because changes in happiness happen gradually, we might not be aware

of them. Measuring happiness allows us to track the impact of our

happiness program.

The Happiness University coaching service includes baseline assessment,

and reassessment at regular intervals.

If youre serious about happiness we recommend you take the Bar-On

Emotional Intelligence measure. This includes a wide range of accurate

and informative information.

The internet provides a range of free happiness measures. You can

complete free happiness assessments at authentichappiness.com.

The Happiness University happymetrics.org website offers happiness and

unhappiness assessments that will securely store your results so you can

track your progress.

HappyMetrics is integrated with Happiness University programs.

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Delivering Happiness

Its great to know that we can develop Happiness Intelligence and work

to increase our happiness, but how?

Few people have access to the new happiness knowledge.

How can we learn these important new lessons and how to apply them in

our lives?

DELIVERING OLD PSYCHOLOGY

Psychology was traditionally delivered in private consultation between

professionals and patients.

Professionals paid for years of expensive training and charged high fees

to recover their investment. Patients were mostly very unhappy and

hoped to become normal.

This model is expensive and there arent enough professionals to deliver

the new knowledge to all the people that need it.

We need to find new ways to deliver the new science of happiness.

HAPPY PILLS

Pharmaceutical companies developed drugs to try to eliminate

unhappiness.

Prescribing a pill is much faster and cheaper than therapy.

Patients dream of a quick fix.


Huge increases in depression have boosted demand for antidepressants

to such high levels that even doctors that arent trained in psychology

are prescribing them.

While antidepressants may have some use in controlling symptoms of

depression, and may help some people to regain a semblance of

normality, they have little place in a serious quest for happiness.

HAPPINESS IN SCHOOLS

Its imperative that the new science of happiness is introduced into

schools urgently so that the next generations develop Happiness

Intelligence at an early age.

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We hope to see the universal practice of laughter starting in pre-school

and continuing through formal and informal education, adulthood and

into later life.

Developing Happiness Intelligence in children will enable and empower


them to factor life happiness into important life choices.

We can help them to identify and develop their strengths and values.

The new science of happiness can forever change how future generations

live their lives.

NEW SOLUTIONS

While psychologists play a key role in developing the new science of

happiness, they no longer need to be involved in delivering it.

How can we deliver these wonderful lessons, skills and knowledge from

academics and researchers to the rest of the human population?

We need to find new ways to deliver the new science of happiness and

build Happiness Intelligence.

Happiness University

The authors have co-founded a new Happiness University dedicated to

promoting and developing Happiness Intelligence in all corners of the

world.

The university will not initially offer degree courses, but will focus on

bringing the new science of happiness to as many people as possible in

new and innovative ways.

We are committed to making all our programs evidence-based so that

participants see scientifically measured results.

Happiness-U is working to find effective new solutions to deliver


happiness science efficiently at low cost.

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HAPPINESS COACHING

We believe that Happiness Coaching is an excellent way to deliver the

new science of happiness.

Coaching can provide happiness education, teach proven happiness

techniques and provide the guidance, encouragement and support

needed to practice and incorporate them into a happier new lifestyle.

Specialized coaching programs for specific groups must be continuously

updated with the results of ongoing research.

Happiness Coaching must incorporate ongoing happiness measurement to

monitor progress and ensure real results.

InHappiness recently completed a four-year program Healing with

Happiness, to develop a low cost psychosocial support system for adults

and children affected by the HIV and AIDS and their caregivers.

The Healing with Happiness psychosocial support program uses an

innovative new three-tier happiness delivery system:

TIER ONE: PEER-TO-PEER THERAPY

Healing with Happiness teams train caregivers (primary participants) to

practice daily happiness therapy in short peer-to-peer sessions.


Caregivers receive knowledge and skills to become effective happiness

therapists in just one day.

Peer-to-peer therapy doesnt need psychologists or social workers to

provide effective psychosocial support where it is desperately needed.

A three-person Healing with Happiness team can train 16 groups of 20-30

caregivers a month, or 5,000 caregivers a year.

TIER TWO: PATIENT HAPPINESS THERAPY

Caregivers in the Healing with Happiness program are empowered to

deliver happiness therapy to their patients.

These skills are provided during their one-day training.

The short training time is made possible by tailoring the skills exactly to

the needs of the caregivers and their patients.

Tens of thousands of orphans from AIDS, people living with HIV, and

hospice patients are already enjoying the benefits of happiness therapy

through the Healing with Happiness program.

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TIER THREE: COMMUNITY HAPPINESS

The Healing with Happiness program spreads from caregivers and

patients into the community like a happy virus.

Caregivers start to practice happiness therapy with their kids and family
the evening after training. The kids take the exercises to school and

often caregivers are called by teachers requesting that they introduce

the program in the school.

Caregivers often volunteer to introduce the therapy into community

groups and in some cases even at the companies where their spouses

work.

Adult and child patients often receive therapy with other members of

their families and continue to practice with them.

Some patients develop Healing with Happiness skills in support groups

and go on to spread happiness others.

TIERED HAPPINESS DELIVERY

The Healing with Happiness tiered delivery system represents a

breakthrough in the delivery of psychosocial support to poor and rural

communities.

In Africa there are not enough psychologists and social workers to deliver

traditional psychosocial support.

Tiered delivery makes it possible to provide effective psychosocial

support to millions of rural people affected by HIV for the first time.

The program can be rolled out quickly and economically.

One team of 5,000 caregivers can provide psychosocial support to

100,000-150,000 adults and children in their care.


Based on the three degrees of happiness contagion, this training team

could boost the happiness of more than half a million community

members annually.

The cost per direct patient of this psychosocial support program is

around $2.50 per month roughly equal to the cost of one minute of

consultation with a psychologist.

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JOYGYM Happiness System

JOYGYM is a proven positive psychology based Happiness Coaching

system that provides knowledge, tools and support to build Happiness

Intelligence and lasting happiness.

JOYGYM is powerful.

To date, a large number of participants who were on medication for

depression, hypertension and diabetes when entering the program have

been taken off medication by their doctors within three months as their

conditions have improved or disappeared.

More than 30,000 South Africans are already enjoying greater happiness,

health and life success through JOYGYM programs.

EVIDENCE-BASED

JOYGYM includes happiness measures to track individual and group


progress and confirm real results.

Scientific measures clearly illustrate increased happiness, positivity,

energy, Emotional Intelligence and productivity, decreased stress,

depression, and better health.

Results from a six-month group program are presented later in this book.

FLEXIBLE

JOYGYM comprises twelve elements of happiness that can be combined

in different ways according to group or individual needs.

Happiness University creates custom programs according to the

requirements of different groups, working to match features and needs

in compact and economical programs.

A wide range of delivery options are available.

JOYGYM LICENSES

JOYGYM programs are available for worldwide license.

This model has been chosen to ensure:

Consistency: ensuring that programs are delivered consistently builds

confidence and works to deliver predictable results

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Professionalism: licensees are carefully selected, receive training and

are monitored to ensure best practice maintenance and develop

confidence in the system

Evidence-based: JOYGYM programs are evidence-based with

monitoring and evaluation services provided centrally by JOYGYM

HappyMetrics

Funding: most license revenue will be used to sponsor Healing with

Happiness programs for abused, abandoned, HIV-infected, orphaned

and terminally ill children, people living with HIV, hospice patients,

the needy and their caregivers

Elements of Happiness

The JOYGYM Happiness System includes twelve elements that build

Happiness Intelligence and develop happiness.

Elements can be combined in different ways to build specialized

programs according to group and individual needs.


ACTIVITY

Humans are designed to be active.

Activity and exercise are important for general good health and for

keeping a positive state of mind.

Regular exercise lowers blood pressure, improves strength and

endurance, trims physique, builds confidence, boosts energy and mental

alertness, and reduces our chances of cancer, diabetes and heart

disease.

AEROBIC LAUGHTER

A powerful natural cognitive behavioral therapy that harnesses

hardwired body systems triggered by natural laughter.

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It provides a powerful and joyful aerobic and cardio workout, even for

people confined to bed or a wheelchair.

Aerobic Laughter quickly and dramatically increases happiness, reduces

stress, and triggers our natural healing system for better physical and

mental health.

It has been called shock treatment for happiness.

Aerobic Laughter therapy is discussed in greater detail in the following

chapters.
EDUCATION

A solid understanding of the science of happiness and unhappiness and

how they affect our live provides the knowledge and motivation needed

to make and maintain happy lifestyle changes.

HAPPINESS COACHING

Positive psychology happiness building techniques and interventions are

presented with guidance, support and encouragement to help each

individual to discover those that work best and to incorporate them as

new lifestyle habits.

MEASURE AND MANAGE

To improve our golf or tennis we track our scores.

HappyMetrics provides a range of measures to track your happiness and

unhappiness, measure your progress, and provide tangible results.

NUTRITION

We are what we eat and how we eat.

Healthy eating can prevent chronic diseases, which now kill more people

worldwide than communicable diseases.

Nutritional mindfulness helps build a healthy foundation for a happy life.

PLAY

Engaging leisure is important in a healthy balanced life.

Personally expressive leisure activities reflect our goals, provide an


opportunity to practice our strengths and build happiness.

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REST

Sleep and rest have a powerful and direct impact on our health, mood,

happiness and well being.

Sleep rejuvenates, refreshes, and restores.

A lack of adequate rest and sleep is a fast track to unhappiness.

SELF DISCOVERY AND MINDFULNESS

We are all different and unique.

To build lasting happiness we must learn what makes us happy and

unhappy.

Self discovery builds mindfulness, a key component of Happiness

Intelligence.

SERVICE

Service to others provides powerful benefits that reach across all aspects

of our life and happiness.

JOYGYM encourages us to find community service that best fits our

strengths and adds rich new dimensions to our life.

STRENGTHS

Character strengths are morally valued styles of thinking, feeling, and


acting that contribute to a fulfilling life.

Knowing our strengths and applying them in all aspects of our life

provides us with the opportunity to achieve flow and build self esteem,

confidence, energy and happiness.

VALUES

Values are the signposts that guide us through life and help to build

meaning and satisfaction.

JOYGYM helps us to discover and consider our core values and to bring

our life into alignment with them.

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Aerobic Laughter

Aerobic Laughter is a powerful natural cognitive behavioral therapy that

harnesses hardwired body systems triggered by natural laughter.

It provides a powerful and joyful aerobic and cardio workout, even for

people confined to bed or a wheelchair.

Aerobic Laughter quickly and dramatically increases happiness, reduces

stress, and triggers our natural healing system for better physical and

mental health.

DEVELOPMENT

Aerobic Laughter therapy is the result of a four year development


program led by laughterologist Bill Gee.

The goal was to create a standardized, professional, evidence-based

therapeutic laughter program that provides proven and predictable

results.

The act of laughing triggers a number of separate involuntary responses

with side effects that deliver powerful benefits.

The program uses techniques that avoid culturally dependant humor,

allowing hearty extended laughter to be prescribed.

Elements from laughter pioneers Osho, Oki, and Goodheart have been

combined with practices from laughter yoga and assessed among people

of a dozen cultures and language groups to ensure the programs

universal reliability.

Elements from mindfulness training and positive psychology

strengthened the program, and a number of proprietary improvements

were developed to significantly improve adherence, sustainability and

benefits.

The effects of Aerobic Laughter practice have been measured in more

than a thousand subjects and results have been presented at a number

of international scientific conferences.

Aerobic Laughter is the first laughter therapy shown to deliver consistent

results in large samples across multiple cultures.


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RESEARCH

InHappiness encourages and supports formal research into the benefits

of Aerobic Laughter therapy.

Areas of particular interest include:

The alleviation of depression, cardiovascular illness, hypertension,

diabetes, sleep and digestive disorders, chronic fatigue and pain,

rheumatoid arthritis and lupus.

The impact of Aerobic Laughter therapy on HIV progression and

mortality, increasing adherence to medication, reducing depression

and risky behavior, motivating HIV testing, and improving AIDS

education.

The use of Aerobic Laughter therapy in the armed forces to inoculate

against stress and depression, build resilience, and post-traumatic

stress disorder prevention and treatment.


The use of Aerobic Laughter therapy in education to improve

engagement and academic performance, reduce stress and depression,

and reduce teacher burnout and attrition.

The use of Aerobic Laughter therapy in business to reduce stress, boost

performance, productivity and sales, and increase motivation,

cooperation and teamwork.

Understanding Laughter

It is thought that laughter is a form of human communication that

predates spoken language .

ANCIENT LAUGHTER

The San people of southern Africa, one of the oldest groups of early

humans to have survived with their original culture and language. Their

culture is thought to be between 70,000 and 150,000 years old.

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Laughter is an important part of San life, often practiced for large parts

of the day. They laugh freely with or without jokes or humor, and say

that they have been laughing from the time before language.

They regard laughter as spiritual and healing.

More recently, laughter has played an important role in the development

and practice of Buddhism and Zen.


MODERN SERIOUSNESS

Today, most cultures regard seriousness as normal.

To be unhappy, stressed, or depressed is not remarked on, while

excessive laughter in adults, especially laughter without apparent

reason, is frowned upon and regarded as a form of madness.

This is unfortunate, as laughter has more physical and mental health

benefits than seriousness.

Laughing more could help us to undo many of the negative effects of

modern life.

NATURAL LAUGHTER

Children are blessed with the gift of natural laughter .

This spontaneous form of laughter is freely expressed during childhood.

Kids can laugh 300-500 times a day without the need for jokes or

comedy!

Do children laugh because they are happy, or are they happy because

they laugh?

Natural laughter is certainly an expression of joy, and remains an

important form of non-verbal emotional communication.

Natural laughter resides in our limbic brain, the brain children rely on

while the cortex develops.

The limbic brain is impulsive and responds very quickly to sensory input.
It has direct connections to our senses and acts as our security control

center, constantly scanning the senses for danger.

This brain is not a deep thinker, but it has a wonderful talent for natural

laughter!

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SOCIETAL RESTRICTION

During adolescence two momentous changes occur that serve to restrict

our practice of natural laughter.

First, our cortex develops and comes on stream. This super-computer

brain has massive powers of intellect and reasoning, but is much slower

in operation that the limbic brain.

Second, social conditions are imposed on our natural laughter. Parents,

teachers, our family and tribe start telling us dont laugh in class,

dont laugh while were talking, dont laugh at the dining table,

dont laugh in church, and to stop behaving like a child!

This behavioral conditioning has serious implications.

Once we are conditioned, every time we feel our natural laughter

bubbling up spontaneously, we override and delay the impulse to laugh

while checking with the cortex if its OK to do so.

The cortex is good at reasoning and judging and searches our memory
banks for examples of when it is OK or not to laugh, compares them with

our current situation, and decides if we can proceed to laugh or not.

The process of deciding whether its OK to laugh in the current situation

takes time (is it OK to laugh in front of these people or to laugh in this

place, is it politically correct to laugh about this, what are the social

implications of laughing in this group, if we laugh should we chuckle or

howl?...).

Our natural laughter is suppressed and fades while we wait for the

decision. Even if the cortex gives us permission to laugh, the moment for

laughter may have passed by the time the decision is made.

Slowly but surely our natural laughter slowly stops expressing.

LAUGHTER FREQUENCY

Social conditioning serves to dramatically reduce the frequency of our

laughter.

Fifty years ago adults laughed perhaps 30-40 times a day. Today adults

laugh an average of 10-15 times a day.

In South Africa with its high stress levels, thousands of adults have told

us that they hardly laugh at all perhaps 3 to 5 times on a really good

day!

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DISCIPLINE

The social restriction of laughter is imposed by people of authority in the

name of discipline.

The San people have survived for thousands of generations without

leaders that impose behavioral control. They remain creative,

innovative, well-organized and able to work together in groups and take

effective cooperative decisions. And theyre still laughing.

Cultures ruled through power and controls do not like laughter. When

people are laughing their spirits are free and they are unpredictable and

difficult to control.

Perhaps thats why most cultures today regard seriousness as socially

acceptable and good, and laughter and spontaneity as bad.

INVENTED LAUGHTER

Even after our natural laughter is silenced through conditioning our body

knows that we need to laugh.

Laughter reduces levels of cortisol and stress chemicals that can damage

our brain and body in times of stress.

We find another way to trigger laughter by inventing jokes and

comedy. These techniques attempt to meet our laughter conditions so

that its OK to laugh.

This adult or intellectual laughter is physically the same as natural


laughter and triggers the same physiological reactions and benefits, but

its emotional underpinning and impact is often very different.

NEGATIVE LAUGHTER

While natural laughter is joyful and is associated with positive emotions,

intellectual laughter is often triggered by and associated with negative

emotions.

Adult jokes and comedy are often based on ridicule, cruelty, insults,

rudeness, hatred, demonization, racism and shame.

These negative emotions may cancel or reduce laughter s positive

emotional and mental health benefits.

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Is Laughter the Best Medicine?

For generations Readers Digest has proclaimed laughter as the best

medicine.

There is no doubt that laughter can be a powerful healing force, but is it

a medicine? Medicines can be prescribed.

If a patient visits a laughter therapist for treatment they may prescribe

twenty minutes of hearty laughter in the morning, practiced daily for

three weeks.

How are they to fill the prescription?


Adult laughter relies on a sense of humor . It is only triggered if a joke

or comedy meets the particular laughter conditions programmed into the

patient as a child.

To fill the prescription, they could find joke books and YouTube videos

that work for their sense of humor, but most jokes are only funny the

first time so they would need lots of jokes to laugh for the prescribed

seven hours.

To make matters worse, our reaction to jokes depends on our mood,

where we are, and who were with.

Most people would struggle to fill their laughter prescription.

MORE PROBLEMS WITH HUMOR

The next patient to visit the laughter therapist is a businessman that

owns a small company with twenty employees in danger of closing down

due to lack of sales.

In this case the prescription calls for him to laugh with his entire staff

for fifteen minutes every morning for three weeks.

In culturally diverse South Africa, his staff probably come from four or

more different cultures, each with its own language and customs.

Each culture has programmed their adolescents with different laughter

conditions, resulting in different senses of humor .

While the Zulus may find a joke funny, the Xhosa and Venda staff might
not.

Can the owner get his staff to laugh together every day?

Probably not.

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If we rely on jokes and comedy to trigger laughter, then laughter cant

be used as a medicine.

THE GOOD NEWS

Our natural laughter does not disappear. We never lose our ability to

laugh like children.

In adults this ability is securely locked down by cognitive programming

that alerts our cortex to control and override spontaneous laughter.

In some people, natural laughter surfaces occasionally in unbridled

laughter, often when theyre with close friends or under the influence of

alcohol or drugs.

When last did you have a good laugh for no reason?


AEROBIC LAUGHTER

In Aerobic Laughter we use techniques that trick the cortex into

releasing control and allowing our natural laughter to burst forth.

