3 Tips For Verbal Game

In verbal game, most newbies fall flat because they fail

to use a few basic rules.
1. They try to hard to sound smart
2. They use observations instead of insights
3. They are all pull and no push

Youre too smart.

About 90% of my clients are engineers. Their brains are attuned to logic. They rarely
read fiction, or watch movies, or tv series. Everything must be a-z, logic, logic, logic.
Then of course, they stuff their heads with game theory and try to logic their way into a
womans pants.

Women arent seduced by logic as much as by emotion. Give them a fun time, make
them laugh, teach them things, and theyll fall into your arms.

I have a game for these guys called Dumb and Dumber (DnD).

If you havent seen the movie starring Jim Carrey, watch it. One of the easiest ways to
be funnier is to pretend to be dumb, to misinterpret the obvious. Check out this scene
below. If youve never watched the movie, watch it. Watch as much comedy as you can.

Shes studying business? Does she know Donald Trump?

Shes travelling to Japan? Is she in the Yakuza?

Shes in fashion? Does she design for Walmart?

Observations are boring. Insights are intriguing.

For the women reading, how many times have you heard a bland observational opener
like, I like your shoes, or, You look interesting, or, Youre a student? Ohhh, thats
sooo cool. Awesome!

Why?

Why dammit? why do you like her shoes? Why does she look interesting? Why is it
cool shes studying sociology?

Writers have a term called Rich Descriptions. We dont say It was raining out. We
describe the situation with our senses. We add vividness. She stepped barefoot from
her front door, feeling the mud between her toes, the warm pat, pat of rain drops on her
face.

Whats better? You look interesting? or, You walk like you have a purpose. Were
you ever in the military?

Whats better? I like your shoes, or, I noticed youre wearing red shoes. You also
have red nail polish. Do you plan out everything in your life, or just your daily
colours? (Insight)

Whats better? Youre studying Sociology? Oh cool! or, What drives you to
understand human nature? Are you planning to attend Hogwarts? (DnD).

The key to opening is to make a good first impression. Game is an art. Theres no one
way, but you want to be original, engaging, and entertaining.

All push, no pull

Most untrained guys conversations go like this:

Whats up?

Not much. (None of your business)

Where are you from?

New York.

Oh awesome. I want to go there. (Why?)

Its a cool city.

I hear it is. (What did you hear?)

What do you do?

I work at Zara.

Oh, nice. Do you like it? (Snore.)

Its okay I guess for now.

What are you doing today?

ActuallyI have to go.

Whats your number?

I have a boyfriend.
Oh, okay.

Compare that to this

Hi.

Hello.

The way you walk in that blue dress, you seem like a yoga guru, or a CEO of a mega-
corporation.

Haha, why?

Your chin is up, your posture is excellent.

Thank you. I do yoga actually.

Have you meditated with the monks in Tibet? (DnD)

Haha, no, not yet. But I plan to go to India one day.

Okay lets go (Roleplay)

Haha, sure, lets go.

But dont screw it up. I dont want to fight over whether we have curry beef or quinoa
salad for lunch. And I get the left side of the bedalways! (Push)

No way. I always get the left side.

We will see.

Of course the above example is fiction, but thats usually what a good flirt sounds like.
Its a dance. Its a challenge. As a man, you approached her, but youre not easy. You
want to figure her out. Is she fun? Is she uptight or chill? Does she have anything in
common with you? Dont just be a dick on a platter; an eager, boring man.
Verbal game can be tough for newbies. How can you be poised and calm enough to
make a girl laugh if your heart is beating out of your chest, and your mind is chattering

like a monkey on meth?

Practice, practice, practice.

Good luck.

So how do you improve your verbal game?

Thats easy. You practice.

Most of my clients come from computer based work. They are programmers,
technicians and so forth. They spend most of their days in-front of a screen, and not
interacting with other humans, especially not women. Building your verbal game skills
is the same as building musclesafter all, your brain is a muscle (Im not an expert in
biology, but work with me.)

For my verbally stunted students, I give the same advice.

1. Stay in the interaction for two minutes. Do not eject from your set because you cant
think of what to say next. Thats like me putting down the pen and playing Battlefield
because I cant think of what to write next. Instead of running away, stay with the
interaction, no matter how uncomfortable, and keep talking. I dont care if you talk
about the weather, or your favourite colour. All that matters is you work that muscle for
a minimum of two minutes. Even if she back turns you, tap her on the shoulder and
keep blabbing. Stick to this rule, it is very critical for your development.

2. Improv lessons. Ive taken them and found it very, very helpful. Ive sent students to
improv and watched their ability to improvise skyrocket. Just Google Improv lessons,
plus your city, pay the fee and join the class.

Now lets focus on content.

1. Avoid logic. Nothing is as boring to a woman as logic. In a conversation I always try
to stick to topics that elicit emotion. So whats your view on penis size? Or, Would
you rather be a Unicorn or a Killer Whale? Or, Where do you want to travel?
Anything that forces her to engage her imagination will put you on the path to her bed.

2. Give value first. Approaching a woman and asking, Whats your name? Or,
Where are you from? Or, Do you come here often, is lame, lame, lame. Youre
asking her for something before youve given. It is clich and boring. With your opener,
make sure you give her some value. Make her giggle, or engage her emotions first.
After youve entertained her slightly, then you can ask logistical questions. Hopefully
she will ask you first.

