ANAMNESIS

Self Reflection Guide

I. Family Ancestry
A. Ancestral beginnings and lineage (how your great grandparents or
grandparents met)
Cultural group and heritage
Ethnic origin

In my fathers side my lolo had 3 women. My lolo and lola were both raised in Misamiss
Occidental, Aloran. So my father have 3 siblings by different mother. My father really doesnt
know the love story between his mother and his father, he didnt even have the chance to meet
his mom in person. Well, in my mothers side, my lolo and lola got the chance to meet in a
wedding party when my lola was a bridesmaid and my lolo was the ringbearer. My lola was
close to my lolos sister so they got the chance to meet each other, got married, live their own
lives and raised 4 children, one boy and three girls. My lolo was raised in Bohol and my lola
was raised in Valencia, Bukidnon and they both lived in lived in Valencia, Bukidnon. And our
ethnic origin is Cebuano since we are Bisaya.

B. Family tree of both maternal and paternal side (reflect in the genealogy
the age of death, cause of death, highest educational status attained)

II. Family Composition

A. What can you say about your father, mother and siblings?

All I can say is were equal in terms of being who is responsible in the house. My father and mother, they
have a good teamwork in dealing with some situations that were difficult to deal. They work so hard just
to get a reward for what they deserve. While my siblings, they tend to fight as always and Im always the
referee trying to stop them. My little bro is lazy, to be completely honest. He doesnt want to get called
whenever theres chores to do and everytime he gets called he mumbles/complains; he doesnt study
eventhough weve scolded him to study and just to remind him everytime that my parents work so hard
just to get him in a prestigious school and also to get him in the best sections in that school. On the
positive side, his always there to make me happy whenever Im sad. For my little sister, shes cute &
loveable.Every morning, she would never forget to greet me a GOOD MORNING ATE KAY!. Everytime
she would greet me I will smile. Im just so happy to have a unique family members eventhough we fight,
we forgive each other because thats how families do.

A. Biographic data (demographic data) of each family member:

Name Personal / Socio-

Educational Emotional Religious
Professional Economic
Profile Profile Profile
Profile Profile
Keenan Erigbuagas Engineer College Emotionally Stable Roman Catholic
Graduate

Rosemarie Pharmacist College Emotionally Stable Roman Catholic

Erigbuagas Graduate

High School 1st Yr. High Emotionally Stable

Kinkin Erigbuagas Student School Student Roman Catholic

Grade 2
Kian Erigbuagas Student student Emotionally stable Roman Catholic
III. Family Relationships
A. Roles of every family member

My father he is an engineer working at ILPI, my mother is a Pharmacist

working at Loys Pharmacy, my lil bro, a high school student, is studying at
La Salle Academy and my little sister she is an elementary student, studying
at Living Spring Academy. My father he repairs stuff, helps solve our
mathematical problems, he helps my mom do the chores and he is the
decision maker. My mother, all she does is everything and she is always the
one who lends us baon everyday. My little bro he is the chef among all of us.
And my little sister, she is like the cutest supporter in the family.
B. Family and Home Responsibilties
Family Ties

Our family has a strong bond.

Lines of Communication among Members

We sometimes shout and when we communicate we sing and talk in

english and sometimes we try to speak other different languages.
Means of Discipline

My parents when they discipline us it is more on recalling. When

they scold us they dont spank us unlike before. But when we commit
that wrong doing everytime the long punishment has begun. And the
Silent War begins among us and our parents.

C. Means of Relaxation and Recreation

Weve got the chance to eat at other places and sleep. And we go to church
D. What do you like and hate most with your dad, mom, and siblings?

KANANG DLI MANANGHID DAAN KONG MAGHULAM UG GAMIT.

E. How does your family cope with problems, conflicts and

disappointments?

In terms of problems, conflicts and disappointments we tend to talk about

that problem and tell everything the truth. In dealing with problems my
parents keep motivating us to be better especially in disappointments. In
terms in conflict, my parents keep scolding us not to fight and keep telling
that hinayi ang tingog kong mangasaba dli magshagit-shagit. And resolve
between us siblings.

F. How do you celebrate good times and success?

We go to eat at other places that we never used to eat before and go to church
to give thanks to the Lord.
IV. Personal History
A. Life Review in Relation to:
Eriksons Psychosocial Stage of Development

Stage My Experiences
Crying, sleeping, breastfeeding
Infant Trust vs. Mistrust and saying my first word
mama
Early Childhood Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt
Me and my parents were
Preschool Age Initiative vs. Guilt going at Camiguin and let me
play barbie, luto2x,and bike.
I was enrolled in a math
School Age Industry vs. Inferiority
tutorial every time after class.
When I get into trouble, my
friends are there to support
me and when it comes to
Adolescence Identity vs. Role Confusion group activities they are
always there to support and
guide me with decision
making.
Early Adulthood Initimacy vs. Isolation
Adulthood Generativity vs. Stagnation
Old age Integrity vs. Despair

Freuds Psychosexual Theory

Phase Age My Experience

Oral 0 to 1
Anal 1 to 3
Phallic 3 to 6
My parents enrolled me in a
summer dance workshop to
Latency 6 to 12
improve more of my dancing
skills.
I used to attract handsome boys
Genital 12+ who are very white not
considering the attitude.