Most people are surprised how quickly they can reconnect with their

natural laughter and laugh like a child again, even for extended periods.

Aerobic Laughter allows us to fill those laughter prescriptions.

ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE

One of the advantages of Aerobic Laughter therapy is how quickly it can

be taught.

Groups can practice peer-to-peer therapy sessions for years after just

one day of training.

Most individuals can start daily self-practice after two or three days of

training.

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Natural and Organic

Aerobic Laughter works by activating natural body systems that deliver a

host of remarkable benefits.

The impact is dramatic and immediate.

Most people feel happy and experience energy and

lightness, reductions in stress, headaches, and body

pain after their first therapy session.

Like other happiness interventions, Aerobic Laughter

doesnt work equally well for everyone.

Most people reconnect with their natural laughter

and laugh freely without jokes and comedy within

ten minutes, but some need multiple sessions to get

the knack of it.

JOYFUL NOW

Its interesting to understand how laughter creates

joyfulness and positive affect using our bodys

hardwired circuits.

When we see another person smile, our mirror

neurons automatically trigger a response smile.


Try smiling at people next time youre at the mall.

Most will respond-smile right back at you. If they dont, it means that

they have suppressed their respond-smile.

If you watch carefully, youll spot a little twitch next to their eyes.

Thats their smile muscles preparing to respond-smile before their brain

overrides the smile.

When our face breaks into smile, our brain senses that were happy, and

triggers the release of happy chemicals into blood that makes us feel

happier.

Laugh exercises the smile muscles to trigger this response strongly,

releasing joy juice and lifting our spirits and our mood.

It is impossible to feel unhappy, worried, sad or depressed while we are

laughing.

Research from Oxford University shows that group exercise boosts

happiness more - try to practice laughter in a group whenever possible.

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DE-STRESS

Laughter triggers the human de-stress response thats hardwired into all

of us. This involuntary response is triggered by deep diaphragmatic

breathing.
Triggering de-stress causes our body to metabolize and reduce levels of

stress-related substances including cortisol in our bloodstream.

De-stress also triggers the release of natural pain killers that relax our

muscles to reduce tension, relieve headaches and body pain, and act as

mood elevators.

Over the years we have seen that Aerobic Laughter counters stress in a

unique combination of ways:

Provides a vigorous aerobic workout that reduces stress

Reduces blood levels of cortisol, adrenalin and others stress related

substances with fight or flight

Assists development of stress mindfulness that builds Happiness

Intelligence

Enables stress reduction through stressor reframing

Promotes the cathartic release of trauma and negative emotional

memories and experiences

Can reprogram the limbic response to specific known stressors

Teaches effective techniques to prepare for known stress

Develops the power to choose our mood and mental state

A 2008 study shows that even the anticipation of laughter significantly

reduces stress levels.

UN-DEPRESSION
Regular Aerobic Laughter practice quickly counters depression and

prevents recurrence in most people.

The exact mechanism whereby Aerobic Laughter practice helps people to

overcome depression is not clear. Is it stress reduction, joyfulness,

exercise, or triggering our de-stress response and homeostatic healing

system?

Research will tell.

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InHappiness has recorded many cases of people on antidepressants being

removed from medication by their doctors after a period of regular

Aerobic Laughter practice because they are no longer depressed.

LAUGHTER AS EXERCISE

Laughter provides a powerful no-impact cardio and aerobic workout that

doesnt require special clothes or equipment.

Thirty seconds of laughter can double our heart rate for 3-5 minutes,

exercises all the core muscles, and massage the major organs -

especially the lymphatic system.

Twenty minutes of laughter a day can provide much needed exercise for

heart health. It stimulates circulation and beneficial oxygenization of

the body, necessary for health and to prevent premature aging.


Short periods of intense laughter throughout the day can enable us to

maintain concentration and focus for longer periods, and improve

circulation. This can speed healing in conditions such as venous leg

ulcers.

Researcher William Fry calls laughter stationary jogging and confirms,

When you laugh your chest, thorax and abdominal muscles, as well as

your diaphragm, heart lungs and possibly your liver contract.

Aerobic Laughter can provide workouts for people with conditions that

inhibit mobility such as arthritis, fibromyalgia, lupus, and for those

confined to bed or a wheelchair.

CARDIOVASCULAR HAPPINESS

Laugh for a happy heart.

In addition to reducing stress that can damage the heart, laughter

significantly reduces blood pressure, provides important cardio exercise,

lowers bad cholesterol and systolic blood pressure, and raises good

cholesterol (HDL).

Leading heart researcher Michael Miller says "the ability to laugh

either naturally or as learned behavior may have important

implications in societies such as the U.S. where heart disease remains

the number one killer.

Miller found that laughter increased blood flow through arteries by 22%,
while stress decreased flow by 35%. A stressed person who starts

laughing can experience a 73% increase in arterial blood flow.

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Miller goes on to say that "You can release daily stress, which is harmful

to the endothelium, by laughing. A good, hearty, emotional laugh for 15

minutes a day is good for cardiac health."

Aerobic Laughter practice can significantly reduce blood pressure and

counter hypertension. Many hypertensive people have been removed

from medication by their doctors after a period of regular Aerobic

Laughter practice.

Widespread laughter practice could reduce the incidence of strokes, the

leading cause of adult disability in the USA and Europe and the second

leading cause of death worldwide.

United States researcher Lee Burke found that laughter reduced the

chance of a second heart attack in recovering heart patients by more

than 80%. Patients treated with laughter experienced fewer arrhythmias

and required less medication.

Heart patients often suffer from depression. Even mild depression

increased deaths by 44% in a study of 1,005 heart failure patients.

The benefits of a session of hearty laughter have been found to last for
24 hours, so learning to practice laughter daily can literally save our life.

PHYSICAL HAPPINESS

Aerobic Laughter has helped many people to overcome chronic health

problems. Science hasnt yet discovered how this works, but many

people are grateful for the results.

Aerobic Laughter triggers the de-stress response that activates our

natural (homeostatic) healing system. This system scans our body and

works to reset it for optimal health.

Chronic stress often causes chronic fatigue. Regular laughter energizes

us and will in many cases overcome chronic fatigue.

Stress can cause headaches, migraine, and muscular tension, particularly

in the neck and shoulders. Many people find that laughter reduces or

eliminates these problems, even when they have been chronic for

extended periods. People suffering from chronic pain may also find

relief.

Stress increase blood sugar levels and laughter practice reduces them.

Many people with pre-diabetes and diabetes have experienced partial or

complete relief after a period of daily laughter practice.

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The stress response switches off or interferes with the digestive


system. This can lead to digestive problems including chronic

constipation, diarrhea, reflux, gas, irritable bowel syndrome and ulcers.

Regular laughter practice often reverses these problems, even in cases

where they have been chronic for extended periods.

The stress response interferes with the sexual reproductive system,

sometimes causing sexual dysfunction and fertility problems. Regular

laughter practice can help to reverse these problems.

Many illnesses and conditions are triggered or aggravated by stress. This

is especially true for arthritis, lupus, asthma, acne and allergies, herpes,

pre-menstrual syndrome, cancer and HIV. Laughter practice can provide

relief in many cases.

Stress can interfere with our circadian clock and result in sleep

problems. Regular practice of Aerobic Laughter has helped many people

to reduce or eliminate sleep problems.

IMMUNE HAPPINESS

Stress reduces immune system function, eliminating our natural

protection against viral and bacterial infection. It also accelerates the

progression of many illnesses including arthritis, types of cancer, and HIV

and can significantly increase mortality.

Many studies confirm the profound impact of laughter on the immune

system. Laughter increases the amount of activated T-lymphocytes and


the number and activity of natural killer cells that help fight diseases;

increased levels of salivary immunoglobulin A (S-IgA), a vital immune

system protein which is the bodys first line of defense against

respiratory illness; increases levels of interferon-gamma that activates T

cells, B cells, immunoglobulin, and natural killer cells, helps to fight

viruses, regulate cell growth and also fights against tumorous cancer

cells; and even shrank skin welts in allergy patients .

An important new University of California Los Angeles study determined

that stress directly causes an immune system response that results in

inflammation that is known to promote cancer and other serious

conditions including depression, diabetes, asthma, cardiovascular

disease and obesity.

Chronic inflammation is also an important causal factor in accelerated

aging, allergy, Alzheimer's, anemia, aortic valve stenosis,

atherosclerosis, congestive heart failure, digestive system diseases,

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fibromyalgia, fibrosis, heart attack, heart valve dysfunction, kidney

failure, lupus, pancreatitis, psoriasis, rheumatoid arthritis, and stroke.

Chronic inflammation has recently been shown to be dangerous for

people living with HIV, resulting in accelerated disease progression and


increased mortality.

Incorporating Aerobic Laughter into daily routine could help prevent a

host of medical problems, from colds and flu through stress-related

lifestyle diseases such as depression, diabetes, hypertension, asthma,

stroke, heart attack and even cancer.

By boosting the immune system, reducing stress and depression laughter

practice could significantly reduce healthcare costs. The World Health

Organization estimates that healthcare costs for depressed people are

more than 4 times higher than the normal population.

Proactive prevention is especially important for people with a genetic

predisposition to medical conditions and illness.

HEALING WITH HAPPINESS

Aerobic Laughter therapy can help to improve mental state and quality

of life for people living with chronic and life threatening medical

conditions and diseases.

Laughter therapy is widely offered in US cancer clinics and is helping to

improve the life of tens of thousands affected and infected with HIV.

Mental health benefits of laughter therapy include reducing stress,

depression and trauma, improving relations with family, friends and

healthcare professionals, better adherence to medications, better self

care and helping to alleviate pain.


Laughter therapy has recently been shown to speed and improve stroke

recovery.

Quality of life can be improved by reducing stress in people with

fibromyalgia, lupus, arthritis, chronic fatigue and other conditions

aggravated by stress.

This field needs further research, but indications are that Aerobic

Laughter practice could be beneficial for people suffering from most

illness, mental and physical disabilities.

MENTAL PERFORMANCE

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The stress response switches off or disrupts the parts of our brain that

we use to reason and make intelligent decisions, communicate and

empathize, and for creative thought and innovation.

Aerobic Laughter triggers the de-stress response that quickly re-

activates these parts of the brain and provides plentiful supplies of fuel

and oxygen for optimal functioning.

Laughter can even be used to prepare for known stressful events such as

presentations, public speaking, exams, and job interviews and reviews.

By triggering the de-stress response shortly before such events, we can

achieve peak performance even in high stress situations.


SPIRITUAL HAPPINESS

Aerobic Laughter works to align our behavior with our values and beliefs.

During the stress response we act without thought or consideration,

often in ways that conflict with our values and beliefs.

In chronic stress this can continue for extended periods, causing us to

behave in ways that are contrary to our nature.

Disconnecting with our values and beliefs in this way can result in long

term dissatisfaction and unhappiness.

Aerobic Laughter helps to bring our behavior back into line with our

values and beliefs.

THE MORE WE LAUGH, THE MORE WE LAUGH

Practicing Aerobic Laughter reconnects us with our natural laughter. Re-

learning to laugh naturally empowers us to enjoy hearty laughter more

often.

Most people practicing Aerobic Laughter laugh more often, particularly

when stressed. Laughter frequency often continues to increase as people

laugh for pleasure, to enjoy the resulting joyfulness, and to trigger

laughter in family, friends and strangers.

Because hearty laughter without apparent reason is not socially

acceptable, practitioners often develop a more active sense of humor to

allow them to laugh with others.


The result: the more we laugh, the more we will laugh.

Dont be surprised if you laugh more and more often after starting

Aerobic Laughter practice.

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THE GIFT OF HAPPINESS

Laughter is universal and powerfully contagious

When we laugh we give the gift of happiness to all that hear us.

As we start to laugh more often, we spread viral happiness to more and

more people, helping to make the world a happier place.

Laughing with Children

Natural laughter is a non-verbal language used by kids to communicate.

During the adolescence we disconnect from our natural laughter and lose

our ability to speak that language.

One of the most interesting results of learning Aerobic Laughter is how it

changes our relationship with children.


GOGO, I DIDNT KNOW YOU COULD LAUGH

We were training a group of volunteer HIV caregivers in a small town in

northern South Africa. Most caregivers were granny aged, known as

gogos in the local language.

As the group didnt have a meeting room we were training in a church.

By midmorning we were deep into an extended laughter session when I

noticed a small boy walk in.

He was walking past the church when he heard laughter, and couldnt

understand why a group of kids were laughing in church. He decided to

investigate, and crept into the church quietly.

He was astonished to see a group of gogos laughing amongst them his

own grandma!

His jaw dropped. After a moments silence he exclaimed, Gogo, I didnt

know you could laugh!

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NATURAL LAUGHTER

Natural laughter is a language that all children understand and speak

fluently.

I have spoken natural laughter with kids of all ages in many countries

and cultures it is universal.


As we were all children, weve all been fluent in this joyful language.

Its amazing that as we pass through adolescence and become adult, not

only do we disconnect with natural laughter, but we cease to speak,

understand and respond to it.

RE-LEARNING NATURAL LAUGHTER

Aerobic Laughter is natural laughter.

During training we use techniques that help us to reconnect with our

natural laughter.

Like learning to ride a bicycle, it is a skill that we never forget. As we

start to practice, it comes back and we become more fluent. Eventually

we are able to laugh at will.

SURPRISE YOUR KIDS

Children are so used to the fact that adults dont speak natural laughter,

they are amazed when they encounter adults who can speak it.

Imagine youre travelling alone and find yourself in a remote village in

Thailand, Greece or China where nobody speaks English. You find ways to

manage, but its difficult you end up in the restaurant kitchen pointing

to try to order a meal.

Suddenly one of the locals walks up speaking fluent English you are

flooded with relief and happiness you feel an instant bond with this

person.
Thats what happens when kids find an adult who can speak natural

laughter. First amazement, then an instant happy bond.

Be warned. Once kids realize you can laugh with them, they never ever

forget, or let you forget.

CHILD THERAPISTS

Most HIV caregivers that we train are women with kids at home.

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Working as a HIV caregiver is extremely stressful. By the time they get

home theyre often emotionally exhausted.

When the kids come running noisy and excited because moms home,

theyre chased away with a typical adult response: Cant you see were

talking!, or simply Be quiet! Go and play outside/in your room.

In interviews they often confess that theyve hardly spent time with

their kids, sometimes for years. Theyre so burnt out and exhausted

when they get home, they often dont even eat and go straight to bed.

After Aerobic Laughter training, most go straight home and teach their

kids the laughter exercises.

The kids are amazed that mom or grandma has suddenly learned to

laugh. They take to the exercises intuitively, mastering them in minutes

The next morning and every morning thereafter the kids wake up and
run to laugh with mom.

If she gets home tired and tries to be grumpy, the kids start the

exercises and soon mom is howling in laughter with them.

Weve seen this happen time and again.

As soon as kids learn the Aerobic Laughter exercises they become little

therapists, making sure that mom get daily doses of laughter.

Its wonderful.

ADULT HUMOR

Adults laugh for a reason. They need justification to laugh.

They invent jokes and comedy to meet their laughter conditioning so

they feel justified in laughing. They call this humor, and talk about their

sense of humor.

Laughter without justification scares adults. It feels like madness,

something crazy people would do.

Ask an adult why they laughed at something and they can explain it.

They are scared to laugh without a cognitive reason.

Considering that adults spent their first decade laughing without reason,

this really seems ridiculous.

STOP LAUGHING

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How often do we tell kids to stop laughing!, or to stop behaving like a

child!

This is a crime against humanity.

We shouldnt tell kids to stop. When we hear them laughing at play, we

should stop our adult foolishness and ask them if we can join in.

Natural laughter is a magical experience that melts away stress and

worries and brings joy and happiness. We need more of it.

NATURAL HUMOR

Kids dont need justification to laugh. They need a reason not to laugh.

Do kids laugh at jokes?

Dont be ridiculous, most cant even tell a joke properly. They crack up

before the punch line.

If kids tell adults a joke its not because they understand the joke that

part of their brain is not working yet. Its because they want the adults

to laugh.
Kids are optimists. They keep hoping that they get adults to laugh and

understand their laughter language to lighten up and get happy.

Imagine how much fun that would be!

Kids use natural humor, which is very different from adult humor. Its the

humor of play and uses laughter, mimicry, surprise and incongruity to

raise a laugh.

Even very young children respond to natural humor. But adults seldom

do.

Learning Aerobic Laughter

How do we teach adults to laugh like children?

There are distinct stages in Aerobic Laughter training.

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BASELINE ASSESSMENT

If we want to lose weight, we start by getting on a scale.

If were starting an Aerobic Laughter program, we recommend that we

start by assessing our happiness.

Well provide questionnaires that measure our happiness and

unhappiness to provide a baseline for later comparison.

When we repeat the measures later well see our progress.

We cant manage something if we dont measure it.


EDUCATION

Understanding how stress and depression influence us is important and

helps us to build Happiness Intelligence and make lifestyle changes to

increase our happiness.

We introduce the new science of happiness, the science of stress and

depression, and the science of laughter.

PREPARING TO LAUGH

Training is normally done in groups because its easier to learn Aerobic

Laughter with others.

We start with a series of fun warm up exercises that prepare us to laugh.

The warm-ups:

Coax our cognitive brain to release its control over our natural

laughter

Teach us important skills help our laughter practice

Accelerate emotional contagion in the training group

Help us develop playfulness

Give us permission to behave in ways we might normally consider silly

Warm us up for the exercise that lies ahead

Aerobic Laughter warm up exercises have been are in use by tens of

thousands of people and have been proven. They make it easier to laugh

naturally.
STRUCTURED LAUGHTER

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After the warm up we use a series of structured laughter exercises to

help trigger natural laughter.

Hundreds of different exercises keep sessions fresh and teach specific

skills.

Initially well use exercises that help overcome mental barriers to help

us to reconnect with our natural laughter.

As we rediscover our natural laughter we guide you through exercises to

extend the range and strengthen laughter fitness.

Hours of training are divided into sessions to allow time to savor the

effects and learn through discussion.

LAUGHTER STRATEGIES

Different laughter exercises can be used to develop skills according to

your goals and needs, for example to:

Vary the aerobic intensity

Build interpersonal and relationship skills

Teach different ways of coping with stress

Help reprogram limbic response to specific stressors

Build emotional resilience


Develop self acceptance and self confidence

Counter sadness and depression

Increase happiness and joyfulness

Boost mental performance under stress

Provide physiotherapeutic benefits and extend movement range and

flexibility

Promote the cathartic release of negative emotional memories and/or

trauma

Natural laughter is a powerful brain language that can help to achieve

rapid physiological and mental changes.

FREE LAUGHTER

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Once weve re-developed our ability to laugh like a child, we help you to

stretch and develop this ability until you can laugh without structured

exercises.