3. You dont have to be funny, but it helps, a lot. The key to humour is to amuse
yourself. You dont lay up a joke in the hope that it will make her laugh. If your joke
makes you laugh, and youre having fun, then other like-minded people will also find it
funny. If she doesnt get your humour, you dont have chemistry.

4. Unless you plan to go direct, save compliments for after she is invested. Even then,
use them sparingly. This is a controversial subject. The issue of, Push Pull, is hotly
contested. Do you need to tease a woman, to say things like, Well, youre not really
my type, but Ill give you a shot? It depends on her personality type. Ive found, the
hottest girls react well to playing, Hard to get. Hot women are so used to men
drooling and complying with all their demands, they almost find it sickening. But if she
earns your respect by investing, you can give her a compliment. I usually save
compliments on her looks for when shes riding on top of me. But thats just me.

5. Dont laugh before she does. This is a sign of insecurity. Of course there are
exceptions, like if what you said is so hilarious you cant help it. But most of the time it
works like a laugh track on a bad tv show. Its transparent and lame.

6. Read books. We spend far too much time with tv and Internet and video games.
Books expand your vocabulary, your worldly knowledge and engage your cerebral
cortex. I believe you should stay on top of pop-culture, but reading ten books will do
more for your verbal game than one hundred hours of digital media.

7. Practice. It might take a few years, but you wont grow if you dont practice. By
practice, I mean as often as possible. Five days a week for a year. If youre not willing
to work hard and pay the price, you will never develop the skill.

I hope this helps.

 Gary

> 2. Give value first. Approaching a woman and asking, Whats your name?
Or, Where are you from? Or, Do you come here often, is lame, lame, lame.
Youre asking her for something before youve given. It is clich and boring.
With your opener, make sure you give her some value. Make her giggle, or
engage her emotions first. After youve entertained her slightly, then you can
ask logistical questions. Hopefully she will ask you first.

Any examples? This is perhaps the part Im struggling with the most. Im
usually logical, introverted, and analytical that coming up with something
emotionally engaging at will is very hard and takes a long time.

o YourFriend

I open with something sort of joking like Hey your gorgeous, Im

(name) then you start talking to her and get her name later. If you want
to mess with her emotions I suggest first look at your environment-by
that I mean look at where you both are and where you plan on meeting
her- then bring up something such as if your in a park during spring time
say something sweet and poetic, the weather truly compliments the
flowers making the colors more vibrant, then pick one up and smell it.
This is just my idea of how to do it.

Captain Chardonnay

Examples:
She (or anyone) opens an umbrella inside. -> Thats bad luck.

Your bixiing and she passes you. After you catch up -> Your so fast!

She asks you how your doing. -> Irresistible

Girl standing next to you that you want to open. -> You totally just farted

You ask for directions to the bookstore (cant remember where I got this one
from). -> My copy of the holy bible is torn from so many readings. Do you
know where the bookstore is?

The big trick to it all is, It doesnt matter if she cums, stays, lays or prays.
Whatever happens, your toes are still tappin! -Damone

Also, dont think of some crazy long story to tell her about how amazing she
looks and how you just strolled on over, it sounds goofy. No body gives a fuck.
Brevity is the soul of wit and those statements are usually what pops in your
mind when you first see a situation. Another way to put is not to look at her but
instead at what shes (or someone else) is doing.

Finally, if you really suck you can always try taking inhibitory neurotransmitter
called Phenibut, just dont mix it with alcohol.
 Tim Garrison

You didnt hv a student in 4 yrs that didnt kn what to say. ( all ur students knew
kn what to say ) I dont understand why dont kn what to say is most common
question if all ur students knew what to say. Is this a typo error , Tony?
Your last sentance in 1st paragraph doesnt make sence to me if dont kn what
to say is most common question. For the record dont kn what to say is
myself , also. Thanks , Tony.

Jeremy

I discovered a really good technique I want to share with the Guys reading this
blog. At the annual xmas party with my colleagues we have this game where
everybody buys a present and then we roll dice for them etc. Its typical sort of
thing where we would buy funny presents etc.

I started out gaming the girl working in the store, telling her what i was after etc,
flirted heavily with her, and asked if she had something really stupid i could
bring to this event. I told her i dont even like my colleagues that much in a jokey
way so if she could find me some real crap i would appreciate it. She laughed
and i laughed with her and touch her arm as soon as i said that. I didnt ask for
her number in the end as i figured she wasnt hot enough. I ended up buying a
poster of Justin bieber and some lube.

Now, what i did afterwards, I i walked around in the mall and even on the street
stopping girls with the phrase Can I ask you a question? then i explain them
about the situation and ask if they find it funny. I follow up with as you can see
Im dont really like my colleagues that much, then you can say you seemed
like a smart girl and figured your opinion was worth something If I find them to
be very pretty i will just say so, and if they feel awkward i just say sorry i didnt
mean to make you feel awkward but its true. Its great stuff, and Works really
well. you take pressure of them by asking their opinion about something you
bought, Then once thats established you escalate further. Got some pretty decent
numbers and will be fun to see what they lead to. This can also be adapted to all
kinds of other Things youve bought youd like their opinion of, just use your
creatitivity. If anyone actually use this technique pls let us all know how it

works for you, Peace

Sam

Damn, this was dope! Its refreshing to hear some truth from a PUA blog. Too
much garbage out there nowadays Awesome post.