Piagets Cognitive Theory
Age Stage My Experience
Birth 2 Sensorimotor
2-6 years Preoperational
I used to play and learn the
7-11 years Concrete Operational techiniques in playing the sudoku
and rubiks cube.
12-adulthood Formal Operational

B. Biographic/Demographic Data
C. Name and meaning of Birth Name

My name is Kayzer Louise L. Erigbuagas. Actually the name Kayzer has no

meaning because of the spelling. Kaiser (the correct spelling) means
Emperor because it came from a German emperor and it is a German
baby boy name.
D. Birth date and time
 APRIL 13,1997; 2:00 AM
E. Method of delivery
NSVD
F. Birthplace
HOME- Pinatilan, Valencia City, Bukindnon
G. Legitimacy as a child
BIOLOGICAL
H. Parents reaction
HAPPY
I. Was the pregnancy planned and wanted?
WANTED
J. Who is your primary caregiver (PCG)
K. Immunization Status
BCG(5-21-97); DPT,POLIO,MEASLES
L. Say something about yourself during the different life stagesDistinct
characteristics, activities, personality as a growing and a developing child;
include any exposures to uncommon or significant circumstances (good
or bad)
Infancy
Toddlerhood
Preschool
Grade School
High School
College

My experiences during infancy is the moment that I cant really recall. All I can recall was
sleeping, crying,breastfeeding and keep saying mama and I was lying on a crib and lastly I
was baptized. During my toddlerhood all I did was living with my lola all I did was singing the
song Rosalinda, inviting the neighbors of my lola into her store and used to speak random
language and I was used to be maldita getting all that I want. Preschool, all I can remember
was I didnt go to nursery until Kindergarten 1. I immediately skipped at Kindergarten 2
because I learned how to write ABC and learn the basic tones, etc., and I was used to be very
maldita. A lot of bad happenings happened during my Preschool era and mostly my yaya was
always involved in my troubles. I was used to be terror to my yaya, my father really spanked
me everytime and I used to forced my father to buy things that the girl neighborhood has nice
dress. In my grade school, this is when the time Ive seen my crush, confessed to him and him
confessing that he likes me too and I was a consecutive an honor student (straight). High
School, the most memorable time in my adolescent era there were many things happend. I
was being bullied by my classmates verbally, Ive found my crush, stayed my feelings for him
for 4 years until I confessed to him in fourth year, the pressure has really started, Ive
accomplished many goals during this era. And this was the era that Ive experienced my first
failing grade in my Algebra subject it was really a downfall. And thankfully I was improving in
that subject and then I finally finished high school. And now in college, its like more than x2 is
the pressure

V. Dreams, Ambitions and Goals

A. Personal Plans and Goals

I have many plans to mention and my main goals are to pass the NURSING
BOARD EXAM,build a house for my parents when I earn a lot of money and marry
my mi Amor and have a family of mine.

B. Social Ideals
 C. Career Plans and Goals

To be a successful nurse abroad and to travel around the world.

D. Marriage Ideals and plans

What is ideal marriage?
In an ideal marriage all that you need is willingness to give, take and
share. And ideal marriage is a holy matrimony where 2 people (man
& woman) has a purpose to be together
What is your ideal age for marriage?
Range: 26-28 y.o
Who/What is your ideal life partner?

Someone who has a keen mind on his future, who works hard, has a
great principle in life and someone who can change my bad habits,
who doesnt smoke and love me for who I am and suprises me
everytime and also who is respectful and sensitive to other and also
honest and who lives with integrity.Lastly, with a sense of humor.
And also who is family oriented
What is your ideal family and home?
I wanna have a strong and a loyal husband and I wanna have twins.
And my ideal home is located by the sea with glass windows,
modernized designs and a great scenery of the sea and also with
clean and green lawn.
E. Self-Actualization Standards

VI. Hero Worship/Fantasies/Obsessions/Preoccupations/Nightmares

I dont have any hero that I really admire but all I can say is GOD is my hero
because He is there to guide me and save me from any harm. I dont believe any
fantasies. Im not a type of the girl who gets obssess of 1 thing, its hard to stick into
one. Lastly, I dont experienced any nightmares.
VII. Life Philosophy

What is your long-standing guiding principle in life?

Always challenge yourself to reach greater heights. There is always room to be better,
regardless of who you are or what you have done. Be attached to the notion of growth, not an
end state.

VIII. Religion and Religious views

I am a Roman Catholic and I accept Jesus Christ as my personal Saviour.

IX. Traits
A. What are your positive and negative traits
B. What do you want to do about them?
C. If there is something in your life that you could change, what is it and
why?