We call this free laughter.

Free laughter empowers us to break into hearty laughter at will when we

need to de-stress or feel happier.

Participants learn techniques to enjoy laughter in public places like a

busy shopping center or on a bus without being thought crazy.


Its hard for most adults to understand the joy and empowerment that

comes with this skill.

DEVELOPING YOUR LAUGHTER SKILLS

As we become more accomplished, well learn self practice skills and

how to introduce natural laughter to our family and groups of friends.

If you are learning to practice peer-to-peer therapy with a group your

training period may be just one or two days.

If you plan to practice on your own a longer training period is

recommended.

AEROBIC LAUGHTER PRACTICE

Aerobic Laughter is a powerful cognitive behavioral therapy that can

help us change to our behavior and our lifestyle.

Like any life changing skill, it needs regular practice.

We cant lose weight by dieting one day a week, or get fit by exercising

occasionally.

We advise you on frequency of practice to meet your goals.

As a rule of thumb, expect to spend 15-20 minutes a day five days a

week practicing Aerobic Laughter to achieve and maintain life changing

results.

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DEEP LAUGHTER THERAPY

Deep laughter is a powerful meditational and mindfulness therapy that

can achieve significant physiological and mental changes.

It is especially useful for releasing trauma, post-traumatic stress

disorder and negative emotional memories.

Deep laughter therapy doesnt require you to verbalize or reveal the

details of trauma to others.

Therapy is provided by trained professionals over a period of days in

residential retreats.

JOYGYM Programs

JOYGYM is a flexible system and can be configured to provide different

programs according to individual needs, delivery requirements and

objectives.

JOYGYM EXPERIENCE

This one-day happiness and laughter adventure provide a great


introduction to the new science of happiness and includes two hours of

Aerobic Laughter therapy.

The program is a great way to start your happiness journey and is

recommended for individuals, couples and entire families.

The JOYGYM Experience road show visits major cities. Visit

WWW.JOYGYM.ORG to register or bring JOYGYM Experience to your city.

JOYGYM FOUNDATION

This two-day course provides a foundation for developing Happiness

Intelligence.

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Learn the science of happiness and unhappiness, Aerobic Laughter self-

practice and how to practice with small groups of family and friends.

The course provides skills to counter stress, depression and unhappiness,

improve relationships and improve health.

People completing the JOYGYM Experience and JOYGYM Foundation

courses receive HLV (happiness and laughter volunteer) certification,

become eligible to join the Happiness Volunteer program and may apply

for professional training.

JOYGYM YOUNG ADULTS

Young adulthood is a period of intense change. JOYGYM can help boost


confidence, positivity, Emotional Intelligence, Happiness Intelligence and

build a happy foundation for a great future.

This special course helps build Happiness Intelligence and develops a

perspective to make happiness based life and career choices.

FAMILY HAPPINESS

A special course has been designed to help families wishing to improve

relationships, and where a family member suffers from a chronic or life

threatening illness or condition.

Therapy and training groups may include family members, friends,

extended family, caregivers and co-workers.

CANCER COACHING

Cancer and other serious illness create stress, anxiety and trauma for

the affected person and for family members and others close to them.

Coaching can be provided individually or for the family group.

Similar programs are available to people suffering from heart problems,

hypertension, diabetes, arthritis, lupus, stroke and other conditions.

INDIVIDUAL COACHING AND THERAPY

Private coaching and therapy is available by arrangement.

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SPORTS COACHING
Happiness Coaching and Aerobic Laughter therapy can give competitors

and teams the happiness advantage.

The programs can build trust, team spirit, energy, commitment,

motivation, working together to common purpose, knowledge sharing,

reduced conflicts and better performance.

UNEMPLOYMENT COACHING

Studies confirm that happy people get employed first.

JOYGYM can help to overcome unemployment related stress, anxiety and

depression and rebuild a winning outlook that can help bring happiness

back into our life and improve our chances of finding a new job or

career.

CAREER COACHING

The Harvard Business Review confirms that happy people earn more

money, get promoted faster and have greater influence in group

decisions.

We spend more waking hours at work than at home and with our family.

If we're not happy at work JOYGYM can help us to find direction and

make changes to build happiness.

JOYGYM FOR PREGNANCY

Pregnancy is one of the most important periods in human development.

Parent stress or depression can harm the child and cause mental health
problems that can last a lifetime.

JOYGYM can help to reduce stress for a happy pregnancy and build the

basis for happy parenting, a happy childhood and future success.

JOYGYM FOR PRESCHOOL

JOYGYM can help children to develop a happy disposition, build coping

skills, counter depression (yes, it starts early these days) and develop

their emotional and Happiness Intelligence for life success.

The low-cost JOYGYM pre-school program can provide lifelong benefits.

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JOYGYM FOR LONGEVITY

It's never too early (or too late) to start increasing our Happiness

Intelligence.

Research shows that happy people live an average of 7-12 years longer,

have more friends, and enjoy better health and quality of life.

JOYGYM can help reduce stress and overcome anxiety and depression for
a more fulfilled and longer life.

The Happiness Advantage

In todays highly competitive world the happiness advantage can help

companies and organizations to survive and prosper.

The twentieth century paradigms of stressing or paying employees to

work harder have been scientifically discredited.

Todays successful companies develop a happiness culture in which

managers are responsible for building and maintaining employee

happiness and employees are responsible for building and maintaining

customer happiness.

EMPLOYEE HAPPINESS

Twenty-first century industry leaders like Zappos and Google in America,

Semco in Brazil, and IT consulting company EC in Japan share a strong

focus on building employee happiness.

Happiness factors including job satisfaction, empowerment, flexibility,

engagement, responsibility, working to strengths, twenty-first century

management, company attitude and authenticity, meaning, and doing

good are more important that salary in attracting, motivating and

keeping the best employees.

British economist Andrew Oswald has shown that happy people are 25%

more productive.
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Happy employees are better at what they do, more committed, take less

sick days, and less likely to leave the company.

They are more creative, innovative and better communicators.

COLLABORATION

The twenty-first century work is less about being a cog in a wheel and

more about extended collaboration.

Collaboration requires individuals to contribute in different and more

complex ways. Employees must make intelligent, well-informed

decisions with less guidance from the hierarchy.

Emotional Intelligence, trust, motivation, an understanding of the

context of their work, and good judgment are key to successful

collaboration.

Happy employees are more likely to display these qualities and give their

best.

CORPORATE VALUES

Collaborative environments increasingly require employees to make

decisions. Clear corporate values guide decisions and reduce stress.

Establishing clear corporate values and holding managers and staff

accountable for maintaining them in all activities provides common


focus, ensures that everyone is moving towards the same goals, and

boosts business success.

AUTHENTICITY AND DOING GOOD

Benefiting people, communities, society, the environment and future

generations is the new way to business success.

Exploding access to information and instant communication is increasing

transparency, making companies take responsibility for their actions.

Companies engaging in exploitation, selling products or services that are

inferior or may damage health or the environment, and companies that

dont care about customer happiness will find it increasingly difficult to

succeed.

In the twenty-first century company culture will replace branding and

advertising as the basis for customer support.

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Employees that believe your organization is authentic and is a force for

good will be proud, engaged and productive.

GIVING BACK

Investing time and profit into giving back to our community is becoming

increasingly important to business success.

Corporate social investment is no longer a public relations exercise. It is


becoming fundamental to how an organization is perceived by employees

and customers.

Make sure that every employee and customer understands the corporate

social investment program. Ask them for their advice, opinions and

input.

Corporate social investment programs that align with your company,

employee and customer values enhance loyalty, happiness and success.

THE HAPPY WORKPLACE

In the twentieth century many employees lived a Jekyll and Hyde

existence, adopting one persona at work and another real personality

in their private life.

Twenty-first century success lies in eliminating this division so employees

can feel real at work, and match their strengths and beliefs to their

job in a way that builds satisfaction, engagement and happiness.

Most people spend more time at work than with their family.

If they are not happy at work, their quality of life will suffer, with

resulting unhappiness and poor performance at work and in their

personal life.

A workplace where everyone is alone together is seldom happy or

productive. Encourage staff to develop personal relationships and

friendships with their co-workers.


Better relationships boost empathy, trust and communication and result

in more effective teamwork and productivity.

The right business culture is achieved when most of our employees wake

up looking forward to going to work.

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HAPPY CUSTOMERS

Its no secret that people prefer to buy from happy people.

When people call our business they can hear a real caring smile and

respond to it well.

Empowering salespeople and customer service staff to go that extra mile

for your customers and take decisions that will build customer happiness

is a far better way than forcing them to strictly follow rigid procedures.

If our employees are happy and empowered to make sure that the

customers are happy were on our way to success.

ENGAGED CUSTOMERS
The most successful companies move beyond customer happiness to

customer engagement.

Treat customers as part of the team, ask them how youre doing, and

how you could do better. Find ways to communicate with and listen to

them.

Customer engagement builds loyalty and reduces service costs. Engaged

customers become evangelists for your business.

Customer engagement helped Zappos grow sales from zero to a billion

dollars in a tough economy and overtraded market sector.

Organizational Programs

Happiness based organizational development programs can help you to

change your corporate culture and develop the happiness advantage.

JOYGYM evidence-based programs provide measurable results.

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MANAGEMENT DEVELOPMENT

Managers that care about employee happiness can build sustainable

business success.

Twenty-first century managers act as coaches to nurture and build their

team's happiness, and lead the way in transforming company culture to

develop the happiness advantage.


STRESS REDUCTION AND MANAGEMENT

Reducing stress is a fast and efficient way to boost happiness and

performance.

JOYGYM Aerobic Laughter and positive psychology coaching programs

apply twenty-first century happiness science to counter stress, anxiety,

depression and burnout.

HappyMetrics can pre-screen employees to identify those with high

degrees of stress, depression and burnout for more additional targeted

therapy.

TEAM BUILDING AND DEVELOPMENT

Good team work is key to corporate success.

JOYGYM programs powerfully develop teamwork and cooperation and

dramatically increase happiness, trust, cooperation and communication,

creativity and innovation.

Inter staff conflict and workplace violence and bullying can be

dramatically reduced.

Cross-cultural team building and the integration of teams after mergers

and acquisitions can be effectively accomplished.

PRODUCTIVITY ENHANCEMENT

JOYGYM programs effectively build Happiness Intelligence and reduce

causes of unhappiness.
Happiness is shown to significantly boost productivity, with studies in the

UK showing increases of 25%.

JOYGYM programs have achieved productivity increases of more than

50% with similar reductions in absenteeism and sick leave.

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CALL CENTER AND CUSTOMER SATISFACTION

Call centers provide a powerful opportunity to build customer happiness

and loyalty and to drive company success.

Zappos became one of the most successful companies in history with

almost no advertising or marketing by transforming customer interaction

during calls to maximize employee and customer happiness.

Customers can hear a smile and respond to enthusiasm and genuine

care. Delighted customers can become evangelists and boost your

business.

Ensure that your call center team is happy, motivated and empowered to

go that extra mile to ensure customer happiness and your company could

be the next Zappos.

SALES HAPPINESS

Customers enjoy buying from happy and caring people, and will keep

coming back for more of that happy experience.


Stressed sales teams cant compete with a happy sales team.

Optimistic salespeople can outperform their pessimistic counterparts by

50% or more.

A happy sales team empowered and motivated to go that extra mile for

customers drives long term loyalty and repeat business.

Use JOYGYM program to boost sales happiness before your competitor

does.

RETAIL AND HOSPITALITY HAPPINESS

Customers are shopping for happiness.

Welcome them with a genuine smile and develop your processes deliver

an authentic and stand-out happiness experience.

Youll build loyalty and repeat business and get the happiness advantage.

HAPPINESS CONSULTING

Developing happiness advantage to grab market share and build

sustainable twenty-first century success requires strategic planning and

careful measured implementation.

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JOYGYM can help us to develop Happiness Intelligence in leadership and

build strategies to refocus our business around building happiness.

Re-thinking corporate values based on clear goals that include building


happiness, then working to ensure that all processes and decisions

throughout the organization further those values can simplify the

process of changing your culture to build success.

HappyMetrics measures can help identify areas of unhappiness that

require the most urgent intervention.

JOYGYM interventions increase adaptability and openness to change and

Happiness Coaching can help to educate and motivate teams to accept

and support culture transformation.

If youre ready to develop the happiness advantage we want to help

build your success.

ACTIVE CORPORATE SOCIAL INVESTMENT

The JOYGYM Happiness Volunteer program provides an opportunity to

bring managers, employees and customers together through active

community service.

Volunteers are trained to deliver happiness and laughter therapy and

work in clubs to build happiness in pre-schools and schools, and for

seniors, orphans, and people living with depression, hypertension, heart

disease, pain, cancer, HIV and other serious conditions.

Volunteers develop their Happiness Intelligence, learn valuable skills,

build their network and enjoy the wonderful benefits of providing

service to others in need.


Companies that sponsor happiness volunteer training and clubs and

encourage employee and customer participation can reap a wide range

of significant benefits.

The JOYGYM Happiness Volunteer program is discussed later in this book.

CORPORATE HAPPINESS SPONSORSHIP

More than 15 million orphans and vulnerable children have experienced

the trauma of losing one or both parents and resulting upheavals in their

lives.

Research shows that unresolved trauma at this age can result in lasting

damage that can significantly reduce their capacity for reaching their

full potential.

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Consequences may include an inability to cope with stress, reduced

abilities to engage in gainful employment, tendencies towards risky

behavior, a life of violence and crime, or poor health and early death.
The JOYGYM Healing with Happiness program provides psychosocial care

that can heal the trauma and equip these kids for a full and happy life.

The cost of happiness sponsorship is only $2.50 per child per month.

Your company can make a real difference by sponsoring Healing with

Happiness programs for children in your community.

Sponsorships are made through leading international non-profits and

sponsors are offered the opportunity to engage with the children and

become involved in program delivery.

Companies can provide additional sponsorship and take an interest in the

childrens education and training.

Perhaps an orphan that you sponsor will one day become your companys

chief executive officer or the next president.

Happiness through Service

People around the world are hearing the call of service and discovering

the rich rewards of volunteering.

As a former community organizer, President Barak Obama advocates

public service and encourages American volunteering. World leaders are

following his example.

Research shows that the benefits of volunteering are not only felt by the

beneficiaries.

Volunteers reap huge benefits and rewards from serving.


THE JOY OF SERVICE

There are many real advantages to giving time for nonprofit work.

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Whether you are a student, working or a stay-at-home mom,

volunteering is an excellent way to gain work experience and broaden

your social network.

EXERCISING YOUR STRENGTHS

Exercising our character strengths is key to developing a sense of

purpose and satisfaction with life.

By choosing a volunteer position that allows us to do what were best at

we can build happiness and well being while helping others.

BUILDING SKILLS AND CHARACTER

With companies scaling back hiring, volunteering provides school and

university leavers with a positive alternative to unemployment, endless

job applications and internships.

Volunteering can provide experience to make new entrants more

competitive in the job market.

DOING GOOD

Helping others builds our sense of accomplishment and personal

fulfillment and improves our sense of well-being and self esteem.


This can help to counter anxiety and depression.

Working with people less fortunate helps develop gratitude for what we

have.

SOCIAL BENEFITS

Volunteers can meet interesting and diverse new people and extend

their social network.

We meet people who share our interests and have the opportunity to

improve our social and communication skills.

Many volunteers develop deep caring relationships with others through

their charity work.

Volunteering can be a good way to make new friends, business contacts

or even new romantic interests!

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BUILDING EMPLOYABILITY

Volunteer work broadens our horizons and develops new skills that can

be beneficial in our career.

Volunteer work sets us apart and demonstrates character and a multi-

dimensional personality.

Volunteer positions show potential employers our drive and dedication,

demonstrate initiative, personal will, leadership skills, social


responsibility and the ability to work as part of a team.

HEALTH BENEFITS

A recent study found that volunteering promotes good health.

Volunteers live longer, have lower rates of depression and heart disease,

and show higher functional ability.

UNEMPLOYMENT

The worldwide economic downturn is driving high rates of

unemployment.

Not working can result in financial pressures and limit activities which

enhance independence and wellbeing.

Unemployment may be associated with stigma, social exclusion, poverty,

poor housing conditions, and risk taking behaviors including alcohol and

drug misuse.

People suddenly faced with unemployment face a real risk of falling into

despondency, self pity, depression and a negative attitude that can harm

their chances of finding new employment.

Volunteer work can provide activity and a sense of purpose to counter

stress and depression, maintain self esteem and a cheerful disposition.

Contacts made through volunteer work may lead to employment

opportunities.

STARTING YOUNG
Children are best introduced to volunteer work at an early age.

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Volunteering is a rewarding experience through which they gain

independence and confidence, meet new people, and develop new

skills.

Youth volunteers reap personal benefits that will positively impact them

throughout their lives.

Volunteering teaches respect for themselves and others. They learn to

be helpful and kind and can develop leadership skills and patience.

Youth volunteers are 50% less likely to abuse alcohol, cigarettes, become

pregnant, or engage in self destructive behaviors. They are more likely

to do well in school and graduate.

SENIORS

People are living longer and healthier lives.

Volunteering can provide fulfilling and fun activities that allow seniors to
meet other people and stay active in their community. It allows them to

share the company of others and can lead to new friendships and caring

relationships.

It can provide opportunities for seniors to pass on their knowledge and

experience and to share their story with others.

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Happiness Volunteers

The JOYGYM Happiness Volunteers program helps people to build

Happiness Intelligence while spreading happiness in their community.

Happiness volunteers undergo happiness and laughter volunteer (HLV)

training and receive ongoing Happiness Coaching.

GIVING BACK TO THE COMMUNITY

We dream of an international network of happiness volunteer clubs

spreading happiness in every suburb.

Working together in clubs, happiness volunteers provide happiness

building services to seniors, pre-schools, schools, orphans, and people

living with depression, hypertension, heart disease, pain, cancer, HIV

and other serious conditions.

Clubs promote the benefits of Happiness Intelligence and work to spread

happiness awareness.
COMPANY HAPPINESS CLUBS

Happiness volunteer clubs offer opportunities for companies and

organizations to build happiness.

Clubs can be started by groups of employees, their family members and

friends, and their clients to provide service to their community.

Companies can also sponsor training, programs and venues for happiness

volunteers in community clubs.

For more information about JOYGYM Happiness Clubs visit

WWW.JOYGYM.ORG.

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Healing with Happiness

Healing with Happiness is a JOYGYM program developed to provide

powerful low-cost psychosocial support and healing for abused,

abandoned, HIV-infected, orphaned and terminally ill children, people

living with HIV, hospice patients, the needy, and their caregivers.

We are extremely proud to have successfully met this challenge and that

the program is being adopted by international NGOs.

The journey of this programs development results achieved take up the

rest of this book.

Healing with Happiness is a groundbreaking new program that can be

applied to transform the entire healthcare industry.

The program is ready for large scale roll out within the AIDS sector and

for all medical and care facilities including hospitals, clinics, hospices,

orphanages and care facilities for seniors, cancer, Alzheimer s, the

mentally and physically disabled and more.


The AIDS Pandemic

The AIDS pandemic is one of the great challenges of this generation and

has caused widespread unhappiness and suffering among those infected,

those affected, and those providing care.

The impact of AIDS will be felt for generations to come.

THE HIV AND AIDS EXPLOSION

By 1990, there were approximately 8 million people diagnosed with HIV.

By 2010 this number had exploded to about 33 million.

Two-thirds of people living with HIV more than 22 million are living

in sub-Saharan Africa.

Think of the countless number of people affected: family members,

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friends, co-workers, and especially the traumatized children who can

carry psychological impairment forward for generations.

More than 15 million African children have been orphaned by HIV.


Perhaps double that number is currently watching their parents die.

FAR REACHING IMPACT

HIV is not just a health issue.

It spreads unhappiness far and wide:

HEALTH SECTOR: Doctor and nurse numbers are reduced by those dying

of AIDS. Increased healthcare costs are crippling economies.

HOUSEHOLDS: Many people cant work due to illness or caring duties and

lack money for basic necessities including food and housing. Funeral

expenses are wiping out savings.

EDUCATION: Teacher numbers are reduced by those who die from AIDS.

Children are pulled out of school to provide care. Fewer children receive

basic primary education. This is especially true for girls.

ECONOMY: Poor health, increased absenteeism for medical appointments

or illness means plummeting productivity. Illness and death means

increased staff turnover and training costs. Decreased corporate profits

means less taxes paid and less money to fund health care, education and

development.

CHILDREN: 1,000 children are infected every day. About 2.5 million

children are living with HIV. Many leave school to work to feed their

families or look after other children or family members.

It is not uncommon for people in Africa to attend 3 funerals a month.


Sometimes caregivers attend 3 funerals in a week.

Grief and trauma are reducing levels of happiness at a national and

regional scale.

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The Caregiver Explosion

Palliative care focuses on improving quality of life and managing

symptoms and pain primarily for people facing end of life or life-

threatening illness.

Before HIV, the need for palliative care was small.

It was provided in a handful of hospices, at hospitals and at home with

hospice support, mostly to old people and terminal cancer patients.

BOOM

The HIV and AIDS pandemic caused an explosion in the need for care

services.

Existing palliative care services couldnt cope. New ways to provide care

on a vast new scale had to be found.

Today hundreds of thousands of caregivers provide support to people

infected and affected by HIV.

Nobody is quite sure how many caregivers there are. There may be more

than half a million in sub-Saharan Africa.


Caregivers can include health care professionals, lay workers or family

and friends.

Very few are well trained, a few have some training, and many are

untrained.

Most are unpaid, some receive a small stipend, and very few receive a

small salary.

Very few caregivers work in hospitals or hospices. There was no way to

increase the number of beds to house all the new AIDS patients.

Today most HIV care giving is provided at the patients home using a

system called home based care. This adds caregiver stress as they must

travel large distances between patients, often on foot.

Caregivers frequently have little equipment or support and must cope

with very high patient numbers.

They have to deal with the death of their patients.

Somehow.

PSYCHOSOCIAL SUPPORT

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Caring for people through the process of dying and death elicits a heavy

toll on the mental and physical health of caregivers.

We call the typical caregiver afflictions Caregiver Syndrome.

Before HIV and AIDS it was recognized caregiving was potentially a high

risk occupation. Caregivers were provided with psychosocial support to

moderate the negative occupational impact.

Psychosocial support was provided by psychologists and social workers,

and included de-briefing sessions an opportunity to unload the

burdens combined with therapy.

In many countries it was law. Caregivers had to receive psychosocial

support.

Psychosocial was a basic human right for caregivers.

The AIDS explosion changed all that.

PSYCHOSOCIAL SUPPORT FUNDING

There are not enough psychologists and social workers to provide


traditional psychosocial support for half a million or more caregivers.

Because there was no way to deliver traditional psychosocial support,

little or no funds were allocated to provide it.

Psychosocial support funding was mortally diminished.

FUNDING MUST BE FOUND

Today new ways exist to provide psychosocial support on a wide scale,

but there are no funds.

Caregivers want it, caregiver organizations want it. But theres little to

no money in the budgets to pay for it.

Psychosocial support is still a basic human right for caregivers.

Funding must be found.

Caregiver Syndrome

For millions of caregivers around the world, stress, anxiety, depression,

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burnout and declining health are normal.

Caregiver Syndrome is about serious unhappiness.

It is dangerous and can lead to death.

This unhappy condition is not yet formally acknowledged by medical

authorities, but it needs recognition and treatment.

Lets look at some of the most common components and effects.


WHAT GOES UP

Caregivers Syndrome is characterized by increases in:

Stress, anxiety, mood swings, depression and burnout

Coping and emotional resilience

Negative emotions including anger and fear

Grief and trauma

Compassion fatigue

Risk of illness through reduced immune function

Exhaustion and chronic fatigue

Absenteeism and presenteeism

Workplace conflict

Home and family problems

Post-traumatic stress disorder

WHAT GOES DOWN

Caregivers Syndrome is characterized by decreases in

Happiness Intelligence

Happiness, hope, joyfulness, general mood

Positivity, general mood and optimism

Emotional Intelligence

Decision making ability and problem solving skills

Mindfulness
Adaptability

Meaning and purpose in life

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Productivity

Satisfaction with life

Physical health

RISKS TO PHYSICAL HEALTH

Caregiver Syndrome increases the risk of cancer, Alzheimer s,

depression, hypertension, diabetes, heart disease, arthritis and other

serious medical problems.

A GLOBAL PROBLEM

Caregiver Syndrome reduces the health, quality of life, and caregivers

ability to function effectively and productively.

In Africa most caregivers provide care for people infected or affected by

HIV.

But Caregiver Syndrome also affects caregivers providing care for people

living with Alzheimer s and dementia, cancer, arthritis, the physically

and mentally and disabled, seniors and more.

AMATEURS AND PROFESSIONALS

Caregiving services are not only provided by trained professionals.


Often family members including children, friends and neighbors find

themselves providing care.

In Africa the majority of caregivers are volunteers.

All caregivers are susceptible to the severe consequences of Caregiver

Syndrome.

SUPPORT

Caregiver Syndrome is aggravated by a lack of support.

Support is the best way to prevent and counter Caregiver Syndrome.

Because most Caregiver Syndrome related problems are emotional and

psychological, psychosocial support is the most important support for

caregivers to receive.

Training, equipment and resources to help caregivers work more

effectively is another important aspect of support.

Caregivers may also require medical support to help cope with health

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problems that arise from their chronically stressful work.

Patient Syndrome

Being told that we have a disease that is trying to kill us is one of the

most traumatic and stressful events a human can face.

Persons living with chronic or potentially fatal illness also suffer from a

syndrome that creates powerful unhappiness that can accelerate their

disease, increase the chance of death, interfere with their treatment

and support, and multiply the negative impact for the people around

them.

We call it Patient Syndrome.

NEGATIVE EMOTIONS

Most of us are not properly equipped to cope with the threat of death or

disability and consequently suffer from high stress levels, mood swings,

anxiety, trauma and depression.

We learned earlier that stress causes negative emotions.

The extreme chronic stress experienced in Patient Syndrome can result

in a flood of negative emotions that ranging from why me? to self pity,

from anger to rage and even despair.

These negative emotions are often directed at the people around us

including family, friends and caregivers.

If not treated, these problems can extend for long periods and result in
anxiety, depression, emotional burnout, and post-traumatic stress

disorder.

DEPRESSION

Incidence of depression is very high in people living with chronic or life

threatening illness.

When depression sets in it can become chronic.

Depression is a dangerous part of Patient Syndrome as it has been shown

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to reduce immune function, speed disease progression and increase

mortality in cancer, HIV and other diseases.

IMPACT ON TREATMENT AND CARE

Patient Syndrome can result in lack of self care including proper diet,

poor adherence to medication, and poor compliance with therapy

including missing appointments and support groups.

Good adherence to medication is critical to slowing and overcoming

many diseases. Depression is noted as one of the primary drivers for lack

of adherence to medication.

Depression increases both the need for, and burden on, caregivers.

If not treated, Patient Syndrome can accelerate disease progression and

result in hospitalization.
Patient Syndrome can significantly increase healthcare costs.

IMPACT ON THE PATIENTS NETWORK

Therapy and treatment are provided for the patient, but what about the

patients network?

The patients family, friends, caregivers, co-workers, neighbors and

others are also strongly impacted by Patient Syndrome.

Unhappiness is as contagious as happiness.

This group has double trouble: they must cope with their own shock a

lesser version of Patient Syndrome as well as coping with the patients

unhappiness and disrupted socialization.

In some cases they also provide caregiving service.

Problems can be especially daunting for the patients children and spouse.

Members of the patients network also have a strong need for

psychosocial support.

PSYCHOSOCIAL SUPPORT

Psychosocial support can reduce negative affect and boost positive

affect and address problems such as stress and depression.

Appropriate psychosocial support can radically improve quality of life for

patients, their family, friends, and caregivers.

OVC Syndrome

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Here we address a crisis that could impact generations if left untreated.

ORPHANS

Imagine a child watching their mother or father slowly lose energy, lose

weight, lose the capacity to care and provide, then watching them die.

Over 15 million children have lost one or both parents, and sometimes

siblings also, to HIV.

They may be left in child headed households or find themselves moved

to the care of grandparents, foster parents, other siblings.

These kids may also be removed from their community and placed in a

care institution or a foster home.

Orphans are defined as children having lost one or more parents.

If this loss is due to AIDS, they are orphans from AIDS.

VULNERABLE CHILDREN

Children require safety for happy healthy development.

Families provide children with protection.

When families are disrupted or split through circumstance, illness or

death, children may lose their protection and become vulnerable.

These are vulnerable children.

Sick children may be especially vulnerable.

ORPHANS AND VULNERABLE CHILDREN (OVC)


Some orphans lose their safety and become vulnerable. Other children

with parents may become vulnerable through circumstance.

Both orphans and vulnerable children share many serious problems that

require care and healing.

For the purpose of arranging and providing care, these children are

called OVC orphans and vulnerable children.

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EARLY TRAUMA

Most OVC are traumatized.

Childhood is our most important developmental phase.

Trauma during childhood causes tremendous emotional upheaval and can

severely disrupt normal development.

Children who are orphaned due to AIDS often experience greater trauma

as they may have watched family members die long and painful deaths.

Traumatized children are at high risk for adverse psychological outcomes

that can last a lifetime.

Untreated early trauma can result in long term mental and physical

health problems that can undermine their ability to lead a happy,

healthy and productive life.

Even excessive or persistent early crying may lead to poor school


performance, increased risk of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder

and long term inabilities to cope with stress and depression.

Childhood trauma can shorten life by between 7-15 years by impacting

immune response in the latter part of ones life.

A CRISIS IN THE MAKING

If OVCs are not treated and healed, their countries will suffer serious

consequences that could last for more than half a century.

Results could include widespread learning problems, high incidence of

risky behavior, widespread movement into crime, reduced cognitive

ability, lack of ability to hold gainful employment, physical health

problems.

They could become a severe drain on their countrys resources.

Children are the future it is desperately important that these kids are

healed so they can re-establish a healthy childhood and develop a solid

foundation as contributors to a bright future.

PSYCHOSOCIAL SUPPORT

Children are naturally resilient and can heal quickly.

Robust psychosocial support provided quickly and consistently can

prevent and heal OVC Syndrome.

OVC Psychosocial support programs need to be funded and provided

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urgently.

We have to do it.

Our Commitment

As InHappiness learnt more about the ravages of the HIV pandemic in

Africa, we became increasingly committed to helping to find a solution.

We believe the JOYGYM Happiness System provides the tools to prevent

and heal Caregiver Syndrome, Patient Syndrome and OVC Syndrome.

In addition to alleviating untold hardship, tackling these problems would

provide an ideal test for JOYGYM.

If JOYGYM could help to heal these groups which included some of the
unhappiest people in the world then it was ready for widespread roll

out to help other unhappy people.

We decided to devote all our energy and resources to developing a

psychosocial program that could do the job we named it Healing with

Happiness.

Defining the Goals

InHappiness consulted with major stakeholders to help us to define what

an ideal psychosocial program would look like.

Together with our colleagues at USAID/PEPFAR, the Hospice and

Palliative Care Association of South Africa, the University of the

Witwatersrand Palliative Care Center for Excellence, Family Health

International, the Southern African Catholic Bishops' Conference, and

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from a number of South African hospices and care centers, we started to

define the goals.


The Healing with Happiness program needed to have the following

characteristics:

POWERFUL: The program had to deliver powerful results to address a

broad range of psychosocial problems

ECONOMICAL: There was little or no budget for psychosocial support

and funding resources were already stretched

EVIDENCE BASED: The program must incorporate simple but effective

monitoring and evaluation to confirm results

LOW-TECH: Many communities in urgent need of psychosocial support

were rural without electricity or access to technology

CROSS-CULTURAL: South Africa has eleven languages and multiple

cultures, 1,500 languages are spoken across Africa

SUSTAINABLE: Only a program that is well received and effective will

be continued in the long run

SCALEABLE: It must be capable of rolling out quickly on a very wide

scale to service tens of millions of people in need

Healing with Happiness would have to operate well without hands-on

social workers or psychologists, and be effective in modern hospices and

the most rural settings alike.

We had our challenge.

Development
We started training HIV caregivers in 2007 and started program

development work early in 2008.

It was decided at an early stage to deliver the program through

caregivers themselves. We would train them to provide therapy to each

other and to their patients and community.

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We designed and tested and redesigned training systems and techniques,

trainer and trainee group sizes, monitoring and evaluation techniques

and more.

In our first week in rural Mpumalanga we provided training in seven

different languages and discovered that some caregivers couldnt read or

write.

Developing reliable ways to provide training and capture data under

these conditions was a wonderful and rewarding adventure that deserves

a book of its own.

We were blessed to find trainers that loved the program, were resilient,

and who helped us to solve problems that occasionally seemed

insurmountable.

By August 2009, we had travelled thousands of kilometers to remote

settings and trained more than a thousand caregivers across South


Africa.

We had presented our program and results at a Hospice and Palliative

Care conference and an international AIDS conference and received a

warm response and excellent feedback.

The program was providing solid psychosocial support for tens of

thousands of caregivers, adult patients and OVCs.

It quickly and effectively countered Caregiver Syndrome and appeared to

counter Patient Syndrome and OVC Syndrome.

We believed we had developed a psychosocial support program that

could be rolled out across Africa to the millions of caregivers, patients

and OVCs in need.

The cost per adult or child patient was below $2.50 per month a tiny

fraction of the costs of caring for broken individuals for a lifetime.

Healing with Happiness was ready.

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The Case Study

During the development period it was not possible to conduct testing

using proven scientific measures.

The wide range of languages spoken and caregiver educational levels

precluded the use of validated psychometric assessments.

We had developed a Self Report Questionnaire that allowed monitoring

and evaluation of program results, but these had not been validated.

Healing with Happiness needed rigorous evaluation.

SHOWTIME

In September 2009 the Hospice Palliative Care Association of South Africa

agreed to help us to test the program.

They commissioned us to provide an extended Healing with Happiness

program at a Regional Care Center.

The objective was to submit the program to detailed scientific

assessment and accurately assess the programs performance and

efficacy over a period of six months.

The program was to be carried out in a semi-urban setting with

participants having a more advanced educational background that would

enable the use of validated scientific assessments and techniques.

We were overjoyed.
This was the opportunity we had been waiting for.

CARE CENTER

A Care Center was chosen in a moderate sized city in South Africa.

It is the sole care provider for a region of 3,500 sq km /1,300 sq miles

with a mining and agriculture based economy supporting a population of

almost 400,000 people.

The Care Center includes:

PALLIATIVE CARE: Six adult and two pediatric in-patient beds

offering end of life care and two-week pain and symptom

management programs, primarily for HIV and cancer patients

OVC CARE: An OVC Daycare Center for 52 HIV and AIDS infected and

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affected children providing food, clothes, mental stimulation and

medication where necessary

HOME BASED CARE: An extensive home based care program covering


the entire region

This center provided the opportunity to measure the programs impact

across a representative range of care services.

PRIMARY PARTICIPANTS

The 27 primary participants ranged in age from 28 years to 67 years

including:

15 staff including the CEO, nursing director, training manager,

fundraising manager, nurses, home based care supervisors, and

caregivers

7 OVC Daycare Center staff including the manager and admin

manager, head teacher, and assistant teachers

Support staff including the craft manager, driver and handyman,

general worker and cook

DOWNSTREAM PARTICIPANTS

The primary participants provide care for more than 1,500 downstream

recipients including

People in hospice care

Children in day care

People receiving home care

People attending support groups

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Case Study: Roll Out

All primary participants received intensive one-day training together and

started daily peer-to-peer therapy sessions the next day in groups

according to workplace and shift times:

Care Center: managers, administrators and support staff

In-patient care: caregivers and staff

OVC Daycare Center: manager, child caregivers and staff

Home based care unit: entire team

The Healing with Happiness (HWH) training was well received and daily

peer-to-peer practice was warmly embraced. Most participants initiated

HWH therapy practice at home on the evening of training.

Voluntary peer-to-peer practice was well sustained for the first four

months, after which it became more intermittent. The effects of this

drop-off can be seen in a number of the results.

After reviewing the six-month program results management decided to

institutionalize daily HWH therapy practice to maintain maximum

program benefits.

STANDARD ASSESSMENTS

Standard HWH program measures included the JOYGYM Self-Report

Questionnaire and individual and group interviews (qualitative


assessment) by HappyMetrics.

These were conducted during all site visits.

Standard Assessments

Baseline

2 week

2 mo.

4 mo.

6 mo.

JOYGYM Self-Report

Questionnaires

Individual & group

interviews

Assessment

30 Oct

3 Dec

19 Jan

10 Mar

12 May

Dates:

2009

2009

2010

2010

2010

Intensive one-day training was provided on 17 November 2009.

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EXTENDED ASSESSMENTS

Extended assessments for this program included a range of psychometric

assessments and the Bar-On EQ-i Emotional Intelligence assessment

conducted by independent research contractors.

Psychometric assessment was conducted at each site visit, with EQ-i

assessment conducted at baseline and after two and six months.

Extended Assessments

Baseline

2 week

2 mo.

4 mo.

6 mo.