My positive traits are adventurous,calm,caring,cheerful and friendly. My

negative traits are sometimes absentminded,aggressive,weak,stupid and
sometimes selfish. As to my good traits, I wont change them and as for my
bad traits I would try to improve them as much as I could to let go off the
negative vibes in myself. If there is something in my life that I could change
 is my LACK OF CONFIDENCE AND NOT TO BE MAPADALA ABOUT THE
THINGS THAT CAN MAKE ME STRESS. Because all throughout my life this is
the main problem I have everyday. And I just want to shake that off and to
let it go in my mind and BE MYSELF.

X. Summary and Conclusion.

My name is Kayzer Louise L. Erigbuagas, 20 years of age, living at Iligan City. My parents
are Keenan M. Erigbuagas and Rosemarie L. Erigbuagas. My siblings namely I have a
close bond with my family, eventhough we fight everytime and resolve it right away. I have
different experiences during my stages of development, starting from a baby until
adulthood. I have many dreams,ambitions and goals in life included there are ideal
marriage and also my self-actualization standards. Also, I have my positive and negative
traits and my philosophy of life in which it talks about dealing with challenges.

In conclusion, this is more like my autobiography in which it talks about myself, my family,
the history between my parents and my grandparents on how they met,my dreams and
ambitions in life, my philosophy and the strengths and weaknesses that I need to change
and let go.

(insert)Letter for Himself/Herself:

Kay,

JUST TRUST YOURSELF. HAVE THAT CONFIDENCE IN YOU. GOD MADE YOU A
STRONG WOMAN TO BE STRONG AND LOVE WHAT YOU ARE DOING!! YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!

(insert) Letter for Parents:

Ma, Pa! Salamat kaau sa mga paningkamot ninyu inyung gihatag sa amoa. Unta hinaot
mubawi mi ninyu. Wala man ko for 1 month kabalo man jud ko na mamingaw na ang balay.
Ug magpasalamat na si kin2 kay makatulog na jud cya sa kwarto. Ug ayaw bya mog kalimot
sa atung sabot hah na padad.an ko ninyu ug kwarta kada bulan didtos Cebu. Magtinawagay
ra ta ayha ra kong motext ko kay busy bya ang nurse ninyu. Musta nman mo? Unta okay mo
dra? Akung gusto iingon sa inyuha kay THANK YOU KAAU SA INYU sa mga efforts inyung
gihatag sa akoa. Bahalag usahay tapulan ko, maldita ko but still love ko ninyu. Naningkamot
ko na magtinarong pero feeling nko kulang ghapon kaayu akung gipakita sa inyuha. Ma, pa
kabalo ko naningkamot mo sa akoa katung bata pako katung sakit nko lisod jud kaau imove
on ang fact na naayo ko sa akung sakit na mopadlungay na unta. Sometimes I asked God
every time that when you scold me like what is wrong with you, why wouldnt you believe all
the things that Ive said. But in the end of the day you love me just as how much I love you.
Giving birth at a young age its not easy. Ma usahay bitaw magsturya si lola ines about sa
inyung kaagi ni papa makahilak ko grabe kaau inyung sakripisio. Usahay makahuna2 ko na
unta maagian nko inyung sakripisyo ug makahuna.huna ko na unsa kaha akung mabuhat
aside na muskwela ko muapply ko ug part-time job para naa koy matabang aside sa
pagskwela ug pagbantay sa akung manghod. Pero sa akung huna2 murag lisod na buhaton.
Since first time pa nko mulayo sa inyuha dli jud lalim mubalik ug ingon na lami naau iuli ug
Iligan. Ma, pa sorry kaau kong kada mutawag ko muhilak ko kay dli man sa tungod na
galisod ko GIMINGAW lang jud ko ninyu kay dli bya ko anad na mulayo sa inyuha. Pa sa
tanan na akung problema kay ikaw lang pirme akung gihunahuna kay murag ikaw ra jud
akung close2. Ma dli jud lalim na wala ka sa akung tapad kay kong naa koy problema kay
makapangita ko ni nimu dayun ma sorry jud kaau na dli ko anad makaingn ug I LOVE YOU sa
imo basin natinghala ka na inig tawag nko sa inyu kay makaingn ka na milagro ni I LOVE
YOU akung anak sa ako. Ma,pa dli nko mukyampansa sa inyu kay dako na bya ko. Sorry jud
kaau kay murag bad akung performance dre sa Cebu pero dba ana mo learning experience
rani kay para dapat maanad ko sa mga kalisod kay normal rana sa usa ka estudyante na
magin.ani noh? Ma,pa gikapoy nko dre doh grabeeeeeh.. Murag taga adlaw kay kaulion nko
sa Iligan bahala nindot pa ang Cebu.. ..Pa daghan kaau kog problema dre sa akung SELF wala
man koi problema sa akung mga Clinical Instructor kay maau man jud cla ako ra man jud
ang naay problema sa akung kaugalingon. I feel like I dont know myself anymore. Help me to
redeem myself. I cant do this anymore. Ma,pa lisod kaau kong dre nako isulti tanan. Basta all
stories will be revealed when I come back. Love you!!

P.S Behave inyung anak dre dapita