Psychometric

assessment

EQ-I assessment

Assessment

30 Oct

3 Dec

19 Jan

10 Mar

12 May

Dates:

2009

2009

2010

2010

2010

Notes on the Case Study

SAMPLE SIZE

While clear trends can be seen in the results, the sample size of 27

primary participants is too small to extrapolate that results will be

exactly duplicated in other groups.

SELF-REPORT QUESTIONNAIRE

Self-report assessment results were obtained using JOYGYM Self-Report


Questionnaires developed by InHappiness for this program.

The questionnaire had previously provided consistent results with more

than 500 program caregivers across five provinces of South Africa.

Results from the extended assessments (psychometric and Emotional

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Intelligence) correlate with Self-Report Questionnaire results.

INFORMED CONSENT

Participants were clearly informed that their participation in the

monitoring and evaluation was voluntary. Consent was obtained in

accordance with World Health Organization guidelines.

EXCLUSION OF EXTERNAL FACTORS

The results shown can reliably be considered to stem from the Healing

with Happiness program.

The environment at the Care Center had been stable for months prior to

implementation and remained stable throughout the six-month HWH

period. No changes in psychosocial support were made, and no other

programs were introduced that would impact on the measured outcomes

during this period.

In light of significant changes continuing in a sustained manner over the

six-month period, the Hawthorne effect is not considered to have


significantly influenced results.

DISCUSSION

Some of the two-month results do not follow the trend. This may be

attributed to daily therapy not being practiced during the Christmas

holidays, and also to changes in levels of stress, depression and

relationship problems after spending holidays with their family.

Some of the six-month results appear to reflect the decrease in daily

peer-to-peer therapy practice that occurred during the previous two

months. This is especially evident in increased measures of perceived

stress and depression, in self-reported family home problems and days

worried per month, and in decreased measures of Impulse Control EQ

and Adaptability EQ.

ANALYSIS

The JOYGYM program has two delivery streams: Aerobic Laughter

therapy and Happiness Coaching. The Healing with Happiness program

incorporates both streams.

In the sections that follow we provide a separate analysis (where

applicable) of the relative impact of Aerobic Laughter therapy and

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Happiness Coaching on each of the measured variables.

LANGUAGE AND STYLE

The following presentation of program results adopts the somewhat

more formal style used by HappyMetrics.

Baseline is the term used to denote results measured before the program

started.

Does HWH Build Happiness?

The first and most important question we addressed was does the

Healing with Happiness program boost primary participant happiness?

Happiness
BASELINE

Levels of happiness and joy were low as participants were suffering from

chronic stress, depression and many symptoms of burnout.

Emotional negativity and feelings of doom and gloom were widespread.

Care Center staff and patients looked stressed and unhappy.

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RESULTS: SELF-REPORT QUESTIONNAIRE

Big increases in happiness scores were seen after two weeks and again

after four months (after falling off slightly in the post-holiday period).

Hope scores showed a significant increase after two weeks, with

continued increases until the last result (perhaps due to reduced daily

practice).

Feelings of joy increased after two weeks, then again after six months.

RESULTS: PSYCHOMETRIC ASSESSMENT

The Fordyce Emotion Questionnaire asks the percent of time I feel

happy, and the percent of time I feel unhappy.

Results showed continued and significant increases in happiness and

significant decreases in unhappiness after two weeks and four months.

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RESULTS: EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ)

General Mood EQ covers the areas of general mood, optimism and

happiness and measures the ability to enjoy life, outlook on life, and

overall feeling of contentment. Higher scores mean cheerful, positive,

hopeful and optimistic people who know how to enjoy life.

Optimism EQ reflects the ability to look at the brighter side of life and

maintain a positive attitude in the face of adversity.

Happiness EQ reflects the ability to enjoy life and have fun.

All measures show a dramatic increase after two months with a further

significant increase after six months.

The General Mood EQ and Optimism EQ scores after six months were

higher than the national average for people of similar age and

background.

This is a considerable achievement given the nature of their work.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

Participants reported a major increase in personal happiness after two

weeks, describing a newfound sense of lightness.

They noted that even if they arrived at work moody or depressed, after

the morning Aerobic Laughter therapy practice any negativity

disappeared and they started the workday happy and energized.

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RESULTS: MANAGEMENT FEEDBACK

After two weeks managers highlighted a positive shift in workplace mood

and ambience, noting that people were happier and that laughter was

often heard.

After two months they confirmed that a new pervading sense of

happiness was evident throughout the Care Center.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

Participants experienced fast and dramatic increase in happiness and

decreases in unhappiness, with new levels of optimism and mood even

higher than the national average.

After two months the increased happiness could be felt when we arrived

at the Care Center. These were very different people to those we had

met ten weeks before. They were happy, even playful and very quick to

smile and laugh.

This wonderful level of happiness was maintained for the duration of the

program.

A recent visit 14 months after training confirmed that Care Center

remains a happy center with a warm and welcoming attitude.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Happiness Coaching increases measured happiness variables, but Aerobic


Laughter therapy dramatically speeds and multiplies these results.

Aerobic Laughter practice provides a strong dose of joyfulness that

raises happiness levels, increases optimism and hopefulness, and acts to

improve general mood. It also acts powerfully to reduce stress-related

unhappiness.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

After the dramatic increases in happiness seen at two weeks and two

months, we believe that much of the continued increase can be

attributed to the participants ongoing development and application of

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Yes. HWH builds Happiness

Happiness

Healing with Happiness dramatic increases in

happiness after just two weeks, with continued


increases across the six-month period.

Can HWH Heal Caregivers?

The next important question we wanted to address was does the

Healing with Happiness program overcome widespread incidence of

Caregiver Syndrome?

To answer this question we measured indicators of mental and physical

health including:

Stress and depression

Coping

Resilience

Burnout

Emotional Intelligence

Work relationships

Home and family relationships

Mindfulness

Adaptability

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Positivity

Well-being

Happiness Intelligence
Physical health

Stress and Depression

Stress is a normal physical response to events that make us feel

threatened or upset and affect our balance in some way.

The stress response is the bodys way of protecting itself. Stress helps us

stay focused, energetic, and alert. However, beyond a certain point,

stress stops being helpful and starts causing damage to health, mood,

productivity, relationships, and quality of life.

Chronic stress grinds away at mental and physical health, causing

emotional damage in addition to physical ailments. Long-term stress can

even rewire the brain, leaving us more vulnerable to everyday pressures

and less able to cope. Over time, stress can lead to mental health

problems such as anxiety, depression, eating disorders and substance

abuse.

BASELINE

Self-report results showed high levels of stress, mood swings,

depression, and of physical stress indicators including stress-related

body pain, headaches and migraines, digestive problems such as

constipation and diarrhea, and sleep problems.

Psychometric results showed high levels of perceived stress. Depression

scores indicated widespread clinical depression.


Stress Management EQ scores showed low stress management and

impulse control, and low stress tolerance.

In interviews almost all participants reported:

Very high stress levels

Feelings of low self esteem

Feelings of hopelessness

Frequent mood swings, anger and conflict

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High levels of anxiety

High levels of recurring depression that in some cases were under

treatment with medication

Feeling over-burdened with issues in their personal lives and


concerns about their ability to cope with these issues

Physical indicators of stress as noted above, and also exhaustion

(low energy levels) and difficulty keeping up with job demands

A significant number of participants reported being under treatment for

medical conditions including depression, high blood pressure, and

diabetes.

The problems noted were not recent, but had built up and continued

over an extended period of time. Participants coping mechanisms were

overstretched and we saw widespread evidence of burnout.

Some managers complained of feeling over-burdened with work and

responsibilities, particularly reporting requirements.

RESULTS: SELF-REPORT QUESTIONNAIRE

Dramatic reductions in levels of stress and depression were seen after

two weeks. Reductions continued as participants become more

proficient in HWH therapy techniques and found new ways to

incorporate them into their work and personal life.

Depression levels rose briefly after the Christmas holiday period.

Physical stress indicators reduced over the entire period, with major

reductions after two weeks in all indicators except sleep problems which

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reduced sharply after two months.

RESULTS: PSYCHOMETRIC ASSESSMENT

The Perceived Stress Scale (PSS) is widely used to measure the

perception of stress and how unpredictable, uncontrollable, and


overloaded respondents find their lives.

The Center for Epidemiologic Studies Depression Scale (CES-D) is widely

used to test for depression.

Perceived stress results confirmed the reductions seen in the Self-Report

Questionnaire.

The initial CES-D score of 19.92 suggests that participants were in or

close to clinical depression before the program. After 2 weeks the score

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was down to 16.64 (slightly above the danger threshold). After two

months scores no longer indicated clinical depression.

Notice how both stress and depression levels increase after six months

due to a drop off in daily HWH therapy practice.

RESULTS: EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE


High scores on Stress Management EQ show an ability to withstand stress

without falling apart or losing control. High scorers are generally

calm, rarely impulsive, and work well under pressure.

Stress Tolerance reflects the ability to withstand adverse events and

stressful situations without falling apart by confidently coping with

stress.

Impulse Control reflects the ability to resist or delay an impulse, drive or

temptation to act or react.

Stress Management EQ results show significant increases in stress

management, stress tolerance and impulse control.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

The majority of participants reported:

Dramatic reductions in stress levels after two weeks, with a new

feeling of lightness from relief of chronic stress. Further

reductions were confirmed after two, four and six months.

Feelings of low self esteem and hopelessness reduced after two

weeks, and were seldom evident after two months.

Mood swings, anger and levels of anxiety reduced after two weeks,

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and were seldom evident after the two months.


Feelings of depression reduced after two weeks, with further

decreases after two months. After four months chronic depression

was no longer evident, and participants had been taken off

antidepressant medication by their doctors.

The severity of high blood pressure and diabetes under treatment

was reduced after two months, and treatment was stopped by

their doctors within four months.

RESULTS: MANAGEMENT INTERVIEWS

Even though most managers were not interacting with patients, they

reported unusually high stress and depression levels before the program.

This may be attributed to emotional contagion and difficulties in

managing and motivating highly stressed staff. Managers stress levels

reduced in line with group levels, with some managers reporting

significant increases in their performance.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

Healing with Happiness therapy counters stress in a number of ways:

Fast reduction of physiological and mental stress levels through

daily Aerobic Laughter therapy practice

Teaches and builds effective new coping skills

Helps participants to reframe regular stressors in ways that they

cease to be stressful, thereby reducing perceived stress


Develops stress-mindfulness that enables participants to override

the bodys stress response in real time

Dangerous levels of stress and depression were dramatically reduced.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

While we would expect increases in the measured happiness variables

with Happiness Coaching alone, there is no doubt that Aerobic Laughter

therapy acts to dramatically speed and multiply these results.

The rapid reduction in bloodstream levels of cortisol and other stress-

related substances plays a major role in the reduction of stress.

This effect is known to last for 8 hours or longer after laughter practice.

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By scheduling therapy sessions at start of shift this benefit is maximized.

Aerobic Laughter acts as a powerful positive affect to reduce negative

mood and similarly reduces mood swings.

There is increasing evidence that depression is caused and exacerbated


by stress. Reduced levels of cortisol and stress-related substances in the

bloodstream act powerfully to reduce depression.

Caregivers are exposed to high levels of trauma and grief that can result

in pent-up negative emotions which may contribute to depression.

Aerobic Laughter promotes the cathartic release of pent-up negative

emotions, thereby alleviating this problem.

Stress management and tolerance are increased as a result of Aerobic

Laughter therapy triggering the de-stress response that works to

metabolize cortisol and stress-related substances in the bloodstream.

This acts as a buffer for stress triggered in the following hours as cortisol

is reduced by being rapidly metabolized.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

Healing with Happiness educates, empowers and encourages participants

to build stress mindfulness, an important component in Happiness

Intelligence.

The resulting stress-consciousness allows participants to recognize and

reframe major and/or chronic stressors in ways that are no longer

stressful.

Stress mindfulness creates the ability to recognize stressors in real time

and to override the stress response.


The continued reductions in stress reflect participants ongoing progress

in developing and exercising their Happiness Intelligence.

Coping

Coping is the ability to withstand adverse events and stressful situations

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without falling apart.

Coping is especially important in healthcare where the ability to keep a

level head and continue to operate in crisis and emergency situations is

crucial.

BASELINE

Stress Tolerance EQ results indicated very low coping ability.

In interviews participants reported

A lack of ability to cope with personal issues

Difficulty coping with death and dying of those in their care

Feeling overburdened with work and life pressures

The interviewer felt that caregivers coping mechanisms were

overstretched.

RESULTS: EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

Stress Tolerance EQ measures indicate a dramatic increase in coping

ability after two months, with a further similar increase after 6 months
(see previous section for scores).

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

After two weeks participants reported significant improvements in their

ability to cope with issues in their work and personal lives.

After two months they no longer felt that coping with personal issues

was a problem or major source of stress for them.

Participants reported that they were now coping more effectively with

death and the loss of those in their care. Further improvements were

reported after four and six months.

Participants found it easier to cope with their workload and work

responsibilities.

The resident part-time psychologist attached to the Care Center

confirmed the remarkable and sudden improvement in participant

coping skills.

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Interviews with management confirmed significant and general increases

in the participants ability to cope with major stressful life events such

as death and trauma.

A significant improvement in coping with the volume of work was


reported by one manager.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

HWH therapy specifically empowers participants with improved coping

skills. These continued to improve for approximately four months and

were maintained during the program.

The increase in happiness levels appears to assist participants in

reframing their responses to stressors. The incidences of trauma

associated with loss did not drop during the program, but participants

perception of these stressful events changed.

The impact of HWH therapy on coping skills appears to include:

A dramatic increase in the ability to cope with issues of a personal

nature

Improved ability to cope with death and dying of those under their

care

A new ease in coping with work and life pressures

The caregivers are now coping well with stress and adversity.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

The ability to cope with stress is increased as Aerobic Laughter therapy

triggers the de-stress response that works to metabolize cortisol and

stress-related substances in the bloodstream. This serves to increase the

ability to cope with stress during the following hours.


ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

Most of the improvement in coping ability is attributed to increased

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Resilience

Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity.

Lack of resilience can result in high levels of stress and depression that

may reduce the ability to carry out duties effectively.

In addition to the death of patients for whom they are caring, South

Africans are exposed to a very high number of deaths among family and

friends due to the very high incidence of HIV and AIDS.

BASELINE

Initial interviews showed that caregivers experienced difficulty bouncing

back from adversity, particularly from the death of those they cared for,

and from the death of family or friends.


RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

After two months many participants expressed surprise at their

newfound ability to bounce back from adversity and from the death of

persons in care to whom they had become emotionally attached.

After four months their ability to bounce back had further increased.

Participants reported a new understanding that death was an

unavoidable and inevitable part of their work, and of how they had

previously allowed death to impact negatively on their emotions and

health.

This motivated them to become fiercely protective of their own

happiness and health, and to reprogram their response to death to be

more accepting and less damaging to their happiness.

While they still experienced sadness and grief, many were able to

reduce the period of intense negative emotions from weeks to days or

hours.

Two participants experienced multiple deaths of close friends and family

and were able to bounce back within a matter of days. Both reported

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that before the HWH program they would have been out of action for

weeks.
RESULTS: MANAGEMENT INTERVIEWS

Management confirmed that lack of resilience was a significant problem

before the program, with managers and staff frequently taking time off

or experiencing high levels of presenteeism after the death of patients

or family/friends.

They reported that the increased resilience was reducing group stress,

absenteeism and presenteeism and increasing productivity.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

Significant increases in the ability to bounce back from adversity were

seen. The dramatic and widespread increase in emotional resilience is

one of the most significant results of the program.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Stress and adversity often result in powerful negative emotions. Aerobic

Laughter provides tools that allow the cathartic release of negative

emotions, thereby building resilience.

Many of the caregivers displayed signs of post-traumatic stress disorder

resulting from accumulated trauma and grief not released. By releasing

these pent-up negative emotions post-traumatic stress disorder was

reduced, thereby increasing their ability to cope with further stress and

adversity.

Cognitive behavioral therapy acts to develop and strengthen specialized


neural circuits and build behavior habits. Regular practice of Aerobic

Laughter therapy develops the ability to release negative emotions

rather than bottling them up. This also acts to build resilience.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

As participants built their Happiness Intelligence, they developed a new

ability to recognize and understand the impact of adversity and death on

their happiness, and to manage it in more intelligent ways.

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Burnout

Burnout is a state of physical, emotional and mental exhaustion caused

by long-term exposure to demanding work situations. Burnout is the

cumulative result of stress.

Caregivers experience high levels of stress, perceived stress, high

workload, and a support base that is often regarded as inadequate.


In addition to causing poor work performance, absenteeism and

presenteeism, burnout may contribute to depression, staff turnover and

serious health problems.

Studies have shown that burnt-out women and depressed men are at a

greater risk of future inflammation-related diseases, including diabetes,

heart disease and strokes compared with their non-burnt out and non-

depressed counterparts.

Caregivers participating in previous Healing with Happiness programs

consistently reported increased energy and vitality in their work, study

and life.

BASELINE

Evidence of burnout was observed in most participants during baseline

interviews.

The following symptoms provided cause for concern: high stress levels,

negativity and depression, low emotional resilience and Emotional

Intelligence and a high incidence of hypertension and diabetes.

It was evident that these symptoms had not developed recently, but had

accumulated over an extended period.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

Participants reported significant increases in energy and motivation after

two weeks, whilst coping skills improved.


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Further reductions in burnout and higher motivation were observed after

two months. After four months no evidence of burnout was seen.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

Rapid reduction of widespread long term burnout was seen among

caregivers. Burnout was eradicated in most participants within two

months and in all participants within four months.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Aerobic Laughter therapy acts to increase levels of energy and happiness

and to reduce stress, thereby reducing burnout.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

Happiness Intelligence further enables participants to increase happiness

and reduce stress, thereby reducing burnout.

Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Intelligence, also known as emotional quotient (EQ) is defined

as a set of competencies that demonstrate a persons ability to

recognize emotions in themselves and others and to manage them

intelligently.

People with higher EQ tend to demonstrate good self-motivation, goal

management and balance between work, home, and recreational life.

They tend to avoid procrastination, self-doubt, and low achievement.

A strong Emotional Intelligence can help to build positive relationships

with colleagues and improve performance - the ideal formula for

workplace success.

Increases in Emotional Intelligence can help to significantly reduce stress

from home and social relationships.

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High stress levels are associated with low EQ.

Emotional Intelligence can be taught and developed.

The authors agree with Reuven Bar-Ons view that Emotional Intelligence

is an integral and important part of positive psychology.

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BASELINE
A low level of Emotional Intelligence was observed in the majority of

participants. Pre-intervention EQ scores were well below the national

average with the following subscales indicating areas for concern:

Problem Solving EQ

Adaptability EQ

Reality Testing EQ

Stress Management and Stress Tolerance EQ

RESULTS: EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

The BarOn EQ-i Emotional Intelligence scale measures an array of non-

cognitive abilities, competencies, and skills that influence our ability to

succeed in coping with environmental demands and pressures.

EQ-i assessment was performed at baseline and after 2 months and 6

months of the HWH therapy program. Eighteen individuals with

educational levels higher than Grade 10 were included.

Raw EQ-i scores are transformed into scaled scores with a mean of 100

and a standard deviation of 15. Scores that fall between 85 and 115 are

considered within the effective functioning range. South African norms

are shown according to age and gender.

The main EQ-I scale and subscales are shown here. More detailed EQ-i

subscales have been used to illustrate changes in other chapters.

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Total Emotional Intelligence showed a dramatic increase after two

months and a further increase at six months.

Results for other subscales are discussed separately.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

Significant increases in caregivers Emotional Intelligence were seen

after two months, with further increases after six months.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

High stress levels are associated with low EQ.

Aerobic Laughter therapy acts to increase EQ by reducing stress.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS


INTELLIGENCE

Emotional Intelligence and Happiness Intelligence are largely

intertwined and interdependent.

EQ is concerned with recognizing, understanding and managing emotions

while HQ (Happiness Intelligence) is concerned with recognizing,

understanding and managing happiness.

We believe that working to increase either of these intelligences will

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impact positively on the other.

Work Relationships

Working well with others is an important and integral part of job

success. Caregivers work as a cooperative group or team to accomplish

daily tasks.

Effective teams show greater productivity, sharing of workload,

increased work pace, greater opportunities to learn and faster learning,

shared responsibility, better quality of work, less dishonesty, fewer

mistakes, mutual creativity and problem solving, greater job satisfaction

and greater mutual support.

Good teamwork and cooperation is built on trusting and considerate

relationships in a spirit of mutual respect.


BASELINE

Participants ability to cooperate and communicate was reduced and

needed reinforcement.

Many participants reported frequent instances of conflict and anger,

particularly with other staff. This appeared to be a way of venting their

stress and externalizing blame.

One manager reported that they spent most of their time and energy

resolving interpersonal conflict between staff. Most of these conflicts

were regarded as frivolous, often along the lines of I dont want to work

with X anymore. She never returns my greetings. She doesnt like me

and I dont like her. If she cant be civil then I cant and wont work with

her anymore! Other managers reported similar problems to a lesser

degree.

One participant was involved in consistent and multiple daily conflicts

with others.

Conflict behavior spread negative emotions throughout the workplace

and contributed greatly to management load.

Some instances of long term relationship problems were found, with

significant animosity between pairs of people.

RESULTS: INTRAPERSONAL INTELLIGENCE

A strong Intrapersonal Intelligence positions us for success: higher scores


indicate individuals who are in touch with their feelings, feel good about

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themselves, and feel positive about what they are doing in their lives.

High scoring individuals are able to express their feelings, are

independent, strong, and confident in conveying their ideas and beliefs.

Self-regard EQ indicates an ability to look at and understand oneself,

respect and accept oneself, and accept ones perceived positive and

negative aspects as well as ones limitations and possibilities.

Emotional self-awareness EQ is the ability to recognize and understand

ones feelings and emotions, differentiate between them, and to know

what caused them and why.

Assertiveness EQ is the ability to express feelings, beliefs and thoughts,


and to defend ones rights in a non-destructive way.

Independence EQ reflects the ability to be self-reliant and self-directed

in ones thinking and actions and to be free of emotional dependency.

Self-actualization EQ describes the ability to realize ones potential

capacities and to strive to do that which one wants to do and enjoys

doing.

A significant increase in Intrapersonal Intelligence was seen at 2 months

with further increases at six months.

Self Regard EQ increased after two months to higher than average levels

with a further increase at 6 months.

A significant increase in Emotional Self-Awareness EQ was seen after two

months and maintained over the six month period.

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There was little change in Assertiveness EQ after two months, but a

large increase in assertiveness was seen after six months.

Independence EQ scores were initially low, but showed some increase at

two months and significant increase after 6 months.

Self-actualization EQ scores increased after two months and maintained

the increase after six months.

RESULTS: INTERPERSONAL INTELLIGENCE

Interpersonal EQ taps into interpersonal skills and functioning. Higher

scores indicate responsible and dependable individuals who have good

social skills - they understand, interact, and relate well to others.

Empathy EQ reflects the ability to be attentive to, to understand and to

appreciate the feelings of others. It is being able to emotionally read

other people.

Social EQ responsibility is the ability to demonstrate oneself as a co-

operative, contributing, and constructive member of ones social group.

Interpersonal relationship EQ scores indicate the ability to establish and

maintain mutually satisfying relationships that are characterized by

intimacy and by giving and receiving affection. This intelligence helps in

building a bond of friendship and unity among team members. In some

employees, this bond of friendship lasts for a life time and can make
work easier and goals more attainable.

A significant increase in Interpersonal Intelligence was seen at 2 months

with further increases at six months.

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A small drop in Empathy EQ is seen after two months. This may be

attributed to increased Assertiveness EQ (see above), or result from

measurement occurring after the Christmas holiday period. Empathy EQ

scores were back to normal after six months.

A significant increase in Social Responsibility EQ was seen with the score

climbing to a higher than average level.

The interpersonal relationships score increased after two months, with a

significant further increase at six months.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

Significant improvements in cooperation and communication were

reported after two weeks with improvement continuing throughout the

period. A significant number of participants reported an increase in the

quality of their work relationships and increased incidences of

colleagues voluntarily helping each other.

Levels of conflict and anger were considerably reduced after two weeks.

Participants became more mindful of their stress and its causes, and
implemented effective ways to deal with it.

The staff member who previously initiated the largest number of

conflicts lost her antagonism and became so cooperative that she was

promoted to a position with greater responsibility and higher pay.

Long term personality clash-type conflicts between participants were

completely resolved, with one exception where one party did not

participate in HWH training.

While conflicts continued to occur, they were less serious and occurred

less often. In almost all cases conflicts were now resolved within the

team without recourse to supervisors or management.

Newfound mutual respect and trust was evident between team

members. Many remarked on the happy new spirit of cooperation.

RESULTS: MANAGEMENT INTERVIEWS

Management reported a marked increase in cooperation, communication

and bonding between staff and between staff and management. It was

further reported that HWH therapy brought people together in mutual

trust and respect and resulted in closer friendships and the resolution of

long-standing personality clashes.

The dramatic decrease in conflict within this group resulted in a

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meaningful reduction in management load. One manager reported a

decrease in resolving time-consuming conflicts from previous levels of 3-

5 conflicts per day to just one conflict over a two month period.

Management reported that team members seeing another person with a

heavy workload were now voluntarily stepping in to help them, even

when this was outside the boundaries of their job description.

In group discussions managers noted:

Significant improvements in interpersonal staff relationships

Faster resolution of conflicts between staff members, with most

conflicts now being resolved without recourse to management

Greater rapport and communication between staff and

management

A significantly happier and less stressed work ambience

Management feedback confirmed that the Healing with Happiness

program impacted positively on the running of the Care Center.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

HWH therapy removes barriers to communication between participants

including supervisors and managers and allows honest open

communication in a positive atmosphere of trust and mutual respect.

It promotes team spirit, innovation and creativity and taking

responsibility for reaching common goals and objectives.


New holistic relationships developed between team members. Others

were now regarded compassionately and appreciated as whole people

with their own personality and problems, rather than simply as sources

of conflict.

The high degree of workplace conflict was effectively eliminated.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Natural laughter is a form of non-verbal communication that taps into

hardwired brain circuits to promote trust and cooperation and to reduce

aggression and conflict. This can be clearly observed in the social

interaction of young children and also in animals that laugh.

During Aerobic Laughter therapy participants practice natural laughter

together in groups. It is not surprising that this results in reduced

conflict and increased cooperation.

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ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS


INTELLIGENCE

As Happiness Intelligence increased participants were able to recognize

the underlying reasons for frequent work conflicts and also their

damaging negative emotional impact on the individuals in conflict and

on the group.

This new consciousness allowed them to adjust their behavior to reduce

conflict and also to enlist the groups assistance to quickly resolve

conflicts and restore a positive and happy workplace atmosphere

conducive to personal happiness.

Home/Family Relationships

Home and family problems have a significant impact on workplace

productivity, and can be a leading driver of stress, presenteeism, and

absenteeism.

BASELINE

The majority of participants indicated that challenges in their family and

home lives were their main source of stress. These problems negatively

affected their work performance.

Challenges reported included relationship problems with children,

spouse or partner, delinquent children, and social relationship problems.

Many complained of unsatisfactory relations with their children. When

their children approached them for company or to play they would shout
at them to be quiet or send them to play elsewhere because by the time

they arrived home they were too emotionally and physically exhausted

to put up with the childrens demands, noise and playfulness.

Many reported similar problems with their spouse/partner and admitted

that this impacted negatively on their home and sex life and was a major

source of worry for them.

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RESULTS: SELF-REPORT QUESTIONNAIRE

Relationship problems with the spouse/partner dropped markedly after

two weeks and were further reduced at 4 months. We believe the

increase in problems at two months to be related to post-Christmas

emotional stress and the reduction in HWH therapy practice over the
holidays.

After two weeks, participants self-reported a major reduction in

problems with their children/grandchildren. Further improvement was

reported at two and four months.

Sexual problems increased after the Christmas holiday period, with

significant reductions seen at four months.

The reduction in HWH therapy practice in the last two-month period is

reflected in the slight increase in all problems.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

After two weeks dramatic decreases were reported in family and home

related stress. After two months, participants no longer reported family

and home challenges as a major source of stress.

While a number of caregivers continued to live in taxing home

circumstances, they reported a new ability to reframe their perceptions

of these situations, eliminating them as major stressors.

Participants reported that they started practicing Aerobic Laughter with

their children immediately in most cases when they arrived home from

the HWH therapy training day. Children in all cases responded

enthusiastically they love it, and it became a regular feature of their

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day, with many practicing with their kids in the morning and evening.

They reported that this brought them much closer to their children and

completely changed their previous behavior.

Interestingly, children quickly adopted the Aerobic Laughter therapy

exercises and initiated them when they saw the parent getting moody or

irritable, thus promoting Aerobic Laughter practice as a way of

preventing or short-circuiting stress.

Many were able to initiate Aerobic Laughter with their spouse /partner

and also with other family members and friends, and reported that their

home was now a much happier place with less conflict and more loving

fun.

Participants confirmed both a reduction in sexual problems and an

increase in sexual frequency.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

"There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so" William

Shakespeare.

Before program implementation caregivers were under severe chronic

stress at work. The resulting negative emotions impacted negatively on

family life. The reduction of stress at work due to HWH therapy practice

resulted in less negativity in the family.

New skills in reframing stress resulted in a change in perception of


home/family problems as no longer being sources of stress.

This in turn reduced stressful behavior at home. The resulting

improvement in behavior reduced tension and improved home/family

relationships.

Home and family related problems that were regarded as the number

one source of worry and stress are no longer a notable source of stress

for these caregivers.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Adults practicing natural laughter with younger children find their

relationship is positively transformed.

The benefits previously discussed whereby the practice of Aerobic

Laughter therapy acts to reduce stress, depression and burnout, to

increase coping, resilience, and Emotional Intelligence, and to improve

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CASE STUDY

One caregiver was extremely stressed by the behavior of her grown son

living with her. He had been drifting into drug abuse, associating with

delinquents, generally displaying wayward behavior. , was seldom home

for meals and was stealing money and household items to sell in order to

support his drug habit and lifestyle. She worried this would soon lead to
his being thrown in jail or death.

His behavior was the major source of stress in her life. They engaged in

frequent screaming matches. She constantly nagged him about his

behavior, was often unable to sleep at night, and sometimes unable to

focus on her work.

This had a major impact on her ability to perform her tasks and led to

exhaustion and symptoms of burnout.

She reported that the Healing with Happiness program empowered her

to recognize the negative impact of this stress and to release it. She

informed her son that his behavior was up to him, and that she was no

longer concerned with what he did. She ceased worrying, went home,

laughed and played with her grandson (his son) and enjoyed her sleep.

This reframing of a major stressor had a huge positive impact on her

life and work. She gained energy, her stress levels dropped and she

became more engaged and motivated in her work.

Her change of attitude had a remarkable effect on her son. When she

stopped arguing and shouting, her son started spending more time at

home with his son, stopped stealing, reduced his drug intake and

stopped seeing his criminal friends. The change continued and after a

period she reported that he was clean of drugs and leading a normal

happy family life.


She attributes this change in his behavior directly to the change in her

behavior.

work relationships also apply in improving relationships with a

partner/spouse.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

As Happiness Intelligence increased participants were able to recognize

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the underlying reasons for their home/family problems and also their

damaging negative emotional impact on all family members.

This new consciousness allowed them to adjust their behavior to reduce

conflict, or where the situation could not be changed, to reframe the

cause of stress in a way that it ceased to be stressful.

Mindfulness

Mindfulness has been described as an intentional focused awareness a


way of paying non-judgmental attention on purpose in the present

moment.

The importance of mindfulness in the workplace cannot be

overemphasized.

Ellen Jane Langer, professor of psychology at Harvard University states

that mindfulness increases charisma and productivity, decreases burnout

and accidents, and increases creativity, memory, attention, positive

affect, health, and even longevity .

Specific benefits of mindfulness in the workplace include:

Overall improvements in workplace functioning

Greater accuracy and fewer mistakes an important attribute for

medical personnel who dispense medication

Superior ability to focus and shut out distractions

Reduced anxiety, tension and frustration

Increased tolerance to others with lower skills, maturity or coping

ability

Accepting our mistakes and weaknesses without reduced self-worth

or self esteem

Increased stability during periods of change

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RESULTS: PSYCHOMETRIC ASSESSMENT

The Mindful Awareness Attention Scale (MAAS) is a 15-item scale

designed to assess a core characteristic of dispositional mindfulness,

namely, open or receptive awareness of and attention to what is taking

place in the present. Higher scores reflect higher levels of dispositional

mindfulness.

Significant increases in the scores for mindfulness were seen after two

weeks again after four months. A reduction was seen after the Christmas

holiday period and a small reduction after HWH therapy practice became

intermittent during the last period.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

Findings were consistent with the assessment results in showing

increased general mindfulness, particularly regarding improvements in

workplace functioning, an improved ability to focus, decreased anxiety,

tension and frustration, increased tolerance and acceptance of mistakes


and weaknesses without lowered self-worth or self esteem.

Importantly, stress and happiness mindfulness developed quickly and

continued developing. This enabled caregivers to understand and control

their stress response.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

HWH therapy contributed to significant increases in general and stress

mindfulness.

With increased mindfulness, tension and anxieties were reduced and

there was greater tolerance and acceptance of their own mistakes and

the mistakes of others.

Caregivers practicing Aerobic Laughter therapy experienced a very fast

and lasting increase in mindfulness.

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ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Mindfulness is often developed thought the use of meditation. Aerobic


Laughter is similar to meditation in that it brings us instantly into the

present and silences worry and mind chatter.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

Healing with Happiness therapy emphasizes building specific aspects of

mindfulness, especially emotional, stress and happiness mindfulness.

Adaptability

The ability to adapt to new and changing situations is important for

workplace success.

BASELINE

High stress had undermined this groups Adaptability EQ, especially their

problem solving ability.

Scores for Adaptability EQ, Reality Testing EQ, and Problem Solving EQ

were low and regarded as a cause for concern.

The very low Problem Solving score was especially worrying and

healthcare professionals are often called upon to solve problems in

stressful or emergency situations.

RESULTS: EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

Adaptability EQ helps reveal how successfully a person is able to cope

with environmental demands by effectively sizing up and dealing with

problematic situations. Average to high scores on this composite scale


identify those who are generally flexible, realistic, effective in

understanding complex situations and competent at finding adequate

solutions.

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Reality Testing EQ reflects the ability to assess the correspondence

between what is experienced (the subjective) and what exists in reality

(the objective).

Flexibility EQ reflects the ability to adjust ones emotions, thoughts and

behaviors to changing situations and conditions.

Problem Solving EQ reflects the ability to identify and define problems

as well as to generate and implement potentially effective solutions.

Significant improvements in Adaptability and Reality Testing EQ scores


were seen after two months with some reduction after 6 months,

possibly due to a reduction in the frequency of HWH therapy practice.

Problem Solving EQ increased dramatically after two months, with the

increase maintained at six months.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

The increase in participants Adaptability EQ is consistent with and a

factor in many other significant changes including the reduction in

inter-staff conflict, their improved coping abilities and their capacity to

overcome adversity.

The dramatic increase in Problem Solving EQ is important to success in

the workplace and in other aspects of life.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Stress, depression and burnout act to reduce problem solving ability.

Because change requires decisions that can be stressful, people in this

condition often try to avoid change and become less flexible and

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adaptable.

Increased levels of cortisol are known to inhibit cognitive decision

making ability. Reducing cortisol levels through Aerobic Laughter restores

cognitive ability.

By reducing stress, depression and burnout, Aerobic Laughter works to

significantly improve decision making ability.

Positivity

Positivity is the quality of being confident, optimistic, and cooperative.

It is a key to success.

This personal attribute can be enhanced and strengthened in the same

way that we can learn optimism and happiness.

Positivity is a reflection of our emotional state. It is influenced by

negative emotions or events, and positive emotions or events.

Negative emotions are major contributors to stress, depression and

unhappiness. Their effects last longer and carry greater weight than

positive emotions. Positive psychology research shows that three positive

emotions are required to balance or offset one negative emotion.

BASELINE

Participants were found to be exposed to a constant and severe flow of

negative emotions in their work.


A low degree of positivity was found certainly not enough to counter

the weight of negative emotions they experienced.

RESULTS: POSITIVITY RATIO

Positivity ratio is an important new measure in positive psychology that

compares the number of positive and negative emotions that we

experience.

Positivity ratio has been shown to accurately predict workplace

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performance.

At positivity ratios of 3:1 or higher people begin to flourish and find

greater meaning in life.

A dramatic increase in positivity ratio was observed after two weeks as a

result of the daily positive affect of HWH therapy.

This reduced somewhat at two and four months, but increased at 6

months.
RESULTS: POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE AFFECT SCALE

The positive and negative affect scale was implemented as a measure of

positivity.

Two broad, general factors typically labeled positive affect and

negative affect have emerged reliably as the dominant dimensions of

emotional experience.

These account for most of the variance in self-rated affect. Together

they account for roughly half to three-quarters of the common variance

in mood.

NA and PA reflect dispositional dimensions, with high NA epitomized by

subjective distress and unpleasurable engagement, and low NA by the

absence of these feelings.

By contrast, PA represents the extent to which an individual experiences

pleasurable engagement with the environment. Thus, emotions such as

enthusiasm and alertness are indicative of high PA, whilst lethargy and

sadness characterize low PA.

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A significant increase in positive affect is seen at two weeks, with

further increases at two and four months.

HWH therapy practice did not significantly reduce the strong negative

affect resulting from the nature of caregiver work.

DISCUSSION

HWH therapy helped to increase happiness and positive affect

significantly.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Practicing natural laughter provides powerful positive affect and acts to


reduce negative affect.

Well-Being

A sense of meaning and purpose in life is regarded as an indicator of a

healthy and positive mental state, and acts as a predictor of well-being.

Life satisfaction is seen as an accurate indicator of subjective well-being

and happiness.

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RESULTS: PSYCHOMETRIC ASSESSMENT

The meaning in life questionnaire assesses the degree to which

respondents feel their lives have meaning and purpose.

The satisfaction with life scale is a widely used to quantify subjective

well-being.

Consistent improvements in meaning in life scores indicate HWH therapy


practice impacted positively on caregivers sense of meaning and

purpose.

Improvements in life satisfaction are indicative of the positive impact of

HWH therapy practice.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

Feedback confirmed that HWH therapy practice had helped participants

find increased meaning and purpose, and that they experienced

improved levels of happiness and well-being.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

The majority of caregivers reported that HWH therapy practice had

assisted them in finding meaning and purpose.

HWH therapy helped this group to achieve significant improvements to

these measures in six months.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Aerobic Laughter practice triggers powerful feelings of joyfulness that

act to increase happiness and subjective well being.

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ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

Happiness Intelligence brings awareness of lifes meaning and purpose

and helps to make life changes to increase this importance driver of

happiness.

Physical Health

To what extent does eliminating Caregivers Syndrome reflect in the

physical health of the caregiver group?

BASELINE

The majority of participants reported that they suffered from chronic

fatigue, body pains, digestive problems, headaches, migraines and sleep

problems.

Many reported being under treatment for stress-driven medical

conditions including depression, high blood pressure, diabetes and

asthma.
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SELF-REPORT QUESTIONNAIRE

Self-rated responses indicated significant reductions in stress-related

physical conditions including body pain, headaches and migraines,

digestive issues and sleep problems.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

After 2 weeks participants reported that they were generally feeling

much better physically with significantly increased energy levels.

After two months significant improvements in overall health were

reported.

Participants who were (or had been) under treatment for depression,
hypertension, diabetes and asthma reported that HWH therapy had

helped them to control these conditions.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

HWH therapy practice resulted in a speedy and significant increase in

energy levels and reduction in minor but debilitating stress-related

health issues.

Numerous caregivers experienced significant reductions, and in some

cases control over, conditions under treatment including depression, high

blood pressure, diabetes and asthma.

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Dramatic reductions in physical stress indicators were experienced.

Those with depression, hypertension and diabetes consistently reported

that these conditions had been largely or completely controlled as a

result of HWH therapy practice.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER


The results confirm the impact of Aerobic Laughter therapy on physical

health as discussed earlier in this book.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

Happiness Intelligence and Aerobic Laughter combined to dramatically

reduce stress and the unhappifiers that drive so much illness.

Happiness Intelligence also created an awareness that physical health

and exercise play an important role in happiness and motivated

participants to be more active.

Life Change

All participants reported that the Healing with Happiness program

changed their life in a meaningful and positive way.

The changes most reported were:

Understanding of how dangerous stress and depression are and how

importance happiness is to health and the health of family

members and patients

Stress can be a choice and is not driven by people or events

The power to change moods and happiness levels this is

wonderful

Boosting happiness yields energy

Added self-confidence changes life completely


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Relationships with family and patients are so much better

Positive outlook and looking forward to day

The changes reflect their new happiness consciousness and intelligence,

and also show how they are using Aerobic Laughter techniques to control

their unhappifiers.

IN THEIR OWN WORDS

It has changed my life. Now Im a superwoman. No more that

sickly woman who got tired very easily, walking slowly like a

donkey. Now I jump Im a grasshopper now, jumping and full of

energy and happy! Professional Nurse

Its wonderful. Im turning 65 next month, and this is the first

time I am able to accept my life as it is. That Im also pretty,

clever, good. Im really very happy. Healing with Happiness has

helped me to accept everything about my terrible past. Im so


grateful and have forgiven all the people who have hurt me over

all those years. Professional Nurse

The program changed me a lot. Healing with Happiness has

helped me. I thought it was magic come inside me. Every time I

get upset, I laugh and my stress disappears. Assistant Teacher

Im not so serious any more. I laugh a lot more. I have fewer

headaches. I have more energy. My relationship with my children

moved to a complete new level. Its such fun to be a child and be

silly sometimes, it really makes a difference. Nursing Director

This therapy has changed my life. Its given me a better outlook

on life in general. Nursing Sister

Before I was moody and very emotional. Now I can see the change

in me even if Im angry I just laugh and feel released. Assistant

Teacher

Healing with Happiness changed my life. I look and feel younger

now. Im active and happy. I dont have a dull moment. Its a good

idea. Professional Nurse

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Yes. HWH Heals Caregivers

The program effectively countered all indicators of Caregiver Syndrome.

Stress and depression

Coping

Resilience

Burnout

Emotional Intelligence

Work relationships

Home and family relationships

Mindfulness

Adaptability

Positivity

Well-being

Life change

Physical health
Healing with Happiness can eliminate Caregiver

Syndrome.

Can HWH Improve Care?

The next big question to address was does the Healing with Happiness

program improve the care offered?

To answer this question we measured quality and quantity of care

indicators:

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Absenteeism and Presenteeism

Productivity

Quality of Care

Absenteeism and Presenteeism

The problems discussed in the previously are major drivers of

absenteeism and presenteeism.

Presenteeism is the lack of productivity that occurs when people are at

work, but not fully engaged and productive because of health and life

distractions. By some estimates, presenteeism is estimated to be up to

7.5 times more costly to employers than absenteeism in loss of

productivity.

Harvard Business Review reports that presenteeism can cut individual


productivity by one-third or more.

BASELINE

Caregivers reported high levels of burnout and other major drivers of

absenteeism and presenteeism including:

Trauma and grief from the death of patients in care

Distracting interpersonal workplace conflict

Stress-related illness including depression, hypertension and

diabetes

Before the program participants reported:

Feeling worried 14 workdays days a month

Feeling sick 7 workdays a month

Feeling stressed 6 workdays a month

Feeling depressed 5 workdays per month

Levels of absenteeism over the previous seven months averaged at 14.1

days of sick leave per month among 37 staff members.

RESULTS: SELF-REPORT QUESTIONNAIRE

Participants were asked to rate the number of days that they felt

worried, sick, stressed and depressed.

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The results show dramatic reductions in all indicators sick, stressed and

depressed reveal dramatic reductions after just two weeks.

RESULTS: REDUCTIONS IN ABSENTEEISM

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Levels of absenteeism dropped from 14.1 days per month to 6.8 days per

month among 37 staff members when measured across a six month

period after HWH program introduction.


This represents a reduction of 52.3 percent in sick leave.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

Participants confirmed that they were feeling much less worried,

stressed and depressed.

After two weeks a dramatic reduction in home and family related stress

was reported, with a further large reduction at two months. This

resulted in a drop in worry that would impact positively on absenteeism

and productivity.

Many participants reported that their depression, hypertension and

diabetes had been partially or completely controlled by HWH therapy

practice, and a significant improvement in one participants asthma was

reported.

RESULTS: MANAGEMENT INTERVIEWS

Management confirmed that significant reductions in stress, worry, and

depression were evident in their own life and in their staff. This

contributed to better work engagement and focus.

They further confirmed that no other training or programs had been

introduced during that period that would impact on levels of sick leave,

and that staff changes would also not account for the change.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF LAUGHTER

Massive decreases in indicators of absenteeism and presenteeism after


two weeks can be directly attributed to the impact of Aerobic Laughter

therapy.

Decreases in depression, hypertension and diabetes are attributed to

Aerobic Laughter therapy.

ANALYSIS: THE ROLE OF HAPPINESS

INTELLIGENCE

The impact of Happiness Intelligence is seen in the continued reduction

in indicators of absenteeism and presenteeism over the six month

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period, particularly in feelings of depression.

Productivity

The twentieth century approach to greater productivity was increase

worker stress to make them work harder.


New science shows that continued high stress reduces our ability to

make intelligent decisions and reduced productivity.

Reducing stress and increasing happiness boosts productivity.

A recent study by leading UK economist Andrew Oswald shows happy

workers performing 25% more work than their stressed counterparts.

BASELINE

According to management the productivity at baseline was normal and

seldom fluctuated.

RESULTS: PRODUCTIVITY

The number of patient visits per month by nurses was monitored.

During the three months prior to the HWH program, the four nursing

staff visited 903 patients at home, an average of 75 patients each per

month.

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After HWH therapy started the same nursing staff visited 1,411 patients

over three months, an average of 118 patients each per month.

Healing with Happiness increased home-based care visits by 56%.

No other changes or training was implemented during that period.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

One of the home care nurses reported that in the past after seeing her

morning patients she was physically and mentally exhausted. Completing

patient files after morning visits gave her a headache or migraine she
normally went home not wanting to return to work ever again.

Since the Healing with Happiness program started, her burnout

disappeared. She felt energized and was able to see her morning

patients, complete their files, then go back and see more patients

feeling unstressed and happy.

Another of the home care nursing sisters reported that chronic high

blood pressure, asthma and diabetes left her tired and unable to see too

many patients.

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She later reported that her hypertension and diabetes were fully

controlled, her asthma was significantly improved, and that she was

bursting with new energy and seeing far more patients.

A manager noted that she was getting much more work done in far less

time. To keep up with her workload she had previously often arrived at

work an hour early, skipped lunch and worked late, and was in the habit
of taking work home at night.

After HWH therapy she found she was able to get more work done in a

shorter time and no longer came in early and left late. She now took

daily lunch breaks and seldom took work home major lifestyle

improvement.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

Participants are getting more done with less stress and greater

happiness.

Participants are now delivering a significantly greater quantity of care.

Oswalds findings that stress decreases productivity and happiness

increases productivity are well demonstrated by these results.

Quality of Care

The provision of high quality palliative care requires caring and

compassion and the ability to make good social, emotional and

intellectual decisions all qualities that are known to be negatively

affected by high levels of stress, depression and burnout.

Caregiver burnout may result in a change in attitude from positive and

caring to negative and unconcerned.

Research shows that highly stressed and depressed caregivers may

provide reduced levels of care, and in some cases act hostile to patients.

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BASELINE

Participants reported that they often attended to patients while highly

stressed, in a state of depression, lethargy and even burnout.

They felt that they were not able to provide a high level of care in this

state and in many cases their unhappiness contributed to patient

depression and hopelessness.

It was apparent that depressed and burnt out caregivers were being sent

to provide care for stressed and depressed patients.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

A significant improvement in caregivers attitude towards patients and

their relationships with patients was reported after two weeks.

Improvement continued at two and four months and was maintained at

six months.

Participants reported that:

They were now in a much more positive and happy state of mind

when attending to patients, and that this impacted positively on

patients mood and to their response to advice and treatment

They were now more caring and attentive to their patients and

gave them greater support

Many patients remarked on how much happier they seemed


patients felt happier after being attended to and looked forward to

caregiver visits

This new ability to uplift patient mood and happiness is ascribed to

emotional contagion.

Caregivers reported that HWH therapy provided them with an important

and powerful new tool for connecting with patients and gaining their

trust and cooperation.

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

There is no doubt that stress, depression and burnout had negatively

influenced the quality of care and that practicing and providing HWH

therapy enabled these caregivers to provide a significantly higher quality

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Yes. HWH Improves Care

The program effectively countered all indicators of Caregiver Syndrome.

Absenteeism and Presenteeism

Productivity

Quality of Care

Healing with Happiness can significantly improve the

quality and quantity of care offered without other

organizational or infrastructure changes.

Can HWH Heal Patients?

The next big question to address was does the Healing with Happiness

program reduce Patient Syndrome?

To answer this question we interviewed these experienced caregivers

about their patients over the six month period.

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Healing Patients

The overwhelming majority of adults receiving care from participants

are people living with HIV and AIDS, although palliative care is also

provided to cancer patients and others in need.

The impact of happiness and positive outlook (as opposed to

unhappiness, stress and depression) on persons suffering from HIV and

other life threatening conditions has been the subject of much research.

Stress and depression impact negatively on immune function thereby

allowing the development of opportunistic diseases in HIV patients.

High levels of stress and depression act to accelerate the development

of HIV and increase mortality.

Stress, depression and unhappiness negatively influence patients

Attitude towards and acceptance of their illness

Behavior towards those around them

Feelings of self esteem and self worth

Self care and adherence to medication

Trust in and cooperation with palliative care workers

Energy levels

General attitude towards life

ROLLOUT TO PATIENTS

Participants were empowered to implement Healing with Happiness


therapy with patients.

HWH therapy was provided in a number of ways including:

One on one and group HWH practice with patients and

family/home groups during home and clinic visits

HWH practice with in-patients where appropriate

HWH practice in support group meetings

ACCEPTANCE

Being told that one has a life threatening illness like HIV causes untold

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anxiety.

For most people it takes a lot of courage to go for an HIV test.

Once told they are living with HIV they move through a process which

includes denial, bargaining, and then (hopefully) acceptance.


Accepting that one has a life threatening illness can be liberating in that

one then is able to confront the fears that go with that condition. Ones

mind is then open to acquiring new information, accepting and thereby

managing that condition, and future planning.

RESULTS: SELF-REPORT QUESTIONNAIRE

Participants were asked to rate levels of patient stress, mood swings and

depression.

A dramatic decrease in patient depression and mood swings is seen after

two weeks.

A smaller but significant reduction in stress was seen after two weeks.

Reduced levels are maintained throughout the six month period.

It was not possible to determine to what degree these changes were

affected by the reductions in caregiver depression and unhappifiers. The

fact that the caregivers in most cases had been caring for the same

patients for extended periods, and other factors reported in interviews

indicates that these ratings had some validity.

RESULTS: INTERVIEWS

Caregivers reported that HWH therapy had a powerful positive impact on

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patients, rapidly improving their attitude towards their illness, and


reducing their stress, mood swings and depression.

The implementation of HWH therapy with patients by caregivers was a

gradual process. Some patients were introduced to Aerobic Laughter

therapy quickly and embraced it quickly, even initiating practice at

home with their families.

A few patients initially resisted Aerobic Laughter therapy practice but

with perseverance most came to enjoy and look forward to laughing with

caregivers.

Caregivers reported important HWH impact on patients including:

Reductions in patient stress, mood swings and depression and

resulting increases in patient happiness

Increased happiness and appetite for life

Increased energy

Improved relationships with caregivers including significant

increases in trust and cooperation some patients started getting

out of bed and dressing to welcome them on visit days

Major reduction in complaints and care-related demands

Better relations with their family, friends and community

Significant improvement in adherence to medication

Enhanced self care with some patients gaining weight

Attendance at support groups increased by 3 to 5 times when


arriving to open venues they now found enthusiastic patients

waiting to enjoy HWH therapy

RESULTS: DISCUSSION

HWH therapy has reduced or eliminated Patient Syndrome.

As a result of the Healing with Happiness program many patients:

Demonstrate an improved mental state which has been shown to

slow the progression of HIV and some cancer and reduce mortality

Enjoy enhanced quality of life and outlook

Significantly improve their adherence to medication

Patients are responding better to the care provided.

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RESEARCH REQUIRED

We believe that patient benefits from HWH therapy have the potential

to become a very important extension of positive psychology and

happiness treatment and to extend happiness therapy into patient

treatment.

InHappiness encourages and is ready to cooperate in research to expand

these exciting preliminary results and develop accurate measures.

Yes. HWH Helps Heal Patients

The program effectively countered all indicators of Patient Syndrome.

Healing patients

Healing with Happiness can significantly improve

patient outlook, quality of life, cooperation with and

adherence to treatment.

Healing with Happiness may provide an exciting new

tool for slowing illness and reducing mortality.

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Can HWH Heal Orphans and

Vulnerable Children?

The final big question we addressed was does the Healing with

Happiness program reduce or overcome OVC Syndrome and help to heal

these very important children?

To answer this question we interviewed these experienced caregivers

about the children they cared for and conducted interviews with center

management.

Healing Orphans and

Vulnerable Children

High degrees of stress, trauma and depression at an early age can

impact heavily on childrens future, with lifelong negative impact on

their ability to enjoy a normal and successful childhood and adult life.

NATURAL LAUGHTER

Happy healthy children are blessed with the gift of natural laughter
the ability to laugh 300-500 times a day.

Natural laughter is closely allied to, and interwoven with play. Both are

crucial for healthy child development.

Childhood is a difficult period during which we are subjected to the

stress of physically growing, learn and absorb vast amounts of

knowledge, and learn social and so many other skills.

Without the many stress-reducing, pain-reducing, immune-boosting and

other benefits of natural laughter, we probably wouldnt survive

childhood in good physical and mental health.

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Natural laughter also allows the cathartic release of powerful negative

emotions so they their negative effect is not stored. This is important as

stored negative emotions can cause stress, extreme unhappiness, and

lead to depression.

Natural laughter is important as a form of non-verbal social

communication, and together with group play, is critical to the

development of social skills and social and emotional intelligence.

Most of us enjoy natural laughter until we reach adolescence when we

are disconnected from our natural laughter and playfulness through

social programming.
Disconnecting with natural laughter and playfulness radically slows, and

in some cases may terminate, our social learning and the development

of social and emotional intelligence.

THE IMPACT OF TRAUMA ON NATURAL LAUGHTER

Major trauma and grief of the kind that orphans from AIDS experience

can severely reduce, or in some cases terminate, a childs natural

laughter and playfulness.

This can have a terrible impact on child development:

Removing natural laughter s stress-reducing benefits while they are

exposed to extreme stress caused by illness, death, stigma and

relocation can cause extreme stress to reset their body and brain

chemistry and permanently reduce their ability to cope with stress

Removing natural laughter s ability to discharge negative emotions

through cathartic release can cause them to be stored and continue to

generate negative affect and stress for years or even a lifetime

Stopping or severely reducing social development before adolescence

can leave children socially impaired and with low social and emotional

intelligence this can make it difficult for them to maintain gainful

employment or achieve success later in life, and also impair their

ability to enter into and maintain friendly and loving relationships

Many studies confirm that children exposed to severe unresolved stress


and trauma at an early age become social misfits, do not achieve

success, are prone to substance abuse and crime, are less healthy and

live shorter lives.

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RESTORING NATURAL LAUGHTER AFTER TRAUMA

The results from this and other Healing with Happiness programs clearly

demonstrate that the program is able to restore these childrens natural

laughter and playfulness, help them to release the negative emotions of

grief and trauma, and restore them to a natural childhood.

While Healing with Happiness cannot restore their parents and family

home, it can provide them with coping skills to come through their

changed circumstances as happy, healthy, well-formed individuals.

OVC ROLLOUT

Daily practice of Healing with Happiness therapy was implemented at

the OVC Daycare Center with the 52 children of 0-6 years immediately

after training.

Because the school year starts in January, baseline evaluation was

carried out in November and January. Practice with children started in

January and further evaluation was conducted after two and four

months.
Evaluation was carried out through interviews with child caregivers,

management and support staff.

Participants and children practice HWH therapy together as part of their

daily morning assembly. Further child-initiated spontaneous practice

occurs throughout the day.

The following information is based on caregiver and center management

interviews.

BASELINE

Many children were suffering from chronic stress as a result of trauma

resulting from the death of parents, siblings and family members

High degrees of stress also resulted from living in homes with sick or

dying relatives or parents, and from having to cope with relocation to a

new home, and in some case from being separated from siblings and

other family members.

Many of the children experienced ongoing stress from their home

situation. Some were living with sick or dying relatives or parents, while

others had been moved to foster homes in the care of:

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Grandparents or older people with different values and habits

Family members
Foster parents receiving a government payment for providing shelter

In many cases these foster homes housed many children.

Problems reported included:

Lack of love and attention

Inadequate living conditions

Inadequate provision of food

Home conflict including fighting and arguments

Inadequate care including cleanliness problems and lack of food

While there were no known cases of abuse or stigmatization, caregivers

did not have sufficient contact with foster parents to rule these out.

These problems often resulted in quiet, withdrawn behavior. In some

cases they found expression in antisocial behavior including bullying and

violence towards toys, caregivers and other children.

Some children were obviously unhappy, stressed and withdrawn when

they were collected by caregivers in the morning. Some children who

displayed a good mood during the daycare displayed unhappy, stressed

and withdrawn behavior when it was time to return home.

In summary, many of these children were bruised, damaged and

traumatized.

It is noted that a number of teacher/caregivers expressed concern that

the introduction of laughter exercises would be disruptive and have a


negative effect on discipline.

RESULTS: ACCEPTANCE

Most children quickly took to the Aerobic Laughter exercises and

engaged fully and enthusiastically. It was immediately apparent that

they loved every minute of it.

They quickly learnt the exercises and competed for the opportunity to

lead exercises the duty of leading Aerobic Laughter exercises was soon

handed over completely to the children.

Some of the more subdued children had initially not participated, but

after a week or two most were engaging fully.

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In addition to the structured morning therapy session, Aerobic Laughter

exercises continued throughout the day:

Exercises were often spontaneously initiated by the children

Children often asked the teacher if they could do laughter now

sometimes quite insistently

It is clear that these kids needed to re-start their natural laughter and

that they loved to laugh.

RESULTS: MENTAL HEALTH

Caregivers and management reported


Significant and continued reductions in the childrens levels of stress,

depression and anxiety

Significant and continued reductions in crying, mood swings and fear

Reduced approval seeking which indicates increased self-confidence

Reduction in trauma and grief

Increased self confidence, independence, grooming and self regard

were widely noted

HWH therapy impacted significantly on all children, but the most

dramatic positive effects were reported amongst the most stressed and

traumatized children.

RESULTS: COPING

It was clear that the children were coping much better in all areas.

There was less crying, tantrums and conflict.

The behavior of children who were previously stressed and withdrawn on

collection in the morning, and on their return home in the afternoon,

changed over the space of one or two weeks.

In the mornings they were happier, running up to the vehicle already

smiling, happy or even laughing, and in the afternoon laughing and

playing until and after being dropped off.

The home situation that had previously stressed them did not change,

but their change in behavior demonstrates a newfound ability to cope


with these stresses.

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RESULTS: SOCIALIZATION

Initial concerns that the laughter would make children harder to control

were wrong.

Relations between the children and care workers improved

significantly with improved cooperation and communication, and a

corresponding reduction in disciplinary problems

Relations between children improved, with increased play and the

development of new friendships

In many cases relationships with foster parents improved

Children who were previously withdrawn or engaged in antisocial

behavior showed a marked improvement one previously withdrawn

child who had bullied his classmates for two years started to laugh,

play and socialize and stopped his aggressive behavior

RESULTS: LIFE CHANGING

Caregivers describe the Healing with Happiness program as

transformational and said that the children were now behaving like

normal children full of fun but even better behaved.

The center manager reported that the introduction of HWH therapy


practice had a powerful and dramatic positive impact on the children in

many ways, saying thank you so much you have given them their

childhood back.

DISCUSSION

Reports from child caregivers and the OVC center manager leave little

doubt that the Healing with Happiness program can help to heal

traumatized children and assist in restoring the happy childhood and

future that they deserve.

Levels of trauma, grief, stress and depression have been significantly

reduced and levels of happiness and positive emotions have been

significantly increased in this group of orphans and vulnerable children

as a result of HWH therapy practice.

Research indicates that this could significantly improve the future that

they now look forward to.

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Yes. HWH Helps Heal Children

The program effectively countered all indicators of OVC Syndrome.

Healing children

Healing with Happiness can help to heal traumatized

children and help restore the happy healthy childhood

and future that they deserve.

In Their Own Words

Its hard for a depressed caregiver to help a depressed patient. I find

that patients are much happier when I leave them now. I think my being

happy helps to lift their mood. Nursing Director

Sometimes when Im talking to a patient I notice that theyre not

really listening. I start laughing and that gets their attention after that

they lighten up and pay attention. Professional Nurse

In the past, after seeing so many patients I was tired. I didnt want to

return to work the next day. Doing patient files gave me a headache.

Now I see patients, do the paperwork, and go straight back to see more

patients. No stress, no complaints. Professional Nurse

I had high blood pressure, asthma and diabetes. Since laughter therapy

my hypertension is gone. Im eating well. My asthma is much better. I

was feeling like an old person because of these illnesses. Now Im feeling

very young and full of energy. I am a grasshopper! Professional Nurse


Laughter therapy has had a good impact on my health. I measure my

blood pressure at home in the mornings. My hypertension just dropped

I dont know where it went. It was very high, and used to be 150-170,

but now it is normal at 120-116. These days 130-138 is high for me.

Professional Nurse

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My hypertension is gone blood pressure is normal. I am diabetic but

my sugar is down from 15-17 to 6.4 8.3. I used to suffer chronic back

pain but it has virtually disappeared. Laughter therapy has changed by

life. Nursing Sister

I used to get lots of headaches and migraines. I still get some but

seldom need pain tablets now. Nursing Director

In the past I was very stressed and angry and always sick. Since

laughter therapy Im not stressed and almost never sick. I no longer need

to take tablets for blood pressure. My manager told me last week how

happy I look. Assistant Teacher

I have more energy. Before laughter therapy I often felt heavy like I

just wanted to sleep, but thats gone - its over. Im healthier than

before, I feel light. Training Manager

Even with tablets my blood pressure was too high. Since laughter
therapy my blood pressure is perfect, I dont suffer hypertension

anymore. OVC Center Manager

I dont get migraines as often anymore. Body pains and aches are less.

Fundraising Manager

I am diabetic - was on 1000 mg of medication twice a day. After

laughter therapy my blood sugar started dropping at 10:00 a.m. in the

morning and I couldnt understand it, so I went to the doctor. He

stopped my medication my diabetes is gone. My blood sugar is 5-6 all

the time now. Professional Nurse

Laughter therapy has had a big impact on my life. After we started my

blood sugar dropped. Driver

Im turning 65 next month, and this is the first time I am able to accept

my life as it is. That Im also pretty, clever, good. Laughter therapy has

helped me to accept everything about my terrible past. Im so grateful

and have forgiven all the people who have hurt me over all these years.

Professional Nurse

Laughter therapy has helped me. I thought it was magic come inside

me. Every time I get upset, I laugh and my stress disappears. Assistant

Teacher

Im not so serious any more. I laugh a lot more. I have fewer

headaches. I have more energy. My relationship with my children moved


to a complete new level. It really makes a difference. Nursing Director

Laughter therapy has changed my life. Its given me a better outlook on

life in general. Nursing Sister

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Before, I was moody and very emotional. Now I can see the change in

me even if Im angry I do the laughter chorus and feel released.

Assistant Teacher

I look and feel younger now. Im active and happy. I dont have a dull

moment. Its a good idea. Professional Nurse

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The Next Steps

The case study was a success.

The Healing with Happiness psychosocial support programs met the

objectives we set and is ready to be rolled out on a large scale.

The success of this program provides validation for Aerobic Laughter

therapy and the JOYGYM Happiness System.

Now comes the job of getting Healing with Happiness out there.

It has to happen.

PROPAGATION

To roll the Healing with Happiness program out on a large scale we need

the support and cooperation of the largest caregiving management and

funding organizations.

InHappiness is working with USAID to provide Healing with Happiness

education to leading NGOs providing services to OVC.

We are actively presenting the program at international conferences and

USAID partner meetings and will present four papers at the 2011 AIDS

conference in South Africa.

We are in talks with organizations that manage and fund tens of

thousands of caregivers.

While organizations are very keen to implement Healing with Happiness


there is one common stumbling block.

The problem is funding.

FIGHTING FOR DOLLARS TO HEAL

As previously stated, very little funding is currently allocated for

psychosocial support funding for caregivers, patients and OVCs.

Psychosocial support funding dwindled as there was no feasible way to

deliver the service on the required scale.

Now that there is a way, there is ever increasing competition for

funding. Many people think if we got this far in tackling HIV and AIDS

without psychosocial support, why start now?

We say that: psychosocial support is a basic human right for caregivers,

patients and OVCs.

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Perhaps the increasing evidence that happiness is good, and the

increasing evidence from positive psychology that happiness is a good

investment will help us in the looming battle for funding.

It will be a tough battle but we will continue to educate, run pilot

programs, and lobby until the breakthroughs are made.

We must get psychosocial support to the many caregivers, patients and

children in need.
It has to happen.

RAISING THE DOLLARS TO HEAL

We are working with leading NGOs to tailor attractive sponsorship

opportunities to allow individuals, schools, companies and other groups

to fund Healing with Happiness programs.

We are in early stages of creating non-profit fundraising organizations in

the United States and Europe that will work to raise money to help these

kids, adults and caregivers to build a happier healthier future.

If you are ready to help us in any way please visit our website

WWW.JOYGYM.ORG.

We have to raise the money to help children, patients and caregivers.

EARNING THE DOLLARS TO HEAL

In addition to fundraising, InHappiness has decided to adopt a novel and

somewhat different approach to funding this program.

We intend to earn the money to provide psychosocial support and

Happiness Coaching to hundreds of thousands, perhaps millions of

orphans and vulnerable children and to people living with HIV.

The process of gearing up to provide JOYGYM programs to individuals,

companies and organizations for payment has started.

As a non-profit, we are determined to maximize earnings and minimize

costs to provide service to as many individuals as possible.


Every $30 we earn will fund a year s Healing with Happiness program for

one more beautiful wonderful child or other person in need.

Last year we earned enough to sponsor a Healing with Happiness for

Cotlands an organization that provides loving care to more than 8,000

beneficiaries.

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Our goal is to sponsor Healing with Happiness for a million people during

2012.

With your help we can do it.

You Can Help

If you bought a copy of this book youve already helped. Thank you.

The price includes a year s sponsorship for one OVC.

There are lots more ways you can help us spread happiness.

Lets look at a few before we finish.

SPREADING HAPPINESS
Building your happiness is a great way to increase world happiness.

Build your Happiness Intelligence and your happiness will follow.

Wed love to help you.

Sign up at the Happiness University for online Happiness Coaching

the program is designed to help you build your Happiness Intelligence

Come laugh with us learn Aerobic Laughter at a JOYGYM Experience

event you may decide to train further for self practice, group

practice, to become a Happiness Volunteer, or even a laughter or

happiness professional

Become a Happiness Volunteer youll get to give the gift of laughter

and happiness to your community and make a real difference your

training cost will sponsor Healing with Happiness

Get your class to adopt a caregiver or OVC group and sponsor their

Healing with Happiness program what a great way to make the

world a better place

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Help us spread the word about happiness and Happiness Intelligence

tell your friends, invite us to speak to your group, write about us on

your blog or facebook, twitter about JOYGYM

Visit the Happiness Shop WWW.HAPPINESSSHOP.ORG to buy our books,

DVDs and CDs as gifts or just sponsor Healing with Happiness for one

or more OVCs

Give your company the Happyness Advantage thats the name of our

corporate happiness and contracting business all net proceeds go to

sponsoring Healing with Happiness

Get your company to start a Happiness Volunteer Club or to sponsor

the Healing with Happiness program, spread happiness, and give back

to the community

The ways you can help are limited only by your imagination.

If you have a great idea let us know. Well be happy to hear from you!

LICENSING HAPPINESS

Were making the JOYGYM Happiness System available worldwide under

license.

Licensing seems the best way to help as many people as possible to build

Happiness Intelligence.

We provide know-how and training, centralized monitoring and


evaluation services, and the right to use our brands.

Licensees provide JOYGYM programs to our high professional standards

and pay fees based on their income that sponsor the Healing with

Happiness program.

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Thank you

Before we say good bye wed like to thank you for reading this book.

If you want to keep up with our progress or interact in any way please

visit WWW.JOYGYM.ORG wed love to have you as a friend.

You can learn more about our projects and register for regular updates.

We really hope that:

Youve had as much fun reading as weve had writing this for you

Weve motivated you to start building your Happiness Intelligence

Youll help us spread happiness to all corners of this wonderful world

In happiness,
Bill Gee, Malik Jaffer, and Memory Matanda

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Write reviews of this book

Discuss the book with the authors

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Get news updates,

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Its free, and wed really like to get your feedback.

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ABOUT THE AUTHORS

Bill Gee Laughterologist, Happiness Coach, and speaker has a

passion for, and broad knowledge of, positive psychology.

Previously a director of Laughter Yoga International, Bill founded

InHappiness to develop professional, consistent, science-backed laughter

therapy and happiness programs.

Born in Argentina, Bill has worked, lived, and energized audiences in far

flung corners of the world.

Bill is chairman of InHappiness and is happiest when enjoying a fine

meal, laughing, training and writing.

Malik Jaffer

Malik Jaffer was born a sixth generation Kenyan in Nairobi to parents of

East Indian decent and migrated to San Diego, California in 1969.

Malik holds a Masters Degree in Public Health from the Boston University

School of Public Health. He is also a Reiki master and painter.

He has worked for Red Cross, Project Hope and the Aga Khan Foundation

in Tanzania, Nigeria, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Kenya, Cambodia, Albania

and other countries.


He currently advises governments in HIV and AIDS programs and policy.

Memory Matanda

An educational psychologist by profession and development worker by

inclination, Memory holds an MSc in Educational Psychology.

She taught Psychology, Counseling and Special Education at Zimbabwe

Open University (2000-2008) and worked in HIV and AIDS program

development and implementation and research and development.

Memory has a passion for working with marginalized communities

especially orphans and vulnerable children and their caregivers.

She migrated with her family to South Africa from Zimbabwe in 2009 and

heads JOYGYM HappyMetrics as a director of InHappiness.

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EXPRESSION OF GRATITUDE

InHappiness would like to thank leading positive psychologists including

Martin Seligman, Christopher Peterson, Barbara Fredrickson, Sonja

Lyubomirsky, Jonathan Haidt, Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Ed Diener, Robert

Biswas-Diener, Tal Ben-Shahar, Shawn Achor, Karen Reivich, Marcus

Buckingham and Julie Norem.

Their insights and discoveries have helped us to improve the

effectiveness and efficacy of the JOYGYM Happiness System.


Thanks also to laughter researchers that helped inspire and guide the

development Aerobic Laughter therapy: Normal Cousins, William Fry, Lee

Berk, Stanley Tan, Michael Miller, Kazuo Murakami, Christian Barnard,

Keiko Hayashi, Takashi Hayashi, Sue McGreevey, Robert Provine, Jaak

Panksepp, Anthony Joshua, Mary Bennet, Shevach Friedler, Gita Suraj-

Narayan, Hajime Kimata, Nancy Yovetich, Willibald Ruch, Paul McGhee,

Ilona Papousek, Irina Falkenberg, Paul Devereux, Patty Wooten, Heidi

Beckman and Madan Kataria.

In South Africa we have been fortunate to receive help from many

special people. We would like to single out Penny Makhelemele, Letty

Ndebele, Nicola Taylor, Jopie van Rooyen, Nicky Jackman, Rachel

Compaan, Dr. Liz Gwyther, Elizabeth Scrimgeour, Nkosazana Ngidi,

Mamaki Mlangeni, Marisa Wolheim, Joan Moira de Jong, Estelle du Toit,

Anita Savvas, Gita Suraj-Narayan, Hector Rakhetsi, Neil Orr, Mona

Maharaj, Basil Kransdorff, Tim Boyd, Sue Grealy, Sue Jameson, Daniel

Bakken, Johan Emerson Grobler, Charmaine Sparrow, Shareen Richter,

Fritz Holscher, Jason Wasenaar, Dr. Natalya Dinat, Masi Makhelemele,

Mona Maharaj, Nigel Unwin, Nina du Toit and Sarah Davids, Jacky

Schoeman, Bonnie Haack, JP Gernaat, Janine Grobler, Lebo, Jude, Fifi

for sincere thanks.

Finally thanks to our volunteer editors especially Johan Grobler, Pierre


Ah-Fat, Pieter Uys, Tara Denby, Andrea Daniels, and Ambereen Jaffer.

To those that have helped us but are not mentioned, we apologize for

the omission and give our thanks.

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A Note of thanks from Bill Gee

I would like to personally thank Dr. Madan Kataria of Laughter Yoga

International who shared his knowledge and provided the opportunity to

engage with thousands of laughter yoga leaders and teachers in many

countries, and also his wife Madhuri.

My thanks to Laughter Yoga staff and professionals too numerous to

mention including Yeshwan Taki, Kamlesh Masalawala, Jeffrey Briar, Allan

OMeara, Billy Strean, Laura Gentry, Sue Ansari, Tosha Tobias, Moon

Byeong-Kyo, Ursula Kirchner, Michaela Schaeffner, Malcolm Robertson,

Ana Banana, Jackie Curran, Avi Liran, Bronwyn Roberts, Linda Leclerc,

Mary Tadokoro, Lotte Mikkelsen, Elina Papa, Anu Saari, Neville Wadia,

Dilzan Wadia, Ira Flynn, Laura Toffolo, Caty Escadell, Denise Rackett,

Cristina Martinez, David Cronin, Lisa Booth, Sinikka Poikonen, Helen

Thyrvin, Doug Dvorak, and Majid Pezeshki,

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